You can be forgiven of the decision that you made. Moreover, you should ask God for eternal forgiveness through applying the death and resurrection of Jesus to your life of sin within the quietness of your bedroom tonight. As an unrepentant sinner myself, I made this decision around 15 years ago. This is the most important decision that you could ever make. - Romans 10:9-10
I had an abortion because I was raped..and I thought I would be better off getting an abortion..I didn't want the baby to not have a father..or find out his father was a rapist..but now I regret it everyday..I could've given that baby more than enough love :-( ugh. I wish I would've seen this video before
always been pro choice on abortion and said if i got pregnant by accidentbefore i had a stable life and able to provide for the child i would have one.until the decision i made became real for me im 20 and had one 5 months ago and although i was lucky enough to have support of my partner i have never had a bigger regret in my life. any time abortion is mentioned or i think about it i uncontrollably burst into tears, i still believe its the individuals choice but what i did was wrong for me.
omg. im a pretty big guy, with every death or break up or any major loss in my life ive never felt sad or cried. this videos 3minutes and 54 seconds long and made me tear up,
omg. im a pretty big guy, with every death or break up or any major loss in my life ive never felt sad or cried. this videos 3minutes and 54 seconds long and made me tear up,
I wish I had seen this video a week ago now I feel like you half dead inside for ever the only thing I want is for God to forgive me please Lord give me one more chance!
Im super sad as i read your story I wish that all the women that are in dough's about abortion could look at this video and realize that what they think of doing is not right and no matter what situation there in at the end they will regret it and that for ever will be marked by this may God forgive our stupid and ignorant mistakes
she said where does it say in the bible that abortion is a sin.....well where does it say in the bible that God created abortion? It says thou shall not kill---and that we have a soul at the moment of conception....so you do the math!!!!
If you want to know why some people have negative views of abortion you can watch the movie The Silent Scream. It isn't just a word or a solution but a procedure and a process that effects women emotionally as well as physically. We need to study the topic to better help women who have had abortions or are facing them. If abortion is a viable solution worth defending then watching this video will only further validate those views. Gaining knowledge makes choices easier whatever side you take.
My mother aborted a child after my brother was born but before I came along. It has been 40 years since she made that choice. She still sheds tears of regret over her decision. She tried to make peace with herself by becoming a councilor at Pregnancy Life Care Center but she still struggles with the loss of that child. For our family, abortion is certainly not a solution to an already sad or terrible situation. It just added to the list of my mom's regrets that made her HAVE to make a choice.
Just put your kid up for adoption and give it to someone who CANT have kids and would love to have one :) Abortion isn't the way to go. You WILL later on regret it. I promise.
Not for you to kill it. Your sinning when you kill that child. It's funny cause the kid could have been one of the most sucessful children in the world. That child could have saved others lives. Instead you wanna kill it cause your not ready to have a baby or your scared of what everyone will say? NO! If your not ready then don't have sex. There is no excuse to kill your child that hasn't even got to see the world yet. A child will be the most precious thing you have <3 DONT REGRET IT!!!
@CheechBerry says: f your not ready then don't have sex.
~~~~~~~~~~ Billion of people have sex everyday with NO unwanted pregnacies, and here YOU are telling everyone to stop it....just in case?? Thats NOT a fear of pregnancy, thats a fear of human sexuality. get help for your problem
@CheechBerry says: A child will be the most precious thing you have
~~~~~~~~~~~ What the hell is wrong with you?? Do you live in Disney World where everything is perfect??? All children are NOT precious to their parents, and unwanted ones are highest on that list, and millions even starve to death. Start loving the kids more than you hate abortion
There is no reason for abortion. None what so ever. I know, Some people may think that is the right thing to do. In reality, just think.. Your mother didn't abort you.. She kept you. She raised you and look where you are today (: I don't care who you are. You should never have an abortion. I believe if you have one you should be put in jail for murder. Plain as that. The child in your tummy is innocent. It hasn't even had it's first breathe.... God put that child in your tummy for a reason.
BTW to the poster of this video - I give you thanks - a place to seek the validation I had been seeking for 30 years - Blessings from the Great Spirit - whose breath gives life to all ........
Not everyone regrets their abortion, and to be perfectly honest, nobody should to begin w/. A true message of hope is this: Women everywhere- you are better thanw aht you have let yourself think. You are NOT a 'murderer', you killed no child- only a devleoping fetus. The fetus had no soul, feelings, memories or emotions. It was physically impossible for it to- people are more than the body, we are the soul and memories- understand this and let it go. You don't need a child to prove your 'worth'.
