City Sisters 2 Episode 8 (Part 1) - Mixed race marriage

[red44ever]

To all the ugly malis who are running after pakis and terrorist arabs know this when they are finished with you make sure not to return for you have become the property of them. Mixing of race is dirty and unpleasant, the only people who should practise it are the ethopians so they can be bred out. Also the only other pople who practise this and love it are the self hating niggers who would get with any white woman even if she is a fat pig looking one.

[cjfl1962]

Historically, it has been men who have made up these rules. it is an attempt at preserving and passing their linage; a way achieving immortality through their heirs. This is of course foolish. Let people live and have their own in marriage. After all, they have to live with who they marry not parent's and extended family.

[hummingbird975]

I think people should be very careful before embarking on interracial marriages because apart from the difficulties that people have generally, it can leave both the participants and the children are left lost. Women especially if they are not reverts should think carefully before doing this.

[roxcisoni33]

I'm a somali girl 17 and i really really for interracial marriage or relationship . I believe that you shouldnt be set on one preference but if you are its your choice no problem with it by personally i like to go with anyone:)

[somalification]

I'm Somali and there's no way I'm marrying a non-Somali. It's my preference.

[UmmMuadh3]

@somalification Looool

[cjfl1962]

@somalification Preference or closed mined, or racist. But, of course you know you are not embracing true Islamic teachings.Historically, it has been men who have made up these rules. it is an attempt at preserving and passing their linage; a way achieving immortality through their heirs. This is of course foolish. Let people live and have their own in marriage. After all, they have to live with who they marry not parent's and extended family.

[lady005]

I'm inshallaah marrying a half pakistani/british brother and I'm myself half somali/yemeni :D I think marrying someone outside your race is a beautiful thing and as muslim we shouldn't even be surprised about this because we are all one Ummah :D . Those who find is strange or think it's wrong in my eyes don't know their religion very well. May allah give us the understand of the deen and grant us all righteous partners and a blessed marriage that will not only last in this dunya but also akhira

[pashun88]

I used to entertain the thought of possibly marrying outside my race, but now...I prefer the men of my culture. I'm not against whatever others choose to do. To each his own

[gazer786]

do duah ya brothers and sisters that i will have a mixed marriage aswell inshallah

[TheFalisia11]

Subhanallah im 22 somali gurl and im in love n wana get married to native NZ man who became muslim 2 years ago. we reali inlove ready to settle down but my family 100% against it n dnt suport us. the somali community is against us while his family n community support us tho they r non muslims.. so sad walah i dnt wana dispoint my family yet if we dnt get married n kep dating each other we will commit sins.. he alrdy bring imams frm mosque to ask 4 my hand n my mom said no,,inshalah we stil tryn

[nololwacan]

@TheFalisia11 : go for it baby...ur family will come to terms with reality.Many of us r married to otha faiths..it's been normal thru the ages.This new religious phenomena is very recent since the begining of muslim fundamentalism....they r bunch of haters & most of thm have no good education to see the world thru...

[TheFalisia11]

@nololwacan jazakallah hun for the advice, i honestly apreciate it,, inshallah i will go for it with the help of ALLAH.. after all family will always be there and will do come around when they see the reality.. muh love huns

[nololwacan]

@TheFalisia11 :much love & good luck

[pashun88]

@TheFalisia11 What a dilemma! Good luck Abaayo, and be strong. Maybe try praying istakhara and hopefully everything will work out. Where i live its becoming more of a phenomenon for Somalis to marry outside the culture and people are getting used to it...kinda. But some are still very much against it. If he has good character they should not refuse him. Its been a month. Has anything changed?

[TheFalisia11]

@pashun88 Thanks for the comment hunz,, its been a month and no nothing has changed for the better yet in my family side.. they have actually got me out of the country he is in and conviced me to move away frm him so he cant influence me to marry him, according 2 them im 2 young for marriage lol and am 22..but still we hvnt givin up yt he is moving to same country as me now so he can get job here to make enough money to show my family that hes worth it to mary me. and yes i did prayed istakhara

[pashun88]

@TheFalisia11 Your fam left the country becuz of the guy? Wow, thats a bit much. Your the same age as I. I'm surprised by their thinking your too young...my parents think its high time I married since I'm nearing towards finishing my degree! lol I wish you good inshallah. Be patient and dont do anything you would regret. It looks like the guy truly loves you. Good luck..

[red44ever]

@TheFalisia11 Your parents have your best interest at heart, so listen to them and stop prostituting yourself to white pigs.

