This brought tears to my eyes because even though I've been out for years now I still remember the exact feelings and memories you expressed in your letter. Beautiful.
okay hold this fucking shit up ..... is he a cristian o hell no i belive in nothing okay love you bye jk noo i love this vid im gay and im 13 . thank you
Thank you so much! It means a lot. I am so damn proud to be gay! So proud! But my family is so religious and I tried coming out but I'm just back in the closet! I'm going to turn 16 at the end of January and hopefully before I turn 16 I can have the acceptance of my mom and sister!
Thankyou so much, things have just been building up lately, all the hate, every time fag or queer is used as an insult, my smile shines a bit brighter, but my faith in humanity creeps a bit lower. Thankyou for renewing that faith, and making that smile constantly plastered across my face a little more genuine. Honestly, at this moment I consider you a Godsend. The irony ;)
I've accepted it myself, I've told countless people.... but for some reason I feel the realization is hitting me again... I don't want this... I thought I had come to terms with it... apparently not...
I came out of the closet a while ago, can't remember exactly when. Things have been going better than expected. The idiots at school of course taunt me, but that's no shock. More importantly, I've found out who my true friends are. I've found out that my family isn't as open as I thought, but they're not homophobes really; they just never thought it'd be me and chose to ignore it. My friends stayed, even that one I thought was homophobic. It's not dangerous. You'll make it too.
Beautiful video! I just don't know how people can be cruel to others.
I think it's awesome every time I hear someone survive all that garbage with their spirit intact enough to give a little of their strength to help others.
And me...? I'm straight. I still went through the harassment of being called gay because I didn't exactly fit in with those freaks.
I've been bisexual for 90% of the life that I can remember. Women always just seemed SO much more attractive to me then men. Now, tbh, I consider myself a lesbian who happened to fall in love with a man...I don't think gender matters. Love is love. I didn't fall in love with a penis, I fell in love with a person.
4:28. I can relate to that, only wondering if I could ever be *straight*, and being jealous and covetous of straight people because *they* were the "norm" and because of that, were able to hold hands and kiss and show affection in public, when any other kind of sexuality, cannot.
Dear DepFox, I don't think I've ever heard anyone express themselves in such a humble and loving way. It's like you were explaining my truth in this life in a much better way than I ever could. I did commit suicide at around 19 years old. And I found myself in eternity with God and it was so beautiful that I did not want to come back, but He told me I had to come back-it was not my time to go yet. I am now 55 and see that I would have missed my greatest blessings in life if I had not come back!
@rhilliard1956 And by the way, what I said about how beautiful it was with God it does NOT in any way meant to encourage anyone to do the same! I didn't see anything with my eyes. My physical sight was blinded-it was His Presence that was so wonderful and anyone can enjoy that right here on this earth! Christ died once for ALL-and that includes You and me! Simply open your heart to Him and really LIVE!
How could there possibly be SO much hate, for someone who is gay? His parents say he is STILL getting bullied AFTER HIS DEATH! Those kids are the deff. of SOCIOPATHS. Honestly, im 23 now, but if I saw kids picking on a young kid like Jamey, I would abs. have NO problem smacking them down and taking a ride in the back of the cop car. Kids that young need to know, that after high school, its a WHOLE NOTHER WORLD OUT THERE. You are NOT judged, and bullies are NOT accepted in the REAL WORLD. #itgets
i am really getting tired of seeing and hearing people say that it is against gods way of life to be gay. i am a christian as well and do not see anything wrong with what they are doing. i have had many gay friends and found that they are more compassionate and understanding than straight people. to the gay people god bless you and keep fighting for your rights. you deserve to be loved, respected, and treated with equalness like anyone else!!
Im coming out a week from tuesday, national coming out day, im nervous but i gotta get through this for all the poor victims that have taken their lives
I just wanted to thank you for helping me. it's still hard for me to be gay. I come out about 2 yrs go. I dont have have anyone or any place to go to ask question about being a gay. I saw your video and it help know there people out there who are going thought the same things that i am going thought
Oh my God! I think that is quite possibly the best speech Ive ever seen on youtube! You just told the story of my high school years. Im 33 now but I still remember the pain very vividly! Any kid or anyone for that fact that is feeling this I promise you there is a light at the end of this tunnel of darkness! Thank you for posting this and bless you, your husband and most importantly your 2 children! PEACE
I was 12, and the older brother of one of my friends said it was a sin and anyone who is gay deserves to go to hell and if he ever met a gay he'd help send them there.
I'm now 17, and I can't say it aloud, even to myself. This is one of the first times I've ever written it.
I'm not bullied. I fall under the radar. But I can't say out loud that I'm gay. Atleast bi, but probably a lesbian. It was even difficult for me to write that, but it's like ripping a bandaid. Hopefully it gets easier.
@SashaKatan The most important person to come out to is yourself....Once you can look in the mirror and know you are as God made you and you are loved then you will be ok with being gay...Hugs
@SashaKatan Stay strong! I was in your shoes in many ways. I PROMISE it is soooooo much better as time goes on. This is why we call each other FAMILY, because there is a bond among us and we know how each other has struggled and it feels so good to have a great group of gay friends and FAMILY to hang out with. Please feel free to contact me if you need any advice. God Bless You!
@SashaKatan Hang in there Sasha. Just remember it's all about who you surround yourself. Surround yourself with love, not hate. Also stay away from your friends older brother.
B/ I did the letter writing, overdose planning in 1997 when I was 21, but then I chose to take a risk and come out. I find it so incredibly upsetting that 14 years later, people (not even adults, but early teens, pretty much CHILDREN) are going through this, and they’re actually going through with it and taking their own lives. Is the age of young gay suicides getting younger and younger or has it always been like this?
C/ This letter was absolutely beautiful and I related to so much of it. I’m 36 now and had a long journey to find true happiness, and true love, and to get to a point where I could look at my life and say “it’s so good to be here and I’m so glad I chose life when I was 21 and get to experience this”.
D/ I think the idea behind your youtube page is amazing, and I thankyou for being such a positive voice and such an amazing inspiration to young gays fighting to find their way today.
This is so true and such an inspirational letter from the heart. I was one of those kids in your letter when I was in school and was Suicidal. If anyone would have told me how blessed I would be later in life I would have said “ you must have the wrong person”. I’m so Thankful I did not take my life in High School cause I sure would have missed out on Family, Awesome People and Beautiful places this world has to offer... I’m now 41 and Loving life!
This is truly beautiful and inspiring. I shared it on my facebook page. I'm not gay or lesbian but I know how much being different can hurt. I'm a mother of a 21 month old who has a neurogenetic syndrome. People often look at me like I am a bad parent because my child does not walk or talk. And if he turns out gay on top of all the obstacles he has ahead, I will always welcome him with open arms and with pride in my heart. Thank you for posting this!
we are all beautiful. we are all unique and we are all born this way. lets put an end to intollerance, to bullying, to teen suicide. bullying is a hate crime. paws up, monsters. we were born this way.
You hit the point exactly. A lot of those things i could agree with. Thank you so much for writing that. The fact that someone could say that and hit every nail right on the head, it shows that i'm not alone. It really means a lot
Bryan! I loved your letter, it's awesome to know that you are given so much support to us, I'm now openly gay and I'm so happy since the moment I came out, know we only must continue fighting against homophobia and continue helping other teens that are daily fighting with themselves, I send you a friendly hug and to your childs and husband here from mexico, thanks!
Bryan, every time I watch this I am so inspired. Thank you for this video. I've shared it with a friend who is just starting to come out and with someone who doesn't understand what it's like to be gay. I hope it does for them what it does for me. You are such a wonderful person :)
I got all choked up just by hearing you read off the names of those teens. As you went on and talked about church, your parents, and waiting for it to be your turn, I just about lost it.
