In this video, you mention again that you were feeling skeptical. I just don't understand why, if you were feeling skeptical, you didn't seek out another opinion. I think you probably answered my question before when you said that you were very naive at the time.
I don't wanna comment so much u mention but your right to tell this to your dad.And maybe both work up a lawsuit against her.Here if things like yours get stated COPS r called & CPS/DHS family services & they remove the kid.Its about QUOTA&MONEY.search:cps hates military daddies & even if he WAS in the Army it's the training that sparks "standard character assassination" & there is a LOT of it "going around" very common
OMG I can imagine this woman (your therapist) so clearly in my head. I've met so many new age women who think they're "sensitive" or that they have some unique/pseudo-mystical insight into people's psyche. The result is always like yours - mumbo jumbo and "readings"/"diagnoses" that read like a cheap midday movie - "you were abused by your father and have suppressed the memory.. lets use hypnosis or crystals or some other wacky shit to fix you". Pisses me off sooo much.
If you are not well and are not in a place to take responsibiity for yourself then that is different , then you have my compassion, and I would look at those around you but if you are a high functioning adult... blaming others too much (no matter how justified or reasonable sounding) will ultimately clip our own wings, not give us more power to be the adults we want to be for ourselves and others IMO.
If you are not well and are not in a place to take responsibiity for yourself then that is different , then you have my compassion, and I would look at those around you but if you are a high functioning adult... blaming others too much (no matter how justified or reasonable sounding) will ultimately clip our own wings, not give us more power to be the adults we want to be for ourselves and others IMO.
A few years back , I frogged jumped around to different therapists and I cannot tell you how much of what they said, suggested and concluded that I ignored. Much of our time together was useful but much of it was just not. I was 17 at the time and even I knew that I had to be responsible for my own choices. Pandyfackleeresque, you seem to blaming your choices on other people . Who was it that chose not to talk to your father after all?
Myself, I prefer to have the power in my own hands.
"In conjunction" is the accepted phrase, although "in conjuncture" is not technically incorrect. As to Rick Moranis, he did the McKenzie brothers thing several years before LSOH. One of their schticks was their version of "The Twelve Days of Christmas," which was a big hit, and in which he sang. Sort of... Well, at least as well as he did as Seymour, anyway. :)
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! It couldn't have been easy (to say the least!) It's amazing because it makes you wonder where was this therapist in the mid 90s when the false memory fiasco hit the fan? Either it's complete ignorance or complete denial (I hate polarizing an issue but I'll let this one go). Even in the face of evidence some (hopefully a small handful) of therapists still can't accept/process that information and instead inflict more damage out into the world.
Theosophy. Sweet Christ. Um, yeah, your therapist was a nutjob. In case you don't already know, one option is to file a formal complaint with the agency that issued her license. Everything you describe is EXACTLY the sort of thing you should complain about. This person has no business doing any sort of therapy.
What you describe sounds very much like your "therapist" is projecting her experiences on YOU. The fact that 3 girls she was "treating" at the same time had the exact same experience (and based on your description she probably suggested the abuse to them as well) indicates that she probably was the one who was abused. Sad, but it still does not give her the right to do this to other, she should have resolved her own problems before she went on to treat others.
@HConstantine Err, self-expression? If you're trying to draw a line between mental scarring and an enjoyment of mild body modification, your point will be lost on me. I'm a body mod enthusiast.
@AislinCade People are so quick to say that piercings/tattoos/anything out of the oridinary is a result of some messed up past. They'll never accept that it can be a form of unrelented self-expression.
6:00 red flag!!!! that tells me (again, if you didnt read my previous comments, im only 16 and have a slight knowledge of psychology that i read off the net) that it happened to the therapist, and she is coping with it by pushing it on her patients
Completely hooked into this story of yours. Amazing and sad and frustrating. I also wanted to say, I love your wee mustache tattoo. Subbed, rated and sending others this way.
