I noticed that pretty much all videos on Youtube on that subject are made by African American women. All the videos by Caucasian women that deal with it have a religious context. They are all like "I'm a submissive wife because the bible says so."
Do you have a theory why that is?
I find it interesting because white and Asian women have more of a reputation as being submissive than black women do.
from a black man: BRILIANT. i always notice that most black women who fight and butt heads with their man have a hard, bitter, unaproachable look and presence. you clearly have a totaly serein genuinely happy presence. you're one woman who gets it. it's really very simple, men and women have different roles. your marrage will last forever.
i love what you saying and you have my votes on what your trying to let women understand,ive felt the same way about the topics mentioned,and how it fits us as companions or couples both man and woman.so teach away my sita im willing to overstand.we as women needs to overstand the WILLIE LYNCH SYNDROME and them we will thank Hakashamut for her liberating truth.
This is really sad. I am only 18 years old and I am appalled at the way "women" get on public sites and speak about things that should be kept in their marriage. The whole braids-sex thing was sickening and to think your 10 year old daughter was there watching you make a complete fool of yourself makes me extremely sad. I hope you find out who you are and what it is you want to be respected for.
@MsSwaqqSetta Most educated women tend to be more "feministic" (made up word) lol . go figure. But she maybe giving her daughter the subtle message that her main purpose in life is to please a man and be "submissive".
and I am also with a Beautiful Strong Proud Black Man! so I am speaking from an Open mind - Happy Heart - Strong Pure Love!! Serious Love too you and yours xoxox
Them women are angry & they are gonna stay that way! I am Black /Cuban (hispanic)! so this is coming from an Extremely Tame Sister!
Also if you have to change your partners General Characteristic what are you with them for..People are not to be changed that only comes from within you can read book after book on how to change someone else but until they are willing to change you are wasting your time!
But I love the Foundation message you are portraying&I support you ALL THE WAY! Blessings xox
I 90% agree with all up until the word Tame.. In England we are naturally brought up to be Submissive we are taught this in School from 10 years old and our english culture naturally embraces...
Women are not TO be tamed ..Women SHOULD be TAME, (SUBMISSIVE) naturally.. I totally agree with you that women have Masculined themselves up! but that is through losing their way but those women who are like that ARE NOT GOING TO LISTEN to ME OR YOU! lol
first and foremost, peace beloved! I'm not usually impressed by people who claim they have answers for men and women. you my Goddess is very next! i listen to the show you was on with KTL University and you blew my mind. the balance of love is just so godly and you broke it down, some laymen may not get you, by looking at some of the ignorant responses. people don't realize its time to step to a new paradigm! i wanted to see a face behind the knowledge and you are a goddess! HTP my sister!
I have to ask, did you pop that zit on your forehead? I was so distracted by it, I had to break out snacks. Use 1% or 2% beta hydroxy acid. I highly recommend Paula's Choice products.
And not to be adversarial, seriously, I don't think I would have achieved as much in life if I had spent so much time worrying about a man, much less a Black man. And being an atheist and research scientist really makes it difficult to be worried about their insecurities. It just doesn't cross my mind I guess.
I cant believe all these negative comments I am seeing! many of you women who say she is being abused are the very type of women men run away from because you see being submissive as being controlling! yet it is supposed to be a balance between feminine and masculenity! she is not saying to be doormat she is saying to step into the shoes of being a real woman and not try to compete with your man as if you are a male but to be a woman and serve each others roles to bring harmony to the marriage.
dont worry about this negative stuff. im just like you with mine sooo i know what ur sayin and my relationship is great he treats me amazingly. i also bet half of the women on here that say negitive stuff are single or never had a relationship last long. before women start downing this lady first read the bible and where women stand in it.
My mother was & is submissive to her husband of 26 years, my father. I've never seen ppl so happy & in love w/ each other EVERYDAY. I adore their marriage and exalt the God they serve. I didn't understand it when I was young & a feminist then when I confronted my mother IN RESENTMENT & ANGER she explained it to me & as I got older I began to understand just how beautiful their partnership really is. My mother is the equal to her husband, my father and she is submissive.
@ladyEulaelie i dont know, i guess it depends on who u r. my parents & ridiculously happy - they have all these personal jokes that me & my bro dont understand, & r always hugging & holding hands. they keep me hopeful of the idea that 2 ppl can b together & in love forever. a partnership is 2 ppl, who lead equally. being equal & being submissive r 2 conflicting & contradictory ideas. how can u be equal when 1 submits to the other & 1 dominates the other?
