Hi >.< I'm Eli. *waves* I have been around a bit longer and things were worse back then. (fuck that sounded old) anyway... I always knew I was NOT one of them... I was NOT like that... So yea... years and years of denial and self hate.
Hi Rebecca:).. I totally luv your vids. Happy smiles on your name change. Im actaully researching all that for me too. My name is mia bella:) do you like it?.. xoxo
Hey becca, as always your vids are captivating and full if great content, glad too see an update and so happy for you on the name change. Thats my next step too! Curious, hun... whats expensive. Any ideas where to start. Anyway totally relate to the job thing. My co workers see john no matter what my appearance. Ugh keep up the good fight girl, see ya at the finish line!
I share your fears concerning the evidence we leave behind be being out publicly. That is what makes me hesitate giving more information, one day it might be a huge problem if someone puts together you and your transgender outing. It could even be threatening.
The whole I am okay with you until I find out your past just sends me into nuclear blast mode. It shows ignorance, fears and prejudice at its finest hour of societal de evolution,,, sighhhhhhhhh awe poop
Sorry to hear you had such a hard time at work. Wondering if human resources has any suggestions about how to deal with harassment issues? I have friends who lost several job interviews because they hid the fact that they were trans. Everything went great on the interviews and the background checks always picked up the old "guy" name and they lost the job. Guess employers felt they were not up front. Now they disclose that they are trans at the interview or put something in the resume up front
Deuteronomy 22:5 says 'The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.'
I will pray for you. Clearly the devil has taken hold of you and has twisted your mind and soul into thinking that this is the route to happiness. Embrace God and return to your original self - your masculine self as God created in his own image. I pray that others will heed this message.
@69troll69 According to your logic, and the Bible, what sort of clothes should an inter-sexed person wear? God made them too, but they don't have a clear-cut gender. The whole "male and female he created them" just isn't descriptive of everyone. Maybe the Bible is inadequate, and people should wear whatever they want.
@69troll69 Reading the bible word for word is not the way to do it. Do you really think God cares what people wears? Do you really think God really cares if people alter their bodies so that they can feel like themselves 100%? Evil likes to see people suffer. The devil wants people to harm others. Trans people are not harming anyone or intending to. Why would devil make someone believe something they are not? The devil probably has better ways to hurt someone then by making them trans.
Who wouldn't want to be Samantha? Rebecca is very awesome too, as evidence by the goodness of this video. Why can't we have you both? Congratulations on the name change!
Wow what you say is soo0 true I moved 950 miles away from a homophobic/transphobic place to a coastal city where the population is 45 % gay I find it more comfortable here am now trying to find a JOB
I dont think the community should be supporting trans people hiding in pubic necessarily. For most this is not a possibility. More positivity towards acceptance than subterfuge. Thanks
Great video, and I have to say that being out /working to be fully 'out' has good and bad things attached it seems. I happen to live in an area where GLBT acceptance is actually very significantly high, but of course has it's haters. I outed myself at work to management, and my F/T life there will start New Years 2010.. I do understand the liability statement though, as I do feel like that is how they're trying to treat me. Life wise, most friends have been very supporting. Give and take I say.
So you're saying you're not a sexual deviant? [I'm kidding, everybody--no need to pile on!] Your public stature on YouTube has as much ti do with your superstar charm as with your gender ID, Becca. And all celebs have creepy fans. But there are true admirers out there (meaning HERE). I respect feminine beauty in any form--and I love the individual, not the type. i've said it before, but--YOU ARE FANTASTIC! And you have a fine taste for apples. Granny Smith--absolutely!
Wonderful video. Nice to get to know you a little. Good luck with the name change process. I've done it recently, legally, for a different reason, but here in FL it was VERY expensive.
I like mangoes, pineapples and big mixed salads with EVERYTHING! Apples are great too. And oranges. Sorry but I LIKE bananas. lol I'm not transgender but my breasts are growing. I "came out" on YT and showed them. I made it clear that I'm hetero male but I LIKE having breasts. I have 99% acceptance. A lot of people still think it's a joke! Your face is very beautiful and you have gorgeous, full lips.
being out as a transgendered person is hard, but i have hope that things will become easier with a change in desire to really push things forward. I'm taking estrogen, 3 pills a day since last month. family is becoming more supportive, most if not all of my friends know about it now. I do have a question that i really need some help with though, if you could help me with this that would seriously make my day. what is a good quality wig? & where can i find one? my natural hair just can't work.
i am not publicly out, since the fact i dont even have a pic, let alone a video
BUT since i have grown (i been basically trans all my life, the details are too complicated to explain, but it is just such a steady non changing part of my life, i dont consider it a transition) i learned there is NO such thing as 100% stealth and when the time comes for that one person 2 GLOCK you and kill your comfort zone, it IS the truth and you have to own up to it
Hi >.< I'm Eli. *waves* I have been around a bit longer and things were worse back then. (fuck that sounded old) anyway... I always knew I was NOT one of them... I was NOT like that... So yea... years and years of denial and self hate.
ElizabethSerenity 1 year ago
Hi Rebecca:).. I totally luv your vids. Happy smiles on your name change. Im actaully researching all that for me too. My name is mia bella:) do you like it?.. xoxo
miachica8 1 year ago
You are wonderful to enjoy life. Thanks for your thoughts. Best wishes
vanlevy2008 1 year ago
Hey becca, as always your vids are captivating and full if great content, glad too see an update and so happy for you on the name change. Thats my next step too! Curious, hun... whats expensive. Any ideas where to start. Anyway totally relate to the job thing. My co workers see john no matter what my appearance. Ugh keep up the good fight girl, see ya at the finish line!
