@ItstheChi - That's pretty cool - you have your own DICS "system" - I' m sure though that you have some cool guys around you too, so maybe you can change the "Cunts" into "Coolios" :)
@godkingRoss - Very few of us are purely one style or another; most of us are a combination of two or three of the styles. If you want to dig deeper in this stuff, you can downlad the first few chapters of my book at CommunicationSkillsMagic . c o m
I am pure conscientious. I don't like doing shit at a fast pace (can at-times kill the quality of work and make your boss into a dick at the same time) and I hate people, so I can't be people oriented...
@EmoBoiii93 - to me this was some life-changing stuff - and, yes, lots of FUN too... I was in my 30s when I learned about it, and I became about 700% better father to my 2 little kids (now I have 3); and became a much much better husband to my wife who is of oposing personality from mine (I really thought she was a bit loony at times :), but now I understand that she simply has a different focus on life - she has different priorities, due to her wiring (due to her personality style)
@zacharymullin - that means you ROCK :) I"m the same combination: lots of D and lots of I. If you are fast paced, set goals and you go for them... and if you like to express yourself through stories, jokes, etc.; then yes, you are a Dominance and Influence combination style.
@abriniasporelover - the Happy/Funny people, ey? It's fun to be around INfluence style individuals, especially if you too are one (I know I'm one and I love to hang out with other witty and charming people :) )
Sun Tzu suggested to take time to understand your enememy... and in my book I'm suggesting that we should strive to learn to understand ourselves and our enemies - oups, I mean those who surround us :), especially our girl/boy friends, spouses, brothers, sitsters, parents, children, etc.... I'm sure you got that - you just enjoy messing around - you too are probably an influence style :)
Actually... that'd be ideal that we "fit" in wherever it suits us, based on every different situation. Be funny and playful with our chlidren, friends, etc. (I); be outspoken and to the point with business partners... or when getting an anoying sales calll (D); kind and deeply listening with our grandma (and hopefully with our spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend) (S); and be really careful and detail oriented when we do our taxes (C)...
@TheoBrothers (Continued from previous comment ...) ...that means that you have a balanced combination of each style (I'm sure, though, that one of them stands out a bit more - just the fact that you spoke out here, tells me that you are perhaps higher in D or in I).
Some, however, are "stuck" mostly in D,I, S, or C mode, which gives them certain special "powers," but can get them in trouble in certain social situations IF thy don't learn to adapt their behaviors to different situations...
@cafeconmilk99 - Funny :) (Though I did have a lady once accidentally say in one of my workshops "Thanks for teaching us about dics" - oups! yes, there were some people falling off their chairs with unstopable laughter... Till today I don't know if she accidentally said it or if she was trying to be funny :)
I have a system too: people are either Dicks, Idiots, Cunts, or Shitheads.
ItstheChi 4 days ago 5
@ItstheChi - That's pretty cool - you have your own DICS "system" - I' m sure though that you have some cool guys around you too, so maybe you can change the "Cunts" into "Coolios" :)
RelationshipsCollege 4 days ago
@ItstheChi which one are you?
coquitah 3 days ago
@coquitah I'm usually a dick, but catch me on a good day, I'm a shithead.
ItstheChi 3 days ago
uuurgh, I'm confused and don't know what I am lolz I have a bit of both you mentioned here.
godkingRoss 2 weeks ago
@godkingRoss - Very few of us are purely one style or another; most of us are a combination of two or three of the styles. If you want to dig deeper in this stuff, you can downlad the first few chapters of my book at CommunicationSkillsMagic . c o m
GetMoreClients 2 weeks ago
its a gud vidio tho so dont get me wrong thumbs up
MamaCita2552 3 weeks ago
ur voice could not be any more draining! what a bore!
MamaCita2552 3 weeks ago
@MamaCita2552 - you know what they say "You can pick your friends, you can pick your nose... but can't pick your voice" :)
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TheUndec1der 3 weeks ago
I am pure conscientious. I don't like doing shit at a fast pace (can at-times kill the quality of work and make your boss into a dick at the same time) and I hate people, so I can't be people oriented...
NegaSyrus5000 1 month ago
hehe i learned this on my own and it was scary and fun.
EmoBoiii93 1 month ago
@EmoBoiii93 - to me this was some life-changing stuff - and, yes, lots of FUN too... I was in my 30s when I learned about it, and I became about 700% better father to my 2 little kids (now I have 3); and became a much much better husband to my wife who is of oposing personality from mine (I really thought she was a bit loony at times :), but now I understand that she simply has a different focus on life - she has different priorities, due to her wiring (due to her personality style)
GetMoreClients 1 month ago
@GetMoreClients Very true, this is definitely something tht improves intelligence ...
EmoBoiii93 1 month ago
I think I am somewhere in the middle of dominance and influence.
zacharymullin 1 month ago
@zacharymullin - that means you ROCK :) I"m the same combination: lots of D and lots of I. If you are fast paced, set goals and you go for them... and if you like to express yourself through stories, jokes, etc.; then yes, you are a Dominance and Influence combination style.
RelationshipsCollege 1 month ago
Hello. There is a newly discovered temperament - the Supine. This temperament seems to be of Acceptance. Check this new temperament out online. HP
HealthyPlanet 1 month ago
oh yeash i aaawm
abriniasporelover 2 months ago
im influence =)
abriniasporelover 2 months ago
@abriniasporelover - the Happy/Funny people, ey? It's fun to be around INfluence style individuals, especially if you too are one (I know I'm one and I love to hang out with other witty and charming people :) )
GetMoreClients 2 months ago
Wait, it says that in the Art of War?
What if you don't know your enemy and don't know yourself but your enemy ALSO does not know you or themselves?
Wouldn't that gain the same outcome as not knowing your enemy and knowing yourself? I.e. Win some Lose some?
LoL.
Theobrothers 2 months ago
@Theobrothers - Funny :)
Sun Tzu suggested to take time to understand your enememy... and in my book I'm suggesting that we should strive to learn to understand ourselves and our enemies - oups, I mean those who surround us :), especially our girl/boy friends, spouses, brothers, sitsters, parents, children, etc.... I'm sure you got that - you just enjoy messing around - you too are probably an influence style :)
GetMoreClients 2 months ago
@GetMoreClients
Ya I have a tendency to fit in where it suits me.
I definitely see what you are saying though.
Theobrothers 2 months ago
@Theobrothers
Actually... that'd be ideal that we "fit" in wherever it suits us, based on every different situation. Be funny and playful with our chlidren, friends, etc. (I); be outspoken and to the point with business partners... or when getting an anoying sales calll (D); kind and deeply listening with our grandma (and hopefully with our spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend) (S); and be really careful and detail oriented when we do our taxes (C)...
GetMoreClients 2 months ago
@TheoBrothers (Continued from previous comment ...) ...that means that you have a balanced combination of each style (I'm sure, though, that one of them stands out a bit more - just the fact that you spoke out here, tells me that you are perhaps higher in D or in I).
Some, however, are "stuck" mostly in D,I, S, or C mode, which gives them certain special "powers," but can get them in trouble in certain social situations IF thy don't learn to adapt their behaviors to different situations...
GetMoreClients 2 months ago
Cool stuff :)
ConflictHelpCollege 2 months ago
D,I,C,S, is this a new sobliminal message that calls us dicks
cafeconmilk99 4 months ago 35
@cafeconmilk99 - Funny :) (Though I did have a lady once accidentally say in one of my workshops "Thanks for teaching us about dics" - oups! yes, there were some people falling off their chairs with unstopable laughter... Till today I don't know if she accidentally said it or if she was trying to be funny :)
GetMoreClients 2 months ago