It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
WHEN I am with her I forget everything about pickup. All techniques, everything is gone. I forget everything(even staff unrelated to pickup). At the beginning when I meet her my inner game helps me out a little so I look confident and she even said that she finds me charming:)(thanks to question game)P.S. I haven't been seeing her many times, so I don't think I'm deep in friendship zone. Please help me with two problems. How to keep my thoughts in my head(when I meet her) and second. What to do
I've got a little problem...I'm in love. I'm 18 she is 23. The guy she is seeing now is 24. He's got a car(I don't have one) Seems like I'm getting stuck in a friendship zone, but I've watched the video about getting out of it and will try it out ASAP. I think a girl might be kind of attracted to me. I've read some boyfriend destroyers, thinking about combining them with attraction builders. I have a little problem with kino escalation...or with its absence. BUT THE MAIN PROBLEM IS:
why is this all focused around using people as stepping stools for sex or a way to get women to look at you for sex... cant you just impress a women with being yourself as who you are and not what you say?
If you believe there is any "in depth" advice in this video about socialising its a sign you either have autism or are so anti-social agressive that you have no real life friends.
thats true ive heard that advice from you before...the idea of abundance and even in abundance in female friends...i used to stay home watch tv and play video games all day and one day i herad this advice and tried it met one girl became friends with her stated going out just as friends!...lol and soon she introduce me to 3 more girl started hanging with all of them those introduced me to like 7 more so no im never home and i hardly ever even watch tv
Good video, but one question. In my college guy's often hang out with guy's and girl's with girl's in groups. Is there the danger of looking a bit gay, if it's just a group of girls at the bar and you.? i.e how do you do this and still be "one of the lads"?
Also, if some of these girl's have boyfriend's, is it still cool to hang out with them?
So true. I met two guys in Cancun who are the most natural PUAs i had ever seen. Now, i've had some awesome times but, nothing like these two. Through social interaction with them, I found myself reaching new heights. Further more, I hooked up with some girls from the states. These girls actually came out to my country to visit me in the city. I shit you not, its like fishing with dynomite. I was opened by several pretty girls and my social proof was these girls i entered the venue. Very simple.
EasyTree77, what Adam is saying is that for guys who aren't friends with women, make friends using the conversational skills he teaches. The bonus of having female friends is the preselection and social proof. No-one should keep friends around just because they make them look good, there are other ways to do that without using women. When making friends, treat them like friends.
Heyy Adam, i was wondering how best to use a female bestfriend wing or maybe dudes that stand out more/ are more confident at the game than me i dont have that many friends who actively club these days so beggars cant be choosers!
Does every action you take have an ultimate purpose?
How about just being 'you' - whatever that means?
If I were a girl and a 'friend' of yours, watching this video, perhaps the thought "Hmmm, is he really my friend or is it simply a tactic to enable him to 'get some action' with other girls?" would cross my mind.
blah blah blah blah its an even exchange girls get to come out with you and have lot of fun and in return they make you look good but as i can see ur one of those sentimental guys
Hey I got a question that hopefully you answer. Okay so i'm a virgin with very little sexual experience of any kind with women. I don't really have bad game its just i feel my lack of experience will make it unenjoyable for her so I don't pursue it. My friends tell me to lower my standards to make things easier for me. So my question is, Do i lower my standards or just try and go all the way regardless of how I feel?
I notice alot of the people that follow you're advice naturally end up emasculated by hanging out with so many girls, It would be nice if you touch on this for guys starting out, seeing as they have poor social skills to begin with, they might not have the minerals to deal with it.
How do I get over a girl that was living with me and then cheated on me. Not sure I'm ready to get back to dating just yet cause it's only been a couple weeks, but I would like to find something to hurry up the painful process. Also how do I go from a domestic relationship to dating again?
take your time bud for real. Keeping your emotions in shape is just as important as the body. Pump some iron, jog, read some books, and catch up on the news. Go out/party when you feel ready.
