I'm going to live to be very old but I'm going to die alone. . .But I don't want to die alone. . .But I've realized that I'm going to anyway, and there's not a goddamn thing that I can do about it--it's all too much for me.
for me it kinda hard be funny i not really funny guy but i can talk and i can hear really well with hearing aid and i can be fun too u know. i try find date really hard women i like but i got bad luck cuz alot women dont like deaf somewhat or somepoint so i half deaf. sometime i afiad women react oh my god he deaf u know i have experice like that before.im 21 year old plz anyone help me out little bit. what should i do
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
Love your videos .... I totally agree with your video "Two kinds of dating advice you should avoid" ... If I could give any advice it would be simply this BE YOURSELF!! Wear what you LIKE wearing ... please don't dress up to try and impress! :)
He says dont try to hard, yes that is true dont go over board but do try to appear well dressed and groomed! I dont like it when guys show up for a date wearing faded clothes, unshaved face and oily hair! Come on make an effort!
Here is some Non harmful dating advice..statistically .men pay for the majoruty of the dating experience...byw why is this in 2011? and why when its an equal opprotunity meeting? ..the solution..suggest dinner ..during which if you can tell she isnt into you of vice versa ..simply ask the waiter for seperate bills after dinner...why pay for a woman who isnt into you ??,,you dont have to impress her anymore- besides it just isnt fair...
oh my God, right on point. I'm a lady and its true if the lady isnt in2 u then she will look at the small things around her like where ur taking her, what a mess you have, etc..but yea overall thats definetly true 100%. pay attention guys lol
i had a friend that was gonna take his g.f to mcdonalds for a date hahahahaah at that time i was like omg your messed up dont take her there take her somewhere else
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best dating advice -- talk about yourself and your extremely high I.Q. If that doesn't work, resentfully shout that you're a NICE GUY and act entitled. If neither work, complain the world isn't fair.
I went on a date with a girl a few months ago. Instead of driving, I rode my bicycle to the StarBucks. It was 2 miles from my house. I didn't see the point in driving.
When we first met, I just got off my bike and was sweating from the bike ride. She told me it was really disgusting and was turned her off that I would show up on a first date on a bicycle, and sweating.
@SlowDaddie Might be the wrong kind of woman. If you like bike riding and physical activity, find a woman who appreciates the kind of guy you are. From your description, I wouldn't be very turned on by her. Sounds a bit stuck up. It's not just about what she wants.
@SlowDaddie I'd like to separate the two issues. That she was offended by you showing up on your bike shows she was just stuck-up; that shouldn't matter to anyone. That you showed up for a FIRST date looking sweaty and bedraggled tells her that you are either a slob in general or that you don't have the respect to clean up a bit. I'm not saying you need to dress to the nines, but you ARE making a first impression so it's a good idea to find a place that is both 'being YOU' and 'looking decent.'
@SlowDaddie I see you completely missed what I said about the bike. The bike...should not have mattered. At all. Good for you for riding a bike instead of driving, even.
Showing up to make a first impression while sweaty (I am assuming more than marginally) might say that you don't care enough to look nice for her - or maybe that IS you looking nice. Thus, disrespectful or slovenly. Would you go to an interview like that? Or to meet her parents? Likely not.
@KattWhitewind You're a moron. I don't feel any guilt for simply riding my bike down the street. Yes, there was some presperation on my forehead. That's what happens when you bike. Seriously, it was STARBUCKS. We're going to the Academy Awards with President Obama.
@SlowDaddie Wow, devolving into insults when someone is trying to help. How mature.
Where the hell did I say anything about feeling guilty about the bike? Forget the bloody bike! Sheesh.
And right, getting upset over a tiny bit of sweat on your forehead is idiotic. From what you said I derived that perhaps you were sweating more profusely than that.
And to rephrase what I said before: dressing to the nines is not expected; looking at least decent on ANY first impression pretty much is.
@KattWhitewind I was dressed nicely. Look lady, go find someone else to bug and pass judgement on. Your attempt to guilt-trip me into feeling like I've insulted someone simply for riding a bicycle is just wasting everyone's time. But yes, next time I will rent a limosine and a tux when I'm going a few blocks to StarBucks. Thanks for the advice.