Being equal and submissive are only conflicting if you have the wrong idea of what being equal is or what being submissive is. Have a serious candid discussion with your parents and see what they tell you. I did. Your mother is submissive or your father is submissive...one or the other.
According to the world or according to God's word? You will find several good answers that may help you understand what being "submissive" really means. By all means, Google it...& I'm not saying that to be crass. You can't find only one answer to that question. My suggestion to you is that you do what I would do if I had to find the right way to word what submission is, & that is to look up & research written commentary on how others view "submission" in a healthy marriage.
My dear, you have the wrong idea of what being "submissive" really is. I did as well, and then I began to wonder why certain ppls relationships worked and others failed. Submission does not being impose coercion, force, being gagged or controlled. The word "submission" will always be linked to this negative mental image in your mind that will block you from discovering true happiness.
@ladyEulaelie i must, but i think a lot of ppl do, including the men who demand women submit to them. what does it mean then? letting the other lead your family while u follow? & having their decisions be the final ones?
I think that word is widely misunderstood to only mean one thing. If women misunderstand it, surely mean do also and abuse terminology to suit them. My mother has never let my father step on her. Eve was made from Adams rib, not his foot. They were to be side by side on everything. My father consulted my mother for decisions...he honored her & taught us to do the same. 2 ppl aren't always going to have their way, so who wins? Husbands & wives submit to each other
Stop. Look. and really Listen to why someone would want to be submissive and discover that to have a balanced partnership between a womanly individual and a manly individual, someone has to be submissive...and it damn sure well isn't going to be my man.
My future husband knows he will be entering a partnership w/ woman willing to submit, by will to a man who loves, honors & protects her. I'm not submitting to a punk. Punks are for women who want to men to submit to them.
ladies,this is snake oil.go to the bible or an elder woman for advice on submission.this woman calls herself a Goddest and thinks she is Devine.i dont think she knows the idolitry of her words,yet she wants to teach submission?
I don't know under what context she calls herself a goddess or divine; I haven't read her book, so I can't agree with you that this is snake oil, but you are most definitely right, that the Bible really is the ultimate source to how women and men should be guided in their sexual and nonsexual lives. I do think it's awesome that women are over looking the lies about what submission really is and are seeing how much it makes sense to be submissive to their husbands
Very good explanation! I have a question. Is it possible for me to be more in 'the woman' part, not tell my man that I am trying something but just doing it, and that my man would change because I change? Do we need words to begin to practice this or is it just a natural force that we have been fighting and that, if I were to let my female energy flow, I would directly anchor his male essence?? Thanks in advance!! x
Hi there. You don't have to answer this, defend yourself, or anything. But it's very evident that your husband is abusing you either emotionally, physically, or both. I hope you find your way out, and a way to heal. Peace and Love.
@GataAgressiva411 thank you! I appreciate your comment... Yes, it is very abusive of my husband to have freed me up to love as I wish... he has been my best friend for almost 20 years and you're so right... this is massive abuse... giggle. xxoo
@hakashamut You know what Kenya, I may be wrong, so I take that back with apologies. I judged your husband's book by its cover, "How to Tame a Woman" (which sounds abusive) and when I read some of the material presented, I saw that there was valuable information to be gleaned. I tend to be defensive when it comes to our welfare as women, since many of us don't understand who we are. I wish you love and light in your endeavours, and in your relationship. Peace.
@hakashamut i generally think of myself as equal to my friends. my boyfriend is also my best buddy, & as my friend he treats me like an equal & we treat eachother as equals.
withdrawing at the first sign of trouble is a feminine activity? aaah no. thats something weak, incapable people do.
tame your woman? wtf? hes lucky he has someone like u who takes his bullshit. sounds like a real great catch :S
You're the sluttiest wife I've ever seen. I wonder how submissive you would be if He made you wear saccloth and shaved your head, then cover it with a thick fleece veil.
What is a slut? Oh yes, a term that men made up to control and own female sexuality? Yes! giggle... xo There is no such thing as a slut. Women are Goddesses period. And so our sexuality is divine. Always. xo @2012lavender
This video is targeted toward wives & future wives. This woman is presenting herself in a way to indicated it's ok to be feminine & exude sexuality whenever being intimate with your HUSBAND. A woman is lover to her husband...not a whore or slut. She said nothing to suggest a woman degrading herself to her husband. Please grow up. You must be very young. I suggest a video that is on your maturity level, rated VYSI, for very young & sexually immature.
being submissive doesnt work with ignorant men ladies trust me. It will only work with a man who is a genuine man. if he acts like a kid like mine do then umm u got issues like me :)
I was amazed by your introduction, and even more so blown away by part 1. I agree with everything you are saying. Putting the change into affect is hard. changing the conditioned behavior.