I have a girl that I met at a bar that is coming out to my place to bake cookies. Not even a metaphor. I am writing to you is because I get the feeling that she is a virgin and will be a tough nut to crack... You can call me Plato, but I kinda feel bad about doing "the freeze out" to her to overcome LMR, because that is what I did to get the makeout with her and I really know how losing validation can screw with a girls head. do you have any "more humane" approaches to cracking LMR?
Or do what Adam says where you make tons of girl- friends using your skills (dosent need to be sexual)
Then once you walk into a club all the girls will be like whos that guy with 20 hot women (who your not shagging) then automatically they will want you even without gaming them, because they think "Why else would he be with all them great looking babes unless hes as cool as fuck" and they now want a slice of the pie, so they want a convo
Hi, first let me thank you for all your help and generosity!
I was wondering how to get with a girl who you know to be a little bit of a tease (as in she is known to flirt with people a lot, but doesn't often follow through). Is there anything to keep in mind or any approach you tend to take?
currently there are a few girls I am flirting with who have this "tease" reputation.
I'm curious when the very hot woman assumes that when you say you enjoy meeting new people you really just want her number to call her for a date. So she might respond, "Sorry I have a boyfriend" or "Sorry I'm not interested". The second response is tough, because you don't know if she means she's not interested in making friends, or not interested in dating. Don't you find you need to make it clear somehow that you only want a friend?
Reframe her by saying," Whoa, whoa! I'm not looking for a relationship. You're coming on a little too strong there. Jesus, wow....," to make her look dumb for saying it, and walk-away if you don't get a response from her. You have to do it in a surprised kind of way.
By the way never speak to a girl while you are wearing dark glasses. It feels quite irritating for the girl. Always raise your sunglasses and rest them on your head or take them off altogether when you start a conversation with a chick you like.
My question is how to score a female friend who is in my social circle, I have a crush on a friend who I see everyday in college with 5 or 6 other friends (Usually at the same time). My main fear is possible embarrassment within this small group if she rejects me, how do I go about it discreetly? Or should I just get some ball's and make my feeling's known?
Until I was in the my twenties almost all the girls I tried to get off with were from my social circle. I used to meet quite a lot of girls from my friendship circle.
Big congrats Adam! - I heard you on pickup podcast yesterday (old episode yeah) and heard about you and your girlfriend you really loved, that's super cool - congrats man!
Adam, this video is great in explaining the social circle. My question is what do you tell these girls that you bring out at night for pre-selection. They are going to want to know about the other girls since most of them will not know each other if they are new to your cirlce. Also, how do you maintain the entire group inside the venue since they don't know each other that well.
Congratulations Adam, your the man! Live happily ever after, and thanks for still being in, helping guys who are still on their way.
I want to ask you a question that's been bothering me for a while. What's the best way to deal with...female tests. And tests from guys who try to lower your social proof and value. How did you deal with those things?
Hey Adam, Congrats on the wedding man. I was wondering about if there are any differences between regular club game building social proof and getting investment, and stripper game?
Alot of different puas say strippers need to be gamed differently
i would really love for you to talk a little about colege game in one of your videos it would be really helpfull to me as september is fast approaching =) congradulations on getting married, best of luck to you both.
Awesome video, really helped me understand a couple of differences when it comes to building a social circle of girls and I've found that to be quite a personal difficulty of mine.