I started writing a similar letter/ story a few days ago and stopped 'cause I wasn't sure I wanted to finish it, or why I was writing it in the first place. Know I do.
Thank you so much for the strength to share. It has helped give me some at the age of 37.
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Bryan Wow I don;t think viewers understand how much work went into this powerful vid. A big thank you - You are so in touch with life, what you want and how to go about making and keeping yourself happy along with those people you love around you. Watching your face looking at the kids - could you be any happier. You are really one lucky guy - leading by example -taking the time to examine & share your deepest feelings sincerely for all of us. Your hard work is better than Oprah & Dr Phil
it never gets better it's all in how you set ur mind to deal with it.. quit lying to these up & coming gay off spring that we have to recrute into the cultist gay circle....
@kudos2ya37 WOW it must be really hard to be yourself...Life is about how you live it and the way you see it...I belive that we are the biggest obstival to our own happiness.
@kudos2ya37 it does get better and it will. It's never a lie because it does. Thousands of people telling you that it gets better aren't lying and it does get better.
thanx a lot for these words that really make me cry . i hope can come to Canada as i told U and your husband. it's really seem to be a dream that i can come out and say I'm gay and find someone love me and kiss me my first kiss.
thank you guys because some days only the two of you can help me pass the day
thanx again for your support letters that your husband sent to me ♥
Hey, i just wanted to say good job on the video.To all those scared give the song make it stop by rise against a listen....if they support you think about how many other people do please please please don't hurt yourself because of it its what the bullies want.it saddens me deeply to know KIDS are killing themselves for how they chose to live their lives not that it matters but i am straight but I'm here for you 1000% be strong IT GET"S BETTER!!!! R.I.P. September's children<3 this has to stop!
Such a great letter made by Bryan; it provokes my inner feeling and brings out my emphathy. I just wish I can find someone like you. Someday... Yea, Someday...
@depfox I told them! My mum told me she's fine with it but there is something in me that's not 100% sure she is but that could just be me beong paranoid. My dad threatened to kick me out, said some pretty personal nasty things to me but i'm not bothered what he thinks, i don't even speak to him anyway. I decided once i'd told them and my brothers and sisters i'd tell all my mothers side of the family and i'm so shocked that every one of them is cool with it!!
@depfox Thank you so much Bryan, if it wasn't for this video i honestly wouldn't of came out anytime soon. I just hope you know that you have irrevocably changed my views, and, therefore my life. I just wish i could thank you in person, but the Atlantic Ocean is in the way :).
@tomcatsclone I am a bible believing Christian. Alll I want to say in a very loving way, being gay is a choice and that choice will send you to hell when you die. We can debate this all day the truth never changes, You dont have to be gay. Jesus died for you and rose again to save you because He loves you. Thats right, Jesus loves gays. He died for you. The point is He died so you can be free from being a slave to sin (homosexuality). Confess and repent. He will forgive you and change you.
@nelson4truth You have know idea what you are talking about...I want to say this in a very loving way...You are not God and you are not Gay so there is no way that you can understand either or why things are the way they are...If you are a person of faith you should know not to judge your nighbor. as a gay christian I am very comfortable with my family and life and 100% Know that my relationship with GOD is good...Work on your relationship with him and leave others alone.
@nelson4truth I'n not a bible believing Christian so do me a favour and throw your religion down someone else's throat because i really couldn't care less on what you think you know. I'f i'm going to "hell" for being honest and being who i am then i'd much rather go there with other people like myself than go to heaven if it's full of people like you who think it's right to judge people on something beyond their control. How would you know if being gay was a choice of not, grow up, idiot!
Ok your whole comments was all good until you stop at "very loving way" The rest of the sentance you couldn't be more wrong, Being Gay isn't a choice child you were BORN THAT WAY!, Slave of a sin huh? If that is the case then what do you call mass murders? or rapist? or child molesters? With those being the a few of the worst SINS you can ever make. Also the Bible has been rewritten because the original bible was so old that nobody could read what it truely said.
@JediDrallig2 Sin is always a choice. The rapist choose to rape, the thief choose to steal. We all were born sinners because of Adam and Eve's choice to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. All sin will send you to hell. The liar going to the same place the gay man going. Here is another choice, You can decide right now to believe on Jesus or not. I am a minister of His Word. Jesus came to Earth to die for you. he paid the price for all YOUR sins. Jesus will forgive and save you. he will change U.
@nelson4truth Ok I'm a gay man who believes in god and to be honest your not making sense at all you said Jesus LOVES gays yet you said that being gay is a sin? Ok let's put on our thinking cap. Everyone is not perfect nobody is so what that being said you have committed a sin so what do you call that? If you really what you say you are you would know that You can be gay and still go to heaven, your saying the complete opposite, like I said being gay isn't a choice you were born that way
@JediDrallig2 Do you actually believe the Bible? Really. Because if you did you would know that Jesus died to save you. If sin was ok, He would not have died and rose again for you. You will not get into Heaven being gay. You must repent and believe the Word. The unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Be not deceived. Confess and ask God to forgive you. He will change you. First you must agree with Him. You are a sinner. Repent sir or else you will lose your soul.
@JediDrallig2 I could give you verse after verse but I don think you will accept it. So my final words to you is this. You are walking your way to Hell. Jesus died for you and rose from the grave. Believing in God and obeying Him are two seperate things. If you really want to know, I will help you. If you just gonna argue and try to prove you right when your wrong, I have nothing else to say. I pray that you would come to the knowlege of the truth before its too late. Please choose right.
Ok first of all your giving me bullshit after bullshit not verse after verse bro, second of all your not God or the Lord so therefor you have no say in where Gay people go, To be honest your not proving no point or whatsoever, I'm Gay and I'm proud to be Gay if I die I die a proud Gay man and there is nothing you or any other homophobics can do about it, also you should check on your fellowing pastors because the last time I check they touch little children, GAY PRIDE 4 LIFE!
@JediDrallig2 Sin is always a choice. The rapist choose to rape, the thief choose to steal. We all were born sinners because of Adam and Eve's choice to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. All sin will send you to hell. The liar going to the same place the gay man going. Here is another choice, You can decide right now to believe on Jesus or not. I am a minister of His Word. Jesus came to Earth to die for you. he paid the price for all YOUR sins. Jesus will forgive and save you. he will change U
@JediDrallig2 Sin is always a choice. The rapist choose to rape, the thief choose to steal. We all were born sinners because of Adam and Eve's choice to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. All sin will send you to hell. The liar going to the same place the gay man going. Here is another choice, You can decide right now to believe on Jesus or not. I am a minister of His Word. Jesus came to Earth to die for you. he paid the price for all YOUR sins. Jesus will forgive and save you.
@tall32guy It went great, thanks for asking. My mum was cool with it (but i sometimes doubt she is, maybe i'm just being paranoid). My dick of a dad threatened to kick me out and got nasty but my mum gave him the ultimatum of kicking me out means everyone leaves him, so he shut up! All my mums side know and are cool with it (including my very homophobic Grandad. In fact, come to think of it, everyone important to me knows, i honestly dont care who else knows now. Best thing i've ever done!!!
@Minyafan4518 so we get that you are straight because your family encouraged it? you lay with wimen because your father layed with a women? please! would you lay with a man if you father did it? what makes you straight?... or... were you "made" straight? better yet: how straight are you? just think about it please! by the way, being gay does not "go against" anything; wich is not the case with weak-minded people: allways figthing their fears outside and cowardly calling it God's will
you made me cry! for the hurt i still feel inside and for the gratefull that I am today. I am a 33yo gay man from Portugal, (south catholic europe) i was the nerd, fat, and "different" boy so bullying was everyday! Didn't felt i could talk to my family so, i suffererd in silence, got a stomach ulcer... Later, when i understood that I was ok, I started to love and respect myself and guess what: the stomach healed, and people arrond me today love me and respect me. this is my new everyday!
