Obama is not black he is project by racist smart rich white/jews ppl to destroy real dark/brown skin african-american black race and culture what means that white ppl are fuckin racist and makes racism still alive!
Abortion is wrong, evil and genocide. Abortion is help to racist white man and all white ppl to kill and destroy real dark/brown skin black sons/kids, black family, race and culture. we need to stop this and start take care of our kids, start love and respect yourself and your black children! pls my black ppl wake up we need more real dark/brown skin black sons/kids and family in america and in all the world black love/black power!
BLACK OR MIXED WOMEN LIKELY TO ABORTION REAL DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK BABIES THAN MIXED/LIGHT SKINNED LOOKING AND MOST OF THESE MIXED LOOKING KIDS GO TO WHITE RACE. BLACK WOMEN LOVE WHITE MAN'S PENISES AND HATE REAL DARK SKIN BLACK MEN. NIGGER BITCHES IS NEW KKK FOR BLACK MEN AND BLACK RACE TODAY THIS SHIT IS JUST FUCKING UP. WE NEED TO WAKE UP!
BLACK WOMEN DOING SAME SHIT WHAT WHITE MEN TELL THEM TO DO. BLACK WOMEN LOVE WHITE MEN SO THEY DOING EVERYTHING FOR THEM. RACIST WHITE MEN MAKE BLACK WOMEN LIKE DUMB CHEAP SEX SLAVE WHORES IN THIS WORLD AND TELL BLACK BITCHES TO KILL THEIR OWN DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK MEN/KIDS AND PPL. FUCKIN PALE UGLY SMALL DICK WHITE MEN PAYING TO BLACK WOMEN TO MAKE ABORTION AND BLACK WHORES DOING IT TO MAKE MONEY OF BLACK CHILD'S LIFES.
because if we don't stop fighting with each other and fuck with ugly racist crackers then black women, men, real dark skin black race/kids and culture will disappear in this world just like in south-america! pls wake up!
black women need to stop bitching and trying to date of another brotha who don't wanna be playe and can understand your personality no matter how he looking. you black women need to stop being such selfish dumb bitches because all this shit works only against you and your black men. stop think only your vagina and start thinking your head as smart black woman and mother of race.
your daughters sleep with old pale ugly santa claus looking crakkers/wiggers like porno whores at a young age before they will sleep with us and when they become fat old nasty with dirty vaginas they trying to come back to us, talking about black love and how they want "good black man" smh! and black women as mother of black race says nothing about this but still blame black men in these problems and you wondering why your black men/sons are f'cking up? BLACK WOMEN IS REASON WHY BLACK MEN DIE
most of real dark/brown skin black men (not mixed ones) are with black women even if they are ugly or fat as shit smh! if some black men date/marry outside its only because black women want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! MOST OF BLACK WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH ALOT OF MEN FROM OTHER RACES THAT ARE DISEASED! MOST BLACK WOMEN THINK THAT THEY ARE BETTER THAN BLACK MEN, SO THEY SEEK NON-BLACK PARTNERS AND THIS THE RESULT!
Black Women started this whole mess. All of the rants are responses.
They never acknowledge or try to fix there own problems. Its always men or both. You never take responsibility for anything unless you can find someone else to offload the blame on as well and that is the biggest problem with modern black women.
This has always been a mostly "1" directional event. Black women talk trash and men "respond" negatively. If men were not getting crap they would stop. The problem is on your end.
many BW are deliberately working against BM and some are unaware they're doing it. And whats really sad is that these are the so-called educated women who do this crap. I'm not blaming BW for everything but they're a significant source of teh problem.
The BM complain'n about BW are the ones who actually are doing something. What good is it to point to BM in prison,when those are the men that BW flock too.
Historically, the white man has been the clear enemy of the BM. As early as the Willie Lynch Letter, whites have instituted SYSTEMS whereby the BM has been held down & reenslaved. Once those SYSTEMS took hold, the blk community crumbled from the inside out. Whites also poisoned BW with 'priorities', that are unhealthy for the blk community. Blk children are DOOMED to failure without the structure that is EXCLUSIVE to what FATHERS offer. 'College' is NOT the #1 way to bond blks together.
PART 2B) Are you talking about the ones that spawn the myriad of young black men who've become so emasculated, that by a certain age they "realise" they are gay? Single parent family = DYSFUNCTION, which is precisely why our young black men are incarcerated and effeminised, because unfortunately the BW has lost complete control of the black home. As I said earlier, THIS is precisely what plagues the black community. Get a reality check and stop the fanciful thinking.
@ezekielthemack How do you explain the gay males who come from two-parent homes? I have a gay male friend who came from a traditional household, with both a mother and father. And yes, the father was the head of the household. If the bw is running the household all by herself because the black man refuses to do his job as father...how on earth can you put ALL the blame on her? And please, please, stop with the negative stereotypes that you are putting on ALL children of single mothers. I know
@GrannyCapBandit The majority of gay black males today are coming from SINGLE PARENT HOMES. Why? Because there is no father figure intrinsic to the household to teach a boy to be a man. As a consequence a young boy grows up taking on his Mother's characteristics and traits, thus making him more feminine. Are you from a two parent home or a single parent home?
@ezekielthemack Do you have any actual proof that this is true...about the majority of gay black males coming from single-parent homes? Even so, correlation does not equal causation. I'm sorry, but most black mothers enforce traditional gender roles, and young boys are often chastised for exhibiting feminine qualities. Either way, does being gay stop a man from contributing positively to society? And I'm from a two-parent home.
@ezekielthemack Thats not totally true! a case like dat can have a reverse effect as well.I know plenty Brothas who never even knew their Fathers & were raised solely by Mom and still turned out great.As far as Dads not bein in da Home.There's alotta intricacies dat must be looked at 1st before concluding such notions.Me Myself.None of dat shit applies to Me.Also I know plenty of Brothas who can make da same claim.That there notion is true 4 sum But not 4 all BlackMen.
@visionkingdom The number of brothas turning out "great" as you put it, who are coming from a single parent home headed by a mother are the EXCEPTION, not the rule. Many, if not most of the young black men who are incarcerated are coming from single parent homes headed by a MATRIARCH. Do your damn research fool!!!!
@ezekielthemack 1st of all this is nuffin new.what U see now always have and always will be.Only difference is.Black folks as a whole are totally lost,dumb downed & dumb founded.I never said They was da rule.I was just stating a fact.Life on Earth was Started & Maintained with A MATRIARCH.So U not saying nuffin I dnt know.The problem is dat Blacks brought into a system dat was designed for Us to be destroyed.So a Father being there or not duznt garuantee shit.DO UR RESEARCH FOOL!!!!
4. Blck woman are the back bone of the black community by holding the family together, LOL do u even know what a family consist of? It consist of a man a woman and children . My god
@NYDASH28 There are different types of families. Just because there are not a married man and woman does not mean they are not a family. Single parent homes ARE families too.
@GrannyCapBandit "Just because there are not a married man and woman does not mean they are not a family." - This is nonsense. A family is NOT a family unless it consists of a mother and father who are intrinsic to a household. A single parent home IS NOT a familial home, it is a TRAVESTY of a what a family is. It is this kind of warped thinking, particular amongst black women, that plagues the black community.
@ezekielthemack It may be nonsense to you, but I am not about to call the beautiful single-parent families that I see everyday, the ones that raised the wonderful friends, family members and mentors that I have today a "travesty." Here are two definitions of family: (1) group of relatives: a group of people who are closely related by birth, marriage, or adoption and
@GrannyCapBandit PART 2) What planet are you on? When you talk about the "beautiful single parent families" that you see everyday, are you talking about the ones that spawn the myriad of criminals that inhabit the prison industrial complex, are you talking about that ones that spawn a myriad of young men who have no idea how to be a man, because they've been raised by a single parent mother with no clue how to teach a boy to a be man?
@ezekielthemack I'm on planet Earth. Where are you? The majority of my male friends were raised by single mothers. 2 are at the University of Florida making A's, One is at FSU with me, Another is in the Air Force, do I need to go on? While there are some children that are in prison, there are also some who are out in the world, contributing to society in a positive way. Let's stop with the stereotypes. Also, as far as those male friends go, they are men. They are responsible, ambitious,
@GrannyCapBandit "The majority of my male friends were raised by single mothers. 2 are at the University of Florida making A's, One is at FSU with me, Another is in the Air Force, do I need to go on? " - No you don't need to go on, because you CAN'T go on. These young men are the EXCEPTION not the rule and it is nonsensical thinking like yours that gives many BW the false belief that they are doing a good job as single parents - for the most part their endeavours have been woeful.
@ezekielthemack Bw do the best they can as single parents. If it isn't enough, maybe it's because they need two parents. If you agree, then you need to get on black men for that, not black women. And yes, I can go on, but you'd continue to discredit them. My thinking isn't nonsensical, it's realistic. Why put down mothers who have obviously done a great job at raising their children?
