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  • Nice videos, I'd totally date you :)

  • i want you byotch

  • Dating in the gay community is the equivalent of banging your head against the wall. It is so complicated and disheartening. I live in NYC and am having a difficult time with it. With that being said, you seem like an interesting guy who is very well spoken, not to mention very cute! Any guy would be lucky to have you.

  • i recently had some humdingers of bad dates from the guy who turns up and looks nothing like his profile to the 50 year old who spent the whole of. our date trying to put his hands down my pants in the middle of costa coffee in midday to the guy whos first words on the date were and i quote "i hope you like porn" thats before i even sat down

  • i totally AGREE. Gay dating online is so gross. I stopped after my second time.

  • i know this might seem like a stupid suggestion and uh. idk if anyone's ever tried it (i'm sure people have), but why not youtube date? idk. but there seems to be a great number of gay people on youtube (almost as much as we atheists, i think). idk. it's probably a bad idea. what do you guys think?

  • I'm gay and I know this sounds like a generalization but I feel like most other gay men have been conditioned to believe that being in relationship or courting another guy is a foreign concept. I mean, most gay people won't even get to date till they leave highschool and barely 50% of the nation is willing to accept them, you can't even really hold hands or show affection in public...it's almost like there's a palpable discouragement from seriously dating at all and it makes me sad.

  • Well come to Denver Ans i will date you? :) I like the normal dating too ! lol

  • Being gay SUCKS. almost 3 years later and online dating is still the same. :/ Full of creepy closet-cases.

  • amen

  • Some good points, and true, many kinds of people with different preferences may occure through WEB, but so far the web is the most effective place to find the biggest variety of guys/men as statistics say 2 out of 3 couples wound each other thanks to INTERNET. I'll make some good video slideshows presenting one of the leading gaydating sites that'll TEACH strategies & ethics how to effectively meet who you look for. The prob is very few gay guys know how to "come out", how to present themselves.

  • Hi. Glad you touched on that point about "who pays" and I understand what you say about a guy taking a girl out and your right there is no manual. What's your advice though???

  • I live in a rural area and it's hard to meet decent relationship minded guys. It seems that they are all just looking for dick and nothing else. Nothing turns me off faster than to see a profile with nothing but a dick pic. Lets get real! Sex is nice but why do we put so much emphasis on it. It gets so old that most gay guys are simply interested in looks and nothing substantial. I want someone with substance and that seems like the hardest thing to find.

  • I agree with this. There is a sad stereotype in the gay world and it makes dating difficult.

  • I had one experience of going onto one gay site, specifying I was looking for friends (not to date). The profiles all seemed to include shirtless photos and discriptions of cock size.

    Right now I'm trying out a site that is mixed orientations and it seems much better .

    .

  • I had this experience in California, I am Colombian and I look sort of arabic; with American gay men it sucks big time because they all want some blonde blue eyed abercrombie and fitch model for a boyfriend and wont take anything less, even the minorities there want some aberchrombie zac efron looking person!!! I came to europe and found a guy instantly!!! STAY AWAY FROM AMERICAN GAY MEN, THEY'RE SHALLOW, UNINTELLIGENT, BORING AND OBSESSED WITH LOOKS BUT MANY OF THEM DONT LOOK THAT GOOD.

  • @TheYaom

    What's wrong with looking Arabic? Arabic people are very good looking. As a matter of fact, Arabic guys are very handsome, particularly Lebanese Arabs But Arabs in general are more masculine than any other type of ethnic group on earth. Besides, Americans are generally fucked in the head. Television caters to their likes and dislikes...so typically their shallow. Americans dictate their passion by looks. They do not know "love." They know "sexual gratification." Oh...no offense, pfft.

  • @JubanTeyman24 Nothing wrong with looking Arabic.... I live in france and lots of hot Arabs.... but I was telling my experience regarding American gays.... (THEY ARE RACIAL AND SUCK BIG BIG BIG TIME)... even the non-white ones want some skinny California Blonde bitch boy!

  • @TheYaom

    Well, most gay men are typically White. If we were to racially categorize gay people, let's say, in the USA or even Europe, you would notice that most of the gays are White men. And as such, whenever t.v. depicts a gay man, he is typically a blonde haired, blue eyed white twink dancing and prancing as if his life depended on Broadway. LOL...but, in any case, I think all the races are beautiful...White, Arab, Latin...etc. In any case, I'm not racist, just realistic :) God bless!

  • @JubanTeyman24 That's the thing... I am colombian and in the USA most guys didnt want anything to do with me, because I wasn;t one of those blonde types with a six pack.

    now I moved to Europe and the opposite happens... suddenly I am hot stuff and everyone wants to hook up with me.... from arabs, to africans, to europeans.

