Re: Untitled Part 2 of 2 (Watch Part 1 First)

[TheMitochondrie]

just wanted to share my support for your views. People dont realize how adoption actually hirts us adoptees, what loss we have to go through, what depressions we can at times suffer from

[bongdongde25]

I am sorry you have had such a sad life - I am sorry for you

[JimiRue]

I created an account here just to post a comment on your "loss" video, which you chose not to post. I find your attitude toward your life disturbing. Now I watch this video... you say that abortion should be chosen over adoption?  "ABORTION loss" is much more damaging to a woman's mind and ongoing mental health than adoption. For a bm, to chose to give her child life, a fair chance at life is certainly FAR better than to kill that child and snatch away everything they have or will ever have.

[JimiRue]

First of all, I was adopted at birth myself (on newyears eve 1983) I have a limited relationship with my birth parents.... but I look at my adoptive parents as my "mom and dad" and I love them for what they've given me (a family).... and they love me for what I've given them (a son). You however have NEVER given your adoptive parents a daughter, just a royal pain in their ass....

[galyungun]

I saw both videos. i also like to watch lucky boy. i'm a bmother. i'm sorry your reunion isn't going that well. the searcher/ searchee is interesting. my child found me. i was buried in grief and silence for 35 yrs. loss of baby changes a person. i hope you are reading alot, maybe you'll come to embrace your mother more -if she's a good person. I have many of same conclusions as you - I would never ever encourage someone to give away their baby. they will die 1000 deaths over that 4ever

[magicdancer32208]

what a twisted attitude you have, DONT HAVE CHILDREN!

[smni70]

I am confused. You are now more for abortion then adoption, does that mean you wish you had been abort instead of adopted?

[chicagociccone]

Well, that's not what that means, but yes, I do.

[stottsm]

I am glad you were not aborted, glad that you are alive and that you have friends that love you.

[chicagociccone]

Not worth it.

[stottsm]

Not worth what, haveing your friends love you, not sure what you mean when you say its not worth it.

[chicagociccone]

The sacrifices I have made have not been worth it.

[keenamaca]

I just really want you to know that perhaps thanks to you, other children wont have to go through this. I cannot express my gratitude enough. You're a strong chick, though, and I wish there were more like you. Too many naive young women are misled by this adoption scam, not realizing that they are the best mother for their own baby, and circumstances change, not knowing the harm their most precious love is enduring in being separated. So thankyou for even just giving a glimpse.

[chicagociccone]

If you two want to sling mud, that's fine. But don't do it here. All other uncivil, non-progressive, and otherwise immature comments will henceforth be deleted.

[adopttwins]

You're calling me "snarky".  Your immaturity is greater than hers

[adopteesX3]

too bad you feel that way - you may feel differently as you mature. Life sucks for all of us, but opting for abortion wasn't in the cards for you or you wouldn't be here. I'm not pro-adoption, but I'm not pro-choice either. Adoption is an awful and terrible system and has to be considered within each scenario. there is no black and white, it's all grey

[chicagociccone]

Too bad? For whom?

And it's funny, as your comment implies that I'm simply a child and can't really comprehend what I'm feeling, but these feelings developed AS I matured. There's nothing childish about my feelings.

As for life sucking, I never implied that my life would be different or better had I not been given, up and yes, if I had it my way, I would have been aborted.

[baseballgeek]

I hate to see you say that, and I don't even know you. You're beautiful and reasonable and you are perfectly right in feeling as you do, but I pray that you will continue to heal both with yourself and with your natural mom! Much luck and good wishes (and do your best to ignore the vigilante anti-adoptionists on here).

[chicagociccone]

I AM an anti-adoptionist.

[baseballgeek]

I kind of figured that. :) But, I was referring to those here who seemed to be attacking you for your feelings, which is why I used the term "vigilante." Peace.

[clhaiser]

Wow, what a shame you feel so bad about yourself. Thats what I call a profound lack of personal power. Please dont have children. They'll end up hating themselves.

[AmRisArt]

That was deliciously condescending. Not only because "as you mature" is rather snarky, but it clearly indicates that she's "not mature" now.

Furthermore, since you read cards, can I have a reading? I'd like to know if all that I suffered in my life was "in my cards."

I'm interested to see if, not knowing exactly how much I've suffered, you'll condescendingly just say yes to save your face.

[chicagociccone]

I look like a goon.

[TheresaTheUngrateful]

That was so nice of you to do that.