@ezekielthemack assertive, intelligent...they are very good men. Their mothers did the best they could, and they succeeded. And while there are some who have no clue what a "real" man is, no all of them come from single mothers. Some come from two-parent homes as well. Not only that, are you really about to blame all of that on the black woman? I'm sorry, but a black man had to abandon his son in order for such a predicament to occur. Let's be real and tell both sides of the story.
@ezekielthemack (2) people living together: a group of people living together and functioning as a single household, usually consisting of parents and their children. The keyword in the second definition is "usually," meaning, "commonly encountered, experienced, or observed. However, just because a family may not be common does not mean that this family doesn't exist. You don't have to hate or invalidate single-parents in order to promote two-parent households. That kind of thinking
3. Here we go with the tired, bw getting more jobs, more in school when we know BW will kill their black babies in abortions and killing black boys and u say black women are the backbone, look at what the back bone has done to the community, yo u know what i not even typing more of anything because in this 2011 and u stupid black bitches still preaching this TIRED same B.S all day every day, got damn i am so glad i am done with u women, the way how u all think and the mentality u all have is Fup
@NYDASH28 But the fact is, what I said is true. It's proven. Some bw may have abortions, but some bm often leave their children fatherless, and sometimes, these bm pressure or help these bw to get abortions. Bw alone did not destroy our community, we had help from our bm. Until you realize that it is not all on the responsibility of one gender, you will not be helping, but harming the community.
It's funny how black men can influence black women when they are put on the spot. I wonder how much help black men get credit for when black women get a good job? Most of the black men black women go after are the ones that will leave them and black women know it. The good guy get overlooked and then get blamed for the ones black women were stupid enough to go after in the first place. You black women got a lot of hog wash with you.
2.u know what, if this sister was older, i would say she is talking sh!t but she seems young so i'll give her the benefit of the doubt as to think she really doesn;t know what she is talking about. A lot of bm are doing a lot of positive things, u all try to lump us all with the losers, and if bm are in jail who put them there? the wm and the bw put many bm in jail and talk about fathers not being their, u acting as if all bm get up and walk out their childs life when we all know u pick loser bm
@NYDASH28 I know what I'm talking about. Do you? I know black men are doing positive things, I never said they weren't. I said that some bw may not see that, and therefore, do not see what they are helping bm towards. Bm, such as yourself, try to lump all bw with the "bad" ones as well. You are no different. The wm and bw did not put anyone in jail--those men put themselves in jail. You're putting words of other bw into my mouth, words I've never said at all.
She just contridicted her self, if she saying bw do not see bm working towards anything, in turn they are not helping bm build nothing so in essence not only they are not working with bm they are not working with bm. In 2011, i personally have stop messing with bw because too many of u all are just clueless to what is going on, u all only see what is infront your eyes and not look deeper at the issue. n talk about bm know how to talk towards bw, look how bw speak to bm, like dog shit.
@NYDASH28 Okay. Since you no longer deal with black women, you can go on your happy way. It is clueless to not try to see the other side's point of view if you are truly for positive improvement. It is clueless to blame one side for all of the problems when there are two sides involved. However, you see what you want to see.
GCB thank you very much for this video. You said everything I was feeling and thinking on this subject and I know I'm not alone.
Whatever divisions were in our community before have been widened and worsened with the onslaught of these "bashing" videos. They have solved nothing and have been a vice. They might have even created enemies that they did not have before. This is a shame since no one really cares about the black man BUT his woman. Now he is trying his best to kill that.
They incorporate every weapon against you that they can and they are not content until they have torn your self-esteem down completely. In fact, there is so much hatred against black women, I'm starting to believe that black women are CURSED!!!!!!!!! :(
@22hebrew I'm starting to believe the same. But in order for relationships between black men and black women to work, both groups must be willing to work together and to stop blaming each other and look at their own individual contribution to the mess.
We have to work together. It seems to me that black women complain about black men and their short coming, (through no fault or doing of their own), and black men actually HATE black women; I mean they down right despise us. They talk about how they don't want you and how no other race of men want you (I couldn't care less) and they put non-black women in their video to also speak against you.
I believe that the white man is responsible for putting us in this condition, but it is our (black men and women) responsibility to come out of this condition. We cannot get anywhere blamming each other; it's counter productive. Black women and black men have their faults so pointing the finger is useless.
@GrannyCapBandit, thank you so much sister for making this video. There is so much hate for black women in this world. All this hate on youtube coming from black men is ridiculous, disheartening and one-sided. I hate when black men and brainwashed black women mention black women having babies out of wedlock as if she gets pregnant on her own. Surely, black mens' kids are also out of wedlock.
SISTER, YOU SHOULD NOT MADE THIS VIDEO, TRYING TO LOOK AS GOOD AS STATUESQUE ONE.. SHE IS A LEADER AND YOU ARE NOT ONE,
YOU CAN ONLY SEE WHATS ON THE SURFACE, BUT YOU CANT SEE WHATS DEEPER!!!
BLACK MEN LEAVE THE MOTHER OF THEIR CHILDREN BECAUSE SHE REFUSES TO SUBMIT, AND SHE KNOWS SHE CAN USE THE SYSTEM AGAINST HIM! THATS WHY YOU ARE SINGLE, BECAUSE NOBODY CANT TELL YOU SHYT
@lordnemo19 I wasn't trying to look as good as anyone. I was just giving another perspective on the issue. Nor am I trying to be a leader. To be honest, I believe that the people who place all of the blame on black women for the state of the black community are the ones who cannot see what's going on beneath the surface, because if they did, they'd have to admit that BOTH black men and women are equally at fault in different ways and that we play off of each other.
@lordnemo19 Amen,there are against us and too many of them love the thug like pookie and t bone but good brothas are walked on and not respected.If one of us lose our job rather laid off or fired over shit racist white bull shit,these sistas will turn on you in a heart beat,as long as a brotha is fat in the pocket with dollars,man these sistas will be you with until that money is gone.
decent black folks with good common sense is very few and far between nowadays with thug culture in all i once went open a car door for a women and later on she told me i seemed like the type to date a white girl im like wtf but thats how a lot of sistas are today i cant even relate to these black girls today theyre very strange and dont seem to possess logic in thier thinking and behavior.i thing deep down inside they feel like they dont deserve good men .i dont talk to most blackgirls today
@326Ka I guess we had different experiences, because while I know of the thugs and hoodrats, I also know about the good, decent, black men and women that are doing something positive for and with their lives. I hope you meet more black people like this, because we're most certaintly out there.
my advise to black men dont worry about what black women are doing get your shit together and biuld with any women who will work with you because you cant save those who dont want to be saved
this women is right the black women of today is so arrogant in thier ignorance to the point where if your a decent black man getting with a black women is your very very last option.a lot of black men are no good but a huge amount of black women today are trash and proud of it and the thug is thier first choice its sad but true
@326Ka Woah...where did arrogance come from? While there are some arrogant black women who believe they can do no wrong, there are also a lot of black women who are not arrogant, but simply do not see the negative impact of their actions. Black men can and are also ignorant to a lot of the stuff they do to negatively impact black women, but it doesn't mean they're arrogant. Arrogance isn't visible until the person rejects the possibility that they could be doing something wrong, even when it has
@326Ka (pt.2) been presented to them in a respectful way. Then you may be able to claim arrogance, but that could also just be the natural defensive tendencies people begin to exhibit when they're confronted with something negative about themselves. A decent black man has a good chance of getting with a good black woman, considering the fact that the majority of black women only want and are interested in black men, despite their complaints about them.
Many BM hate BW because they hate themselves. They are jealous of BW's success. BM's egos are out of control. They don't want to work hard but they just want to get everything free and easy.
@2Baiforev I can't make blanket statements about that. BW are becoming more successful than BM, but living in this society where the top dog is a white man, who do you think he would be less threatened by if he had to hire them, accept them into a university, etc: A black man or a black woman? I do believe some BM have problems with BW being so successful, and I know that BM have barriers when it comes to going to the top that BW may not have to deal with, but I believe that some of it
this is a good vid. u do know that stat1 hates bw dont u? she blames them for everything wrong. but she wont say nothing about bm. she really dont care 4 bm or bw. she is on here looking 4 cyber sex.
At the end of the day, both black men and black women have issues that they need to work on and have contributed to the negative state of the black community in their own ways. No one gender is purposely working against the other in some kind of "steal, kill, and destroy" mission. We are not enemies--so let's not make one another out to be. We need to be able to come together and work out our issues in a civil, healthy manner in which both gender is heard and respected. No name-calling,
@GrannyCapBandit (cont.) stereotype labelling, disrespecting, or degrading needs to go on in any of these discussions. Like said before, we are NOT enemies--black women, black men are NOT your enemies. Black men, black women are NOT your enemies. If anything, we have forgotten who are comrades, brothers, and sisters are.
