I totally agree. If I didn't get A and B's in school. I wouldn't get anything extra. Just basic food and clothing. But if I got A and B's I could have whatever I wanted within reason that is.
i agree with you its the parents fault if kids are badly behaved I have 4 great kids who i have always gotten compliments on how well they behave and now they are 24yr 22 yr 17yr and 16 yrs and none are into drinking drugs or been arrested its all about the follow thru if you threaten to do something if the dont behave you have to do it or they lose respect for you and wont listen in the future but all 4 have been into sports & scouts too their choices and that taught them values
You dont look old enough tho have 4 kids of that old! Congrats on your kids being better than normal:-) So many parents have given up and are letting TV and the schools raise thier kids. You have to have a license for a dog but any idiot who mates sperm and egg can be a parent!
Hey man, I don't know what has changed since the days when you and I grew up--the times when our neighbors could spank us and then tell our parents (who really gave it to us). You delivered strong points (and humorous ones also) in this video. The title of this video alone is entertaining as well as...original!
Hey Ken What has changed is that cildren arent taught respect and we as a society do not demand it! As for the title? You gotta have a little fun talking about a topic that isnt much fun;-)
looking at the responses here..seems we all agree..I feel so much more comfy in your views Daryl..thanks! I have decided to make another video response..as I said earlier..I wanted to see some responses before I posted..
I totally agree with you. My husband and I were foster parents for a while and during parents visits and during that time Mommy and Daddy was the greatest because they would bring them presents. During the week if they misbehaved we took privileges away from them, they would threaten to tell on us. We told them go ahead. When they started acting right privileges was restored.
Thanks Becky! I swear, I believe parenting should be taught in the schools including having to work so many hours in a daycare. That would give teens a true taste of being a parent and maybe it would make em think twice about having any till they are ready for it!
They definitely need to go to classes by people that have children that have their act together and then they need to foster awhile to get the true taste. A day care they get to go home and party or whatever they want to do. With foster children they are your responsibility until the the state moves them or you request for them be removed.
I think being a foster parent would be a great "final exam" for the ones who REALLY want to get married, but I wouldnt want to subject those poor kids to any more trauma than they have already dealt with.
I agree that maybe after classes to do day care under close supervision and than foster for at least 1 year. I also believe the people who work for children and families have to serve as foster parents at least 1 year in order to work there. You have people working for children and families that do not have children trying to tell you how things should be done and they have no experience.
A year in the trenches sounds great in theory but the CPS here in Nashville already has double the case load they are supposed to have. I believe adding in another year of "schooling" would make a low paying job even less desirable. I totally agree about the need for experience when dealing with kids and families tho:-)
I understand what you are saying about the case load. The only thing is, if they would stop playing God, to show people that they can take the kids out of the homes and will not allow the people that has loved and taken care of these children just because they can. Some of the politics that the leadership of these case workers has needs to be addressed so that the case workers can do their job. They would have more help instead of case workers that have a conscientious quitting on them
I totally agree about some having a God complex, I know cops like that too. Its a shame that the case workers dont always think of what is best for the child and instead do what is easiest for them.
One day I might share some experiences that my husband and I have had with them in the SW. We have move form that area so hopefully we can do something where we are at. We are still trying to adopt so we have to keep our nose clean.
I've made pretty much the same observations. There are the odd ball kids that are just out there and need a little more time spent on them but basically what the kid does is a direct reflection of how the parent propagated it.
I'm more of a seal-a-meal guy then tupperware though. Maybe space bags.
Usually if a kid has problems it is mostly the parents fault.
I was spanked. I spanked my kids. I thanked my parents for spanking me and I tell my kids to spank their kids. Not just spanking alone...sitting down and talking to your kids is the best way to get through to them...
I tell ya now days the kids are not being taught right for the most part. The kids on Nanny 911 scare me to death. I think I would end up in jail because I could not take it. The way those kids act. I am so glad my son is grown.
99 percent of the time, it is the parents fault for "sparing the rod and spoiling the child" I'm not saying beat the kids, I'm saying step up to the damn plate and take care of the kids....I mean, did you lay on the bed and do the duty to make them?
lol...sorry, a tangent of mine! I agree with you Darrell!