    I think it has to do more with racial prejudice, there is more of it in the USA maybe.

  • @TheYaom

    Well, your definitely right. Not all, but most Americans are generally stereotypical. You can't blame them. It's the media that controls their tiny little minds lol. In any case, some Americans are really good people. But most are typical red-necks who are EXACTLY as you describe them. I couldn't have said it any better actually. Most of the nicest people I met overseas were actually Europeans...they're more open minded and less cynical. They're more compassionate. That's my opinion.

  • @JubanTeyman24 I will agree, even american minorities were very racial in california.... like mexican-americans wouldnt even look at me because they also wanted a blonde haired blue eyed six pack cali beach boy.... it's pathetic because when I went to mexico it was so easy for me to get a guy!

    yeah I agree with you!

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  • i somehow clicked a dating site ad on facebook, forgot the name, and outta curiosity i signed up. it didn't seem like gay site...and i guess i'm too good looking, gay dudes started messaging me nonstop and one guy asked me if i'm top or bottom.. i was like wtf? and he sent me a pic of his dick................ it was so awkward but hilarious. next day, i deleted the account.

  • I have a friend that is a single gay man and is interrested in meeting people near Willis, Texas. He's been having trouble finding someone near there. His name is David and here is his number if you would like to chat. 9366478321

  • LMAO "i cant wait to swallow your load" i hate seeing shit like that -_-

  • LMAO! OMG Your awesome ! "Yeah i know im hot" (gobbles food like a pig) hahaha nice to know theres a normal person on those dating sites at least :)

  • If you are NOT GAY what are you doing looking at a gay website.....

    IG:

    If your NOT a Vegetarian

    Why are you still fantasizing about MEAT!!

  • Wow, I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Two years later, how are you doing?

  • U are cute :}

  • You are totally dead on!!!1

  • The real problem with gay men (WHICH BY THE WAY, ARE THE MOST RACIST HUMAN BEINGS IN THE WORLD!) is that most, if not all really believe they will remain YOUNG forever! lol:) Most Gay guy believe that you are considered "dead" at 35 and forgot to go to the cemetary! Aahahahahhah:)

  • Im I the only straight person here!! O.O

  • Hey, your gonna be 49 and hairy one day

  • yeah, girls have the same problem with men on dating sites. testosterone is directly linked to sex drive. i think guys dont bother holding back as much with other men because they think "oh, he wants it as bad as me, so i dont have to play sweet"... idk. srry bro.

  • You are so right about the sites. I hate when they say there not into hook upsss!!!! blah... blah... and im lookn for mr.right, ok coo... coo... so then why dont you know what you want. It really sucks!!!

  • its just a man thing, lots of sick pervs on straight sites too, also fat hairy old men, love young pretty girls, same thing, probably the majority of men are just sexual weirdos

  • i came here to see hate gay guys

  • You are soo right 100% why does it have to be about sex

  • wow man, right on every point; if it isnt the creepy old guys, it's the closeted younger guys with a gf somewhere...

    my added problem is being black in a small (also college) town and being average looking at that lol. it's MIND NUMBING for someone to hold a long ass hour long convo with you, say they want to meet up, then call the whole thing off when he actually doublechecks my profile and realizes im black...wow.

    makes me want to just go and live a celibate life, jeez people are stupid...

  • coote

  • Wow, I've recently just came out of the closet, and I've been in HELLA gay dating sites, and I've gotta say, I know I'm not very familiar or into the gay community so much but still so many guys out there too desperate for intimate encounter, I'm like "wtf, website is for long term finder" lol

  • I used to have a gay friend that had the same issues. The sites that he would show me were disgusting! He would meet guys online and it was ALWAYS about sex, but deep down he felt so bad because al he really wanted a boyfriend...a real relationship and not just sex, but it was so hard to find. I used to feel so bad for him. But us straight girls have the same exact problem! Its so sad!

  • I've actually been noticing something along these lines for a while. I notice to a lot of people, homosexuality comes across as more of a 'fetish' than an orientation. And it's annoying. I'm a straight girl myself. But the more I see the 'gay people are hot!' logic flying across the internet, the more it bugs me. Regardless of orientation, a person should be entitled to a normal relationship without it having to be about sex, sex, sex.

  • i keep finding guys who what sex right away, i mean like really, talk to me first for like a month and lets talk dating before we talk sex

  • I hate it when the profile picture is a dick

    

  • @countach27 actually girls are just as horny as guys...

