CARNIE WILSON CALLED ME LAST NIGHT (SHE DID!)

[Roxie367]

Get to the point of your video and stop rambling.

[Roxie367]

Get to the point of your video and stop rambling.

[bcow1234]

If it's no bother to you then why the need to respond. MORE PROOF MY COMMENTS WERE TRUE. I also wish I could've said more but I don't have the time to waste on someone like you. Oh yes, your little act SUCKED!!!!

[bcow1234]

I've only heard you for 2 minutes and I can already see you are an egotistical air head. I'm glad Connie called you. Just learn from the call and don't try to use it to bolster your ratings or try to downplay her anger by admitting you made a mistake when it is so insincere and shallow!!

[divataunia]

@bcow1234 Ah yes, says the anonymous commenter! Insincere and shallow..hmm...making a pretty bold statement calling someone out while completely anonymous doesn't really have any sway with me.

[vickinicole]

i don't know why people sare saying you shouldn't have apologized. If you feel you did something to someone that you are ashamed of, you should apologize. That's basic manners and courtesy. If you didn't feel like you harmed anyone then you shouldnt apologize.

[flyfry22]

You don't need to apologize honey, freedom of speech! you are more than entitled to your opinions. I thought you were very tasteful in your video about Carnie's show even though it rubbed you the wrong way.

[thinkofmekindly]

Cont'd from below. I do agree that you owed CW an apology. A negative opinion on the show did not have to become an adhominem attack on CW. Good for you for owning up to this slip in judgement. Good insight on recognizing that your cxriticism of CW was based on your most basic fears. I think to you "fat" belongs in the same category as race and gender, i.e. they define you and cannot be changed. I wish I had some insights as to how such an engrained definition can be changed. Anyone?

[thinkofmekindly]

This totally looks like a case of "dazzled by celebrity encounter", and in that regard your response is hilarious. I take issue with the timing of the call, 1:30 am was an absolutely inappropriate time for Carnie Wilson et al to call.  Had a non celeb called you, you would have "ripped her a new one". CW et al need to conduct their market research calls on that dud of a show at times that are socially acceptable by all; D list celebrity status does not exempt them from common courtesy.

[SunnyRain247]

Even though you had a right to say it, Bravo to you for apologizing. That takes character and you obviously have wonderful character. More people should follow your lead - this world would be a better place.

[marilinda223]

Loved that you became the better person about this. I would've done the same thing. Says something about who you are. We hopefully grow as people. That is the course for all of us hopefully.

[Merdenoms]

Wow Carnie really needs to get over herself seriously! I personally wouldn't have apologized to her. It's an occupational hazard Carnie!!! Goes along with being a "celebrity" and putting your life out there for all to see and possibly judge.

[unobellablonde]

Please be positive..I've been in Carnie's shoes before!! A female syndrome..Weight remarks shouldn't be made lightly..People don't like/love being heavy or struggling w/ it..People don't always EAT their way to heavy!!

Been 9.5 {Nov. 2000}, since I the average person have seen or talked to Carnie..Queen Latifah doing a show on "Losing Over 100lbs." She was super, super nice to I, the average citizen!!

[samh09]

Hey, at least you have people following you on twitter. Nobody follows me on twitter.

So I am jealous. You have something going for you.

[angie2sm]

taunia, u are positive and u are not a bitch. i love u to death girl and everyone is entitled to their own opinion on a show, NOT them as people in general. i have never watched the show as i dont watch much tv but i love her voice and i grew up listening to them LOL. much love and hugz!

[timeIezz]

you did not have to apologize. it was your honest opinion, and they should respect that. it is what it is!

[katiesmith100]

Sorry honey. You can't take back what you said.

[katiejuly]

Such a classy lady. I think it's a balancing act, though. You're entitled to your opinions and your concerns and we need to keep a real dialogue going about possible pitfalls and self-delusions we see others falling into.

[shewulfwyn]

You are so gracious. we all love you.

[Relovlee]

First of all lets grow up Taunia I mean I honestly dont think u needed to apologize. You are a wonderful person imperfect as rest of us. But Carnie is setting herself up for failure being a baker and postop RNY, I just dont think it made any sense her callin u. We all judge so what, our feelings get hurt and no one gets to call. BUt on the other end I like Carnie and kinda like her how but she needs to accept people are going to have an opinion. So i agree w/ the others no apology necessary!