@ryddelwearsahat@ryddelwearsahat - 35 years ago under social pressure - RACISM - I was pressured into making a "free choice" 33 years later I had a full blown PTSD psychotic episode with other contributing factors that wound me up in the hospital for 6 weeks - due to terms like fetus and comments alike I felt unable to grieve - I did not abort a fetus - I took my babies life - now I can grieve and hopefully and eventually forgive myself for taking his life - for me it was the wrong choice
@92359hg You have my genuine, honest condolences. Noone should ever suffer or be forced or manipulated into anything. That still does not change the fact for others- like myself. I don't think you deserve to grieve or suffer- I think you should heal and move on- you are better than that. A lot of women are, and society uses their own personal opinions, religion, and prejudices and social agendas to bully and devalue women through sexuality and motherhood in twisted ways. You deserve better.
@ryddelwearsahat thank you for the kind words . in my circumstances however when this all happened I did not grieve for the loss of what could have been ... fathers .... death or for myself - the times did not allow it - woman had just won the war to "free choice" and they did want no record of casualties such as me and no one would listen - or to my grief of the loss of the dad - I could not even cry at his funeral - lots of racism - back them my condolences were your better off without him
@ryddelwearsahat - women should not regret - with all due respect that does not sound like pro-choice - but rather pro-abortion period - you want women to accept your argument - you may perhaps want to be open minded enough to accept the other side of the argument - most men I have discussed that matter with including my son whom means the world to me because I had been told I was sterile after the abortion - say mom- you could have aborted me - why did you not do so - how do you answer to this?
@92359hg I'm not pro-abortion, just so you know. I'm very pro-choice. I don't want women to accept my argument, I want women to have better respect for themselves and to not spend a lifetime hating themselves, beating themselves up, and dehumanizing themselves for a simple mistake. If it affects you and hurts you enough to affect every aspect of your life, then that is obviously a bad thing. Yes, it is okay to hurt and grieve, but NOT to let something control your life. You deserve better -c
-c from yourself. I do understand, quite well, the prolife side and the regrets. I just don't accept them as the final answer or the only answer. I've seen women who have had abortions get emotionally abused and 'told' how they 'really' feel and think, and I've been given the same vomit, and as a victim of emotional abuse, I know what things like that can do to a person. If you get told you're ugly or stupid long enough by enough people, you might believe it. I'm not at all saying that this -c
-c is the only reason women regret their abortions and grieve, but it is a big factor in it. Whatever your reasons are, if it hurts and affects you this much, then it was obviously the wrong choice- a mistake, and a bad one, but it is nothing to destroy yourself over or to spend your life pining for. NOBODY deserves that. I don't know how you should answer that question, but I know how i will answer my child if/when they ever ask me about my abortion and why they weren't aborted. I'll tell -c
-c them that I wanted to give them everything, and be ready and happy to welcome them into the world, and that I did not have that option the first time. That both my life and theirs would be in danger, and that I wanted my child to have everything I ever dreamed of and was denied. That's why I waited to have you until I was ready and until you would be safe, healthy, and live a supportive loving life w/o fear or hate or abuse. A lot of prolife people I have met seem to be of the opinion -c
@ryddelwearsahat - some very good points - .... and what you are saying is very legitimate and in my case very relevant - I expect a great deal of my "rational" is unfortunately and perhaps still may always be based on a great deal of emotion - which in fact for me is not a bad thing - as it made me more acutely aware as to maintain the mindset - that never again shall I make such a life and self defining decision without first educating myself as the "facts" as they would apply to myself ...
@92359hg Thanks. It' good to see another educated, understanding individual. I wish people would push for better education, more effective and SAFER BC, and so on.. but it seems pro'life'rs don't support that either..
-c that a woman does not know love or happiness until she has a child, and that prochoice women are not happy or fulfilled. That a woman's 'place' is wherever there are children, end of story. I've been given that argument loads of times. It disgusts me that a woman only has value if she has a child on her hip and a man to decide who she is and what she does and does not do. Not every prolifer feels this way, but a vast majority of them do. THEY have no respect, only judgement.
@ryddelwearsahat I THINK A WOMAN ONLY HAS VALUE IF SHE CAN FUCK A MAN WITHOUT PROTECTION! WOMEN BELONG TO MEN, MEN HAVE NO CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR ACTIONS ANYMORE, AND WOMAN ALLOW THIS, AND HENCE, ABORTION IS A THRIVING INDUSTRY!
