C'mon, ladies! I am a 13 year old girl who thinks we need to come together. Why would you want to push someone down or insult them for something you're going through too? If you're a model, there's nothing wrong with that! It's what you love to do:) If you're a gamer there's nothing wrong with that because it's what you love!(: But we are all women who are more geared up and ready than any other to help and support other girls. Are you with me?(:
@trini4eve9 moms penis? doesns't make sense ho. go cry in your corner or just dont reply. hopefully you fulfill your duty to society by getting pregnant and making toilets sparkle.
Bull$hit! It's all done in the name of profit - dove's beauty campaign.
Otherwise, unibeliver (parent company of Axe AND Dove) would not have so many sexualized females in their axe commercials.
Seriously... Operation Beautiful is NON-Profit. That is the place to be, not some huge company going after your money by trying to raise self esteem AFTER perpetuating it.
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Hi. Great video. This is something everyone should look out for. Teens need to boost self esteem to become more self reliant and self controlled individuals.
I got called 'out of preportion' the other day, by this girl. Apparently i have long legs, im flat chested and very big. Im 13 and 5 foot 9, I have a 32B bust, 34 inch inside leg. The flat chested and leg length isnt bad, i took it as a compliment, but the fact she called be fat+big behind my back upset me, Im only a UK size 10-12,but for my heigh thats average. I hvant been eating the last few days, I got so upset,but realised she was jealous-Im not changing for anyone.
The saddest thing about this is that as long as the evil and corrupt bloodsucking corporations and media do not change and send a positive image out to the kids, nothing will ever change. The companies really only care about the best and quickest way to make money. Anything goes. Even if it's about life or death. How sick is it to know you are making money by polluting and killing kids and adults health. Where is their conscience? This is what happens when materialism is worshipped and not God.
im 14 and im recovering from anorexia im so happy to see commercials like these because i know how easy it is for ppl especially girls to beleive the bad things rather then the good and to always wanna live up to what other ppl want you to be or what you think is whats right and whats acceptable but weight really if you think about it isn the most important thing look at our world see how its goin to hell and its good to be healthy but that doesnt always mean thin idk im still coming to terms
wy r all these girls stressin,I wish i could look like dat,seriusly people r horrible these days,seriusly im gonna start a blog for this or somethin cos these girls rnt too fat or too skinny,its just all those bitches sayin dat nd then get either anorexxic or overwieght,seriusly,THIS NEEDS TO STOP NOW
I Feel like im just not the attractive and pretty type -___- the guys I Really like goes for the sexy and slim ones...... :( They just ignore you.....
@lakarea thank you, your made me smile lol cause its soo truee and i hate it when people say negative things to others because theyre jealous or just wanna be mean and tear somebody down its horriblee and disgusting.
This is one thing I don't understand. Everytime I see something like this its always a good looking girl that doesn't like how she looks because some dumb hooker told her she is ugly at school. News for ya ladies, just worry about what you do and not what anyone thinks. People that do and say things like that have bigger and better problems.To sum it up, do not listen to whores, it won't matter in 10 years, and it doesn't matter to the people that love you and who really matter in your life.
The best thing is to focus what is in your mind and heart for the rest will follow. A good supportive group of friends also helps. Also, don't be afraid to talk to classmates and introduce yourself cause its always important to have a line of communication. If anyone is interested in knowing more about you, they will come to you. Dont worry, sometimes what you might think is an 'ugly' duckling can later become a beautiful swan! :)
A young woman who I USED to call a friend set up business as a beautician 5yrs ago. She specialised in ‘Pamper Parties’ for girls as young as 6, which I found distasteful.
The last straw was when I found out she was promoting sex toys (vibrators etc) at these parties as a profitable sideline- often to girls as young as 14! She said it was usually the mothers that would encourage their daughters to use these items, often buying them as birthday gifts- “It’s like a graduation to adulthood!”
on facebook today,(im a guy by the way) this girl posted 'why is it all the really hot guys have shit personalities, and all the really ugly guys have amazing personalities,' and 500 people liked it, I think this shows people do care about personality, but there is a 'stigma' attached to the looks of the person who you date. So the hot people i.e. the girl who posted this comment, she is so hot) can get frustrated cos they cant go out with who they really want because of what other people think.
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As women talk among themselves about what dumb-asses the men r, the pathetically dubious prize of attracting males with beauty is about the saddest possible goal for a woman to pursue. In the "first" world ur better off competing for approval by starting a business, writing a great novel, or telling a funnier joke than by waving a girlish figure at apes whose approval doesn't really count for much to u anyway. Like spending ur lives proving you can out-wit a moron. Big deal! Figure it out, kids!
@dantean i couldn't agree more. i've met teenage girls to whom being pretty is just the world. in my view trying to be the most beautiful woman in the world is an unachievable goal, because everyone has a different perception of beauty, and there will always be other women out there just as good-looking or better looking than you. in the end these girls who have only had their looks their entire lives and never had personality or an honest relationship, friend or lifepartner, will have nothing.
@shcnoozlebop Thank you. I honestly believe that self-esteem that is earned as a result of things a person does, rather than inherited by virtue of something like physical beauty which we one day just wake up with, is the way to authentic feelings of self-worth that cannot be taken away from a person either by other people's estimations of us or by time (i.e., aging). Won't pretty girl's trophy husbandl begin looking at other, younger girls eventually, anyway, if that's all he married her for...
It is so sad today's young girls even struggle with being 'ugly'. Society (men, other girls and magazines/tv) put so much focus on being 'perfect' that they get lost. Low self esteem, health issues, depression are all results. We need to put focus on our hearts and it's deeds/actions not the superficial looks that fade away. You will never learn to love someone before you accept yourself the way you are. Oh and man might not always accept you but God does!
im 15 and i weight 98 pounds. and 6 monthes ago i was 120. im dealing with anorexcia and bulimia. guys just be happy with who you are. you cant change your mind later how you feel about yourself.
wow those uploader comments are not helpful geeeez... i used to be chunky & i did endless situps.. i was picked on too. your parents need to make sure you're eating healthy. it's their responsibility. now my weight just leveled out & i've been picked on for being skinny. don't care what other people say. they only say things bc they have their own insecurities.. body image or anything else. they're more focused on themselves, & they're jerks. if they call you fat just say "yeah, so?" and repeat.
This really touched my heart. Sorry for saying this now but i think its suiting the topic . Since I was 12 I was in a christian school. i didnt know any of those supercrazy things like "i just care for what you look like". in my old school they werent crazy people like that. now that im in another school, i came to face up with reality and I rly have to try hard to fit in. Im scared about losing myself to this.
Anyone tell me , why is that? Why can't we just respect each other for who we are?
We guys have the same problem. Not all of us are going to come out as "cute" and "beautiful". You're going to have your more rugged-lookings. But we can't change that.
But surprisingly, I've seen the most ugliest of men turn out well. Dunno if this helps, but I think there'll come a time when both men and women will learn to appreciate other bigger things in each other.
Haha rugged. Yeah, for guys and girls the imbalance is proverbial. Ugliest of men turn out well, like Ron Jeremy? Yeah sure, but if that's your call be my guest. I for one still ain't keen to be someone like him.
@SeventhSun Ron Jeremy isn't a bad-looking guy. He's got some charms about him. But there are some guys that people could not stand to look at.