I love your Hair comment! lol... I have natural hair that I flat iron and it's about the same length as yours. Excercising and having sex ruin it! I haven't tried getting braids yet, but I will if it will help! lol... Thanks for keeping it real with us! ;)
I had a wise older woman tell me, a woman may be a whore or "whorish" for her man so long as it remains within the confines of their bedroom. If she behaves like a whore outside the bedroom...then it is an issue. With regard to hakashamut, she is providing advice and guidance...so she necessarily must be more honest and possibly more uncomfortably truthful in order to pass on her insights. She opens the door to her bedroom, just enough, for the purpose of helping others.
dude this woman is already married, different strokes for different folks, let her man be the judge if she's too whorish or not.. who are you? you're a prime example of what some of the problem is in this day and time, most are too judgemental if you dont like her style keep pushin why waste time attempting to insult the woman she's doing her so go DO YOU...pfg4life
to each his own, but i can value her opinion. i def will be checking out more of her vid's...naturally men should want to lead, protect, and provide. it comes naturally, and oh yes their's a big issue of women taking the role of what the man should be.....ur right on point with ur theory sista!!! well said.
Maybe the real conclusion to all this is that both men and women should be accountable, honest and relaxed to better deal with life's adversities and to co-exist more peacefully?
@onlyjoetee LOL! Too whorish? LMBO! Sorry, I couldn't resist commenting here... you are funny. Only a trustworthy man can trust a woman. If he is doing dirt then he always expects her to do dirt... period.
@hakashamut i am a man,im telling you straight,believe me,you are far too outwardly suggestive in your manner, body language and presentation,this is a turn off and guaranteed to attract to yourself,the lowest common denominator!!!To attract a worthy man,never present yourself lasciviously,trust me on this,i have no reason to lie to you at all!!
@tsugirl281 if you're a woman and you're promiscuous,men will despise you instinctively,even the men you're promiscuous with,will despise you.Men are wired to despise sexually easy promiscuous or loose type women,regardless of what they actually say to them.Trust me on that one.Women also despise women who are promiscuous LOL plus the person herself will suffer low self esteem,so basically there is no advantage in it whatsoever LOL
@kingflipp its the truth and you know it,and im not a playboy thanks.and if you think promiscuity is admirable then ask yourself which of the 2 of us is insecure!!
This video is targeted toward women viewers, not to males. This woman is presenting herself in a way to indicated that it's ok to be feminine in a way that exudes sexuality whenever in a intimate situation with your husband. A woman is lover to her husband...not a whore. Dose too provocative with husband = hell to you? Please grow up. You must be very young. I suggest a video that is on your maturity level, rated VYSI, for very young and sexually immature.
This video is targeted toward women viewers, not to males. This woman is presenting herself in a way to indicated that it's ok to be feminine in a way that exudes sexuality whenever in a intimate situation with your husband. A woman is lover to her husband...not a whore. Dose too provocative with husband = hell to you? Please grow up. You must be very young. I suggest a video that is on your maturity level, rated VYSI, for very young and sexually immature.
Wow I really liked your video. You manage to articulate some very 'controversial' subjects. Basically, you simply can't have two 'kings' sharing the same crown. in other words, in order for any type of relationship to work, there must be a clear 'leader' and one who 'follows.' Testosterone helps one lead; estrogen helps one follow.
Yeah, I know it cuz my mom wanted to 'be on top' all the time. Yeah, I'm that 'feminized' male she was talking about. Any tips for me, maybe from ur hubby??
Another thing I'd like to point out. Your speak of a woman using her "feminine wiles," to be relaxed, sensual, etc. When those are actually sexualist feminist concepts. I suggest you read the articles "Sexualist Feminism," and "The New Feminism," by Alyson-S, which can be found on DeviantArt.
It is ironic you mention such things and encourage women to embrace them as submissive "traits," when even feminist embrace them.
How you define masculinity and femininity is really limited to a few cultures. You are aware of this? So while the Western World has this one ideal for men and women, tribal spots in Africa don't, as well as even what is expected of women in areas of Oriental Asia, where being "feminine," means to be strong, assertive and independent. There really is no trait that women or men have a stronger "natural," proclivity towards.
