First of, great vids! You are definitely my favorite youtuber. Second, I think you should do a video on lucid dreaming. Either like how to do it or just facts about it, thanks!
I watched this 8 months ago while taking a break from playing cataclysm... The reaction I had was literally "OMFG"-> delete WoW account -> uninstall WoW. Havent touched a game since. Am confident and respect myself now that I've stopped doing something I hate myself for. Thanks Dean! Changed my life.
Everything in all of your videos about my mind I already realized and acted on. Lovely to see someone else knows these things and explain it 100000x better than I could.
You can't sleep in till 4 in the afternoon, spend your days playing X Box and expect to wake up feeling like a Superhero...lol! Superbly put! I love it! :))
Who u are: human. Who u are: make mistakes, hurt others, be hurt by others, negative feelings, positive feelings. Who u are: emotional, you aren't happy until you know you're sad. To be confident? Acknowledge all regardless of your activities. Activity can make you feel better but confidence is also knowing you can't have good within yourself until you understand what you consider to be bad. Confidence: I am confident that I will make a mistake but I am confident I can pick myself back up again.
Its all soooo hard to love myself, when I do something stupid, or am lazy....what to do then ??and additionally I sometimes think the anger I have on myself when I do something wrong helps mee to start over and to put more energy into solving the issue,...Arent the bad emotions about ourselves putting us also forward? I sometimes think so....in some moments, its impossible to love ourselves or is it?
@GVankov Not so much of a contradiction as an implication. He's implying that play cataclysm all day waking up at 4 in the afternoon hoping to feel like a super hero isn't the most respectful thing a person can do, sure, be someone you can respect, but why would you respect yourself if all you do is play a game all day?
... great how well you elaborate the decisive points. Yes, acting according to one's own values and esteems is the crucial point. However, as I wanna add from my personal experience: If you suffer from a real depression, the right medication (which is hard to find!!) helps *a lot* in doing so. Thanks! Albrecht.
What I think is that no matter what your personal habits are, nothing dictates how successful or dictates your confidence. I play WoW all the time, I have a girlfriend, I have a 4.0 in svhool, I work in the summer, and I have confidence. To gain confidence, look for anything you believe you are skilled within and obsess. If it is not something you take pride in, then obviously do not obsess over it, though.
@chaoticoli09 this is sort of redundant. aside from you thinking confidence comes from nowhere, you are saying exactly what Dean said, but in your own "flavor".
First, I see your strange random pick-up video in Croatia... and I thought you were ... (to put it nicely) of severely diminished capacity. But I wanted to figure out where you were from; the accent is intense in those videos.
I somehow got linked in to your new channel, and lo and behold... you're one smart motherfucker.
I just felt like apologizing for (wrongly) assuming you were an idiot, when the opposite happens to be the case.
@EgoNamahaNemoRex lmao don't take his OGFurious videos seriously as it says in the description and in the credits of most of his OGFurious videos they're just for lols
been watching all your videos and i can really see why i lack things such as confidence, that last part about cata, waking up and 4....thats basically me all over. but since ive started watching yours videos, along with looking at neuroscience after anthenes video, things become so much easier to understand and deal with, its quite clever so to speak. It's the most interesting thing ive come across in a long time...
so how do you balance "unrespected" activities (like playing cataclysm) with respected ones? where do you draw the line? in your opinion, is it ok to have non-productive leisure activities?
@nuromancr I'd definitely say so, yeah, I don't think it's beneficial to be too hard on yourself. Unwinding, relaxation and entertainment aren't bad if you ask me, but it's more a personal problem if they become your main occupations
@DeanLeysen I'd say that non-productive activities are not useless, if you use them to relax yourself and have fun. After all, life is made out of experiences we have, good and bad. And playing video games is one good activity ( when you're not obsessed with them, like I was in elementary school >.< ).
Try to have as much experiences as possible, but be careful not to go over the top also. Via media est optima :D
@nuromancr its not even respect or unrespected, self confidence is easy to get, just get it! its always next to you... walk around everywhere and say a warming Hi to everyone you meet.. thats one way to get confidence.. if you get a bad response or the person is muted that means they are insecure thats all
I am happy to heard people who can play a video game and talk about science and self development, I think we can add also, have a dream is really important ! (for my self, I am in USA in exchange just for speak a better English and it's not so fun...). Just a question, what is your maternal language ?
