Flashback: Derek leaving Addison

[elecktra19831]

damn her for doing that to him with mark i did not blame him for doing it but hes not perfect either

[MRoberts1989]

derek isnt a dick..she cheated on him with his best friend...ask yourself if this happened to you would you be angry?..too right you would be!

[Suziemartin]

If I found my wife with my best friend I would have thrown more than her clothes out the house !

[letgo2217]

This was such a sad scene. I felt so bad for Addison. Great acting by Kate Walsh.

[kAylEighChaoS093]

It makes me mad that people call derek a prick. His wife cheated on him with his BEST FRIEND and he was furious and betrayed. He kicked her out for two minutes and let her back in, and instead of making her get out of his house HE left, when he could have left her in the rain. Meredith is not a slut, she didnt know he was married. Derek tried to to right by addison and it didnt work, there was just too much damage. So dont call him a prick, I think he earned a little anger.

[LetYourLiteShine17]

@kAylEighChaoS093 totally, I couldn't have said it better!

[aboutashow]

I've always hated Derek. He's a one-sided, arrogant prick

[clubpenguindoll]

@aboutashow I agree!

[JackLivesTogether]

Best scene of the series.

[Mongoz08]

addison <3

[Impossible998]

This made me cry :( I like Addison more than Meredith. Personally, Meredith is a slut, and Derek is insensitive..

[anastasia1998able]

How can he do that to her ?

[anastasia1998able]

He is crazy

[drrenafarma]

i love addison!

derek is bad

[scarredbanner]

I love addison. at first I didn't because I was so into merder but now every time I watch Grey's I just keep my fingers crossed that Kate Walsh will guest star.

[clubpenguindoll]

I kinda like Addek.

[xoRubyyxo]

this scene really bothers me i like merder more than addek but still this was heart wrenching.

[codylinleyishawtt]

i like how grey's anatomy's writers and producers (whatever) portrayed this whole derek and addision situation. everything in life doesn't end up being "happily ever after", and this scene shows LIFELIKE circumstances. in the end derek didn't end up with addision, which actually happens in life. honestly amazing, just like kate's acting here. it's fantastic!(:

[thereallyquitesimple]

This mademe cry.. I felt so sorry for Addie..

[xxLastTimeAroundxx]

Ugh! I don't condone adultry but I feel so awful for Addison. Derek should NOT have done that. He should've let her explain, not shut her out and put her in the RAIN! And even if he wanted a divorce, he could've done it calmly. I do not like Dr. McDreamy OR Dr. McSteamy.

[bean09ful]

love this addison and derke would not and has naver mad a cute couple like mer/der do so yes i love this scene because he throws her out and he leaves but i hate seein mcdreamy hurt.... do Not feel bad for Addison though

[pascene27]

I can relate when Derek said: "I can't look at you..I look at you I feel nauseous..I just..(trying to catch his breath)..we're not derek & addison anymore..."

-I felt exactly that way recently.......When someone cheated on you, especially the one you thought would be th love of ur life.....it makes u crazy, and looking at that person really makes u feel nauseous...

[rhoyourboat77]

alright you people are stupid. ADDISON SCREWED DEREKS BESTTFRIEND. how can you not feel bad for him. oh and later on they find out that addison almost had HIS BEST FRIENDS BABY. and when derek slept with meredith at least it was someone addison hasn't been best friends with for 20 years. and as far as derek was concerned at that point they were over. Addison and meredith were in love with him thts why they didnt get along.. and at least derek was honest with addison about his feelings for mer

[HeidiKlum24]

so sad:(

[enson8502]

Listen her crying. It breaks my heart.

[Casiangelesfan19]

i began hating her but she's such a good actress that know i love her and i love her character in private practice

[MrSevereful]

One of my favourite scenes!! Well done! Does anybody know what's the name of the song that starts at around 0:55 and is played until the end?

[dantapisdance]

You know, it was really hard watching Grey's Anatomy back then - I loved Meredith AND Addison AND Derek. It sucks not having someone to hate.

... But that is why I ADORE Grey's Anatomy.

[Bebe500100]

I think people give Addison too much crap.She's not a bitch or a slut.People make mistakes

[Missdancer123456789]

what episode is this?