Feminism Sucks.Thank God I never listened to what a bunch of white, western women had to say. Women should be treated with love and worth. As should men. That's it. Otherwise, feminisim is dangerous to a woman's emotional, physical and mental health. This girl is right. More power to you sister and thank you.
News flash! Feminism isn't dangerous. People make it appear to be dangerous by seeing independence, having a strong-will and being comfortable with one's own sexuality as negative traits-only for women. Because of social double-standards. Another problem, is what you perceive as natural. There are MANY other cultures where what we call a "masculinized," woman, is deemed normal and natural for females!
I am a 56 year old caucasian women and was on the forefront of the feminine movement. I have now gone full circle and see that women have to recapture our feminine power. We surrendered that when we went feminist. I am so glad to see you are helping to take women into a new age.
In women's defense though, you have to understand why submission is such an intimidated word, let alone something to be acted on. We're always fighting to push forward in a world where feminine energy is not as easily appreciated or accomodated for in our society. But feminine energy is just as formiddable a force as masculinity, so I agree on women needing to tap into their natural, innate power as a woman.
Great. When I saw the title..I was like wha?But I am open to receiving information about myself and also the sacred feminine..thank you sista. Looking forward to the next episode..
Its ok to be a woman...She's accurate in her observations. He she's and She he's are the ones the mainstream what us to emulate. SHE IS HAPPY BEING WHAT SHE IS. A beautiful woman. But I understand (Romans 1:26) so I think she's PERFECTLY CORRECT SO FAR....C...
I used to tell my ex-husband this stuff during our marriage...know what he said to me..."I would if you would let me!" Dude...TAKE CONTROL LIKE A MAN. Was I wrong to expect him to do so?
Well, ok...this confrontation thing. Isn't there a certain "way" a man should confront. Cause i would always confront issues,but it caused further problems instead of resolutions. So i learned to fall back to avoid all the beefin. The beefin became very exhausting and depleting. It was either i fall back or continue down the road of confrontation which i could see would lead to violence.
Right on time. You helped me before I stepped back into masculine. I've been in my role for a couple weeks and was just about to step out. This is right on time.
I noticed that pretty much all videos on Youtube on that subject are made by African American women. All the videos by Caucasian women that deal with it have a religious context. They are all like "I'm a submissive wife because the bible says so."
Do you have a theory why that is?
I find it interesting because white and Asian women have more of a reputation as being submissive than black women do.
TrangleC 1 day ago
A woman should not submit (nor should a man) they should be equal in everything. end of story.
pinksbaby 1 week ago
from a black man: BRILIANT. i always notice that most black women who fight and butt heads with their man have a hard, bitter, unaproachable look and presence. you clearly have a totaly serein genuinely happy presence. you're one woman who gets it. it's really very simple, men and women have different roles. your marrage will last forever.
GQbum 3 weeks ago
i love what you saying and you have my votes on what your trying to let women understand,ive felt the same way about the topics mentioned,and how it fits us as companions or couples both man and woman.so teach away my sita im willing to overstand.we as women needs to overstand the WILLIE LYNCH SYNDROME and them we will thank Hakashamut for her liberating truth.
avonda101 4 weeks ago
you are whery charming...love u'r video
Kenshiroit 1 month ago
This is really sad. I am only 18 years old and I am appalled at the way "women" get on public sites and speak about things that should be kept in their marriage. The whole braids-sex thing was sickening and to think your 10 year old daughter was there watching you make a complete fool of yourself makes me extremely sad. I hope you find out who you are and what it is you want to be respected for.
MsSwaqqSetta 1 month ago
@MsSwaqqSetta Most educated women tend to be more "feministic" (made up word) lol . go figure. But she maybe giving her daughter the subtle message that her main purpose in life is to please a man and be "submissive".
pinksbaby 1 week ago
nice
jurinutz 1 month ago
Very provocative... Good points
positivethoughts 1 month ago
y is she talking so freely about sex and her 10 yr old daugther is sitting right there??? -___-
babydoodles1 1 month ago
and I am also with a Beautiful Strong Proud Black Man! so I am speaking from an Open mind - Happy Heart - Strong Pure Love!! Serious Love too you and yours xoxox
Pariscesvette 1 month ago
Them women are angry & they are gonna stay that way! I am Black /Cuban (hispanic)! so this is coming from an Extremely Tame Sister!
Also if you have to change your partners General Characteristic what are you with them for..People are not to be changed that only comes from within you can read book after book on how to change someone else but until they are willing to change you are wasting your time!
