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  • voluntary democracy is ok, majority rule by force(current democracy) is oppressive & immoral though, as it gives governments a monopoly & the right to use violence against peaceful people... which in a free society NO ONE would have the right to do.

  • democracy = demon-crappy and everybody signed for it

  • He starts screwing the pooch when he says that people are = in the sight of God should not be applied to everyone because it really means that people are in their positions because that's what God wants.

  • After I was enlightened I was attracted to a lot of material by Alan Watts. He gives a detailed perspective to share with people you want to help see "The Big Picture". I hope in the coming age that education will teach equally to both sides of the brain instead of the current left brain indoctrination regime. I disagree with his judgment of rugged individuals, we would not have our "greats" recorded in history if this were true in "absolute". everything else he states is pure Yang :)

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  • "Now, why is there this problem? There's always a very inconsiderable minority of these non-joiners or people that check out of the game but you will find that insecure societies are the most intolerant of those that are non-joiners."

  • Isn't it true that we are indeed always led by the least among us? It seems that truly wise people (the people that ideally you'd want in leadership roles) are smart enough not to impose their will upon the world and shape a reality, that if you were wise you would see as not needing shaping.

    I think there are a small minority of "great" leaders and "thinkers" who cause most of our societal problems. It's true that no human actually needs any help, because no person who truly requires the

  • He has opened my mind.

  • This is B.S. What coercion/persecution did the non-conformists face, exactly?

  • @davidrodgersNJ ...Could you possibly elaborate your question?

    In the west persecution is automatic...In the eastern societies every human is allowed to be whom they want to be...In western society if you are not a conformist, a good citizen, a little robot, a mainstream citizen you will be condemmed. You will be looked upon as a revel, a nut, a hippie, a beatnik, you know what I mean?

  • @zaldivarjohn i agree with you i hate having been born in the usa the worst of all western society im stuck here and its extremely deppressing how blind people are and can be

  • @l3054 i'm suprised you would state other people for blindness that even though you become blind by letting negative emotions have influance on your though towards blind people,

  • @mauricevdkal at first it wasnt like that but it is deppressing how even when offered help people want to be blind most people ive encountered are like this i try not to be biased but i cant help it no matter how bad it is i still try to help those who listen and that i can learn from too but thats hard when it gets so bad you wanna die every single day

  • @l3054 insinuate into your every interaction with them examples of what it is they are blind of. never assume you do not have an audience you are unaware of when talking to them. live out parables.

  • @nerdyharry what im trying to say is most americans probly about 90 percent at least 75 are very ignorant and brainwashed and even if they were smart enough to figure it out they wouldnt give a shit

  • @l3054 then be there for those born in their midst to help them get out from under that.

  • @l3054 in canada it can be the same. people are raised as crabs in the pot that never let anyone in their midst climb out. relatives and teachers demoralize and undermine personal growth under the guise of protecting their charges from being shut down harder by life's arbitrary brutality and the domination of other people.

  • @nerdyharry if people werent so weak willed and ignorant we could all live our own lives but they not only do what you say but theyre also usually the kind of people who make up a whole bunch of pointless drama

  • @l3054 nobody commits to something that is pointless to their self.

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  • and when  was this? early 70s?

  • democracy got off on the wrong foot, when it began forcing people to participate

  • yes, fight the new world order,... become the senators and mayors, get your degrees and become the lawyers and psychiatrists, dont just let them be the "experts". Once you get in there make it your mission to incite revolution in whatever field you choose to work in.

  • A+ Video! I guess I am one of those hermit types. I tried to enlighten my republican senator by calling his local office. I told the girl who answered the phone that the reason health care, medicare and medicaid were unsustainably expensive was because everybody is on expensive, name brand antidepressants. The stupid witch didn't even act interested in what I had to say. I wonder how much tax money is it costing to give that idiot a job and a nice office to sit around + ignore tax payers.

  • Alan watts is a legend of legends

  • i have to brush my teeth now... and go to bed.