There are more important things about being a real man. Ideas like toughness, strength, courage, discipline, and integrity. I really believe that these are the things women want(if they would admit to it or not).
i feel like i can connect to each of those girls in the video in some way. reading the other responses to this video made me sad b/c of the low levels of self-esteem which i am dealing. if anyone wants to talk or needs help feel free to send me a message *
I'm a guy and yes, the industry has nailed it into guys' heads about what LOOKS pretty. Truth be told, girls really shouldn't try to look good 4 others and try to feel accepted. An outward and good personality is all u need to make friends. Only PEOPLE can rise up against the created norms. Forget popularity. Who the hell cares what others think about you? If everyone cares about what everyone else thinks in terms of image, then how do u know ur all really friends? Image is not everything
My mum always tells me to think "If I die tomorrow, will whatever this person thinks about me make any difference?" and it reminds me that it's my life, not theirs, and if they're so unhappy to pick on other people, then it's very sad, but not my problem. Because I'm fine just the way I am. All girls are pretty.
I'm 15, im about 5'2 and i weigh 160 pounds, i hate my weight...but i just cant seem to lose it....i want to so bad, because i feel like thats whats holding me back, from getting the guys attention. HELP.
@supremeoverlord135 i guess no one is happy with themselves because i am skinny and i hate people telling me im skinny! I find that an insult because people call me a stick and anorexic eventhough im not THAT skinny and it gets really annoying!So take it from someone like me, its not all that great to be skinny and the world just expects us to be perfect but thats never gonna happen.
@supremeoverlord135 I'll tell you a secret that won't be much comfort to you yet, but here goes: from ages of 12-16 NOBODY has self-esteem. Kids who seem to b/c they have the "courage" to tease other kids have the least self-esteem of all! Self-esteem--REAL SELF-ESTEEM--is something you earn by things you do in life and at 12 you're still preparing for your life. You should lose weight for YOU, not for the attention of THEM (whoever THEY are), b/c it's in ur health interest. The rest will come.
@supremeoverlord135 Sometimes it could just be genetics or a poor diet. So make sure you eat healthy (lots of fruits and veggies) I love V-8 splash cause has all the vitamins and minerals needed and it doesnt taste like the original so has a fruity taste and good for you! Everyone is unique and special ...everyone has their own talents and abilities so get into what you are interested in doing and surround yourself with good and supportive friends or seek a counselor at school also helps. <3
@supremeoverlord135 Sometimes it could just be genetics or a poor diet. So make sure you eat healthy (lots of fruits and veggies) I love V-8 splash cause has all the vitamins and minerals needed and it doesnt taste like the original so has a fruity taste and good for you! Everyone is unique and special ...everyone has their own talents and abilities so get into what you are interested in doing and surround yourself with good and supportive friends or a counselor at school also helps. <3 <3
i was super skinny at one time, but people saw me as a toothpick,i gained weight nd now i hate myself,i remember wen i was skinny,i didnt do excercise,i just cut back on all the food i eat,just cut backk on food, im tryin to now nd it works for me,but remember,every girl is perfect nd beutifull in theyr own way,plus the way i lost weight u dont need exercise, just walk to school nd cut back on food,but DONT STARVE URSELF
Here's where to begin with your self confidence. Know this: Every person you ever meet, deep down, is a little bit fucked up. Trust me on this, I've never met anyone who doesn't have issues of one sort. This doesn't change with age either (I'm 23 and people my age still have confidence issues). The skinny girls who get all the guys' attention? They often have the lowest self esteem of all. Don't be surprised if many of them have eating disorders. You're perfectly normal :)
@supremeoverlord135 : I would encourage you to look in your mirror everyday and tell yourself that you love yourself. Eat healthy, eat when you are hungry. Also, avoid poisons in your diet like MSG, Nutra Sweet, Splenda, and fluoride. Avoid dieting, dieting is not healthy and messes up your metabolism and will make you get fat. 147 pounds is not fat, but if you get into bad habits like dieting, you will get fat. Love who you are and your body will respond positively and others will also.
This is what our society needs...get this on the tv more please Dove ..you know as much as it's tied to gays it's really for all of the teens and young adults who get slammed in school growing up. IT GETS BETTER I promise! I was there and it seems like it couldn't ever change but it does. If you can call on your family and friends for help do it, if not just take deep breathes. School is a tiny part of your life, it's not the world and you are NOT ALONE. AGAIN IT GETS BETTER. I promise!
since i really dont care if people know me or not, my name is ashlyn & im 15 & i weigh about 130lbs. all through elementry school & jr.high i was always picked on. i was probably the most ugliest little kid ever. (not saying that im that pretty now.) i was never considered "fat" i was taller then everyone else who went to my school & i just had a lot of muscle considering i did a lot of sports. but to me, i always thought i was fat. i hated everything about me. i had really bad acne,
so i would pile on makeup but it only made it worse. i had glasses & i thought of myself as fat. when i got to eighth grade i was basically obsessed with working out. i would go to the gym & work out everyday. i made sure i was eating right..i got my acne away & i got contacts. in the middle of 8th grade i dropped down to 111lbs. soon as i hit that mark, i realized something, i wasnt happy. i got back up to my normal weight by the end of 8th grade. i started dressing like a girl ha.
i wore skirts & curled my hair. i wasnt as content with myself then. so one night. i sat infront of my mirror & i took out my expo marker & wrote on my mirror all the things i hated about myself,erased it then wrote down all the things i liked about my self. i liked more things about me then what i hated about myself. i got into highschool & i was happy. i wasnt picked on because i put on the attitude that i loved who i was & i did. i soon began gaining self confidence. i still have my flaws.
dont get my wrong. but im a happier, healthier me. & i like it(: regardless of what people say or think(: you just have to love yourself, God made you in his image & thats all that should matter(:
All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
Low self-esteem leads to introversion? I think not! Introversion is a valid personality trait according to the MBTI personality profiling - and it is completely normal. What on earth is Dove feeding people?
This is to all you beautiful young people who thinks they look unexceptionable or ugly.if you see your self ugly, people will see you ugly. stop beating your self up, life goes on no matter what. if someone doesn't like you for you they are not your friend.
a true friend will not pick on you. they will see you for who you are and like you unconditionally. my son is 11 over weight. I tell him the same thing am telling you and he feels much better. he ignores the critics and his living his life.
@XxBeccaBeastxX Please email me & have a look at my campaign, i'm sure your a gorgeous girl, dont get down about weight issues & your 5,7 thats practically models height! lucky xxx
im 12 years old and 120 pounds and i think im very ugly. i also cry myself to sleep and say nothing when people around my school say fat jokes to me in the school hallways. i dont know what to do. i practically hate my appearence body shape. i just dont htink im good enough. i go to tell my friends for help and they say "oh you cry ur self to sleep? wow" and my mom gave up. what do i do i need help now
@rosaryfilms read the blog solonelyru (dot) blogspot (dot) com and you'll see how things can and will change. 12 is too early to worry. Ask your doctor about better eating if you think you're unhealthy and focus on healthy brain food. You have an entire lifetime to turn your unhappiness around. You can do it.
aw girl im sorry. I swear I was around the same weight as you at that age. Just don't think negativily about yourself/your weight, people will pick up on that and will see you as a target. Walk with your head held high, and don't let people talk down to you! Middle school is vicious. Good luck:)
Hi, I hope you're feeling better by now. I believe in you. don't worry about the ones that are picking on you. they have issues themselves that's why they like to picked on people. they don't have a life, because if they did, they would be too busy to picked on anyone. Find a hobby, read books like (as a Man Thinketh) by James Allen to inspire you. find positive friends, go out and play some sports. eat more fruits and vegetables, stay away from junk foods. every day say you Love yourself.