I think a more apropos video would be how to successfully integrate something like Cata into a normal lifestyle... which can then evolve into a more healthy/confident self image. You aren't going to get 10,000 nerd subscribers to stop killing orcs and elves, but you can make them feel better about it- and then based on that they can develop their personalities further.
@bjhanish What does nerd subscribers have anything to with watching his videos and confidence? I do pretty good with the women as is, not a nerd either. I watch the videos because they are entertaining, and offer a different perspective on what interests me. Neither do I think you understand the jist of the video. What I see him saying is that generally playing video games all day isn't going to turn you into a confident person in a social atmosphere because most don't respect that.
shit... i woke up at 4 pm today and started watching furious
csmasta1 5 days ago
Its like he knows me...
BingoBerryMuncher 1 week ago
First of, great vids! You are definitely my favorite youtuber. Second, I think you should do a video on lucid dreaming. Either like how to do it or just facts about it, thanks!
TheCocasianInvasion 1 week ago
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TheCocasianInvasion 1 week ago
It might happen.. I just need a little Jesus dust. Yeah!
LadyMomply 1 week ago
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WHY CAN'T I PLAY CATACLYSM AND BE A GOD AT THE SAME TIME ??
MrSinnerstefan 2 weeks ago
WHY CAN'T I PLAY CATACLYSM AND BE A GOD AT THE SAME TIME ?????
MrSinnerstefan 2 weeks ago
Your "Dont's" is my life, I laughed and cried at the same time when you said that.
7ormentum 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from DeanLeysen
This video might changed my life with that last sentence :D
AkoVids 1 month ago
You are a great inspiration :D!!!!!
DarthBobify 1 month ago
you should do videos like these again :)
flyingtoothpaste 1 month ago
Look at Barack Obama.
TheWayshowerTube 1 month ago
OGFURIOUS WITH HAIR!
SenseTheSarcasm 1 month ago
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Who actually subscribed to Dean?
xjFIRST 1 month ago
I feel like the guy im playing at wow so when i pwn i feel awsome!
TheBullepower 2 months ago
@TheBullepower yeah but nobody else thinks you are
phantom420o 1 month ago
@phantom420o lol thats fukked up hahahah
Alex35J 3 weeks ago
The confident man knows he is going to win; the cocky man tells the other team.
Doyle251 2 months ago 3
u r such a badman
orphanstears 2 months ago
@orphanstears How is he?
Perilix 2 months ago
I'm a SuperHero! (Yey)
ohh FUUUUUUUUUUUUU...
TomteFront 2 months ago
Subbed Bro,You're Great :))
cvhgx 2 months ago
I subscribed. Can I have my confidence now?
MrAnnaX 2 months ago
@MrAnnaX Here you go, sir. *passes confidence*
thewaysh 2 months ago
@thewaysh Cheater o:
Only DeanLeysen can pass confidence, after all - he's the one promising it! And I want mine cuz obviously I lack one.
Waiting!
MrAnnaX 2 months ago
@MrAnnaX Do the things he said in the video and he will pass the confidence when you're not looking. :)
iAnglais 2 months ago
thanks!
Marinkaasje 3 months ago
U just gave me the answer to what i was thinking all these weeks
lol i gotta stop wasting too much time playing videogames
ty Furious old fan here :D
MakoKunnn 3 months ago
I watched this 8 months ago while taking a break from playing cataclysm... The reaction I had was literally "OMFG"-> delete WoW account -> uninstall WoW. Havent touched a game since. Am confident and respect myself now that I've stopped doing something I hate myself for. Thanks Dean! Changed my life.
JunttiV 3 months ago 2
Im staying up all night watching your videos and if the trend holds will wake up at 5pm
Worse than cataclysm?
