oh my fucking god, bully victims are such pussies. you know, people say violence isn't the answere well, it fucking is. if you want it to stop punch the bitch, otherwise you'll always be a pussy.
It would be nice if you could present your argument without mocking bully victims here. This is where verbal / mental violence starts, which is a big part of bullying.
@Truedantalion well homeboy its kind of not to insult them when they'er well...pussies. i mean c'mon really, if you were or are bullied why the fuck are you gonna let some bitch talk shit and put their hands all over you?
(1)I very strongly agree with you that a victim needs to stand up against abuse. The thing is, if you use the methods of those who abuse you, you start becoming abusive yourself. It will escalate in a competition of who can be more violent, more aggressive, more destructive. And I find nothing more unfair if a victim who sees no other way than fighting back violently (by words or punches) then gets suspended him/herself for being a bully, too. Saw that happening way too often!
@Truedantalion nononono, just because a bully victim fights back using words or punches doesn't exactally make them abusive and want to make it a competition. it shows the bully that they ain't gonna take no shit from them any more. and if the school suspends the bully victim well, thats just plain fucking dumb. i mean c'mon why should they get suspended for standing up for themselves. plus what if they have no choice but to fight back.
I'm okay about the fighting back - meaning to draw a line and make it clear that the path of bullying ends there. But if a victim replies with actions of physical or mental violence like a bully does, and that this bully can get punished for (and will get punished, if he is being reported!), the school is indeed forced to apply the same punishment to the victim - as the punishment is in return to actions, and circumstances don't matter much. This is why other ways are needed.
@Truedantalion well you see even if the bully victim is suspended at least they showed the bully whats what. you know what i mean jelly bean. it will show the bully that they better think twice before they fuck with them again thats for sure. and if they do decide to try again well, looks like another ass beating for the bully.
It's good to stand up for oneself. But you know what I want that "other way" to be that I'm talking about? That others (friends, or even bystanders who don't even know the bully or the victim) stand up when witnessing a situation going on that is unfair and brutal and abusive! As an adult, you even have the duty to try and help prevent a crime from happening, by stepping in yourself, or at least by calling the police. Same goes for kids/bullies. No law there, "only" compassion
@Truedantalion well, even if the bully victim gets help from the bystanders its not gonna help all that much. the kid would need to hang with the crew for most of the school day to really feel safe. but, when the kids alone, thats when the bullies are gonna catch a nigga slippin and gets to dumpin on a bitch, you feel me. so insted of them realizing that they need to stop, it will also show them that the kid is still weak and will not stand up for themselves when the time comes.
(1) Your thoughts are good. But there's something else that will lead us further and keep the victim out of trouble for becoming violent themselves. Here's the deal: Knowing that there are others who are basically willing to stand up for him and help will make the victim feel stronger. To know you're not alone is a vital point in this equation - because bullies try to isolate their victims, by intimidating them massively, so they won't report them (continued)
(2) or tell others about being abused by the bully "... or else!" As soon as the victim can count on others not to look away, I know that their own self-confidence will rise. I've seen it happen! The situation may not change completely in one step, but the victim's trust in himself, their courage will grow, knowing that others are willing to help, and the victim will find the strength to indeed report a bully, who cought them alone and abused him, to the principal.
(3) As soon as the school officials get to know about bullying first-handed, and have a name and a face to the abuse, they can act. Indeed, they HAVE to act. Should the school be too lax with that, the victim's parents (who are in this game anyhow, as they love their kid and want what's best for him) have to approach the school for their kid being abused at school and the officials not reacting to it. Bullies are in the minority. And if support is there, they lose.
(2) And if you call someone a pussy, it is meant in a derogative way, no matter what. If you want to tell them that they are not acting up to their potential, that they can be stronger than they dare to be now, that they can do somethng against being abused - just say it this way. Use positive, constructive attributes. And then also offer ideas, maybe, of what the person can do apart from hitting back. There are legal ways to deal with bullying. But it takes guts to use them!
@conanthedeciever May you please stop cursing in the name of Larry and these other people that passed away? I'm going to stop fighting with you because I know that I am doing the right thing to prevent bullying.
@conanthedeciever You know what? You're a god damn pussy. Bully victims don't have to fight back. Go die in a hole you pathetic excuse for a dog. You're a fucking loser all you do is spend your time on Youtube calling people pussies when really, the only pussy that viewed this video is you. Shut the fuck up before I fucking track you down and chop your god damn dick off; if you have one.
@TheMarei292 "bully victims don't have to fight back". my god... your just fucking retarded. that prooves exactally why they are pussies. see if they don't fight back using words or punches then they want someone else to do it for them. and well, that doesn't proove shit to the bully, all it show them is that they'er even bigger pussies and that they'er gonna catch them slippin and gets to dumpin on a bitch. so...go fuck yourself.
@conanthedeciever So I take it that you're an everyday mama's boy and you bully people until they feel the urge to kill them self because you told them the shit you're saying to me right now? Who the fuck do you think you are. Bullying isn't something that is prevented by the people who are getting bullied to fight back. Bullying is stopped by the fucking bullies to stop you god damn fucking retard.
@TheMarei292 wow...your such a stupid fuck. bullying can be prevented if the kid stands up for themselves, not by being a pussy and taking it. so, go fuck yourself and eat shit you stupid bitch.
I just asked @TheMaire292 to change her tone towards you a bit, and hope you can join in, likewise. This discussion is important, and I appreciate both of your contributions.
I thank you watching, and for your concern for the topic of bullying and what can be done gainst it. Still, I want to ask you to keep the tone a bit down, and discuss in a more neutral tone. If you follow the comment dialog I had with @conanthedeceiver up to now, you will see that I asked him the same thing, and he indeed changed his tone, while still cointinuing the conversation. I think we owe Larry, Carl, Jaheem and the others some respect like that, Thank you, ~M.
Thank you, much appreciated! And we can all be a part of this: "Lead by example" - be a role model every day, because this is where it begins, and where kids learn about how to treat others in their lives.
Yes, it starts with the parents educating their kids on how to treat others. And they actually need to start by the example they give themselves. It's a lot of responsibility. And the ase of Brandon, who shot his classmate Larry, is a devastating (and extreme) example of what may happen if all of this goes wrong.
No none who has a heart in their chest instead of a stone will be untouched by the things I report about in this video ... And it is our responsibility then, to catch up with what Ellen puts into words so sensitively and clear. All of has have to join in and do what we personally can to bring that change about that is needed. Everyone can do something, in their respective ways - and every single one is needed!
Thank your for watching, and for caring. Both is much appreciated.
we need to protect and help each other people!!! we mast understand that ,by hurting others we are not getting better or stronger. we all must stand together against homophobia.
and every person , every parent must teach their child this lesson. and even though if a parent itself is against LGBT they must still give to a child anti homophobia pearch ! this'll not make them better persons, this'll not be something to be proud of the coz "the times they are changing! "
I in no way support any legislation that removes an American's right to free speech. This new anti-bully law is CRAZY!!! Ohio already has existing laws on the books to govern intimidation, assaults and telecommunications harassment. Government is NOT the moral police! Basically Ohio is enforcing criminal laws onto children without a right to due process, a right to meet their accuser or a right to trial is SCARY STUFF! Other states are passing similar laws for ADULTS! WAKE UP FOLKS!
The right to self-fulfilment / self-realization ends as soon as others get hurt by that. With constant + relentless name-calling, teasing and bullying this condition is met. We're talking of mental abuse here. The right to free speech also does not disintegrate the fact that mutual respect should be the base for human communication. And especially in the case of bullies, any claim of "right to free speech" is downright ridiculous, as bullies only aim + shoot to hurt.
A wonderful girl named Bellamy committed suicide last weekend.My brother knew her. She hung herself,She spent her last days on life support, and eventually they let her go and be with God.Bellamy was a bright, beautiful girl in HIGH SCHOOL.There is so much bullying nowadays. I've had to switch schools because of it.Listen guys, if you need to talk about anything, then message me.I'll pray for you.Just know God makes no mistakes and you are beautiful.I swear I'll pray for you, just message me.<3
My deepest condolences to Bellamy's parents + family! And I am so sorry to hear that you were forced to switch schools because bullies just would not stop, and your original school obviously was not able to deal with the issue. It is not fair if victims have to retreat, and perpetrators are allowed to have their ways, only because schools find no means to induce a change of climate amongst their students. Still a lot to do, to create a base of respect + compassion!