@Minyafan4518 You are born gay or straight you cant be encouraged to be either...I was raised in a Catholic home by conservative parents and I am Gay...As far as I can tell my kids are straight there are signs that make me believe that they are going to be straight...that being said I will love them no matter who they spend their lifes with as long as they are happy and are good people. You still havent told me why you think it isnt healthy?
@Minyafan4518 I feel sorry for people like you who are so easy to hate...We are all Gods children and we are all made in his image...I suggest you put some work on your personal journey instead of feeling sorry for my children...they are loved and happy.
@Minyafan4518 While they live a happy live in "oh so sunny" California, you live your strict Catholic life... believing every little thing you hear that has anything to do with God. This isn't the 1600s. Welcome to the 21st century.
my gosh u people don't know better than god shut up and it is not your job to decided whats right from wrong and in the bible it says to love your brothers and sisters NOT TO HATE THEM !!!!!!
For those who think wrongly of those who sin, for those who r gay do wat u want but think about ur sins. for jesus said let those without sin cast the first stones.
@Th3light777 God is the only one who is allowed to judge my family and determine what sin is...I have no doubt that he smiles on my family...So don't feel sorry for my kids feel sorry for yourself for pretending to know better then God.
@depfox I don't know better then GOD, and the bible clearly states its a sin to have a homosexuality lifestyle. I'm not judging I'm just trying to help Gods children who have been deceived. Romans 1:26-27: "For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly,
@depfox And just in-case you couldn't understand KJV heres a better translation Romans 1:26-27
New International Version (NIV) 26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. 27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.
@Th3light777 says the guy whos going to raise their kids to be hateful dirtbags and who if your kids have any common they will turn their back on you in heart beat. you pretend like you have any morallity when infact you are nothing more then a heartless monster so good luck with that and i really feel sorry for any kids you have or may have because it must suck to have a monster as a parent.
@easybeautylove ... do us all a favor and remember to turn on the side of your brain that actually works properly before you decide to comment on a video, especially a video that has a lot of meaning & is intended for positive-thoughts & encouragement. In case you haven't noticed, this man has a head on his shoulders & is more genuine & caring than a huge percentage of the population. He can take care of himself & his daughter just fine.
I liked this video, but I wish you didn't keep making references to how a lot of people believe in God, the Devil, or went to church. To me, it sorta just makes the kids who are atheists (like me) feel even more alone.
@easybeautylove I don't know what you're saying. I think their little girl is very lucky to have two dads who love her so much and understand the importance of acceptance.
@easybeautylove The awkward early teen years apply equally to boys and girls. It's the time when you start to notice the other sex (or the same sex, if that's who you are), and you'll start showering more, wanting to look nice, be popular, all that stuff. With that out of the way, I am sure Selena and Daniel will be fine. They have very intelligent, loving parents who will prepare them well for this world, and with that confidence they will be above letting the ignorance of others get to them.
that was sooooooooooo touching... usually boys dont say that but i just did and i am a boy.....im not gay but that was very insperational. it was a blessing that you made that video and i hope more people see this...thank u
Born and raised in a Christian family, I fought against my sexuality. Born and raised in a small redneck town, I listened to the "Kill the Fag's" preach. But, recently I accepted myself for who I am. I came out. I received the '"Fag Slam". I was told that i was going to hell, I was told that I didn't deserve the life that God had given me. I was physically abused. I haven't spoken to my father since. I'm fifteen now. I regret nothing, I am the happiest that I have ever been. It Gets Better.
The more you try to convince people it is "NORMAL" to by gay. You can not change reality. Being gay leads to perverted behavior. Be a monk, OK. Ever think of that?
@rlm1942 u can live a gay life. even tho you mite lose some friends, or family in the way. its better to be tru to ur self than not. i kno a lesbian couple and one of them lost all her christian family and friends just to be with her wife. she chose her own happiness over them.
The worst thing when I was a teen was that when I left school for the day, the biggest bully of all, my father, waited for me at home. I used to tell myself back then, if i could get through today, i could get through anything, and I think that saved me. But all that has changed, and now I get to pick and choose all the wonderful people I surround myself with. People who love me because I'm me.
I know there are so many children out there in need of homes. I don't mean to discriminate against any of those children, but what I've always wanted to do is foster gay teens. My husband and I are straight, but we have so many gay friends and really want to help those unfortunate gay teens who have noplace else to go. My brother says we shouldn't do it, because we're not gay and wouldn't understand them. What do you think?
Bless you! Would you mind joining legacy connect? I started a page, since we had none. ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!! I would be delighted to have you as a part of our family.Great letter. Maybe you can upload it to the site. Hugs from Manhattan
I didn't know what gay meant until I turned 10. I didn't believe it until I hit the 8th grade and I admired a a close friend in my class. My family and friends don't know I'm gay. Only one person, but that's it. So right now I'm living a lie!
Well I am gay an I am 13 an I hope it will get better for me I wanted to kill my self for a long time but the five people won't let me but it makes me happy that they won't because it makes me fell loved
@jcm500155 I am 13 and gay too. Please don't kill youself!!!!!!!!!!! Bieng gay is such a small part of you. It can be hard at times, but those times are changing for the better! Who knows how great your life will end up!
Amico Mio, I thank G-D for those five people you mention! A boy I once loved long ago (Bobby Griffith/Prayers for Bobby) took his own life, and believe my dear friend you would be much missed! The World needs you, amico mio! Hang in there!
Your video is an inspiration to lots of gay teens everywhere. I wish I could have heard your message when I was a young man. Thank You for your kindness!
Your letter is beautiful. There are many lovable and beautiful people out there who need to hear this. Thank you for sharing this and for your love and dedication. I am with you. I just happened across this by accident and am glad I did. God Bless you and others like you. I am a 45 years old and wish there was something like this for me while I was a troubled teen. You are not alone!!
I'm terrified to tell my parents I'm a lesbian. My Mom will accept it, but my Dad won't. And I live with him.
I was bullied at school, and it was horrible, I'm currently home schooled because of it. The kids relentlessly made fun of me, it was horrible.
I currently have a beautiful girlfriend who I've been with for over a year, all my friends know, and accept me for it. I just can't wait until I'm older, I'm going to move to Canada!
I'm gay, and I came out at 16. At first my family didn't understand and said that it was something that I was going through and would come out of it, well they were vvery wronng because I'm still gay and I've had sex with a number of guys. They are ok with me now, but they still think its a life style choice. Well its not a choice, it who I am, and I'm happy!! I just hope one day I will settle down with someone long term!!
i'm gay and i dont realy care what others think, even if they are famely, luckely when i came out both my parents loved me even more. I think when you know your gay, the best thing to do is love yourself first. When people see your happy and feeling good about yourself than they just adjust. If they dont, wel its simple, these people do not have a place in your life. I'm 44 now, i'm grounded, and i love who i am. Its realy all up to you in the end. Things workout for the better.
@jeangunst1966 "When people see your happy and feeling good about yourself than they just adjust. If they dont, wel its simple, these people do not have a place in your life."
I completely second that! One has to be natural about oneself, and that definitely makes things easier. Others also react differently when they see your self-confidence and comfort level.
Ugh, your sadly right about everything. I hateliving in my redneck town. I'm a ''popular'' kid so if I were to come out all my fake friends would dump me on spot. The worst is listening to my family talk about how to exterminate "fags". Fuck my life.