[allieSunl]

@Missdancer123456789 Season 3 Episode 1

[KNJ2006]

Wow they are both just wow in this scene. I now see why Kate Walsh was offered her own show.

[KellyLouiseYeahx]

I remember watching this and thinking 'i have never seen either of them act this well before'

They were incredible, all that emotion, when she tries to hug him and you can see him almost giving in and oh god, amazing!

[mspreciousdust]

"we're not derek and addison anymore". God that so sad. tearing up

[Hockeywhoo]

Only addie could pull tis scene off :)

[italoluder]

screwing my husbands best friend is absolutely unforgiveable.........

[tapion0606]

SHe is so beautiful (L)

[litsaki1990]

addison is amazing!!!!!!!

[cl3angetaway]

shes soo in the wrong,but i cant help but feel sorry for her,with the loud crying, begging, messy hair, eyeliner running down her face &running desperately after derek!

[pinkpuma24]

I know her crying just tore at my heart. I was genuinely scared when he threw her out the door. Derek's never like that, it's just not him.

[paulimah]

she slept with his best friend, how can anyone feel sorry for her? If were u i doubt u would be sorry

[alymiley]

poor Addie! i love her!:) she's sweet!

[CocoChanel928]

Having an emotionally absent husband isn't an excuse for cheating with his best friend. Addison is definitely in the wrong here, for breaking the marriage vows and for putting herself between Mark and Derek's lifelong friendship. But I still love her character-- she's made a lot of mistakes but you can still sympathize with her.

[SquirrelsROCk291]

i thought sloan said tht derek just walked away when he saw addison&him naked in his room?

[ccooper23]

I think Mark would have seen him walking away, but Addison would have followed him like she did. I'm sure Mark is still in their bedroom, which means he only saw the walking away, not Derek leaving.

[cazia9]

i thin this is later, that he came home after he got through his initial shock, and is now absolutely livid

[KristineSpears]

pooor addison :'( i feel so bad for her ! she and derek were ment to be ! This made me cry :(

[WinkyGlinda09]

I think i cried when he left her xD

addison, come back :(

[courtttt33]

yeah, she is such a great actress.

addison and derrek should have stayed together and i wish addison/kate wouldn't have left greys. :(

[ccooper23]

totally agree.. Meredith and derek are so sad to watch.. Merediths always trying to off herself. I mean come on, how bad can her life be? She's dating McDreamy..

[lilbaconbitsss]

i really like addison, im sad she left greys anatomy :(

[julioooooop]

somebody knows the name of the song???

[Kw9mtr]

which episode is this??

[PjD015]

3x01

[stevedacool]

It's actually 2x01

[PjD015]

nah its 301 with all the flashbk frm the past

[stevedacool]

It's 2x01!! You also get to see how Derek meets Meredith in that one.

[PjD015]

its 3x01, 2x01 is wen addie comes on the pregant women whos twins who have TTT and the women all bitter cos her hubby left her n thinks dat mer did the same to addie 3x01 is which the baby left which is the dad shouting at the beginning

[heva15]

This Is A Really Good Scene.

Kate Walsh Is An Amazing Actor And Grey's Anatomy Just Isn't The Same Without Her.

[1990140]

I liked Addison a lot, but she completely deserved to be thrown out in the rain. This scene is so powerful, it was really well done

[IcelandDisney]

I totally agree with you!

[alkione14]

i dont! :P

she's just awesome!!!

nobody deserves this!!! ...

poor addison...

[yulygrace]

this is so emotional...you can actually feel the characters!.....patrick and kate are great actors!!!

[mchhottiee04]

after seeing these clips again i made up my dream episode where derek slips one to many drinks to hide his pain and does something to merr. but you never know. he's a little screwed up right now XP

[materialgrl47]

I still can't believe that derek would do that, but then again, he has matured as the season's go on, so I hope he won't do that to mer

[impasse0124]

I love Addie...Derek shouldn't have tossed her outside but he was really upset...plus he did let her back in and hugged her...i'm not saying he wasn't wrong though

[GeOhEaRtsYoU]

wow kate walsh is completely amazing :)

[Populazzi4ever]

uhhhh!! i can't believe him he's such a jerk!! i know Addie is not completely inocent but he can't leave her out in the rain like this!!!!