You got this one right, my friend. Kids need to tow the line and the parents need to step up to the plate and set the ground rules. We all knew that as kids and yes, we got spanked; an attention getter dad said. Now they tell kids in K-garten if your parents mistreat you call 911. You can imagine what a 5 yo thinks mistreatment is! WHOO HOOO! Good one!!
After seeing your dad, I KNEW that you got a proper upbringing:-) If I had called 911 on my folks they would have had to take me away, I would have gotten killed!
We just come from a different era I guess, kids today dont give a damn for the most part cause they know they can yell child abuse and get away with it!
Man my mom would beat the crap out of us in public, now they call 911 on you if they see you smack a kid in public, and then they use the video from the store or where ever, and put it on NATIONAL headline news..
You are a ninja, the camera would never record fast enough to catch you smacking one of em;-) At least you try to keep them in line, too many just let thier kids run wild!
You're right, they are the product of their parents.
We were spanked. Just the THREAT of a spanking was enough to put us in line. I don't think parents have that kind of authority anymore and want to be a 'friend' to their kids. WHy would they be afraid of a friend? A child should always have a slight fear that their parent could potentially snap at any given notice. Just the fear alone would keep them inline ;)
I agree with you so much on this. When they are little and they act like butts it's because their parents are butts. I know someone in my life who just tells her son "You better stop that or else" and she even yells things and the kid knows damn good and well she isn't going to do crap because she's too damn lazy! Ticks me off so much. Idle threats are what I see most bad parents do all the time. It's so annoying and it produces brats!
My sisters youngest learned I mean what I say the hard way. I told him to eat his mashed potatoes or I would stick them in his ear. He said "no you wont", that was his first mistake:-) Now he believes me when I say Im going to do something! He is a GREAT guy now, i like to think I had something to do with that.
We got a tail whipping and I'll tell you, there was no back talking, smart mouthing or whatever you want to call it. It didn't take but one spanking from Daddy for you to decide, I won't do that again and I can count the spanking I got from him on one hand!
You've got that right Daryl!! I couldn't agree with you more! There have been several parents that I've wanted to punch square in the face!! Love ya, Ang
Daryl, you hit the nail on the head. When you have children you don't have a life anymore because that child should be your life. A lot of parent's these days don't want to take the time a child needs to teach them. It's much easier to say oh gone on, do what you want. Instead of saying no and meaning it. And of course a 1000 more things,. It's a hard job! Hugs!
It is a hard job Melissa, I got to help my sister and brother-in-law with their 3 and am being Super Uncle for my brothers kids now. I only get to see some of the hard work and can appreciate the time and effort it takes to raise them right!
I totally agree that bratty kids are that way, because the parents allow it. For real though. I sho'll 'nuff had my fair share of laying over the lap, bare bottom spankings. LOL
I totally agree. If I didn't get A and B's in school. I wouldn't get anything extra. Just basic food and clothing. But if I got A and B's I could have whatever I wanted within reason that is.
Yostiemonster 1 year ago
@Yostiemonster Some parents just dont get it and they expect the schools to do all the dirty work. Parenting is hard work if you do it right.
1DRock37167 1 year ago
some good parents even mess up when it comes to language. eh? i dont guess yours had a bar of soap. giggles
crosspecans 1 year ago
@crosspecans My mouth was washed out more than once but Im bigger than they are now:-P
1DRock37167 1 year ago
i agree with you its the parents fault if kids are badly behaved I have 4 great kids who i have always gotten compliments on how well they behave and now they are 24yr 22 yr 17yr and 16 yrs and none are into drinking drugs or been arrested its all about the follow thru if you threaten to do something if the dont behave you have to do it or they lose respect for you and wont listen in the future but all 4 have been into sports & scouts too their choices and that taught them values
tambramarrie 1 year ago
You dont look old enough tho have 4 kids of that old! Congrats on your kids being better than normal:-) So many parents have given up and are letting TV and the schools raise thier kids. You have to have a license for a dog but any idiot who mates sperm and egg can be a parent!