  • hey ur a cute gay guy and i kno ull find a good guy for you.. im sorry u have to deal with so much complications in gay dating.. i didnt realize that even gay guys feel like that too.. cause if it makes u feel any better alot of straight guys treat me and other girls like this all the time.. it sickens me too.. on the internet for some reason some people feel like its okay to be sexual with strangers and not base it on personality at all.

  • You are very smart.

  • how the hell did i fall on this video?!

  • you're so right about this subject

  • I think the exact same way as you, I agree....Its hard for me as well, Ive been single for 4 years, and people are like, your a good looking guy, why dont have a mate?? Im like, have you tried to be a gay man in this world that isnt just looking for sex?? I wanna meet someone cute (like yourself) :) and go out on a dinner date, watch a movie, and have a goodnight kiss, if the chemistry is right...online sites sicken me, look at my comedy channel sometime :) Peace back!

  • I think that gay dating sites are the way they are because men are superhorny. If you put together a guy and a girl (that's not a slut), they kinda cancel each other out, but with two gays it's double the horniness going on, you know what I mean? I have to be honest, I'm quite gross, I'm 18 and way too horny. I kinda enjoy teasing all these old ass men with my young meat (i.e. my body), I guess I'm an attention whore.

  • Interesting to see that point of view, when i've checked out online dating sites which cater for both straight & gay - 70% of messages are gay guys - usually older, msging me asking if i had ever considered going gay, and wanting to do certain things to me.

    kinda odd when it states quite clearly 'straight' looking for girls, and a profile saying looking for a girl

  • I am so glad to see someone else going through the same thing. All want is someone to take me out and try to get to know me. Btw you are hot!

  • Oh god I met up with a fella from a gay dating site and i hadnt been with anyone before. he was 10 years older and a total pig. i mean he was hot, but just a bit crass, it was fairly aweful especially since it was the first guy i was with :/

  • Plentyoffish for the win!

    xPhillyBoy90x  is me :D

  • LMFAOOO that is soo true everything you had to say. What I find annoying is I have a pof account and I get a lot of guys that say the are interested in women, and start messaging me for sex. Like first of all what is wrong with you and they couldn't even pay me enough to have sex with them lmaoo. Like if I wanted sex I would go to a sex site. Very annoying and I love your video.

  • i hate everything about gays

  • @rolo12347 why? :|

  • @dmajorhiphopproducer

    His father was probably was a closet gay, and beat the shit out of him. Thats why he hates gays. (Thats my opinion)

  • Your right on every account, been there and tried that, i'd say at least 80% of the gay online dating scene are perverts just out to "mess around". I live in an area in the UK where its nigh impossible to date another guy and online dating sites seems to be the only option, just with the amount of people like that on those websites it kinda makes me not wanna even attempt it.

  • You're very handsome.

    C=

  • you look gay

  • Annoying? Your voice is annoying...

  • i really appreciate how you're not stereotypically gay

  • Wow, what you're saying is exactly what I was thinking. I live in Germany and it's in no way different from what you've been stating. Many of my friends just roll with it and always tell me to not be so prejudiced, but from about 100% percent of people I've dated I stuck with less than 10%.

  • i agree with your video! I live in west hollywood and its hard to meet anyone here that I'm even attracted to..lol...best way to meet a gay dude is by joining of group of your interest

  • you're completely right, love your video, and you're handsome guy =)

  • Thumbs up for Ramen!!

  • @myprawnsarefrozen lol Troll harder, niggger.

  • Alphey.com is not a "hook up" or "looking for sex" site

    Alphey.com is for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender singles who are looking for meaningful and significant relationships. Our exclusive compatibility analysis is designed for and by LBGT people. This system matches you with other members based upon:

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  • Lol,thanks for sharing your noodles with us! You make some valid points,but it's up to you to set out your own agenda.If someone you're interested in isn't prepared to wait till you're ready to engage in sex with them,then are they really worth knowing?! Why not search for sites which have specific,non-sex themes,but are for gay men.That way the emphasis is not on just hooking up for a fuck but which have a common interest.

  • You are really hot though, looking at you gives me a boner :x. I cant help it you are too gorgeous.

    Though I feel the same way about gay dating websites, and I'm still a virgin at 27.

    I'd like to take you out to dinner, but you can pay :p

    Just kidding, I dont get why no one ever thinks or splitting the cost on dates, that would seem like the best way of doing it for me.

  • totally, totally agree with everything you are saying in this video.

  • God has difficulty finding the right people too! He knows exactly what you are talking about........do you know how many profiles he must have looked at through the ages?

