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  • i generally thought she was saying 'knew how to make me still come' oops...been singing that wrong for the last 5 years...

  • *TEAR*

    

  • To a year spent with a violent, scared little boy, thank you. Currently sitting here, looking at how far I've come since I was under your control and I have to laugh :) Degree, good job, speaking to my parents again, independant, happy :)

  • this song really hits home for me its my life in one song

  • this song reminds me of my ex cos he broke my arm leg and bruised me and i sat in tears nearly every night

  • this gave me goosebumps :)

  • TRUE WORDS

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  • the lyrcs it's the same of Fighter by christina aguilera....!

  • 2011. you're*

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  • I dont know why but this song reminds me of the movie Thirtreen Ghosts?? haha probably because they came out at a similar time XD xoxo

  • @princessguitarx LOL. I have no idea why you think they are related. Haha

    I hate that movie. So scary :/x

  • @britash94 Hahah i know. noooo way related but it might be because they were realeased around same time..idk XD and it is scary but i <3 it :) x

  • ppl just enjoy the song and stop posting ur sad life stories on youtube

  • @182popeye loool

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  • i was in a abusive relationship with my ex. I would like to write a book that would hopefully inspire people in abusive realtionships to get help and get out. If any of you would like to send letters about what happened to you, poems, songs, quotes, words of encouragment, anything i can use for the book i would gladly appreciate it. My email address is imasurvivior1989@yahoo.com thank you : )

  • @xxdeenyxx i know how you feel my ex moved bck to the same town where i live jus to cause problems for me telling ppl i made everything up but its alright i know im better off @ all get through all of this for me & my son

  • @blueberriesandcream well tbh my ex wud be a dik with me and i have told him t go away or its going further and for the last week i have not had anything to do with him but i just hope it stays like this now cuz me and my family r a lot happier without him always fucking me about... lad'z r twats u jst have t find the right one... (: x

  • This is for my worthless ex who beat me for two yrs of our relationship thank you if it wasnt for you i wouldnt be the amazing strong person i am today ....you think that your a man cuz you beat me & treated me like shit? you were jus a worthless piece of shit.... i wish you would kill yourself and do everyone a favor but your such a worhless fucking prick you wouldnt even do that right.

  • @blueberriesandcream you know i dont no you but the same happened to me he still is trying to get me back with me but i am better without a low life cunt always putting me down!! (: x

  • [iminent=Bf8FG9gUWfOB] thank you jamelia

  • Dear ex-boyfriend.

    Our fights every day for 9 months. Your shit. Your lies. Your cheating. I don't know why I stayed after the first week when I caught you with another woman. You made me strong each time you forced tears from my eyes. Never to repeat this mistake again. Don't call me, apologizing, saying she meant nothing. You're done playing your stupid game with me. As for the bruises, you're lucky they healed!

    Love, your ex-girlfriend.

  • thank you cause because of you i learnt not to hide my will behind somebody else, not to cry for those ones who doesn't even know i cry for them, i learnt how sneaky people can turn to be. thank you cause i understood that before everything comes me myself and i and my happiness.

  • this is for the guy, callum who says he 'loves' me but wen i sed i had a boyfriend can we just be friends he hit me, i was depressed n scared for ages, so thankyou callum.

  • im gonna say thank you to myself for waking up :)

  • you made me strong; thank you.

  • Thank you!!

  • Kavan this is for you! Thankyou! :'-( x

  • I hate you andrew but thank you

  • I love this  song

  • I hope her ex knows what a fooking d1ck he is and i hope this song hurts him. Don't let it happen to you, your to good, girls! All of you.

  • i'm getting stronger 

  • its so wonderful to hear a song like this... i really tired to get over this .. but its really hard ...

  • You spelt "succomb" wrong mate.

  • @ares12790 thanks gramma natzi, how out u just enjoy the song yea?

  • @rugrats1212 you spelt "grammar" wrong. Also teri ma di pendi. Tu cheneh ek sala gundhicachi che.

  • @ares12790 yea its called a typo, grow up troll

  • this song always made me cry when I listened to it! here I go again.

  • thank you to you too, for every last bruise you gave me. and to Jamelia, for singing about it! keep strong ladies!

  • i used to be addicted to this song + something about you, and i love listening to them randomly now, after i aint heard them in a while, they're amazing songs<3

  • I used to love this song when i was younger, im a HUGE fan of Jamelia and i havent heard this song in years. it reminds me of how much i do love her and her music :)

  • Ii Love This Song.. Jamelia Is Mint And Lasses Stand Up Fo Yah Selfs Ii Did And Now Hes Outa My Life!