1DRock37167 1 year ago
Hey man, I don't know what has changed since the days when you and I grew up--the times when our neighbors could spank us and then tell our parents (who really gave it to us). You delivered strong points (and humorous ones also) in this video. The title of this video alone is entertaining as well as...original!
MrCrossIsBoss 2 years ago
Hey Ken What has changed is that cildren arent taught respect and we as a society do not demand it! As for the title? You gotta have a little fun talking about a topic that isnt much fun;-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Amen! Brother!
Meat44CMag 2 years ago
Another believer!!! LOL Thanks for watchin:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
you know what. when i have kids, there gonna be on the leash 24/7
Calderoh 2 years ago
Thats a great place to start! My brother got his oldest a monkey backpack and the tail is the leash.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
that is so cool...
xoxo jarat
vampressjarat666 2 years ago
:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Whenever I see some kid acting up, or even some parent behaving like a bunghole in public, I'm grateful that neither are my direct responsibility.
OhCurt 2 years ago
Agreed Curt, but it doesnt stop the urge to punch the bad parent now does it?
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I admit nothing.
8-)
OhCurt 2 years ago
looking at the responses here..seems we all agree..I feel so much more comfy in your views Daryl..thanks! I have decided to make another video response..as I said earlier..I wanted to see some responses before I posted..
Thanks Man, you are spot on!!!
Rhondakhe 2 years ago
Cant wait to see it Rhonda!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
beating as a source of erotic or religious stimulation
whipping: beating with a whip or strap or rope as a form of punishment
I went to a catholic school so whip and Strap was always on hand
OOch !!
Sprinnkles of pain
PalmOliveSoap 2 years ago
Was is you or the nun getting off on the beatings?
1DRock37167 2 years ago
eee Bless Sister Anne such a lovely lady and she never hit me once in all the years I was at her school,
sprinkles
PalmOliveSoap 2 years ago
So, Sister Anne was the object of your burning ginger desire. Did she ever show you her ankle?
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Sounds like some good advice to me Daryl!
No way would I ever want kids either. Having 3CoolKats is plenty enough responsibility to suit me. It's perfectly acceptable to spoil *them* rotten:)
3CoolKats 2 years ago
Raising kids is way more work than I ever want to do, I havent even decided whether to get another dog or not.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I totally agree with you. My husband and I were foster parents for a while and during parents visits and during that time Mommy and Daddy was the greatest because they would bring them presents. During the week if they misbehaved we took privileges away from them, they would threaten to tell on us. We told them go ahead. When they started acting right privileges was restored.
DearestBecky 2 years ago
Thanks Becky! I swear, I believe parenting should be taught in the schools including having to work so many hours in a daycare. That would give teens a true taste of being a parent and maybe it would make em think twice about having any till they are ready for it!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
They definitely need to go to classes by people that have children that have their act together and then they need to foster awhile to get the true taste. A day care they get to go home and party or whatever they want to do. With foster children they are your responsibility until the the state moves them or you request for them be removed.
DearestBecky 2 years ago
I think being a foster parent would be a great "final exam" for the ones who REALLY want to get married, but I wouldnt want to subject those poor kids to any more trauma than they have already dealt with.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I agree that maybe after classes to do day care under close supervision and than foster for at least 1 year. I also believe the people who work for children and families have to serve as foster parents at least 1 year in order to work there. You have people working for children and families that do not have children trying to tell you how things should be done and they have no experience.
DearestBecky 2 years ago
A year in the trenches sounds great in theory but the CPS here in Nashville already has double the case load they are supposed to have. I believe adding in another year of "schooling" would make a low paying job even less desirable. I totally agree about the need for experience when dealing with kids and families tho:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I understand what you are saying about the case load. The only thing is, if they would stop playing God, to show people that they can take the kids out of the homes and will not allow the people that has loved and taken care of these children just because they can. Some of the politics that the leadership of these case workers has needs to be addressed so that the case workers can do their job. They would have more help instead of case workers that have a conscientious quitting on them
DearestBecky 2 years ago
I totally agree about some having a God complex, I know cops like that too. Its a shame that the case workers dont always think of what is best for the child and instead do what is easiest for them.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
One day I might share some experiences that my husband and I have had with them in the SW. We have move form that area so hopefully we can do something where we are at. We are still trying to adopt so we have to keep our nose clean.
