Matt Chandler - Defining Masculinity (Part 1)

[embracingreality]

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If your a Christian single man finding your not only disillusioned with the concept of modern marriage as it now stands in western culture but even more disillusioned with westernized, feminist indoctrinated Christian women the bible has some great advice that you'll never here in church.

For example the words of Paul in 1 Cor 7:38 "The man who marries the virgin does well but he who marries her not does even better."

Truer words have never been spoken.

[dandyd032000]

Pastor has some great advice for men how to be better gentlemen; but masculinity may have been a poor choice of words; most men are naturally masculine

[karlsmith00]

men don't believe women are equal to them.

that's why males have discriminated against women for so long, and continue to do so. you know, upstanding christian men used to debate whether or not women even have souls. this was, of course, during the period that men burned thousands of women at the stake for being witches.

males are far more violent than females. that's probably biggest distinction and it's why we have so many problems in the world. men need to be reigned in, not given power.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Lol. I understand you now! You're just another angry feminist troll. And here I thought you were just mentally challenged, when in fact your pathology is 1000 times more savage and more terrifying. Men are more violent then woman, no argument there, but if you think women are better than men or more morally upright then men then you are sorely mistaken.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp mentally challenged? yes, women are better than men. like i said, we're not the ones going around committing mass rape in the congo, mass murder in syria, or mass theft on wall street. men create problems in the world, from bosnia to liberia to rwanda. women pick up the pieces.

you don't know the first fucking thing about it, because you're a deluded bitch.

btw, yes i am "the end" on religion. religions was invented by males for males to get money and power. that's it.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Spoken like a feminist drone. I do agree with you that men are evil and I'm a man. I also believe that women are just as evil. No sex is better or worse then the other. Men are the dominate sex, which is why they appear to be far more evil than woman. But if roles were reversed and feminist's like you were put in charge of things. You would probably start castrating men and burning them in ovens by the millions. It's just about who has power.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp spoken like the typical, stupid, ignorant, confident male. men APPEAR more evil because they're DOMINANT? no, stupid. men are evil because they're evil.

when women are put in charge, we do not do the same thing. countries that have more women in charge are far more peaceful, stable, and successful. we know this. the world economic forum studies it every year. sweden, denmark, norway, australia, new zealand are the best places to live. WOMEN DON'T ACT LIKE ANIMALS.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 OMG. I bet you're actually stupid enough to believe that if women ran the world there would be no wars right? lol. Confident male? I'm not the one who was arrogant enough to claim that I was the end all on religion. Btw, not all religions are male centric. Just fwi.Woman don't act like animals? What planet do you live on? Are you seriously saying that women as a sex are devoid of evil? I could totally make the argument that men are better then women.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp yes, that's right. when women are in charge, society is more peaceful. this isn't opinion, it's fact.

all religions are for males, because god was created by males to get waht males want--power and money. 

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Once again, not all religions are MALE CENTRIC.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp YES, THEY ARE ALL MALE CENTRIC. because males came up with this shit to get what they want. no religion out there started by a woman states that she can get away with the crap that men do.

you confused, stupid bitch. you mean you want to brag about the thousands of years men kept women out of work, out of school, and wasting their lives picking up after them? you're right, we should have invented the wheel during that time!

i would pay to watch you get punched. moron.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Ha ha! You're proving my point. Time and time again you've wished violence upon me. If you had it your way you would probably kill me. And women aren't capable of evil? You're just as savage as I am. Oh boo hoo. But women didn't invent the wheel men did. If you still believe that men are evil and women are pure and holy then just look in the mirror, sweetheart. Like I said before, then by that logic then I guess women deserve to be kept down if they're so weak...

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp i didn't prove your "point," you confused bitch. because you don't have one.

you'd get punched in the face by another guy if it was to happen. i would pay to watch it. people pay to watch idiots get beaten up, you're asking for it. i'm not a violent person, i've never hit anyone in my life.

I USED THE WHEEL AS A JOKE, YOU DUMB BITCH. you just skipped over the part about how men kept women out of everything, and we had to fight for every little fucking thing, and still are.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Of course, you wouldn't do the violence but you would condone it, which is just as bad. Men and women are both evil.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp i'm done here.

it's not my job to teach ignorant swine how to be decent human beings. i'm tired of pigs and their retarded inventions bullshit, and women are just as bad bullshit.

you're probably some unemployed fat fuck who lives off benefits supplied by my taxes. get off your fat ass and get a job, you worthless dead weight.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 It's most likely the other way around. I'm probably paying for you to stuff your face with food while you fool around on Youtube. Ha ha! I love this world...