@charlietobbler aww, hun, I was the same way when I was you're age. 120 pounds isn't bad at all! You're going to get slimmer as you age, but right now your bodys going through different things. I'm sure you're beautiful, and guys are jerks. A couple of guys called my friend ugly-and she's absolutly stunning! Keep you head up sweetie. Remember, the most powerful beauty secret is confidence, there's nothing sexier or more beautiful then that. :)
Hi I'm 21 now and when I was jung I was very insecure to because I had very short-geeky hair, glasses, and only 5 feet tall (they called me all sort of names!) When I got older I knew it really doesn't matter what you look like as long as you can see you're own beauty!! It doesn't matter that you're a bit heavier than other people, nobody is the same and know that differences are good. You have your own beautiful features! It sounds like old people talk, but its true + trying doesn't hurt ;)
@charlietobbler alright heres what u do. u've gotta be committed. real committed. first off try to log down what types of foods u eat on a regular basis. more then likely they contain alot of fat. try replacing these foods with less fattening foods. if u stick to that u should drop weight just from that. The next thing to do is cardio. Not push ups or sit ups or pull ups. but cardio. using ur legs, which is the biggest muscles in ur body. from a stationary bike to a tredmill. 20 minutes minimum!
@charlietobbler start cardio off slow cuz ur probably not used to it. go at a slower pace but make sure u can go 20 mins straight without stopping. later on u will be able to go longer. and after that u can increase the difficulty. once u loose alot of weight thats when ur gonna wanna do push ups and crunches to define ur muscles. but loose the fat first. !! u can do it!!!!!! u've just gotta be committed and have a strict eating plan.!
@charlietobbler Please see the counsellor in your school. This has to do with way more than your weight. The whole media is pushing you to be what most girls can't be. Ever notice the other girls in your school who are your weight or do you just notice the super thin ones?
@charlietobbler All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
@charlietobbler I have been there... I also was a chubby girl at your age and was bullied frequently on my elementary and highschool.. But I just started to not let it get to me anymore.Of course it's impossible to shut yourself out completely, but the world will be a better place if you start living it for yourself... Believe me what you are going through now gives you personality and character that the more 'beautiful' people lack in all angles of their life. Be proud of yourself!
@charlietobbler I can relate with that kind of despair. i've learned that that only hurts your inner beauty. I know it sounds cheesy but you can find something great in everybody. I myself had a brother who was heavy-set, eventually he got taller and it all evened out. Regardless of whether this happens you need to tell yourself your beautiful, every day! Pick out one thing you love about yourself. Personality or Physically and remind yourself of it. Message me anytime you need someone.
@charlietobbler awwwwww its ok i dont knowu but ur probley beutiful. im still 11 and 70 pounds but my looks are ugly. i cant even get a boyfried. im also the smallest in my grade. once this girl called me fat cause shes a twig. i just think when people make fun of me i say to myself i know im beutiful and i feel a little better and just moove on.
@charlietobbler They're just jealous just coz u have something they dont..........even if u dont realize it....even if its something u dont even think or consider to be important........u have it and they dont....and they tease u just coz of it....so be strong and believe in ur beauty....ur inner beauty......and if it still hurts then u and only u can change....whether u ignore it, or exercise or even laugh at urself for it....its up to u... Gd luck in ur life...have faith in urself
@charlietobbler You are precious!, what's in the heart is always worth more than what's skin deep... But anyway, here's help - check out the hope line dot com - it's an AMAZING place to connect w/others who care, will help & will listen to you. I am not affiliated w/them, I just LOVE what they do.
The reality that these girls are sharing is so painful and even as an adult woman it feels so hard to change things to stop girls from having to go through the self loathing that fear of beauty puts us through. I am challenging girls and women to build their self confidence by tell themselves they are beautiful and to focus on what is great about them for 10 days.
The reality that these girls are sharing is so painful and even as an adult woman it feels so hard to change things to stop girls from having to go through the self loathing that fear of beauty puts us through. I am challenging girls and women to build their self confidence by tell themselves they are beautiful and to focus on what is great about them for 10 days.
..(my sister and my best friend) have told me they wished they could look like me..that they could have the body I have. The body of someone over 20 lbs underweight, who almost had to be hospitalized, and they're jealous of it. What kind of corrupted sense of beauty do we have nowadays that that could happen? It makes me sad not only to know that I'm underweight and can hardly do anything to change it but also know that people will always judge me for it or even be jealous of something terrible.
As someone who is severely underweight, it really hurts to see so many people who have a wonderful, balanced metabolism that allows them to be at a healthy weight constantly strive to be thinner and thinner. I've had strangers flat out tell me I'm too skinny and need to gain weight (as if I haven't been trying for almost a year). And I can atleast understand that, they probably think I'm anorexic and don't know how thin I am. But what really pains me is when people..
@AquariusGirlYay I read your post, i'd love to hear your story for my campaign or ask you some questions about having an eating disorder.
It relates to my campaign about airbrushing and body image/self esteem.
I'm sure your a gorgeous girl and if you dont want too you dont have to answer me atall, but i'd really appreciate it & maybe we could do some video questions or somthing.
If you have a story of a young girl you know who's self-confidence has been corrupted by the media, please send them to youlookbeautiful@ymail.com. I am starting a new website (youlookbeautiful.tumblr.com) to build girls' self-confidence. If you have any stories, please email them to me to be added to the site!
I am always "amused" when positive body image videos profile girls and women who, while not fitting the standards of models, are nonetheless physically attractive in overall facial features and normal physiques. Why not profile girls and women who are genuinely unattractive? (And I don't buy the notion that all people are equally physically beautiful in principle.)
i am 15 years old and i am 169 cm and i weigh 135 pounds and i cry myself to sleep every night because i feel like an obese fat person because no one has ever said i was beautiful..
@rosaryfilms I love the way you dont say anything to the jokes but the help you need is in you. I know that does sound cliche, but you just need to believe that you are beautiful look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I am beautiful and nobody can change that!!"
@twilighterluvr When I was your age, I was 145 lbs, 165 cm and had terrible acne all over my face. My teenage years were a huge struggle for me and it sounds like they are for you as well. What's most important is how you deal with this moment. Ask yourself if you want to live every single day of your life feeling how you feel now; if you don't then take action. Watch Anthony Robbins for tips, google how to build self confidence, and follow through. EVERYONE is beautiful. Good luck!
@twilighterluvr Please see the counsellor in your school. This has to do with way more than your weight. The whole media is pushing you to be what most girls can't be. Ever notice the other girls in your school who are your weight or do you just notice the super thin ones?
@twilighterluvr All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
@twilighterluvr All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
@twilighterluvr I've struggled with self-esteem concerns as well, I honestly do think every girl has even the super pretty ones. It hurts quite a bit I know, but start looking at the more precious things in life such as your soul. A person with great outer beauty but without anything on the inside won't shine. A soul is the most persistent thing we have.
I have found that self-confidence the most attractive things you can own. Tell yourself you are beautiful, because we all got something. :D
@twilighterluvr Well then I will be the first! It's not about the beauty on the outside, it's about the beauty you have on the inside that counts. It really sounds like you have a good heart and that you really care about things. and just showing love makes you a beautiful person. Those people who are mean to you are ugly people because they do not have love in there hearts and so they will become what they truly are inside. You are a beautiful person! dont change:)
@twilighterluvr You are precious!, what's in the heart is always worth more than what's skin deep... here's some help - check out, the hope line dot com - it's an AMAZING place to connect w/others who care, will help & will listen to you. I am not affiliated w/them, I just LOVE what they do.
loool now how saad i think its more dificult for a guy to get a girl than other way around but one things truth people now days dont give a daam abou how the others realy are but judgyng too mutch by apereance ..........soory for my English btw
I used to be the same and i know how hard it is but i finally said i don't care what anybody thinks then i had a large group of friends and nobody said bad things about me anymore. the thing is that people always want to attack you when your weak and if you care about what they think you are under their control. be free. thats what can make you a celebrity
Now you see why alot of young high school girls date "bad boys" Because they have low self esteem. Low self esteem will make you do things or end up in places that you'd think you wouldn't consciously do!
u know what at least u have stright and white teeth and some people dont so what im saing if i had to be fat but have nice teeth i would do it. I would losse weight or i would try so be happy about ur smiley and enjoy that smiley and i like u teeth and yes im talking about ur smiley/ur looks at 0:54.