MegaClamps 3 months ago
Confidence in 2 seconds: In every geek there's a Furious
FriskMeister392 3 months ago 40
@FriskMeister392 perfect comment. except.. I don't think he's a geek. He's.. ;ADLKJFA;DLJFA;LSDJFA;LDSJFA;LFJAKL;JDFAL;SJDFKL;ADVMKLAF;ML <3
MJxSHAMONE 1 week ago
I agree! :)
trescamp 3 months ago
good
9210604659 3 months ago
I attained instant confidence :D *Subscribed*
Alphilles3922 3 months ago
Everything in all of your videos about my mind I already realized and acted on. Lovely to see someone else knows these things and explain it 100000x better than I could.
shadeslate 3 months ago
Good advice. Young people trying to find themselves should all watch this clip. And hey, I just subscribed 10 minutes ago. You are welcome. :)
dondiemarte 3 months ago
You are what you do, well, you are great
samcho468 3 months ago
HAHAHA I love you
maxwellpassion 3 months ago
LOL--when he you mentioned WoW I lost it... ARE YOU AN ESPER?
lolguygoeslol 3 months ago
thank you FURIOUS
dahaca6022 4 months ago
fml
mihailo343 4 months ago
Wow that hit me hard. thanks
fuckliao 4 months ago
he didnt say good morning internet!
otaku142356 4 months ago
I need to show this video to a lot of people i know
jacksparowv 4 months ago
this is intense and i love it!
Ellevoomva 4 months ago
This dude should be like the leader of the world or something, he is that smart.
sooupdragon 4 months ago 175
@sooupdragon he took all information from your mom
WoWJword 1 week ago
confidence is to have the balls to say obama sucks dicks in hell :P
sokar told me, eye of ra saw it too and your mama knows its true :)
lol
mitraljez 4 months ago
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Step 3: Profit
XKCD ftw!
FoolTuber41 4 months ago
Step 3: Profit
XKCD
FoolTuber41 4 months ago
You can't sleep in till 4 in the afternoon, spend your days playing X Box and expect to wake up feeling like a Superhero...lol! Superbly put! I love it! :))
straker2 4 months ago
Who u are: human. Who u are: make mistakes, hurt others, be hurt by others, negative feelings, positive feelings. Who u are: emotional, you aren't happy until you know you're sad. To be confident? Acknowledge all regardless of your activities. Activity can make you feel better but confidence is also knowing you can't have good within yourself until you understand what you consider to be bad. Confidence: I am confident that I will make a mistake but I am confident I can pick myself back up again.
vindemiatrix 4 months ago
Step 3 : PROFIT!
:D
Discanamm 4 months ago
Very nice video. Thanks.
Mtbfanro 4 months ago
Hahaha wow.....you pretty much just summed up my entire life and emotional struggle in 1:07 seconds. Love ya Dean thanks for the advice =)
XthebigXcheeseX 4 months ago
so basically i must stop masterbaiting, i don't respect that thank you you changed my life.
BrandonBlaze904 5 months ago
i hav to watch like 3 times just to understand what ur saying, awesome
mrcuccuou 5 months ago
Get outta here, Christian Bale
TheUltraDude 5 months ago
Furious lives like less then a mile away from me.
heatization 5 months ago
thats in 56 seconds not 60 :P
xdirt3 5 months ago
Played cata all day everyday and been waking up the last couple of days at 3-4 am. Ouch
Nightball12 5 months ago
rofl, last week ive been playing cataclysm all day every day, and ive been waking up at 4 in the evening.
Arkar133 5 months ago
Im still gonna play cataclysm.. all day then im gonna wake up at 4.. Im proud of that :D ha ha No i realize what your saying
LolLokies 6 months ago
Nicee .. Clever clever
dripsta23 6 months ago
Its all soooo hard to love myself, when I do something stupid, or am lazy....what to do then ??and additionally I sometimes think the anger I have on myself when I do something wrong helps mee to start over and to put more energy into solving the issue,...Arent the bad emotions about ourselves putting us also forward? I sometimes think so....in some moments, its impossible to love ourselves or is it?
martinkapospisilova 6 months ago
Love your vids man! very clever! Q: is war an essential part of being human?
lallyoisin 6 months ago
i feel it bro
bigdickstraightguy 6 months ago
@dayroach gay
SuntzuMocro 7 months ago
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Joebro5000 7 months ago
can you suggest any books?
benbie 7 months ago
I live 100% by my principles and what I believe to be right.
no confidence
lusteraliaszero 7 months ago
Step 3: PROFIT!!!!!
