You talked about burdens...credit card debt has been the biggest burden in my life. I made stupid mistakes in my 20's and have spent the whole of my 30's paying for them. The debt has dictated what jobs I take, where I live, how I spend my free time. Beware, young people of getting into debt. It's a killer and drains you. On the upside I will be free in 2 years but what a waste of a whole decade of my life!
this has really gotten to me,this afternoon when I was gonna eat chips,I though about what you said about healthy eating so I put the chips away and had a glass of orange juice...
Everyone wants to get out of tthe "ghetto" the best way out of the ghetto is to change yourself and clean the neighborhood up. Instead people want to "get out" and turn other neighborhoods into ghettos.
This is such a sweet video for you to make. I know there are plenty of people in my area that could use this kind of advice. We're the crime capital of the country, and your 10 steps to get out are so true.
I love also that you mention eating LIVE foods. My own life was completely tranformed (not to mention skin, hair, everything was soo much better) after reading David Wolfe, Gabriel Cousens, Sarma. And some Ed McGaa for nondiet good measure :)
Amen sister friend. i admire you so much! i am going to share this with my 14 year old. this was absolutely beautiful and real talk. truly a blessing you are. planting positive seeds in the minds of our future is one of the greatest gifts! thank you.
Such sincere information, gosh, if only youtube existed back in the day! Well, alot of things happen in life, and this is truly some great advice! It's hard for teens, they have to stay focused, as focused as possible.God help them!
Tonya, make a motivational video for those around your age range!
You really are inspirational! God Bless your heart! =D
Tonya, You are really an inspiration. I hope these young people hear what you're saying. I am one of those that got out of the ghetto. I love hearing people instill positivity into our young people. You go girl, god bless.
I wish I would have watched this video 5 years ago -____- (not that it would have mattered much, since my high school counselor was more than unhelpful.)
Oh the only thing i have to add is noone is ever alone it's as alone as you become! Personally I know I got GOD on my side baby! and if he's on my side who can be against me? But there are alot of ppl who want to help just let us know HOW? but I like a whole lot of your points Tonya!
Tonya GREAT VIDEO!!! Can I add your "likeness" to a comic book I'm doing? I was gonna call my version of you Tanya. Let me know otherwise I'll just make her a different looking lady. Let me know! Mucho Lovin'!!
i like to keep my computer screen on because sometimes i get the devil on ma back, sleep paralysis, so im always scared,its fucken super scary n i dont know any of those medication things for it i dont use em, and lol i got a big cholo accent haha its kinda embarressing but w/e...
tonya thank u for this video. some stuff u know but it like it just good hear someone tell u it. i think issue sometimes ther enobody to tell and push and encourage u.i am goin look up this score site. im trying with my education. in about a year or year half ill have my aa in business/marketing then ill go another college get my bachelor in communications so i can do public relations. i finally figured it.thank u for resource and the encouragement means alot to me. us!
This video was excellent. I did a google search and couldn't find the proper diction book, do you have the authors name? That was very smart of you to sell the donuts to the police dept
Hey Break, one of the books I read was Word Power Made Easy... but they probably have better books now. Go to Barnes & Noble or Waldenbooks etc and head to the dept on English & Grammer, Spelling & Vocabulary etc and look thru which books appeal to your learning style, but the more the merrier.
Great video - GREAT message. I'm 30, college grad, living and loving my life. And I just wanted to tell you to keep up the good work! Everything you sad are things that young people need to hear - not just to get out of the ghetto but to SURVIVE in the real world!
I've watched a few of your videos with inspirational messages for youth and others that need inspiration. I'm glad you're utilizing YT for that purpose.
