For someone as naturally good looking as you and especially as courageous as you, you seem pretty insecure about what others think about your looks. And about kids hating or loving you, unfortunately you can't be sure until they hit adolescence... high school, puberty , peer pressure..they do affect one's minds and perceptions in unpredictable ways...You can try to do the best by being the best parent that you can be..
@Michaellover80 Its nice to know we arnt alone and theres usually others that have been through the same or who feel the same, even though when we're going through it we feel like this could possibly only happening to us... :(
I am the same I care too much what others think of me. I always come across the wrong way on Youtube some of ya'll think i'm rude and mean but really i'm not. You won't let your children feel that way. You know what it feels like to hurt so you can make the change and not follow in your mothers foot steps. You are loved by all of us on youtube.
I can relate to soooooo many of those! But in a way it's comforting because it makes you feel not so alone, i know that at least 1 other person in this world has had some of the same feelings as me.
@lilpiggy742 I have found, now that im older, that so many people have been through the same things... Such a shame but your right, knowing someone else feels the same is comforting in a way :)
I feel about the same, i wasn't bullied in school because after 4th grade my mom was told to HomEsChool us (NEVER HAPPENED). i DONT HAVE MANY FRIENDS, Because I can see problems. Most times i lose friends because they think i believe i am better than them. The only time i honestly Judge, is if you dont try your best to love your kids, and take care of them. There are only a few women i hate because they dont try to keep their children safe. I have 3 kids, and i was afraid post partum would set
@redgrl83 :( *hugs* I had PPD with my son so i definately worried about getting it with my daughter... I thought FOR SURE i would get it but luckily i didnt! I just ended up feeling really alone, sad and cried a bit because of the situation with her Dad being so messed up and not having the support i needed :'(
Goodness me what a loy you've had to deal with in your life (especially your childhood) you should NEVER worry about your children cutting themselves off from you, just from watching your vlogs for the past year you can tell you love those children to the stars and back. Going by this vlog (and seeing what your mum was like) you are never going to be the mother your mum was.
Be kinder to yourself and don't be so hard on yourself. xxx
Your beautiful Chantelle and such a great mum. I had the same fear that I wouldn't love my daughter when i found out she was a girl and it dates back to my relationship with my mum, my biggest fear was that I would follow in her footsteps! But I proove to myself every single day that I'm nothing like her :)
@kookaiiz *high 5 for overcoming shitty mothers* LOL ;) I look at my kids and dont understand how my "mother" could do to me what she did now that im a mother myself... Some people just dont deserve the right to have children.
We seem to have similar secrets I am quite the same with my childhood & self critical & always must wear make up & worry bout my kids same way. Ur very brave sharing this hun well done . Hugs xxx
@ButterflyAmethyst The older i get, the more i find how many others shared a childhood so much like mine... I used to think i was the only one because all my friends parents seemed so much nicer than my "mother"... :'(
I wasnt going to make this public but with all the positive feedback im getting, im glad a i did now :) x
Your children would have no need to disown you. You seem to be the a fantastic Mummy and are giving your children the childhood you deserved. You have a pretty face and lovely hair, Keep up the good work with those babies! With love from the U.K (Laura Mummy of 4) :o)
At least you know u are a fantastic mum to your kids and that you have 'broken the cycle' of abuse, and the upbringing that you had. Yah for Nans!!! they are the best. lots of love xxxxxxxx
Loved this video,you are so strong for this ((HUGS))
TheTexasMama 1 month ago
@TheTexasMama Aw, thanks :) xx
AussieMummySince07 1 month ago
For someone as naturally good looking as you and especially as courageous as you, you seem pretty insecure about what others think about your looks. And about kids hating or loving you, unfortunately you can't be sure until they hit adolescence... high school, puberty , peer pressure..they do affect one's minds and perceptions in unpredictable ways...You can try to do the best by being the best parent that you can be..
Don't mean to offend ...just sayin'.
5arith 1 month ago
@5arith No offence taken at all, your completely correct! Thank you for watching :) xx
AussieMummySince07 1 month ago
Every single one of these I was thinking "oh my God - I thought I was the only one who thought that way!!". Thats amazing.