The lack of awareness falls on both sides. Do black women directly and indirectly hurt black men or add to his pain? Sure. However, that doesn't negate the fact that black men hurt and add to the pain of black women, NOR does it (or should it) trump that reality.
It is important to acknowledge and empathize with the hurt and pain that black men feel, however, NOT to the point where we stop acknowledging and empathizing with the hurt and pain of black women.
@MYNDSPIRIT I agree wholeheartedly. :) I just do not believe that we should paint black men or black women as the enemy of the other gender. And I do not agree with telling one gender that the other gender has ran to the oppressor and is literally conspiring with them to destroy them. In general, people hurt people, and bw have hurt bm just as much as bm have hurt bw. But, in my opinion, is the majority of one gender working to purposely destroy the other? No. Like you said, lack of awareness
@GrannyCapBandit I'm sorry. I cannot agree with that. BW could not hurt BM as much as BM have hurt BW when you consider the way women and men are conditioned to see each other. Women are taught, told, and expected to rely on men to provide for them and protect them. Women trusted that doing so would ensure their needs would be met and that they would be taken care of.
@MYNDSPIRIT A woman who commits to a man does so believing he will (and should) protect her.
A man does not commit to a woman with the same beliefs or expectations (although in every relationship, both partners help each other in some capacity despite that not being popularly discussed). So, his expectations of her are not as extreme (if you will).
@MYNDSPIRIT Although the end of a relationship/marriage is upsetting to both men and women, if a woman put all her trust in a man to protect her overall and he fails to do so, her person and future (ie: opportunities) are scared and tainted.
In addition, if they had children, they are just as scared and tainted AND she (at the same time) becomes responsible for protecting herself & their children when that is suppose to be the man's role (socially speaking).
@MYNDSPIRIT How do you equate such a reality with that of men who are not commitment to women for the same reasons that women commit to men?
The daunting reality that such women face when this happens, with children in tow who are going to be seen as abandoned and unworthy (and are going to suffer tremendously as a result), is a reality that most men will never experience.
Never. Does this negate the pain such men feel when they lose their family? No. However, how do you negate this fact?
@MYNDSPIRIT I actually agree with what your saying. That's really all I can say, except for the fact that more BW nowadays are more independent and can fend for themselves financially and doesn't need to depend on the man as much.
If a woman doesn't feel she can depend on a man to provide protection for her (ie: take care of her), it's only natural that she'll figure out/learn how to take care of herself.
@MYNDSPIRIT Both. In my opinion, women have never NEEDED men to take care of them financially, but they WANT them to, along with the fact that that's what they 've been taught. But obviously, women can take care of themselves--they can build their own lives, hold careers, etc. I believe that the fact that a lot of men these days are unrealiable plays into the "independent woman" thing, and I agree with you on that. But women don't NEED men to take care of them, we can just look at women now and
@GrannyCapBandit I believe women have needed men to take care of them. The concept of the "stay at home mom" isn't new nor is the husband who "pays the bills".
Educated, working, and resourceful women, who feel they can decide to rely on man for provisions or not, is a relatively new concept. It was the 90's that seen a surge in women setting out to do for themselves. But, Less we forget the days when unmarried women had to remain living with their parents (or another relative) for survival.
@MYNDSPIRIT I haven't forgotten. Women, to be honest, didn't really have much of a choice back then, so of course they needed men to take care of them. Being a housewife was kind of assumed and not really a choice. They weren't asked: "Do you want to be a housewife?" They were told: "You're going to be a housewife." When I say need, I mean that a woman who has options and choices does not need a man to survive financially or otherwise. And even the women who didn't have options? They only needed
@MYNDSPIRIT All I'm saying is that women don't need men to be financially stable or to be able to support themselves financially. This is true. They may want to, and decide to become financially dependent on a man, but...need? No. There are women who can buy themselves things just like a man can buy them something. I'm not saying women don't need men emotionally or sexually, but they no longer need men financially (unless they choose to become dependent), and that's just the truth to me.
@MYNDSPIRIT But okay. I just want to make clear that the only thing women don't need men for is money, but today they are able to make their own. That's all I was saying.
@GrannyCapBandit FIRST OF ALL YOU HESITATE SO IT MEANS YOU KNOW THE TRUTH BUT ARE DENYING THE FACTS. YOU KEEP MAKING EXCUSES. BLACK WOMEN THINK THEY ARE BETTER. WHY DO YOU KEEP MAKING EXCUSES FOR BLACK WOMEN? YOU DONT HAVE TIME FOR THE BLAME GAME BECAUSE YOUR THE ONE IN THE FAULT AND BLAMING. YOU CAN NOT TALK TO BLACK WOMEN. BLACK WOMEN CONSTANTLY CRITICISED BY BLACK WOMEN .
P.S BLACK WOMEN DO NOT WANT NICE GUYS SO HOW CAN YOU TALK TO A BLACK WOMEN?
@dwkironde1 Okay. If that's what you believe. I'm not here to convince you of anything, but I simply gave my opinion. But, I must say, I can't help but feel that if I was bashing black women and blaming them for everything, you'd be ready to kiss my feet. And yet, when I try to explain and provide a view that shows both sides, you go off on me. Just saying, but peace, and hopefully, you won't have to deal with the horrible black woman anymore.
@MYNDSPIRIT (pt.2) men to take care of them because they didn't have options. Basically, when you don't have the option or choice to provide for yourself, you will always have to depend on others for survival. When you have choices and options, you no longer HAVE to do that.
@GrannyCapBandit Btw...I think women rely on (need) men for reasons that do not start or end with $. Although there are many women who are working and making money today, than they were 20+yrs ago, there are still women who aren't, won't, and can't for a number of reasons.
However, everyone "needs" help in some form or other and being that women do not run and dominate this world like men do, I feel a man contributing financially towards a woman's well being (all things considered) IS a need.
@MYNDSPIRIT I know women rely on men for reasons other than money, and those reasons tend to be the same as men for the most part. I know everyone needs someone--I don't believe in true independence, I believe in trying to become interdependent. But financially dependent? I do support that, and a woman with skills and drive doesn't necessarily need a man to contrubute financially, but really, anyone with money could help as she moves up. Women may need men to become rich (for the most part),
@MYNDSPIRIT (pt.2) but to simply pay the bills, have clothes on her back, a decent place to live and food to eat? She can provide herself with that in this day and age.
If a woman doesn't feel she can depend on a man to provide protection for her (ie: take care of her), it's only natural that she'll have to learn how to take care of herself.
@MYNDSPIRIT is the main problem here, along with a lack of HEALTHY and CIVIL communication between bm and bw (none of this "so and so destroyed the black community", or "so and so doesn't care about the black community" or worse: "so and so is working with the white man to destroy us!") and the willingness to do something about the problem.
Thank you for saying "They won't let him". There are too many women who seem to not understand why a man will say that. Usually the women will say something like, "I thought a man was a man...I didn't know that he had to ask". "If he has to ask, then he must be weak".
Do you think that you can expand on what you meant when you said, "when BW come across a BM who is responsible, she will not let him lead because of her past experiences".
@KaptanSolo When I say not let him, I believe it involves that woman trying to control the relationship, put it on her terms and may even undermine and disrespect him. If you have ever seen "Why Did I Get Married?" by Tyler Perry, there is a female character named Angela who does just that. She talks down to her husband, disrespects him and constantly reminds him that she provides and that she is the top dog. For some women, they may just have a dominating personality. But for other women, they
@KaptanSolo (cont.) may have let a bm in their past lead, but this bm abused that power, and simply ended up hurting the bw. As a result, she comes to believe that letting any bm lead (I'm mainly talking about relationships, but this can be applied in other areas) will simply mean that she is hurt, disrespected and used. So she doesn't let him lead as a way to protect herself.
yeah...I totally get it. However, I was speaking more on the "actions" that actually go on. The Tyler Perry movie is a good example of one aspect. Clearly she married a man who was NOT on the level that she wanted to be on. From that "movie" we can only deduct one of the common problems with women dating men who are on lower socio-economic status' than they are or want to be.
What I want to expand on is the fact that there are women who actually love and sometimes marry men that they do not trust to lead based on some of the things you mentioned her pertaining to her past.
It's the actions that I am trying to get to...
When a woman does not go along with a man's idea and feels that she has a better idea, she will simply ignore his concept or plan. If they are in a "supposed" relationship or marriage of compromise...when he decides to...
make a move where "her" resources are needed with his, she simply will pull rank on "hers". When he goes to execute his move, she will NOT bring up her end of the "compromising" half of the relationship. Am I correct?
