I think once someone has identified that someone else has an addiction to something dangerous, they should try and get that person help. Imagine how much better it would be if all the crack heads, meth heads, and alcoholics went to rehab. It should at least mandatory in jail/prison.
Its addicting to ppl deary. How long has he been smoking? Think of an addiction you have and try cutting down on it. Anyways. My mom was in ICU and on life support for 2 1/2 weeks. Shes died 3 times. I understand what ur saying hun.
I don't have alcoholism problems within my family tree. My grandparents, dad, and brother quit smoking some years ago. As for your dad being dramatic, I think you're alot stronger than I would ever be. Kids get things passed on to them from their parents. Since I have things passed on to me that I'm not proud of, I hope to try my hardest not to stay in that cycle, and work hard in taking better control of my life. Hang in there, Bex. Stick to your guns.
Listening to your videos has brought back a lot of old memories for me.I now have children of my own but my mom never got to see them.She died of cirosis of the liver from drinking on my 20th birthday.I have long-since forgiven my Mom, but you never forget.God Bless You and thanks for sharing.I hope it helps many and to all who need an OUT..just remember that there are foster parents who will take you in and shelter and protect you.
I'd like to stop the smoke, but not so easy after 20 yrs. It's not crazy, just addiction. The peeps I don't get are the ones who smoke but don't 'have to.' Part-time smokers, you know. My maturity is above a 6y/old's btw. I started cuz it was fun & enjoyable.
I feel the same way about smoking. When I see a group of people smoking, all I can think of is that they must have all started for predominantly sociological reasons, which makes me feel like I'm looking at a bunch of insecure six(not sixteen)-year-olds.
Your not stupid for thinking smoking is a bad. Unforunately you cant stop everyone from smoking and drinking. But he's your dad, and you gotta forgive and love him regardles and just be there for him, wether its easy or not. I dont know how it is to know someone who suffered from alcoholism, but i do know how it is to have a father who smoked and pass away because of it. I wish i could have some helpful advice but i dont :( Just stay strong Becca.I dont know if i could be as stong as u are.
It's crazy. I've watched most of your videos and some of the ones talking about depression and your daddy and school, i've been through similar. Dumb thought but i always felt like i was the only one..i've since picked my act aswell and moving along, at my own pace..no rush though. Just wish you the best of luck in everything! p.s You're soo pretty!=P lol
you kno what fuck off go fucking stand sumwhere else if you dont like smokers like seriously leave us alone its our lungs if you do not want second hanbd smoke fuck right off and go sumwhere else seriously without tabacco sales our economies would be fucked although your fucking dumb fucking american assholes are already is fucked because you crave oil without the tar invading all the young kids lungs you would be living in a box like kids in sera jevo
Sometimes, Becca, I think you are perfect and I'm jealous of you. I know that sounds jerkish, but I think YOU know it comes from a good place. You are just amazing to me...the way you handle things. Your strength and love is endless. *MAJOR hugs*
I'm proud of you for how you are handling all the Becca-- it's alot for a young lady to deal with. I thought about you on Father's Day, and I can only imagine how hard that day must have been for you. (((hugs)))
My dad smoked all my child hood and he stopped way after the doctors told him he needed to stop two months later......he passed away. He passed away a month before my daughter (now 15Years) was born. It's a hard thing to watch a loved one died from something that they could have fixed before it's to late. Hugs to ya sweetie! Bay
I think it took a lot of courage to put this video out for the world to see. But sometimes it feels good to talk about things and sometimes you meet someone who is coping with something similar, and you can help each other. There's lots of people discussing the kinds of things you talked about over at http://www.christianforums.com/ I wish you much success at dealing with everything on your mind!
I know it is scary to know that you might be some of the things your parnts are. My mom is a freaking psyco, an alcoholic and a lot of other things, my dad is a wife beater and is also freakin psyco. And I know I'm gonna get things from them because I already have gotten Bipolar disorder from them and it sucks really bad.
I truly admire and respect you Rebbecca for your bravery and courage to not be afraid to talk about this and your feelings, I hope talking about it helps you and like I said before I cant tell you how sorry I am and I want to know that I and many others are holding you and your family in are prayers. :)
Is it just me or does the second capital Y look bigger then the first....O_o I am sorry about your father Rebecca, I hope everything works out for you and your family.
Smoking has more long term side effects then pot, is more addicting, it should be illegal. Rehab should be mandatory!
borndemented86 5 years ago
And YOU should be in charge of the Gestapo that enforces these laws!