@KattWhitewind ok ok u 2..... let me just speak for the ladies :D...we love masculine guys which includes sweat and all mhmm...but, we would like a kind gentlemen that takes us seriously by dressing and appearing hygenic and well groomed as we take time 2 make ourself appear fresh and beautiful for u. in other words we put effort into our looks and we expect the same...common sense, its a nobrainer really lol.take care
Don't agree fully with the advice. Especially that it doesn't matter where you take her out on the first date. If I mention I like Ethiopian food, and he takes me on a first date to an Ethiopian restaurant, it shows me he is paying attention etc. and dirty clothes in the corner is never cute, no matter how cute the guy is!
TIP 1...This isnt 1954.. if a woman wont go dutch you shouldnt want her ..she probably isnt fair minded ..so just ask the waiter for seperate bills anyways TIP 2 If a woman wont go dutch play her for sex as punishment for not being fair...cause and effect...your $ ($20 or so) for some of her self respect...AND you get laid.
You're right, it is irrelevant where you go when you date....me and my bf will just walk in central park and spend all day there...he doesnt need to take me anywhere fancy.
The women I have dealt with are fickle, manipulative, abusive, complicated, and irrational. Why is it so difficult to find beautiful healthy women who are not like that? How do you find one who is not in a relationship?
@theelement Im going through the same thing man, but as of lately I've developed a "Who gives fuck at all" mindset when it comes to women. It gives me more time to focus on being successful, and as the old saying goes: "You loose money chasing women, but never lose women chasing money."
@theelement maybe because you don't know exactly what kind of woman you're looking for as opposed to what you're NOT looking for. Maybe you haven't met a woman who has moral values and beliefs because I believe that kind of woman would not likely to do those things you've listed. As for "how do you find one who is not in a relationship?", well I don't really know how you can find one unless you were to pay close attention to the women around you. Some are hard to read and some are not.
@theelement If you've met one who displays almost all those attributes, then at least you know ahead of time she's not the right woman. If she "mistreats you", then she obviously has a lot of issues. It's really not worth pursuing a woman who flirts with other men just to make you jealous. I suggest you look for a woman who has the attributes you admire AND that you've worked hard to become. Try to become the person you want to be with.
I don’t hate women, I don’t believe I am too good to be with women or they are too good to be with me but this pattern forces me to hate being around women. It spoils what little sense of optimism I try to salvage in my hectic stressful life. I have to resort to fantasizing relationships or masturbating while watching porn and I hate that to.
@theelement at least you can articulate your problems and wishes, that's a very good start man. just talk to your (successful) friends about it and apply your theories to real life
(( SITUATIONAL QUESTION )) It’s like a setup. A woman will show me interest and lead me on to believe she wants me to approach her and flirt with her. I don’t approach her because I believe if I do approach her and reciprocate interest I devalue myself and the attraction fades. So Instead I share brief eye-contact and smile but keep my distance. Then the attraction fades because some other impressionable guy comes along and hijacks her and I get jealous. What should I do about it?
(( QUESTION )) How do I communicate with women if I have nothing in common with women? I don’t view the world the way women view the world. I don’t get why I have to behave like a touchy feely gay man to get women?
Some of us like to look our best whether a girl is involved or not. Same with how our place looks. There's nothing try-hard about having a philosophy of cleanliness in your everyday life, girl or none.
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when I went to a guy's house on a date, it was really clean and I didn't really think anything of it, until I went by again another time (his roommate is my friend) and the place was a mess. It made me laugh to think he had cleaned it up super nice for me! I'd rather it be a happy medium between messy and clean.
@TheDemonStr omg i have the same problem :(.....i ve heard many compliments especially for my appearance from women, some of them have even flirted me,but always the ones i like,they don't like me(or at least that's what i think to tell the truth)...Maybe i m unlucky or maybe i'm a moron and always do sth wrong....!
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dude I've got to say -- and I don't say this often -- but you're pretty smart. I think it's so true that men are driven by their desires to meet women to a large degree. ..and so of course society capitalizes on this and tries to get guys to spend spend spend..when instead they could be -- spending -- time with a beautiful woman. :)
Along the lines of 'trying too hard', I believe that when pursuing a dating partner just trying to be yourself is difficult enough and worth some credit.