[kenziehoperj3]

diva you are such a great women! i dont think you realize how many womens lives you have helped! and yes you are intitled to your opinion as is everyone else! i started watching you before WLS and you are one of the ones who truley inspired me to get the surgery. dont feel to bad things happen and people get over it. i like carnie to but i dont care for her show and being human i can dislike what i want and so can you! take care luv ya!

[attorneymom35]

F**K that Bitch calling you at 1am! Who the hell does she think she is ? You are right any obese person working as a baker is like a drunk starting a brewery or a meth addict starting a lab! I have not seen her show to know if it sucks, but girl your entitled to your opinion! I always bash you but you adleast answer with grace.

[Relovlee]

I so agree to an extent!! lol

[stmarys1991]

You are so sweet - I understand why you're sorry for hurting her feelings, but your comments weren't mean. Furthermore, I percieved your "defensiveness," but I thought it came more from a place of having had been a "big girl" and feeling protective of all larger women who are stuck w/ undeserved stereotypes that might be perptuated by how she's acting on her show. Go easy on yourself - you wanted to like her, but she's not coming across as a very "likeable" person. You're an inspiration!

[charleighh34]

All I can say is that I hope that she will watch your previous videos and know that you are truly not that type of person in your heart. We are all human and we can all have slip ups. You've apologized and meant it. I hope you can both move on from it and maybe even become friends from it.

[Kat71]

You just never know! I think it was good of you to come on here and apologize. You are adorable. Oh and the dress is gorgeous! love the idea of no straps! are you going to wear a traditional veil?

[didibailey]

u are still the best! and it takes a real person to admit that you made a mistake! now let it go! it's over.. don't stress about it dear. we know u really mean you are sorry.. take care.. love didi

[imaswtgrl]

Classy, as always. As I recall during the radio show you made a few comments about how you thought, away from the show, you would really like the "real" Carnie, and that you both had a lot in common.

[becomingbarbara]

I just rewatched your orignal video and don't really understand what was so nasty and offensive. While I think your apology is extremely genuine...i don't think it was really neccessary. I haven't seen Carnie's new show but I can say that I really like her. She is honest about her struggles and real when it comes to life. What was so wrong about saying she wasn't nice at times?!?! I mean...aren't we all a little *itchy at times? Just saying we aren't all perfect...and that is okay ;)

[AntoniaTakeTwo]

I still like the video you made.

If you really feel like you were off base then OK. I think when we put our selves out there here on you tube or TV or what ever... we have o expect not everyone will love or view on things.That is OK too. I love ya Diva I think your very preceptive.

I am not sorry :) I still think Carnie is not a very lovable charter.

[NJLILI]

Awesome!! Only a "real woman" would go to the net and humbly admit her error! This is why we love you girl. gonna repost my comment on FB. You did the most fantastic thing!

[rach2977]

you are no way a malicious person taunia, you apologized, which is only right if you've hurt someone intended or not, i would just draw a line under it, i don't think you said anything bad on your vid anyway.

[meltingmamamelted]

I still don't get it. Were you required to take back your comments/opinions? I mean, don't you still Not Enjoy the program? Pfffft. LOL. I will email you back in a minute.

[bluesnthenight]

For the record, I didn't think your review was entirely that bad. *shrug*

[margodropshercargo]

Those of us who truly know you, and have been on this journey with you from the beginning, we know that you aren't normally a negative person. You feel passionately about what matters to you. Right now, that is weight gain. I'm glad you got to straighten things out with her. Let's be honest...we all wouldn't be here if it weren't for her paving the way.

[notfunny]

So Taunia have you considered maybe making a video for Jillian Michaels, too? Just a little something in advance so she doesn't show up at your doorstep to scream in your face and kick your butt? lol.

Much respect to you lady. You should never be afraid to speak your mind, and I don't think you said anything unnecessarily cruel. Still, really good of you to apologize. (And omg, Carnie Wilson watched your channel! Squeee!) :)

[Sandy77]

You were only stating your opinion and thats a fact sounds like she needs to grow some thick skin. The phone call was unneccesary!

[Danallydcol]

OK seriously... I just watched the video again as well. Carnie needs to get thicker skin!! What you said was your oponion and not malishous at all . If you are going to put yourself on national tv you need to expect to get some feed back, weather its good or bad! No need for you to endlessly apologize, celeberity or not!!!