[TheFalisia11]

@red44ever u r the pig here mate...parents may have the best interest but if it comes to sayin no to anoither muslim just cos of their race then its unislamic...well u r somali, what woiuld u know about islam anyways? u destroyed ur own fuckin country n u rnow buggin walfare from the white pigs...educate urself moron..

[red44ever]

@TheFalisia11 A) I did not destroy my country I was 1 when the war kicked off. B) I am doing masters in petrol-geology at Imperial College and both my parents work, so there goes your welfare theory. C) I know more about Islam than you do seeing as you dated this guy and this is haram. Hey your white master taught you well, with your generalising of Somali people even though you are a ugly ass mali yourself.

[misscamara12]

The woman in the middle seems like she is obsessed with the idea of having mixed raced kids. She seems like she just wanted lighter children. I do not believe mixed marriage is wrong, but some people do it for superficial reasons.

[avastacia]

@misscamara12 lol

[lub783]

why dont they get grown ups to talk about these kind of issues instead of these kids, no offence to them. theyve got reverts to talk about a very cultural issue and one of them says ..i dont understand why people dont want mixed marriages. well in answer to her the older community are scared as they dont know the family backgrounds of these random people who come asking for their daughters hand in marriage. that can be better sought from within the community. u cant force ppl to mix.

[misscamara12]

@lub783 well said. they should have had some born muslims or immigrant Muslims on their panel to get their perspective. If someone wants to marry within their culture, they are sometimes quickly labeled racist. But no one says anything about those who prefer other races to their own. It is the same thing. It all boils down to preference.

[lub783]

@misscamara12 the youth have been brainwashed completed its like they want people to hate themselves and their culture. on their programme today they said how it was soo wrong for the bride and bridegroom to look at each other through a mirror which is a custom in some cultures on the wedding day. their comment was "would the sahabah do that?" WHAT A RIDICULOUS QUESTION! the sahabah well most of them were from the middle east, islam has spread all across the world, now theyre brainwashing people

[lub783]

@lub783 to just disown their culture completely and become arabs. why should i as a british asian dress, eat and marry like an arab? its soo stupid everywhere across the world people have kept their culture alongside upholding their islamic values.ok so sometimes it clashes but looking into a mirror or have a dubbata (asian scarf)over the groom or bride is hardly going against the shariah.i have no idea wat kind of world these people are in. wud the sahabah allow them on the tv?

[misscamara12]

@lub783 Being a muslim does not mean we should act like an arab. Some arabs are not even muslim. It is really important to preserve your culture. Yes, there might be a few things that go against Islam, but most things don't so what is wrong with maintaining that? You can not follow the few things in your culture that go against Islam, but that doesn't mean you should completely throw away your culture. Besides, didn't most of the sahabah marry fellow arabs as well?

[misscamara12]

@misscamara12 You cannot change who you are. No matter how well you speak arabic or try to act like an arab, you will never be arab. You can be a good muslim without throwing away your culture. I just hate it when people criticize others for wanting to marry within their group. They say you are racist or limiting yourself. 

[lub783]

@misscamara12 totally agree! this is the narrow minded community we live in, no wonder muslims arent progressing most of them are sheep, no one is a free thinker.

[haramacad]

bullshit i Mary my own blood that is the way god made us. to not mix with other races this girls are sitting here for some shit.

[GeekyFatima]

0:31, i think she's my cousin!

[hannieahmed]

@GeekyFatima u think?

[GeekyFatima]

@hannieahmed lol yeah

[live2givesadaqa]

mashallah I am in a mixed marriage, i am white canadian and my husband is Arab, palestinian, I will say sometimes it is hard to adjust to the cultural things but at the same time it is a great learning experience and we are great alhamdulilah

[bronco200005]

Sorry bt I have to say that sister wid the black hoodie is beutiful!!!

[salps3]

the reason for this is because it is all culture

[AskariWaryaa]

Sayockail if you are an atheist or an agnostic individual that's fine, your limited mind and capacity has lead you to that route. Now Allah has said there is no compulsion in religion or the way you live your life, so go scout and do what you want, instead of being an extremist who cannot accept that others have a faith and are more enlightened than you.

[SayocKali1]

There is a problem with a so-called all powerful god and his command to worship him, why would an all powerful being demand worship? If you say it benefits us and not him, then why does he command us to worship him 5 times a day at specific times, specific rituals, phrases, cloths etc... If we don't... he'll throw you in hell? hmm Something doesn't seem right with this scenario. Besides how do you know you're not worshipping a demon?

[afrolatinadamien]

the host is very beautiful

[fatima130784]

Im sorry but you can't say white people are not racist cos some are.there are good & bad people everywhere.there are white familys that don't want to get maried to someone not white.everyone is different.I married an asian.were my sister will marry a English man.