  • would you consider youtube an indirect dating website?

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  • Aman hit right on

  • Tell everyone to fuc off, don't worry the right one will come along

  • Go get tested for aids.

  • translate ~ " Hi I am a gay guy who likes to bitch just like the female i wished i was, and I love to film myself eating a cup of fucking ramen noodles while I talk about my gay problems to people who really don't care..." ~ I AM ROSETTA STONE

  • YOU R OBNOXIOUS

  • Wow a gay guy with morals! Now that is incredible! God has got to be proud of this one! And what about iritation. Like eating Raman noodles while making this video. Why don't you just crap on my face because I'm apparently just that important to you that you could waste seconds of my life while you slurp noodles. And finally, about older men. Your the most narcissistic lost individual I have seen today. Good luck in hell child of Satan! Your gonna burn! Burn baby burn! Burn, Burn!!!!

  • Wait till you get old. You will be trying to hit on the young guys too. LOL

  • i wanna pee in your butt

  • Ill agree that most of the gay dating sites ive been on is he your cut i just want to fuck you on the dl. or i just want to fuck you and leave its fucked up and whats the point.

  • Good for you. I agree. Most gay sex is so casual that it is depressing. better to love than join the "meatrack". It leads to depression. It feels good but the desire for further and more intense experience definitely leads to perversion. It becomes a nightmare when it should involve love and compassion and frienship. Please find a partner man and give it all you got. You remind me so much of myself. I could have gone either way. I was always just very experimental and chose the unusual and FUN!

  • LOL This is random--but I would think that as far as (I hate this phrase) gay male dating---I think that the guy that asked you out should date. Seems reasonable. Or if its a dinner movie thing, go Dutch--someone pay for the flick and the other for the meal. ;)

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  • @irepbmore Homosexuality is pure lust and not sincere. You guys are judgmental and have the highest demands when it comes for finding a mate. You don't look on the inside but the outside. I can give you a moderate guy who looks like Jonah Hill with a good heart and a true cocky heart throb like Zac Efron, you will pick the heart throb because your culture is around sex. This is why God condemn you. God is about the heart, not the size of a cock or how good you look.

  • @ThePandems The problem with your argument is it is flawed from the fourth word in. God doesn't make mistakes because he doesn't exist.

  • Can't you say a complete sentence without using the word "Like"? Obnoxious.

  • well im a verry masculine gay men,21 years old living in lebanon ( i assume no one knows were that is) its impossible to get a fucking date...i went on some of the dating sites and they are sexualy oriented most of them...i want to meet a good lookin,kind,caring guy go out to dinner with,workout,discuss stuff etc...and have good sex...its impossible online.i have been single forever waitin for mr perfect :P. and yes most of the websites are just to jerk off or meet someone for sex...

  • My best first date would be going out to drink some tea or coffee. I mean it this way you can if things not work out leave early! A cup of coffee, tea, something nice to eat with it gives you enough time to know if this dating will work yes or no!

    Sex Dating? Ugh!

  • indeed

  • LOL... yea, pretty much every site is like that. Match.com is mostly hairy 65 year old bears trying to get with younger guys..

  • LOL... yea, pretty much every site is like that. Match.com is mostly hairy 65 year old bears trying to get with younger guys..

  • you use the word "LIKE" - 51 times in this video! If you expect to get a date with someone, work on your grammar!

  • Why would you make a video and be eating ? Where are your manners ? Not to mention the cussing. Btw, I live in a big city and it's still difficult. It's difficult for everyone. We are only 10% and by the time you eliminate 9.5% of them for one reason or another then what are you left with and your chances of meeting them. I think most gay guys in a "relationship" are in it until something better comes along. Most guys online TALK sex and not a relationship. They're mostly just hiding.

  • i`am from europe,romania,and here is like there...just perverse and crazy mans,it`s very hard to have a boyfriend,to love somebod,to have trust in somebody,i had because i`am gay:(,i think i will be stright and fuck all mutherfuckers,lucifer creation...

  • Leave the ramen outta it you faggggg

  • i love penis in my asshole

    i can handle all your cocks in my ass

    my record is 13 in my ass

  • same here...even outside of the internet and in the real world.......most gays guys just want a hook up and not a relationship....I just don't understand it

  • Amen I totally agree with you.

  • eeeeeeeeew. Just join a forum and message people. You will be able to make good friends or potential partners.