Fucking hell that sucks. You should show him (your dad) this video so he can see it I think that will help. Also it'd be a way to tell him everything and not get chocked up because he needs to hear everything to truly understand what you went through. This isn't your fault, you were the patient and teen and I know it's going to be hard but that you have to get most. Doing these videos you are helping a lot of people.
-____- It's not your fault at all. You woke up from being brainwashed, and having a therapist use you. Do you know how many people really get out from under that? That's why it's so hard for people to leave cults. So it's not your fault at all.
My mother was the one who said she heard him yelling at me. So I just took that and ran with it. I don't remember but I can almost guarentee (based on the way she was) she ( the therapist) told me that's what happened.
This therapist and group therapy sessions sound like a little cult to me.
Pandy, I still have yet to view part 5, but, in the future trust in your intuition. You are a smart cookie and can smell the bullshit. Dont second guess yourself and trust that you know what is good for Pandy.
Take it from someone whose own mother was the mindf*ck*r and soulsucker. You can get back on track, heal and move on from this-and things WILL get better.
As someone working to be a therapist, people like this really raz my barries. Where are never told to try to implant memories, on people in that nature. And it seems like she was just running down the same check list for everyone see saw.
On behalf of Ontario sorry about that one. Why do Americans keep importing our crappiest of crap but still no sell on poutine? It just seems like the perfect match.
That's why I cringe every time I see Deepak Choprah, Eckhart Tolle, or any other spiritual "guru", they use basic psychological tricks that make people think "well they arn't saying anything bad so they must be good". I will be exposing some of the techniques that they use in a video soon.
Wow... I'd go after that therapist. Go talk to your dad young lady, hope it works out. I was part of I consider a cult now but my mother always tried to make this "spiritual" connection with me and I finally figure out that it was only because she couldn't connect to me or anyone else in any other way. Eventually I figured what really mattered was humanity, not some new age fantasy that gives you a momentary feel good and mental high.
I like the little movie fact in the description. I can't get the phrase "Feed Me" out of my mind now. *giggle
Wow! Hopefully once you tell your father what happened you will be able to pick up where you left off before all this happened. The therapist's professional association needs to be informed of what transpired. Best of luck in your efforts.
In this video, you mention again that you were feeling skeptical. I just don't understand why, if you were feeling skeptical, you didn't seek out another opinion. I think you probably answered my question before when you said that you were very naive at the time.
MIKAFANFROMAMERICA 3 months ago
I don't wanna comment so much u mention but your right to tell this to your dad.And maybe both work up a lawsuit against her.Here if things like yours get stated COPS r called & CPS/DHS family services & they remove the kid.Its about QUOTA&MONEY.search:cps hates military daddies & even if he WAS in the Army it's the training that sparks "standard character assassination" & there is a LOT of it "going around" very common
ech0dancer 5 months ago
God sometimes allow us to experience harsh life experiences so we may learn from them.
humanbatteries911 10 months ago
@humanbatteries911 Sounds like a vote for Sharron Angle.
PandyFackleresque 10 months ago
Nice moustache at 9:44
jtgenis 1 year ago
Wow, the group leader's comment you mentioned at 7:20 is one HUGE red flag! Sweeping under the rug much?
DanThePropMan 1 year ago
OMG I can imagine this woman (your therapist) so clearly in my head. I've met so many new age women who think they're "sensitive" or that they have some unique/pseudo-mystical insight into people's psyche. The result is always like yours - mumbo jumbo and "readings"/"diagnoses" that read like a cheap midday movie - "you were abused by your father and have suppressed the memory.. lets use hypnosis or crystals or some other wacky shit to fix you". Pisses me off sooo much.
antonc81 1 year ago
@antonc81 pretty much
ech0dancer 5 months ago
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If you are not well and are not in a place to take responsibiity for yourself then that is different , then you have my compassion, and I would look at those around you but if you are a high functioning adult... blaming others too much (no matter how justified or reasonable sounding) will ultimately clip our own wings, not give us more power to be the adults we want to be for ourselves and others IMO.