@ MrJoeMontano maybe the reason why people are writing novels is because they like to express themself, their opinion and I see nothing wrong with it! I think high self esteem is good, being "vain" isn't self confidence, it's a sense of insecurity! A confident person is aware of their insecurities and are able to accept it. They're usually positive and are happy with life and themself.
I don't understand why females are way insecure of their weight when weight can be lost by proper dieting and exercise, if they need to gain weight then eat a cheeseburger! I have no sympathy for people who are insecure, like to make fun of "innocent" people, I have no remorse for people like that. Please don't let the media get to you, i know it's all superficial standards.
SO sad to see all the pressure young girls and women are under. It should be more programs and ads dedicated to teaching true beauty. Looks fade but inner beauty shines forever.
How we raise our children has a big impact on this. Im just trying very hard not to pass on the negative things society and my family has taught me to internalize. Things like the way women are supposed to look, what they are supposed to do, what determines your worth and how we relate to men. Damaging things like the importance we give to virginity in females and experience in males, fake values and the such.
On the Wii Balance board, it says that I'm SMACK in the middle of being Overweight. Hah! I'm one-hundred-fifty-pounds! I'm not overweight at all for my age and height. And it's funny because most of the girls in my school starve themselves until their down in the low hundreds.
I started loosing weight over the summer, and since then people started talking to me like I had friends.
Typically I say screw you in a silent way because they ignored me before. The best thing to do is be you. : )
in America you seemed to be judged alot more than in English highschool. God i dont think i could have hacked it in America, are you really not accepted if you're fat or ugly? cause here in england it is not that extreme but it's still very cruel. I am an identical twin and guess what? people said i was ugly and she was pretty. i don't understand that, does anyone else? but i'm still scarred from the hurtful things people said at school. we wear a uniform here so you really are judged on looks.
Good point.You said people call you ugly and your identical twin pretty.That goes to show you being called ugly is about people disliking others for reasons not about looks and just putting others down for jealousy or whatever.
people and guys always call me ugly at school and i just ignore it but then when i get home i feel so bad and look in the mirror right away and then just cry...
I wish I could tell you to ignore them (and I'm telling you in the hopes that you will one day...soon), but I understand it's so hard. People are so mean :(
I think everyone has something beautiful about them...I know you probably have a lot of beautiful things about you!
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jasonking02 2 weeks ago
The Girl lock Nice
radeckillzone3 3 weeks ago
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Ahambjia 3 weeks ago
What the fuck is up with on these fucking sexist comments!!! Bunch of Mofo 16 year old virgin boys!
AnimeKittenx 3 weeks ago
so true for some though
TheChrissyluv 2 months ago
Does anyone know what the song in the background is? It's really beautiful.
PadmeHum523 2 months ago
Beauty is about a huge rack, and a firm ass.
And whichever is the easiest to cleep with and guzzle the most come.
That all women are good for any way right ? Thats and cooking.
getting fucked and cooking, womens two primary functions.
I mean what else can they do ?
This bitch needs to just shut up swallow and do it with a smile.
WTFJustnoRELOADED 3 months ago
@WTFJustnoRELOADED What the fuck is wrong with you?
warriororb5 2 weeks ago
@WTFJustnoRELOADED if u rly feel this way about women, thats sad
Phantomlyne 15 hours ago
C'mon, ladies! I am a 13 year old girl who thinks we need to come together. Why would you want to push someone down or insult them for something you're going through too? If you're a model, there's nothing wrong with that! It's what you love to do:) If you're a gamer there's nothing wrong with that because it's what you love!(: But we are all women who are more geared up and ready than any other to help and support other girls. Are you with me?(:
iLaLaLoveYuuLots12 4 months ago
is that beyondbeautystar?
sweetstaremma 4 months ago
the only thing women are good for is doing the dishes and providing fuck holes.
brownspottedbanana 4 months ago
@brownspottedbanana shutup.. the only thing your good for is to shut your mouth
trini4eve9 4 months ago
@trini4eve9 your probably just fat too. or ugly as fuck
brownspottedbanana 4 months ago
@brownspottedbanana no i'm actually not you asshole. go to hell and suck your mom's penis
trini4eve9 4 months ago
@trini4eve9 moms penis? doesns't make sense ho. go cry in your corner or just dont reply. hopefully you fulfill your duty to society by getting pregnant and making toilets sparkle.
brownspottedbanana 4 months ago
@brownspottedbanana shutup you dipshit, stop judging people and get a lfie you useless prick
trini4eve9 4 months ago
Bull$hit! It's all done in the name of profit - dove's beauty campaign.
Otherwise, unibeliver (parent company of Axe AND Dove) would not have so many sexualized females in their axe commercials.
Seriously... Operation Beautiful is NON-Profit. That is the place to be, not some huge company going after your money by trying to raise self esteem AFTER perpetuating it.
YellowLittleDucky 5 months ago
i think the girl in the pink top is really pretty :o!
LadyLogue 6 months ago 2
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Lynieism 6 months ago
What makes a persons looks is that they can be themselves, Just be you and you will feel beautiful
seniorlovein 6 months ago
Hi. Great video. This is something everyone should look out for. Teens need to boost self esteem to become more self reliant and self controlled individuals.
DebraGanoTV 6 months ago
I got called 'out of preportion' the other day, by this girl. Apparently i have long legs, im flat chested and very big. Im 13 and 5 foot 9, I have a 32B bust, 34 inch inside leg. The flat chested and leg length isnt bad, i took it as a compliment, but the fact she called be fat+big behind my back upset me, Im only a UK size 10-12,but for my heigh thats average. I hvant been eating the last few days, I got so upset,but realised she was jealous-Im not changing for anyone.
charlottepink54 6 months ago
The saddest thing about this is that as long as the evil and corrupt bloodsucking corporations and media do not change and send a positive image out to the kids, nothing will ever change. The companies really only care about the best and quickest way to make money. Anything goes. Even if it's about life or death. How sick is it to know you are making money by polluting and killing kids and adults health. Where is their conscience? This is what happens when materialism is worshipped and not God.
royalsteven 6 months ago
im 14 and im recovering from anorexia im so happy to see commercials like these because i know how easy it is for ppl especially girls to beleive the bad things rather then the good and to always wanna live up to what other ppl want you to be or what you think is whats right and whats acceptable but weight really if you think about it isn the most important thing look at our world see how its goin to hell and its good to be healthy but that doesnt always mean thin idk im still coming to terms
hawaiichick1996 7 months ago
wy r all these girls stressin,I wish i could look like dat,seriusly people r horrible these days,seriusly im gonna start a blog for this or somethin cos these girls rnt too fat or too skinny,its just all those bitches sayin dat nd then get either anorexxic or overwieght,seriusly,THIS NEEDS TO STOP NOW
DeadColorlessRose 7 months ago
I Feel like im just not the attractive and pretty type -___- the guys I Really like goes for the sexy and slim ones...... :( They just ignore you.....
MyxxOfficial09 7 months ago
I've been told that I'm ugly all my life because I'm fat. I wonder how different my life would have been if I was skinny. :(
Erisad89 7 months ago
alot of these girls are gorgeous...
jazzy501 8 months ago
what's that song playing in the background?
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towadychea 8 months ago
the truth is way hard to xcept
boogiebuddy01 8 months ago
@lakarea thank you, your made me smile lol cause its soo truee and i hate it when people say negative things to others because theyre jealous or just wanna be mean and tear somebody down its horriblee and disgusting.