[H1MLA]

What a load of Bollocks. Muslims are well known for their inherent racial hatred of non-muslim. This idea that islam doesn't see colour is a lie. Muslims hate Black people in the UK & will NOT like their daughters to marry one. Even those Blacks stupid enough to convert to islam, found to their horror, how racist these muslims are. Unlike Whites folks, who don't place conditions when marying Blacks, muslims are out & out racists. sad but true. Goodbye!

[nololwacan]

@H1MLA ;agree with you most of times..go try to marry saudi/dubai women!!!!You only have to be same nationality & color.Black saudi can not marry arab saudi women & the great majority of black muslims can not marry arab muslims unless the latter is poor & that's even negligible%.

90% of times color is paramount if ur blk.How many non-black muslim men r married to blk muslim women.0000000000000000000001%.­.People r people;religion is not going to be a factor when am ready get hooked.

[H1MLA]

@nololwacan Well said, seconded. These covert muslim racist can vote down my initial comments above, untril pigs fly, but it won't change the factual TRUTH echoed in it. I agree 100% with your comments posted. I do NOT know any Black married to a Saudi or Dubai woman. These muslims are the worst racists on earth, sad but true. Good on you, that religion does not figure in your decision when picking a life partner. People who think along racial & religeous lines are backward & stupid, FACT!

[duck9382]

the sister in the middle is sooooooooo pweeetyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy =)))))

[StudentofKnowledge99]

Insha'Allah I will be marrying a somali sister soon and coming from a neo-nazi background prior to islam, I cant wait for the adventure to begin. May Allah bless my upcoming marriage...ameen

[somalifighta]

her father and brothers are gonna hunt you down until you commit suicide

[sadiyo09]

@StudentofKnowledge99

May Allah Bless your Marriage with Love and Happiness :-)

Ameen

[Destinay4lyf]

@StudentofKnowledge99 Ameen

[nas20mk]

somali cause alot of trouble they try to take over uk finkin its thier country and cause trouble in thier own country pirates kidnapping uk brish people

[somalifighta]

if i see a non-somali with one of my somali sisters ima knock him out somali kings need to protect your somali queens

[MohammedMuzzy87]

wow real Muslim Huh akhi?

[armyforever87]

it is a very nice show, but they didn't show both sides, for example am an arab and i can never see myself with someone who is not, there is way to many language and cultural barriers

[SayocKali1]

does Islam allow inter-religious marriage? i heard it was ok for muslim men to marry a christian or jew, but why is there a double standard for women? It's ok regarding race because you learn from both cultures so why not with religions? Didn't God take into account that when "he made us different tribes and religions." That he (why do we refer to god as a he) didn't factor in that we have different beliefs and creeds can islam co-exisit with others in peace and allow inter-religious marriage?

[madina55]

@sayockali1. That is totally different. Islam is a way of life. And we believe and know for sure that only Islam is the straight path with no doubt. We respect ours for their choice but we do not accept any way of life that associates partners with Allah. Islam is a pure monotheistic way of life. Muslim men r only allowed to marry "CHASED" people of the book. As for women, no because it is to protect their faith. I am a Muslim women myself. Do not make judgement with lack of knowledge.

Peace

[SayocKali1]

"Islam is a way of life." According to who please? How can you believe and know something at the same time? I know all humans need oxygen to live, I don't need to believe because that implies that you don't have facts or elements of uncertainty. Partners with Allah why does Allah care if you do? Does it harm him? His ego? His self-esteem? What do you mean by CHASED women? So its OK for men since they will dominant the child's religious upbringing. I am not making a judgment I am asking questions

[SayocKali1]

besides why are you assuming that I'm making a judgment? One asks questions because he or she doesn't have knowledge hence my question "Why are Muslim men allowed to marry up to 4 women and on top of that they can marry Jewish and Christian women as well, but if unfortunately the standards aren't applied across the board." By the way does Allah get mad? sad? glad? happy? depressed? sexually aroused? Does he breathe or blink his eyes if he has any? Can Allah be feminine?

[TheEARTHFLOWER]

@SayocKali1 islam doesnt deny muslim women marrying christian and jewish men, its something a bunch of scholers decided on, as for men having 4 wives, you must understand that Islam actually LIMITED the number to 4, it was a custom in many parts of the world and continues to be today in many non muslim societys, as 4 women not having 4 husband it stand 2 reason as there were no paternity tests, allowing men to have 4 or less compulses them to provide for these women and give them their rights

[mcgerbil18]

@TheEARTHFLOWER

and where did these scholars get there info from? Why then do Muslim societies say it's a big deal when a Muslim woman marries a non Muslim never mind the natural prejudice they harbor to ppl of different cultures that's bad enuf. If Islam said only 4 wives how come the prophet was allowed more than 4? Regardless of the situation at the time (yes I know the women at that time if not married struggled) but why didn't Allah take it to account?