Perhaps you have some other examples of what I am speaking of?
When many people think of what I am saying, the first thing they will mention is they should have talked this out first, which I agree. No one gets the fact that when women don't go along with the
program they will simply BUCK the man and his idea. It does not mean that they don't respect him, it may just mean, as you have stated, that she just does not trust men to lead based on what she has seen over the years or her own experiences. The point is, women will DO things beyond obvious disrespectful conversation that will amount to undermining him with "action". This does not mean that she does not love him, it means that she will not follow him.
@KaptanSolo Examples: A woman who undermines her husband's parenting. If he tells his daughter to wear less revealing clothes, she may go and tell the daughter that she can wear whatever she wants because daddy just doesn't understand; A woman who simply pretends to listen to what her husband or boyfriend is saying, only to go and do the very things he asked her not to do or that he feels are disrespectful or hurt him (such as a woman who continues to talk to the man she cheated on her partner
@KaptanSolo with, despite being told by her partner that it hurts him and is disrespectful when she does such things). A woman who mocks her husband and his ideas because she sees her ideas as more important (such as telling him that what he's saying and thinking is "cute" but that he is still wrong..) Did I give some good examples?
@KaptanSolo And you are correct about some women not brining up their half of the compromising part of the relationship. I have seen women who have told their boyfriend that he cannot talk to other women on the phone or go out with them (crazy, i know) but will not do the same and are often cheating on the man even though they constantly complain about black men being unfaithful. Smh.
@KaptanSolo Angela's husband (from the TP movie) used to be a football player, but became injured. He was orignally the breadwinner of the family, but because of his injury, had to find another way to make money. So he was working in Angela's beauty shop (which she was able to build with the money HE was making). He was actually a very good black man who was above his wife's level at the time, but had just fell on hard times. Just wanted to explain, but I agree completely with the socio-economic
oh...good info about "Angela's" husband in the movie. I did not see the whole movie or was not paying attention. I did not know he had been a football player nor that the salon was built on his money.
Yes some black women do purposely work against black men. All you have to do is read the comments section under the video you are referring too and black women have admitted to purposely doing it. You have to be a man to have experience it I guess to know that it exist sometimes. I've experienced it. And you can also tell by how some male bashing women talk and you can put two and two together. For you to pretend like or assume it don't purposely exist makes me wonder if you do it.
@WildL23 I do not do it. I'm not pretending or assuming, I gave my opinion and it just happened to be different from yours. My experiences are different from yours. I grew up in the church and have always seen black women supporting and uplifting the black men, teaching black women to submit to their husbands and so on. So no, I never really saw black women who purposely and knowingly set out to work against black men. Key word: purposely. I made it clear that I believe that most bw don't even
@GrannyCapBandit Re: ''I grew up in church and have always seen black women supporting..'' I know that all churches ARE NOT the same. But, I have known evil and treachery among church females. ''Church'' is no comfort to me in this area. Also, you've implied that you've had 'limited' exposure to female treachery. That may be so. But some of us have had a more broad experience in this area. Your ''opinion'' is OK. But AN INFORMED opinion is preferred.
@WildL23 know how bad and detrimental their beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors to black relationships and the black communities. There are probably some who do, but for black women as a whole? I believe most aren't even completely aware of how wrong they are in some of their behaviors, beliefs, and attitudes, and that they need to be made aware of it, but there is a way to go about that and fussing at them and talking down to them isn't it.
@GrannyCapBandit Re: ''most aren't even completely aware of how wrong they are.'' Are you familiar with ''Willful Ignorance''? The oldest book that I know of that teaches about willful ignorance is the Bible. It is a flaw of human nature to intentionally ignore- to shut off from awareness, anything that runs counter to what they WANT. American women want ABSOLUTE POWER, & they CHOOSE to be ignorant of anything that will interfere with their 'goals. They even endanger children on a regular
Just for the record, Granny Cap, many women DID support Obama, but that was MAINLY because he follows and supports fem-supremacism. When Obama put Joe Biden (the BIGGEST male man-hater in the world) as his running mate for VP, his victory was almost automatic! Did you know that Obama derided so-called "deadbeat" fathers in a speech on Father's Day 2008, but did absolutely NOTHING of the sort to miscreant mothers on Mother's Day 2008. Obama is no better than Beyonce, and that's sad. --FJ
@FinalJusticeMovement I know about the Father's Day speech (thought I never heard it, only heard about it), and I believe those comments were probably made because children usually stay with their mothers, and the mothers tend to be single parents, and this seems to happen more than single fathers being left with children. I'm just wondering: How are Obama and Joe Biden fem-supremacist? How are they man haters?
Joe Biden is more the fem-supremacist than Obama, but Obama supports feminism. Biden is the one who created and authored the unconstitutional Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) that protects only females from violent attacks by men but does NOTHING of the sort for men. He admitted to growing up in a matriarchal family that allowed for him to be hit by girls but that he could NOT attack back. He took that mindset with him and decided that women are superior to men, and so VAWA was born. --FJ
@FinalJusticeMovement Men do need to be heard in this area, but I think more attention is given to women because they report it more. The abuse that happens with men is festering underneath us--men are ashamed and society often overlooks or jokes it off. Society has conditioned men to not talk about their struggles or share their pain and called it "weakness." That needs to be broken because with the more men that speak up and report this, the better. But we also need to allow them to do so.
@FinalJusticeMovement It all starts with teaching men that it's okay to speak about what has happened to them. The more we encourage and take down barriers, the better. If I ever have a son, I want him to be able to feel free to speak about anything he feels or thinks.
@FinalJusticeMovement Exactly. The way you sequenced this information is well done. It reminds me of a preacher that I know who refuses to hold his female members accountable for their behavior. Then I learn that his mother died when he was 10 yrs old. Then I learn that children only begin to perceive their mothers 'objectively' & less than 'perfect', only AFTER the age of 11 yrs old. Then it all made sense. This preacher is INCAPABLE of acknowledging, and addressing female treachery.
@FinalJusticeMovement Hmm. It's sad that a father doesn't realize how much he is truly needed when it comes to parenting. Daughters really need fathers and Obama needs to realize that he has made a contribution and that his is just as important as Michelle's. And why would he apologize for something like that? Smh, sometimes we are too sensitive about these subjects.
@GrannyCapBandit I'm convinced that the reason that Obama is careful to not offend females, is because the Feminist power structure is HUGE, & should not be underrated. Obama's family is entirely female. He is at the mercy of their whims. Michelle behaved 'competitively' when Barack was able to silence & calm a crying, white baby during a public apearance. As far as her public persona, Michelle is about as fine a blk female as there is. But we know knothing of how she treats Barack.
@FinalJusticeMovement I agree that Obama Kowtow's to females. As quiet as it's kept, Obama is as vulnerable as many blk fathers are. Michelle is NOT Assata Shakur. Assata had the courage to acknowledge that the trauma of white oppression & the 'struggles' of the blk empowerment movement has broken her in her intimate life. She said that she was even afraid to birth a child into this American culture. Few blk females have that insight. Assata Shakur chose asylum & now lives in Cuba.
Obama is not black he is project by racist smart rich white/jews ppl to destroy real dark/brown skin african-american black race and culture what means that white ppl are fuckin racist and makes racism still alive!
blckla999 3 weeks ago
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Abortion is wrong, evil and genocide. Abortion is help to racist white man and all white ppl to kill and destroy real dark/brown skin black sons/kids, black family, race and culture. we need to stop this and start take care of our kids, start love and respect yourself and your black children! pls my black ppl wake up we need more real dark/brown skin black sons/kids and family in america and in all the world black love/black power!
blckla999 3 weeks ago
BLACK OR MIXED WOMEN LIKELY TO ABORTION REAL DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK BABIES THAN MIXED/LIGHT SKINNED LOOKING AND MOST OF THESE MIXED LOOKING KIDS GO TO WHITE RACE. BLACK WOMEN LOVE WHITE MAN'S PENISES AND HATE REAL DARK SKIN BLACK MEN. NIGGER BITCHES IS NEW KKK FOR BLACK MEN AND BLACK RACE TODAY THIS SHIT IS JUST FUCKING UP. WE NEED TO WAKE UP!
blckla999 3 weeks ago
BLACK WOMEN DOING SAME SHIT WHAT WHITE MEN TELL THEM TO DO. BLACK WOMEN LOVE WHITE MEN SO THEY DOING EVERYTHING FOR THEM. RACIST WHITE MEN MAKE BLACK WOMEN LIKE DUMB CHEAP SEX SLAVE WHORES IN THIS WORLD AND TELL BLACK BITCHES TO KILL THEIR OWN DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK MEN/KIDS AND PPL. FUCKIN PALE UGLY SMALL DICK WHITE MEN PAYING TO BLACK WOMEN TO MAKE ABORTION AND BLACK WHORES DOING IT TO MAKE MONEY OF BLACK CHILD'S LIFES.