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Personally I believe that men and women are equal. We are both necessary to create life. We are both capable of good and evil. To claim that one sex is better or worse then the other is retarded.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp when men are put in charge, you get the most violent, corrupt, unstable countries in the world. the middle east and north africa are this way, especially because of islam, the worst religion on earth because it's really a political ideology for men. just watch the news.

this isn't speculation. this has been studied. when women have power in society, things improve. we don't commit mass rape and genocide of men or anyone. when men run wild, they destroy society. now stfu.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Ha ha! I just thought of something else. A MAN or a MALE invented Youtube. If you're using a keyboard you should probably know that a MAN invented that too....

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp jesus fucking christ. what is it with you pigs and crying about INVENTIONS every fucking time? do you idiots pass out scripts, or what? what the hell is this?

you want a list of female inventors, you dumb bitch? ask a soldier how they feel about kevlar, pretty important invention. and that keyboard you're typing on was assembled by a chinese girl.

and what have you invented, idiot? NOTHING. maybe 0.5% of men are productive enough to contribute. you're not.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Lolz. That doesn't change the fact that all major inventions were created by men. That's funny how you mentioned passing out scripts, because I was about to ask you the same thing. Everything you've said up to this point has been out of the feminist handbook. So do you cunts pass out scripts or what?

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp btw, the only reason you're breathing right now is because a woman carried you around for months, went through painful labor to bring you into the world, breastfed you, and kept you alive for years.

too bad she didn't just stick a hanger into her vagina, then i wouldn't have to educate your ignorant ass right now.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Lol. You're funny. That's part of my point both sexes are necessary. Men are not better then women and women are not better then men.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp you have no point, because you're a worthless talking dick who should have been aborted.

women are better than men. end of story. you don't know anything about feminism. you don't know anything about what i'm saying, because you're ignorant. you don't know that when women have more power in society, society improves. when men have more power, society collapses.

you're a stupid piece of shit who should shut the fuck up. this is why men are the minority in college now.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Men are better than women. Every house, building, skyscraper, and landmark is there because a Man put it there. Every society in the world is there because Men came and destroyed the society that was already there(that was also built by men) and built it. Every major human achievement has been done by men, from landing on the moon to building the pyramids. Every invention you take for granted was given to you by men. From the light bulb the fucking i phone.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 What have women contributed to society? Anything you come up with I can come up with something better that was done by a man. Now you could say that women haven't contributed that much to human history because men are evil and have been keeping women down for centuries. To which I would say then they deserve it. That's right. If they are so weak that we have been able to dominate them and keep them down for centuries then I guess they deserve it.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 Women deserve to be raped, murdered, and dominated because they are weak. Men are better then women. Just, FWI.. I don't believe any of this. Don't you see how retarded that is? Me claiming that men are better then women is just as ridiculous as you claiming that women are better then men. Both sexes are capable of great good and great evil.

[karlsmith00]

and just so everyone knows, there is no god. there are no gods, no zeus, no odin, no vishnu, no allah. just like there is no tooth fairy or santa claus.

god didn't create men. men (and by that i mean MALES) created god. males wrote the bible and came up with all of this garbage because they're greedy pigs who want power and money. that is the point of all religion.

how convenient--god wants men to be in charge! of course it's not what men want, they just happen to know god wants it. stfu.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 And you're the end all on religion are you?

[karlsmith00]

definition number one--GET OFF YOUR FAT ASSES AND GET JOBS, BOYS.

you were meant to work, not play call of duty all fucking day.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 I can do BOTH, MUTHER FU**ER!!!!

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 You have mental issues.. I work full time and I am attending college full time. I will have a future. I also play video games in my spare time, and I've got a news flash for you dickhead. Men are going to commit crimes no matter how hard they work. Human's are savages and you are a prick.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp i know that men will commit crimes, of course. but my point is when men are worn out with work (which they were meant for, and they need) crimes rates will decrease because they're tired. domestic violence rates shot through the roof when men lost jobs in the recession, because they just sit at home and beat up their families. humans aren't savages. men are savages, women' aren't the problem.

btw, junior college doesn't count. now get back to your fantasy football scores.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 I don't follow sports. ;What do you mean college doesn't count? Doesn't count as what? What scale are you using to determine what counts and what doesn't? LOL. The recession caused crime rates to increase not because men had nothing to do, but because more people are becoming poor. Create enough hunger and everyone becomes a criminal. Woman are generally non violent, but they are just as savage as men. By all rights we should all be sent to hell.

[karlsmith00]

@Qrtzapp yeah, now i definitely know you go to junior college. JUNIOR COLLEGE doesn't count, you confused bitch.

no, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE rates increased because men sit at home and beat up their families when they're unemployed. it's not PEOPLE, it's men. women don't commit the vast majority of crime, men do. it's not from hunger, you dumb bitch.

women aren't savages. we don't commit mass rape and genocide. you don't know a fucking thing, shut your fucking mouth. you idiot.