Every day your cells regenerate, so NO its NOT TOO LATE... each day you have a new chance to start over... so each new day start by adding fresh raw fruits & vegetables and make a habit and a pattern out of it :)
girl this was a great video for youngsters esp growing up in this hard world and Im kinda poor myself and I try to teach my kids that if they do good in school they can go on to college and do more for themselves than I did so they can have more than I have for them (like extra vacations going out to eat more etc.) so this was a great vid to get into the hearts of our young and hurting youth. Great vid and girl i just love your personality you crack meup wth your lip gloss number! Take care.
tonya.. my papa always tells me education is the key or a weapon for anything would happen to me either relationship or not.. then i be taking care of myself.. my papa very admire about what you have said.. and he says my younger daughter you still young in my eyes.. keep being you and thats all i need to say cause God will take care of you and your future reference!! you never know!! thats what my papa says.. lol..
thats great topic.. i got my younger cousin they taking notes while they were listening to you.. its amazing how you affect them.. thank you tonya.. and what type of lip gloss do you use.. i am wondering if you don't mind asking?
I wish I could give you 10 thumbs up. This was great
gayle2020 6 months ago in playlist More videos from TonyaTko
i find this vid inspiring. your good lady thanks for the tips
glinxz 11 months ago
ur beautiful i would leave the hood n come to nyc for u lmao
BLO2BAY 1 year ago
love u too baby..wit yo foine self!
DetroitGungFu 2 years ago
Thank you.
PrettiestPinkGun 2 years ago
I am sharing this with my daughter. What ever happened with your videography career?
TheOtherWinfreyShow 2 years ago
i cant believe you kept it soooo real with the lipgloss!!!! LOVE IT! HA!...Great video!
cindyn2hair 2 years ago
Great video!
FaganMedia 2 years ago
OMG! You are great!
MsEmmka 2 years ago
you inspire me sooo much! thanks for all you do and keep doing it :]
sheldonrize 2 years ago
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom!
52andlearning 2 years ago
YUPchannel 5 stars
YUPchannel 2 years ago
You talked about burdens...credit card debt has been the biggest burden in my life. I made stupid mistakes in my 20's and have spent the whole of my 30's paying for them. The debt has dictated what jobs I take, where I live, how I spend my free time. Beware, young people of getting into debt. It's a killer and drains you. On the upside I will be free in 2 years but what a waste of a whole decade of my life!
glitzdealer1 2 years ago 4
You are SOOOO right. I left off a HUGE one and that's credit. I feel like doing a part 2
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
great video!
yanniyann 2 years ago
give back best buy voting the right puplic servents in to office etc
1DjRadeoConscyous 2 years ago
tonya w/ your regular deit like and how munch do you spend daily,weekly,monthly
and highgene?
1DjRadeoConscyous 2 years ago
this has really gotten to me,this afternoon when I was gonna eat chips,I though about what you said about healthy eating so I put the chips away and had a glass of orange juice...
callynia2112 2 years ago 3
great video!
I;m joining the archery club and taking piano and french lessons now!...gotta up my stats for the life game
africanTHEfire 2 years ago
Everyone wants to get out of tthe "ghetto" the best way out of the ghetto is to change yourself and clean the neighborhood up. Instead people want to "get out" and turn other neighborhoods into ghettos.
blacktigerwu 2 years ago 7
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS!! Fantastic job!!
deuce0517 2 years ago
nothing but love for you tonya, stay positive keep informing people u are a gift thank you so much..............love
steph2lynch 2 years ago
I wrote the list in the side bar hunnie, you can copy it down and watch the video again. Take good notes ;-)
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Your looking great your my new Oprah..
oh2b16again 2 years ago 3
This is such a sweet video for you to make. I know there are plenty of people in my area that could use this kind of advice. We're the crime capital of the country, and your 10 steps to get out are so true.
sgdp 2 years ago
love it TKO so sweet servin' knowledge
nelliliciousluv 2 years ago
Awesome Miss TKO!~
I love also that you mention eating LIVE foods. My own life was completely tranformed (not to mention skin, hair, everything was soo much better) after reading David Wolfe, Gabriel Cousens, Sarma. And some Ed McGaa for nondiet good measure :)
Awesome videos as always, dear!
aurykl 2 years ago
Thank you Tonya for giving back. I think this is your calling, helping young girls and boys. Great advice. God Bless you Tonya!
blessone48021 2 years ago
I love your hair :D your very pretty
i like watching your videos, especially when you say "hello my little love birds" it makes my day :)
ddtails1 2 years ago 3
Amen sister friend. i admire you so much! i am going to share this with my 14 year old. this was absolutely beautiful and real talk. truly a blessing you are. planting positive seeds in the minds of our future is one of the greatest gifts! thank you.
keyahnee 2 years ago
Such sincere information, gosh, if only youtube existed back in the day! Well, alot of things happen in life, and this is truly some great advice! It's hard for teens, they have to stay focused, as focused as possible.God help them!