  • love it so much :)

  • omg where can i find a karaoke of this ?! i've been looking for one for AGES!! (i'm talkin years) lol ! HELP MEE SOMEBODY!!

  • My childhood came flooding back listening to this :)

  • this girl i know told me that her boyfriend was hitting her and even showed me some of the bruises 'he' gave her but then it turned out she was lying to me and it was all one big 'joke' she didnt understand why i was so upset by it. that is until i told her that all the things she said had been happening to her had happened to me. people, please just stop hitting your partner. it scars emotionally and physically

  • thank U, we shoukran bezaf 3ala had al oghnya.

  • Women love bad boys. Choose a decent man and he won't beat the hell out of you.

  • this song had help me look into my life and it spoke everything i was going through, it was my direct message to my abuser, i had felt all alone but until i heard this song i realise i was and should be strong, now i am free and indeed A stronger, MUCH STRONGER WOMAN, THANK YOU JAMELIA,THANK YOU

  • this is like me n my ex he hurt me and then it made so much stroger xxx

  • This song has helped me get over my ex... He is such a manslag!

    Thank you for writing this song Jamelia!.x 

  • i know that she is talking about a relationship but this song is just like me and my brother he use to completely abuse to to bruises and i remind myself daily that he made me strong..wow i love this!

  • wow never realised the meaning in this song til today in school when we had a domestic abuse presentation talk. this hits hard because i have nearest and dearest who have been through it but just hope all the victims (men or women) know that it is not YOUR fault AT ALL!!! i bet this song has helped many people x

  • This song puts it so well. It’s incredible to be driven to the point of truly wanting to be dead… wishing they’d do as they threaten and just kill you. Never again. These lyrics are therapy. I am finally starting to see that the future may very well include things that will bring joy. Thank you … for being only in my past (you won’t see my future), and for teaching me (what I’ll never put up with again).

  • THANK YOU! THIS TO D GUY WHO MADE ME STRONGER , MUCH STRONGER DAN HE IS!..IM PROUD IM WELL N STRONG TO SAY THANK YOU!

  • egt een leuke song !! (L)

  • i love this song it make me realy up set

    this song will help people who were like her

  • jamelia needs to start making tunes again; her songs have such great messages in them <3

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  • Nice :P

  • Love this song! It's a great empowering song to women

  • this,song,is,so,strong,and,am,­sure,like,me,it,has,helped,alo­t,of,women.my,ex,was,

    a,cowerd,and,hurt,me,in,every,­way,he,could,

    i,made,this,song,my,divorce,as­,it,say,nearly,everything,i,wo­uld,like,to

    say,to,him,

    just,misses,out,telling,him,ho­w,pleases,i,am,to,have,him.out­,my,life,and,how,

    truly.happy,i,am,now,!!!

  • this just makes me think cuz my old bf neva hit me but he did hurt me cuz he left cuz he was only using me to ge someone else to notice him so obviously that hurt a lot and i dont see how this can make people stronger cuz i dont feel so strong right now

  • it's 'succumb', not 'surcome'

  • I hope she didn't go through this!

  • I've just left a guy who emotionally abused me for a long time. This song really speaks to me. It's given me hope x

  • this song is so good...it helps my me to come over my ex..he is an asshole..

  • Love this song sooo much! :) Jamelia is actually class! where is she these days!?

    :) X

  • i love this song....all u man beaters r cowards

  • This Is My Alltime Favourite Song!

    And It Is SOOO True!

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  • @lucindaboo Am sorry to hear that.. made me cry reading it,, I can imagine how you feel, been through the same thing, wish you and your mum all the best

  • @lucindaboo glad to know your mom fought through the worst :)

  • yes this reminds me of my ex too..she has touched many broken hearts with this..feel strong listening to it-THANK YOU jamelia!

  • this reminds me of my ex... =( and sing star x]

  • What A Songg<3

  • I cried when I was listen to this , fucking amazing

  • Resilience is key- as the good word says- we shouldnt repay back evil with evil, but repay them back with good- this guy she sings about is lucky that i didn't get my hands around is neck lol

  • i would never hit my girl i love her so much shes my world :D

  • @jjovmanc

    She's lucky :)

  • @BillKaulitzIsGorge shes not the lucky one i am shes my everything :D

  • this is such a goos song, and well, very sad to be honest,!!!!

  • I just left him a month ago and I got to court to make him stay away in another month....I still cry everyday after everything he did....I want to be strong....And I don't want to live in fear and be scared of him any more...

  • For whoever might have INSPIRED this song, i wanna punch them. In the face. Multiple Times. With an ax.