Jordan22797 8 months ago
This is one thing I don't understand. Everytime I see something like this its always a good looking girl that doesn't like how she looks because some dumb hooker told her she is ugly at school. News for ya ladies, just worry about what you do and not what anyone thinks. People that do and say things like that have bigger and better problems.To sum it up, do not listen to whores, it won't matter in 10 years, and it doesn't matter to the people that love you and who really matter in your life.
lakearea 9 months ago 10
The best thing is to focus what is in your mind and heart for the rest will follow. A good supportive group of friends also helps. Also, don't be afraid to talk to classmates and introduce yourself cause its always important to have a line of communication. If anyone is interested in knowing more about you, they will come to you. Dont worry, sometimes what you might think is an 'ugly' duckling can later become a beautiful swan! :)
poetlover30 9 months ago
A young woman who I USED to call a friend set up business as a beautician 5yrs ago. She specialised in ‘Pamper Parties’ for girls as young as 6, which I found distasteful.
The last straw was when I found out she was promoting sex toys (vibrators etc) at these parties as a profitable sideline- often to girls as young as 14! She said it was usually the mothers that would encourage their daughters to use these items, often buying them as birthday gifts- “It’s like a graduation to adulthood!”
SuperTruth77 9 months ago
on facebook today,(im a guy by the way) this girl posted 'why is it all the really hot guys have shit personalities, and all the really ugly guys have amazing personalities,' and 500 people liked it, I think this shows people do care about personality, but there is a 'stigma' attached to the looks of the person who you date. So the hot people i.e. the girl who posted this comment, she is so hot) can get frustrated cos they cant go out with who they really want because of what other people think.
ChannelNoob 9 months ago
Did you know Marilyn Monroe was a size 14? Yet she was one of the sexiest women alive. Take that vogue.
ElianaHall 10 months ago
One of my closest guy friends told me "Curves are the only beautiful thing in the world" that changed my life.
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mzsmiles21 10 months ago
Turn off your TV, stop reading 'beauty' and 'gossip' mags and go out side and play.
The Media is killing our children.
smileykai77 11 months ago
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saxengee2 11 months ago
God made you that way!
If somebody wants to talk to you about that stuff.. ignore it.
YOu are beautiful<3 Enjoy your life.
MakeMeUp266 11 months ago
As women talk among themselves about what dumb-asses the men r, the pathetically dubious prize of attracting males with beauty is about the saddest possible goal for a woman to pursue. In the "first" world ur better off competing for approval by starting a business, writing a great novel, or telling a funnier joke than by waving a girlish figure at apes whose approval doesn't really count for much to u anyway. Like spending ur lives proving you can out-wit a moron. Big deal! Figure it out, kids!
dantean 11 months ago
@dantean i couldn't agree more. i've met teenage girls to whom being pretty is just the world. in my view trying to be the most beautiful woman in the world is an unachievable goal, because everyone has a different perception of beauty, and there will always be other women out there just as good-looking or better looking than you. in the end these girls who have only had their looks their entire lives and never had personality or an honest relationship, friend or lifepartner, will have nothing.
shcnoozlebop 10 months ago
@shcnoozlebop Thank you. I honestly believe that self-esteem that is earned as a result of things a person does, rather than inherited by virtue of something like physical beauty which we one day just wake up with, is the way to authentic feelings of self-worth that cannot be taken away from a person either by other people's estimations of us or by time (i.e., aging). Won't pretty girl's trophy husbandl begin looking at other, younger girls eventually, anyway, if that's all he married her for...
dantean 10 months ago
@dantean exactly. it's all not worth it in the end, because a perfect skin tone goes away eventually.
shcnoozlebop 10 months ago
It is so sad today's young girls even struggle with being 'ugly'. Society (men, other girls and magazines/tv) put so much focus on being 'perfect' that they get lost. Low self esteem, health issues, depression are all results. We need to put focus on our hearts and it's deeds/actions not the superficial looks that fade away. You will never learn to love someone before you accept yourself the way you are. Oh and man might not always accept you but God does!
royalsteven 1 year ago
everyone is beautiful in there own way were all diffrent were uniquie and its so wrong that we are all judged by the way we look...
greenskittlesarenom 1 year ago
beauty is subjective. the ideal woman only exists in the mind.
Rockguitarhero462 1 year ago 33
life is a bitch and then you die
abortionDR 1 year ago 3
im 15 and i weight 98 pounds. and 6 monthes ago i was 120. im dealing with anorexcia and bulimia. guys just be happy with who you are. you cant change your mind later how you feel about yourself.
thatqirlellie 1 year ago
wow, these girls are dumb!
Bratologist 1 year ago
wow those uploader comments are not helpful geeeez... i used to be chunky & i did endless situps.. i was picked on too. your parents need to make sure you're eating healthy. it's their responsibility. now my weight just leveled out & i've been picked on for being skinny. don't care what other people say. they only say things bc they have their own insecurities.. body image or anything else. they're more focused on themselves, & they're jerks. if they call you fat just say "yeah, so?" and repeat.
embracedandredeemed 1 year ago
This really touched my heart. Sorry for saying this now but i think its suiting the topic . Since I was 12 I was in a christian school. i didnt know any of those supercrazy things like "i just care for what you look like". in my old school they werent crazy people like that. now that im in another school, i came to face up with reality and I rly have to try hard to fit in. Im scared about losing myself to this.
Anyone tell me , why is that? Why can't we just respect each other for who we are?
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IlySAmuffaBE 1 year ago
Whatever it is I hope you little things are safe and okay.
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IlySAmuffaBE 1 year ago
@IlySAmuffaBE lMAO RITE?!?
Kateasss 1 year ago
We guys have the same problem. Not all of us are going to come out as "cute" and "beautiful". You're going to have your more rugged-lookings. But we can't change that.
But surprisingly, I've seen the most ugliest of men turn out well. Dunno if this helps, but I think there'll come a time when both men and women will learn to appreciate other bigger things in each other.
Agent1W 1 year ago
@Agent1W
Haha rugged. Yeah, for guys and girls the imbalance is proverbial. Ugliest of men turn out well, like Ron Jeremy? Yeah sure, but if that's your call be my guest. I for one still ain't keen to be someone like him.
Bigger things hahaha like, what? Huh?
SeventhSun 1 year ago
@SeventhSun Ron Jeremy isn't a bad-looking guy. He's got some charms about him. But there are some guys that people could not stand to look at.
There are more important things about being a real man. Ideas like toughness, strength, courage, discipline, and integrity. I really believe that these are the things women want(if they would admit to it or not).
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elenoremccluskyb 1 year ago
i feel like i can connect to each of those girls in the video in some way. reading the other responses to this video made me sad b/c of the low levels of self-esteem which i am dealing. if anyone wants to talk or needs help feel free to send me a message *
SkinDeepBeauty001 1 year ago
my problem is that most of the girls in my school have plenty of self confidence. self confidence built up by making other people feel like shit.
vx0001 1 year ago
I'm a guy and yes, the industry has nailed it into guys' heads about what LOOKS pretty. Truth be told, girls really shouldn't try to look good 4 others and try to feel accepted. An outward and good personality is all u need to make friends. Only PEOPLE can rise up against the created norms. Forget popularity. Who the hell cares what others think about you? If everyone cares about what everyone else thinks in terms of image, then how do u know ur all really friends? Image is not everything
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surangiable 1 year ago
My mum always tells me to think "If I die tomorrow, will whatever this person thinks about me make any difference?" and it reminds me that it's my life, not theirs, and if they're so unhappy to pick on other people, then it's very sad, but not my problem. Because I'm fine just the way I am. All girls are pretty.