Tonya, make a motivational video for those around your age range!
You really are inspirational! God Bless your heart! =D
aliangelic 2 years ago
Tonya I'm loving the video what did you use as a camera?
Also...
I'm trying to get out the "ghetto" and poverty there is alot of politics involved that those in the ghetto do not see.
maipai101 2 years ago
I just love your vids...You have a warm spirit!!! Keep 'em coming girl!
thatgirrl5 2 years ago 2
great vid
eluvg1975 2 years ago 3
lol.kewl!!
Liv3L0v3Laugh4Eva 2 years ago
Tonya, You are really an inspiration. I hope these young people hear what you're saying. I am one of those that got out of the ghetto. I love hearing people instill positivity into our young people. You go girl, god bless.
jhoxser 2 years ago 2
You are a blessing Tonya. Thank you!
cherrydiva1 2 years ago
this is such an important topic. i dont hear to many people touch on this.
would you think about making one for adults who feel stuck and desire more (living in ghetto/wants to get out).
RootsRunDeeep 2 years ago
nowadays popular is based on looks and how athletic you are, i much enjoyed the smart kids more, they seem to be going somewhere in life
jagjagin 2 years ago
great video,thank you.
hotties3v3n 2 years ago
vendin machines!!! that an idea i nvr thought of! gosh!! is there anything u havent done??????
maybelline45 2 years ago
I wish I would have watched this video 5 years ago -____- (not that it would have mattered much, since my high school counselor was more than unhelpful.)
Better late than never! <3
donutmaster 2 years ago
You're hair is very pretty!
bookiedogg 2 years ago
Oh the only thing i have to add is noone is ever alone it's as alone as you become! Personally I know I got GOD on my side baby! and if he's on my side who can be against me? But there are alot of ppl who want to help just let us know HOW? but I like a whole lot of your points Tonya!
-ElJuano
shojinstudios 2 years ago 2
Tonya GREAT VIDEO!!! Can I add your "likeness" to a comic book I'm doing? I was gonna call my version of you Tanya. Let me know otherwise I'll just make her a different looking lady. Let me know! Mucho Lovin'!!
-ElJuano
shojinstudios 2 years ago
Why would you adulterate my name? "O" is a MUCH stronger letter than "A" :)
Shoot, call her Tonyolla, Tonyatta, Tonnie, Tondi or Even Tonya! but not T-A-nya lol! :=p
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
LOL!! that debate class sure came in handy huh! T-O-nya it is, you've sold me!!!
shojinstudios 2 years ago
i like to keep my computer screen on because sometimes i get the devil on ma back, sleep paralysis, so im always scared,its fucken super scary n i dont know any of those medication things for it i dont use em, and lol i got a big cholo accent haha its kinda embarressing but w/e...
brownpr1d394560 2 years ago
good video!
u look amazin in the video
lissia1234 2 years ago
Learn things in school and apply what you learn. Stay focus, It's easy to get lower grade than it is to get a good grade.
tdiep 2 years ago
Ummm Az, tht wasnt a mentor... that was a saboteur ...
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
on a superficial note... you look so RADIANT in this video :-D
S1MNICITY 2 years ago
tonya, dont worry about making long videos. the longer, the better
crayola342 2 years ago
Thank you Cray... I just want to make sure that I stay withing a normal time frame, I swear one hour feels like 20 minutes!! LOL
I already make vids longer than a sitcom... I'll be headed into full-length action features soon!! :)
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
tonya thank u for this video. some stuff u know but it like it just good hear someone tell u it. i think issue sometimes ther enobody to tell and push and encourage u.i am goin look up this score site. im trying with my education. in about a year or year half ill have my aa in business/marketing then ill go another college get my bachelor in communications so i can do public relations. i finally figured it.thank u for resource and the encouragement means alot to me. us!
mouthygirl95820 2 years ago
*wink*
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
This video was excellent. I did a google search and couldn't find the proper diction book, do you have the authors name? That was very smart of you to sell the donuts to the police dept
breakofdawn26 2 years ago
Hey Break, one of the books I read was Word Power Made Easy... but they probably have better books now. Go to Barnes & Noble or Waldenbooks etc and head to the dept on English & Grammer, Spelling & Vocabulary etc and look thru which books appeal to your learning style, but the more the merrier.