  • what is the meaning of this song???

    plz respond

  • @giraffefan111 has somebody re[plied to you yet?? basically she's talking about the abusive relationship that she was caught up in, and now that she's out of it she's thankg the guy, because despite all the pain and suffering he put her through, its made her stronger and resilient, and doesn't need him anymore.

    the lyrics basically say it all =)

  • Yeah my ex boyfriend beat me so badly.. he killed me :)

  • Off to court today. He hurt me and now is trying to get my children off me. I already know things are gonna go my way but I am still scared to face him. It's amazing how you somehow find the strength. This is my song of the day. Love to all you other survivors out there x

  • This is an amazing song!

    Its the perfect way to throw it back in someones face when they've hurt you :)

  • This is song is for EVERYONE who are abused men as well as woman .. there are violent partners in all walks of life ... you don't have to take any abuse from anyone .. be strong and you WILL get stronger .. I did ...thank you . xx

  • This song means so much to me ... i wasn't on my own and i wasn't the only one in the world it happens to .. and i know it shouldn't happen at all .. but the sad truth is that it does .. i had 5 years of abuse .. i got out and i'm ME again and i will always be ME and no will EVER try and control and have power over me ever again .. i'm a strong person more than i was before so THANK YOU.

  • Hmm ive been in one of those relation ships , but i did it + got out but even though he did all that i still love him i carn't help it "/ But now im with a man that loves me very very much + i love him to : ) My Life if now back on track :D iloveyoubabe . . . .x

  • ilove this song ' it reminds me of my ex . . . we was so close but then loads of stuff happend + now we just carn't be together i miss him so much it's unreal : ( xx : /

  • Thankyouuu my stupid ex boyfriend hehe .

  • Great Song.

  • wow .... no comment! Violence is always the refuge for the coward

  • Love it!!!

  • just like Jojo's voice in this song 0.o

  • Rockstar on this one.

  • do ya recon you could make an instrumentel ??? xx

    great song im singing to it over and over again think of my ex xx

  • (Y)(Y)

  • richtig tolles lied

  • beautiful

  • reminds me of my dad too .

  • This was the first real song I ever heard in my life and instantly it was my favourite song for eight years straight. (songs before it were nursery types ect.) Looking back at it and my 13th birthday is come' n up i kinda miss bein so young. She sang it with such pride and really expressed her inner feelings for this song. As u probz know most singers base there lyrics on there feelings and expressions.

    XxDark-FeyxX

  • reminds me of my father

  • Heretics for the win .................

  • for all the guys out there that abuse girls...you all just deserve to burn in hell. feel sorry for all those girls who have been treated badly. STAND UP FOR YOUSELF LADIES, MUCH LOVE <3

  • Yeah, i was in a abusive relationship for nearly 2 years, eventually i got the guts after he had locked me in his house and beat the hell out of me to call the police. Now, i am falling in love with one of his best friends, who is quite frankly, an angel, and understands everything i have been through. .Girls, just get the courage to say enough is enough, and you will come out much better. :)

  • @92lipgloss u said it man ;) 

  • I love this song...  thank you!!

  • no thankyou

  • haha! i like this song 'cause it means a lot for me but your reaction! haha! respect! x

  • love diz tune REAL TALKS x

  • We have the lyrics on youtube thanks

  • Oohh This So Applys To My Mum &+ Me..He Hurt Her A Million Ways But THANK YOUU

    Were Stronger Than Eva Now ( = I Love Yuu Mum.. She Means Tha World 2 Me,,I Vowe 2 Neva Let A Man Treat Her Lyke This Evaa Gen.. Im Nt A Lil Girl Ne More Me &+ My Mum Cn Fight The World Now (=

    For Every Last Bruise You Gave Me

    For Every Time I Sat In Tears

    For The Million Ways You Hurt Me, I Juss Wna Tell Yuu This...

    You Broke My World

    Made Me Strong THANK YOU

    Messed Up my Dreams

    Made me Strong

    THANK YOU!

  • thank you too Jamelia

  • It's amazing what women have to go through!

  • I lovee this song <3

  • ; ) thank you

  • Wonderful..

  • i rimema wen i gt 2 Englnd.. m n' ma mum lisennd 2 t evrydaii... luv t..x!

  • Omg my bay friend isnt likee that x

    the pricks out there that are likee this thoo Omg they deserve a good kick in ayee x

    and if i has happened 2 anygirls im soo sorry x

  • i feel like crying when i hear this,

    it was so bad but like u say.

    it just made me stronger.

    if he ever finds me im dead, but at least im happy now and no more control from him.