As a mother who has expierenced an abortion NOT sedated, and a mother of children who where born, i still believe in Pro-choice. The path of an individual is just that; individual, with circumstances, opportunity, success and regret. Educate young people the true purpose of a penis and vagina is to create a baby, the pleasure is a temporary stimulus. Be smart and proactive with your reporductive health so you dont have to make a choice when presented with an "unwanted" pregnancy.
@ryddelwearsahat hmmmmm where does it state you need a child to prove your worth? and again you want others to be open minded and respect "free choice" and yet you condemn those who do not share your opinions .......
Be assured that death is NOT permanent; that there is life after and that your baby, who was innocent and learned not hatred, loves you and prays for your healing even now. Know that God loves you and can forgive you,....if you ask.
I am against abortion and I never plan on having one. This video was beautiful and I will keep the women who had gone through this in prayer. Babies don't deserve to die. 5/5
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You can be forgiven of the decision that you made. Moreover, you should ask God for eternal forgiveness through applying the death and resurrection of Jesus to your life of sin within the quietness of your bedroom tonight. As an unrepentant sinner myself, I made this decision around 15 years ago. This is the most important decision that you could ever make. - Romans 10:9-10
paularenas26 1 month ago
I had an abortion because I was raped..and I thought I would be better off getting an abortion..I didn't want the baby to not have a father..or find out his father was a rapist..but now I regret it everyday..I could've given that baby more than enough love :-( ugh. I wish I would've seen this video before
Nicky89Springer 3 months ago 4
always been pro choice on abortion and said if i got pregnant by accidentbefore i had a stable life and able to provide for the child i would have one.until the decision i made became real for me im 20 and had one 5 months ago and although i was lucky enough to have support of my partner i have never had a bigger regret in my life. any time abortion is mentioned or i think about it i uncontrollably burst into tears, i still believe its the individuals choice but what i did was wrong for me.
sophieh26 3 months ago 2
omg. im a pretty big guy, with every death or break up or any major loss in my life ive never felt sad or cried. this videos 3minutes and 54 seconds long and made me tear up,
BikinPenguins 4 months ago 2
omg. im a pretty big guy, with every death or break up or any major loss in my life ive never felt sad or cried. this videos 3minutes and 54 seconds long and made me tear up,
BikinPenguins 4 months ago
A baby is a angel from God! ;)
ddaisy8 5 months ago
For every woman who regret their abortion; there is a woman who was glad she had one.
domisthebomb09 5 months ago
I wish I had seen this video a week ago now I feel like you half dead inside for ever the only thing I want is for God to forgive me please Lord give me one more chance!
eri9390 6 months ago
Im super sad as i read your story I wish that all the women that are in dough's about abortion could look at this video and realize that what they think of doing is not right and no matter what situation there in at the end they will regret it and that for ever will be marked by this may God forgive our stupid and ignorant mistakes
eri9390 6 months ago
she said where does it say in the bible that abortion is a sin.....well where does it say in the bible that God created abortion? It says thou shall not kill---and that we have a soul at the moment of conception....so you do the math!!!!
1hotgreeneyedgirl 6 months ago
@1hotgreeneyedgirl THUS SHALL NOT KILL - Science says conception is the start of human life.
kevinjjfr 6 months ago 3
@kevinjjfr your comment makes no sense at all. Just sayin'. And uh if it's between God and Science---Imma go with God on this one!!!!
1hotgreeneyedgirl 3 months ago 4
abourtion is wrong because your killing a kid that dersevers to live if the mther dont want the kid put the kid up for aduction
carlosrocks06 8 months ago
If you want to know why some people have negative views of abortion you can watch the movie The Silent Scream. It isn't just a word or a solution but a procedure and a process that effects women emotionally as well as physically. We need to study the topic to better help women who have had abortions or are facing them. If abortion is a viable solution worth defending then watching this video will only further validate those views. Gaining knowledge makes choices easier whatever side you take.
ncgirl76 8 months ago
My mother aborted a child after my brother was born but before I came along. It has been 40 years since she made that choice. She still sheds tears of regret over her decision. She tried to make peace with herself by becoming a councilor at Pregnancy Life Care Center but she still struggles with the loss of that child. For our family, abortion is certainly not a solution to an already sad or terrible situation. It just added to the list of my mom's regrets that made her HAVE to make a choice.
ncgirl76 8 months ago 3
Just put your kid up for adoption and give it to someone who CANT have kids and would love to have one :) Abortion isn't the way to go. You WILL later on regret it. I promise.