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SableRamona 1 year ago
I'm 15, im about 5'2 and i weigh 160 pounds, i hate my weight...but i just cant seem to lose it....i want to so bad, because i feel like thats whats holding me back, from getting the guys attention. HELP.
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supremeoverlord135 1 year ago 19
@supremeoverlord135 - the flower is in bloom, there will be a season for you. Regards...
rosaryfilms 1 year ago 17
@rosaryfilms and you as well, thank you.
supremeoverlord135 1 year ago
@supremeoverlord135 i guess no one is happy with themselves because i am skinny and i hate people telling me im skinny! I find that an insult because people call me a stick and anorexic eventhough im not THAT skinny and it gets really annoying!So take it from someone like me, its not all that great to be skinny and the world just expects us to be perfect but thats never gonna happen.
Musicpassion17 1 year ago
@supremeoverlord135 I'll tell you a secret that won't be much comfort to you yet, but here goes: from ages of 12-16 NOBODY has self-esteem. Kids who seem to b/c they have the "courage" to tease other kids have the least self-esteem of all! Self-esteem--REAL SELF-ESTEEM--is something you earn by things you do in life and at 12 you're still preparing for your life. You should lose weight for YOU, not for the attention of THEM (whoever THEY are), b/c it's in ur health interest. The rest will come.
dantean 10 months ago
@supremeoverlord135 Sometimes it could just be genetics or a poor diet. So make sure you eat healthy (lots of fruits and veggies) I love V-8 splash cause has all the vitamins and minerals needed and it doesnt taste like the original so has a fruity taste and good for you! Everyone is unique and special ...everyone has their own talents and abilities so get into what you are interested in doing and surround yourself with good and supportive friends or seek a counselor at school also helps. <3
poetlover30 9 months ago
@supremeoverlord135 Sometimes it could just be genetics or a poor diet. So make sure you eat healthy (lots of fruits and veggies) I love V-8 splash cause has all the vitamins and minerals needed and it doesnt taste like the original so has a fruity taste and good for you! Everyone is unique and special ...everyone has their own talents and abilities so get into what you are interested in doing and surround yourself with good and supportive friends or a counselor at school also helps. <3 <3
poetlover30 9 months ago
@supremeoverlord135
i was super skinny at one time, but people saw me as a toothpick,i gained weight nd now i hate myself,i remember wen i was skinny,i didnt do excercise,i just cut back on all the food i eat,just cut backk on food, im tryin to now nd it works for me,but remember,every girl is perfect nd beutifull in theyr own way,plus the way i lost weight u dont need exercise, just walk to school nd cut back on food,but DONT STARVE URSELF
DeadColorlessRose 7 months ago
@supremeoverlord135
Here's where to begin with your self confidence. Know this: Every person you ever meet, deep down, is a little bit fucked up. Trust me on this, I've never met anyone who doesn't have issues of one sort. This doesn't change with age either (I'm 23 and people my age still have confidence issues). The skinny girls who get all the guys' attention? They often have the lowest self esteem of all. Don't be surprised if many of them have eating disorders. You're perfectly normal :)
Seabass200 6 months ago
@supremeoverlord135 : I would encourage you to look in your mirror everyday and tell yourself that you love yourself. Eat healthy, eat when you are hungry. Also, avoid poisons in your diet like MSG, Nutra Sweet, Splenda, and fluoride. Avoid dieting, dieting is not healthy and messes up your metabolism and will make you get fat. 147 pounds is not fat, but if you get into bad habits like dieting, you will get fat. Love who you are and your body will respond positively and others will also.
pieladypeace 3 months ago
This is what our society needs...get this on the tv more please Dove ..you know as much as it's tied to gays it's really for all of the teens and young adults who get slammed in school growing up. IT GETS BETTER I promise! I was there and it seems like it couldn't ever change but it does. If you can call on your family and friends for help do it, if not just take deep breathes. School is a tiny part of your life, it's not the world and you are NOT ALONE. AGAIN IT GETS BETTER. I promise!
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SarihRdsia 1 year ago
since i really dont care if people know me or not, my name is ashlyn & im 15 & i weigh about 130lbs. all through elementry school & jr.high i was always picked on. i was probably the most ugliest little kid ever. (not saying that im that pretty now.) i was never considered "fat" i was taller then everyone else who went to my school & i just had a lot of muscle considering i did a lot of sports. but to me, i always thought i was fat. i hated everything about me. i had really bad acne,
stickingtojesus 1 year ago
so i would pile on makeup but it only made it worse. i had glasses & i thought of myself as fat. when i got to eighth grade i was basically obsessed with working out. i would go to the gym & work out everyday. i made sure i was eating right..i got my acne away & i got contacts. in the middle of 8th grade i dropped down to 111lbs. soon as i hit that mark, i realized something, i wasnt happy. i got back up to my normal weight by the end of 8th grade. i started dressing like a girl ha.
stickingtojesus 1 year ago
i wore skirts & curled my hair. i wasnt as content with myself then. so one night. i sat infront of my mirror & i took out my expo marker & wrote on my mirror all the things i hated about myself,erased it then wrote down all the things i liked about my self. i liked more things about me then what i hated about myself. i got into highschool & i was happy. i wasnt picked on because i put on the attitude that i loved who i was & i did. i soon began gaining self confidence. i still have my flaws.
stickingtojesus 1 year ago
dont get my wrong. but im a happier, healthier me. & i like it(: regardless of what people say or think(: you just have to love yourself, God made you in his image & thats all that should matter(:
stickingtojesus 1 year ago
All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
brittyandemi3 1 year ago
i feel the same way when the girl was talking about how she looks i started crying when i saw this video
SuperDygn 1 year ago
Low self-esteem leads to introversion? I think not! Introversion is a valid personality trait according to the MBTI personality profiling - and it is completely normal. What on earth is Dove feeding people?
priyarunchitnis 1 year ago
wow dove is part of the problem..dove is suppose to be the bueaty company..and they photo edit there pics
kyle1232767 1 year ago
as a hetero-male i have to say that it is rare to meet a woman who is truly unattractive, but too common to meet one who thinks she is
RadicalSyndicate 1 year ago
I feel like this all the time im about to cry watching this
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KeepBeautyReal 1 year ago
This is to all you beautiful young people who thinks they look unexceptionable or ugly.if you see your self ugly, people will see you ugly. stop beating your self up, life goes on no matter what. if someone doesn't like you for you they are not your friend.
a true friend will not pick on you. they will see you for who you are and like you unconditionally. my son is 11 over weight. I tell him the same thing am telling you and he feels much better. he ignores the critics and his living his life.
luckyanthony77 1 year ago
I feel like I'm fat...I'm 180 pounds and 5"7'
There are days when I don't want to get out of bed because I feel my stomach and my thighs.......
XxBeccaBeastxX 1 year ago
@XxBeccaBeastxX Please email me & have a look at my campaign, i'm sure your a gorgeous girl, dont get down about weight issues & your 5,7 thats practically models height! lucky xxx
KeepBeautyReal 1 year ago
@XxBeccaBeastxX
wow, same height same weight, same feelings :S
XxXSOMEXxXGIRLXxX 1 year ago
i dont understand why they think their fat
their are worst girls out their that are really BIG with love handels haging out and double chins
i think its more of bein social accepted then skinny
Sonicku 1 year ago
im 12 years old and 120 pounds and i think im very ugly. i also cry myself to sleep and say nothing when people around my school say fat jokes to me in the school hallways. i dont know what to do. i practically hate my appearence body shape. i just dont htink im good enough. i go to tell my friends for help and they say "oh you cry ur self to sleep? wow" and my mom gave up. what do i do i need help now
charlietobbler 1 year ago 2
@charlietobbler - the flower is in bloom, there will be a season for you. Regards...