Yea, and it seems like more of the advice is harmful and useless than anything else. I did find some that was actually quite good and free too. It's an email sign up form at talktogirls zxq net It really changed my entire way of thinking about communicating with women.
It's obvious that the men's magazines are telling men that woman are hard to impress and are like complex machines because of the fact that they want men to buy the clothes/expensive items they are advertising in the magazine. They are basically being paid by the companies who post the advert's in the magazine to say those things.
@69Bluntsmoka420... i love your comment with the cartoon. i been wanted to do that with my boyfriend since i know he smokes. but it suck he wants to be with his friends instead. girls are humans!
i think my feelings for my gf are slowly and painfuly faiding...but i dont WANT it to go away. is there a way (nothing sexual) to sort of renew my feelings for her - to, in a way, fall in love with her again? please someone give some advice. i would apreciate it very very much.
@Seraph825 take a trip. go somewhere. ur relationship with her should never be boring. maybe its time to take things the next level. or maybe u need to move on and end the relationship. whatever way, a trip will be the best way to test ur relationship with her and its state.
maybe your right. thanks. one more question though, me and her have been dating for almost 4 months now..are we still in the infatuation stage or would now truly be a good time to take it to the next level.
3. say some other hot chick passes you by, do u check her out?
and finally, say ur at a place where there guys and girls but just not ur gf, and u are tempted to cheat, what do u do? do u refuse because of the guilt or because of a choice?
after all these, i think u will know for sure where u guys are at.
@Seraph825 well talk about those feeling with her and you also got to consider if you really want to be with her, if you do tell her that as well and that you really want it to work out and also try remembering what attracted you to her in the first place, its more of a mental thing this type of problem and one of the hardest test a relationship can face, try doing things both of you like, activities , games for example and most important of all communicate in a proper honest and civilized way
ugh, I can't stand it when women are clearly upset but deny anything's wrong. As far as I'm concerned they had their chance to get it off their chest and blew it.
"Honey, you look upset. What's wrong?"
"Nothing. I'm fine."
"Great!" *Plays World of Warcraft for six hours.*
I think guys think to much when it comes to women. Be fun be energetic and make life interesting. Be the same guy you are when you are around your boys and have a sense of humor and your all good.
okay, im a ten year old california kid and my friends told me to go here. i like this girl alot and she likes me alot. shes on my mind every second of the day. i assume its good. any advice?
1. Don't give her the impression that you have a crush on her. Girls want what they can't have. Act relaxed around her.
2. Be playful and teasing with her. Treat her like she's your annoying little sister... but do it in a funny way. For example, if she says something a little dumb, imitate her with a high squeaky voice.
3. Try not to think of her too much... I know it's hard. Chat with ALL the girls in your class. If the other girls like you, it'll make her like you more.
@bLUeChErryz ur infatuated by her...... don't think too much. just be urself. shes just as human as you are. just try try and try, learn from ur mistakes and eventually ull grow from it.
When I was a small around 10-year-old girl, my (male) teacher took a selective amount of his pupils me included to a competition. This teacher was the first and closest example of a man in my life. When we sat into his car, I actually got scared by how clean it was there. His car looked like in a TV commercial; everything shiny, no dust whatsoever, leopard patterned surfaces. Even though it all looked so cool, it also looked cold, dead and strict. Not a sign of "human residue" so to say.
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This is just my personal opinion, though a rather crude one, I must say. You could, in a sense, relate women to one of those big, complex cable remote controls you buy at Circuit City that have as many buttons on them as a gallon of water has H2O molecules. Guys, on the other hand, from what I've seen seem to prefer making themselves look like a remote that only has three buttons: ON, SEX, and OFF.
They are people but they are very different.. You can't playfully joke around with women as you may with guys.. Women are far more sensitive. God i wish i knew what women were thinking!!
k i need help: i have a friend with a hot sister and i want to ask her out. if i do that then my friend would be creeped out and would never talk to me again. i want to keep him as a friend cuz hes pretty cool but i want to date his sister cuz shes like perfect.
ps: before u say "how r u so sure shes gonna say yes" well i think she likes me even though shes 2 years older then me. ive also heard her whisper "i love u" a couple of times.