  • when listen i cant but think of,"into the wild,voltare's?smear on society itself,and of coarse the hippies being a commercialised cut-out of beatnic's...anyways cheers from ohio,and enjoy yer path,u only get one.

  • Look at the word individualism break it down in-divided-dualism. This is how ''I'' percieve reality two fold either I do or do not beyond the ''I'' there are ''we'' beyond the ''we'' there is ''us'' beyond the ''us'' there is ''them'' and all of this because I cannot consolidate the duality that is my nature. Colectively this take flight in guises such as religion governments etc

  • "They are so unsure of the validity of their game rules that they say everyone must play...'Everyone must play' is the rule in the United States..." Who made the rule? Bureaucracies. "That kind of society, watch out for it. It turns in a click into fascism." We're all equal in the sight of God. The Golden Rule is based on the truth. It's not complicated. Religious, corporate and government bureaucrats complicate it with lies for profit. They get away with it because we let them. WHY?

  • 1:04....i was thinking of the same thing the other day! that they want us to be dependant and not self sufficiant and free of theyre mass of complicated things!..ie: if the Cheyenne started hunting again and living the old self supporting way, Washington would flip its wig in a panic!

  • Simple living and high thinking or Simple thinking and relentlessly striving to keep up with the Jones's

  • WE NEED A HERMIT COLONY!~

  • I want to be in the mountain.

  • idk about you guys but im one standing on the mountain top.

  • thnx for posting this great vid!

  • @cryinglaughingloving hahahaha spot on ! Interweb makes the (thanks..now leave me alone bit so much more cleaner ! Okay far to much chat I'm fucking up Hermit etiquette.....me gone, peace !!

  • im a hermit...this now concludes my social activity for the day

  • @CantWeedThis - I am right there with you (this comment concludes my social activity for the day)

  • @everythingislameface hahaha ! there are 529 of us minus the 7 in denial !

  • Learn the truth joyofsatan. com

  • Nice to see some fellow hermits just being. I too am a hermit by choice. I hold and ground the vibration of love into the earth matrix, for the all,when they are too caught in maya to be able to. Love and peace to all. Many thanks for this wonderful sharing of wisdom. Namaste

  • I am a hermit originally by circumstance ,now by choice.

  • There is no checking out in the US. Not unless you purchase a piece of land $60k for 5 acres of desert land in Cali. Than you need an aquaponics system, a solar energy system and or wind energy, a small biodiesal plant, a biodiesal vehicle to transport your organic fruits and vegetable that you make just enough selling at farmer's market to cover your taxes for the land you don't really own. Than you'll need animals for protein. Even than you wouldn't be REALLY checked out. Still a slave

  • I sold everything I got and bought a farm in the country south of Chile.

    After that my life begun to makes sense once more. After a year or two of finding my place and activities in this place I really find happyness in all my days and nights.

    For those who feel the call of the hermit I say fight for it and be who you want to be.

    Watts always an inspiration.

  • As Jesus said "Behold for the Kingdom of god is within"

    Its right behind the eyelids in our consciousess.

    The Material world is Maya(illusion). Once you cleanse the Heart/Mind , the heavens will be added on to you!!

  • 1990 is when i checked out...its not easy without money in ones pocket mind. I wish i could find a group of loving folk who welcome people like me into there group...thats even harder...peace to you all

  • I am that Man living in the Mountain !

  • @SubconsciousDweller With a internet connection...

  • Democracy is legalised slavery, it was never abolished.

    Democracy has to be imposed because poverty and jails are the two things that result.

    An election merely dictates where the money is spent NOT how much is borrowed.

    Check what happened when your parents registered your "birth" with the government.

    Find out what the legal act of "Registration" is and what it means.

    See democracy in action below.

    X

    If you want to see it again I'm afraid you'll have to wait 4 - 5 years.