DearestBecky 2 years ago
Please dont stop trying to adopt, some kid out there NEEDS you:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
As soon as the people I got staying at my house get a place of their own I will be calling children home society again and see where we stand.
DearestBecky 2 years ago
Thats AWESOME news Becky:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Do they have tupperware that big? Cool!
We need to talk bout grown up kids an how they talk to their parents. (there is no way to fix the parents)
Good video..I like what you have to say.
you are a tough guy huh..telling us to get off our ass an do our homework.. LOL Ok Ok I will!
tweetnes 2 years ago
Submit that topic to Clair for next week, I could do a series of videos on raising parents:-)
I had too yell, we only had one response when I made my vid.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
respect. kids don't have it because they aren't taught it ;)
buglady58 2 years ago
AMEN!!!!!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I've made pretty much the same observations. There are the odd ball kids that are just out there and need a little more time spent on them but basically what the kid does is a direct reflection of how the parent propagated it.
I'm more of a seal-a-meal guy then tupperware though. Maybe space bags.
2TheLeftOfNoWhere 2 years ago
I think I will stick with the tupperware, you can let them out to clean and then put them back before they get too sassy:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
What you're saying is all so true.
cozzyk 2 years ago
I know, more people should listen to me:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
would you like to talk about your childhood beatings a little more with me Daryl I am here and ready to sprinkle you with luv, lol
remember when the little feckers who were spoiled got the best action figure and you had a stick? or they had star war stuff and you had a shovel LOL
man I had nothing, at all ,
and glad I had nothing,
SPRINKLES D:0
PalmOliveSoap 2 years ago
Beatings? You dont know beatings like I know beatings. My fathers favorite punishment was flagellation at high noon! :-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Usually if a kid has problems it is mostly the parents fault.
I was spanked. I spanked my kids. I thanked my parents for spanking me and I tell my kids to spank their kids. Not just spanking alone...sitting down and talking to your kids is the best way to get through to them...
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I got my spankings after being told why I was getting spanked and what my expected behavior was. Kids today have no clue!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I tell ya now days the kids are not being taught right for the most part. The kids on Nanny 911 scare me to death. I think I would end up in jail because I could not take it. The way those kids act. I am so glad my son is grown.
debbiez112 2 years ago
Im with you Debbie, I could choke some of those kids on Nanny911! The parents deserve more punishing than the kids.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
AMEN BROTHA!!!!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
99 percent of the time, it is the parents fault for "sparing the rod and spoiling the child" I'm not saying beat the kids, I'm saying step up to the damn plate and take care of the kids....I mean, did you lay on the bed and do the duty to make them?
lol...sorry, a tangent of mine! I agree with you Darrell!
mike
macaronipop 2 years ago
Preach on Brother Mike:-) I cant stand to see people letting thier crotch spawn running wild either!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
You got this one right, my friend. Kids need to tow the line and the parents need to step up to the plate and set the ground rules. We all knew that as kids and yes, we got spanked; an attention getter dad said. Now they tell kids in K-garten if your parents mistreat you call 911. You can imagine what a 5 yo thinks mistreatment is! WHOO HOOO! Good one!!
wildheart5 2 years ago
After seeing your dad, I KNEW that you got a proper upbringing:-) If I had called 911 on my folks they would have had to take me away, I would have gotten killed!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Oh hell yeah with that one. If we had tried the 9-1-1 thing. We could imagine broken fingers, boy howdy!
silverscreamgrl 2 years ago
We just come from a different era I guess, kids today dont give a damn for the most part cause they know they can yell child abuse and get away with it!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Man my mom would beat the crap out of us in public, now they call 911 on you if they see you smack a kid in public, and then they use the video from the store or where ever, and put it on NATIONAL headline news..
but I try to keep my demon spawns in line hahah
ninjajessie1 2 years ago
You are a ninja, the camera would never record fast enough to catch you smacking one of em;-) At least you try to keep them in line, too many just let thier kids run wild!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
LOL!! I loved your answers :)
You're right, they are the product of their parents.