Alot of people here say things like they are experts on women. Im 17 yrs old and i take them to my mothers home. Apperantly they dont care if its my mothers home hell, they live with their mothers, they dont care if my room is dirty or if i have family pictures on the wall, if anything they like me more for that. All these so called "girls" that have been posting saying girls like clean homes, they needed a good dicking to see that neatness dosen't turn a girl on.
Thanks man! I'll pray for you too.
primerodimus1 1 week ago
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mikelorenz121 1 week ago
I'm going to live to be very old but I'm going to die alone. . .But I don't want to die alone. . .But I've realized that I'm going to anyway, and there's not a goddamn thing that I can do about it--it's all too much for me.
primerodimus1 3 weeks ago
@primerodimus1 I feel you. Pray about it. Things might turn around for you, and me. You aren't alone, since we are both feeling the same way.
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for me it kinda hard be funny i not really funny guy but i can talk and i can hear really well with hearing aid and i can be fun too u know. i try find date really hard women i like but i got bad luck cuz alot women dont like deaf somewhat or somepoint so i half deaf. sometime i afiad women react oh my god he deaf u know i have experice like that before.im 21 year old plz anyone help me out little bit. what should i do
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
BillTheTrainer 1 month ago
Love your videos .... I totally agree with your video "Two kinds of dating advice you should avoid" ... If I could give any advice it would be simply this BE YOURSELF!! Wear what you LIKE wearing ... please don't dress up to try and impress! :)
AmandaS1974 3 months ago
@retailrockstar This guy is a genius in my opinion.
darthopal 3 months ago
He says dont try to hard, yes that is true dont go over board but do try to appear well dressed and groomed! I dont like it when guys show up for a date wearing faded clothes, unshaved face and oily hair! Come on make an effort!
L8rBek 4 months ago
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PipeManChuck 4 months ago
Yes, I couldn't agree with you more. Great video. There is so much useless advice. that's why I also made a site! =D
MyDatingAnswers 4 months ago
Here is some Non harmful dating advice..statistically .men pay for the majoruty of the dating experience...byw why is this in 2011? and why when its an equal opprotunity meeting? ..the solution..suggest dinner ..during which if you can tell she isnt into you of vice versa ..simply ask the waiter for seperate bills after dinner...why pay for a woman who isnt into you ??,,you dont have to impress her anymore- besides it just isnt fair...
nneevveerrmmoorree 5 months ago
oh my God, right on point. I'm a lady and its true if the lady isnt in2 u then she will look at the small things around her like where ur taking her, what a mess you have, etc..but yea overall thats definetly true 100%. pay attention guys lol
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i had a friend that was gonna take his g.f to mcdonalds for a date hahahahaah at that time i was like omg your messed up dont take her there take her somewhere else
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JohnJohnsJohns 9 months ago
best dating advice -- talk about yourself and your extremely high I.Q. If that doesn't work, resentfully shout that you're a NICE GUY and act entitled. If neither work, complain the world isn't fair.
bitterasianmen 9 months ago
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mymomsezispecial 10 months ago
Sooo True. Girls, guys are not focused on the little things. In fact, if you see a guy trying too hard, you should be turned off by that.
samweller96 10 months ago
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MadeAtDade305 10 months ago 3
I dunno.
I went on a date with a girl a few months ago. Instead of driving, I rode my bicycle to the StarBucks. It was 2 miles from my house. I didn't see the point in driving.
When we first met, I just got off my bike and was sweating from the bike ride. She told me it was really disgusting and was turned her off that I would show up on a first date on a bicycle, and sweating.
SlowDaddie 10 months ago
@SlowDaddie Might be the wrong kind of woman. If you like bike riding and physical activity, find a woman who appreciates the kind of guy you are. From your description, I wouldn't be very turned on by her. Sounds a bit stuck up. It's not just about what she wants.