But I love the Foundation message you are portraying&I support you ALL THE WAY! Blessings xox
Pariscesvette 1 month ago
I 90% agree with all up until the word Tame.. In England we are naturally brought up to be Submissive we are taught this in School from 10 years old and our english culture naturally embraces...
Women are not TO be tamed ..Women SHOULD be TAME, (SUBMISSIVE) naturally.. I totally agree with you that women have Masculined themselves up! but that is through losing their way but those women who are like that ARE NOT GOING TO LISTEN to ME OR YOU! lol
Pariscesvette 1 month ago
first and foremost, peace beloved! I'm not usually impressed by people who claim they have answers for men and women. you my Goddess is very next! i listen to the show you was on with KTL University and you blew my mind. the balance of love is just so godly and you broke it down, some laymen may not get you, by looking at some of the ignorant responses. people don't realize its time to step to a new paradigm! i wanted to see a face behind the knowledge and you are a goddess! HTP my sister!
Judahsmoon 1 month ago 2
Nice video thanks for speaking on this.
plantbasedyou 1 month ago
I have to ask, did you pop that zit on your forehead? I was so distracted by it, I had to break out snacks. Use 1% or 2% beta hydroxy acid. I highly recommend Paula's Choice products.
And not to be adversarial, seriously, I don't think I would have achieved as much in life if I had spent so much time worrying about a man, much less a Black man. And being an atheist and research scientist really makes it difficult to be worried about their insecurities. It just doesn't cross my mind I guess.
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I cant believe all these negative comments I am seeing! many of you women who say she is being abused are the very type of women men run away from because you see being submissive as being controlling! yet it is supposed to be a balance between feminine and masculenity! she is not saying to be doormat she is saying to step into the shoes of being a real woman and not try to compete with your man as if you are a male but to be a woman and serve each others roles to bring harmony to the marriage.
jjtiojohn12 2 months ago
@TheBgoz Hey, That's your choice. I think I'd rather be happy in my future marriage.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
dont worry about this negative stuff. im just like you with mine sooo i know what ur sayin and my relationship is great he treats me amazingly. i also bet half of the women on here that say negitive stuff are single or never had a relationship last long. before women start downing this lady first read the bible and where women stand in it.
oklove1990 2 months ago
to be relaxed = rely on your man? aka rely on someone else to control your life so you dont have to.
TheBgoz 2 months ago
@TheBgoz
I've noticed a lot of your comments on this subject. Are you interested in being a submissive woman?
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
@ladyEulaelie no. i'm interested in why anyone would want to be. a relationship is a partnership.
TheBgoz 2 months ago
@TheBgoz
My mother was & is submissive to her husband of 26 years, my father. I've never seen ppl so happy & in love w/ each other EVERYDAY. I adore their marriage and exalt the God they serve. I didn't understand it when I was young & a feminist then when I confronted my mother IN RESENTMENT & ANGER she explained it to me & as I got older I began to understand just how beautiful their partnership really is. My mother is the equal to her husband, my father and she is submissive.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
@ladyEulaelie i dont know, i guess it depends on who u r. my parents & ridiculously happy - they have all these personal jokes that me & my bro dont understand, & r always hugging & holding hands. they keep me hopeful of the idea that 2 ppl can b together & in love forever. a partnership is 2 ppl, who lead equally. being equal & being submissive r 2 conflicting & contradictory ideas. how can u be equal when 1 submits to the other & 1 dominates the other?
TheBgoz 2 months ago
@TheBgoz
Being equal and submissive are only conflicting if you have the wrong idea of what being equal is or what being submissive is. Have a serious candid discussion with your parents and see what they tell you. I did. Your mother is submissive or your father is submissive...one or the other.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
@ladyEulaelie but then what does it mean?
TheBgoz 2 months ago
@TheBgoz
According to the world or according to God's word? You will find several good answers that may help you understand what being "submissive" really means. By all means, Google it...& I'm not saying that to be crass. You can't find only one answer to that question. My suggestion to you is that you do what I would do if I had to find the right way to word what submission is, & that is to look up & research written commentary on how others view "submission" in a healthy marriage.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
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TheBgoz 2 months ago
@ladyEulaelie i think i'd rather not submit.
TheBgoz 2 months ago
@TheBgoz
Part 1.
My dear, you have the wrong idea of what being "submissive" really is. I did as well, and then I began to wonder why certain ppls relationships worked and others failed. Submission does not being impose coercion, force, being gagged or controlled. The word "submission" will always be linked to this negative mental image in your mind that will block you from discovering true happiness.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
@ladyEulaelie i must, but i think a lot of ppl do, including the men who demand women submit to them. what does it mean then? letting the other lead your family while u follow? & having their decisions be the final ones?