venticyanide 7 months ago
Its okay, I play on a big WOTLK private server for arenas since cataclysm is so broken. DA GAIMZ.
alphaguitar2 7 months ago
Why did your comment about Cataclysm make me want to kick you in the forehead?
coolnameize 7 months ago
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coolnameize 7 months ago
I play wow all day and still feel like a superhero? :0
Alethlol 7 months ago 89
@Alethlol you're a god among men.
burgerkingsucks1 2 months ago
@Alethlol profit :]
sashakid 2 months ago
I don't even know what cataclysm is lol I guess that's a good thing
lonelyBLAZE1 8 months ago
i guess minecraft counts too...
asdoter123 8 months ago
I hope you have or teach children now or in the future. You're a beautiful person.
DayRoach 8 months ago
You say that we should do things that we like and respect and at the and you kinda say playing WoW is not beneficial.Imo that's a contradiction.
GVankov 8 months ago 3
@GVankov Not so much of a contradiction as an implication. He's implying that play cataclysm all day waking up at 4 in the afternoon hoping to feel like a super hero isn't the most respectful thing a person can do, sure, be someone you can respect, but why would you respect yourself if all you do is play a game all day?
mikemaster724 7 months ago
@mikemaster724 if you are good at it? :P
ddddddennis 7 months ago
Dean = Glen Hasard + Kurt Cobain
FritzThistle 8 months ago
@FritzThistle He does!
DayRoach 8 months ago
@DayRoach I am glad you understood me, I meant Hansard.
FritzThistle 8 months ago
Can I play Vanilla all day everyday pl0x?
OrcGy 8 months ago
Does he have a lot of sparetime? xD
MillyMelanie 8 months ago
The ending felt like a Dr. Cox rant :>
napischu 8 months ago
is wrath of the lich king okay? :S
capiki 8 months ago
... great how well you elaborate the decisive points. Yes, acting according to one's own values and esteems is the crucial point. However, as I wanna add from my personal experience: If you suffer from a real depression, the right medication (which is hard to find!!) helps *a lot* in doing so. Thanks! Albrecht.
albrechtschnabel 9 months ago
hmm saying this have you stopped playing wow ^^
klavsen22 9 months ago
haha I really needed to hear this...
ophy4 9 months ago
The last part about playing cataclysm all day, waking up at 4pm and expecting to someday wakeup being awesome describes me 100%.
Thanks Dean.
Flintalt2 9 months ago
666 likes and 6 dislikes......the fuck
ilijacar3 9 months ago
I can't get instant confidence because I already subscribed in the past. D:
EclipseCries 9 months ago 2
What is cataclysm?
HellAngelsBells 9 months ago
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Booyah! Good morning internets!
XD
OrdinaryCritic 9 months ago
The video seems to be lacking...
Booyah! Good morning internets!
OrdinaryCritic 9 months ago
We'll see who's confident when i'm the one with the 2800 rated arms warrior and you're stuck at 1600 rating.
Hijink93 9 months ago 3
good job! really!!
elnino559 9 months ago
What I think is that no matter what your personal habits are, nothing dictates how successful or dictates your confidence. I play WoW all the time, I have a girlfriend, I have a 4.0 in svhool, I work in the summer, and I have confidence. To gain confidence, look for anything you believe you are skilled within and obsess. If it is not something you take pride in, then obviously do not obsess over it, though.
chaoticoli09 9 months ago
@chaoticoli09 this is sort of redundant. aside from you thinking confidence comes from nowhere, you are saying exactly what Dean said, but in your own "flavor".
AfroOntheGo 9 months ago
Why do you think people who play cataclysm wake up at 4pm? did you ever do that? did athene ever do that?
GekkeDennis15 10 months ago
:D
baggeghfreak 10 months ago
I think you're the most insperational person I've ever heard about.
I nevet thought 4 words could take me out from the hell I've been in, "be someone you respect" was a fucking breakthrou, tacky as it sounds, it was.
I've had the worse half year of my life.
15 years old and probably still trying to find "myself", but that was just awesome.
You acctually make a difference in the world, I hope you're aware of that!
trippycat123 10 months ago 9
If it's bad to play Cataclysm all day long, then how come Athene has such huge confidence in himself and his abilites in anything he does?
