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  • /watch?v=qbRyw90MCjY

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  • A thing people often don't think about it that it sometimes hurts to know that someone likes you, even if you don't like them back.

    You don't want to hurt them by saying "no", but you know saying "yes" and letting them live on a lie is even worse.

  • This helped me so much. Your right maybe they just aren't the one for us. Thank you, Chris -3

  • This video gives me mixed feelings. Im touched by your words, but they make me sad at the same time because all my feelings have only been one sided, not once has anyone ever told me they liked me in a "more than friends" way

  • i hope your not with me... haha ewww BUT YOU HAVE A POINT

  • Thank you Chris. I've been dealing with this battle for the past 3-4 months. I was with a guy for a yr and he left me and the same day he left me he started being with someone else. He told me that he felt for her way before he felt for me. I'm sitting here crying right now... just wondering all these things. hurts so bad especially when you invest so much of yourself into someone or the relationship to have it end like that. I haven't been with anyone since. i don't want to be hurt again.

  • Thank u for being real with us and sincere

  • I feel ya, oh how i feel ya..

  • thank you for this <3

  • Gee, thank you for being with me right now. It's awesome how you, through a computer could make me feel better than most of the people around me.

  • Thank you... I wish so much that you could make more advice videos. they help me and others so much. Pretty please?

    I was dealing with the same thing... constantly beating myself over the head "why am I not good enough???"

    if you are best friends with that person that you like and that friend doesn't return your feelings... please don't ruin the friendship by obsessing over liking them and asking why they don't like you. accept it for what it is and appreciate being friends with that person.

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  • this made me cry, im going threw the same thing, you always know how to make me feel better, your serious stuff and you being goofy. every time im down and balling my eyes out, i come watch your videos. your a great person Chris. <3

  • I liked this guy for the longest time, but we didn't and won't end up together. He never thought I was good enough for him, and eventually I realized he wasn't good enough for me. He is only after “one thing” and I want so much more than that. He can keep on being with girls he can't take home to mama, I'll find somebody else.

  • Remember, you were born W/O someone you can live without someone, but sorry :(

  • @itschriscrocker

    i know how you feel <3 thank you for this chris <3 xxx

  • you're so cute chris! so happy you're making videos all the time again!

  • I WANNA GIVE YOU THE BIGGEST HUG <3

  • it wasn't cheesy at all. this is like my life story lol, i always think that its me thats not good enough, but maybe theyre not good enough! thanks chris, i love you and i think youre such a great person:)

  • Love u chris, I really needed this.

  • I've been through this it hurts like hell. but i have amazing friends who helped me get through it :) I've learned that i need to be single right now and except it. because I'm not ready for a relationship. cuz i wind up getting hurt.

  • Same here Chris <3

  • oh chris, that line wasn't cheesy at all. it was beautiful and it really helped me just now. so thank you for "just thinking out loud" :')

  • and we're with you chris.. thankyou <3

  • I shot up some gays with my son the other day

  • Yup! its not meant to be. We're all good enough for the right person.

  • Honestly, this made me feel so much better. I don't think anyone has ever put that better. Thank you for making me smile when I felt like crying. Amazing, really.

  • thiss was great advice!<3

  • staaay strong chris i love ya and to me u always have the kinds of answers i'm looking for just keep smiling <3

  • Your right Chris, thanks.

  • Thanks very much Chris, just thank you :)

  • Chris actually is spot on here. I have just entered into a relationship and it is the antithesis of the depression inducing disaster my last one was. If you are not letting along with someone or by being who you are you "ruin it", take the hint. Being with the right person does not feel like walking through a mine field.

  • One of the best videos that you've done, Chris.

  • Thanks for posting. That was actually kind of helpful.

  • omg i sooo needed that right now, at this very momment <3 WOW! :} i feel better

  • thank you

    I really needed that :)

  • Haha ya fuckin fruit shut ur face nobody wants to hear ur conceited bullshit thoughts

  • @maranlowry chillllll

  • This vid helped :)

  • chris i am so sorry !

    i wish i was a guy now so i could be with you !

    you're such a great person , you deserve the best of the best and i really hope you get it !

    i love you, you allways inspire and encourge me you're the sweetest and i really wish i had all the answers to give you!

  • That was very sweet Chris

  • very true! i totally agree :) thanks for posting this chris and sharing your thoughts with us, they actually kinda helped me.