TheBgoz 2 months ago
@TheBgoz
I think that word is widely misunderstood to only mean one thing. If women misunderstand it, surely mean do also and abuse terminology to suit them. My mother has never let my father step on her. Eve was made from Adams rib, not his foot. They were to be side by side on everything. My father consulted my mother for decisions...he honored her & taught us to do the same. 2 ppl aren't always going to have their way, so who wins? Husbands & wives submit to each other
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Part 2
Stop. Look. and really Listen to why someone would want to be submissive and discover that to have a balanced partnership between a womanly individual and a manly individual, someone has to be submissive...and it damn sure well isn't going to be my man.
My future husband knows he will be entering a partnership w/ woman willing to submit, by will to a man who loves, honors & protects her. I'm not submitting to a punk. Punks are for women who want to men to submit to them.
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TheBgoz 2 months ago
ladies,this is snake oil.go to the bible or an elder woman for advice on submission.this woman calls herself a Goddest and thinks she is Devine.i dont think she knows the idolitry of her words,yet she wants to teach submission?
juseph29 3 months ago
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I don't know under what context she calls herself a goddess or divine; I haven't read her book, so I can't agree with you that this is snake oil, but you are most definitely right, that the Bible really is the ultimate source to how women and men should be guided in their sexual and nonsexual lives. I do think it's awesome that women are over looking the lies about what submission really is and are seeing how much it makes sense to be submissive to their husbands
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
are new videos still going to be made???
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Very good explanation! I have a question. Is it possible for me to be more in 'the woman' part, not tell my man that I am trying something but just doing it, and that my man would change because I change? Do we need words to begin to practice this or is it just a natural force that we have been fighting and that, if I were to let my female energy flow, I would directly anchor his male essence?? Thanks in advance!! x
aline22534 3 months ago
Hi there. You don't have to answer this, defend yourself, or anything. But it's very evident that your husband is abusing you either emotionally, physically, or both. I hope you find your way out, and a way to heal. Peace and Love.
GataAgressiva411 3 months ago
@GataAgressiva411 thank you! I appreciate your comment... Yes, it is very abusive of my husband to have freed me up to love as I wish... he has been my best friend for almost 20 years and you're so right... this is massive abuse... giggle. xxoo
hakashamut 3 months ago 3
@hakashamut You know what Kenya, I may be wrong, so I take that back with apologies. I judged your husband's book by its cover, "How to Tame a Woman" (which sounds abusive) and when I read some of the material presented, I saw that there was valuable information to be gleaned. I tend to be defensive when it comes to our welfare as women, since many of us don't understand who we are. I wish you love and light in your endeavours, and in your relationship. Peace.
GataAgressiva411 3 months ago
@hakashamut i generally think of myself as equal to my friends. my boyfriend is also my best buddy, & as my friend he treats me like an equal & we treat eachother as equals.
withdrawing at the first sign of trouble is a feminine activity? aaah no. thats something weak, incapable people do.
tame your woman? wtf? hes lucky he has someone like u who takes his bullshit. sounds like a real great catch :S
TheBgoz 2 months ago
You're the sluttiest wife I've ever seen. I wonder how submissive you would be if He made you wear saccloth and shaved your head, then cover it with a thick fleece veil.
2012lavender 4 months ago
What is a slut? Oh yes, a term that men made up to control and own female sexuality? Yes! giggle... xo There is no such thing as a slut. Women are Goddesses period. And so our sexuality is divine. Always. xo @2012lavender
hakashamut 4 months ago
@hakashamut Compare your comment about women being goddesses with the revelations in the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
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@2012lavender
This video is targeted toward wives & future wives. This woman is presenting herself in a way to indicated it's ok to be feminine & exude sexuality whenever being intimate with your HUSBAND. A woman is lover to her husband...not a whore or slut. She said nothing to suggest a woman degrading herself to her husband. Please grow up. You must be very young. I suggest a video that is on your maturity level, rated VYSI, for very young & sexually immature.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
When you're submissive you put all the pressure to perform on your partner.
cincyblows 4 months ago in playlist submissive
being submissive doesnt work with ignorant men ladies trust me. It will only work with a man who is a genuine man. if he acts like a kid like mine do then umm u got issues like me :)
LorettezOpinion 4 months ago
SUcks ur already married 'cause you're a real woman REAL BLACK MEN/REAL MEN would want!