@meh93doit Ive been there and sometimes we cant even imagine what life has in store for you in the next ten years......I guarantee when you are 10 years down the road you wont even care about the redneck town you are stuck in.
@depfox I hope your right. Cause looking at myself in this current position, hiding in my locked room typing on this video looking for hope (even if it turns out to be false) using a fake YouTube name to be secretive and web searching on untracable software to ensure anonimity. Life hasn't been easy.
@meh93doit You cannot possibly imagine just how much fun you are about to have. Stay focussed on your future - plan your life carefully and in a few years' time all of this will be a distant memory. You have already done the hard bit - admitting to yourself. Nothing you do from now on will be as difficult as that. Trust me - you have already done the difficult bit - the rest will be a breeze...
Oh My God. I just cried watching this. I am in high school and I am having such a hard time. My family is Jamaican, and I am really tired of hiding and being fake. I am the President of my Key Club, and I am pushing other queer youth around me to stand up for their rights. Not because we are different people means that we must never make a change in our communities. I hate my past, but I use it to help others.
Absolutely moving and frightening and reassuring all at the same time - You look sad and happy - at peace all at the same time. Some day this will not be such a big deal.
I lay here in bed alone in the dark and wonder if I'll ever find someone to wrap their arm around me in times like these. I look up with tears and the moon shows me how small I am to the world. After watching this and sobbing for a while I now look up and wonder if whomever I shall share my life with might also be looking up. If it be me who shall walk this life alone than so be it. Life is too precious to revert to those moments with a knife in my hand. Thank you for how much you've changed me.
@KaloAngelTV there are so many other people in the world that are going to actually love you back (and those guys will most likely be way cuter than the straight crush :P )
what helped for me was to think of these crushes more objectively. appreciate him for what he is. respect that he's straight, and even though you feel attraction, just think... beyond that initial attraction, what do you really have in common? it's so much more fulfilling to find someone who can return that love
Excellent! It's been 30+ years since I went through this but you hit so many nails right smack on the head! Thank you for this. You may have saved a life, or many.
you are my hero :)
irceco 2 weeks ago
This brought tears to my eyes because even though I've been out for years now I still remember the exact feelings and memories you expressed in your letter. Beautiful.
sagemaduin 1 month ago
One of my friends is a leasbean and in school people make her feel bad and put her down shes always sad I don't know what to say.
SARGENT309 1 month ago
okay hold this fucking shit up ..... is he a cristian o hell no i belive in nothing okay love you bye jk noo i love this vid im gay and im 13 . thank you
michaelmichael9201 1 month ago
One of the best vids ever. Thanks for sharing.
MikeBlevinsAZ 1 month ago
Thank you so much! It means a lot. I am so damn proud to be gay! So proud! But my family is so religious and I tried coming out but I'm just back in the closet! I'm going to turn 16 at the end of January and hopefully before I turn 16 I can have the acceptance of my mom and sister!
carl8218 1 month ago
Thank you so much.
Hydrolico45 2 months ago
Thankyou so much, things have just been building up lately, all the hate, every time fag or queer is used as an insult, my smile shines a bit brighter, but my faith in humanity creeps a bit lower. Thankyou for renewing that faith, and making that smile constantly plastered across my face a little more genuine. Honestly, at this moment I consider you a Godsend. The irony ;)
WrongWayRightSpeed 2 months ago
I've accepted it myself, I've told countless people.... but for some reason I feel the realization is hitting me again... I don't want this... I thought I had come to terms with it... apparently not...
MuzicMan118 2 months ago
"And wonder if they know, or if they are just getting lucky."
MuzicMan118 2 months ago
good speech, most of it rlated to me...
cm711422 2 months ago
I came out of the closet a while ago, can't remember exactly when. Things have been going better than expected. The idiots at school of course taunt me, but that's no shock. More importantly, I've found out who my true friends are. I've found out that my family isn't as open as I thought, but they're not homophobes really; they just never thought it'd be me and chose to ignore it. My friends stayed, even that one I thought was homophobic. It's not dangerous. You'll make it too.
WinningSidekick 3 months ago
Beautiful video! I just don't know how people can be cruel to others.
I think it's awesome every time I hear someone survive all that garbage with their spirit intact enough to give a little of their strength to help others.
And me...? I'm straight. I still went through the harassment of being called gay because I didn't exactly fit in with those freaks.
I don't care if anyone is gay: JUST LOVE OTHERS.
SmashtheCmachine 3 months ago 3
I've been bisexual for 90% of the life that I can remember. Women always just seemed SO much more attractive to me then men. Now, tbh, I consider myself a lesbian who happened to fall in love with a man...I don't think gender matters. Love is love. I didn't fall in love with a penis, I fell in love with a person.
Opheliac666 3 months ago
This is one of the most beautiful things I have seen online.Thank you. Wow!
globewriter 3 months ago
4:28. I can relate to that, only wondering if I could ever be *straight*, and being jealous and covetous of straight people because *they* were the "norm" and because of that, were able to hold hands and kiss and show affection in public, when any other kind of sexuality, cannot.
tall32guy 4 months ago
Yes I know I've said it before, but you are very cute and handsome! You remind me of Jeremy Piven! Has anyone told you that before? lol
tall32guy 4 months ago
I didn't expect this video to move me. Lol. It Definetely did though. I can relate
gaaralove37 4 months ago
F'n awesome video Bryan - best part is you stopping to attend to your kids.
jrojas911 4 months ago
Thank you guys for making this video, your family is awesome :^)
ohio1082 4 months ago
u just read story of my life
hiddenmindboy 4 months ago
Thank you for this.
I really like you guys.
JasonJackFlash 4 months ago
you just read a dialogue about my life.
mitbowdoin0714 4 months ago
Dear DepFox, I don't think I've ever heard anyone express themselves in such a humble and loving way. It's like you were explaining my truth in this life in a much better way than I ever could. I did commit suicide at around 19 years old. And I found myself in eternity with God and it was so beautiful that I did not want to come back, but He told me I had to come back-it was not my time to go yet. I am now 55 and see that I would have missed my greatest blessings in life if I had not come back!
rhilliard1956 4 months ago
@rhilliard1956 And by the way, what I said about how beautiful it was with God it does NOT in any way meant to encourage anyone to do the same! I didn't see anything with my eyes. My physical sight was blinded-it was His Presence that was so wonderful and anyone can enjoy that right here on this earth! Christ died once for ALL-and that includes You and me! Simply open your heart to Him and really LIVE!
rhilliard1956 4 months ago
thank you so much for posting this video its given me more courage to go and come out to my dad...hopefully will do it this weekend
timm3hisgay 4 months ago
@timm3hisgay let us know how it goes...fingers crossed
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gardenofgodspell 4 months ago
How could there possibly be SO much hate, for someone who is gay? His parents say he is STILL getting bullied AFTER HIS DEATH! Those kids are the deff. of SOCIOPATHS. Honestly, im 23 now, but if I saw kids picking on a young kid like Jamey, I would abs. have NO problem smacking them down and taking a ride in the back of the cop car. Kids that young need to know, that after high school, its a WHOLE NOTHER WORLD OUT THERE. You are NOT judged, and bullies are NOT accepted in the REAL WORLD. #itgets
1213rissa 4 months ago 2
i am really getting tired of seeing and hearing people say that it is against gods way of life to be gay. i am a christian as well and do not see anything wrong with what they are doing. i have had many gay friends and found that they are more compassionate and understanding than straight people. to the gay people god bless you and keep fighting for your rights. you deserve to be loved, respected, and treated with equalness like anyone else!!
diva4211 4 months ago 2
Im coming out a week from tuesday, national coming out day, im nervous but i gotta get through this for all the poor victims that have taken their lives
iceeblueboy 4 months ago 2
I just wanted to thank you for helping me. it's still hard for me to be gay. I come out about 2 yrs go. I dont have have anyone or any place to go to ask question about being a gay. I saw your video and it help know there people out there who are going thought the same things that i am going thought
janecool69 4 months ago
Oh my God! I think that is quite possibly the best speech Ive ever seen on youtube! You just told the story of my high school years. Im 33 now but I still remember the pain very vividly! Any kid or anyone for that fact that is feeling this I promise you there is a light at the end of this tunnel of darkness! Thank you for posting this and bless you, your husband and most importantly your 2 children! PEACE
diorryan 4 months ago
I was 12, and the older brother of one of my friends said it was a sin and anyone who is gay deserves to go to hell and if he ever met a gay he'd help send them there.