I watched your video, and I appreciate your resolve to put an end to bullying. But I hope + believe that we'll be able to make things happen without some of us becoming violent, in order to respond to violence. I agree with you that we cannot wait any longer! For way too much time, bullying has been tolerated, or even accepted as being part of a coming-of-age process. Both signs of helplessness have to be overcome by the masses that we are standing up, peacefully, but effectively!
she's right this is horrible it makes me sick that someone would kill someone else for liking the same sex I've seen just at my school a gay kid get jumped just cause he was gay well I saw his boyfriend show up with a baseball bat but the point is it's horrible !!!
We need to stand up for people who get bullied. But we need to do this before things get so bad that people swing baseball bats in (understandable and justified) anger! Everyone is needed in this. If everyone of us is not willing to just watch abuse happening, and if the "silent majority" of those who don't dare to help (or chose to look away) will realize that to oppose bullying gets easier when many help together, things will change. A leap of faith? Yes. Worth it? Heck, YES!!
Thank you for watching, and for your comment. Let's all help together to make Ellen's words come true. Everyone of us needs to be aware of those things - and also needs t be aware of the fact that everyone has it in their hands to do something against others being bullied and abused. And the more of us Stand Together (see link in description box) in this, the easier it gets. Bullying No Way!
a lot of people use religion to justify being cruel to gay people... those people need to understand that the bible is man written, its not perfect and it has been tampered with and translated so many times, how do we know whats in there now is what was in there when it was first written? also, i dont remember much from religion class but i do remember that i never read "love and forgive all people except..." im atheist but that doesnt mean im against religion, im against how some ppl use it...
@PUFFandRUFFLE158 I agree with you as a christian i believe everyone as a right to love & happiness. We are not a created the same if we were we would not have disabled people. The Jesus i love & honour would be more upset at people using his name to invade countries & kill innocent children. Jesus loved everyone & wanted everyone to love each other. I rather have more love in the world then hate & war. Use the bible as a guide through life not as a shield to avoid life.
@Truedantalion You are welcome. I was bullied at school for a number of reason but what i learned is that people who bully are insecure & are holding deeper insecurities. I am a nurse & youth worker at my local church i teach children to respect everyone whatever their colour,race or sexuality. This upsets me that people get so low that they kill themselves. The children of today have alot of worries & we must do all we can to help them. Thank you for your videos.
The music in the background, Ellen's face as she held back tears, and the mental images brought tears to my eyes at the beginning, and it slowly progressed throughout the video. Amazing video for such an important message!
Thank you so much for this moving feedback! I am glad that the video brings the message across. It is as important now as it was back in October 2010 that we all become part of the effort: Showing compassion and support for bully victims, so they see and feel they are not alone ... And we just as well need to stand up against bullying the very moment it happens! The message of this video will only come alive if everyone understands that we all are needed to make things change.
america is a bully country... this doesnt happened alot in other countries... family and government should teach children from a young age to love and respect people no matter how they look or no matter what but they teach children to be afraid from people and to hate people
“Religion” is the root of all evil in the world. Those homophobic monsters that hate and ultimately kill someone for being gay do so because "the old man in ski” told them. Read a book by Christopher Hitchens called: “God is not great”. Their God is a God of hatred, he doesn’t seem to survive without hating a human for one reason or another, Wake up Ellen!
@Mirfenderski I am sorry that christians have not been the wellspring of love and compasssion and empathy that we should be. I know many christians misuse God's word to reinforce their own fear and bigotry. Please know it's not the same for everyone. These stories break my heart, and I know they break God' heart, because he loves these kids more than we are capable of.
Thanks a lot for this comment. Religion so often gets misused, by denying the true core values and, instead, focusing on separating and segragating. This is not how human society is meant to be. Your words point to a different approach, and it's important that you make your voice heard.
If everybody does what they can, we are on a good way. What a single person can do may seem to be not much - but still, it's so much more than nothing!
Ellen is right. We need "Ethics" or "Values" as a class in schools these days. Children are bombarded with images every day that they might not understand and with the internet, the family dynamic is changing and in some cases, children are being raised less by their parents and more and more by the media.
Agreed. Social structures have changed, and schools etc. need to adjust accordingly. This will mean budget changes (not cuts, though, but raises!), and create need for new staff. It will be a challenge for any funding commission to find ways there - but a challenge for a worthy and important cause! It's to be hoped, that our kids will get a strong lobby to support those necessary changes. And this is also something by which supporting Bullying No Way is possible, for everyone!
@arla61 You don't have Ethics as a school subject in the US? In my country in Europe, our second compulsory Philosophy course in high school is called ethics, as well as one of our Religion courses. That's something you maybe should adapt. :)
Please everyone please i just made a facebook page for us to stand up a be Proud of who u r and what u believe in we cant change there minds but we can change the world on step at a time!
Letsrisetogether@yahoo.com
plz don't request to poke fun or to talk shit cus u will be block!
@Truedantalion haha, I was just seeing if you banned me. Dont worry about it, I probably wont comment here anymore unless somebody leaves a reply to me that pisses me off.
I hope homophobics are proud of what they do. I really hope so, otherwise I really don't know what the use is. My own brother is homophobic. Thank you for making my life rough, and thank you for making me an outcast. I hope you are truly content with the damage you do.
"Since when has it been ok to be gay?" Since for ever. Because love is love.
"when I was in school (...) things went like this: if you were gay, you were wrong." I'm sorry to hear this. This means that some of you back then had to suffer for something they couldn't change. For a long time in American history, it was "wrong" to be black. Are you in favour of that, too?
To help someone who is in distress means caring, not fighting his battle. And it doesn't make this person a pussy.
Sorry, I can't: I clicked the link to your channel, but all I get is the message "This channel is not available in your country." I live in Germany, and apart from most music videos being blocked for copyright reasons, YouTube gives me that issue with some channels, too. I'm not kidding.
I'm indeed very aware of that history of my country, and very alert to see none of those atrocities that happened back then happen again. So many had to suffer because some felt entitled to define what's right and outrule each end everyone who did not fit into that scheme. And I think history is NOT doomed to repeat itself, if we learn from it.
Two of my best friends are gay, so what? I love them so much and I will not have them bullied because of who or what they are. What gives people the right to judge - you don't know them. It's not your business either.
I am thankful to my best friends, they've been with me through a lot. Thankful for their support, shoulder to cry on, kindness. Everything.
And to everyone, don't back down and stay strong because it will get better. Least know there are people who are behind you, supporting you.
Indeed - "so what?" How much friends mean to one another is not defined by them being straight or gay. Thank you for watching, and for this very uplifting comment!
I, for one, am glad that bullying of gays still exists. It seems to be the only thing stopping these banana crammers from shoving their disgusting lifestyle (and other things) down our throats. I can't tell you the number of times some fairy tried to get me to "convert". No thanks, pillow biters. And just a word of warning: If one of you perverts even think about trying to convert my son, you'll be in for the beating of your life. This kid got what he deserved. Leave us alone homos!
Name-calling, being judgemental, and being unable obviously to say No to offers that you don't want to take (which is okay), without threatening others with physical violence (which certainly is not)? And condoning bullying as, obviously, kind of a "natural corrective" for something you are unable to deal with otherwise, by just "live and let live"? You give a sad example for your son. In your attempt to justify bullying against gay people, you overlook the real issue here.
@ienjoymasturbating a bit harsh but i agree with u,kids die all over the world for some REAL reasons so i ain't got much sympathy for suicidal teen faggots.
"A bit harsh"? Well, you, too! What exactly makes being bullied a "not real" reason? Seeing you barge in here and showing massive disrespect of grieving parents as well as of kids who have been driven over the edge by insensitive and spiteful heterosexual bullies, and giving your entrée by outing yourself as someone who can't present a weak-as-can-be argument witrhout throwing in a derogative expression, too, only emphasises the reality of bullying as an omnipresent problem.