WizzoPro9476 4 months ago
WOW
KuromiPunk1983 4 months ago
this is ridiculous. i will rebel to the end! step closer and youll get a whip lashing! XD
33melonpaws77 4 months ago
Thank youuuuu BEautiful, YuMmlicious 222 the maxx <3
Ashleyp777 5 months ago
I was amazed by your introduction, and even more so blown away by part 1. I agree with everything you are saying. Putting the change into affect is hard. changing the conditioned behavior.
0110cmason 5 months ago
clear that big ass pimple off your forhead trick
thesouthrapsucks 5 months ago
how to be a submissive woman is really simple.
Gimme that pussy
1 stop talking
2do what i say
3stayoutta my shit
4stay out the next nicca face
5don't have nobody in OUR bizness
coabnmaxxedout 5 months ago
I love your Hair comment! lol... I have natural hair that I flat iron and it's about the same length as yours. Excercising and having sex ruin it! I haven't tried getting braids yet, but I will if it will help! lol... Thanks for keeping it real with us! ;)
BrownSuga245 6 months ago
I had a wise older woman tell me, a woman may be a whore or "whorish" for her man so long as it remains within the confines of their bedroom. If she behaves like a whore outside the bedroom...then it is an issue. With regard to hakashamut, she is providing advice and guidance...so she necessarily must be more honest and possibly more uncomfortably truthful in order to pass on her insights. She opens the door to her bedroom, just enough, for the purpose of helping others.
jrcahill2 6 months ago
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WATUTEK 7 months ago
dude this woman is already married, different strokes for different folks, let her man be the judge if she's too whorish or not.. who are you? you're a prime example of what some of the problem is in this day and time, most are too judgemental if you dont like her style keep pushin why waste time attempting to insult the woman she's doing her so go DO YOU...pfg4life
kingflipp 7 months ago
we're all doomed
suchafool990 7 months ago
I likes!
bizminded32 9 months ago
I could hit you in that dress, real talk! YOU'RE HOT!!!
WizzoPro9476 9 months ago
to each his own, but i can value her opinion. i def will be checking out more of her vid's...naturally men should want to lead, protect, and provide. it comes naturally, and oh yes their's a big issue of women taking the role of what the man should be.....ur right on point with ur theory sista!!! well said.
Dwnsoufboi870 10 months ago
Maybe the real conclusion to all this is that both men and women should be accountable, honest and relaxed to better deal with life's adversities and to co-exist more peacefully?
TravaTalksSmack 10 months ago 9
thank u soo much....
mindylorrie 10 months ago
Your so pretty!
cutestkittyface 10 months ago
Damn sista!!!
you really dropped some jewels on this!!!!
Peace!
ThePurplepistol 10 months ago
@ilikemitch your comment inspires me 2 revisit the terms matriarchy and patriarchy. Cuz clearly patriarchy is Not the answer. So I will revisit
lionessqueen9 10 months ago
@ilikemitch your comment inspires me 2 revisit the terms matriarchy and patriarchy.
lionessqueen9 10 months ago
you are too provocatively presented,far far too whorish!!!which man can trust a wife like you!!!!!!!!!!
onlyjoetee 11 months ago
@onlyjoetee LOL! Too whorish? LMBO! Sorry, I couldn't resist commenting here... you are funny. Only a trustworthy man can trust a woman. If he is doing dirt then he always expects her to do dirt... period.
hakashamut 8 months ago
@hakashamut i am a man,im telling you straight,believe me,you are far too outwardly suggestive in your manner, body language and presentation,this is a turn off and guaranteed to attract to yourself,the lowest common denominator!!!To attract a worthy man,never present yourself lasciviously,trust me on this,i have no reason to lie to you at all!!
onlyjoetee 8 months ago
@hakashamut bullshit
djobsession 6 months ago
@onlyjoetee the concept of being promiscuous is a man made idea used to manipulate and control women... and stop us from owning our own sexuality...
tsugirl281 8 months ago
@tsugirl281 promiscuity is not a concept,its a behaviour.its like saying the concept of being a murderer!!murder is not a concept!!LOL
onlyjoetee 8 months ago
@tsugirl281 if you're a woman and you're promiscuous,men will despise you instinctively,even the men you're promiscuous with,will despise you.Men are wired to despise sexually easy promiscuous or loose type women,regardless of what they actually say to them.Trust me on that one.Women also despise women who are promiscuous LOL plus the person herself will suffer low self esteem,so basically there is no advantage in it whatsoever LOL
onlyjoetee 8 months ago
@onlyjoetee couldnt agree with you more. nicely put.