I'm now 17, and I can't say it aloud, even to myself. This is one of the first times I've ever written it.
I'm not bullied. I fall under the radar. But I can't say out loud that I'm gay. Atleast bi, but probably a lesbian. It was even difficult for me to write that, but it's like ripping a bandaid. Hopefully it gets easier.
SashaKatan 4 months ago
@SashaKatan The most important person to come out to is yourself....Once you can look in the mirror and know you are as God made you and you are loved then you will be ok with being gay...Hugs
depfox 4 months ago
@SashaKatan Stay strong! I was in your shoes in many ways. I PROMISE it is soooooo much better as time goes on. This is why we call each other FAMILY, because there is a bond among us and we know how each other has struggled and it feels so good to have a great group of gay friends and FAMILY to hang out with. Please feel free to contact me if you need any advice. God Bless You!
ckntx 3 months ago
@SashaKatan Hang in there Sasha. Just remember it's all about who you surround yourself. Surround yourself with love, not hate. Also stay away from your friends older brother.
nanders2834 1 month ago
A/ You don’t need to blonde haired and blue eyed, first thing I noticed was how handsome you are.
enquvist 4 months ago 2
B/ I did the letter writing, overdose planning in 1997 when I was 21, but then I chose to take a risk and come out. I find it so incredibly upsetting that 14 years later, people (not even adults, but early teens, pretty much CHILDREN) are going through this, and they’re actually going through with it and taking their own lives. Is the age of young gay suicides getting younger and younger or has it always been like this?
enquvist 4 months ago 2
C/ This letter was absolutely beautiful and I related to so much of it. I’m 36 now and had a long journey to find true happiness, and true love, and to get to a point where I could look at my life and say “it’s so good to be here and I’m so glad I chose life when I was 21 and get to experience this”.
D/ I think the idea behind your youtube page is amazing, and I thankyou for being such a positive voice and such an amazing inspiration to young gays fighting to find their way today.
enquvist 4 months ago
This is so true and such an inspirational letter from the heart. I was one of those kids in your letter when I was in school and was Suicidal. If anyone would have told me how blessed I would be later in life I would have said “ you must have the wrong person”. I’m so Thankful I did not take my life in High School cause I sure would have missed out on Family, Awesome People and Beautiful places this world has to offer... I’m now 41 and Loving life!
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MarathonVeteran 4 months ago
This is truly beautiful and inspiring. I shared it on my facebook page. I'm not gay or lesbian but I know how much being different can hurt. I'm a mother of a 21 month old who has a neurogenetic syndrome. People often look at me like I am a bad parent because my child does not walk or talk. And if he turns out gay on top of all the obstacles he has ahead, I will always welcome him with open arms and with pride in my heart. Thank you for posting this!
weeblegrrl 4 months ago 5
we are all beautiful. we are all unique and we are all born this way. lets put an end to intollerance, to bullying, to teen suicide. bullying is a hate crime. paws up, monsters. we were born this way.
77laceyphillips 5 months ago 2
who are the perpetrators of Rodemeyer ? let's skin em alive, time to make the hunter the hunted.
roylikesitlikethat 5 months ago
this is so heart tearing ... i wish i had this 10 years ago thanks so much for this.
its just great that we all share something our coming out. thanks!
bartt3002 5 months ago
Thank you Bryan, thanks, thanks, thanks, and thanks!
xb0y2008 5 months ago
omg, I love your letter, I could not have said it better!!!
billteix 5 months ago
Great vid. :) And is that a Welsh dragon on your shirt? If so, you're even more awesome than I thaught.
24hoursayear 5 months ago in playlist It Gets Better
this saved me and gave me hope, thank you.
lburdettx 5 months ago in playlist It Gets Better 2
im not even gay or i guess lesbian since i am a girl. but this still made my cry :'(
pencil977 5 months ago in playlist It Gets Better
Great video.
splicegrrl 5 months ago in playlist It Gets Better
This video saved my life
Tacoflavoredkiss1 5 months ago in playlist It Gets Better 2
You hit the point exactly. A lot of those things i could agree with. Thank you so much for writing that. The fact that someone could say that and hit every nail right on the head, it shows that i'm not alone. It really means a lot
Equistta 5 months ago
Bryan i loved your letter it seemed to show just what I am going through thank you
TheNightmares21 5 months ago
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Bryan! I loved your letter, it's awesome to know that you are given so much support to us, I'm now openly gay and I'm so happy since the moment I came out, know we only must continue fighting against homophobia and continue helping other teens that are daily fighting with themselves, I send you a friendly hug and to your childs and husband here from mexico, thanks!
Mrecolo21 5 months ago
Bryan, every time I watch this I am so inspired. Thank you for this video. I've shared it with a friend who is just starting to come out and with someone who doesn't understand what it's like to be gay. I hope it does for them what it does for me. You are such a wonderful person :)
tiffyduck 6 months ago
I got all choked up just by hearing you read off the names of those teens. As you went on and talked about church, your parents, and waiting for it to be your turn, I just about lost it.
I started writing a similar letter/ story a few days ago and stopped 'cause I wasn't sure I wanted to finish it, or why I was writing it in the first place. Know I do.
Thank you so much for the strength to share. It has helped give me some at the age of 37.
Best to you and your family.
Bryday's coming up soon!
MrBates1 6 months ago
LOL This Beard SUITS U! Because U r WhITE! White Skin + Beard=Handomse! while if a Dark skinned person have beard it turns him even Darker and takes all light from ones face
xOxKurdParstxOx 6 months ago
Bryan Wow I don;t think viewers understand how much work went into this powerful vid. A big thank you - You are so in touch with life, what you want and how to go about making and keeping yourself happy along with those people you love around you. Watching your face looking at the kids - could you be any happier. You are really one lucky guy - leading by example -taking the time to examine & share your deepest feelings sincerely for all of us. Your hard work is better than Oprah & Dr Phil
b4804514 6 months ago
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it never gets better it's all in how you set ur mind to deal with it.. quit lying to these up & coming gay off spring that we have to recrute into the cultist gay circle....
kudos2ya37 6 months ago
@kudos2ya37 WOW it must be really hard to be yourself...Life is about how you live it and the way you see it...I belive that we are the biggest obstival to our own happiness.
depfox 6 months ago 9
@kudos2ya37 it does get better and it will. It's never a lie because it does. Thousands of people telling you that it gets better aren't lying and it does get better.
timtheloner 5 months ago
Thank you for your beautifull letter...I even cryed...
Pfrog31 6 months ago
thanx a lot for these words that really make me cry . i hope can come to Canada as i told U and your husband. it's really seem to be a dream that i can come out and say I'm gay and find someone love me and kiss me my first kiss.
thank you guys because some days only the two of you can help me pass the day
thanx again for your support letters that your husband sent to me ♥
ahmedspiky 6 months ago
Hey, i just wanted to say good job on the video.To all those scared give the song make it stop by rise against a listen....if they support you think about how many other people do please please please don't hurt yourself because of it its what the bullies want.it saddens me deeply to know KIDS are killing themselves for how they chose to live their lives not that it matters but i am straight but I'm here for you 1000% be strong IT GET"S BETTER!!!! R.I.P. September's children<3 this has to stop!