We were spanked. Just the THREAT of a spanking was enough to put us in line. I don't think parents have that kind of authority anymore and want to be a 'friend' to their kids. WHy would they be afraid of a friend? A child should always have a slight fear that their parent could potentially snap at any given notice. Just the fear alone would keep them inline ;)
silverscreamgrl 2 years ago
You are so right Beth, the fear of not knowing when my dad would loose his mind kept me from NOT doing a bunch of bad things!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I payed a dear price cause my parents did not set any limits, so I know the value of boundaries.
Ranblv 2 years ago
I cant imagine you running wild Ran, do tell!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
YT is not the place, maybe someday over beer.
Ranblv 2 years ago
First round is on me:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I agree with you so much on this. When they are little and they act like butts it's because their parents are butts. I know someone in my life who just tells her son "You better stop that or else" and she even yells things and the kid knows damn good and well she isn't going to do crap because she's too damn lazy! Ticks me off so much. Idle threats are what I see most bad parents do all the time. It's so annoying and it produces brats!
LatteSue 2 years ago
My sisters youngest learned I mean what I say the hard way. I told him to eat his mashed potatoes or I would stick them in his ear. He said "no you wont", that was his first mistake:-) Now he believes me when I say Im going to do something! He is a GREAT guy now, i like to think I had something to do with that.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
haha! Don't mess with Daryl if there are mashed potatoes around! ;)
LatteSue 2 years ago
Being consistent is my deal, they KNOW that when I say something I MEAN it!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
right on buddy !!!
dagocleo 2 years ago
Thanks DC!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
We got a tail whipping and I'll tell you, there was no back talking, smart mouthing or whatever you want to call it. It didn't take but one spanking from Daddy for you to decide, I won't do that again and I can count the spanking I got from him on one hand!
auntcc1968 2 years ago
Amen to that Sherry! Daddy laid down the law and you didnt question it if you valued the hide on your backside.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
You've got that right Daryl!! I couldn't agree with you more! There have been several parents that I've wanted to punch square in the face!! Love ya, Ang
GramsandPapi 2 years ago
Somehow Ang, I have no problem visualising you punching some inattentive parent for not reigning in thier crotch spawn:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Don't get me started Daryl. Don't get me started. I'm with ya.
kalacaw 2 years ago
Go ahead Betty, get started and record it for a response for SpookyUniversity. Its a GREAT channel:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
OK, I've got to finally check this out. I'm just so slow at stuff!
kalacaw 2 years ago
Good!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
OK, I just subbed to that channel. You got me. :D
kalacaw 2 years ago
I am subbed to most of the people who make responses to the vids, Just watch some of the old ones to check out the gang:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Daryl, you hit the nail on the head. When you have children you don't have a life anymore because that child should be your life. A lot of parent's these days don't want to take the time a child needs to teach them. It's much easier to say oh gone on, do what you want. Instead of saying no and meaning it. And of course a 1000 more things,. It's a hard job! Hugs!
imperceptibleme 2 years ago
It is a hard job Melissa, I got to help my sister and brother-in-law with their 3 and am being Super Uncle for my brothers kids now. I only get to see some of the hard work and can appreciate the time and effort it takes to raise them right!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Sacrifice! Sacrifice! Here's the top of the list. Career, relationships, my tummy ass and thighs! for starters. ha ha
MaryJaneSlingBacks 2 years ago
Yep, you are one of the GREAT ones Rhana:-) I know your kids will appreciate what you do for them when they realise how hard it is to raise them!
1DRock37167 2 years ago
I totally agree that bratty kids are that way, because the parents allow it. For real though. I sho'll 'nuff had my fair share of laying over the lap, bare bottom spankings. LOL
Summer9293 2 years ago
I think it is just that kind of discipline that made all of us into the good people we are today! At least we know how to act in public:-)
1DRock37167 2 years ago
Amen!
Summer9293 2 years ago