  • This video is like my go to fix for what im dealing with right now. I like one of my best friends and she doesnt like me back-so im dealing, without being hateful or anything

  • Honestly, I love it when Chris talks seriously about stuff like this. About some of the most personal things that we all are insecure about... Sure, goofy Chris is hilarious, but sometimes I feel that when he talks like this... he makes me realize what I can't see for myself. So thank you, Chris. You've helped us all out in more ways than one.

  • I think every girl agrees with me that he is SEXY. WHY IS IT ALWAYS THE GAY ONES!!! usually they're always hotter....

  • I know how you feel T_T ..... I understand.... I've had so many problems with this....

  • whatta waste

  • I'm going to post this videon Youtube in hopes that someone I know watches this. She is a great girl, but the way she lets her lying, cheating, using boyfriend take advantage of her makes me sick. I hope she sees the light one day. I did, and it's the best feeling in the world. Chris you're right, something better *does* come along. I have been hurt in the past, but now I see everything happens for a reason and I'm finally with the man I was always meant to have.

  • Chris thanks when i watched i go through it all time..thanks for showing me its not my fault

  • i love you

  • maybe we're not meant to be, but maybe they should man up and stop lying to us from the beginning. I'm fine with taking the hints but if you know that you didn't want to be with me from the beginning, which you just decided to tell me after 2 months, let me know not to get involved since you didn't plan on it working out from the jump. I am a great guy, not your placeholder or a trick. Man up and have the balls to break up with me to my face, not in a text message saying we'll be friends still.

  • @piepiepia I can see that Chris is attractive, but the entire gay population isn't in the media :P Perez Hilton is a moron anyway but yeah, he's I suppose an example of how not all gay people are picture perfect. In a way no one is, and everyone is, it just depends on your tastes. But if you mean actors that a gay in programs, they're usually used because they have good looks, the media doesn't want "ugly" people on their shows. I get what you're saying. :]

  • @jackinaboxable bro, you get me. Subbed. xD

  • @delgree Not ALL gay guys are carved from heaven, just like not every straight person is, you just happen to be seeing a selective few of attractive guys who happen to be gay. Just because they're good looking, they could still be an asshole so it doesn't matter what they look like.

  • @jackinaboxable perez hilton isn't majorly attractive and most people would say he's a dick (even though i love his website as an aspiring journalist) but the majority of the gay community in the media are really lovely people and obviously attractive as they're in the media and that's kind of a given :L so you can see where people are coming from thinking all gays are like that:3 but chris is a sexy beast, and like a generally caring person and is cuuute! so yeah:P

  • Chris thankyou so much I no u don't no me but it's oddly weired that this makes me feel better because I'm going through this to

  • this made me cry because this is exactly what i'm going through right now. thanks chris for your inspiring words. this helped me figure out a lot of things. <3 love you and all of your videos.

  • @SuperFly2505 So true!!!!

  • That is what makes gay guys so adorable. There are actually no douchebag that just want sex from you and then leave you. Some of them, like Chris, DO have real feelings and are as sweet and sentimental as a girl would be.

  • HOLY CRAP. your freakin sexy AND beautiful as a guy AND a girl, inside AND out. im so jealous...aisudfhurshflaiuerhf­ldskfh

  • The way I see it is....it's not that I'm not good enough or pretty enough or blahblah. But that.....the person I like may not be the person I need. I want him but he may can't give me what I need and eventually....if we were to hook up...it would just bring me down and I would end up losing myself anyway. That's what happened with my first love. But I eventually learned to stop hating him and realize all the life lessons I got out of it.

  • It was really nice of you to post this video :) I'm not really a big holiday celebrator, but for some reason the holidays seem to bring up a lot of feelings of loneliness for people if they don't have anyone to share them with. The thoughts that you expressed in your video can be taken to Heart at any time of the year, of course. Also, I personally did not find anything that you said to be cheesy :) It's a really relevant and poignant message. Thanks again, and hope you feel better soon!

    ~ Jen

  • so Chris has really sexy arms:)

  • THANK YOU

    xxx <3

  • I love you chris 3

  • died when he said. "i'm with you"

  • exactly what I'm going through right now, thank you Chris :) You sounded so sincere in this video that i felt like we had a heart to heart talk only between the two of us :P

  • Aww this made me smile! Im going through this right now....