I'm just sayin'...
UberschtagenCodingg 10 months ago
67* seconds. gosh, get it right. lol jk, very nice vid
TylerJaden24 11 months ago
love it, ur awesome
hearzone1337 11 months ago
I love the don't
EL4N4R 11 months ago
First, I see your strange random pick-up video in Croatia... and I thought you were ... (to put it nicely) of severely diminished capacity. But I wanted to figure out where you were from; the accent is intense in those videos.
I somehow got linked in to your new channel, and lo and behold... you're one smart motherfucker.
I just felt like apologizing for (wrongly) assuming you were an idiot, when the opposite happens to be the case.
You have great insight; awesome video.
EgoNamahaNemoRex 11 months ago 3
@EgoNamahaNemoRex lmao don't take his OGFurious videos seriously as it says in the description and in the credits of most of his OGFurious videos they're just for lols
IGotHax3d 11 months ago
Never have I heard a more intelligent view on confidence. Great stuff.
falcodarkzz 11 months ago
In your don't section you basically described your buddy Athene. Also love your videos.
panamcspana 1 year ago 3
watched this video after playing cataclysm till 3 am... confidence drained >.<
CAdroitS 1 year ago 133
@CAdroitS i had actually done the same the night before i watched this and was watching it at 4:10 pm...weird..
HampaDoesntDie 11 months ago
@CAdroitS L0000L same :$
ImDLM 6 months ago
@CAdroitS cata is complete shit downgrade to 3.3.5 or lower and find a private server only way wow is fun
NSLeader1 4 months ago
been watching all your videos and i can really see why i lack things such as confidence, that last part about cata, waking up and 4....thats basically me all over. but since ive started watching yours videos, along with looking at neuroscience after anthenes video, things become so much easier to understand and deal with, its quite clever so to speak. It's the most interesting thing ive come across in a long time...
metalheadjosh16 1 year ago
i believe you are mistaking self-esteem (self-respect) for self-confidence... the latter is an unnecessary product of the former...
however, a very good video, and great advice!
Genesis0001 1 year ago 2
kurt cobain
JohnKouts 1 year ago
i just love the truth ... can you explain the RAS recticular activation sistem or something ... is about how people perceve value whats value
xXxtreme21 1 year ago
Hey. I'm subbing to this channel. Was just wondering if it's ok if I add you on facebook?
CanJ0n 1 year ago
So someone help me with what he says at 0:34 ? Confidence is not a goal to be ... what?
muelass 1 year ago
@muelass attained?
filmjolk 1 year ago
@muelass obtained
ItakePillsForSkills 1 year ago
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muelass 1 year ago
Truth.
tool987ja 1 year ago
love this man. I myself am interested in alot of the same things you mentioned in a different video. keep it up!
zetox12 1 year ago
"you are what you do!"
damn, you need to have a chat with my son!
hermanmunster2002 1 year ago
Subscribe for instant confidence. lol.
Loveyoudean.
iHaveTwitches 1 year ago
great vid, you really looked like dr. cox from scrubs at the end of the video. trufax ;D
rogreg8 1 year ago
LOOl play cataclysm and wakeup at 4 LOOOLLLL, Cataclysm is more boring then wotlk
1337one1 1 year ago
@1337one1
lulz
jhorb4 1 year ago
WHOA 3D, A for enthusiasm.. oh and confidence.
rOoziiltd 1 year ago
WHOA 3D
rOoziiltd 1 year ago
Haha.. 'Subscribe for instant confidence'... love it :)
EvieGurl6 1 year ago
I play Cataclysm all day and wake up late feeling like I want to play more Cataclysm...
Xhougnaamn 1 year ago 2
so how do you balance "unrespected" activities (like playing cataclysm) with respected ones? where do you draw the line? in your opinion, is it ok to have non-productive leisure activities?
nuromancr 1 year ago 21
@nuromancr I'd definitely say so, yeah, I don't think it's beneficial to be too hard on yourself. Unwinding, relaxation and entertainment aren't bad if you ask me, but it's more a personal problem if they become your main occupations
DeanLeysen 1 year ago 52
@DeanLeysen what if you get paid to play games :D
VanMedia 11 months ago
@DeanLeysen But Athene makes gaming his main occupation soo...you are saying it's a problem of his?XDDD
KairiMelodya 8 months ago
@KairiMelodya but he gets paid... =[
Leo413623 8 months ago
@DeanLeysen I'd say that non-productive activities are not useless, if you use them to relax yourself and have fun. After all, life is made out of experiences we have, good and bad. And playing video games is one good activity ( when you're not obsessed with them, like I was in elementary school >.< ).