    ;-)

  • @smudge6699 excellent keep spreading the Word

    say it

    chant it

    rave it

    rant it

    :)

  • "your not in this world to live up to my expectation,like im not in this world to live up to yours"

  • Brilliant speech!!!!

  • Just enjoy the moment.

  • Oh God. I'm a beatnick.

  • @bobbygnosis i was thinking the same thing :) i'm a writer here in Belgium and we (some friends and girlfriends) are going for it. We're taking the trip to Europe to visit temples, have fun, write, drink, experiment, dance and live life :) One guy in our group even quit his job for it. i'm very excited cause i wil keep writing when we're travelling. It's like Watts said here: "we are watching you, we love you but we don't wanna play the game." thats exactly what i said to my girlfriend yesterday

  • @bobbygnosis are you really a beatnick or has the internet devoured you? lol

  • @bobbygnosis hahaha it'll be ok...

  • @bobbygnosis

    with a laptop?

    

  • @TheBrabbers It's a tower from a couple years back.

    It's still good, though.

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  • Alan's my go to guy, when the loneliness gets to much, i stick him on,close my eyes and find my respect for life flood back in, then i let my imagination run, and what do you know im o.k for a few days, then i get down, and around and round we go!!!

  • @4917314106726598 I am the same way. I wonder what would happen if we didn't "cling" to Alan because as he and many others have said - there isn't anything to hold on to.

  • The moment you cant relate to the values of the world around you, you become a hermit

  • @Paalfaal UH OOOOOOOOOO SPAGETTI OS

  • Alan watts puts it in such a way that makes you feel aright.

    Not getting a "job" and living a life that my parents expect me to live is sounding that much better.

    Mountain tops, here I come.

  • @hailmetal16 But can you really do it? Can you abandon the music, the society, the arts and go into yourself without parasiting off of other people?

  • @windmoveswater

    If you're speaking in personal terms, the only thing I'd have trouble leaving is the music. I play, and I'd need to play.

  • @hailmetal16 I don't think anyone would consider you lesser hermit if you took a guitar with you lol

  • @windmoveswater

    :P Hah, yes. vv

    Unless they don't like the idea of material goods.

    I could argue that with saying it's an extension of my soul.

    Sorry, having an argument with my self, wasting your time. haha.

    Thankyou for the insight.

    ( this is hailmetal's new account )

  • Then there are those who would always view themselves as "on the fringe". The ones who think they know or are "enlightened". People love to say that when they have a huge following that they are right. And proclaim that they are right about others being wrong when most disagree. Societies are always divided up in extremes. Everyone knows that to be balanced in everything is the way. But they just don't know how.

  • Individuals are complex in covering up their insecurities. Ironically, the realization that wealth isn't everything, leads more people to levitate towards religion. They hate to associate their belief in a god as part of an organized religion. However, they are still part of this notion of conforming without truly thinking for themselves. People are not critical enough when relying on their personal train of reasoning and anecdotal evidence. One illusion for another.

  • @LameCrippled

    What if you swapped one illusion for a glimpse of reality?

    ;-)

  • @smudge6699 Another chance for scrutiny.

  • @LameCrippled

    What if it stands up to analysis?

    :-)

  • @LameCrippled

    People (me included) keep assuming that anyone knows more about reality and the universe than them, so they feel inferior. Feeling inferior makes a lot of them bring others down so they have someone to feel superior too.

  • @LameCrippled: "leads more people to levitate towards religion"... Uhm... Did you mean "gravitate"? :D

  • @navamanas lol my bad.

  • @LameCrippled God is not organized religion.

  • @bobbygnosis What do you mean by "God"? Call it an organization, a community or a small group centered around any god concept. These gods are still memes. Projections of human guilt, fear, ego, imagination and desire.

  • @LameCrippled Memes are memes. God is god. God is not meme. Meme is not god.

    I agree that TBN is retarded, but TBN is not the arbiter / representative of God. My only point is that categorical condemneation of spirituality or teachings of religions is aburd.

    God is not religion. Religion is not God.