thredbair 1 year ago
If you are not well and are not in a place to take responsibiity for yourself then that is different , then you have my compassion, and I would look at those around you but if you are a high functioning adult... blaming others too much (no matter how justified or reasonable sounding) will ultimately clip our own wings, not give us more power to be the adults we want to be for ourselves and others IMO.
thredbair 1 year ago
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thredbair 1 year ago
A few years back , I frogged jumped around to different therapists and I cannot tell you how much of what they said, suggested and concluded that I ignored. Much of our time together was useful but much of it was just not. I was 17 at the time and even I knew that I had to be responsible for my own choices. Pandyfackleeresque, you seem to blaming your choices on other people . Who was it that chose not to talk to your father after all?
Myself, I prefer to have the power in my own hands.
thredbair 1 year ago
"In conjunction" is the accepted phrase, although "in conjuncture" is not technically incorrect. As to Rick Moranis, he did the McKenzie brothers thing several years before LSOH. One of their schticks was their version of "The Twelve Days of Christmas," which was a big hit, and in which he sang. Sort of... Well, at least as well as he did as Seymour, anyway. :)
CorneliusSneedley 1 year ago
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! It couldn't have been easy (to say the least!) It's amazing because it makes you wonder where was this therapist in the mid 90s when the false memory fiasco hit the fan? Either it's complete ignorance or complete denial (I hate polarizing an issue but I'll let this one go). Even in the face of evidence some (hopefully a small handful) of therapists still can't accept/process that information and instead inflict more damage out into the world.
jamespro95 1 year ago
omg... mind control...
TheWandgirl 1 year ago
You need to seek legal advice against this woman.
HConstantine 1 year ago
Theosophy. Sweet Christ. Um, yeah, your therapist was a nutjob. In case you don't already know, one option is to file a formal complaint with the agency that issued her license. Everything you describe is EXACTLY the sort of thing you should complain about. This person has no business doing any sort of therapy.
margaretschlegel 1 year ago
What you describe sounds very much like your "therapist" is projecting her experiences on YOU. The fact that 3 girls she was "treating" at the same time had the exact same experience (and based on your description she probably suggested the abuse to them as well) indicates that she probably was the one who was abused. Sad, but it still does not give her the right to do this to other, she should have resolved her own problems before she went on to treat others.
juditK2007 1 year ago
Fuck... I'm so sorry you went through that shit. None of it was your fault and that woman needs to lose her job before she does this to someone else.
rekojehtmai 1 year ago
"Sometimes you have to cut people out of your life."
But that ex-boyfriend of yours was a nice guy. Huh. This is making me so angry... I'm glad you came through it without too much mental scarring.
AislinCade 1 year ago
@AislinCade
Really? What do think all of that cutting/armor on her face means?
HConstantine 1 year ago
@HConstantine Err, self-expression? If you're trying to draw a line between mental scarring and an enjoyment of mild body modification, your point will be lost on me. I'm a body mod enthusiast.
AislinCade 1 year ago
@AislinCade People are so quick to say that piercings/tattoos/anything out of the oridinary is a result of some messed up past. They'll never accept that it can be a form of unrelented self-expression.
PandyFackleresque 1 year ago
@HConstantine It means I like shiny things in my face and colourful things on my skin. I have no idea what cutting you're talking about, though.
PandyFackleresque 1 year ago
That therapist of yours sounds like a feminist.
Yourebuying 1 year ago
Apparently your mother was accepting of all of this? WOW! What Quackery!
KasparHauser4 1 year ago
6:00 red flag!!!! that tells me (again, if you didnt read my previous comments, im only 16 and have a slight knowledge of psychology that i read off the net) that it happened to the therapist, and she is coping with it by pushing it on her patients
Phyre1928 1 year ago
Called projection, doesn't mean anything though. It could be that she is paranoid or feels that it happens to everyone
westfalla 1 year ago
So, it was ok to tell you to cut him out of your life, but not that loser boyfriend!?!