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
BillTheTrainer 2 months ago in playlist PUA3
screw night club game anyway
HornetUK1 10 months ago
with the guy she is seeing(nothing serious)
TEHAStin 1 year ago
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TEHAStin 1 year ago
WHEN I am with her I forget everything about pickup. All techniques, everything is gone. I forget everything(even staff unrelated to pickup). At the beginning when I meet her my inner game helps me out a little so I look confident and she even said that she finds me charming:)(thanks to question game)P.S. I haven't been seeing her many times, so I don't think I'm deep in friendship zone. Please help me with two problems. How to keep my thoughts in my head(when I meet her) and second. What to do
TEHAStin 1 year ago
I've got a little problem...I'm in love. I'm 18 she is 23. The guy she is seeing now is 24. He's got a car(I don't have one) Seems like I'm getting stuck in a friendship zone, but I've watched the video about getting out of it and will try it out ASAP. I think a girl might be kind of attracted to me. I've read some boyfriend destroyers, thinking about combining them with attraction builders. I have a little problem with kino escalation...or with its absence. BUT THE MAIN PROBLEM IS:
TEHAStin 1 year ago
I agree but the hair makes you come off as a douchebag... instantly
Mooseboy240 1 year ago
how does this man pull with hair like a parakeet!
johnykoop 1 year ago
why is this all focused around using people as stepping stools for sex or a way to get women to look at you for sex... cant you just impress a women with being yourself as who you are and not what you say?
chrisramirez1015562 1 year ago
If you believe there is any "in depth" advice in this video about socialising its a sign you either have autism or are so anti-social agressive that you have no real life friends.
Go and see a psychologist now.
MegaPhoenixBird 1 year ago
Love your stuff, Adam... keep it up!
fransack 1 year ago
thats true ive heard that advice from you before...the idea of abundance and even in abundance in female friends...i used to stay home watch tv and play video games all day and one day i herad this advice and tried it met one girl became friends with her stated going out just as friends!...lol and soon she introduce me to 3 more girl started hanging with all of them those introduced me to like 7 more so no im never home and i hardly ever even watch tv
vincentv1988 1 year ago
Good video, but one question. In my college guy's often hang out with guy's and girl's with girl's in groups. Is there the danger of looking a bit gay, if it's just a group of girls at the bar and you.? i.e how do you do this and still be "one of the lads"?
Also, if some of these girl's have boyfriend's, is it still cool to hang out with them?
reprobateDB 1 year ago
Airman First Class?
Wade422yamaha 1 year ago
Thank you a lot Adam, I like the way you talk and the things you say!
you are interesting, even more then many PU-Gurus.
TheMichimaster 2 years ago
That bird behind you, is that a peacock?
MeLaang 2 years ago 2
So true. I met two guys in Cancun who are the most natural PUAs i had ever seen. Now, i've had some awesome times but, nothing like these two. Through social interaction with them, I found myself reaching new heights. Further more, I hooked up with some girls from the states. These girls actually came out to my country to visit me in the city. I shit you not, its like fishing with dynomite. I was opened by several pretty girls and my social proof was these girls i entered the venue. Very simple.
Jamestown0101 2 years ago 2
EasyTree77, what Adam is saying is that for guys who aren't friends with women, make friends using the conversational skills he teaches. The bonus of having female friends is the preselection and social proof. No-one should keep friends around just because they make them look good, there are other ways to do that without using women. When making friends, treat them like friends.
djfw666 2 years ago
Heyy Adam, i was wondering how best to use a female bestfriend wing or maybe dudes that stand out more/ are more confident at the game than me i dont have that many friends who actively club these days so beggars cant be choosers!
mikelim9 2 years ago
Mmmn; I could never take your advice.
Does every action you take have an ultimate purpose?
How about just being 'you' - whatever that means?
If I were a girl and a 'friend' of yours, watching this video, perhaps the thought "Hmmm, is he really my friend or is it simply a tactic to enable him to 'get some action' with other girls?" would cross my mind.
easyTree77 2 years ago
fuck off fag stop hatin u dont get half th epussy he gets so hop his dick adam lyons is fucking amazing
juliangomez101 2 years ago
Look dude, outing someone as being manipulative isn't hating, it's simply pointing out the obvious.