@ienjoymasturbating How can you be so heartless? Does the fact that these kids are being murdered and psychologically broken enough to commit suicide give you some kind of sick joy? No one deserves that. What if your son was being teased for something that he was born with? What if he had a mental disorder that he couldn't help? Would you sit and laugh at him with his bullies? Why can't people have compassion? Not every gay person is trying to convert straight people. Its a fight for equality.
Not enough gays in the world to actually slow down the growth rate of the human population - but thanks, anyways. Still, if you take a closer look, you might find real positive treats with the LGBT community, too.
You know, if you homos wouldn't act so damn weird and you'd quit trying to make straight people into fags, maybe there wouldn't be such gay persecution.
What you define as "damn weird" is your personal view of things. Could do without the swear-word, by the way. The fact that you find something weird does not define a claim for it to go away, or for others to be just who they are and live it. Should something happen like you state in this comment and your other one, that gay people find you attractive, you say No, but they keep hitting on you and make you feel uncomfortable: There are laws against sexual harrassment.
To me, Brandon looks just like your average boy. Still, badass or average: Years of abuse by his late father and going through physical violence in a misguided upbringing made Brandon become willing to do something so terrible that both our attributes do not cover. No one is born a bully. Bullies are being made, and ever so often the base is being laid in their own family. It's a kind of "giving back to the community" then - one that brings about the most terrifiying consequences.
Agreed! Please catch up on her message ... Because nobody can do this alone, even Ellen.
To bring about change of the magnitude that is necessary has to be done by all of us: To say No and oppose bullying the moment it happens, to support victims, and to help together in the task of preventing bullying - all these things are possible if we all help together.
the first one is just shocking, i have herd many storys of kids being bullyed so much that they take there own life...and it kills me inside......but now i here there are sob bastards that are killing ppl for being gay, everyone start to stand up or nothing is going to change!
This indeed is what is needed: Say No and oppose to bullying the very moment it happens, so victims know they are not alone, and bullies know that their ways are neither tolerated nor accepted. Following the trial of Larry's killer Brandon, it's clear to see that Brandon is the reult of an abusive upbringing by a drug addict father who was a terror to the whole family and relatives, too. The focus has to be a broad one and start early: Kids aren't born, but MADE bullies.
i am so moved:( and angry at these bullies adults and teens who bullie people who just want to live a worthy good life with love and have family as everybody else !!!
Thank you for caring. The thought of what happened to those kids in the video is heartbreaking, and to realize that these are only a handful, representing countless others out there who suffer just the same from being bullied for whatever reason! What we need to do here is to take the sadness and outrage we feel to a new level - transforming them into a stance where we will not accept or even tolerate it when we see bullying happening, but stand up for victims ourselves. We are needed!
It has been more than a year now since I made this video. And a lot has happened since then, with awarenes bewing raised, and even some new anti-bullying laws having been passed. But still, bullying has not become a less pressing matter - on the contrary. And this is why we have to do a lot more, still! Everyone is needed in that, and everyone can contribute in one way or another.
I'm so sorry to hear this ... Ignorance plus prejudices - that's a really revolting mix! I hope you can find ways to cope with such unfair treatment, and that there will also be other students who do not share the bullies' views, but instead support you.
Those of us who have a heart in their chest, and not a stone, will be moved, and even moived to tears, by what happened to these kids. Thank you for caring ... This is the first step to making a change.
I agree: What happens in the big picture has it's counterpart in every day life. And this is true on the international stage as well as nationally.
Still movement at the top starts at the bottom, and this is where everyone of us can get active: By our own actions, by what we stand up against if we see that others are being bullied and abused, by seeing that someone is not right, just because he uses force to put himself above others. Say No to abuse when we see it happen!
theblondsillygurl2 man tht guy he doesnt stop sayin shit maybe hes tha1whos gay cuz he only comments on gay videos mabe hes gay and doesnt addmit it......i noe i am
@ih8faggots10000 You are NOT the boss and you have NO right to judge someone because of their lifestyle. You don't have to agree with them at all. Only a sick person like YOU could disrespect them. Stop being close-minded.
how do u tell ur parents ur gay when u know ur parents WILL never accept u for who u are. And if u do tell them they will never talk to u for the rest of ur life... :( ???
This is a tough situation. And I would be a fool, or superficial to the max, if I would reply to your question with a simple "Ah, don't worry, it will be okay", just so I said something and can look good by that. - This does not mean, though, that I don't have anything to say here. So, if you like and feel comfortable with it, please send me a PM. Maybe we can brainpool a bit together. No time limit on that offer, so there's no rush.
Dear Megxta i really dont know what you are going through but i cant get the throught out of my head of the pain and anixity you must be facing, so it hurts to have to hear that bu what they dont understand is baing gay is not a choice i something that your boren with and you cannot change it it break me heart just thinking about you going through this i have never even met you i want you to know that no matter what there is always someone that will accept you for who you are
@megxta Dear Megxta i really dont know what you are going through but i cant get the throught out of my head of the pain and anixity you must be facing, so it hurts to have to hear that bu what they dont understand is baing gay is not a choice i something that your boren with and you cannot change it break me heart just thinkking about you going through this i have never even met you i want you to know that no matter what there is always someone that will accept you for who you are
@4508Lindsay i know some might think their your parents they will understand but trust me they don't. Wer not allowed to talk to our uncle's family cose his son is gay :( it really hurts seeing how shallow minded they are :(. And i couldn't care less what the world thinks of me its just that i will loose my family if i do tell them who i really am and at the same time i cant stop hiding my sexuality im torn between this situation. And they wonder why so many people take their own lives :(.
@megxta They don't deserve you. People that love you for who you are deserve your friendship and love. I've made my choice, and i'm not gonna lie cause it does hurt. I chose to live my life for who I am and surround myself by people that accept me for who I am and the return of love is there staring you right in the face.
@megxta I had a similar dilemma to you, I knew my parents wouldn't take it well. I didn't plan on telling them until I was ready to move out but they found out from my brother and I was forced to move out and I didn't really have a place to go. Personally I'm glad they found out because even though life was more difficult, I now know what people really care about me. A real parent is not one that makes you, but one that is there for you when you need them most. If not, they're not worth it.
A person does not need hatred or any kind of phobia in order to acknowledge important differences between heterosexuality and homosexuality. Even non-religious people know this.
Homosexual activists, with support from the media, have successfully framed themselves as noble victims; it's an effective way to push a social agenda.
The word "homosexual" is more accurate than the word "gay" because it (the word "homosexual") actually describes the behavior/relationship.
Would you mind seeing that the use of words like "gay" originates in defamatory remarks used to insult and degrade homosexual people? How about also arguing against the use of "straight" to describe heterosexual relationships? I really don't see where you are going with your remarks. I cannot see any "homosexual agenda" here except people striving to be accepted as equal. Getting to the topic: I see "straight" kids bullying "gay" kids until they take their lives. Thoughts?
From what I've observed, a significant percentage of homosexual activists themselves are bullies.
Many people who consider themselves homosexual or "gay" choose to build their identity around that particular behavior, that one aspect of their lives.
They confuse their sexual behavior with their sense of self, so that if anyone disapproves of their behavior (homosexuality) then it's seen as a personal attack.
I still don't see what your argument does in the cases shown in the video, not even on the case of Larry King. Because HE ended up dead, yet he did nothing else but resist to the bullying he had to endure, by being bullied for being gay - and this indeed meant to be attacked,
@Truedantalion thank you so much :) it can be hard at times because my parents believe differently and i've been in arguments with them, but when i truly believe in something then i strongly defend it.
what happens behind the doors of others should not be of any concern to anyone else. if you dont agree with gays, good for you,and if you are gay, accept it. only childish idiots continue this hurtful bashing.
It's indeed not more than "live and let live" that we need! No one needs to feel threatened or intimidated, if mutual respect is the bottom line in our lives. Those who just cannot adapt to this principle are the ones who have issues. They are insecure or frustrated about things in their lives, or suffer from some form of abuse themselves (see Larry's killer, Brandon), and then pass all of that on - making others feel bad, so the perpetrators themselves can feel better.