ICharmaine 1 year ago
This sounds allot like scientology.
phookadude 1 year ago 8
Completely hooked into this story of yours. Amazing and sad and frustrating. I also wanted to say, I love your wee mustache tattoo. Subbed, rated and sending others this way.
lyvvie 1 year ago 7
sounds like the therapist could be projecting her own issues.....whatever...bad bad wrongful practice
ezmereldagreen 1 year ago
Fucking hell that sucks. You should show him (your dad) this video so he can see it I think that will help. Also it'd be a way to tell him everything and not get chocked up because he needs to hear everything to truly understand what you went through. This isn't your fault, you were the patient and teen and I know it's going to be hard but that you have to get most. Doing these videos you are helping a lot of people.
MistressArte 1 year ago
I do want to tell him in person. After all this fucked up shit, it's the least I owe him.
PandyFackleresque 1 year ago
It is not your fault. Remember that ok?
MistressArte 1 year ago
It's not ALL my fault, I know.
PandyFackleresque 1 year ago
-____- It's not your fault at all. You woke up from being brainwashed, and having a therapist use you. Do you know how many people really get out from under that? That's why it's so hard for people to leave cults. So it's not your fault at all.
MistressArte 1 year ago
When you were "hypnotized" who actually said "I remember him yelling at him", you or the psychiatrist?
TruthBeyond 1 year ago
My mother was the one who said she heard him yelling at me. So I just took that and ran with it. I don't remember but I can almost guarentee (based on the way she was) she ( the therapist) told me that's what happened.
PandyFackleresque 1 year ago
This therapist and group therapy sessions sound like a little cult to me.
Pandy, I still have yet to view part 5, but, in the future trust in your intuition. You are a smart cookie and can smell the bullshit. Dont second guess yourself and trust that you know what is good for Pandy.
Take it from someone whose own mother was the mindf*ck*r and soulsucker. You can get back on track, heal and move on from this-and things WILL get better.
((((Hugs)))) Skellymom
skeletonmom 2 years ago
Takes a lot of courage to share this. Thanks.
Maxdwolf 2 years ago
I have my own psychotherapy horror story. I'll try to talk about it tomorrow.
mikesinner69 2 years ago
As someone working to be a therapist, people like this really raz my barries. Where are never told to try to implant memories, on people in that nature. And it seems like she was just running down the same check list for everyone see saw.
Joeybsmooth 2 years ago
I'm glad this didn't end with your Dad dying with you still mad at him....at least you can patch things up.
s8ntmark 2 years ago
On behalf of Ontario sorry about that one. Why do Americans keep importing our crappiest of crap but still no sell on poutine? It just seems like the perfect match.
preachingsin 2 years ago
That's why I cringe every time I see Deepak Choprah, Eckhart Tolle, or any other spiritual "guru", they use basic psychological tricks that make people think "well they arn't saying anything bad so they must be good". I will be exposing some of the techniques that they use in a video soon.
anikinippon 2 years ago
Wow... I'd go after that therapist. Go talk to your dad young lady, hope it works out. I was part of I consider a cult now but my mother always tried to make this "spiritual" connection with me and I finally figure out that it was only because she couldn't connect to me or anyone else in any other way. Eventually I figured what really mattered was humanity, not some new age fantasy that gives you a momentary feel good and mental high.
anikinippon 2 years ago
Why the fuck would you need a therapist? People who go to therapists are fuel to the fire.
You were brainwashed.
baeritukaez 2 years ago
Waiting for part 5
H34d5h0t000 2 years ago
I like the little movie fact in the description. I can't get the phrase "Feed Me" out of my mind now. *giggle
Wow! Hopefully once you tell your father what happened you will be able to pick up where you left off before all this happened. The therapist's professional association needs to be informed of what transpired. Best of luck in your efforts.
I assume there is another video coming.
alowlyapprentice 2 years ago
Lol, sounds like your therapist has had problems with her father herself ^^
H34d5h0t000 2 years ago
I feel sorry for you and your father.
A therapist made me and my mother being a bit awkward around each other. We never hugged anymore or anything.
H34d5h0t000 2 years ago