Also, the measure of someone's worth isn't measured in kilograms of pussy, something you will hopefully realise at some point.
easyTree77 2 years ago
blah blah blah blah its an even exchange girls get to come out with you and have lot of fun and in return they make you look good but as i can see ur one of those sentimental guys
juliangomez101 2 years ago
I live with people who think like this and it sad
labamba8448 2 years ago
''just be yourself''
this is such a classic line by naturals, to their AFC friends
problem is, naturals are themselves, and they get girls with no problems. so they think the same works for their nerdy AFC friends.
but if my nerd friends just followed that advice, they would be themselves and play computer games all weekend
''do what you have always done, and you will get what you have always gotten''
game is not about being ''fake'', but to develop urself into a more social person
JackieD1988 2 years ago
Hey I got a question that hopefully you answer. Okay so i'm a virgin with very little sexual experience of any kind with women. I don't really have bad game its just i feel my lack of experience will make it unenjoyable for her so I don't pursue it. My friends tell me to lower my standards to make things easier for me. So my question is, Do i lower my standards or just try and go all the way regardless of how I feel?
lance3928 2 years ago
I notice alot of the people that follow you're advice naturally end up emasculated by hanging out with so many girls, It would be nice if you touch on this for guys starting out, seeing as they have poor social skills to begin with, they might not have the minerals to deal with it.
4U2CNHere 2 years ago
How do I get over a girl that was living with me and then cheated on me. Not sure I'm ready to get back to dating just yet cause it's only been a couple weeks, but I would like to find something to hurry up the painful process. Also how do I go from a domestic relationship to dating again?
Talario 2 years ago
take your time bud for real. Keeping your emotions in shape is just as important as the body. Pump some iron, jog, read some books, and catch up on the news. Go out/party when you feel ready.
jmontis2 2 years ago
I have a girl that I met at a bar that is coming out to my place to bake cookies. Not even a metaphor. I am writing to you is because I get the feeling that she is a virgin and will be a tough nut to crack... You can call me Plato, but I kinda feel bad about doing "the freeze out" to her to overcome LMR, because that is what I did to get the makeout with her and I really know how losing validation can screw with a girls head. do you have any "more humane" approaches to cracking LMR?
Great vids
platopua 2 years ago
congratz on gettin married BUT i still need 2 kno haw do u make a girl sexually attracted to you
SUPERZ33 2 years ago
Higher value
Kino Esscalation = Physical Touch
Or do what Adam says where you make tons of girl- friends using your skills (dosent need to be sexual)
Then once you walk into a club all the girls will be like whos that guy with 20 hot women (who your not shagging) then automatically they will want you even without gaming them, because they think "Why else would he be with all them great looking babes unless hes as cool as fuck" and they now want a slice of the pie, so they want a convo
boxingGARDEN 2 years ago
Preselection and Kino are age-old tactics used for centuries and centuries, make use of it Super.
visionimagify 2 years ago
Hi, first let me thank you for all your help and generosity!
I was wondering how to get with a girl who you know to be a little bit of a tease (as in she is known to flirt with people a lot, but doesn't often follow through). Is there anything to keep in mind or any approach you tend to take?
currently there are a few girls I am flirting with who have this "tease" reputation.
Thanks so much for your help
-DJ
djulia159 2 years ago 2
I am wondering hoe to pick up a girl who is Indepedent because i am quite a shy person and they want normallt someone eho shows confidence
amedina1976 2 years ago
I'm curious when the very hot woman assumes that when you say you enjoy meeting new people you really just want her number to call her for a date. So she might respond, "Sorry I have a boyfriend" or "Sorry I'm not interested". The second response is tough, because you don't know if she means she's not interested in making friends, or not interested in dating. Don't you find you need to make it clear somehow that you only want a friend?
kjbaumga 2 years ago 2
Reframe her by saying," Whoa, whoa! I'm not looking for a relationship. You're coming on a little too strong there. Jesus, wow....," to make her look dumb for saying it, and walk-away if you don't get a response from her. You have to do it in a surprised kind of way.
visionimagify 2 years ago
By the way never speak to a girl while you are wearing dark glasses. It feels quite irritating for the girl. Always raise your sunglasses and rest them on your head or take them off altogether when you start a conversation with a chick you like.