  • @bobbygnosis Never heard of TBN(I'm not american). I googled it, so I guess you are talking about a christian broadcasting network. Are you a pantheist, panentheist or something? I view criticisms for these different categories(namely abrahamic religions) as a way to counter active proselytizers and ridiculous evangelical dribble. Whether these religions wrongfully represent god is not even a concern. I personally have no problems and even have respect for most other religions & their teachings.

  • @LameCrippled I am not a pantheist partly on the grounds that it would constitute a belief in something. Not that I'm a nihilist. Ridicule of anything seems to miss the point. Condemnation without investigation is the height of ignorance. Since nothing can be 'fully' investigated nothing can be really known. Which would make any condemnation inherently absurd. I no longer think in terms of good and evil. Without conflict there would be nothing.

    Still . . . I do think TBN is pretty douchy.

  • @bobbygnosis "Condemnation without investigation is the height of ignorance. Since nothing can be 'fully' investigated nothing can be really known." I agree to an extent. However, within the framework of what is already known to this day, it is possible to "condemn" unsubstantiated claims. e.g creationism.

    No one can ever claim to be 100% certain except those of ignorance. Science knows that what is seen as a fact today, may change tomorrow >> IF evidence or the means of observation changes.

  • @LameCrippled Creationism in the TBN sense seems pretty retarded, I'll agree. But technically we don't really know. I'm not in any way advocating creationism. I'm just saying that I wasn't there. No one on this planet knows what the happened before their nervous systems started functioning. By this criteria evolution is also an unsubstantiated claim. It makes a bit more sense, but it doesn't explain DNA / RNA / Cambrian Cxplosion. More complex than modern computers and yet accidental.

    Suspect.

  • @LameCrippled Also I don't hold scientific method to quite the high esteem many others do. It's all fine and well and I use it all the time, but it's not all THAT great. Compare a dog to a human. Our actions are so complex and elaborate and mysterious to dogs. They watch with rapt attention with no idea what the hell it is we're doing. Calculus is beyond any dog. The sanctity of marriage vows are beyond a dog.

    That is exactly our position in the universe. Scientific method or no, we're dunces.

  • @LameCrippled ''No one can ever claim to be 100% certain except those of ignorance''. Are YOU certain of this be careful when dealing with absolutes

  • @vincikd007bg008 only the Sith deal in absolutes.

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  • @LameCrippled 'those who know how to think do not need teachers'

  • @vincikd007bg008 LOL, that is idiotic. Who taught you how to write the letters composing your post? Who taught you anything you knew up until you were done with High School? Pffft. You must be taught solidly BEFORE you can transcend and become your own point of origin. And even then, it's not a solid assertion.

  • @bullmeecham

    Who taught you to speak? I remember my parents putting me through rigorous elocution training when I was a babby.

  • @Jcolinsol Reading comprehension not your strong suit? Or do you think magical learning is real too?

  • @LameCrippled and what of the atheists that join the wave on non-religion just to be hip and trendy?

  • @deceiver123m I will say the exact same thing.

  • escaping the flies in the marketplace

  • @zulumabala

    Yes that is hard, but the harder thing is to reach mystical states while still living within the corrupting forces of society. Of course periods of retreat and respite will be useful, but maintaining a connection with the culture and society will better allow one to show others the way. If one is more detached from interaction, no one will be able to learn from your example or wise words.

    The world needs lay practitioners as much as it does monks

  • Yes, that is hard. The harder thing is to

  • Alan is king! i myself have always felt like a stranger given my shy, introverted ways. yet i think this seemingly unfortunate fate has, on the other hand, enabled me to see deeper into the realities of consciousness, the pointlessness of much of our social undertakings, and the beautiful potential of a higher consciousness. the hardest thing tho is shrugging off the shame and guilt the outsider is conditioned to feel, in order to keep us in line. it runs so deep

  • @zulumabala It seems to be that those who realize what life is and what 'it's all about' are introverts.

    People are scary, they're insane even. We love them but they ARE scary.