  • Thank you.

    

  • I've been in love so deeply it hurts for over a year

    Though he doesn't love me back anymore.

    It's an awful situation to be in for so long.I'm told so often "Just stop loving him,then.move on"

    It's not that simple. You can't help who you fall in love with,no matter how badly it hurts.

    You're always going to have that "What did I do wrong,what is wrong with me?" mentality.

    Love can tear a person apart,as well as put them back together.

  • i'm sending you all the care in the world.Be proud that you know the definition of real love,its not an emotion that just fades&passes as the structure of it was not mere infatuation.don't be sad over it as not only will you have new love in your life but you also know what true bliss love is&will never need to question your feelings.be proud of all your love never feel ashamed of it..even if the other person is now"changed",its their loss & they lie to themselves to not feel their real feelings

  • deep and indie

  • So true. 

  • that gave me a feel

  • I JUST went through this not too long ago. I was in love with the guy too, lol. Sucked.

  • It could also be, that we cannot see the true self of the other person and maybe there is a bigger wisdom, that this person is not attracted by us. And acutally it is perfect.

    I once was not liked by a woman, i did like, but I ignored a bad sensation connected to her.

    Then I talked to her and she started to like me, it seemed. In the end she was a dark person, who sent me dark energies and wanted to harm me with voodo and stuff. So....I think it is always good to not pull things into our lifes.

  • woah he looks so different

  • @pinkfurryhat you've JUST noticed this?! where have you been?

  • @disney1nickjluvr45 i heard he stopped with youtube so i forgot about him until my friend put this on fb yesterday :P

  • God, Chris, seriously....you don't even understand how much I truly needed to hear this at this exact moment in time. I am going through such a rough time right now, watching my ex/first love/someone I dated on and off from age 14-20, watching them fall in love with someone else for the first time. It kills me, but you always know the right things to say to know that I'm not alot. Thank you, love you, been watching your videos from day 1

  • I needed this Chris <3

  • You give such amazing advice!  Thank you for being there for me Chris :'3

  • That line wasn't cheesy... Ur an awesome guy

  • 9gag brought me here :)

  • Y U HAVE TO BE A HUNK AND GAY AT THE SAME TIME?? OMG This is torture :((

  • I liked someone, for 5 years, being around him made me feel like he might someday turn to me, and realize how I'm perfect for him. he was too good for me, but I guess I'm too good for him, so i stopped and left that world i believe we shared, and now I'm alone... searching...

  • Whaaaaaat.... The voice does NOT match the look! I actually found him a tiny bit good looking but I need to keep him on mute just to keep the positive attitude.

  • amongst all the crazy bullshit and drama, i stick around because of videos like this. your honesty is all the entertainment i need, boy, girl, man, woman, doesn't fucking matter. you are one special person, chris.

  • this kinda brought tears to my eyes..i'm in a situation like this....

  • thanks Chris, you always seem to talk about things that are so relevant to me at the time

  • all i want is to just be your friend omg xD

  • You're gorgeous Chris! Hope things work out xxx

  • This helped me alot. Thank you so much.

  • cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    

  • 0:05 someone realize his underarm hair? o.O

  • First time I see your video after years ..

    And you made me cry ..: |

    Because you're so right

  • Thank you Chris, this vid is just what I needed right now.

  • do you remember the video called '' freak of nature '' don't turn into that agai please ... beggin beggin ^-^

  • Wow! Blonde or brunette, just HOT! Become an actor please.

  • why all gay guys are FREAKING handsome and sexy. i hate it. Y U NO BE LESS SEXY!

    sincerly

    a straight girl

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  • @delgree Trust me, not all gay guys are sexy.. ha..

  • @JareBear1793 This is so true....

  • :(...

  • That awkward moment when he's talking and you don't hear actual words because you're too focused on how god damn friggin sexy he is X)

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  • Thanks. Your words really comfort!

  • You are so f***ing beautiful waaaa *____*

  • this was beautiful. Story of My LIFE

  • I needed this right now :(

  • You, Chris, are so mind-blowing, breath-taking, lip-biting gorgeous. Oh, I was listening for sure. But your beauty just kept on distracting me <3

  • Yep.  *sighs* Going through that right now. Thanks, Chris.