CheechBerry 10 months ago
Not for you to kill it. Your sinning when you kill that child. It's funny cause the kid could have been one of the most sucessful children in the world. That child could have saved others lives. Instead you wanna kill it cause your not ready to have a baby or your scared of what everyone will say? NO! If your not ready then don't have sex. There is no excuse to kill your child that hasn't even got to see the world yet. A child will be the most precious thing you have <3 DONT REGRET IT!!!
CheechBerry 10 months ago
@CheechBerry says: Your sinning when you kill that child.
~~~~~~~~~~~
Yopure a liar in the name of God. Show us where in the bible it says abortion is a sin.
Sueezee1 9 months ago
@CheechBerry says: It's funny cause the kid could have been one of the most sucessful children in the world
~~~~~~~~~~~ You idiot...it could be a mass murder or a child molester, too. How old are you??
Sueezee1 9 months ago
@CheechBerry says: f your not ready then don't have sex.
~~~~~~~~~~ Billion of people have sex everyday with NO unwanted pregnacies, and here YOU are telling everyone to stop it....just in case?? Thats NOT a fear of pregnancy, thats a fear of human sexuality. get help for your problem
Sueezee1 9 months ago
@CheechBerry says: A child will be the most precious thing you have
~~~~~~~~~~~ What the hell is wrong with you?? Do you live in Disney World where everything is perfect??? All children are NOT precious to their parents, and unwanted ones are highest on that list, and millions even starve to death. Start loving the kids more than you hate abortion
Sueezee1 9 months ago
There is no reason for abortion. None what so ever. I know, Some people may think that is the right thing to do. In reality, just think.. Your mother didn't abort you.. She kept you. She raised you and look where you are today (: I don't care who you are. You should never have an abortion. I believe if you have one you should be put in jail for murder. Plain as that. The child in your tummy is innocent. It hasn't even had it's first breathe.... God put that child in your tummy for a reason.
CheechBerry 10 months ago
@CheechBerry says: Your mother didn't abort you.. She kept you. She raised you and look where you are today
~~~~~~~~~~~ AND< if we had been aborted, we wouldnt give a damn, would we? You are lacking in critical thinking skills!!
Sueezee1 9 months ago
@CheechBerry says: God put that child in your tummy for a reason.
~~~~~~~~~~~~ God made abortion possible for a reason.
Sueezee1 9 months ago
BTW to the poster of this video - I give you thanks - a place to seek the validation I had been seeking for 30 years - Blessings from the Great Spirit - whose breath gives life to all ........
92359hg 11 months ago
Not everyone regrets their abortion, and to be perfectly honest, nobody should to begin w/. A true message of hope is this: Women everywhere- you are better thanw aht you have let yourself think. You are NOT a 'murderer', you killed no child- only a devleoping fetus. The fetus had no soul, feelings, memories or emotions. It was physically impossible for it to- people are more than the body, we are the soul and memories- understand this and let it go. You don't need a child to prove your 'worth'.
ryddelwearsahat 1 year ago
@ryddelwearsahat @ryddelwearsahat - 35 years ago under social pressure - RACISM - I was pressured into making a "free choice" 33 years later I had a full blown PTSD psychotic episode with other contributing factors that wound me up in the hospital for 6 weeks - due to terms like fetus and comments alike I felt unable to grieve - I did not abort a fetus - I took my babies life - now I can grieve and hopefully and eventually forgive myself for taking his life - for me it was the wrong choice
92359hg 11 months ago
@92359hg You have my genuine, honest condolences. Noone should ever suffer or be forced or manipulated into anything. That still does not change the fact for others- like myself. I don't think you deserve to grieve or suffer- I think you should heal and move on- you are better than that. A lot of women are, and society uses their own personal opinions, religion, and prejudices and social agendas to bully and devalue women through sexuality and motherhood in twisted ways. You deserve better.
ryddelwearsahat 11 months ago
@ryddelwearsahat thank you for the kind words . in my circumstances however when this all happened I did not grieve for the loss of what could have been ... fathers .... death or for myself - the times did not allow it - woman had just won the war to "free choice" and they did want no record of casualties such as me and no one would listen - or to my grief of the loss of the dad - I could not even cry at his funeral - lots of racism - back them my condolences were your better off without him
92359hg 11 months ago
@ryddelwearsahat - women should not regret - with all due respect that does not sound like pro-choice - but rather pro-abortion period - you want women to accept your argument - you may perhaps want to be open minded enough to accept the other side of the argument - most men I have discussed that matter with including my son whom means the world to me because I had been told I was sterile after the abortion - say mom- you could have aborted me - why did you not do so - how do you answer to this?