[Xweighted1]

I just re-watched the video and I am guessing the things you are apologizing for here are from the radio show right? In the video you DID NOT say anything "judgmental." Stating a fact: i.e. that she was bitchy to her husband or over the top with her buddies, is just stating a fact. The fact that she called you that late in the night just proves that she is indeed "bitchy"

[sabrinamusiq]

Look at it this way... we're human! At least u apologized and that has integrity in it. Your still a sweet heart regardless.

[candycoatedcenter]

while i do agree that your statements may have hurt her and you may have been unfairly judging her but you were reviewing the show and what it meant to gastric bypass patients and the possible effects it could have on us , if she were to betray / the surgery in a negative light or the show futher promotote stero types of "fat girls" and "fat people" i dont think you ever meant anything you said with malice you were just giving your honest opinon!

[Love2bPhototaxis]

Very cool of you. It is always good policy to stay positive and sometimes you need to get checked on that. All of us do! We love ya!

[LadyBubba831]

I really feel you were just being honest and really have nothing to apologise for, im sure everything will work out for the best and that you will keep you videos "real" as i enjoy them so much. Take care xxxx

[LadyBubba831]

Im from the Uk therefore havent seen her show, but surely when you make a show like that - you expect some sort "judgement" or critiscm??

In the celebworld im sure she must be used to, Dont feel bad i think your doing the same as her - in her show she says she's keeping it real, well so are you, and i dont think what you said was that harsh and in one of your videos you did nothing but defend her and her life due to negative media attention.

[brandyqueenmom]

I for one am glad you did this. The many negative comments you have received on this vlog alone illustrates your exact point!! I have more respect for you than ever before.

[goodnplenty2468]

screw her.... she is a big girl (no pun intended) and you were giving your honest opinion and you werent out of line or cruel just honest in your thoughts. Please keep doing your own thing even though she is a "star" dont let it intimdate you stand your ground! You go Girl!

[QuietHiddenMe]

Taunia....

you were sweet to apologize. It was thoughtful, but just as carnie knows and we YTers know on a smaller scale, we open ourselves up to criticism and thoughtless judgments when we present ourselves to the public forum.

I think Carnie did a very valiant thing by calling and speaking to you...in some regard, this speaks volumes about how effective a speaker you are....

you've both shown yourselves to be honest and straightforward and human.

You do have a lot in common and I admire that.

[Jenny1954]

What a COP OUT!!!!!!!!!!!

She desierves EVERYTHING you said!

You're just making this video cause you don't want to be SUED for defamation of character!!!

I' really dissapointed that you decided to GROVEL to a CELEB who will do anything for attention!

[mommamartha]

It's nice that you apologized, but don't feel too badly because u totally gave "Unstapled" higher ratings. I had never even heard of the show and I've now started watching it. Anyway, she shouldn't take your comments so seriously because she is the one putting her life on display for the cameras. Her lifestyle is pretty bizarre on its own and anyone who watches will see that. Don't beat yourself up. Celebrities will draw criticisms regardless of what u say hon. U are a genuine and sweet person.

[DedicatedLoser]

I think it was big of you to apologize like this publicly. I agree that it says a lot about Carnie Wilson that she took the time to call you and talk this out. Just as you pointed out that Carnie is a real person, so are you lovely. Keep on being you, we all love you for it.

[olly02169]

oh my goodness this video was about 8 minutes too long ...WE ALL JUDGE EACH OTHER... ..and you're not a bitch..or a jerk,,actually your adorable. I haven't watched unstapled yet..but I will ;p

[GrimGrinningLily]

I think you're great and if you feel the need to appologize, than you should and I'm glad you did. =]

However, you weren't mean at all, you were honest and if anyone is going to put themselves out there, they have to prepare themselves for all kinds of comments. And the fact that she called with all kinds of people on the phone is very highschool and immature. I didn't dislike her before but after this, I have to say that I do. She needs to grow some thicker skin if she wants to be so public.

[dasajam]

How the heck did Carnie get your number? WEIRD!

[dasajam]

So glad you made this video. I think we all have had those negative comments on some of our videos and don't like them, as I am also positive we all say things like our opionions with out always thinking about the person. It's life! It takes a strong woman to make this apology. Love you!