CaliFlyz 7 months ago
Such a great letter made by Bryan; it provokes my inner feeling and brings out my emphathy. I just wish I can find someone like you. Someday... Yea, Someday...
ServerMale 7 months ago
i love you Bryan!!!! God bless your family!!
chinoluvshisRX8 7 months ago
It's 9.59AM in Liverpool, UK. When i finish typing this comment i'm going to come out of my bedroom, go downstairs and tell my parents that i'm gay!
Thank you so much for this video!
tomcatsclone 7 months ago 42
@tomcatsclone WOW please let me know how it goes...keeping my fingers crossed that it will be not a big deal for them.
depfox 7 months ago 19
@depfox I told them! My mum told me she's fine with it but there is something in me that's not 100% sure she is but that could just be me beong paranoid. My dad threatened to kick me out, said some pretty personal nasty things to me but i'm not bothered what he thinks, i don't even speak to him anyway. I decided once i'd told them and my brothers and sisters i'd tell all my mothers side of the family and i'm so shocked that every one of them is cool with it!!
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tomcatsclone 7 months ago
@depfox Thank you so much Bryan, if it wasn't for this video i honestly wouldn't of came out anytime soon. I just hope you know that you have irrevocably changed my views, and, therefore my life. I just wish i could thank you in person, but the Atlantic Ocean is in the way :).
tomcatsclone 7 months ago
@tomcatsclone I am a bible believing Christian. Alll I want to say in a very loving way, being gay is a choice and that choice will send you to hell when you die. We can debate this all day the truth never changes, You dont have to be gay. Jesus died for you and rose again to save you because He loves you. Thats right, Jesus loves gays. He died for you. The point is He died so you can be free from being a slave to sin (homosexuality). Confess and repent. He will forgive you and change you.
nelson4truth 4 months ago
@nelson4truth You have know idea what you are talking about...I want to say this in a very loving way...You are not God and you are not Gay so there is no way that you can understand either or why things are the way they are...If you are a person of faith you should know not to judge your nighbor. as a gay christian I am very comfortable with my family and life and 100% Know that my relationship with GOD is good...Work on your relationship with him and leave others alone.
depfox 4 months ago 10
@nelson4truth Please don't preach where it's not wanted. Preach to those who follow your beliefs. Don't impose them on others who don't.
SashaKatan 4 months ago 2
@nelson4truth I'n not a bible believing Christian so do me a favour and throw your religion down someone else's throat because i really couldn't care less on what you think you know. I'f i'm going to "hell" for being honest and being who i am then i'd much rather go there with other people like myself than go to heaven if it's full of people like you who think it's right to judge people on something beyond their control. How would you know if being gay was a choice of not, grow up, idiot!
tomcatsclone 4 months ago 5
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Ok your whole comments was all good until you stop at "very loving way" The rest of the sentance you couldn't be more wrong, Being Gay isn't a choice child you were BORN THAT WAY!, Slave of a sin huh? If that is the case then what do you call mass murders? or rapist? or child molesters? With those being the a few of the worst SINS you can ever make. Also the Bible has been rewritten because the original bible was so old that nobody could read what it truely said.
JediDrallig2 4 months ago
@JediDrallig2 Sin is always a choice. The rapist choose to rape, the thief choose to steal. We all were born sinners because of Adam and Eve's choice to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. All sin will send you to hell. The liar going to the same place the gay man going. Here is another choice, You can decide right now to believe on Jesus or not. I am a minister of His Word. Jesus came to Earth to die for you. he paid the price for all YOUR sins. Jesus will forgive and save you. he will change U.
nelson4truth 4 months ago
@nelson4truth Ok I'm a gay man who believes in god and to be honest your not making sense at all you said Jesus LOVES gays yet you said that being gay is a sin? Ok let's put on our thinking cap. Everyone is not perfect nobody is so what that being said you have committed a sin so what do you call that? If you really what you say you are you would know that You can be gay and still go to heaven, your saying the complete opposite, like I said being gay isn't a choice you were born that way
JediDrallig2 4 months ago
@JediDrallig2 Do you actually believe the Bible? Really. Because if you did you would know that Jesus died to save you. If sin was ok, He would not have died and rose again for you. You will not get into Heaven being gay. You must repent and believe the Word. The unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Be not deceived. Confess and ask God to forgive you. He will change you. First you must agree with Him. You are a sinner. Repent sir or else you will lose your soul.
nelson4truth 4 months ago
@JediDrallig2 I could give you verse after verse but I don think you will accept it. So my final words to you is this. You are walking your way to Hell. Jesus died for you and rose from the grave. Believing in God and obeying Him are two seperate things. If you really want to know, I will help you. If you just gonna argue and try to prove you right when your wrong, I have nothing else to say. I pray that you would come to the knowlege of the truth before its too late. Please choose right.
nelson4truth 4 months ago
@nelson4truth
Ok first of all your giving me bullshit after bullshit not verse after verse bro, second of all your not God or the Lord so therefor you have no say in where Gay people go, To be honest your not proving no point or whatsoever, I'm Gay and I'm proud to be Gay if I die I die a proud Gay man and there is nothing you or any other homophobics can do about it, also you should check on your fellowing pastors because the last time I check they touch little children, GAY PRIDE 4 LIFE!
JediDrallig2 4 months ago
@JediDrallig2 your call
nelson4truth 4 months ago
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My pride and my life is most defenetly my call GayPride4Life
JediDrallig2 4 months ago
@nelson4truth You don't understand because you're not me, and that's ok, I think.
Dj4fan 3 months ago
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@JediDrallig2 Sin is always a choice. The rapist choose to rape, the thief choose to steal. We all were born sinners because of Adam and Eve's choice to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. All sin will send you to hell. The liar going to the same place the gay man going. Here is another choice, You can decide right now to believe on Jesus or not. I am a minister of His Word. Jesus came to Earth to die for you. he paid the price for all YOUR sins. Jesus will forgive and save you. he will change U
nelson4truth 4 months ago
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@JediDrallig2 Sin is always a choice. The rapist choose to rape, the thief choose to steal. We all were born sinners because of Adam and Eve's choice to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. All sin will send you to hell. The liar going to the same place the gay man going. Here is another choice, You can decide right now to believe on Jesus or not. I am a minister of His Word. Jesus came to Earth to die for you. he paid the price for all YOUR sins. Jesus will forgive and save you.
nelson4truth 4 months ago
@tomcatsclone It is now 3 months later. Can you give us an update, and tell us how it went?
tall32guy 4 months ago
@tall32guy It went great, thanks for asking. My mum was cool with it (but i sometimes doubt she is, maybe i'm just being paranoid). My dick of a dad threatened to kick me out and got nasty but my mum gave him the ultimatum of kicking me out means everyone leaves him, so he shut up! All my mums side know and are cool with it (including my very homophobic Grandad. In fact, come to think of it, everyone important to me knows, i honestly dont care who else knows now. Best thing i've ever done!!!
tomcatsclone 4 months ago
All I have to say is thank you! So many Lgbt struggling with this!