blckla999 3 weeks ago
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because if we don't stop fighting with each other and fuck with ugly racist crackers then black women, men, real dark skin black race/kids and culture will disappear in this world just like in south-america! pls wake up!
blckla999 3 weeks ago
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black women need to stop bitching and trying to date of another brotha who don't wanna be playe and can understand your personality no matter how he looking. you black women need to stop being such selfish dumb bitches because all this shit works only against you and your black men. stop think only your vagina and start thinking your head as smart black woman and mother of race.
blckla999 3 weeks ago
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your daughters sleep with old pale ugly santa claus looking crakkers/wiggers like porno whores at a young age before they will sleep with us and when they become fat old nasty with dirty vaginas they trying to come back to us, talking about black love and how they want "good black man" smh! and black women as mother of black race says nothing about this but still blame black men in these problems and you wondering why your black men/sons are f'cking up? BLACK WOMEN IS REASON WHY BLACK MEN DIE
blckla999 3 weeks ago
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most of real dark/brown skin black men (not mixed ones) are with black women even if they are ugly or fat as shit smh! if some black men date/marry outside its only because black women want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! MOST OF BLACK WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH ALOT OF MEN FROM OTHER RACES THAT ARE DISEASED! MOST BLACK WOMEN THINK THAT THEY ARE BETTER THAN BLACK MEN, SO THEY SEEK NON-BLACK PARTNERS AND THIS THE RESULT!
blckla999 3 weeks ago
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black women today are white man's whores with ugly white looking kids for white race. so you black women need to wake up and stop kill us!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 2 months ago
Black Women started this whole mess. All of the rants are responses.
They never acknowledge or try to fix there own problems. Its always men or both. You never take responsibility for anything unless you can find someone else to offload the blame on as well and that is the biggest problem with modern black women.
This has always been a mostly "1" directional event. Black women talk trash and men "respond" negatively. If men were not getting crap they would stop. The problem is on your end.
krizzex 4 months ago
Wow, this video is so full of shit that I don't know what angle to start with.
Black women have shallow sight. They only look at a few black men who are always miniseries within the minorities but always fault the majority.
You're citing the media for support the media has always been the biggest enemy and creator of most of the propaganda.
You never address your own problems.
The drug war is miniscule. Its severity has always been overstated.
krizzex 4 months ago
many BW are deliberately working against BM and some are unaware they're doing it. And whats really sad is that these are the so-called educated women who do this crap. I'm not blaming BW for everything but they're a significant source of teh problem.
mreconomics1000 7 months ago
bullshot...
The BM complain'n about BW are the ones who actually are doing something. What good is it to point to BM in prison,when those are the men that BW flock too.
TheBlackGlenBeck 7 months ago
Historically, the white man has been the clear enemy of the BM. As early as the Willie Lynch Letter, whites have instituted SYSTEMS whereby the BM has been held down & reenslaved. Once those SYSTEMS took hold, the blk community crumbled from the inside out. Whites also poisoned BW with 'priorities', that are unhealthy for the blk community. Blk children are DOOMED to failure without the structure that is EXCLUSIVE to what FATHERS offer. 'College' is NOT the #1 way to bond blks together.
jhvenus2004 8 months ago
i think black women are working against themselves..
TheSonomasFinest 9 months ago 2
@TheSonomasFinest Now that...is something I kind of agree with.
GrannyCapBandit 9 months ago
I'll ask the question again: Are you from a two parent household or a single parent household?
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack I answered in my last comment to you, but I'll answer it again: I'm from a two-parent home.
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
PART 2B) Are you talking about the ones that spawn the myriad of young black men who've become so emasculated, that by a certain age they "realise" they are gay? Single parent family = DYSFUNCTION, which is precisely why our young black men are incarcerated and effeminised, because unfortunately the BW has lost complete control of the black home. As I said earlier, THIS is precisely what plagues the black community. Get a reality check and stop the fanciful thinking.
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack How do you explain the gay males who come from two-parent homes? I have a gay male friend who came from a traditional household, with both a mother and father. And yes, the father was the head of the household. If the bw is running the household all by herself because the black man refuses to do his job as father...how on earth can you put ALL the blame on her? And please, please, stop with the negative stereotypes that you are putting on ALL children of single mothers. I know
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
@GrannyCapBandit The majority of gay black males today are coming from SINGLE PARENT HOMES. Why? Because there is no father figure intrinsic to the household to teach a boy to be a man. As a consequence a young boy grows up taking on his Mother's characteristics and traits, thus making him more feminine. Are you from a two parent home or a single parent home?
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack Do you have any actual proof that this is true...about the majority of gay black males coming from single-parent homes? Even so, correlation does not equal causation. I'm sorry, but most black mothers enforce traditional gender roles, and young boys are often chastised for exhibiting feminine qualities. Either way, does being gay stop a man from contributing positively to society? And I'm from a two-parent home.
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack Thats not totally true! a case like dat can have a reverse effect as well.I know plenty Brothas who never even knew their Fathers & were raised solely by Mom and still turned out great.As far as Dads not bein in da Home.There's alotta intricacies dat must be looked at 1st before concluding such notions.Me Myself.None of dat shit applies to Me.Also I know plenty of Brothas who can make da same claim.That there notion is true 4 sum But not 4 all BlackMen.
visionkingdom 8 months ago
@visionkingdom The number of brothas turning out "great" as you put it, who are coming from a single parent home headed by a mother are the EXCEPTION, not the rule. Many, if not most of the young black men who are incarcerated are coming from single parent homes headed by a MATRIARCH. Do your damn research fool!!!!
ezekielthemack 8 months ago
@ezekielthemack 1st of all this is nuffin new.what U see now always have and always will be.Only difference is.Black folks as a whole are totally lost,dumb downed & dumb founded.I never said They was da rule.I was just stating a fact.Life on Earth was Started & Maintained with A MATRIARCH.So U not saying nuffin I dnt know.The problem is dat Blacks brought into a system dat was designed for Us to be destroyed.So a Father being there or not duznt garuantee shit.DO UR RESEARCH FOOL!!!!
visionkingdom 8 months ago
for a fact that it doesn't apply to all or most.
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
...MYNDSPIRIT ... Well said :-)
quietRockstars88 1 year ago
4. Blck woman are the back bone of the black community by holding the family together, LOL do u even know what a family consist of? It consist of a man a woman and children . My god
NYDASH28 1 year ago
@NYDASH28 There are different types of families. Just because there are not a married man and woman does not mean they are not a family. Single parent homes ARE families too.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit "Just because there are not a married man and woman does not mean they are not a family." - This is nonsense. A family is NOT a family unless it consists of a mother and father who are intrinsic to a household. A single parent home IS NOT a familial home, it is a TRAVESTY of a what a family is. It is this kind of warped thinking, particular amongst black women, that plagues the black community.
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack It may be nonsense to you, but I am not about to call the beautiful single-parent families that I see everyday, the ones that raised the wonderful friends, family members and mentors that I have today a "travesty." Here are two definitions of family: (1) group of relatives: a group of people who are closely related by birth, marriage, or adoption and
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
@GrannyCapBandit PART 2) What planet are you on? When you talk about the "beautiful single parent families" that you see everyday, are you talking about the ones that spawn the myriad of criminals that inhabit the prison industrial complex, are you talking about that ones that spawn a myriad of young men who have no idea how to be a man, because they've been raised by a single parent mother with no clue how to teach a boy to a be man?
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack I'm on planet Earth. Where are you? The majority of my male friends were raised by single mothers. 2 are at the University of Florida making A's, One is at FSU with me, Another is in the Air Force, do I need to go on? While there are some children that are in prison, there are also some who are out in the world, contributing to society in a positive way. Let's stop with the stereotypes. Also, as far as those male friends go, they are men. They are responsible, ambitious,
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
@GrannyCapBandit "The majority of my male friends were raised by single mothers. 2 are at the University of Florida making A's, One is at FSU with me, Another is in the Air Force, do I need to go on? " - No you don't need to go on, because you CAN'T go on. These young men are the EXCEPTION not the rule and it is nonsensical thinking like yours that gives many BW the false belief that they are doing a good job as single parents - for the most part their endeavours have been woeful.
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack Bw do the best they can as single parents. If it isn't enough, maybe it's because they need two parents. If you agree, then you need to get on black men for that, not black women. And yes, I can go on, but you'd continue to discredit them. My thinking isn't nonsensical, it's realistic. Why put down mothers who have obviously done a great job at raising their children?