[JennBand08]

I understand your need to apologize, I know you'd never deliberately hurt anyone's feelings. But I do think you are entitled to your opinion. Someone that has issues with food who chooses to work with/surround themselves with food does raise concern. I didn't take your pointing that out as nasty at all. But I guess when you have alot of people watching.. suddenly your opinion means more. I hope you will not be overly censoring yourself now afraid to ever express your opinion.

[saphre1964]

taunia~ good for you for apologizing...

i just did a video on this topic, if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all last week....several of our WLS community youtubers were getting HATE comments...we MUST stick together...

take care!~ nicole

[Thebodells]

Good for you Taunia..... You really weren't mean.... You were expressing your opinion, which you have the right too. If she had to take the time to call you, I'm sure she's more worried about ratings & keeping fans due to her contract. I watched her show today and actually enjoyed it. I seen a different side of her that I felt sorry for her.

[67Stephie]

It's such a part of our media culture (ripping people apart and analyzing all of what they do) that we don't even bat an eye over it. It's a refreshing thing to see someone (you) recognize that people (yes, even famous ones) have feelings, too.

I look forward to the day when other media outlets follow suit. Thanks for sharing your experience with all of us.

[nld3328]

Good for you! Good for Carnie!

You are a positive influence in my life! You don't know me and I only know what I see of you on Youtube- but you have helped me make an important decision about my future and my health, Stay positive and enjoy!

[NashuaRob]

All these positive comments is EXACTLY why I can't wait for you to be my wife. I am so proud of you baby. You are such a kind and genuine person and that will always shine above all. I LOVE YOU!!!

[LoriA1162]

You were not mean spirited in you initial video about her show, you expressed it was your opinion, and you made it clear you did not mean it personally and you really wanted to like her/her show. Your Character was intact, but it is very big of you to wholly appologize. YOU WERE NOT AT ALL A BITCH OR NASTY OR CATTY!

[wisetara]

Good for you, Taunia. That's the chick I know--back in the day when I really knew you, and now, watching your videos which are so focused on positivity most of the time. We're all hypocritical and bitches sometimes. The good ones acknowledge it and learn from it. I hope I'm one of those. I know you are, honeychild. *hug from BSO Tara :-)*

[tinacrook]

I agree with MM....you voiced YOUR opinion which, last time I checked, You are entitled to. The way you're apologizing makes me think they threatened you or something! Which I hope isn't the case. Never apologize for your opinion, it's yours period. I think you're wonderful and sweet as can be and I don't think you have a mean natured or nasty bone in your body...It was nice of you to apologize...but one was all that was needed IMHO....:)

[happycath72]

Our struggles with weight are all similar but our way of dealing with the struggles always differ from person to person. Great for Carnie to call you and confront the issue and great for you to also confront it.

[MordSithJ9]

You know what, you talk about strength of character that they have, but I think you have shown a real bravery and strength apologising like that and being genuinely sorry! I have to say, don't be down on yourself, we all succumb to the media influence sometimes and we try not to, but sometimes that negativity gets the better of us, my point is you're a beautiful person and you're not afraid to say you made a mistake.. you're the kind of role model the world needs. Luv ya XXX Janine

[ByeByeBigButt]

How did she get your phone number?! Are sure this wasn't an ambien-induced nightmare? just kidding!  love ya taunia!

[AllyKatPerth]

I'm sure she'll get over it Taunia so don't worry yourself any more about it.

[playboysgirl08]

You have never been mean spirited ever.

Now that this all out, I think it is time we all move on. So many of us WLS people, lose weight/gain weight we are all human. Carnie is just being brave putting her public struggle out in the open.

Now, lets move on Diva, you have so many great things to say!

[meltingmamamelted]

That was a LOT of apologizing, I really want to know what they SAID to you. And, reading the other comments -- Vlogs are Vlogs. People video journal about their personal opinions. Sometimes they are the popular opinion, sometimes not. I don't know. I'm torn, I feel like you're in detention or something here. :/

[ru2cute4me]

It takes a big person, first, to admit they've made a mistake. Second, to admit it. Especially on an open forum like this one. Hooray for you Diva....you're quite a gal!

[MetteLine80]

5 stars <3

[120togo]

I LOVE CARNIE!!!! She is so great. I watch her show every week. I hope it doesn't end for a long time.

I think it's good that you realize what you did was wrong.

You are right you were being like one of those judgmental people who leave YOU comments.

It doesn't feel good!