  • @joneselius

    Great observation. That is so true. Once you realize what life is about you know longer "play the game." You are no longer trying to "be somebody or something." You just "ARE." Therefore you end up not talking very much but enjoying life a whole lot more. People may think you are weird and crazy lol, but it no longer matters. Nothing really does. I think they "seem" introverted but it isn't because they are "shy." It is because there is no "need" to BS. No insecurities.

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  • @DoNotBeHighandMighty I agree. I'm often called miserable and cynical because I don't TALK MUCH! I don't frown or bully, accuse or berate. People see quiet people as a threat to their extravegance, the quiter the person the more he thinks. You're not allowed to think now, that's why our populations attention span is crammed into 30 second tid bits :)

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  • I'm a semi-hermit because people these days are such morons and I find it painful to be around people who don't think as deeply as I do (my perceptions).

    I believe as we think so we attract. When I change my thinking, "they" will change.

    I could with some help with that. :)

  • i would like to know where this is from, i cannot find it.

  • Oh how relevant his fascism remark is now. Look what has happened to society! Our fear is, literally, turning us into fascist states!

  • xrock4 people hang with other people mostly cause they are lonely, are scared of and hate themselves, and feel like nobody likes them (lack culture thinking). people hang by themselves mostly cause they aren't lonely, love themselves, and know they can hang with people anytime they want (abundant culture thinking). the scary, angry, violent, vampires are generally the "extrovert" "people" persons. love them, have compassion, and be wary of them. conformity is self loathing, self destruction.

  • @takepills Some people are born to be loners, others are born to be extroverts. No need for extra analysis. Just as some are born to be tall and some to be short. Not all personality is a result of society. Some of it is biological.

  • peace and conscience love to all life~~~

  • do unto others as they have done unto you. We do not need the universe and we do not need others. We can love ourselves and leave everyone else behind. Love is a lie and life is madness. Spiritual pride is ultimate and powerful. Let's embrace the free you and the free me, that means let us sin and do good, let us do whatever we want whether it be good or evil. Let us take revenge on those who have wronged us, let us be masters of our own domain, our own universe, for I proclaim myself as master

  • My sister and I were talking about this the other day. A simpler life. Too much have to have and chasing the dollar. I am so exhausted stressing over it. I was so ambitious and yet I am 40 and exhausted. In the movie Bourne Supreme (I think) there was the scene when they were living by the water. I watch that movie just to see that scene. So calm.

  • Id recommend anyone who wants more of this to get the full 12 disc set Out of your Mind to understand this in context. It contains most of his lectures in order. I beliv this is the last part of dis 9 or 10

  • HAHAHAHAHA HES SO RIGHT

  • Ya, the city doesn't like me either.

  • i don't wait in lines...

  • but you hafta be wary of others wanting to force you to give up your freedoms for their betterment cuz they are there. we sould try to be free and easy but we are not separate from the world outside conditions that may try to force us in their game. islam, orthodox judaism or christianity.there are things valuble enuf to fight die and live for.

  • To what extent is Alan a non-joiner?

  • As I try to explain such a way of life described here to my parents only to feel an intense sadness knowing they have devoted their lives to a piece of paper called money and that they are a product of the industrial revolution brainwashed by smart marketers to feel worthy of their cause. And in turn unions and management agree that they ought to sell the time of their lives working in exchange for survival when such a free and simple form of survival exists right before our very eyes.

  • thanks. 

  • is it really possible to live without joining the game, i need a how to guide!!!

  • @ApeShallNevaKillApe Meditation! =D

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  • Despite the loads of generalizations made here, he provides an insightful advocation of society's "non-joiners". Much appreciated.

  • @SomethingSeaTrashed

    Yes, there is..It may not be easy. It's easiest if you don't have a lot of ideas to swallow, beliefs to get rid of. But if you do, then try with all your heart to notice when you're being in the future or past, notice this clearly, and bring yourself to this present moment where your hands are, and your body is being. Over and over if you do this you become the master of your mind, and thoughts will stop, because most thoughts concern later, or before, not now.