Mystefier 9 months ago
@SlowDaddie I'd like to separate the two issues. That she was offended by you showing up on your bike shows she was just stuck-up; that shouldn't matter to anyone. That you showed up for a FIRST date looking sweaty and bedraggled tells her that you are either a slob in general or that you don't have the respect to clean up a bit. I'm not saying you need to dress to the nines, but you ARE making a first impression so it's a good idea to find a place that is both 'being YOU' and 'looking decent.'
KattWhitewind 8 months ago
@KattWhitewind How is being active and in-shape considered being "a slob"? How is riding my bike down the street disrepecting a woman?
SlowDaddie 8 months ago
@SlowDaddie I see you completely missed what I said about the bike. The bike...should not have mattered. At all. Good for you for riding a bike instead of driving, even.
Showing up to make a first impression while sweaty (I am assuming more than marginally) might say that you don't care enough to look nice for her - or maybe that IS you looking nice. Thus, disrespectful or slovenly. Would you go to an interview like that? Or to meet her parents? Likely not.
KattWhitewind 8 months ago
@KattWhitewind You're a moron. I don't feel any guilt for simply riding my bike down the street. Yes, there was some presperation on my forehead. That's what happens when you bike. Seriously, it was STARBUCKS. We're going to the Academy Awards with President Obama.
SlowDaddie 8 months ago
@SlowDaddie Wow, devolving into insults when someone is trying to help. How mature.
Where the hell did I say anything about feeling guilty about the bike? Forget the bloody bike! Sheesh.
And right, getting upset over a tiny bit of sweat on your forehead is idiotic. From what you said I derived that perhaps you were sweating more profusely than that.
And to rephrase what I said before: dressing to the nines is not expected; looking at least decent on ANY first impression pretty much is.
KattWhitewind 8 months ago
@KattWhitewind I was dressed nicely. Look lady, go find someone else to bug and pass judgement on. Your attempt to guilt-trip me into feeling like I've insulted someone simply for riding a bicycle is just wasting everyone's time. But yes, next time I will rent a limosine and a tux when I'm going a few blocks to StarBucks. Thanks for the advice.
SlowDaddie 8 months ago
@KattWhitewind ok ok u 2..... let me just speak for the ladies :D...we love masculine guys which includes sweat and all mhmm...but, we would like a kind gentlemen that takes us seriously by dressing and appearing hygenic and well groomed as we take time 2 make ourself appear fresh and beautiful for u. in other words we put effort into our looks and we expect the same...common sense, its a nobrainer really lol.take care
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Don't agree fully with the advice. Especially that it doesn't matter where you take her out on the first date. If I mention I like Ethiopian food, and he takes me on a first date to an Ethiopian restaurant, it shows me he is paying attention etc. and dirty clothes in the corner is never cute, no matter how cute the guy is!
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theelement 1 year ago
@theelement Im going through the same thing man, but as of lately I've developed a "Who gives fuck at all" mindset when it comes to women. It gives me more time to focus on being successful, and as the old saying goes: "You loose money chasing women, but never lose women chasing money."
PhilxEulogyx 1 year ago
@theelement maybe because you don't know exactly what kind of woman you're looking for as opposed to what you're NOT looking for. Maybe you haven't met a woman who has moral values and beliefs because I believe that kind of woman would not likely to do those things you've listed. As for "how do you find one who is not in a relationship?", well I don't really know how you can find one unless you were to pay close attention to the women around you. Some are hard to read and some are not.
QuoGirl 1 year ago
And when you get a little bit in:
• She misreads you and mistreats you
• She pressures you to devalue yourself
• She tries to get you jealous by flirting with other men
• She flakes on you randomly
theelement 1 year ago
@theelement If you've met one who displays almost all those attributes, then at least you know ahead of time she's not the right woman. If she "mistreats you", then she obviously has a lot of issues. It's really not worth pursuing a woman who flirts with other men just to make you jealous. I suggest you look for a woman who has the attributes you admire AND that you've worked hard to become. Try to become the person you want to be with.