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack assertive, intelligent...they are very good men. Their mothers did the best they could, and they succeeded. And while there are some who have no clue what a "real" man is, no all of them come from single mothers. Some come from two-parent homes as well. Not only that, are you really about to blame all of that on the black woman? I'm sorry, but a black man had to abandon his son in order for such a predicament to occur. Let's be real and tell both sides of the story.
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack (2) people living together: a group of people living together and functioning as a single household, usually consisting of parents and their children. The keyword in the second definition is "usually," meaning, "commonly encountered, experienced, or observed. However, just because a family may not be common does not mean that this family doesn't exist. You don't have to hate or invalidate single-parents in order to promote two-parent households. That kind of thinking
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
@ezekielthemack is what plagues the black community.
GrannyCapBandit 10 months ago
3. Here we go with the tired, bw getting more jobs, more in school when we know BW will kill their black babies in abortions and killing black boys and u say black women are the backbone, look at what the back bone has done to the community, yo u know what i not even typing more of anything because in this 2011 and u stupid black bitches still preaching this TIRED same B.S all day every day, got damn i am so glad i am done with u women, the way how u all think and the mentality u all have is Fup
NYDASH28 1 year ago
@NYDASH28 But the fact is, what I said is true. It's proven. Some bw may have abortions, but some bm often leave their children fatherless, and sometimes, these bm pressure or help these bw to get abortions. Bw alone did not destroy our community, we had help from our bm. Until you realize that it is not all on the responsibility of one gender, you will not be helping, but harming the community.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
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It's funny how black men can influence black women when they are put on the spot. I wonder how much help black men get credit for when black women get a good job? Most of the black men black women go after are the ones that will leave them and black women know it. The good guy get overlooked and then get blamed for the ones black women were stupid enough to go after in the first place. You black women got a lot of hog wash with you.
TheeAssyrian2000AD 10 months ago
2.u know what, if this sister was older, i would say she is talking sh!t but she seems young so i'll give her the benefit of the doubt as to think she really doesn;t know what she is talking about. A lot of bm are doing a lot of positive things, u all try to lump us all with the losers, and if bm are in jail who put them there? the wm and the bw put many bm in jail and talk about fathers not being their, u acting as if all bm get up and walk out their childs life when we all know u pick loser bm
NYDASH28 1 year ago
@NYDASH28 I know what I'm talking about. Do you? I know black men are doing positive things, I never said they weren't. I said that some bw may not see that, and therefore, do not see what they are helping bm towards. Bm, such as yourself, try to lump all bw with the "bad" ones as well. You are no different. The wm and bw did not put anyone in jail--those men put themselves in jail. You're putting words of other bw into my mouth, words I've never said at all.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
She just contridicted her self, if she saying bw do not see bm working towards anything, in turn they are not helping bm build nothing so in essence not only they are not working with bm they are not working with bm. In 2011, i personally have stop messing with bw because too many of u all are just clueless to what is going on, u all only see what is infront your eyes and not look deeper at the issue. n talk about bm know how to talk towards bw, look how bw speak to bm, like dog shit.
NYDASH28 1 year ago
@NYDASH28 Okay. Since you no longer deal with black women, you can go on your happy way. It is clueless to not try to see the other side's point of view if you are truly for positive improvement. It is clueless to blame one side for all of the problems when there are two sides involved. However, you see what you want to see.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
GCB thank you very much for this video. You said everything I was feeling and thinking on this subject and I know I'm not alone.
Whatever divisions were in our community before have been widened and worsened with the onslaught of these "bashing" videos. They have solved nothing and have been a vice. They might have even created enemies that they did not have before. This is a shame since no one really cares about the black man BUT his woman. Now he is trying his best to kill that.
ShamelessNation 1 year ago 5
They incorporate every weapon against you that they can and they are not content until they have torn your self-esteem down completely. In fact, there is so much hatred against black women, I'm starting to believe that black women are CURSED!!!!!!!!! :(
22hebrew 1 year ago
@22hebrew I'm starting to believe the same. But in order for relationships between black men and black women to work, both groups must be willing to work together and to stop blaming each other and look at their own individual contribution to the mess.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
We have to work together. It seems to me that black women complain about black men and their short coming, (through no fault or doing of their own), and black men actually HATE black women; I mean they down right despise us. They talk about how they don't want you and how no other race of men want you (I couldn't care less) and they put non-black women in their video to also speak against you.
22hebrew 1 year ago
I believe that the white man is responsible for putting us in this condition, but it is our (black men and women) responsibility to come out of this condition. We cannot get anywhere blamming each other; it's counter productive. Black women and black men have their faults so pointing the finger is useless.
22hebrew 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit, thank you so much sister for making this video. There is so much hate for black women in this world. All this hate on youtube coming from black men is ridiculous, disheartening and one-sided. I hate when black men and brainwashed black women mention black women having babies out of wedlock as if she gets pregnant on her own. Surely, black mens' kids are also out of wedlock.
22hebrew 1 year ago
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jg95mia 1 year ago
SISTER, YOU SHOULD NOT MADE THIS VIDEO, TRYING TO LOOK AS GOOD AS STATUESQUE ONE.. SHE IS A LEADER AND YOU ARE NOT ONE,
YOU CAN ONLY SEE WHATS ON THE SURFACE, BUT YOU CANT SEE WHATS DEEPER!!!
BLACK MEN LEAVE THE MOTHER OF THEIR CHILDREN BECAUSE SHE REFUSES TO SUBMIT, AND SHE KNOWS SHE CAN USE THE SYSTEM AGAINST HIM! THATS WHY YOU ARE SINGLE, BECAUSE NOBODY CANT TELL YOU SHYT
lordnemo19 1 year ago 2
@lordnemo19 I wasn't trying to look as good as anyone. I was just giving another perspective on the issue. Nor am I trying to be a leader. To be honest, I believe that the people who place all of the blame on black women for the state of the black community are the ones who cannot see what's going on beneath the surface, because if they did, they'd have to admit that BOTH black men and women are equally at fault in different ways and that we play off of each other.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@lordnemo19 Amen,there are against us and too many of them love the thug like pookie and t bone but good brothas are walked on and not respected.If one of us lose our job rather laid off or fired over shit racist white bull shit,these sistas will turn on you in a heart beat,as long as a brotha is fat in the pocket with dollars,man these sistas will be you with until that money is gone.
mightyblack1 1 year ago
decent black folks with good common sense is very few and far between nowadays with thug culture in all i once went open a car door for a women and later on she told me i seemed like the type to date a white girl im like wtf but thats how a lot of sistas are today i cant even relate to these black girls today theyre very strange and dont seem to possess logic in thier thinking and behavior.i thing deep down inside they feel like they dont deserve good men .i dont talk to most blackgirls today
326Ka 1 year ago
@326Ka I guess we had different experiences, because while I know of the thugs and hoodrats, I also know about the good, decent, black men and women that are doing something positive for and with their lives. I hope you meet more black people like this, because we're most certaintly out there.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
my advise to black men dont worry about what black women are doing get your shit together and biuld with any women who will work with you because you cant save those who dont want to be saved
326Ka 1 year ago
this women is right the black women of today is so arrogant in thier ignorance to the point where if your a decent black man getting with a black women is your very very last option.a lot of black men are no good but a huge amount of black women today are trash and proud of it and the thug is thier first choice its sad but true
326Ka 1 year ago
@326Ka Woah...where did arrogance come from? While there are some arrogant black women who believe they can do no wrong, there are also a lot of black women who are not arrogant, but simply do not see the negative impact of their actions. Black men can and are also ignorant to a lot of the stuff they do to negatively impact black women, but it doesn't mean they're arrogant. Arrogance isn't visible until the person rejects the possibility that they could be doing something wrong, even when it has
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@326Ka (pt.2) been presented to them in a respectful way. Then you may be able to claim arrogance, but that could also just be the natural defensive tendencies people begin to exhibit when they're confronted with something negative about themselves. A decent black man has a good chance of getting with a good black woman, considering the fact that the majority of black women only want and are interested in black men, despite their complaints about them.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
GREAT VID (QUEEN) THIS IS ALL BY DESIGN (WILLIE LYNCH) THIS IS WHAT THE ENEMY WANTED US TO DO HATE EACH OTHER.WAKEUP BM AND BW
robert10409 1 year ago
Many BM hate BW because they hate themselves. They are jealous of BW's success. BM's egos are out of control. They don't want to work hard but they just want to get everything free and easy.
2Baiforev 1 year ago
@2Baiforev I can't make blanket statements about that. BW are becoming more successful than BM, but living in this society where the top dog is a white man, who do you think he would be less threatened by if he had to hire them, accept them into a university, etc: A black man or a black woman? I do believe some BM have problems with BW being so successful, and I know that BM have barriers when it comes to going to the top that BW may not have to deal with, but I believe that some of it
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@2Baiforev (pt.2) is on the BM as well. He must take responsibility for himself, his well-being, and success.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
this is a good vid. u do know that stat1 hates bw dont u? she blames them for everything wrong. but she wont say nothing about bm. she really dont care 4 bm or bw. she is on here looking 4 cyber sex.