[ryukenb2k]

It's not the scholars who first said about muslim woman marrying non muslims.it was prophet muhammad(saw). would you be happy if your daughter married a person who was a athiest which would lead to destruction in the marriage, Because scientists have proven that their are key pychological differences between men and woman. If I was a christian man and married a muslim woman.by god our children are going to the church and raised as christians.

[TheEARTHFLOWER]

@ryukenb2k 'honourable ulamma'? last time I checked Islam had no preasthood and i dont see anyone as an honourable or a authority on Islam then the muhammed (saws) and Allah.It really bugs me when people make me I cant question these people.and it bugs me even MORE when people are SO ignorant that they make untrue claims about Islam.

[ryukenb2k]

Salam alaikum. prophet muhammad(saw) about the three generations,and im talking about the classical ulama who are honourable and to deny that they were honourable is misguidance of your own naf's.Truth is far from munkar. And of course we can question ulama's. I never mentioned you or anyone cant.who ever says we cant are innovators and blind follower's of ulama.I blind follow Muhammad(saw).Please remember to give salams

[TheEARTHFLOWER]

@ryukenb2k How dare you claim a lie against muhammed saws and claim he said something that he never did.im wouldnt encourage any muslim to marry a non muslim but if it doesnt talk about something being haram in the quran or sunnah why do you make women feel like it is haram to them?its not about whether i would be happy and its not about science it was decided on due to the things you mentions not by allah.so do your research before you make false claims and be fearful of shirk and bid'ah.

[ryukenb2k]

You dont even return salams which Both Allah barik tal'ala and muhammad(saw) said that all muslims should do.so you are showing weakness in your charachter.Muhammad(saw) forbid muslim woman from marrying kaffirs period.you claim I commited a lie against muhammad(saw) you should pray 2 rakats of taubah for your shortcomings to Allah.refute that muhammad(saw) said a muslim sister can marry a kaffir.wallahi u will never be able to do it.

[TheEARTHFLOWER]

@ryukenb2k wa alaikum salam brother, soz for not writing that earlier.I dont get why im suppose to pray for taubah is it because i didnt write salam in my previous post or because you claim im lying? I didnt say my beloved muhammed said muslim women can marry non muslims, what i said was he DIDNT SAY THEY CANT! ofcourse both males and females cant marry mushriks,but just coz the quran says in maidah v 5 that christian jewish women have been made lawful but it doesnt deny or allow women

[ryukenb2k]

Salam alaikum. I dont understand you because you sound very dismissive of the honourable ulama. It wasnt the ulama who said muslim woman cant marry kaffirs it was prophet muhammad(saw). so I honestly dont know how you came to your conclusion.

[TheEARTHFLOWER]

@ryukenb2k my point is that the statment that women of the book have been allowed for marriage is not a sign that it cant happen the other way around, muhammed warned us about alot of things but he did not say its haram 4 muslim women to marry christian or jewish men, the quran in surah nisah states that men and women cant marry polytheists it doesnt say men cant marry polythiests and women cant marry polytheists and christians

[ryukenb2k]

"And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah alone)" [al-Baqarah 2:221],your point is refuted because the ulama have all agreed a muslima can only marry a muslim based on sahih hadiths and the seerah of muhammad(saw).Are you ok in your faith because you are questioning something that muhammad(saw) forbid.how can u be so ignorant when this is basic knowledge?

[TheEARTHFLOWER]

SayocKali1 we can never truely contemplate our lord for he is the creater and we the created but we know his qualities through allahs 99 names, the kind, forgiving, the creater of harm but also the protector from harm, we know god will be happy with his faithful servents angry with the trangressor but we can only use these emotions becuase these are what we feel and it may be simpified for our feeble human minds,

[mcgerbil18]

@TheEARTHFLOWER

how can Allah be effected by my actions, what purpose does this creator have for me? To boost his low ego? By praying 5 times a day? Your god is simply humanities fear of the unknown i.e. death etc... so people accepted the belief of a protector to save you from the mysterious of life.

[TheEARTHFLOWER]

as for god having sexual desires those are attributes of the created men and women, the lord is niether , doesnt pro-create, is the first and the last, is not in need of anyone and is above all that you ascribe.