  • I love you chris. You've been giving such great advice and you always speak your mind.

  • Wow.. I needed that, thank you.

  • i really dont mean to be rude in any way, but do u have a vagina or a penis??? i mean im not trying to make fun of you, or pry into your personal life, i was just curious.

  • WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK?? I HAVEN'T WATCH HIS VIDEOS IN YEARS LOOK HOW HE HAS CHANGED!!!

  • @luanswan2002 lmao! he looks good right!!!

  • Is it just me or does he look way to normal to talk so weird?

  • you no what Kris - all the way from scotland. your fucking so funny but say some really good points i think people dont get what your saying all the time. which is sad. X

  • Thank you for the thoughts.

  • That made me feel a hell of a lot better.. 3 thank you :)

  • i needed that. thank you chris.

  • thanks chris that helps me feel alot better

  • im gonna subscribe right now (but i dont know why) just wanted to get that setteled

  • Thank you, Chris.

    'twas a great help x

  • you are f**king amazing.

    thank you.

    ♥♥♥

  • i love you..

  • i shed tears watching this

  • I hope its for the best... Doesn't seem like it is though. I'm not of the opinion anything is "meant to be"or not....

  • ~~subscribe

  • GAY WHORE!!! ROT IN HELL!!!

  • @Palmettoboy1051 You should rot in hell, for being so rude.

    Now GTFO.

  • i feel you on this one!! I just love this rant =)

  • You are an amazing person and u just opened my eyes and made me cry ;( but that's ok because I learned a lesson! Fan for life!! :)

  • Im going thru this, and this helps... A lot. -3

  • Thank u chris my best friend has been going through somthing like this and Iv been trying to help her as much as possible u give such good advice :-)

  • Your meant to be with me lol lol ;-0

  • Oh Chris I love you baby mwaaaaaah xo

  • Your Christmas tree is so cute haha xD

  • Oh dear,it looks like you've been crying. I hope not. :(

    And for everyone who's been bullying Chris,you wouldn't dare say any of that to his face,it's quite adorable how you're all hiding behind your computer.

    FYI,Chris is a decent human being infact,he's a lovely human being giving such good advice,to everyone and supporting back all of his followers!

    Chris,don't let the haters get you down,you're amazing at what you do. <3

  • -3

  • i agree totally , love you

  • Great channel

  • Chris...you are beautiful. Just so you know

  • Chris....youn

  • well do you read these things or is this how you make money? You are cute and smart someone it the world will thing you worth having maybe even is typing to you but. There is always the But and that is the kick in the heart. But come to Abilene Texas area and look me up!!

  • You are so real <3 you

  • God, dude, I wish I had discovered you YEARS ago. You're brilliant, you're genuine... Dude, you rock. Sometimes relationships work, sometimes they don't, but when they don't, rely on your friends when they try to comfort you. It took me a long time (without friends, but still) to realize that, and now that I have, I'm grateful and a healthier human being. And dude, you have at least a few thousand people who love and support you. Hang in there, Chris!! And merry christmakuh Kwanza holiday times!

  • I haven't watched your videos in a while but you look awesome! And this is the story of my life. Good luckk.

  • Story of my life.

  • Your last two videos have pierced me right to the heart. How do you always know what to say??

  • i'm crying whilst i watch this... it is my fault :(

  • @coolry20 bitch you arent god so shut the fuck up ppl lik you iggnorant acting lik 3yr olds with no perspective so have a blessed fucking night asshole! GAY PRIDE

  • :/

  • Have you noticed your very attractive? :}

  • This did mk me feel Btr...sounds like my life

  • hugs mr :)

  • if u dont mind me asking chris how old are u ??

  • I swear I'm going through something like this right now. This helps a lot. Thanks, Chris!

  • this made me feel a lil better cuz i've pretty much always liked someone who didnt like me back. and right now i like this girl but im not 100% sure if she likes me or not and now im afraid of getting rejected cuz its happened so many times. idk what to do really.

  • You're not famous, Chris

  • sweet <3 .

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  • its sad when gays cant have relatsonships they feel they are not "goodllooking nuff" it show the lifestyle in genreal is very just looks based and no relatsonship last built on that.

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  • Thank you CC!

  • u can be my boo....huntie

  • Chris, I often want to just hug you when I watch your videos. <3 and HUGS sweetpea.

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