[msarcomere]

The difference in others' "hater" comments on your vlog and what your OPINION was on a show you saw was intention.

You (I am sure) had no intention of being cruel, belittling while the haters thrive on being such.

Take care.

I see a special guest at your wedding...or a spot on the Bonnie Hunt show....

:)

[msarcomere]

Unless she heard something on the radio show (didn't hear it so I don't know if you talked about this), there wasn't reaaly anything bad about what you said on the Unstapled Vlog of yours.

Every time you mentione how you felt about the show and how it was portraying Carnie you would add something positive.

Life isn't sunshine and rainbows and I'd rather hear an honest opinion even if I didn't like it than all fluff and kudos.

Apologizing for any hurt feelins was indeed a good thing.

[neecyd63]

Well said. We all have said and done things we are not proud of and wish we could take back. Well done in stepping up publicly and owning yours. On a brighter note congrats on finding your wedding venue! :)

[jazzdiva04]

Three words to you, Taunia...brave, humble and gracious.

[kundera30]

My new year's resolution is to think before I speak and to keep the negative things to myself. It is working out very well.

Great video. I am sure Carnie understands.

[JenniMiddled]

I have always like Carnie because she seems like a "real" woman, trying to live life the best way she knows/learns how. I have also been following your vids since before your surgery since you also seem like a "real" woman doing the same. It takes a strong character to admit when you've made a mistake/judgment. In my mind, this just reinforces why I follow you. Seems like you are both the "real" women I envisioned you to be. Her for calling you directly, you for responding with an apology. :)

[Jazmine375]

Taunia, you're so sweet and always so upbeat and obviously try to be supportive of everyone..go figure that the one time you feel the need to say something negative and voice an unfavorable opinion..of someone famous you figure will NEVER see it or know..or care..and she does see it and calls you ...LOL It's great that you apologized to her..after all, she is human and has feelings, as you know..and personally I like Carnie..but don't beat yourself up over it You can't please everyone :O)

[19la54]

You explained it well....don't feel bad.

But....she is on a REALITY show....what you said was tame to compared to what else she is getting....she can't be that thin skinned.

You must feel like you were called to the principals office.

[kkimberly2004]

I love it when it people can admitt to their mistakes and its even more wonderful when we can forgive.

[WhiteAura13]

Having gotten 2 know U a bit over the course of the past 1/2 year I dont think U have a forked tongue or anything like that. I cant comment on the specifics of this matter 'cause I didnt hear the radio program however there is nothing wrong with expressing an opinion provided that there was no malicious intent involved. The fact that Carnie Wilson called U to discuss the matter is a good thing though! It opened lines of communication and thats always key to better understandings of one another.

[iltommyd]

Mistakes do not define ones character, How you react to them does !!!

[belovedideas]

I think it's very enlightened and compassionate of you to recognize that when folks say stuff about you it hurts and you turned around and did the same thing. You recognized the toughest part of the Golden Rule! Enacting it...lol. I'm glad you two spoke and hopefully smoothed things out. Beauty from ashes, baby, beauty from ashes.

[IamKris411]

you know, you're right about the ''if you don't have anything nice to say...'' I have been thinking. I mean people give their opinions here on youtube all the time, and that's kind of what it's for... but when I watched that video you made initially - and when I responded to it, I didn't automatically take it as you were tearing her down - but maybe the way you said it wasn't super nice - but at the same time you're human. That was nice that she called to talk to you about it...

[IamKris411]

I mean maybe if anything you could have worded it differently - but I think it's big of you to apologize... and it's nice that you and Carnie could talk about it. I've always liked her - she's a big inspiration - and although she has had struggles, and even gained some weight back - I still see her as a major success... and I probably wouldn't have had the thought to have WLS if it weren't for her back then. I still remember reading the article in the laundrymat at like 19 or 20 yrs old.

[IamKris411]

If anything - her struggles make it easier to relate to her.. and I hate that just because one is a celebrity, they are always under constant scrutiny and judgement. but such is life... <3 I think you're great Taunia ((T))) hugs Have a great Sunday...

[iltommyd]

First Comment?

[meltingmamma]

You apologizing says a lot about your character! If she watches enough of your videos, she will know that you are typically a very positive person!

Congrats on the venue!!! :)

[crosspecans]

well done. peace~

[mdefil23]

The Beach Boys!

Good Vibrations!!

Where is Brian Wilson?