QuoGirl 1 year ago
I don’t hate women, I don’t believe I am too good to be with women or they are too good to be with me but this pattern forces me to hate being around women. It spoils what little sense of optimism I try to salvage in my hectic stressful life. I have to resort to fantasizing relationships or masturbating while watching porn and I hate that to.
theelement 1 year ago
@theelement at least you can articulate your problems and wishes, that's a very good start man. just talk to your (successful) friends about it and apply your theories to real life
MikeEngine 1 year ago
frequent dilemma:
• Women don’t show me interest and I am led to believe it’s because I am ugly and undesirable ( I burn)
• Women show me interest, I reciprocate interest moderately, than they no longer show me interest ( I burn )
• Women show me interest, I keep my distance and some impressionable guy comes along and hijacks them ( I burn)
• I approach women and they act very defensive against me and perceive it as me attempting to sexually harass them ( I burn)
theelement 1 year ago
(( SITUATIONAL QUESTION )) It’s like a setup. A woman will show me interest and lead me on to believe she wants me to approach her and flirt with her. I don’t approach her because I believe if I do approach her and reciprocate interest I devalue myself and the attraction fades. So Instead I share brief eye-contact and smile but keep my distance. Then the attraction fades because some other impressionable guy comes along and hijacks her and I get jealous. What should I do about it?
theelement 1 year ago
(( QUESTION )) How do I communicate with women if I have nothing in common with women? I don’t view the world the way women view the world. I don’t get why I have to behave like a touchy feely gay man to get women?
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twobeavers 1 year ago
Some of us like to look our best whether a girl is involved or not. Same with how our place looks. There's nothing try-hard about having a philosophy of cleanliness in your everyday life, girl or none.
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when I went to a guy's house on a date, it was really clean and I didn't really think anything of it, until I went by again another time (his roommate is my friend) and the place was a mess. It made me laugh to think he had cleaned it up super nice for me! I'd rather it be a happy medium between messy and clean.
mle011 1 year ago
Thanks Arkady.
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InformationSecrets 1 year ago
the 1st guy that took me on a date actually took to me to mcdonalds.. lol
saralikesdaisies 1 year ago
@saralikesdaisies i wouldn't do that I'd take you to in and out at least. mmm now i want some.
Zarat818 1 year ago
You are wonderful.
Sarayabellydancer 1 year ago
Awesome advice for men and So true! A nice woman is not going to
care about all that phony stuff. She just wants you to treat her nicely,
respectfully, and show some interest in her and be Yourself. Money
and clothes and restaurants are Not important. Humor is good and puts
people at ease.
If she acts like material things are really important, Run away asap,
and find someone else. :) (and this is from a woman's point of view)
JannyPaterson 1 year ago
great video ..
i have a problem always they like me women that i dont like very much
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TheDemonStr 1 year ago
@TheDemonStr omg i have the same problem :(.....i ve heard many compliments especially for my appearance from women, some of them have even flirted me,but always the ones i like,they don't like me(or at least that's what i think to tell the truth)...Maybe i m unlucky or maybe i'm a moron and always do sth wrong....!
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TheDemonStr 1 year ago
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olipop84 1 year ago
5 stars.
pure, truthful advice.
but only for those who want something serioud.
if you are a player, then this advice ain't for you.
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Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
You're a genius! Thanks for all these great tips.
superjoelucky12 1 year ago
My first date , I put my dick in her mouth and she spat it out , thats how i knew it wasnt meant to be.
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mystyle143 1 year ago
Along the lines of 'trying too hard', I believe that when pursuing a dating partner just trying to be yourself is difficult enough and worth some credit.
cynicaloptimist999 1 year ago
Yea, and it seems like more of the advice is harmful and useless than anything else. I did find some that was actually quite good and free too. It's an email sign up form at talktogirls zxq net It really changed my entire way of thinking about communicating with women.
matt11131981 1 year ago
You must be a psychology major.
Lescouflair 1 year ago
im pretty certain those dating advice magazines are written by greedy women.
souldude151 1 year ago 32
@souldude151 they are lol cosmopolitan sure as hell wasnt made by a man
MrVader9000 1 year ago
@souldude151 Also known as used up feminist women. =)
RussX5Z 1 year ago
It's obvious that the men's magazines are telling men that woman are hard to impress and are like complex machines because of the fact that they want men to buy the clothes/expensive items they are advertising in the magazine. They are basically being paid by the companies who post the advert's in the magazine to say those things.