92359hg 11 months ago
@92359hg I'm not pro-abortion, just so you know. I'm very pro-choice. I don't want women to accept my argument, I want women to have better respect for themselves and to not spend a lifetime hating themselves, beating themselves up, and dehumanizing themselves for a simple mistake. If it affects you and hurts you enough to affect every aspect of your life, then that is obviously a bad thing. Yes, it is okay to hurt and grieve, but NOT to let something control your life. You deserve better -c
ryddelwearsahat 11 months ago
-c from yourself. I do understand, quite well, the prolife side and the regrets. I just don't accept them as the final answer or the only answer. I've seen women who have had abortions get emotionally abused and 'told' how they 'really' feel and think, and I've been given the same vomit, and as a victim of emotional abuse, I know what things like that can do to a person. If you get told you're ugly or stupid long enough by enough people, you might believe it. I'm not at all saying that this -c
ryddelwearsahat 11 months ago
-c is the only reason women regret their abortions and grieve, but it is a big factor in it. Whatever your reasons are, if it hurts and affects you this much, then it was obviously the wrong choice- a mistake, and a bad one, but it is nothing to destroy yourself over or to spend your life pining for. NOBODY deserves that. I don't know how you should answer that question, but I know how i will answer my child if/when they ever ask me about my abortion and why they weren't aborted. I'll tell -c
ryddelwearsahat 11 months ago
-c them that I wanted to give them everything, and be ready and happy to welcome them into the world, and that I did not have that option the first time. That both my life and theirs would be in danger, and that I wanted my child to have everything I ever dreamed of and was denied. That's why I waited to have you until I was ready and until you would be safe, healthy, and live a supportive loving life w/o fear or hate or abuse. A lot of prolife people I have met seem to be of the opinion -c
ryddelwearsahat 11 months ago
@ryddelwearsahat - some very good points - .... and what you are saying is very legitimate and in my case very relevant - I expect a great deal of my "rational" is unfortunately and perhaps still may always be based on a great deal of emotion - which in fact for me is not a bad thing - as it made me more acutely aware as to maintain the mindset - that never again shall I make such a life and self defining decision without first educating myself as the "facts" as they would apply to myself ...
92359hg 11 months ago
@92359hg Thanks. It' good to see another educated, understanding individual. I wish people would push for better education, more effective and SAFER BC, and so on.. but it seems pro'life'rs don't support that either..
ryddelwearsahat 10 months ago
-c that a woman does not know love or happiness until she has a child, and that prochoice women are not happy or fulfilled. That a woman's 'place' is wherever there are children, end of story. I've been given that argument loads of times. It disgusts me that a woman only has value if she has a child on her hip and a man to decide who she is and what she does and does not do. Not every prolifer feels this way, but a vast majority of them do. THEY have no respect, only judgement.
ryddelwearsahat 11 months ago
@ryddelwearsahat I THINK A WOMAN ONLY HAS VALUE IF SHE CAN FUCK A MAN WITHOUT PROTECTION! WOMEN BELONG TO MEN, MEN HAVE NO CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR ACTIONS ANYMORE, AND WOMAN ALLOW THIS, AND HENCE, ABORTION IS A THRIVING INDUSTRY!
carmel350 11 months ago
As a mother who has expierenced an abortion NOT sedated, and a mother of children who where born, i still believe in Pro-choice. The path of an individual is just that; individual, with circumstances, opportunity, success and regret. Educate young people the true purpose of a penis and vagina is to create a baby, the pleasure is a temporary stimulus. Be smart and proactive with your reporductive health so you dont have to make a choice when presented with an "unwanted" pregnancy.
mom22many09 10 months ago
@ryddelwearsahat hmmmmm where does it state you need a child to prove your worth? and again you want others to be open minded and respect "free choice" and yet you condemn those who do not share your opinions .......
92359hg 11 months ago
Be assured that death is NOT permanent; that there is life after and that your baby, who was innocent and learned not hatred, loves you and prays for your healing even now. Know that God loves you and can forgive you,....if you ask.
pboboige 1 year ago
This is a beautiful video--it actually works in silence as well...
bluepuppyboy 1 year ago
I have performed over 10000 and it has madee a rich man
HowardSternn 1 year ago
@HowardSternn What - frontal lobotomies or what - to get even for the one performed on you?
92359hg 11 months ago
I am against abortion and I never plan on having one. This video was beautiful and I will keep the women who had gone through this in prayer. Babies don't deserve to die. 5/5
MrsSkywalker191 1 year ago