Agreed. As schools are those places where kids and teens spend the major part of their day time, it needs to be a place where they also learn about social interaction, how to hold their ground and make their way among their peers and in society without hurting others, or getting hurt themselves. Schools have a lot to amend and improve on that. It's quite a task to establish such a new feature, but for every teacher worth their salt, it should be a challenge worthy to accept1
@odilonbruno1 The only acceptable reason for someone to bow is to show honest and unforced respect for another person, or to show them affection. Pressure, threats or abuse cannot be tolerated or accepted.
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LGBT bullying WILL NEVER stop,Ellen!!!!!!There is no peace for the wicked!More people will die by committing suicide!You want to be something useful,Ellen?Get people to not choose the LGBT deathstyle!You can actually save people from the Hell LGBT causes if you would just get your face out of Portia's crotch and see the truth for what it is...a savior!Of course,I have a feeling that you wont,Ellen,because much like the Devil..You love it when people die and commit suicide and go to Hell forever!
The only people choosing something are those who choose to bully other people, from whatever motivation or cause. And we're not just talking LGBT victims here. Those who abuse + torment bring about the issues! It's not about Don loving John, or Jenny loving Sue. Are you saying that deliberately selective religious zealotry should be the base of our human society's moral standards? Me, I think we have evolved since the days of the inquisition. Check your calendar: It's the 21st century!
@liw213 What in Gods name is your problem. How the fuck to you get off by telling people that it is there own undoing for the fact of something that they can't control. Being gay is fine. Just because i am gay does not give someone the right to kill me, beat me up, threaten me, or anything. People are fucked up in the head if they think that killing people is ok just for the fact that they are gay. If you believe that the killers actions are justified then you need to have a long talk with GOD!
Well, I see your approach. But I hope we can get to bringing about change without all potential victims turm into lions who are just too intimidating and dangerous to be offended and bullied. Apart from the general rise in overall aggression level that would come along with that idea, I think it's not in the nature of everyone to make this transformation - which is okay, though.
The ones with issues, being the ones who need to change, are not the victims, but the perpetrators!
Homosexual activists understand the power of words.
Please visit my channel to watch a one-minute video clip in which famous atheist Richard Dawkins admits that homosexual activists "hijacked the word 'gay'".
The word "gay" has helped homosexual activists push their dishonest agenda on unsuspecting people.
The word "homosexual" is more appropriate and accurate because it, unlike the word "gay", actually describes the behavior/attraction/relationship being discussed.
Maybe your too young to understand that the choice is between love and hate... if you go out and kill homophobic gay-bashers then you yourself have just fallen into the trap of hate. Dont worry though cos even in the US of A things are changing bit by bit and the tide is turning against these people. Your country is just in the grip of a weird culture war whilst it works things out.
@willhum i know a kid who got hassled by the FBI for disagreeing with the president LOL so im just gonna agree with whatever you say to avoid hours in a prison cell..
oh my fucking god, bully victims are such pussies. you know, people say violence isn't the answere well, it fucking is. if you want it to stop punch the bitch, otherwise you'll always be a pussy.
conanthedeciever 5 days ago
@conanthedeciever
It would be nice if you could present your argument without mocking bully victims here. This is where verbal / mental violence starts, which is a big part of bullying.
Truedantalion 5 days ago
@Truedantalion well homeboy its kind of not to insult them when they'er well...pussies. i mean c'mon really, if you were or are bullied why the fuck are you gonna let some bitch talk shit and put their hands all over you?
conanthedeciever 5 days ago
@conanthedeciever
(1)I very strongly agree with you that a victim needs to stand up against abuse. The thing is, if you use the methods of those who abuse you, you start becoming abusive yourself. It will escalate in a competition of who can be more violent, more aggressive, more destructive. And I find nothing more unfair if a victim who sees no other way than fighting back violently (by words or punches) then gets suspended him/herself for being a bully, too. Saw that happening way too often!
Truedantalion 5 days ago
@Truedantalion nononono, just because a bully victim fights back using words or punches doesn't exactally make them abusive and want to make it a competition. it shows the bully that they ain't gonna take no shit from them any more. and if the school suspends the bully victim well, thats just plain fucking dumb. i mean c'mon why should they get suspended for standing up for themselves. plus what if they have no choice but to fight back.
conanthedeciever 4 days ago
@conanthedeciever
I'm okay about the fighting back - meaning to draw a line and make it clear that the path of bullying ends there. But if a victim replies with actions of physical or mental violence like a bully does, and that this bully can get punished for (and will get punished, if he is being reported!), the school is indeed forced to apply the same punishment to the victim - as the punishment is in return to actions, and circumstances don't matter much. This is why other ways are needed.
Truedantalion 4 days ago
@Truedantalion well you see even if the bully victim is suspended at least they showed the bully whats what. you know what i mean jelly bean. it will show the bully that they better think twice before they fuck with them again thats for sure. and if they do decide to try again well, looks like another ass beating for the bully.
conanthedeciever 3 days ago
@conanthedeciever
It's good to stand up for oneself. But you know what I want that "other way" to be that I'm talking about? That others (friends, or even bystanders who don't even know the bully or the victim) stand up when witnessing a situation going on that is unfair and brutal and abusive! As an adult, you even have the duty to try and help prevent a crime from happening, by stepping in yourself, or at least by calling the police. Same goes for kids/bullies. No law there, "only" compassion
Truedantalion 3 days ago
@Truedantalion well, even if the bully victim gets help from the bystanders its not gonna help all that much. the kid would need to hang with the crew for most of the school day to really feel safe. but, when the kids alone, thats when the bullies are gonna catch a nigga slippin and gets to dumpin on a bitch, you feel me. so insted of them realizing that they need to stop, it will also show them that the kid is still weak and will not stand up for themselves when the time comes.
conanthedeciever 2 days ago
@conanthedeciever
(1) Your thoughts are good. But there's something else that will lead us further and keep the victim out of trouble for becoming violent themselves. Here's the deal: Knowing that there are others who are basically willing to stand up for him and help will make the victim feel stronger. To know you're not alone is a vital point in this equation - because bullies try to isolate their victims, by intimidating them massively, so they won't report them (continued)
Truedantalion 2 days ago
@Truedantalion
(2) or tell others about being abused by the bully "... or else!" As soon as the victim can count on others not to look away, I know that their own self-confidence will rise. I've seen it happen! The situation may not change completely in one step, but the victim's trust in himself, their courage will grow, knowing that others are willing to help, and the victim will find the strength to indeed report a bully, who cought them alone and abused him, to the principal.
Truedantalion 2 days ago
@Truedantalion
(3) As soon as the school officials get to know about bullying first-handed, and have a name and a face to the abuse, they can act. Indeed, they HAVE to act. Should the school be too lax with that, the victim's parents (who are in this game anyhow, as they love their kid and want what's best for him) have to approach the school for their kid being abused at school and the officials not reacting to it. Bullies are in the minority. And if support is there, they lose.
Truedantalion 2 days ago
@conanthedeciever
(2) And if you call someone a pussy, it is meant in a derogative way, no matter what. If you want to tell them that they are not acting up to their potential, that they can be stronger than they dare to be now, that they can do somethng against being abused - just say it this way. Use positive, constructive attributes. And then also offer ideas, maybe, of what the person can do apart from hitting back. There are legal ways to deal with bullying. But it takes guts to use them!
Truedantalion 5 days ago
@conanthedeciever May you please stop cursing in the name of Larry and these other people that passed away? I'm going to stop fighting with you because I know that I am doing the right thing to prevent bullying.
R.I.P Victims</3
TheMarei292 1 day ago
@conanthedeciever You know what? You're a god damn pussy. Bully victims don't have to fight back. Go die in a hole you pathetic excuse for a dog. You're a fucking loser all you do is spend your time on Youtube calling people pussies when really, the only pussy that viewed this video is you. Shut the fuck up before I fucking track you down and chop your god damn dick off; if you have one.