Bella1Paige 1 year ago
I share your fears concerning the evidence we leave behind be being out publicly. That is what makes me hesitate giving more information, one day it might be a huge problem if someone puts together you and your transgender outing. It could even be threatening.
Love, Charlene
charlenesingers 1 year ago
The whole I am okay with you until I find out your past just sends me into nuclear blast mode. It shows ignorance, fears and prejudice at its finest hour of societal de evolution,,, sighhhhhhhhh awe poop
Jenna08848 1 year ago
Hi Sam, Totaly relate with your comments! Great Vlog. xxx
gwil6100 1 year ago
well done Rebecca :) have a great week.sam. uk.
03sams 1 year ago
Sorry to hear you had such a hard time at work. Wondering if human resources has any suggestions about how to deal with harassment issues? I have friends who lost several job interviews because they hid the fact that they were trans. Everything went great on the interviews and the background checks always picked up the old "guy" name and they lost the job. Guess employers felt they were not up front. Now they disclose that they are trans at the interview or put something in the resume up front
netnut7 1 year ago
Deuteronomy 22:5 says 'The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.'
I will pray for you. Clearly the devil has taken hold of you and has twisted your mind and soul into thinking that this is the route to happiness. Embrace God and return to your original self - your masculine self as God created in his own image. I pray that others will heed this message.
69troll69 1 year ago
@69troll69 According to your logic, and the Bible, what sort of clothes should an inter-sexed person wear? God made them too, but they don't have a clear-cut gender. The whole "male and female he created them" just isn't descriptive of everyone. Maybe the Bible is inadequate, and people should wear whatever they want.
secretsareboring 1 year ago 2
@69troll69 Reading the bible word for word is not the way to do it. Do you really think God cares what people wears? Do you really think God really cares if people alter their bodies so that they can feel like themselves 100%? Evil likes to see people suffer. The devil wants people to harm others. Trans people are not harming anyone or intending to. Why would devil make someone believe something they are not? The devil probably has better ways to hurt someone then by making them trans.
Lauren3332 1 year ago
Did my video response post?
netnut7 1 year ago
Who wouldn't want to be Samantha? Rebecca is very awesome too, as evidence by the goodness of this video. Why can't we have you both? Congratulations on the name change!
Forlorn79 1 year ago
Wow what you say is soo0 true I moved 950 miles away from a homophobic/transphobic place to a coastal city where the population is 45 % gay I find it more comfortable here am now trying to find a JOB
ocean3rdcoast 1 year ago
I dont think the community should be supporting trans people hiding in pubic necessarily. For most this is not a possibility. More positivity towards acceptance than subterfuge. Thanks
ghauff 1 year ago
What a nice surprise, good to see you again.
faronthefiddler 1 year ago
Great video, and I have to say that being out /working to be fully 'out' has good and bad things attached it seems. I happen to live in an area where GLBT acceptance is actually very significantly high, but of course has it's haters. I outed myself at work to management, and my F/T life there will start New Years 2010.. I do understand the liability statement though, as I do feel like that is how they're trying to treat me. Life wise, most friends have been very supporting. Give and take I say.
AngelMarie1976 1 year ago
So you're saying you're not a sexual deviant? [I'm kidding, everybody--no need to pile on!] Your public stature on YouTube has as much ti do with your superstar charm as with your gender ID, Becca. And all celebs have creepy fans. But there are true admirers out there (meaning HERE). I respect feminine beauty in any form--and I love the individual, not the type. i've said it before, but--YOU ARE FANTASTIC! And you have a fine taste for apples. Granny Smith--absolutely!
jkeyes1000 1 year ago
Wonderful video. Nice to get to know you a little. Good luck with the name change process. I've done it recently, legally, for a different reason, but here in FL it was VERY expensive.
PaintedRavensong 1 year ago
tomken8dy 1 year ago
Welcome back clever, gorgeous, and talented Rebecca! :-P
ChilapaOfTheAmazons 1 year ago
Social respect is generally pretty thin on the ground.
Perseverance is key for the ability to say 'fnck you' in the nicest possible way.
:Dx
ArcadePerfect 1 year ago
hey rebecca,you're looking fab,l love apples and pears yummy,ditto on the fried potato,nice with a little herb and grated cheese.good job by the way.
03sams 1 year ago
being out as a transgendered person is hard, but i have hope that things will become easier with a change in desire to really push things forward. I'm taking estrogen, 3 pills a day since last month. family is becoming more supportive, most if not all of my friends know about it now. I do have a question that i really need some help with though, if you could help me with this that would seriously make my day. what is a good quality wig? & where can i find one? my natural hair just can't work.
ohyaimcoolest 1 year ago
#BRINGBECCABACK <3 :)
i love green apples 2 :D
i am not publicly out, since the fact i dont even have a pic, let alone a video
BUT since i have grown (i been basically trans all my life, the details are too complicated to explain, but it is just such a steady non changing part of my life, i dont consider it a transition) i learned there is NO such thing as 100% stealth and when the time comes for that one person 2 GLOCK you and kill your comfort zone, it IS the truth and you have to own up to it
crakhoBITCH 1 year ago