  • At the end when he say's That there's is something more than Government. He continued to say " Not every body could live like a bunch of lonely loosers, We need someone to make our lives look better. In reality what do they have.? We're not all like that, We need some touch too you know, It's a hard life to live without touch.

  • When I was reading Alan Watt's books, I pictured him as a boring man with grey hair & glasses. It's great to see that he looks as interesting as he talks...and he laughs a lot. It makes philosophy seem less dry & cultured

  • i just lost THE GAME

  • Its nice to hear these truthes spoken so clearly.

  • @operationmindfreedom in the most literal way, i hate when people put some loud ass ambient techno behind his wise words.

  • why? I thought Alan Watts promoted music & dance...it's kind of fitting

  • It really is. :)

  • of course...because its the yang to the yin....you really couldnt take the journey if you remembered everything....it may even be voluntary who knows

  • of course...thats why you dream....its very painful and tiring for the soul to be in the body....so dreaming is the souls way of escaping to home ...thats why I think death/life are the same thing....the game never ends

  • of course they are illusions...good call....the minute you see that everyone had different ideas about whats right and wrong...you see its just a frame of reference...not a truth of any kind

  • ya wouldnt it be funny if its the animals that all go to a heaven and humans are all burned for eternity for their cruelty !!!!1 LOLOLOL

  • hmmm didnt think about that till you said that....so even the watcher is watched....kind of makes sense....always good to know there are people who understand more than you...I hope our civilization is being watched....that would give me a lot of hope

  • viva la alan/you/me

  • I'm a hermit because I've been rejected for most of my life. I've learned many things thanks to the isolation my fear has provided. I believe we are simple creatures, obsessed with pleasure. Even those who claim to lead a life free of excessive stimulation are pleased by expressing that to others. I believe my fear of life replaced my fear of death many years ago. I know I'm just as selfish as anyone else. Is there a way to accept this reality, be at peace, and not delude myself?

  • all u gotta do is evolve ur selfishness by making it serve all. just sit still, lock ur door, burn that dross, cultivate awe-sum w ur new in=sight. then share that shit fool! ur story is what does the do. show that ppl don't need to be prostitutes to survive. its dif for everyone. listen to that intuition. it won't let u down ever. feed it make grow. planet awe-sum.

  • @fetalbetal I think you need to look into the eyes of somebody you trust or love. A family relative, or something like that.

    Really stare at that pupil...the blackness that from which EVERYTHING else arises. And that might give you an incentive to live, and not to stagnate. I wouldn't recommend staring at your own just yet.

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  • @fetalbetal Thanks fetal, I've got social problems too, and these insecure societies are very intolerant of people on the edges.

    But equally they need people like us to feel that they fit in. They depend on you, and they haven't got the guts to be where you are, they are habitual and love walking and talking alike. But If you are an outsider, you have an understanding of who you are, and who they are better than anyone else. That's the reward I think...

  • Consciousish: I agree completely, I think so, I think I understand what you mean. You're alright in my books.

  • Is there a way to accept this reality, be at peace, and not delude myself?

    Yes. Live ONLY in the present moment.

  • Too unrealistic.. if you forget the past you make the same mistakes.. I'm terribly unhappy.. but I understand myself and this world fairly well.

  • @fetalbetal stop thinking :)

  • @GanDyPoop You

  • @Guesticle COWABUNGA!!

  • @fetalbetal Couldn't of said it any better... Something I've learned is that connections with people are rare. It's good to strike when the connection is strong, especially with the opposite sex. If you feel the connection then they should also. The problem is that people are afraid of attachment because of hurt feelings... but they forget the ebb and flow. Intense pleasure may lead to intense pain, life...

  • @fetalbetal Do not think of it.