TheMarei292 4 days ago
@TheMarei292 "bully victims don't have to fight back". my god... your just fucking retarded. that prooves exactally why they are pussies. see if they don't fight back using words or punches then they want someone else to do it for them. and well, that doesn't proove shit to the bully, all it show them is that they'er even bigger pussies and that they'er gonna catch them slippin and gets to dumpin on a bitch. so...go fuck yourself.
conanthedeciever 4 days ago
@conanthedeciever So I take it that you're an everyday mama's boy and you bully people until they feel the urge to kill them self because you told them the shit you're saying to me right now? Who the fuck do you think you are. Bullying isn't something that is prevented by the people who are getting bullied to fight back. Bullying is stopped by the fucking bullies to stop you god damn fucking retard.
TheMarei292 3 days ago
@TheMarei292 wow...your such a stupid fuck. bullying can be prevented if the kid stands up for themselves, not by being a pussy and taking it. so, go fuck yourself and eat shit you stupid bitch.
conanthedeciever 2 days ago
@conanthedeciever
I just asked @TheMaire292 to change her tone towards you a bit, and hope you can join in, likewise. This discussion is important, and I appreciate both of your contributions.
Truedantalion 2 days ago
@conanthedeciever bullying can be prevented if the bully grew a spine
idaman12345 1 day ago
@idaman12345 hahahaha, oh my god. your such a pussy its unbelieveable. go fuck yourself and eat shit.
conanthedeciever 1 day ago
@TheMarei292
I thank you watching, and for your concern for the topic of bullying and what can be done gainst it. Still, I want to ask you to keep the tone a bit down, and discuss in a more neutral tone. If you follow the comment dialog I had with @conanthedeceiver up to now, you will see that I asked him the same thing, and he indeed changed his tone, while still cointinuing the conversation. I think we owe Larry, Carl, Jaheem and the others some respect like that, Thank you, ~M.
Truedantalion 2 days ago
@conanthedeciever you bullies are the pussies, not the bullied
idaman12345 1 day ago
i agree people need to be taught kindness and compassion.
TheRichestManAlive 6 days ago
@TheRichestManAlive
Thank you, much appreciated! And we can all be a part of this: "Lead by example" - be a role model every day, because this is where it begins, and where kids learn about how to treat others in their lives.
Truedantalion 6 days ago
@TheRichestManAlive i agree with ellen there should be a class in school to teach kindness
thewalrus136 5 days ago
Sadly the government can't change a persons morality.. Parents need to tell their kids that it's not right to bully anyone
jrad410 6 days ago
@jrad410
Yes, it starts with the parents educating their kids on how to treat others. And they actually need to start by the example they give themselves. It's a lot of responsibility. And the ase of Brandon, who shot his classmate Larry, is a devastating (and extreme) example of what may happen if all of this goes wrong.
Truedantalion 6 days ago
This video made me cry..
I am straight, but my heart goes out to all those who are suffering due to bullying.
Ellen is a truly wonderful woman and I really respect her.
Thank you for making this video. It is really inspirational.
FlamesInTheMoon 1 week ago
@FlamesInTheMoon
No none who has a heart in their chest instead of a stone will be untouched by the things I report about in this video ... And it is our responsibility then, to catch up with what Ellen puts into words so sensitively and clear. All of has have to join in and do what we personally can to bring that change about that is needed. Everyone can do something, in their respective ways - and every single one is needed!
Thank your for watching, and for caring. Both is much appreciated.
Truedantalion 6 days ago
we need to protect and help each other people!!! we mast understand that ,by hurting others we are not getting better or stronger. we all must stand together against homophobia.
and every person , every parent must teach their child this lesson. and even though if a parent itself is against LGBT they must still give to a child anti homophobia pearch ! this'll not make them better persons, this'll not be something to be proud of the coz "the times they are changing! "
giurzaa 1 week ago 2
@giurzaa
Thanks so much for watching, and for your enspiring words. Keep spreading the news - you are needed!
~Michael
Truedantalion 1 week ago
I in no way support any legislation that removes an American's right to free speech. This new anti-bully law is CRAZY!!! Ohio already has existing laws on the books to govern intimidation, assaults and telecommunications harassment. Government is NOT the moral police! Basically Ohio is enforcing criminal laws onto children without a right to due process, a right to meet their accuser or a right to trial is SCARY STUFF! Other states are passing similar laws for ADULTS! WAKE UP FOLKS!
VTwin4Christ 1 week ago
@VTwin4Christ
The right to self-fulfilment / self-realization ends as soon as others get hurt by that. With constant + relentless name-calling, teasing and bullying this condition is met. We're talking of mental abuse here. The right to free speech also does not disintegrate the fact that mutual respect should be the base for human communication. And especially in the case of bullies, any claim of "right to free speech" is downright ridiculous, as bullies only aim + shoot to hurt.
Truedantalion 1 week ago 2
A wonderful girl named Bellamy committed suicide last weekend.My brother knew her. She hung herself,She spent her last days on life support, and eventually they let her go and be with God.Bellamy was a bright, beautiful girl in HIGH SCHOOL.There is so much bullying nowadays. I've had to switch schools because of it.Listen guys, if you need to talk about anything, then message me.I'll pray for you.Just know God makes no mistakes and you are beautiful.I swear I'll pray for you, just message me.<3
GleeksCourage 1 week ago
@GleeksCourage
My deepest condolences to Bellamy's parents + family! And I am so sorry to hear that you were forced to switch schools because bullies just would not stop, and your original school obviously was not able to deal with the issue. It is not fair if victims have to retreat, and perpetrators are allowed to have their ways, only because schools find no means to induce a change of climate amongst their students. Still a lot to do, to create a base of respect + compassion!
Truedantalion 1 week ago
@Truedantalion Thank you so much. It's really nice to know that there are some sane people in this world. You make a world of difference.
GleeksCourage 1 week ago
@Bodybags4DirtyFags is the word "Faggott" really needed in a video like this?
fr33king3xplit 2 weeks ago
watch?v=x9h_eyik1v8&feature=youtu.be
Look at this right now.
MyNameFrieza 2 weeks ago
@MyNameFrieza
I watched your video, and I appreciate your resolve to put an end to bullying. But I hope + believe that we'll be able to make things happen without some of us becoming violent, in order to respond to violence. I agree with you that we cannot wait any longer! For way too much time, bullying has been tolerated, or even accepted as being part of a coming-of-age process. Both signs of helplessness have to be overcome by the masses that we are standing up, peacefully, but effectively!
Truedantalion 2 weeks ago
she's right this is horrible it makes me sick that someone would kill someone else for liking the same sex I've seen just at my school a gay kid get jumped just cause he was gay well I saw his boyfriend show up with a baseball bat but the point is it's horrible !!!
nickjackson97 3 weeks ago
@nickjackson97
We need to stand up for people who get bullied. But we need to do this before things get so bad that people swing baseball bats in (understandable and justified) anger! Everyone is needed in this. If everyone of us is not willing to just watch abuse happening, and if the "silent majority" of those who don't dare to help (or chose to look away) will realize that to oppose bullying gets easier when many help together, things will change. A leap of faith? Yes. Worth it? Heck, YES!!
Truedantalion 2 weeks ago
Awe!! :'(
jonathan13martin 3 weeks ago
@jonathan13martin
Thank you for watching, and for your comment. Let's all help together to make Ellen's words come true. Everyone of us needs to be aware of those things - and also needs t be aware of the fact that everyone has it in their hands to do something against others being bullied and abused. And the more of us Stand Together (see link in description box) in this, the easier it gets. Bullying No Way!
Truedantalion 3 weeks ago
Oh god I'm crying.....
Ichigochan131 3 weeks ago
@Ichigochan131
Thank you so much for watching, and for caring.
~Michael
Truedantalion 3 weeks ago
Ellen, would you be my valentine?
Tilleyass 3 weeks ago
cruelty to someone because they love a certain way is EVIL!!
Tilleyass 3 weeks ago 6
@Tilleyass
Massively agreed! Thanks a lot for watching, and for your comment.
