How to Deal With Negative People and Their Negative Thoughts - www.freedomeducation.ca

[hunyhuny35]

omgsh you're so hot, AND YOUR CANADIAN <3

[tuffythetiger]

Good and natural technique, but this is something that you should be done until you naturally replace those feelings, actions are a result, no actions no results.This technique eventually is part of your behavior automatically and subconsciously and that is when its deeply embedded.

[bvgatti]

most people issues and complexes are due to family environment,lack of parenthood awarness or understanding of the effect of psychology on their childrens ,that's beside schools,friends,traditions,rel­igions and societies.i think to break the cycle of thoughts, that causes doubt,fear,guilt or any other emotion that cause our mind to create our own delusional realities,is to direct your focus inward by stoping from talking to your mind and listenening more to your breath.The sound of silence.

[ninoopen]

super tip... a great guy really

[cosmicmantis]

Oh man...

This ties in completely to my previous comment about how your advice was made to turn people into mindless positive idiots. So you're saying that all other negative comments do not affect you except "you're an idiot"? "You're an idiot" is the one thing that RESONATES with you? That little "voice" is your CONSCIENCE!!... HAHAHAHAHA...

[Mitar446]

damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head `` You cant do that`` from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol .... maybe this shit is dangerous :)

[RK1m1]

see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: "oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now"....

[biskotaime]

:')

[ATOMIC1974T]

Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words "But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that" in your mind. It works like a defensive shield...

[EenGedachte]

I've seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid. Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius.

Keep it up.

[stephenmartile]

@EenGedachte: yeah, that Homer Simpson one is good :)

[nickintp]

This is what helped me from an abusive father... whenever he tells me something like... I'm stupid... I just respond by saying.... Well dad. Look at your own shitty life and how fucked up it turned out to be.... you think your opinion is worth for shit???

To be honest, I haven't found any successful person being negative, only failures tend to be negative and drag others down with them so that they don't feel too bad about themselves.

[Solus3]

I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class that taught "reframing" which is exactly what you're advising! Its very cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works wonders!

[m3rmaid1985]

That's incredible, thankyou very much!

[500deegrez]

Great video

[Simon0]

this was very enlightening. I realised i automatically believe to be true whatever my mum says to me! great video. next time gotta put that negative voice in a homer voice! haha.

[nickintp]

@Simon0

I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That's what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them... they are like retards.

[Simon0]

@nickintp my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel. Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of friendly people can be very healing.

[SevastopolKrim]

You are awesome!!!! Thank you!!! :)))) Great technic!

[broadcastmyass4u]

This video didn't help me, it only offended me by talking about my dead mother :(

[atulthakur07]

Very good technique. Will try it

[cosmicsparkle]

thanks for the advice... =)

[stephenmartile]

@cosmicsparkle:

Your welcome :-)

Steve

[777turner777]

@draganamirkovic7 I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you but I can tell you're a negative nancy yourself. There's a difference between discerning and judging - you seem to like to judge. Not exactly on a straight road to positivity buddy.

[Digzezimaox]

ur an idiot! lol Just kidding lol great video

[LavaEaglez]

@Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

[LavaEaglez]

@Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it's so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn't mean anything.

[03mrobinson]

good thing i watched till the end because when you said picture your mothers voice lol my mothers the one who passes uneccery comments :L

[stephenmartile]

@03mrobinson:

I know exactly what you're talking about ;)

[03mrobinson]

thats just women though i guess

[stephenmartile]

Good on ya!

[bbqpanties]

I usually say "um, yes, I can actually." lol