  • @fetalbetal Yes. Accept it. Every person for a different purpose. Some are born to be happy extroverts, some are born to be thinking loners. Comparing our state of mind against a society's idea of "normal" is what Alan is talking about. Forget the outside. Inside is yours and only yours. It is not meant to fit them. They will fit you.

  • @xrock4  Bravo.

  • @xrock4 What do you think the purpose is? I can't help but believe we are expanding through space waiting to die. This makes me very sad because that makes all pain in vain. Pain is contagious, unrelenting, and perverse.. What is the purpose of pain? An alert to the brain to adapt maybe? But when the body or mind can no longer adapt, or never could, pain overwhelms and suffocates.

  • @fetalbetal We all die. It's what you do with yourself from birth to death. Happiness is contagious as well. Spend some time everyday smiling. The body works two ways. Mentality affects the body and the body affects mentality. By smiling the mind will get the message to be happy. Try it and you will see. Smile right now and hold it for five minutes. You will feel happier. Keep smiling. Try it everyday. Standing straight with head high will make you more confident. The power is yours.

  • @xrock4 I only smile on drugs.. I've abstained for long periods of time but only frowned. I've tried smiling and thinking positive.. it has helped but I can never temporarily escape without chemicals, insomnia, and escapist delusions. Unless the mercury in my teeth causes my asocial behavior and voting is meaningless in a corrupt government. If that's the case I suffer from reality, a reality in which I trade money for confidence. I'm not complaining, just trying to explain. I avoid a lot.

  • @fetalbetal What do you mean by escapist delusions?

  • @beta447 I mean that my belief that my mercury-amalgam fillings could cause my social anxiety is often considered fringe conspiracy nonsense.. which I see a good argument for as well. And my stance that voting is meaningless in a careless society is considered bad by almost everyone.. for a good enough reason I guess. I just wonder if I'm wrong about my teeth and just using it as an excuse for my diagnosis of bipolar 2 adhd(bs I think). I've lived in my own place for over 6 years now. cld b isl

  • @fetalbetal Perhaps determine the mass of your fillings, then the maximum that could have found its way into circulation, and finally how many neurons could be killed by the given mass of escaped substance.

  • @tsKlemp Hmm I could look into that.. sometimes I feel pretty stupid talking about how mercury shouldnt be in teeth but I find the arguments against them very convincing.. We need a robotic super brain to judge our problems unbiased. In the year 3000?

  • @fetalbetal It's up to you brother. Decide to be happy. Positive thinking is an amazing thing. Learn to dance. Learn social dynamics and go outside, make friends, pick up girls. Life is great.

  • @xrock4 My fear of rejection/ humiliation has kept me from ever really being able to approach girls.. that depresses me a lot because they want confidence and that seems so far from me usually. I do have to work at it and you are right. Thank you.

  • @fetalbetal There are techniques to social interactions. It is quite easy really. People are animals that react to body language and speech quite predictably. Put that smile on your face and study. Happy times lay ahead (get it? "lay ahead" I meant that to have a sexual double meaning...)

  • @xrock4 Wow, I looked right past the good advice you were giving. It's greatly appreciated. :]

  • @fetalbetal ohhh i was just like you when yung. ill tell you wat gets you over this problem. you have to become involved in activities preferably with girls but you must think about the activity you havta be in the mind of concentrating on wat ur doing so as to keep those imobilizing fears at bay. you have to delve into life. you like these girls but you kno wen you break it down theyre no diff mentally than u.

  • @adzug  You... like me? haha whoaaaa

  • @fetalbetal well i was terribly shy with girls when young. just remember they want you too. as much if not more than you want them. good luck

  • @adzug Thank you, I'll keep trying and good luck to you too, I hope we all find what we want and live the best lives we can.

  • @fetalbetal i feel ya brosef. I am in the army infantry so naturally i am surrounded by psychologically crippled individuals throughout my day. but where they begin to think i am a hermit is because i would rather hide in my room than go to the strip club on my days off. or rather i enjoy traveling around europe by myself and not with another. they find me very peculiar