Truedantalion 3 weeks ago
a lot of people use religion to justify being cruel to gay people... those people need to understand that the bible is man written, its not perfect and it has been tampered with and translated so many times, how do we know whats in there now is what was in there when it was first written? also, i dont remember much from religion class but i do remember that i never read "love and forgive all people except..." im atheist but that doesnt mean im against religion, im against how some ppl use it...
PUFFandRUFFLE158 1 month ago 14
@PUFFandRUFFLE158
Thanks a lot for this comment! It sheds a very important light on facts that need to be considered.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@PUFFandRUFFLE158 I agree with you as a christian i believe everyone as a right to love & happiness. We are not a created the same if we were we would not have disabled people. The Jesus i love & honour would be more upset at people using his name to invade countries & kill innocent children. Jesus loved everyone & wanted everyone to love each other. I rather have more love in the world then hate & war. Use the bible as a guide through life not as a shield to avoid life.
TheWhiterose1603 3 weeks ago
@TheWhiterose1603
Thanks so much for watching, and for your very sensitive and inspiring comment!
Truedantalion 3 weeks ago
@Truedantalion You are welcome. I was bullied at school for a number of reason but what i learned is that people who bully are insecure & are holding deeper insecurities. I am a nurse & youth worker at my local church i teach children to respect everyone whatever their colour,race or sexuality. This upsets me that people get so low that they kill themselves. The children of today have alot of worries & we must do all we can to help them. Thank you for your videos.
TheWhiterose1603 3 weeks ago
The music in the background, Ellen's face as she held back tears, and the mental images brought tears to my eyes at the beginning, and it slowly progressed throughout the video. Amazing video for such an important message!
moonjelly13 1 month ago
@moonjelly13
Thank you so much for this moving feedback! I am glad that the video brings the message across. It is as important now as it was back in October 2010 that we all become part of the effort: Showing compassion and support for bully victims, so they see and feel they are not alone ... And we just as well need to stand up against bullying the very moment it happens! The message of this video will only come alive if everyone understands that we all are needed to make things change.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
america is a bully country... this doesnt happened alot in other countries... family and government should teach children from a young age to love and respect people no matter how they look or no matter what but they teach children to be afraid from people and to hate people
benotairaq 1 month ago
@benotairaq I hate faggots like you!!
Bodybags4DirtyFags 1 month ago
@Bodybags4DirtyFags get a life buddy and stop bulllying people online.... STUPID :D
benotairaq 1 month ago
“Religion” is the root of all evil in the world. Those homophobic monsters that hate and ultimately kill someone for being gay do so because "the old man in ski” told them. Read a book by Christopher Hitchens called: “God is not great”. Their God is a God of hatred, he doesn’t seem to survive without hating a human for one reason or another, Wake up Ellen!
Mirfenderski 1 month ago
@Mirfenderski I am sorry that christians have not been the wellspring of love and compasssion and empathy that we should be. I know many christians misuse God's word to reinforce their own fear and bigotry. Please know it's not the same for everyone. These stories break my heart, and I know they break God' heart, because he loves these kids more than we are capable of.
kissxxmyxxconverse 1 month ago
@kissxxmyxxconverse
Thanks a lot for this comment. Religion so often gets misused, by denying the true core values and, instead, focusing on separating and segragating. This is not how human society is meant to be. Your words point to a different approach, and it's important that you make your voice heard.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@Truedantalion Thank you for saying that.. I do what I can, I just wish it was more.
kissxxmyxxconverse 1 month ago
@kissxxmyxxconverse
If everybody does what they can, we are on a good way. What a single person can do may seem to be not much - but still, it's so much more than nothing!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
Ellen is right. We need "Ethics" or "Values" as a class in schools these days. Children are bombarded with images every day that they might not understand and with the internet, the family dynamic is changing and in some cases, children are being raised less by their parents and more and more by the media.
arla61 1 month ago 22
@arla61
Agreed. Social structures have changed, and schools etc. need to adjust accordingly. This will mean budget changes (not cuts, though, but raises!), and create need for new staff. It will be a challenge for any funding commission to find ways there - but a challenge for a worthy and important cause! It's to be hoped, that our kids will get a strong lobby to support those necessary changes. And this is also something by which supporting Bullying No Way is possible, for everyone!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@arla61 You don't have Ethics as a school subject in the US? In my country in Europe, our second compulsory Philosophy course in high school is called ethics, as well as one of our Religion courses. That's something you maybe should adapt. :)
beccacecca94 1 month ago
Please everyone please i just made a facebook page for us to stand up a be Proud of who u r and what u believe in we cant change there minds but we can change the world on step at a time!
Letsrisetogether@yahoo.com
plz don't request to poke fun or to talk shit cus u will be block!
HEzStUCkONDiS 1 month ago
@HEzStUCkONDiS
Is the name of that page RISE "Let's Rise together"?
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@metathus1488
Well, enjoy another go then.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@Truedantalion wdbwnkdwjd
metathus1488 1 month ago
@Truedantalion haha, I was just seeing if you banned me. Dont worry about it, I probably wont comment here anymore unless somebody leaves a reply to me that pisses me off.
metathus1488 1 month ago
@metathus1488
That's a fair enough offer. Peace?
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@EliteFace911
Thank you for watching, and also for entering the discussion and making very good statements.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@metathus1488 what an asshole comment
NumbuhoftheBeastBurg 1 month ago
@NumbuhoftheBeastBurg just saying it how it is broski
metathus1488 1 month ago
I hope homophobics are proud of what they do. I really hope so, otherwise I really don't know what the use is. My own brother is homophobic. Thank you for making my life rough, and thank you for making me an outcast. I hope you are truly content with the damage you do.
LOLBLOODRED 1 month ago
@metathus1488
"Since when has it been ok to be gay?" Since for ever. Because love is love.
"when I was in school (...) things went like this: if you were gay, you were wrong." I'm sorry to hear this. This means that some of you back then had to suffer for something they couldn't change. For a long time in American history, it was "wrong" to be black. Are you in favour of that, too?
To help someone who is in distress means caring, not fighting his battle. And it doesn't make this person a pussy.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@Truedantalion Look at my channel and tell me if I think its wrong to be black
metathus1488 1 month ago
@metathus1488
Sorry, I can't: I clicked the link to your channel, but all I get is the message "This channel is not available in your country." I live in Germany, and apart from most music videos being blocked for copyright reasons, YouTube gives me that issue with some channels, too. I'm not kidding.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@Truedantalion You live in Germany huh? Well, then lets just say my channel may have something to do with your countries history, haha.
metathus1488 1 month ago
@metathus1488
I'm indeed very aware of that history of my country, and very alert to see none of those atrocities that happened back then happen again. So many had to suffer because some felt entitled to define what's right and outrule each end everyone who did not fit into that scheme. And I think history is NOT doomed to repeat itself, if we learn from it.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
Two of my best friends are gay, so what? I love them so much and I will not have them bullied because of who or what they are. What gives people the right to judge - you don't know them. It's not your business either.
I am thankful to my best friends, they've been with me through a lot. Thankful for their support, shoulder to cry on, kindness. Everything.
And to everyone, don't back down and stay strong because it will get better. Least know there are people who are behind you, supporting you.
kyogirl91 1 month ago
@kyogirl91
Indeed - "so what?" How much friends mean to one another is not defined by them being straight or gay. Thank you for watching, and for this very uplifting comment!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
I, for one, am glad that bullying of gays still exists. It seems to be the only thing stopping these banana crammers from shoving their disgusting lifestyle (and other things) down our throats. I can't tell you the number of times some fairy tried to get me to "convert". No thanks, pillow biters. And just a word of warning: If one of you perverts even think about trying to convert my son, you'll be in for the beating of your life. This kid got what he deserved. Leave us alone homos!
ienjoymasturbating 1 month ago
@ienjoymasturbating
Name-calling, being judgemental, and being unable obviously to say No to offers that you don't want to take (which is okay), without threatening others with physical violence (which certainly is not)? And condoning bullying as, obviously, kind of a "natural corrective" for something you are unable to deal with otherwise, by just "live and let live"? You give a sad example for your son. In your attempt to justify bullying against gay people, you overlook the real issue here.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@ienjoymasturbating a bit harsh but i agree with u,kids die all over the world for some REAL reasons so i ain't got much sympathy for suicidal teen faggots.
dablakryu 1 month ago
@dablakryu
"A bit harsh"? Well, you, too! What exactly makes being bullied a "not real" reason? Seeing you barge in here and showing massive disrespect of grieving parents as well as of kids who have been driven over the edge by insensitive and spiteful heterosexual bullies, and giving your entrée by outing yourself as someone who can't present a weak-as-can-be argument witrhout throwing in a derogative expression, too, only emphasises the reality of bullying as an omnipresent problem.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@ienjoymasturbating How can you be so heartless? Does the fact that these kids are being murdered and psychologically broken enough to commit suicide give you some kind of sick joy? No one deserves that. What if your son was being teased for something that he was born with? What if he had a mental disorder that he couldn't help? Would you sit and laugh at him with his bullies? Why can't people have compassion? Not every gay person is trying to convert straight people. Its a fight for equality.