    IM FREE AND BLESSED for now.!!!

    THANK YOU JAMELIA YOU ROCK

  • @babygallzz did he rape you? call the police

  • @babygallzz i know its a long time you commented on this but at the mo its true in my life

  • this sonqqq reminds me off soo many thinqsss

    but i have found love..everythinqs great...hope i dont have to ever listen to this song ever...

  • i just wanna say im sorry for all those girls who felt abuse and i just want u girls/guys know that u will find true love one day :D xxx

  • i never had a abusive boyfriend but this reminds me of the insults i gorh from my school. him and his friends never used physical contact but the words they sed hurt me so bad and this song made me stronger

  • Thank you

  • were not all bad guys.but you just know to come up with such a heart felt song as this.she must have gone through hell..all i can say is.if she was my lady...boy would i treat her good...beautiful woman..

  • Yeah, this song sums up my ex too! Sucks doesnt it! x

  • this song reminds me of shit

  • this song reminds me of my ex

    int it funny no matter wot they do t u u still love n miss them !

  • init after evrythin hes dne, id still tke him bk buh thts jus life init

  • it's horrible isn't it... but at the end of the day girls we're the strong ones who learn and grow from it all. Keep your faith ladies x

  • for the million ways you hurt me

    i just wanna tell you this

    you broke my world,

    made me strong thank you

    messed up my dreams,

    made me strong, thank you

  • I just broke up with my abusive boyfriend, &

    This song is amazing, its helping me cope.

    " Cuz i was under you're control,

    so young, so dumb...

    you hit, you spit, you split every bit of me yeah. "

  • 14 years ago my dad abused me and my mum , he held me over the balcony wen i was 18 months old and threatened to drop me if my mum didnt have sex wov him , i still have flashbacks to wen he would hit my mum and smashed her head places , once it was so bad the pictures on the other side of the wall fell off ans mashed on the floor , my mum has still got scars all over her because of him i hate him and im glad i learnt from her mistakes coz there aint no way i gonna end up in abusive relationship

  • I luv this song it is soooooooooo true after 12 yrs in a very abusive painful relationship i got out and it did make me stronger, my life is bk on track x

  • I love this song :D

  • i looooove this song!!!!!!

  • I've also experienced domestic violence, and think this is an amazing song..

    But why isn't there one for men? 'Cause stats show the domestic violence is spread equally between men and women these days. It's stupid, and pathetic, and anyone who's going through it well, best of lucky, and it'll be okay =]

  • i (L) this song!! haha, i dont relate to it but its classic (yn) xD =)) xxx (H)

  • i heard that this song was for an ex boyfriend of hers! he is clearly a prick ..jamelia is very talented i love her songs

  • thank u

  • this is a great song... xxx

  • i loved it thanks

  • This song reminds me of my ex he use to do all the things she say on this song x

  • omgz that is terrible

    are yhuu alryt

    aww i feel so sorry

    gud on yhuu for not bein wid him!

    LYxxxx

  • Horrific!!!

    Good job you made the right choice and left him!!

  • i just dont see how any bloke could ever hit a girl. its fucking wrong! i could never do that.

    sorry girls, we're not all like that

    xx

  • that really nice to hear :) xxx

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  • that is really nice to hear :D i said it b4 buy my lil sis clicked remove when she was sitting on my lap

  • @hoppykx

    awh :)

  • @hoppykx in all fairness to the guys, 1 in 5 suffer frm bad relationships where girls hit dem n stuff too,

  • @hoppykx it is wrong hun but sum men think its cool 2 bring girls down but like alot of girls this song sums up alot ! n i have 2 say thanku to the person who beat me u did in fact make me stronger! so thanku!

  • @hoppykx tell my ex that. :/

  • @hoppykx i never hit my woman,but all the same "thank you"

  • a powerful song about domestic abuse that is upbeat.. just to prove that a victim can be a survivor

  • This reminds me of an incident that just happened two days ago.. i am fighting against him and it (:

    THANK YOU <3

  • this song helped me to get over mi xbf john who beat me up and put me in hospital

  • oh my god!

  • wat a prick i would stab him

  • thank you explains exactly what i went through 4 years back. But i am thankful for the strength and the boost that i gained to go forward more powerful and confident

    jamelia you are a talented artist thank you for the song

  • thanks wayne tbh yu gave me da fing in da world

    mi lil boi x

  • thankyouu cookiee..

    i cant feel anyfin now. i cant let any1 eles in.. but i guess all the pain was worth that second of happiness..

    made me strong. thankuu