Try to have as much experiences as possible, but be careful not to go over the top also. Via media est optima :D
asdfasqwert 6 months ago
@nuromancr its not even respect or unrespected, self confidence is easy to get, just get it! its always next to you... walk around everywhere and say a warming Hi to everyone you meet.. thats one way to get confidence.. if you get a bad response or the person is muted that means they are insecure thats all
paininmylife89 6 months ago
I like 0:46 - 0:54
ElfishPowers 6 months ago
I am happy to heard people who can play a video game and talk about science and self development, I think we can add also, have a dream is really important ! (for my self, I am in USA in exchange just for speak a better English and it's not so fun...). Just a question, what is your maternal language ?
MrOxydre 1 year ago
Is it confidence if I have the confidence that I play Catacylsm until 4am and wake-up feeling like a super hero?
Merrlol 1 year ago
i have the confidence to play WoW, do u?
ItsMrNoobToU 1 year ago
I Loled at this, nice one Dean.
PrecautionX 1 year ago
Go up to a girl & say whatever your thinking, confidence!!!
Redd1587 1 year ago
3: profit
I fell of my dino and rofled
tommie314101 1 year ago
hah I never got any problem being confident... Who the fuck does things what he doesnt respect?
popoprd 1 year ago
@popoprd can u go up to a gril and say: I want to fuck your buttcheeks? that's confidence yo!
rowerss 1 year ago
Don't play Cataclysm all day...?
blackfang500 1 year ago
i respect Furious, so is my mom
Rotearix 1 year ago
for reals bruh, you'd look like jesus if you had long hair
Anglacer 1 year ago
hey i play games all day and wake up at 4 in the afternoon and feel awesome =3
emocelot 1 year ago
hahahahahhaahahahaa this is sooooooooo great
and true
Frytson423 1 year ago
And still.. My confidence is boost when I'm playing on my superrrrmage!
MsNymphetamin 1 year ago
what the fuck i do fell like a superhero 85 rogue, 85 warrior, and 85 hunter 4 days 3 lvl 85 toonz
c2dhollaa 1 year ago
It's Winter Break, I go to bed at 4 am. I wake up at 2 o'clock in the afternoon feeling like complete shit. this guy knows his stuff.
ominous450 1 year ago
you really cool. respect from denmark
itsharem 1 year ago
Winter Break!!! Time to play cataclysm all day ever day!!!!
Vytil 1 year ago 2
Man, I can't believe you slammed WoW!!!!! Even though you're right.
RiggintheDubVee 1 year ago
Awsome Vid, Still love watching your vids, at the rate your going, your going to have a fan for life :)
XxTheRaivixEffectxX 1 year ago
so you are saying that confidence is the same as self-steem?
Underpricing 1 year ago
@Underpricing They're pretty much the same thing.
XxTheRaivixEffectxX 1 year ago
mdogboy0 wins the comment section.
I think a more apropos video would be how to successfully integrate something like Cata into a normal lifestyle... which can then evolve into a more healthy/confident self image. You aren't going to get 10,000 nerd subscribers to stop killing orcs and elves, but you can make them feel better about it- and then based on that they can develop their personalities further.
bjhanish 1 year ago 2
@bjhanish What does nerd subscribers have anything to with watching his videos and confidence? I do pretty good with the women as is, not a nerd either. I watch the videos because they are entertaining, and offer a different perspective on what interests me. Neither do I think you understand the jist of the video. What I see him saying is that generally playing video games all day isn't going to turn you into a confident person in a social atmosphere because most don't respect that.
bendystix 1 year ago
Is there such thing as a confidence that is felt but without feeling superior, a respectable confidence that is laid back?
JacDeEarth 1 year ago
Since Athene Wins you guys always had kick ass music in your vids.
nightwingxl 1 year ago
I think I will keep going wi