[Qrtzapp]

@karlsmith00 I do not go to junior college. You are a sad, strange, little feminist troll. You have my pity.

[B000nes]

... receives love very differently.

This is widom. Amen. :-)

[cutiepie4lifejustkno]

GET CHUR BENCH ON :D (funniest part lol)

[eternityisclose]

It is almost as if this should just be the intro to his message. This clip seems to leave the listener hanging. Biblically, I hope Matt went onto say something like, "But, that is not the model that the Lord laid down for masculinity. He showed us that it is not striving for the biggest, greatest, more dominant, ambitious mode of life. He taught us that it is about laying down your life, GIVING your best to all God-given causes; being a Spirit-filled, non-threatening, gentle, meek, man!"

[MrAussieJules]

@eternityisclose meek men dont have the courage to walk into crucifixion , or speak up for the weak against strong bullies, or defend the weak against latter. Hence the metrosexual is an abberation and a recipe for civilizational suicide.

[frecklestodiefor]

@MrAussieJules actually, meekness is having power under control. meekness is not weakness. Having that power under control can help you to have the courage to defend the weak and to be willing to sacrifice yourself for others.

[TheK1N1]

@frecklestodiefor exactly!!

[ReconciledSinner]

This is pathetic, wrong and Matt Chandler is an effeminate.

[7god7father7]

@ReconciledSinner why?

[turokkris]

Hey. Guess what? Matt Chandler is a sinner too. Preachers aren't perfect. He even admitted that he crossed the line. But His Doctrine is dead on! I'm going to bet that YOU also make jokes just to please people and YOU also sacrifice righteousness to feel accepted by people. Guess what? That qualifies you as a sinner. And Guess What? That also qualifies Matt Chandler as a sinner. Guess what? That qualifies me as a sinner. Stop being so suprized by sin!

[kainrad]

@TheAdamClark He's honest. Every man I know would want to play with a naked woman. That's how men are engineered thanks to the fall. It's honest. Men want to have sex with every attractive woman they see. By nature that's how we are. But we submit and trust God that he designed the universe to go a certain way for his greatest glory and our greatest joy which includes being obedient in sexual morality. Let's be honest and have a real conversation what people think and feel oppose to masking it.

[nantapatt]

this sounds very familiar. just wondering, did mark driscoll have the same sermon?

[manvsbook]

Awesome sound byte. Not surprising, coming from Chandler. Just reviewed an excellent book on biblical masculinity on my channel -- Mark Chanski's Manly Dominion. A must-read for Christian men, both young and old.

[BootCampDiscipleship]

These Two Guys must Believe in the same Book and God . They sound alike.

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[TheAntiasshole]

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[xilliah]

I've been reading about masculinity for some time now, and this is the best part, because it explains the reason of masculinity. It is simply the effect of people trying to get something done, and progressing. I must add that I know some females who act masculine all the way, and that a great many males don't. This also shows that masculinity can be many things, and not necessarily having a strong body or being very defenselike, for example. Being serene and mindful can be the essence too.

[polopowers1]

Most preachers emasculate men and expect them to take leadership.Men don't go to Church because a one man show tells him how to be in front of his wife.

[philathea80]

I think this is great!

[mdlamay]

this rocks!!! I went to village for the first time with my beauty(lady) and loved it!!!!

[ChrisHortonStL]

spouting poo huh? so what is it that he said that doesnt apply to all men and why?

[xilliah]

@ChrisHortonStL all men want to work, progress, get something done. To transform Earth into Eden. Be it creating a business, getting a woman, or being the best player in a game. Some men don't do this, they are lazy. They might not be able to find goals, meaning or commitment. Masculinity is the effect of a person working. Women can also work very hard for something, but this is seen more often in men. It is just a biological difference.

[TheWicketgate]

@CaletheGray sorry, but calethegray seems to be uninformed

[jmhjmh5]

2:58

More like Jesus and the Father are both God, yet not equal?

[lukedee12]

he says they are equal... just different in form

[Quekei]

@jmhjmh5 God the Father, God the Son, & God the Holy Spirit are all perfectly God by themselves, yet also perfectly God as 3 in 1. They're definitely equal.

[trainwrecka]

Seriously? A joke? This is great teaching. Please point out where you think he is wrong in regards to the bible first, then in regards to Paul Washer.

[BullhornGuy]

My comment was ill-advised, thanks for questioning it...I removed it.

[k4coastie]

@BullhornGuy wow, mature move. i commend you and thank you for your good example.

[SolaFideinChrist]

Sounds like someone worships Paul Washer.

Both are great preachers...