InternetUser1999 2 years ago
WHAT???WHY NOT???? i dont get what your saying....i never take off my sunglasses..never
DpLogan 1 year ago
Congragulations Adam!
My question is how to score a female friend who is in my social circle, I have a crush on a friend who I see everyday in college with 5 or 6 other friends (Usually at the same time). My main fear is possible embarrassment within this small group if she rejects me, how do I go about it discreetly? Or should I just get some ball's and make my feeling's known?
reprobateDB 2 years ago
break rapport with her
owensra 2 years ago
Until I was in the my twenties almost all the girls I tried to get off with were from my social circle. I used to meet quite a lot of girls from my friendship circle.
InternetUser1999 2 years ago
Big congrats Adam! - I heard you on pickup podcast yesterday (old episode yeah) and heard about you and your girlfriend you really loved, that's super cool - congrats man!
MallerLFC 2 years ago
Congratulations Adam. He is a great speaker. And a great way to look at the importance of girl-friends. Great strategy.
CocoCruise 2 years ago
Adam, this video is great in explaining the social circle. My question is what do you tell these girls that you bring out at night for pre-selection. They are going to want to know about the other girls since most of them will not know each other if they are new to your cirlce. Also, how do you maintain the entire group inside the venue since they don't know each other that well.
owensra 2 years ago
What happens when the female friend keeps kissing me and wants to play with my genitals?
28rug 2 years ago 9
you win!
facistdic 2 years ago 2
It's a shit test. Push-pull, break rapport then move for qualification.
vaiisbetter 2 years ago 5
Congratulations Adam, your the man! Live happily ever after, and thanks for still being in, helping guys who are still on their way.
I want to ask you a question that's been bothering me for a while. What's the best way to deal with...female tests. And tests from guys who try to lower your social proof and value. How did you deal with those things?
PiroShark 2 years ago
good stuff. im working on this atm ae
iv got a bad reputation for getting into a girl and not talking to her again.... ops lol
the thing is iv started to get some female friends but they always end up liking me?
and if i took them to a club i know that they will get jealous if i talk to other girls.....
confusing but i dont know what to do ae
how do you get them to just have a good time and be all cool???
ashtray69er07 2 years ago
Hey Adam, Congrats on the wedding man. I was wondering about if there are any differences between regular club game building social proof and getting investment, and stripper game?
Alot of different puas say strippers need to be gamed differently
gmini21 2 years ago
i would really love for you to talk a little about colege game in one of your videos it would be really helpfull to me as september is fast approaching =) congradulations on getting married, best of luck to you both.
fireinyoursoul 2 years ago 2
Many congratulations Adam on the wedding! Your videos are great. Could you do one on text / phone game please?
Ablofluido 2 years ago
Thanx a lot Adam Congrats for your wedding bro
Hope for you and Amanda the happiest life ever
Handssy 2 years ago 3
Thanks alot man - great video -
Hawiai :O (U lucky ****) lol
1st off Congrats on the wedding and heres my question :)
Should "Game" be used any diffrently or should it be slightly modified when used in High school?
*for youngsters like myslef ;) *
Thanks dude!
boxingGARDEN 2 years ago
Great video.. very good explination of the difference between girl friend and girlfriend! Now please explain this to 99% of the men i know hehe
GlossGoss 2 years ago
Hahaha... telling it isn't the problem...getting them to listen is.
AFCAdamLondon 2 years ago 2
Getting them to do it would be even harder at that
ncurran1987 1 year ago
Congratulations on the wedding! I'm so glad you're happy!
I really, really want to attend one of your boot camps when you tour the US this summer. I'm going to try and save up some money so I can!
Falco0930 2 years ago
Awesome video, really helped me understand a couple of differences when it comes to building a social circle of girls and I've found that to be quite a personal difficulty of mine.
dave665 2 years ago
Phew. That's what I was looking for. Thanks and congrats so much for the wedding! cheers mate!
rsaini1 2 years ago