Why don't you go burn some books you fascist?
nfellman 4 years ago
I think once someone has identified that someone else has an addiction to something dangerous, they should try and get that person help. Imagine how much better it would be if all the crack heads, meth heads, and alcoholics went to rehab. It should at least mandatory in jail/prison.
borndemented86 4 years ago
Its addicting to ppl deary. How long has he been smoking? Think of an addiction you have and try cutting down on it. Anyways. My mom was in ICU and on life support for 2 1/2 weeks. Shes died 3 times. I understand what ur saying hun.
adorableklutz 5 years ago
what I think: I think you're a lot like I was at your age, and you have a long way to go, but you're on the right track.
unequivocal 5 years ago
I don't have alcoholism problems within my family tree. My grandparents, dad, and brother quit smoking some years ago. As for your dad being dramatic, I think you're alot stronger than I would ever be. Kids get things passed on to them from their parents. Since I have things passed on to me that I'm not proud of, I hope to try my hardest not to stay in that cycle, and work hard in taking better control of my life. Hang in there, Bex. Stick to your guns.
wickedgirl76 5 years ago
Listening to your videos has brought back a lot of old memories for me.I now have children of my own but my mom never got to see them.She died of cirosis of the liver from drinking on my 20th birthday.I have long-since forgiven my Mom, but you never forget.God Bless You and thanks for sharing.I hope it helps many and to all who need an OUT..just remember that there are foster parents who will take you in and shelter and protect you.
dbrause1 5 years ago
I'd like to stop the smoke, but not so easy after 20 yrs. It's not crazy, just addiction. The peeps I don't get are the ones who smoke but don't 'have to.' Part-time smokers, you know. My maturity is above a 6y/old's btw. I started cuz it was fun & enjoyable.
cheezwizard 5 years ago
My dad is in pretty much the same situation that yours is right now. I think his mom is going to outlive him which is sad.
The best thing IMHO you can do for your dad is just show him though school and stuff that you're going to turn out fine.
lycurgus33 5 years ago
I feel the same way about smoking. When I see a group of people smoking, all I can think of is that they must have all started for predominantly sociological reasons, which makes me feel like I'm looking at a bunch of insecure six(not sixteen)-year-olds.
zacksmovies 5 years ago
Your not stupid for thinking smoking is a bad. Unforunately you cant stop everyone from smoking and drinking. But he's your dad, and you gotta forgive and love him regardles and just be there for him, wether its easy or not. I dont know how it is to know someone who suffered from alcoholism, but i do know how it is to have a father who smoked and pass away because of it. I wish i could have some helpful advice but i dont :( Just stay strong Becca.I dont know if i could be as stong as u are.
fasttrackme 5 years ago
It's crazy. I've watched most of your videos and some of the ones talking about depression and your daddy and school, i've been through similar. Dumb thought but i always felt like i was the only one..i've since picked my act aswell and moving along, at my own pace..no rush though. Just wish you the best of luck in everything! p.s You're soo pretty!=P lol
ShyBlueEyes 5 years ago
I can't stand smokers its just disgusting especially when girls smoke its a big turn off.
bionickamikaze 5 years ago
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you kno what fuck off go fucking stand sumwhere else if you dont like smokers like seriously leave us alone its our lungs if you do not want second hanbd smoke fuck right off and go sumwhere else seriously without tabacco sales our economies would be fucked although your fucking dumb fucking american assholes are already is fucked because you crave oil without the tar invading all the young kids lungs you would be living in a box like kids in sera jevo
deeznuts420 5 years ago
Sometimes, Becca, I think you are perfect and I'm jealous of you. I know that sounds jerkish, but I think YOU know it comes from a good place. You are just amazing to me...the way you handle things. Your strength and love is endless. *MAJOR hugs*
oftenIGNORDnvr4goten 5 years ago
Wow after all that it is amazing you turned out so wonderful.
digitalbrian 5 years ago
I'm proud of you for how you are handling all the Becca-- it's alot for a young lady to deal with. I thought about you on Father's Day, and I can only imagine how hard that day must have been for you. (((hugs)))
Haynes1994 5 years ago
My dad smoked all my child hood and he stopped way after the doctors told him he needed to stop two months later......he passed away. He passed away a month before my daughter (now 15Years) was born. It's a hard thing to watch a loved one died from something that they could have fixed before it's to late. Hugs to ya sweetie! Bay
bgirl90 5 years ago
I think it took a lot of courage to put this video out for the world to see. But sometimes it feels good to talk about things and sometimes you meet someone who is coping with something similar, and you can help each other. There's lots of people discussing the kinds of things you talked about over at http://www.christianforums.com/ I wish you much success at dealing with everything on your mind!
KennyWrites 5 years ago
I know it is scary to know that you might be some of the things your parnts are. My mom is a freaking psyco, an alcoholic and a lot of other things, my dad is a wife beater and is also freakin psyco. And I know I'm gonna get things from them because I already have gotten Bipolar disorder from them and it sucks really bad.
SexxySue14 5 years ago
I truly admire and respect you Rebbecca for your bravery and courage to not be afraid to talk about this and your feelings, I hope talking about it helps you and like I said before I cant tell you how sorry I am and I want to know that I and many others are holding you and your family in are prayers. :)
SkravageGOE 5 years ago
Is it just me or does the second capital Y look bigger then the first....O_o I am sorry about your father Rebecca, I hope everything works out for you and your family.
SkravageGOE 5 years ago
YaY first to comment.
SkravageGOE 5 years ago