VeronicasPlace 1 year ago
At the end of the day, both black men and black women have issues that they need to work on and have contributed to the negative state of the black community in their own ways. No one gender is purposely working against the other in some kind of "steal, kill, and destroy" mission. We are not enemies--so let's not make one another out to be. We need to be able to come together and work out our issues in a civil, healthy manner in which both gender is heard and respected. No name-calling,
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit (cont.) stereotype labelling, disrespecting, or degrading needs to go on in any of these discussions. Like said before, we are NOT enemies--black women, black men are NOT your enemies. Black men, black women are NOT your enemies. If anything, we have forgotten who are comrades, brothers, and sisters are.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
The lack of awareness falls on both sides. Do black women directly and indirectly hurt black men or add to his pain? Sure. However, that doesn't negate the fact that black men hurt and add to the pain of black women, NOR does it (or should it) trump that reality.
It is important to acknowledge and empathize with the hurt and pain that black men feel, however, NOT to the point where we stop acknowledging and empathizing with the hurt and pain of black women.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago 5
@MYNDSPIRIT I agree wholeheartedly. :) I just do not believe that we should paint black men or black women as the enemy of the other gender. And I do not agree with telling one gender that the other gender has ran to the oppressor and is literally conspiring with them to destroy them. In general, people hurt people, and bw have hurt bm just as much as bm have hurt bw. But, in my opinion, is the majority of one gender working to purposely destroy the other? No. Like you said, lack of awareness
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit I'm sorry. I cannot agree with that. BW could not hurt BM as much as BM have hurt BW when you consider the way women and men are conditioned to see each other. Women are taught, told, and expected to rely on men to provide for them and protect them. Women trusted that doing so would ensure their needs would be met and that they would be taken care of.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT A woman who commits to a man does so believing he will (and should) protect her.
A man does not commit to a woman with the same beliefs or expectations (although in every relationship, both partners help each other in some capacity despite that not being popularly discussed). So, his expectations of her are not as extreme (if you will).
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT Although the end of a relationship/marriage is upsetting to both men and women, if a woman put all her trust in a man to protect her overall and he fails to do so, her person and future (ie: opportunities) are scared and tainted.
In addition, if they had children, they are just as scared and tainted AND she (at the same time) becomes responsible for protecting herself & their children when that is suppose to be the man's role (socially speaking).
The results of this are tragic.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT How do you equate such a reality with that of men who are not commitment to women for the same reasons that women commit to men?
The daunting reality that such women face when this happens, with children in tow who are going to be seen as abandoned and unworthy (and are going to suffer tremendously as a result), is a reality that most men will never experience.
Never. Does this negate the pain such men feel when they lose their family? No. However, how do you negate this fact?
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT I actually agree with what your saying. That's really all I can say, except for the fact that more BW nowadays are more independent and can fend for themselves financially and doesn't need to depend on the man as much.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit "...they don't need to..." or they can't?
If a woman doesn't feel she can depend on a man to provide protection for her (ie: take care of her), it's only natural that she'll figure out/learn how to take care of herself.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT Both. In my opinion, women have never NEEDED men to take care of them financially, but they WANT them to, along with the fact that that's what they 've been taught. But obviously, women can take care of themselves--they can build their own lives, hold careers, etc. I believe that the fact that a lot of men these days are unrealiable plays into the "independent woman" thing, and I agree with you on that. But women don't NEED men to take care of them, we can just look at women now and
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit I believe women have needed men to take care of them. The concept of the "stay at home mom" isn't new nor is the husband who "pays the bills".
Educated, working, and resourceful women, who feel they can decide to rely on man for provisions or not, is a relatively new concept. It was the 90's that seen a surge in women setting out to do for themselves. But, Less we forget the days when unmarried women had to remain living with their parents (or another relative) for survival.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT I haven't forgotten. Women, to be honest, didn't really have much of a choice back then, so of course they needed men to take care of them. Being a housewife was kind of assumed and not really a choice. They weren't asked: "Do you want to be a housewife?" They were told: "You're going to be a housewife." When I say need, I mean that a woman who has options and choices does not need a man to survive financially or otherwise. And even the women who didn't have options? They only needed
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit Women have more choices today, however, women still need men (for things).
I don't subscribe to a "women don't need a man" school of thought.
I think it's defective. but...that's just me.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT All I'm saying is that women don't need men to be financially stable or to be able to support themselves financially. This is true. They may want to, and decide to become financially dependent on a man, but...need? No. There are women who can buy themselves things just like a man can buy them something. I'm not saying women don't need men emotionally or sexually, but they no longer need men financially (unless they choose to become dependent), and that's just the truth to me.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT But okay. I just want to make clear that the only thing women don't need men for is money, but today they are able to make their own. That's all I was saying.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit :)
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT :) Just returning the smile.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit FIRST OF ALL YOU HESITATE SO IT MEANS YOU KNOW THE TRUTH BUT ARE DENYING THE FACTS. YOU KEEP MAKING EXCUSES. BLACK WOMEN THINK THEY ARE BETTER. WHY DO YOU KEEP MAKING EXCUSES FOR BLACK WOMEN? YOU DONT HAVE TIME FOR THE BLAME GAME BECAUSE YOUR THE ONE IN THE FAULT AND BLAMING. YOU CAN NOT TALK TO BLACK WOMEN. BLACK WOMEN CONSTANTLY CRITICISED BY BLACK WOMEN .
P.S BLACK WOMEN DO NOT WANT NICE GUYS SO HOW CAN YOU TALK TO A BLACK WOMEN?
BLACK WOMEN ARE FAKE ...BM ARE NOT LOST
dwkironde1 1 year ago
@dwkironde1 Okay. If that's what you believe. I'm not here to convince you of anything, but I simply gave my opinion. But, I must say, I can't help but feel that if I was bashing black women and blaming them for everything, you'd be ready to kiss my feet. And yet, when I try to explain and provide a view that shows both sides, you go off on me. Just saying, but peace, and hopefully, you won't have to deal with the horrible black woman anymore.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT (pt.2) men to take care of them because they didn't have options. Basically, when you don't have the option or choice to provide for yourself, you will always have to depend on others for survival. When you have choices and options, you no longer HAVE to do that.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit Btw...I think women rely on (need) men for reasons that do not start or end with $. Although there are many women who are working and making money today, than they were 20+yrs ago, there are still women who aren't, won't, and can't for a number of reasons.
However, everyone "needs" help in some form or other and being that women do not run and dominate this world like men do, I feel a man contributing financially towards a woman's well being (all things considered) IS a need.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT I know women rely on men for reasons other than money, and those reasons tend to be the same as men for the most part. I know everyone needs someone--I don't believe in true independence, I believe in trying to become interdependent. But financially dependent? I do support that, and a woman with skills and drive doesn't necessarily need a man to contrubute financially, but really, anyone with money could help as she moves up. Women may need men to become rich (for the most part),
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT (pt.2) but to simply pay the bills, have clothes on her back, a decent place to live and food to eat? She can provide herself with that in this day and age.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT (pt.2) see that.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
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@GrannyCapBandit "...they don't need to..." or they can't?
If a woman doesn't feel she can depend on a man to provide protection for her (ie: take care of her), it's only natural that she'll have to learn how to take care of herself.
MYNDSPIRIT 1 year ago
@MYNDSPIRIT is the main problem here, along with a lack of HEALTHY and CIVIL communication between bm and bw (none of this "so and so destroyed the black community", or "so and so doesn't care about the black community" or worse: "so and so is working with the white man to destroy us!") and the willingness to do something about the problem.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
Thank you for saying "They won't let him". There are too many women who seem to not understand why a man will say that. Usually the women will say something like, "I thought a man was a man...I didn't know that he had to ask". "If he has to ask, then he must be weak".
Do you think that you can expand on what you meant when you said, "when BW come across a BM who is responsible, she will not let him lead because of her past experiences".
What does "NOT LETTING HIM" actually involve?
KaptanSolo 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo When I say not let him, I believe it involves that woman trying to control the relationship, put it on her terms and may even undermine and disrespect him. If you have ever seen "Why Did I Get Married?" by Tyler Perry, there is a female character named Angela who does just that. She talks down to her husband, disrespects him and constantly reminds him that she provides and that she is the top dog. For some women, they may just have a dominating personality. But for other women, they
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo (cont.) may have let a bm in their past lead, but this bm abused that power, and simply ended up hurting the bw. As a result, she comes to believe that letting any bm lead (I'm mainly talking about relationships, but this can be applied in other areas) will simply mean that she is hurt, disrespected and used. So she doesn't let him lead as a way to protect herself.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
pt1@GrannyCapBandit
yeah...I totally get it. However, I was speaking more on the "actions" that actually go on. The Tyler Perry movie is a good example of one aspect. Clearly she married a man who was NOT on the level that she wanted to be on. From that "movie" we can only deduct one of the common problems with women dating men who are on lower socio-economic status' than they are or want to be.
kontinued...