[mcgerbil18]

@TheEARTHFLOWER

ah yes kul hua allahu ahad, "say that god is one" I agree it is one with all, in other words "all in one and one in all". You don't need prayer for sin is an illusion, you don't need shiekhs or the quran for the Truth is written within your heart. You don't need to imitate what the prophet did for you too can experience god directly and if you sincerely want to trust your self to find the truth thru your personal experience within life.

[SayocKali1]

Also please tell me what is the punishment if a Muslim leaves Islam? What do you tell the kids what will happen to them if they leave Islam?

[SayocKali1]

What was Allah doing before he created the universe?

I ask these questions because religions tend to shun skeptical inquiry and Islam is no better than the 2 Abrahamic faiths it requires believing before thinking, it believes all the answers can be explained in a text.

[afridi2007]

what a stupid question. Allah is the creator why does it matter what was he doing before he created everything. He does what he wills and whenever he wills. He always was when there was nothing he does not have any end or begining. He was always there. You needc to worry about yourself.

[SayocKali1]

how do you know Allah is the creator? Why do you call him "he" does he have a "male anatomy" ;) If he does what he wills, does that mean he can go back on his word and throw people in hell whenever he wants, or is he always good like a robot? So did he create the earth than destroy it after the dinosaurs then make it again? LOL

[moorejr1400]

@SayocKali1

because in arabic there are only two genders masculine and feminine;however, masculine carries a more generic concept conpared to a woman, meaning when we say :qul huwa allahu ahad, "say; he Allah is one... Allah has no gender what so ever, although you have masculine pronoun, but using a feminine pronoun you are adding a gender, but grammatically speaking in arabic you cant use a feminine pronoun with allah because gender does not exist with this word nor can u make it plural.

[Thismiss88]

SubhanAllah....it's really good to see open-minded people within the Ummah....sadly, however, I feel that people with this spirit formulate the minor and/or minority opinion, but what's really sad is that many of the people I've encountered from different cultures often possess very insular ideals to be so young.

[fatima130784]

Alhumduliah I am also married into mixed race, im english convert and my husband pakistani but i have to say it wasnt easy at first for his parents to except but now Alhumduliah they love me to bits and it has changed the view in there family as a couple have married in mixed marriage now...

[ztahp11]

great show....but all of these sisters are in a mixed marriage and reverts they should've got someone who is from an asian background, they could've really put forward some of the real problems...like parents worrying about language barriers, cultural barriers...

there are arguments for both sides which have not been explored

[puremuslimah02]

Salaams the sister in the grey hijab presenting is somali and is not in a mixed raced marriage but like you said the contrasting points where not argued properly

salaamz

[nas20mk]

we;; said

[Sweet321Jamilah]

Salam caleikom,You girls Rock keep up the great show!

[UmmNaRiyah]

as salam wailkum sista's of city sista's i love you show but i have one thing i really would like u all to touch the subject of artching the eye and the tattooing that is going on in the muslim community. It is know among most muslim men and women that tattooing and eye artching is cused by Allah ,inshallah could you ladies bring some proof and speak about calling back to the ways of the sunna, I think about of our problem as muslim is that we abandon sunna 4 crulture n desire

[TheFlex21]

Siraj Wahaj is right, Muslim women with hijab are the most beautiful

[muslimahgray]

i love seeing and hearing about mix marriages! mashallah! Islam is for the whole of mankind and islam is not racist!

[islamforever08]

Mashallah i am in a mix marriage i am White British and my husband is from Pakistan so my family are 100% against me when i married him one because he is from Pakistan and one because he is a praciticing muslim but he treats me like a queen and i love to visit hs country and inshallah and when we have children they will be able to be diffrent because theydont just belong to one country they have 2 diffrent country's so mashallah its a true blessing to marry someone out of you country or tribe

[kamilas84]

I have the same situation...my family are 100% against my marrige. I'm Polish and my husband also is from Pakistan. It's really sad and deprresing how people think negative. Thay don't see my happines in marrige. It's really hard for me...Inshallah thay will understand in future. I hope so.

[ginipig2008]

@islamforever08 excellent, but plz dont forget Jemima Imran Khan who married and gave birth 2 sons and left her husband Imran Khan after 8/10 years of their marriage then returned to her real life to be drunken in the pubs in England.

[H1MLA]

@ginipig2008 And what's wrong with being in a pub er? Surely, the fact that their marriage didn't work was down to islam not being compatiable with the lifestyle of a western woman than racial issues er?

[yaz7791]

*_* woweeee city sisters on youtube i've ben waiting tfor this day... aah i always miss city sisters

tmashalah keep up with the great work :D

[FatimahMuslima]

manshallah great episode!!!