AliceBellaGirl 1 month ago 2
@AliceBellaGirl
Thank you for speaking up - much appreciated!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
We got to many ppl on earth therefore im all for gays
predster14 1 month ago
@predster14
Not enough gays in the world to actually slow down the growth rate of the human population - but thanks, anyways. Still, if you take a closer look, you might find real positive treats with the LGBT community, too.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
You know, if you homos wouldn't act so damn weird and you'd quit trying to make straight people into fags, maybe there wouldn't be such gay persecution.
ienjoymasterbating 1 month ago
@ienjoymasterbating
What you define as "damn weird" is your personal view of things. Could do without the swear-word, by the way. The fact that you find something weird does not define a claim for it to go away, or for others to be just who they are and live it. Should something happen like you state in this comment and your other one, that gay people find you attractive, you say No, but they keep hitting on you and make you feel uncomfortable: There are laws against sexual harrassment.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
God hates Fagz
brooklynchild66 1 month ago
@brooklynchild66
Fagz hate God.
rumours77 1 month ago 3
@rumours77
Nice one :-)!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@brooklynchild66
Then obviously He needs people around He can hate, so eternity does not be come too boring for Him - because he sure created quite a lot of them.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@brooklynchild66 god hates u.
kidd8k 1 month ago
The other eighth grader looked like a badass..just sayin.
devorantem 1 month ago
@devorantem
To me, Brandon looks just like your average boy. Still, badass or average: Years of abuse by his late father and going through physical violence in a misguided upbringing made Brandon become willing to do something so terrible that both our attributes do not cover. No one is born a bully. Bullies are being made, and ever so often the base is being laid in their own family. It's a kind of "giving back to the community" then - one that brings about the most terrifiying consequences.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
Ellen Degeneres is truly one of the best womans in the world!
TheGoslapa 1 month ago 38
@TheGoslapa
Agreed! Please catch up on her message ... Because nobody can do this alone, even Ellen.
To bring about change of the magnitude that is necessary has to be done by all of us: To say No and oppose bullying the moment it happens, to support victims, and to help together in the task of preventing bullying - all these things are possible if we all help together.
Bullying No Way!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
the first one is just shocking, i have herd many storys of kids being bullyed so much that they take there own life...and it kills me inside......but now i here there are sob bastards that are killing ppl for being gay, everyone start to stand up or nothing is going to change!
flkidsvids 1 month ago
@flkidsvids
This indeed is what is needed: Say No and oppose to bullying the very moment it happens, so victims know they are not alone, and bullies know that their ways are neither tolerated nor accepted. Following the trial of Larry's killer Brandon, it's clear to see that Brandon is the reult of an abusive upbringing by a drug addict father who was a terror to the whole family and relatives, too. The focus has to be a broad one and start early: Kids aren't born, but MADE bullies.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
ok, got from skrillex to this somehow?... skrillex to holy jesus music.
1224481lol 1 month ago
@1224481lol
Well, at times, YouTube establishes unexpected connections. Anyways: Thanks for watching!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
i am so moved:( and angry at these bullies adults and teens who bullie people who just want to live a worthy good life with love and have family as everybody else !!!
idis91 1 month ago
@idis91
Thank you for caring. The thought of what happened to those kids in the video is heartbreaking, and to realize that these are only a handful, representing countless others out there who suffer just the same from being bullied for whatever reason! What we need to do here is to take the sadness and outrage we feel to a new level - transforming them into a stance where we will not accept or even tolerate it when we see bullying happening, but stand up for victims ourselves. We are needed!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
Oh my god. I never knew bullying was that big of a problem. Thanks so much for uploading this.
SanaZ1126 1 month ago
@SanaZ1126
It has been more than a year now since I made this video. And a lot has happened since then, with awarenes bewing raised, and even some new anti-bullying laws having been passed. But still, bullying has not become a less pressing matter - on the contrary. And this is why we have to do a lot more, still! Everyone is needed in that, and everyone can contribute in one way or another.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@Truedantalion Yes. I have been bullied before in school. I was called 'terrorist' because I am a Muslim Pakistani going to an all white school
SanaZ1126 1 month ago
@SanaZ1126
I'm so sorry to hear this ... Ignorance plus prejudices - that's a really revolting mix! I hope you can find ways to cope with such unfair treatment, and that there will also be other students who do not share the bullies' views, but instead support you.
Best wishes,
~Michael
Truedantalion 1 month ago
am i the only one who started to cry
SBrown5897 1 month ago
@SBrown5897
Those of us who have a heart in their chest, and not a stone, will be moved, and even moived to tears, by what happened to these kids. Thank you for caring ... This is the first step to making a change.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
I love ellen soo much
OMGitsace1 1 month ago
@OMGitsace1
Then we have something in common there :-)! Thanks for watching my video.
Truedantalion 1 month ago 2
i was crying omost
fluyynicki123 1 month ago
@fluyynicki123
Thanks so much for watching, and for caring. It means a lot!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
31 of you needs to give your head a shake.
chadpratch 1 month ago
@chadpratch
What can I say ... Thank you for this really sweet comment!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
Bullying in America will never stop for as long as America keeps bullying the rest of the world.
tyapushka 1 month ago 4
@tyapushka
I agree: What happens in the big picture has it's counterpart in every day life. And this is true on the international stage as well as nationally.
Still movement at the top starts at the bottom, and this is where everyone of us can get active: By our own actions, by what we stand up against if we see that others are being bullied and abused, by seeing that someone is not right, just because he uses force to put himself above others. Say No to abuse when we see it happen!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
Great video! Please continue to make more videos like this to combat 'gay bashing'.
PikachuLovesSushi 1 month ago
@PikachuLovesSushi
Thank you for watching, and for your support!
Truedantalion 1 month ago
huh i hate people tht judge gay people they stupid and retarted they just want to ruin peoples life.....
chuk5555 1 month ago
theblondsillygurl2 man tht guy he doesnt stop sayin shit maybe hes tha1whos gay cuz he only comments on gay videos mabe hes gay and doesnt addmit it......i noe i am
chuk5555 1 month ago
@ih8faggots10000 You are NOT the boss and you have NO right to judge someone because of their lifestyle. You don't have to agree with them at all. Only a sick person like YOU could disrespect them. Stop being close-minded.
theblondesillygirl2 1 month ago
how do u tell ur parents ur gay when u know ur parents WILL never accept u for who u are. And if u do tell them they will never talk to u for the rest of ur life... :( ???