[riza72]

Shut up people who said that she's a bitch !

She's not a slut !

Addie is so sensitive and Derek doesn't let her argu !

It's a realy sad moment...

Poor Addison, Poor Derek...

I love Addie !! <3

[wallawallablingbling]

i agree!! Addie is such a woman.. sometimes i really hate derek for hurting her all the time.. Addison is going through hell just to get her husband's attention and love.. I want addie to be HAPPY!!!

[greystwilightoth]

i don't really like her that much, but i still prefer meredith, but i cried at this scene, when people cry i cry! it's a known fact

[Sweewolf]

@riza72 You do know that it's not real, aye? ;) Hihihihi!

[shezrecklessx]

i love addison(:

[Axik16]

which episode was this ?

[valey108]

season 3 episode 1

[MooMoo1125]

she is a fuckin bitch.

[soccerdog270]

which episode was this?

[michelec1317]

he is such a jerk

i mean at first u feel that he was right, but after this... it's just mean and unthoughtfull i know she slept with his best friend but she was deeply sorry and willing to start over, when he didn't even give her a chance

[Olliekooky]

if you pause around 12 seconds it looks as though she's holding a trumpit

[haddington]

LMAO these are the silly things that i always notice

xKx

[Pink88200]

fuckin bitch!!!

[XxfallenpetalsxX]

whats the song at the end u cant hear it clearly but i will like anyone to reply to this and this is sooo sad :(

[AlchemyAngel2007]

omg he did that to her.that so mean (but he looks so hot and sexy when he's mad like that but still that was mean.

[kelseymovies]

you spelt greys wrong :P just to let u no

[EviliciousCookie]

i love addek....and i think he should have choose addison...meredith is okay...but i think she and mcdreamy...hm...that doesnt fit...

[patygusson]

I don't feel sorry for Derek,maybe if he wasn't such an ass and indifferent with Addison (like he said once),she wouldn't cheat on him..Addison is too good for waste her time in a guy like Derek,thank God she moved on....he was an ass with Meredith too...but I don't care for Meredith,I don't like her anyway.

[Liz86000]

Plus, it's Meredith & Derek FOREVER!! (even with all that Derek did to her (lies, not chosing her, calling her a whore, then the "space" thing, then our good boy don't understand why she doesn't trust him with her problems??!), I'm still a Mer/Der fan!).

[Liz86000]

Come ON people!! Addison IS the whore here!! She cheated on him with his BEST FRIEND!! And about Derek not giving her a 2nd chance? Must I remind you that she stayed with MARK for MONTHS, and just came to Seattle when she was told that Derek was finally happy with someone else?! I like Addison NOW (season 3), but definitely NOT before. She told it herself, she should have stepped aside.

[Zacluver19]

i guess ur right buuuuut, those r just the things we loved about this show. idk now that Addisons gone.....its just not the same anymore. it's like less drama and Grey's Anatomy REVOLVED around drama. although shes on Private Practice (love that show) shes still my fav...shes the only reason i watch Private Practice.

also this part makes me sad.

as good of a couple i think Meridith and Derek make, this part just makes me wish he woulda stayed with Addison.

[lexabuti]

How does it feel to have someone neglect you. Not saying that it's right, what Addison did, but when someone pays you the attention your husband didn't, it is human nature to feel wanted an stray. What is really nerve wrecking is the way Derek just leaves and easily forms a new life, 'just like that' (while he's still married to Addison). Ok. fine, you formed a new life but don't lead your wife on by pretending to love her while your in love with someone else. Derek should have just let her go.

[Liz86000]

But SHE didn't want to let him go, right? When she realized her little thing with Mark was a sham & when she learnt Derek was happy with someone else, she hightailed it to Seattle & kept pestering him to take her back.

[lexabuti]

...she didn't pester him, she clearly gave him the divorce papers. Which puts the ball back into Derek's court. Addison just said that she still loved him and only asked if he was willing to give them a second chance. Derek could have said "Addison I don't think my heart would be in it if I took you back" ...and sign the papers! Look, Addison was wrong to go with Mark, but if Derek hadn't played that whole 'merry-go-round' with their hearts, people could have moved on a whole-lot sooner.