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tpiper 1 year ago
@charlietobbler
aw girl im sorry. I swear I was around the same weight as you at that age. Just don't think negativily about yourself/your weight, people will pick up on that and will see you as a target. Walk with your head held high, and don't let people talk down to you! Middle school is vicious. Good luck:)
tripvids420 1 year ago
Hi, I hope you're feeling better by now. I believe in you. don't worry about the ones that are picking on you. they have issues themselves that's why they like to picked on people. they don't have a life, because if they did, they would be too busy to picked on anyone. Find a hobby, read books like (as a Man Thinketh) by James Allen to inspire you. find positive friends, go out and play some sports. eat more fruits and vegetables, stay away from junk foods. every day say you Love yourself.
luckyanthony77 1 year ago
@charlietobbler Email me about this, i'll try & help,
I'm sure your a gorgeous young girl xx
KeepBeautyReal 1 year ago
@charlietobbler aww, hun, I was the same way when I was you're age. 120 pounds isn't bad at all! You're going to get slimmer as you age, but right now your bodys going through different things. I'm sure you're beautiful, and guys are jerks. A couple of guys called my friend ugly-and she's absolutly stunning! Keep you head up sweetie. Remember, the most powerful beauty secret is confidence, there's nothing sexier or more beautiful then that. :)
LookItsColette 1 year ago
Hi I'm 21 now and when I was jung I was very insecure to because I had very short-geeky hair, glasses, and only 5 feet tall (they called me all sort of names!) When I got older I knew it really doesn't matter what you look like as long as you can see you're own beauty!! It doesn't matter that you're a bit heavier than other people, nobody is the same and know that differences are good. You have your own beautiful features! It sounds like old people talk, but its true + trying doesn't hurt ;)
liedjelisette 1 year ago
@charlietobbler alright heres what u do. u've gotta be committed. real committed. first off try to log down what types of foods u eat on a regular basis. more then likely they contain alot of fat. try replacing these foods with less fattening foods. if u stick to that u should drop weight just from that. The next thing to do is cardio. Not push ups or sit ups or pull ups. but cardio. using ur legs, which is the biggest muscles in ur body. from a stationary bike to a tredmill. 20 minutes minimum!
NeoPanzerth 1 year ago
@charlietobbler start cardio off slow cuz ur probably not used to it. go at a slower pace but make sure u can go 20 mins straight without stopping. later on u will be able to go longer. and after that u can increase the difficulty. once u loose alot of weight thats when ur gonna wanna do push ups and crunches to define ur muscles. but loose the fat first. !! u can do it!!!!!! u've just gotta be committed and have a strict eating plan.!
NeoPanzerth 1 year ago
@charlietobbler Please see the counsellor in your school. This has to do with way more than your weight. The whole media is pushing you to be what most girls can't be. Ever notice the other girls in your school who are your weight or do you just notice the super thin ones?
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brittyandemi3 1 year ago
@charlietobbler All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
brittyandemi3 1 year ago
@charlietobbler I have been there... I also was a chubby girl at your age and was bullied frequently on my elementary and highschool.. But I just started to not let it get to me anymore.Of course it's impossible to shut yourself out completely, but the world will be a better place if you start living it for yourself... Believe me what you are going through now gives you personality and character that the more 'beautiful' people lack in all angles of their life. Be proud of yourself!
horsepheus 1 year ago
@charlietobbler I can relate with that kind of despair. i've learned that that only hurts your inner beauty. I know it sounds cheesy but you can find something great in everybody. I myself had a brother who was heavy-set, eventually he got taller and it all evened out. Regardless of whether this happens you need to tell yourself your beautiful, every day! Pick out one thing you love about yourself. Personality or Physically and remind yourself of it. Message me anytime you need someone.
DreamsMelody 1 year ago
@charlietobbler awwwwww its ok i dont knowu but ur probley beutiful. im still 11 and 70 pounds but my looks are ugly. i cant even get a boyfried. im also the smallest in my grade. once this girl called me fat cause shes a twig. i just think when people make fun of me i say to myself i know im beutiful and i feel a little better and just moove on.
luniada 1 year ago
@charlietobbler They're just jealous just coz u have something they dont..........even if u dont realize it....even if its something u dont even think or consider to be important........u have it and they dont....and they tease u just coz of it....so be strong and believe in ur beauty....ur inner beauty......and if it still hurts then u and only u can change....whether u ignore it, or exercise or even laugh at urself for it....its up to u... Gd luck in ur life...have faith in urself
NekoTenshi777 10 months ago
@charlietobbler You are precious!, what's in the heart is always worth more than what's skin deep... But anyway, here's help - check out the hope line dot com - it's an AMAZING place to connect w/others who care, will help & will listen to you. I am not affiliated w/them, I just LOVE what they do.
Peace & Hope!
iamamango 9 months ago 2
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The reality that these girls are sharing is so painful and even as an adult woman it feels so hard to change things to stop girls from having to go through the self loathing that fear of beauty puts us through. I am challenging girls and women to build their self confidence by tell themselves they are beautiful and to focus on what is great about them for 10 days.
BeautyMirrorApp 1 year ago
The reality that these girls are sharing is so painful and even as an adult woman it feels so hard to change things to stop girls from having to go through the self loathing that fear of beauty puts us through. I am challenging girls and women to build their self confidence by tell themselves they are beautiful and to focus on what is great about them for 10 days.
BeautyMirrorApp 1 year ago
..(my sister and my best friend) have told me they wished they could look like me..that they could have the body I have. The body of someone over 20 lbs underweight, who almost had to be hospitalized, and they're jealous of it. What kind of corrupted sense of beauty do we have nowadays that that could happen? It makes me sad not only to know that I'm underweight and can hardly do anything to change it but also know that people will always judge me for it or even be jealous of something terrible.
AquariusGirlYay 1 year ago
As someone who is severely underweight, it really hurts to see so many people who have a wonderful, balanced metabolism that allows them to be at a healthy weight constantly strive to be thinner and thinner. I've had strangers flat out tell me I'm too skinny and need to gain weight (as if I haven't been trying for almost a year). And I can atleast understand that, they probably think I'm anorexic and don't know how thin I am. But what really pains me is when people..
AquariusGirlYay 1 year ago
@AquariusGirlYay I read your post, i'd love to hear your story for my campaign or ask you some questions about having an eating disorder.
It relates to my campaign about airbrushing and body image/self esteem.
I'm sure your a gorgeous girl and if you dont want too you dont have to answer me atall, but i'd really appreciate it & maybe we could do some video questions or somthing.
Thanks :) xxx
KeepBeautyReal 1 year ago
If you have a story of a young girl you know who's self-confidence has been corrupted by the media, please send them to youlookbeautiful@ymail.com. I am starting a new website (youlookbeautiful.tumblr.com) to build girls' self-confidence. If you have any stories, please email them to me to be added to the site!
StormyRobbins 1 year ago 3
I am always "amused" when positive body image videos profile girls and women who, while not fitting the standards of models, are nonetheless physically attractive in overall facial features and normal physiques. Why not profile girls and women who are genuinely unattractive? (And I don't buy the notion that all people are equally physically beautiful in principle.)
porkpy 1 year ago
I blame the media!
Turn off your T.V's and stop reading fasion/celeb magazines!