YourSexisOnFire100 1 year ago
the things he says are pretty much on target, what i wonder is how he refrains himself from laughing at HOW he says things.
Arkady I think you are funny... yes I want to marry you :O)
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waystogetyourexback 2 years ago
@69Bluntsmoka420... i love your comment with the cartoon. i been wanted to do that with my boyfriend since i know he smokes. but it suck he wants to be with his friends instead. girls are humans!
nubradmn 2 years ago
maybe someone can help me with this:
i think my feelings for my gf are slowly and painfuly faiding...but i dont WANT it to go away. is there a way (nothing sexual) to sort of renew my feelings for her - to, in a way, fall in love with her again? please someone give some advice. i would apreciate it very very much.
Seraph825 2 years ago
@Seraph825 take a trip. go somewhere. ur relationship with her should never be boring. maybe its time to take things the next level. or maybe u need to move on and end the relationship. whatever way, a trip will be the best way to test ur relationship with her and its state.
VWYL900802 2 years ago
maybe your right. thanks. one more question though, me and her have been dating for almost 4 months now..are we still in the infatuation stage or would now truly be a good time to take it to the next level.
Seraph825 2 years ago
1. do u still like her?
2. if something happens, who do u think first?
3. say some other hot chick passes you by, do u check her out?
and finally, say ur at a place where there guys and girls but just not ur gf, and u are tempted to cheat, what do u do? do u refuse because of the guilt or because of a choice?
after all these, i think u will know for sure where u guys are at.
VWYL900802 2 years ago
The two of you should get high and watch some cartoons together.
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nubradmn 2 years ago
@Seraph825 well talk about those feeling with her and you also got to consider if you really want to be with her, if you do tell her that as well and that you really want it to work out and also try remembering what attracted you to her in the first place, its more of a mental thing this type of problem and one of the hardest test a relationship can face, try doing things both of you like, activities , games for example and most important of all communicate in a proper honest and civilized way
13thtrece 2 years ago
ugh, I can't stand it when women are clearly upset but deny anything's wrong. As far as I'm concerned they had their chance to get it off their chest and blew it.
"Honey, you look upset. What's wrong?"
"Nothing. I'm fine."
"Great!" *Plays World of Warcraft for six hours.*
69Bluntsmoka420 2 years ago
I can almost get behind you, bu t replace world of crapcraft with dragon age: origins :P
GoblinsnHobbits 2 years ago
well, at least be by her side and support her..... like at least do help her with problems that you can handle. the key thing is tolerance.
VWYL900802 2 years ago
I think guys think to much when it comes to women. Be fun be energetic and make life interesting. Be the same guy you are when you are around your boys and have a sense of humor and your all good.
TheDatingReporter 2 years ago
not exactly....... there's always gender difference.
VWYL900802 2 years ago
okay, im a ten year old california kid and my friends told me to go here. i like this girl alot and she likes me alot. shes on my mind every second of the day. i assume its good. any advice?
bLUeChErryz 2 years ago
1. Don't give her the impression that you have a crush on her. Girls want what they can't have. Act relaxed around her.
2. Be playful and teasing with her. Treat her like she's your annoying little sister... but do it in a funny way. For example, if she says something a little dumb, imitate her with a high squeaky voice.
3. Try not to think of her too much... I know it's hard. Chat with ALL the girls in your class. If the other girls like you, it'll make her like you more.
JohnColt 2 years ago
@bLUeChErryz ur infatuated by her...... don't think too much. just be urself. shes just as human as you are. just try try and try, learn from ur mistakes and eventually ull grow from it.
VWYL900802 2 years ago
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you're fucking 10? this is an adult dating tips video. go outside and just be a kid.
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what if your girlfriend looks at your subscribers and finds this guy
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mycahman 2 years ago
This guy knows what he's talking about. Trust me, I'm a girl, I know.
olivevine538538 2 years ago
this guy makes some good points, he knows whats up.
FlankerVT 2 years ago
HHahahaaha i bet this guy doesnt even talk to girls
rizzo123456789 2 years ago
@rizzo123456789 and I bet you were never that smart!
hyperwarrior 2 years ago
You made some good points here my man, coming from a girl.