KaptanSolo 1 year ago
pt2@GrannyCapBandit
What I want to expand on is the fact that there are women who actually love and sometimes marry men that they do not trust to lead based on some of the things you mentioned her pertaining to her past.
It's the actions that I am trying to get to...
When a woman does not go along with a man's idea and feels that she has a better idea, she will simply ignore his concept or plan. If they are in a "supposed" relationship or marriage of compromise...when he decides to...
kont.
KaptanSolo 1 year ago
pt3@GrannyCapBandit
make a move where "her" resources are needed with his, she simply will pull rank on "hers". When he goes to execute his move, she will NOT bring up her end of the "compromising" half of the relationship. Am I correct?
Perhaps you have some other examples of what I am speaking of?
When many people think of what I am saying, the first thing they will mention is they should have talked this out first, which I agree. No one gets the fact that when women don't go along with the
KaptanSolo 1 year ago
pt4@GrannyCapBandit
program they will simply BUCK the man and his idea. It does not mean that they don't respect him, it may just mean, as you have stated, that she just does not trust men to lead based on what she has seen over the years or her own experiences. The point is, women will DO things beyond obvious disrespectful conversation that will amount to undermining him with "action". This does not mean that she does not love him, it means that she will not follow him.
more examples?
KaptanSolo 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo Examples: A woman who undermines her husband's parenting. If he tells his daughter to wear less revealing clothes, she may go and tell the daughter that she can wear whatever she wants because daddy just doesn't understand; A woman who simply pretends to listen to what her husband or boyfriend is saying, only to go and do the very things he asked her not to do or that he feels are disrespectful or hurt him (such as a woman who continues to talk to the man she cheated on her partner
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo with, despite being told by her partner that it hurts him and is disrespectful when she does such things). A woman who mocks her husband and his ideas because she sees her ideas as more important (such as telling him that what he's saying and thinking is "cute" but that he is still wrong..) Did I give some good examples?
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit
Yes...excellent examples
KaptanSolo 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo I will get back to you later. :)
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo And you are correct about some women not brining up their half of the compromising part of the relationship. I have seen women who have told their boyfriend that he cannot talk to other women on the phone or go out with them (crazy, i know) but will not do the same and are often cheating on the man even though they constantly complain about black men being unfaithful. Smh.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo Angela's husband (from the TP movie) used to be a football player, but became injured. He was orignally the breadwinner of the family, but because of his injury, had to find another way to make money. So he was working in Angela's beauty shop (which she was able to build with the money HE was making). He was actually a very good black man who was above his wife's level at the time, but had just fell on hard times. Just wanted to explain, but I agree completely with the socio-economic
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit
oh...good info about "Angela's" husband in the movie. I did not see the whole movie or was not paying attention. I did not know he had been a football player nor that the salon was built on his money.
Thanks
KaptanSolo 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo You're welcome. I think I'm right, if I remember correctly. If not, then sorry, lol.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@KaptanSolo (cont.) status.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
If you are truly for the black community promote a black good or service in your next video.
enyawix 1 year ago
Yes some black women do purposely work against black men. All you have to do is read the comments section under the video you are referring too and black women have admitted to purposely doing it. You have to be a man to have experience it I guess to know that it exist sometimes. I've experienced it. And you can also tell by how some male bashing women talk and you can put two and two together. For you to pretend like or assume it don't purposely exist makes me wonder if you do it.
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 I do not do it. I'm not pretending or assuming, I gave my opinion and it just happened to be different from yours. My experiences are different from yours. I grew up in the church and have always seen black women supporting and uplifting the black men, teaching black women to submit to their husbands and so on. So no, I never really saw black women who purposely and knowingly set out to work against black men. Key word: purposely. I made it clear that I believe that most bw don't even
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit Re: ''I grew up in church and have always seen black women supporting..'' I know that all churches ARE NOT the same. But, I have known evil and treachery among church females. ''Church'' is no comfort to me in this area. Also, you've implied that you've had 'limited' exposure to female treachery. That may be so. But some of us have had a more broad experience in this area. Your ''opinion'' is OK. But AN INFORMED opinion is preferred.
jhvenus2004 7 months ago
@WildL23 know how bad and detrimental their beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors to black relationships and the black communities. There are probably some who do, but for black women as a whole? I believe most aren't even completely aware of how wrong they are in some of their behaviors, beliefs, and attitudes, and that they need to be made aware of it, but there is a way to go about that and fussing at them and talking down to them isn't it.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit Re: ''most aren't even completely aware of how wrong they are.'' Are you familiar with ''Willful Ignorance''? The oldest book that I know of that teaches about willful ignorance is the Bible. It is a flaw of human nature to intentionally ignore- to shut off from awareness, anything that runs counter to what they WANT. American women want ABSOLUTE POWER, & they CHOOSE to be ignorant of anything that will interfere with their 'goals. They even endanger children on a regular
jhvenus2004 7 months ago
FinalJusticeMovement 1 year ago
@FinalJusticeMovement I know about the Father's Day speech (thought I never heard it, only heard about it), and I believe those comments were probably made because children usually stay with their mothers, and the mothers tend to be single parents, and this seems to happen more than single fathers being left with children. I'm just wondering: How are Obama and Joe Biden fem-supremacist? How are they man haters?
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
FinalJusticeMovement 1 year ago
@FinalJusticeMovement Men do need to be heard in this area, but I think more attention is given to women because they report it more. The abuse that happens with men is festering underneath us--men are ashamed and society often overlooks or jokes it off. Society has conditioned men to not talk about their struggles or share their pain and called it "weakness." That needs to be broken because with the more men that speak up and report this, the better. But we also need to allow them to do so.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
THAT'S the main thing, now.
MEN need to start speaking up more
(which they are -- but I mean on a MAJOR SCALE)!
Maybe people like you can help get the ball rolling
more than before.
--The Final Justice
FinalJusticeMovement 1 year ago
@FinalJusticeMovement It all starts with teaching men that it's okay to speak about what has happened to them. The more we encourage and take down barriers, the better. If I ever have a son, I want him to be able to feel free to speak about anything he feels or thinks.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit I agree with you on this point.
jhvenus2004 7 months ago
@FinalJusticeMovement Exactly. The way you sequenced this information is well done. It reminds me of a preacher that I know who refuses to hold his female members accountable for their behavior. Then I learn that his mother died when he was 10 yrs old. Then I learn that children only begin to perceive their mothers 'objectively' & less than 'perfect', only AFTER the age of 11 yrs old. Then it all made sense. This preacher is INCAPABLE of acknowledging, and addressing female treachery.
jhvenus2004 7 months ago
As far as Obama is concerned, you'd think he
was an outstanding proud father of two daughters,
but he gave ALL the credit to Michelle for raising the
girls, and he apologized for calling a woman...
"sweetie". WHAT FOR? Why did he do that?
Because he is afraid of women (and that includes
his mother-in-law.)
--The Final Justice
FinalJusticeMovement 1 year ago
@FinalJusticeMovement Hmm. It's sad that a father doesn't realize how much he is truly needed when it comes to parenting. Daughters really need fathers and Obama needs to realize that he has made a contribution and that his is just as important as Michelle's. And why would he apologize for something like that? Smh, sometimes we are too sensitive about these subjects.
GrannyCapBandit 1 year ago
@GrannyCapBandit I'm convinced that the reason that Obama is careful to not offend females, is because the Feminist power structure is HUGE, & should not be underrated. Obama's family is entirely female. He is at the mercy of their whims. Michelle behaved 'competitively' when Barack was able to silence & calm a crying, white baby during a public apearance. As far as her public persona, Michelle is about as fine a blk female as there is. But we know knothing of how she treats Barack.
jhvenus2004 7 months ago
@FinalJusticeMovement I agree that Obama Kowtow's to females. As quiet as it's kept, Obama is as vulnerable as many blk fathers are. Michelle is NOT Assata Shakur. Assata had the courage to acknowledge that the trauma of white oppression & the 'struggles' of the blk empowerment movement has broken her in her intimate life. She said that she was even afraid to birth a child into this American culture. Few blk females have that insight. Assata Shakur chose asylum & now lives in Cuba.
jhvenus2004 7 months ago
@FinalJusticeMovement I noticed that also; SAD.
jhvenus2004 7 months ago
A little TOO, TOOOOO sad, if you ask me, Jhvenus.
--FJ
FinalJusticeMovement 7 months ago