Michaellover80 1 month ago
@Michaellover80 Its nice to know we arnt alone and theres usually others that have been through the same or who feel the same, even though when we're going through it we feel like this could possibly only happening to us... :(
AussieMummySince07 1 month ago
I am the same I care too much what others think of me. I always come across the wrong way on Youtube some of ya'll think i'm rude and mean but really i'm not. You won't let your children feel that way. You know what it feels like to hurt so you can make the change and not follow in your mothers foot steps. You are loved by all of us on youtube.
ilovehandbags06 1 month ago
@ilovehandbags06 Thank you :)
AussieMummySince07 1 month ago
im the same with the make up one ;-) ur a strong women hun i admire u so much xx
umbumgo 1 month ago
@umbumgo Thanks love :) xx
AussieMummySince07 1 month ago
I can relate to soooooo many of those! But in a way it's comforting because it makes you feel not so alone, i know that at least 1 other person in this world has had some of the same feelings as me.
lilpiggy742 2 months ago
@lilpiggy742 I have found, now that im older, that so many people have been through the same things... Such a shame but your right, knowing someone else feels the same is comforting in a way :)
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
I feel about the same, i wasn't bullied in school because after 4th grade my mom was told to HomEsChool us (NEVER HAPPENED). i DONT HAVE MANY FRIENDS, Because I can see problems. Most times i lose friends because they think i believe i am better than them. The only time i honestly Judge, is if you dont try your best to love your kids, and take care of them. There are only a few women i hate because they dont try to keep their children safe. I have 3 kids, and i was afraid post partum would set
redgrl83 2 months ago
@redgrl83 :( *hugs* I had PPD with my son so i definately worried about getting it with my daughter... I thought FOR SURE i would get it but luckily i didnt! I just ended up feeling really alone, sad and cried a bit because of the situation with her Dad being so messed up and not having the support i needed :'(
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
Goodness me what a loy you've had to deal with in your life (especially your childhood) you should NEVER worry about your children cutting themselves off from you, just from watching your vlogs for the past year you can tell you love those children to the stars and back. Going by this vlog (and seeing what your mum was like) you are never going to be the mother your mum was.
Be kinder to yourself and don't be so hard on yourself. xxx
justme8725 2 months ago
@justme8725 Thank you, thats really sweet of you :) xx
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
Your beautiful Chantelle and such a great mum. I had the same fear that I wouldn't love my daughter when i found out she was a girl and it dates back to my relationship with my mum, my biggest fear was that I would follow in her footsteps! But I proove to myself every single day that I'm nothing like her :)
kookaiiz 2 months ago
@kookaiiz *high 5 for overcoming shitty mothers* LOL ;) I look at my kids and dont understand how my "mother" could do to me what she did now that im a mother myself... Some people just dont deserve the right to have children.
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
Great video! Wow, we have a lot in common! You are beautiful inside and out! Thanks for making this. :)
amweeks0504 2 months ago
@amweeks0504 Thank you hun, your gorgeous and thank you for watching :) xx
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
We seem to have similar secrets I am quite the same with my childhood & self critical & always must wear make up & worry bout my kids same way. Ur very brave sharing this hun well done . Hugs xxx
ButterflyAmethyst 2 months ago
@ButterflyAmethyst The older i get, the more i find how many others shared a childhood so much like mine... I used to think i was the only one because all my friends parents seemed so much nicer than my "mother"... :'(
I wasnt going to make this public but with all the positive feedback im getting, im glad a i did now :) x
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
I loved this video so much .. and sweetie you are sooo gorgeous and wonderful .. I adore you xoxox
CrazyCoolShorty 2 months ago
@CrazyCoolShorty Thanks Dani :) <3 xx
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
I think you are a great example to your children and they will love you no matter what! Thank you for sharing with us :)
ttcabeba 2 months ago
@ttcabeba Thank you, i hope i am :) Thank you for watching. x
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
you are a beautiful very strong women who cares a lot for her children, i admire you!
VikVikization 2 months ago
@VikVikization Thank you! Thats so nice of you :) x
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
Your children would have no need to disown you. You seem to be the a fantastic Mummy and are giving your children the childhood you deserved. You have a pretty face and lovely hair, Keep up the good work with those babies! With love from the U.K (Laura Mummy of 4) :o)
orlaithchops 2 months ago
@orlaithchops Thank you hun :) x
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
Oh wow alot of those things make me sad =[ Know one can help you think otherwise im sure but its not true! You are beautiful..
Reneelawrence666 2 months ago
@Reneelawrence666 Yeah, i got a bit upset creating this video and when ive watched it back too :'( Thank you :)
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
Those are some nice lips!
:)
itsMINDYfool 2 months ago
@itsMINDYfool Yeah, i definately love my lips :) LOL
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
Thanks for sharing this with us, appreciate it
CupcakesForMyBoo 2 months ago
@CupcakesForMyBoo Thanks for watching :) x
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
You have a beautiful nose and face shape!!! God Bless you!!!
Flawlessmakeup5 2 months ago
@Flawlessmakeup5 Oh wow, thank you! Ive always thought my nose was ugly LOL xx
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago
At least you know u are a fantastic mum to your kids and that you have 'broken the cycle' of abuse, and the upbringing that you had. Yah for Nans!!! they are the best. lots of love xxxxxxxx
LauraBellaX 2 months ago
@LauraBellaX LOL i dont know about being a fantastic Mum... I just try to do the best i can and hope that they know how much theyre loved :)
My Nan is awesome :) She's coming to visit soon!!!! YAY!
AussieMummySince07 2 months ago