kristalfan4life 7 months ago
@Minyafan4518 so we get that you are straight because your family encouraged it? you lay with wimen because your father layed with a women? please! would you lay with a man if you father did it? what makes you straight?... or... were you "made" straight? better yet: how straight are you? just think about it please! by the way, being gay does not "go against" anything; wich is not the case with weak-minded people: allways figthing their fears outside and cowardly calling it God's will
yuyhyh 7 months ago
you made me cry! for the hurt i still feel inside and for the gratefull that I am today. I am a 33yo gay man from Portugal, (south catholic europe) i was the nerd, fat, and "different" boy so bullying was everyday! Didn't felt i could talk to my family so, i suffererd in silence, got a stomach ulcer... Later, when i understood that I was ok, I started to love and respect myself and guess what: the stomach healed, and people arrond me today love me and respect me. this is my new everyday!
yuyhyh 7 months ago
ugh, i don't even bother looking for anyone, love is for people with value
alinkyng 7 months ago
1. I listen yo this everynight before bed
2. Go loves everyone unconditionally
3. Gay hate is so 2010. Wake up, its 2011.
4. Jesus loves me, this i know, for the bible tells me so. You cant tell me he doesnt.
Forealways 7 months ago
Me, being a gay nerd, is now officially desperate to have a future husband like Bryan. ME WANT NAO! :(
nz1297 7 months ago
aw! You definitely have a heart of gold! Thanks for sharing! Hopefully some day I could find a man just like you! :)
Marvinglz 7 months ago
@Minyafan4518 You are born gay or straight you cant be encouraged to be either...I was raised in a Catholic home by conservative parents and I am Gay...As far as I can tell my kids are straight there are signs that make me believe that they are going to be straight...that being said I will love them no matter who they spend their lifes with as long as they are happy and are good people. You still havent told me why you think it isnt healthy?
depfox 7 months ago
@Minyafan4518 Ok well thats a start...Why is it not healthy?
depfox 7 months ago
@Minyafan4518 I feel sorry for people like you who are so easy to hate...We are all Gods children and we are all made in his image...I suggest you put some work on your personal journey instead of feeling sorry for my children...they are loved and happy.
depfox 7 months ago
@Minyafan4518 While they live a happy live in "oh so sunny" California, you live your strict Catholic life... believing every little thing you hear that has anything to do with God. This isn't the 1600s. Welcome to the 21st century.
nz1297 7 months ago
This is probably irrelevant to the entire purpose of the video, by Bryan is SO hot.
nz1297 7 months ago
my gosh u people don't know better than god shut up and it is not your job to decided whats right from wrong and in the bible it says to love your brothers and sisters NOT TO HATE THEM !!!!!!
gleelover4444 8 months ago
Thank you so much for uploading this, its helped me so much :D I bet your family is so happy to have you :) Im showing up :D
AILURVEUALL 8 months ago
From a heterosexual... This was absolutely beautiful and moving. Thanks man. Keep being the wonderful person you are..
k0vert 8 months ago
For those who think wrongly of those who sin, for those who r gay do wat u want but think about ur sins. for jesus said let those without sin cast the first stones.
guyliston 8 months ago
<3 i love this, So touching.
nekokira52 8 months ago
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Feel sorry for those kids :( literally raised in sin.
Th3light777 8 months ago
@Th3light777 God is the only one who is allowed to judge my family and determine what sin is...I have no doubt that he smiles on my family...So don't feel sorry for my kids feel sorry for yourself for pretending to know better then God.
depfox 8 months ago 42
@depfox I don't know better then GOD, and the bible clearly states its a sin to have a homosexuality lifestyle. I'm not judging I'm just trying to help Gods children who have been deceived. Romans 1:26-27: "For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly,
Th3light777 8 months ago
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@depfox And just in-case you couldn't understand KJV heres a better translation Romans 1:26-27
New International Version (NIV) 26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. 27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.
Th3light777 8 months ago
@Th3light777 says the guy whos going to raise their kids to be hateful dirtbags and who if your kids have any common they will turn their back on you in heart beat. you pretend like you have any morallity when infact you are nothing more then a heartless monster so good luck with that and i really feel sorry for any kids you have or may have because it must suck to have a monster as a parent.
qa897 8 months ago
@qa897 I will teach my kids to love and respect everyone, but I'm also going to teach them right from wrong. Homosexuality clearly wrong.
Th3light777 8 months ago
@easybeautylove ... do us all a favor and remember to turn on the side of your brain that actually works properly before you decide to comment on a video, especially a video that has a lot of meaning & is intended for positive-thoughts & encouragement. In case you haven't noticed, this man has a head on his shoulders & is more genuine & caring than a huge percentage of the population. He can take care of himself & his daughter just fine.
imjere 8 months ago
I liked this video, but I wish you didn't keep making references to how a lot of people believe in God, the Devil, or went to church. To me, it sorta just makes the kids who are atheists (like me) feel even more alone.
Emmercedes 9 months ago
@easybeautylove I don't know what you're saying. I think their little girl is very lucky to have two dads who love her so much and understand the importance of acceptance.
tiffyduck 9 months ago
@easybeautylove The awkward early teen years apply equally to boys and girls. It's the time when you start to notice the other sex (or the same sex, if that's who you are), and you'll start showering more, wanting to look nice, be popular, all that stuff. With that out of the way, I am sure Selena and Daniel will be fine. They have very intelligent, loving parents who will prepare them well for this world, and with that confidence they will be above letting the ignorance of others get to them.
pulseforce 9 months ago 5
@easybeautylove Why would you feel sorry for my daughter she is loved and happy...Maybe there is something about your life that isnt so happy???
depfox 9 months ago 7
that was sooooooooooo touching... usually boys dont say that but i just did and i am a boy.....im not gay but that was very insperational. it was a blessing that you made that video and i hope more people see this...thank u
rickqik 9 months ago 7
@rickqik Thank you for the very kind comment :O)
depfox 9 months ago
Since it wouldn't fit in my previous comment; Thank You, Bryan.
pain1321 9 months ago
Born and raised in a Christian family, I fought against my sexuality. Born and raised in a small redneck town, I listened to the "Kill the Fag's" preach. But, recently I accepted myself for who I am. I came out. I received the '"Fag Slam". I was told that i was going to hell, I was told that I didn't deserve the life that God had given me. I was physically abused. I haven't spoken to my father since. I'm fifteen now. I regret nothing, I am the happiest that I have ever been. It Gets Better.
pain1321 9 months ago
INSPIRATIONAL!
April1987girl 9 months ago
The more you try to convince people it is "NORMAL" to by gay. You can not change reality. Being gay leads to perverted behavior. Be a monk, OK. Ever think of that?
DAVWAVE 9 months ago
:) thank you sooo much, this made me cry bc I feel like this allot... Thanks again you made me feel so much way better :)
CarlitzVlog 9 months ago
thank you for your email taylor it funny Isaid I live in real world but were both from colorado spring:)
rlm1942 9 months ago
thank you so much for this!!!! i needed this. even though i cried all the way through it.
taylorwitch 9 months ago
dude stop your making me sad I cant live gay life ok you dont understand it never going happen I live in real world I am bi christian:(
rlm1942 9 months ago
@rlm1942 u can live a gay life. even tho you mite lose some friends, or family in the way. its better to be tru to ur self than not. i kno a lesbian couple and one of them lost all her christian family and friends just to be with her wife. she chose her own happiness over them.
taylorwitch 9 months ago
my little brother knew one of these people Seth Walsh- 13 years old...Tehachapi, California RIP man to bad people are fuckin ass holes
devynisaninja7 9 months ago
The worst thing when I was a teen was that when I left school for the day, the biggest bully of all, my father, waited for me at home. I used to tell myself back then, if i could get through today, i could get through anything, and I think that saved me. But all that has changed, and now I get to pick and choose all the wonderful people I surround myself with. People who love me because I'm me.
TheRC120 10 months ago
A big fat kiss on both cheeks for Bryan for this love letter. I know that his words will affect many people!