megxta 1 month ago
@megxta
This is a tough situation. And I would be a fool, or superficial to the max, if I would reply to your question with a simple "Ah, don't worry, it will be okay", just so I said something and can look good by that. - This does not mean, though, that I don't have anything to say here. So, if you like and feel comfortable with it, please send me a PM. Maybe we can brainpool a bit together. No time limit on that offer, so there's no rush.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
Dear Megxta i really dont know what you are going through but i cant get the throught out of my head of the pain and anixity you must be facing, so it hurts to have to hear that bu what they dont understand is baing gay is not a choice i something that your boren with and you cannot change it it break me heart just thinking about you going through this i have never even met you i want you to know that no matter what there is always someone that will accept you for who you are
4508Lindsay 1 month ago
@megxta Dear Megxta i really dont know what you are going through but i cant get the throught out of my head of the pain and anixity you must be facing, so it hurts to have to hear that bu what they dont understand is baing gay is not a choice i something that your boren with and you cannot change it break me heart just thinkking about you going through this i have never even met you i want you to know that no matter what there is always someone that will accept you for who you are
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@4508Lindsay i know some might think their your parents they will understand but trust me they don't. Wer not allowed to talk to our uncle's family cose his son is gay :( it really hurts seeing how shallow minded they are :(. And i couldn't care less what the world thinks of me its just that i will loose my family if i do tell them who i really am and at the same time i cant stop hiding my sexuality im torn between this situation. And they wonder why so many people take their own lives :(.
megxta 1 month ago
@megxta wait your gay? and just tell them its your life belive wat you want say wwat you wont
VisuaLALPHAJr 1 month ago
@megxta They don't deserve you. People that love you for who you are deserve your friendship and love. I've made my choice, and i'm not gonna lie cause it does hurt. I chose to live my life for who I am and surround myself by people that accept me for who I am and the return of love is there staring you right in the face.
sunshinebloo 1 month ago
@megxta I had a similar dilemma to you, I knew my parents wouldn't take it well. I didn't plan on telling them until I was ready to move out but they found out from my brother and I was forced to move out and I didn't really have a place to go. Personally I'm glad they found out because even though life was more difficult, I now know what people really care about me. A real parent is not one that makes you, but one that is there for you when you need them most. If not, they're not worth it.
JonLuvsYou 1 month ago
shivers :'c
PaulDiPietroMusic 1 month ago
@PaulDiPietroMusic
Thank you for watching, and for caring.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
A person does not need hatred or any kind of phobia in order to acknowledge important differences between heterosexuality and homosexuality. Even non-religious people know this.
Homosexual activists, with support from the media, have successfully framed themselves as noble victims; it's an effective way to push a social agenda.
The word "homosexual" is more accurate than the word "gay" because it (the word "homosexual") actually describes the behavior/relationship.
lightandbeautiful 1 month ago
@lightandbeautiful
Would you mind seeing that the use of words like "gay" originates in defamatory remarks used to insult and degrade homosexual people? How about also arguing against the use of "straight" to describe heterosexual relationships? I really don't see where you are going with your remarks. I cannot see any "homosexual agenda" here except people striving to be accepted as equal. Getting to the topic: I see "straight" kids bullying "gay" kids until they take their lives. Thoughts?
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@Truedantalion
I'm opposed to bullying.
From what I've observed, a significant percentage of homosexual activists themselves are bullies.
Many people who consider themselves homosexual or "gay" choose to build their identity around that particular behavior, that one aspect of their lives.
They confuse their sexual behavior with their sense of self, so that if anyone disapproves of their behavior (homosexuality) then it's seen as a personal attack.
lightandbeautiful 1 month ago
@lightandbeautiful
I still don't see what your argument does in the cases shown in the video, not even on the case of Larry King. Because HE ended up dead, yet he did nothing else but resist to the bullying he had to endure, by being bullied for being gay - and this indeed meant to be attacked,
Truedantalion 1 month ago
I'm a Mormon. I'm expected to believe that being gay is wrong. I feel like being gay is OK. My best friend is gay. It's alright.
theblondesillygirl2 1 month ago 17
@theblondesillygirl2
I think you are doing a good thing, by allowing your open mind and your personal experience to be your guides.
Truedantalion 1 month ago 11
@Truedantalion thank you so much :) it can be hard at times because my parents believe differently and i've been in arguments with them, but when i truly believe in something then i strongly defend it.
theblondesillygirl2 1 month ago
what happens behind the doors of others should not be of any concern to anyone else. if you dont agree with gays, good for you,and if you are gay, accept it. only childish idiots continue this hurtful bashing.
fatalnightmare22 1 month ago
@fatalnightmare22
It's indeed not more than "live and let live" that we need! No one needs to feel threatened or intimidated, if mutual respect is the bottom line in our lives. Those who just cannot adapt to this principle are the ones who have issues. They are insecure or frustrated about things in their lives, or suffer from some form of abuse themselves (see Larry's killer, Brandon), and then pass all of that on - making others feel bad, so the perpetrators themselves can feel better.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
@ Odilonbruno:thanks for the advice, I should not be intimidated by these idiots
ellenfgarde12 1 month ago
a class for compassion in highschool ,, is what every school needs ,,,, more loving,,, less hatieng ,,,:)
MrSeecj 1 month ago
@MrSeecj
Agreed. As schools are those places where kids and teens spend the major part of their day time, it needs to be a place where they also learn about social interaction, how to hold their ground and make their way among their peers and in society without hurting others, or getting hurt themselves. Schools have a lot to amend and improve on that. It's quite a task to establish such a new feature, but for every teacher worth their salt, it should be a challenge worthy to accept1
Truedantalion 1 month ago
. Never bow before the enemies
odilonbruno1 1 month ago
@odilonbruno1
I second that motion
develophope 1 month ago
@odilonbruno1 The only acceptable reason for someone to bow is to show honest and unforced respect for another person, or to show them affection. Pressure, threats or abuse cannot be tolerated or accepted.
Truedantalion 1 month ago
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LGBT bullying WILL NEVER stop,Ellen!!!!!!There is no peace for the wicked!More people will die by committing suicide!You want to be something useful,Ellen?Get people to not choose the LGBT deathstyle!You can actually save people from the Hell LGBT causes if you would just get your face out of Portia's crotch and see the truth for what it is...a savior!Of course,I have a feeling that you wont,Ellen,because much like the Devil..You love it when people die and commit suicide and go to Hell forever!
liw213 2 months ago
@liw213
The only people choosing something are those who choose to bully other people, from whatever motivation or cause. And we're not just talking LGBT victims here. Those who abuse + torment bring about the issues! It's not about Don loving John, or Jenny loving Sue. Are you saying that deliberately selective religious zealotry should be the base of our human society's moral standards? Me, I think we have evolved since the days of the inquisition. Check your calendar: It's the 21st century!
Truedantalion 2 months ago
@liw213 What in Gods name is your problem. How the fuck to you get off by telling people that it is there own undoing for the fact of something that they can't control. Being gay is fine. Just because i am gay does not give someone the right to kill me, beat me up, threaten me, or anything. People are fucked up in the head if they think that killing people is ok just for the fact that they are gay. If you believe that the killers actions are justified then you need to have a long talk with GOD!
Stateoftention 1 month ago
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odilonbruno1 2 months ago
@odilonbruno1
Well, I see your approach. But I hope we can get to bringing about change without all potential victims turm into lions who are just too intimidating and dangerous to be offended and bullied. Apart from the general rise in overall aggression level that would come along with that idea, I think it's not in the nature of everyone to make this transformation - which is okay, though.
The ones with issues, being the ones who need to change, are not the victims, but the perpetrators!
Truedantalion 2 months ago
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Homosexual activists understand the power of words.
Please visit my channel to watch a one-minute video clip in which famous atheist Richard Dawkins admits that homosexual activists "hijacked the word 'gay'".
The word "gay" has helped homosexual activists push their dishonest agenda on unsuspecting people.
The word "homosexual" is more appropriate and accurate because it, unlike the word "gay", actually describes the behavior/attraction/relationship being discussed.
lightandbeautiful 2 months ago
Maybe your too young to understand that the choice is between love and hate... if you go out and kill homophobic gay-bashers then you yourself have just fallen into the trap of hate. Dont worry though cos even in the US of A things are changing bit by bit and the tide is turning against these people. Your country is just in the grip of a weird culture war whilst it works things out.
willhum 2 months ago
@willhum i know a kid who got hassled by the FBI for disagreeing with the president LOL so im just gonna agree with whatever you say to avoid hours in a prison cell..
joshthe8th 2 months ago
@joshthe8th eh? I'm not the president of the USA... you can disagree with me and not spend hours in a prison cell.
willhum 2 months ago
The parents of this murderer should do society a favour and commit suicide.
joshthe8th 2 months ago