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Thanks very much for that information take care.
Dawn
breakofdawn26 2 years ago
I love you Tonya, you're wonderful but you made me feel really bad about myself. Oh, well. I wish I would have found you earlier.
kurtcobainluvr39 2 years ago
Why do you feel bad abt yourself Luvr39?
:(
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
You are a blessing...thanks for this video..Love you..xo~
angelluv2cum 2 years ago
Tonya you look so cute today. I love this casual look on you. POP POP girl...lol!!
luvinmynaps 2 years ago
Thanks Naps!
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
tonya, u r amazing, thanks for the vid! i learned a lot! :)
tingamez 2 years ago
Thanks for the feedback Tin, what exactly did you learn, so I know what type of information ppl need more of?
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Your my Inspiration! Exellent messege & thank you for sharing vid.
Shugran.
Sallyakerti 2 years ago
Thanks Sally
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Oh wow. You reeeeeally hit the nail on the head with the point you made about materialism in the ghetto. Brava!!
lunaone 2 years ago
Thanks Luna
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
haha i love how you always put on makeup during the videos haha. love youu
cheezeluver4 2 years ago
im about to start college and if you look at my channel, i do nails. so please believe me, i will be getting my hustle on by doing nails on campus!!
OverXposedKC91 2 years ago
I just added you on facebook lol
Cplowden 2 years ago
I wish I had an older sister like you =), you're sister is so lucky lol.
monica24b 2 years ago
Great video - GREAT message. I'm 30, college grad, living and loving my life. And I just wanted to tell you to keep up the good work! Everything you sad are things that young people need to hear - not just to get out of the ghetto but to SURVIVE in the real world!
I've watched a few of your videos with inspirational messages for youth and others that need inspiration. I'm glad you're utilizing YT for that purpose.
Mentoring the masses - LOVE IT!
bmoniquee 2 years ago
damn girl,u make long ass vidyas!
:o
Liv3L0v3Laugh4Eva 2 years ago 3
i have this posted:)
sexynovember26 2 years ago
u are so right tonya....since i eat kind of unhealthy, it's not too late to change my eating habits right?
janglesD 2 years ago
Every day your cells regenerate, so NO its NOT TOO LATE... each day you have a new chance to start over... so each new day start by adding fresh raw fruits & vegetables and make a habit and a pattern out of it :)
So start today
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
girl this was a great video for youngsters esp growing up in this hard world and Im kinda poor myself and I try to teach my kids that if they do good in school they can go on to college and do more for themselves than I did so they can have more than I have for them (like extra vacations going out to eat more etc.) so this was a great vid to get into the hearts of our young and hurting youth. Great vid and girl i just love your personality you crack meup wth your lip gloss number! Take care.
chrissys31 2 years ago
tonya.. my papa always tells me education is the key or a weapon for anything would happen to me either relationship or not.. then i be taking care of myself.. my papa very admire about what you have said.. and he says my younger daughter you still young in my eyes.. keep being you and thats all i need to say cause God will take care of you and your future reference!! you never know!! thats what my papa says.. lol..
salwalishis911k 2 years ago
TONYA,
I felt your heart in this message.
You are awesome.
Zsalaco 2 years ago
thats great topic.. i got my younger cousin they taking notes while they were listening to you.. its amazing how you affect them.. thank you tonya.. and what type of lip gloss do you use.. i am wondering if you don't mind asking?
salwalishis911k 2 years ago
Give your younger cousins some hugs for me :)
Im wearing M.A.C. lipgloss it has the Highest POP appeal! lol
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
cool
ItsMattsWorld 2 years ago
Boss of gloss lol
HITSOFTHECENTURY 2 years ago
awesome!
Scathe8000 2 years ago