Is this love letter online? I would like to repost this.
buffymitch 10 months ago
I know there are so many children out there in need of homes. I don't mean to discriminate against any of those children, but what I've always wanted to do is foster gay teens. My husband and I are straight, but we have so many gay friends and really want to help those unfortunate gay teens who have noplace else to go. My brother says we shouldn't do it, because we're not gay and wouldn't understand them. What do you think?
ZarabethS179 11 months ago
@ZarabethS179
Ciao Bella!
May G-D bless you my dear, those sentiments alone will place you in my prayers! I'm sorry to say so my
friend, but perhaps it's really your brother who wouldn't understand, you've already revealed a far larger heart!
Grazie Mille Signora Cara! (Thank you So Much Dear Lady)
Il Suo Nuovo Amico
Blaine
blainebill39 10 months ago
Bless you! Would you mind joining legacy connect? I started a page, since we had none. ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!! I would be delighted to have you as a part of our family.Great letter. Maybe you can upload it to the site. Hugs from Manhattan
Jeannenyc57 11 months ago
I didn't know what gay meant until I turned 10. I didn't believe it until I hit the 8th grade and I admired a a close friend in my class. My family and friends don't know I'm gay. Only one person, but that's it. So right now I'm living a lie!
I'm over weight too, but that doesn't matter.
Syvmana 1 year ago
Well I am gay an I am 13 an I hope it will get better for me I wanted to kill my self for a long time but the five people won't let me but it makes me happy that they won't because it makes me fell loved
jcm500155 1 year ago
@jcm500155 I am 13 and gay too. Please don't kill youself!!!!!!!!!!! Bieng gay is such a small part of you. It can be hard at times, but those times are changing for the better! Who knows how great your life will end up!
-Sending his love, "Big Gay" Dan
BigGayDan1 1 year ago
@jcm500155
Ciao Bello!
Amico Mio, I thank G-D for those five people you mention! A boy I once loved long ago (Bobby Griffith/Prayers for Bobby) took his own life, and believe my dear friend you would be much missed! The World needs you, amico mio! Hang in there!
Blaine
blainebill39 10 months ago
Your video is an inspiration to lots of gay teens everywhere. I wish I could have heard your message when I was a young man. Thank You for your kindness!
DennyAlbert 1 year ago
thank you for sharing this...
htarceno 1 year ago
Your letter is beautiful. There are many lovable and beautiful people out there who need to hear this. Thank you for sharing this and for your love and dedication. I am with you. I just happened across this by accident and am glad I did. God Bless you and others like you. I am a 45 years old and wish there was something like this for me while I was a troubled teen. You are not alone!!
new2u4401 1 year ago
I'm terrified to tell my parents I'm a lesbian. My Mom will accept it, but my Dad won't. And I live with him.
I was bullied at school, and it was horrible, I'm currently home schooled because of it. The kids relentlessly made fun of me, it was horrible.
I currently have a beautiful girlfriend who I've been with for over a year, all my friends know, and accept me for it. I just can't wait until I'm older, I'm going to move to Canada!
FreakingLoveEnvy 1 year ago
I'm gay, and I came out at 16. At first my family didn't understand and said that it was something that I was going through and would come out of it, well they were vvery wronng because I'm still gay and I've had sex with a number of guys. They are ok with me now, but they still think its a life style choice. Well its not a choice, it who I am, and I'm happy!! I just hope one day I will settle down with someone long term!!
Carlm2 1 year ago
i'm gay and i dont realy care what others think, even if they are famely, luckely when i came out both my parents loved me even more. I think when you know your gay, the best thing to do is love yourself first. When people see your happy and feeling good about yourself than they just adjust. If they dont, wel its simple, these people do not have a place in your life. I'm 44 now, i'm grounded, and i love who i am. Its realy all up to you in the end. Things workout for the better.
jeangunst1966 1 year ago
@jeangunst1966 "When people see your happy and feeling good about yourself than they just adjust. If they dont, wel its simple, these people do not have a place in your life."
I completely second that! One has to be natural about oneself, and that definitely makes things easier. Others also react differently when they see your self-confidence and comfort level.
anangsen 1 year ago
that was beautiful
gutiera88 1 year ago
Ugh, your sadly right about everything. I hateliving in my redneck town. I'm a ''popular'' kid so if I were to come out all my fake friends would dump me on spot. The worst is listening to my family talk about how to exterminate "fags". Fuck my life.
meh93doit 1 year ago 17
@meh93doit Ive been there and sometimes we cant even imagine what life has in store for you in the next ten years......I guarantee when you are 10 years down the road you wont even care about the redneck town you are stuck in.
depfox 1 year ago
@depfox I hope your right. Cause looking at myself in this current position, hiding in my locked room typing on this video looking for hope (even if it turns out to be false) using a fake YouTube name to be secretive and web searching on untracable software to ensure anonimity. Life hasn't been easy.
meh93doit 1 year ago
@meh93doit well if you ever need friends we are here for you.....Family comes in many shapes and sizes....You just have to reach out to people....
depfox 1 year ago 4
@depfox Yes but in my town you can be surrounded by family and friends and STILL be alone! Sucks right? Hah, guess thats life!
meh93doit 1 year ago
@meh93doit You cannot possibly imagine just how much fun you are about to have. Stay focussed on your future - plan your life carefully and in a few years' time all of this will be a distant memory. You have already done the hard bit - admitting to yourself. Nothing you do from now on will be as difficult as that. Trust me - you have already done the difficult bit - the rest will be a breeze...
100jwk 1 year ago
you leave me so speachless thank you for sharing
SIRC0L0RS 1 year ago 2
@blindchauffeur this is so true. :)
brownlamp1 1 year ago
i cried <3 this was beautiful, i myself am not gay but my mothers are and so are some of my friends.Everyone should be accepted for who they are.
peanutbutterjayme1 1 year ago
Oh My God. I just cried watching this. I am in high school and I am having such a hard time. My family is Jamaican, and I am really tired of hiding and being fake. I am the President of my Key Club, and I am pushing other queer youth around me to stand up for their rights. Not because we are different people means that we must never make a change in our communities. I hate my past, but I use it to help others.
TheQueerPrince 1 year ago
Absolutely moving and frightening and reassuring all at the same time - You look sad and happy - at peace all at the same time. Some day this will not be such a big deal.
Best Wishes to You.S
saharita4 1 year ago
I lay here in bed alone in the dark and wonder if I'll ever find someone to wrap their arm around me in times like these. I look up with tears and the moon shows me how small I am to the world. After watching this and sobbing for a while I now look up and wonder if whomever I shall share my life with might also be looking up. If it be me who shall walk this life alone than so be it. Life is too precious to revert to those moments with a knife in my hand. Thank you for how much you've changed me.
MrBrianGarcia 1 year ago
I am looking forward to holding benefit spaghetti dinners for sick children and I am gay! This will help families pay for medical bills!
padude64 1 year ago
im inlove whit a straight guy...that sucks. What should i do? im 13 btw :)
KaloAngelTV 1 year ago
@KaloAngelTV It's not worth the heartache. Believe me I've been there.
TheGleekNation 1 year ago
@KaloAngelTV there are so many other people in the world that are going to actually love you back (and those guys will most likely be way cuter than the straight crush :P )
what helped for me was to think of these crushes more objectively. appreciate him for what he is. respect that he's straight, and even though you feel attraction, just think... beyond that initial attraction, what do you really have in common? it's so much more fulfilling to find someone who can return that love
blindchauffeur 1 year ago
Excellent! It's been 30+ years since I went through this but you hit so many nails right smack on the head! Thank you for this. You may have saved a life, or many.
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