MrPerfectVision 1 year ago
i am 15 years old and i am 169 cm and i weigh 135 pounds and i cry myself to sleep every night because i feel like an obese fat person because no one has ever said i was beautiful..
twilighterluvr 1 year ago
@twilighterluvr - the flower is in bloom; there will be a season for you. Regards...
rosaryfilms 1 year ago
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@rosaryfilms I love the way you dont say anything to the jokes but the help you need is in you. I know that does sound cliche, but you just need to believe that you are beautiful look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I am beautiful and nobody can change that!!"
brittyandemi3 1 year ago
@twilighterluvr Email me about this, i'm sure your beautiful & i'd like to try and help :) xxx
KeepBeautyReal 1 year ago
@twilighterluvr When I was your age, I was 145 lbs, 165 cm and had terrible acne all over my face. My teenage years were a huge struggle for me and it sounds like they are for you as well. What's most important is how you deal with this moment. Ask yourself if you want to live every single day of your life feeling how you feel now; if you don't then take action. Watch Anthony Robbins for tips, google how to build self confidence, and follow through. EVERYONE is beautiful. Good luck!
QuasiJL 1 year ago
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@twilighterluvr Please see the counsellor in your school. This has to do with way more than your weight. The whole media is pushing you to be what most girls can't be. Ever notice the other girls in your school who are your weight or do you just notice the super thin ones?
mollycanadian 1 year ago
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@twilighterluvr All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
brittyandemi3 1 year ago
@twilighterluvr All the help you need is in you. I know that sounds cliche but it's true all you need to know is to look in the mirror and say to yourself over and over again is, "I am beautiful and no one can change that!!"
brittyandemi3 1 year ago
@twilighterluvr I've struggled with self-esteem concerns as well, I honestly do think every girl has even the super pretty ones. It hurts quite a bit I know, but start looking at the more precious things in life such as your soul. A person with great outer beauty but without anything on the inside won't shine. A soul is the most persistent thing we have.
I have found that self-confidence the most attractive things you can own. Tell yourself you are beautiful, because we all got something. :D
DreamsMelody 1 year ago
@twilighterluvr Well then I will be the first! It's not about the beauty on the outside, it's about the beauty you have on the inside that counts. It really sounds like you have a good heart and that you really care about things. and just showing love makes you a beautiful person. Those people who are mean to you are ugly people because they do not have love in there hearts and so they will become what they truly are inside. You are a beautiful person! dont change:)
lilrherhe321 10 months ago
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@twilighterluvr You are precious!, what's in the heart is always worth more than what's skin deep... here's some help - check out, the hope line dot com - it's an AMAZING place to connect w/others who care, will help & will listen to you. I am not affiliated w/them, I just LOVE what they do.
Peace & Hope!
iamamango 9 months ago
U KNOW WAT! BOYS ARE SCUM! [no offence] boyz shud think bout our inside not just "were sexy" and stuff
KISSESNinaHERSHYS 1 year ago
whats the name of the documentary?
lostsoul730 1 year ago
loool now how saad i think its more dificult for a guy to get a girl than other way around but one things truth people now days dont give a daam abou how the others realy are but judgyng too mutch by apereance ..........soory for my English btw
SVK08 1 year ago
arrested development
Dallasblows20 1 year ago
I used to be the same and i know how hard it is but i finally said i don't care what anybody thinks then i had a large group of friends and nobody said bad things about me anymore. the thing is that people always want to attack you when your weak and if you care about what they think you are under their control. be free. thats what can make you a celebrity
StartContaversy1 1 year ago
your beutiful!
18gatabrasileira 1 year ago
All these girls are absolutely beautiful they way they are!
Mich3kris67lew 1 year ago 5
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Nobody said they aren't.
SeventhSun 1 year ago
Now you see why alot of young high school girls date "bad boys" Because they have low self esteem. Low self esteem will make you do things or end up in places that you'd think you wouldn't consciously do!
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
u know what at least u have stright and white teeth and some people dont so what im saing if i had to be fat but have nice teeth i would do it. I would losse weight or i would try so be happy about ur smiley and enjoy that smiley and i like u teeth and yes im talking about ur smiley/ur looks at 0:54.
Project00salvo 1 year ago
@ MrJoeMontano maybe the reason why people are writing novels is because they like to express themself, their opinion and I see nothing wrong with it! I think high self esteem is good, being "vain" isn't self confidence, it's a sense of insecurity! A confident person is aware of their insecurities and are able to accept it. They're usually positive and are happy with life and themself.
AngelaChapman02 1 year ago
@AngelaChapman02 awesome message thank you
elibeth121 1 year ago
why is everybody writing novels as a comment??
MrJoeMontano 1 year ago
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@MrJoeMontano because they feel touched by this video and have something to say about this topic. isn't that obvious??
mienchen07 1 year ago
I don't understand why females are way insecure of their weight when weight can be lost by proper dieting and exercise, if they need to gain weight then eat a cheeseburger! I have no sympathy for people who are insecure, like to make fun of "innocent" people, I have no remorse for people like that. Please don't let the media get to you, i know it's all superficial standards.
AngelaChapman02 1 year ago
I like Dove!
AngelaChapman02 1 year ago
SO sad to see all the pressure young girls and women are under. It should be more programs and ads dedicated to teaching true beauty. Looks fade but inner beauty shines forever.
gmarien2004 1 year ago
why are these always about weight? i'd like them to discuss other issues that affect self-esteem
Dsupreme1 1 year ago
Girls with high self esteem make terrible girlfriends.
mastershake407 1 year ago
@mastershake407 Whats wrong with high self esteem?
MrJoeMontano 1 year ago
@MrJoeMontano You should have self esteem
elibeth121 1 year ago
How we raise our children has a big impact on this. Im just trying very hard not to pass on the negative things society and my family has taught me to internalize. Things like the way women are supposed to look, what they are supposed to do, what determines your worth and how we relate to men. Damaging things like the importance we give to virginity in females and experience in males, fake values and the such.
tedoymisojos 1 year ago
This is a good video. Frank and sensitive to the important issue. Like it!!
abcminds 1 year ago
:36..that girl is goregous..did she really say she was ugly?
i feel the same way as one of those girls..first time you get called ugly, you always feel it.
xsuitelifeofjonasx 1 year ago
On the Wii Balance board, it says that I'm SMACK in the middle of being Overweight. Hah! I'm one-hundred-fifty-pounds! I'm not overweight at all for my age and height. And it's funny because most of the girls in my school starve themselves until their down in the low hundreds.
I started loosing weight over the summer, and since then people started talking to me like I had friends.
Typically I say screw you in a silent way because they ignored me before. The best thing to do is be you. : )
MultiJAR121 1 year ago
That Black girl at :51 is soo beautiful.They all are inside and out.
TrynaGetBacToMyLuv 2 years ago
Make some more good videos
datingwomensex 2 years ago
in America you seemed to be judged alot more than in English highschool. God i dont think i could have hacked it in America, are you really not accepted if you're fat or ugly? cause here in england it is not that extreme but it's still very cruel. I am an identical twin and guess what? people said i was ugly and she was pretty. i don't understand that, does anyone else? but i'm still scarred from the hurtful things people said at school. we wear a uniform here so you really are judged on looks.
PrefuselyYou 2 years ago 3
Good point.You said people call you ugly and your identical twin pretty.That goes to show you being called ugly is about people disliking others for reasons not about looks and just putting others down for jealousy or whatever.
TrynaGetBacToMyLuv 2 years ago
yeah that's exactly it! damn it's frustrating. and how low can people get ? it's pathetic really.
PrefuselyYou 1 year ago
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TheMovingPiano14 2 years ago
people and guys always call me ugly at school and i just ignore it but then when i get home i feel so bad and look in the mirror right away and then just cry...
kristyrox123 2 years ago
I'm so sorry that happens to you :(
I wish I could tell you to ignore them (and I'm telling you in the hopes that you will one day...soon), but I understand it's so hard. People are so mean :(
I think everyone has something beautiful about them...I know you probably have a lot of beautiful things about you!
littlefurballs 2 years ago