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  • I hate those fucking sites . I was a member @ true.com . I payed over 60 a month for my membership . I got 160 responses but mostly from members that were not premium . they could message me but i couldnt receive their contact info even though i was a premium member they also had to be a premium member to fully use the service which made it pointless for me to use . the few that was able to contact me was 60 yo pervs

  • @OneWorldGoneAry there is a new site named cruisethepark it's like Facebook for the GLBT community, you can choose to create a blog, put what you want in your profile, chat upload videos, photo's and can make whatever you want viewable to whoever you want or keep it to yourself. Upload your tunes and you can even get an iphone app for free also. Pretty unlimited site guys and not money hungry like the rest. cruisethepark . com

  • it's difficult to me, I am mexican and I live in a small town and.. I feel all gays are feminine, because most of them that I met were feminine and in the gay chats, they ask for sex.. I am not against feminine but I want to meet a masculine men if that's possible.

  • Haha. Dude! Half of this had me cracking the hell up. Specifically because I have the same problems. I live where everyone thinks everyone is gay but I can't find anyone. And very few guys from gay dating sites are actually worth anything. I completely agree with the whole "Who's supposed to pay?" thing. And the whole old guys thing had me rolling haha. Because I completely agree. It is really gross when they try to hit on you.

  • I understand what your saying. I dated a few guys i meet off the internet, But i did meet a great guy online that i have been with for 5 years. So it does work... sometimes.

  • i totally get what your saying. although ive never tried a gay dating site (im 16). ive been to a couple gay teen chat rooms looking to have some serious conversation with other guys like me. but when i go on all i get is questions like "you're from ******, so am I! wanna hook up?" or "hey wanna cam-to-cam? (wich means jerking with someone on a webcam)". it was very frustrating. Where have all the non-sex starved/crazed gay people gone???

  • Finish your noodle cup then talk

  • what would be a good profile? pictures and info what would you like to see?

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  • I don't know why you would have a hard time... your adorable... but I agree

    I am sick of slutty guys I just wanna be in love and most guys say since im 21 im to young.... and ill learn ... eh.

  • lol u think gay dating sites are bad try transsexual dating sites... were do i begin with that..

  • @roseblossoms00 i have went on a couple... i am actually sick of being called she-male :(

    Times like this just want me to stop taking the hormones and become a gay guy again..

  • wow your hot

    I want suck you cock and drink your cum,

    then i want to stick in your asss

  • I'm totally with you on this. All the gay dating sites I've been to is basically a "hook up" site. It really is frustrating trying to go through and find a place where you can actually start a real relationship with another guy.

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  • mmmm roman noodles :)

  • @SoQuiet112 lolol i know right

  • i rofled

  • Unfortunately, it's the same with going to clubs anymore. I went there two weekends ago to just dance and have a good time, but I ended up in bed with a total stranger who forgot my name-while we were having sex! It's ridiculous. I wish we went to the same college, at least we know whats up! lol

  • YES! I recently signed up with a couple of sites and I found the same thing! Except for a couple of decent guys, otherwise Im either being hit on, or offered money (Yes, about twice now I've been basically asked if Im a prostitute)

  • one time i tried this gay dating site and i got queer aids like right away. it was the most gay thing besides gay sex.

  • Its funny how this guy makes a vid of annoying gay guys wanting to fuck and suck him and then some dumb assholes leave comments saying I wanna marry you,fuck you or lick you ...lmao people are a mess

  • lmmfao He said swallow your load but....so tru they do say that

  • What about DowntownDudes?

  • @masscobra what about them? download your own home wrecker

  • like like like like like like like like, you say like to freaking much. but i get the message

  • Couldnt have said it better myself man. I definately agree with you on that. I do happen to live in an area where it is hard to meet other gay guys, especially ones that have the decency to be in a relationship. unfortunately the gay community is full of whores and its them who give the decent gays a bad rep and name.

    Good video! post some more!

  • You don't eat ramen noodles with chopsticks.

    Your argument is invalid.

  • You seem a sensible guy.

  • Most of the time, it felt like I was ramming my head against a brick wall. I just could never get anywhere. They weren't sick, like how you describe, but they were frustrating.

  • @belugafishgod Then I don't wanna be healthy.

  • @belugafishgod then don't come around us

  • @ghaithnajah It's a free country dickhead.  You're free to be a sick gay asshole and I am free to call you what you are. If you don't like it you can kiss my ass.

  • @belugafishgod The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion

  • @ghaithnajah Every man needs slaves like he needs clean air. To rule is to breathe, is it not? And even the most disenfranchised get to breathe. The lowest on the social scale have their spouses or their children. (Albert Camus).

    See ghaithnajah? Anyone can quote Albert Camus. The only difference between us is that I give credit where credit is due and you don't. Oh...and your gay.