LauraRockeddit 2 years ago
I agree
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marysinger83 2 years ago
When I was a small around 10-year-old girl, my (male) teacher took a selective amount of his pupils me included to a competition. This teacher was the first and closest example of a man in my life. When we sat into his car, I actually got scared by how clean it was there. His car looked like in a TV commercial; everything shiny, no dust whatsoever, leopard patterned surfaces. Even though it all looked so cool, it also looked cold, dead and strict. Not a sign of "human residue" so to say.
kristmist 2 years ago
that's scary. guys should have a bit of ruggedness in them. not OCD.
VWYL900802 2 years ago
I agree with him.
mindyourbizok 2 years ago
free advice is always the best advice because no one is trying to exploit you but help you, thank you for doing that arkady, ure really helping all of us
TommyVercetti08 2 years ago
Dude, you rule! Five stars...
I love how you make the point about the bullshit on the commerce-driven dating advice for men.
MrAlekNovy 2 years ago 2
This guy is a pro.
S67Snail 2 years ago 36
He is dead on with this advice.
zest4livin 2 years ago 5
You're on a hot streak with the advice, dude. You deserve more subscribers than those women that give stuffy more superficial advice about makeup.
ccricers 2 years ago 2
Those ladies work hard on their videos, just like Arkady does.
AlliWalker 2 years ago
lol i think the main reason guys shouldent try to hard is how long can they keep up the charade? :p
just show they care and im happy ^_^
x0chrystinax0 2 years ago
u deserve alot more views for ur videos thats why am giving u one :)
hutchie997 2 years ago 5
This is just my personal opinion, though a rather crude one, I must say. You could, in a sense, relate women to one of those big, complex cable remote controls you buy at Circuit City that have as many buttons on them as a gallon of water has H2O molecules. Guys, on the other hand, from what I've seen seem to prefer making themselves look like a remote that only has three buttons: ON, SEX, and OFF.
crichton55 2 years ago
this is good advice....BUT I can teach you how to get the girl..."5 rules to be a pimp"
xwizdom 2 years ago
You can most definitely playfully joke with a women and they will usually joke back if you do it rght
JJRFoyil 2 years ago 5
Women arent complex machines that you somehow are supposed to figure out. They are people just like men!
This is great advice!
WhoCaresJay 2 years ago 2
They are people but they are very different.. You can't playfully joke around with women as you may with guys.. Women are far more sensitive. God i wish i knew what women were thinking!!
Infiniteuphorix 2 years ago
It sounds like you're stuck in the exact way of thinking I mentioned above.
WhoCaresJay 2 years ago
Of course, you can I see it all the time - the girls usually emit a giggly OY! sound to playful jousts and jokes.
Of course, you don't want to come off like a condescending school bully though!!!!
TimpBizkit 2 years ago
k i need help: i have a friend with a hot sister and i want to ask her out. if i do that then my friend would be creeped out and would never talk to me again. i want to keep him as a friend cuz hes pretty cool but i want to date his sister cuz shes like perfect.
ps: before u say "how r u so sure shes gonna say yes" well i think she likes me even though shes 2 years older then me. ive also heard her whisper "i love u" a couple of times.
nsben 2 years ago
another thing people might say is "what if your friend isnt creeped out?" well he was creeped out when i said his sister was hot so....
nsben 2 years ago
Don't just say "your sister is hot" tell him that you like her. That's a lot different.
WhoCaresJay 2 years ago
@nsben who cares? hes ur friend. if hes creeped out then hes not really ur friend.
VWYL900802 2 years ago
ask her out, tell him later, if your friend is "creeped out" then he's an idiot,. but don't say that to him.
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AxiomaticObserver 2 years ago
plenty of slightly less educated and experienced girls around tho ;) haha just kidding u give good advice
qtonic 2 years ago 2
Alot of people here say things like they are experts on women. Im 17 yrs old and i take them to my mothers home. Apperantly they dont care if its my mothers home hell, they live with their mothers, they dont care if my room is dirty or if i have family pictures on the wall, if anything they like me more for that. All these so called "girls" that have been posting saying girls like clean homes, they needed a good dicking to see that neatness dosen't turn a girl on.
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