[Liz86000]

I agree with you. Derek was wrong too of course. He toyed with her & Meredith, and now he does it with Meredith & Rose. What a nice guy, eh?

[soccerdog270]

but you know what..the thing is when she gave him the divorce papers she knew that he was going to think about it or else she wouldn't have done it. Because like she said, if she had seen the smallest chance of him still loving her she wouldn't leave seattle.

[SoulFallenFromTheSky]

I looove Addison... and this cheating... well Derek should have seen it coming since he was NEVER home !

[mcdreamyishot]

i did not like addie but now that derek is not with her i like her a littel

[natitasha]

Addison? she is suck!

[BRENDACAROLINA]

addison rocks!!! she is my fav character of greys anatomy!!!

[mdicag]

povera Addison.e Derek è proprio furioso.derek fatti coraggio

[drdre0990]

addie is awesum! it's dereks own fault she cheated on him. ppl have needs, stupid

[zasyzasy]

:'( poor addie, she doesnt deserve that derek left her out of the house. she's the best character in GA, and that scene's one of my favourites, addison is <3

[XlookitsChantelleOX]

totally team addison here..

and kate walsh fricken shines in this scene! shes amazing!

[Zacluver19]

alllready!!

[babygriff22]

i love addie she cheated on derek but only cos he was absent in their marriage wat he done 2 her was way worse he gave it a 2nd chance knowing that he was in love with someone else n cheated on her n broke her heart...

[ssophscrubss123]

im on addisons side, she cheated on him, but she was still proper in love with him, and she deserved better

[bittersweetQ]

I'm on Addies side. Ok, she was cheating on Derek, but I think she feels lonely.

I feel MUCH MORE sympathy for Addison that for Derek.

By the way, this is my favorite scene of GA by far.

So sad. I cried. ;(

[DetectiveMcPDQ]

Wow,I have to say I have sympathy for both.First of all I have sympathy for Addie because she rocks and it's just really sad.Second of all I feel bad for Derek because he's really cute,lol.About Mark and Mer,I personally think they make a good couple!

[SpazzyFairy]

I don't care whether she slept with Mark or not, he gave her the attention that Derek never gave her, right? Nonetheless I hate Mark. I like Meredith, but I love Addison, I feel a lot more sympathy and that for her in this. Derek is a twat.

[trainwreckchild]

i really dont like derek..he always seems so cool & collected. i adore addie!! she's so much more human

[JainaSolo325]

I love Addie, my mom loves Derek. I can't stand Derek and my mom thinks Addie is an adultorous bitch, but Addie is a better character

[KitKat1990]

He can hardly talk can he!? HE SLEPT WITH MEREDITH! I love Addison whereas I have no sympathy for Derek whatsoever, he played Addie and her against each other. What a hypocrite!

[bpiscis86]

Yeah, but Addison slept with Mark before Derek slept with Meredith...and Mark was the best friend of Derek...

[KitKat1990]

True, however Derek didn't know that Addison had cheated on him and still cheated on her without a second thought. For all he knew she could have been faithful.

[snl891]

well, actually, addison definitely cheated on him first with mark,there was no doubt about that- however, I still feel SO much more for Addison in this situation because the only reason she cheated on him in the first place was to try and get him to care and pay attention to her. She loves him so much, and even before meredith came along he never really loved her back the same way. And then to take her back purely out of obligation when he knew he was in love with meredith? not cool.

[24kenna]

i luv that not cool! haha

but .... derek is an ass

ok addison was wrong... but derek he just sleep with every women in front of him

[surfygirl21]

@bpiscis86 plus he'd already left addison when he slept with meredith 

[purplespork]

@KitKat1990 and it happened a few months

[sherulzz]

@KitKat1990 Uhm, yeah. By the time he slept with Meredith, the relationship with Addy was already broken. They were separated. Plus, it wasn't just a "he slept with her". He fell in love with her.

[curiouscookie]

The best acting I have seen from GA in a long time. I dont care what she did, I <3 Addison