suchafool990 7 months ago
@onlyjoetee speak for yourself playboi... you sound very insecure...pfg4life
kingflipp 7 months ago
@kingflipp its the truth and you know it,and im not a playboy thanks.and if you think promiscuity is admirable then ask yourself which of the 2 of us is insecure!!
onlyjoetee 7 months ago
@kingflipp is this what you would want for your daughter?or your mother?or your sister?or your wife????
onlyjoetee 7 months ago
@onlyjoetee she aint whorish, you're just rude. *whip whip*
33melonpaws77 4 months ago
@onlyjoetee
This video is targeted toward women viewers, not to males. This woman is presenting herself in a way to indicated that it's ok to be feminine in a way that exudes sexuality whenever in a intimate situation with your husband. A woman is lover to her husband...not a whore. Dose too provocative with husband = hell to you? Please grow up. You must be very young. I suggest a video that is on your maturity level, rated VYSI, for very young and sexually immature.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
@onlyjoetee
This video is targeted toward women viewers, not to males. This woman is presenting herself in a way to indicated that it's ok to be feminine in a way that exudes sexuality whenever in a intimate situation with your husband. A woman is lover to her husband...not a whore. Dose too provocative with husband = hell to you? Please grow up. You must be very young. I suggest a video that is on your maturity level, rated VYSI, for very young and sexually immature.
ladyEulaelie 2 months ago
Teach Goddess!
JahStayingElev8ted 11 months ago
Wow I really liked your video. You manage to articulate some very 'controversial' subjects. Basically, you simply can't have two 'kings' sharing the same crown. in other words, in order for any type of relationship to work, there must be a clear 'leader' and one who 'follows.' Testosterone helps one lead; estrogen helps one follow.
Yeah, I know it cuz my mom wanted to 'be on top' all the time. Yeah, I'm that 'feminized' male she was talking about. Any tips for me, maybe from ur hubby??
ilikemitchhedberg 11 months ago
Another thing I'd like to point out. Your speak of a woman using her "feminine wiles," to be relaxed, sensual, etc. When those are actually sexualist feminist concepts. I suggest you read the articles "Sexualist Feminism," and "The New Feminism," by Alyson-S, which can be found on DeviantArt.
It is ironic you mention such things and encourage women to embrace them as submissive "traits," when even feminist embrace them.
lovelyladynostalgic 11 months ago
How you define masculinity and femininity is really limited to a few cultures. You are aware of this? So while the Western World has this one ideal for men and women, tribal spots in Africa don't, as well as even what is expected of women in areas of Oriental Asia, where being "feminine," means to be strong, assertive and independent. There really is no trait that women or men have a stronger "natural," proclivity towards.
lovelyladynostalgic 11 months ago
I love the energy you have here, its awesome.
booteeny24 1 year ago
I like the content but this is a little too hype for me girl. Calm down.
lavee4life 1 year ago
Awesome video!! I am now exploring the JuJuMomma site to see what you are about. I am feeling what you are saying so far.
oldschoolvictor 1 year ago
Ready for part 2 and 3 and 4. Love how sensual and joyful you seem. And I love being a feminine, surrendering woman!
MyPritty1 1 year ago
I love it ! waiting for part 2
HShiahAmatullah 1 year ago
Where is part 2?
Yae391 1 year ago
Glad to see a black woman with some SENSE! Keep schooling these chics on a woman's role.
testizel 1 year ago
@testizel Actually this chick sleeps around on her husband, who's a mangina. Pretty shocking, check out the other videos
dubified89 1 year ago
@dubified89 damn fareal?
testizel 1 year ago
@dubified89 I know her and she does not sleep around
jumpingonglass 1 year ago
Feminism Sucks.Thank God I never listened to what a bunch of white, western women had to say. Women should be treated with love and worth. As should men. That's it. Otherwise, feminisim is dangerous to a woman's emotional, physical and mental health. This girl is right. More power to you sister and thank you.
SHOONGALOO 1 year ago
@SHOONGALOO
News flash! Feminism isn't dangerous. People make it appear to be dangerous by seeing independence, having a strong-will and being comfortable with one's own sexuality as negative traits-only for women. Because of social double-standards. Another problem, is what you perceive as natural. There are MANY other cultures where what we call a "masculinized," woman, is deemed normal and natural for females!
lovelyladynostalgic 11 months ago
White woman seeks a black submissive slave woman in Europe. You must know your place. Xxx
MadamXXXable 1 year ago
I am a 56 year old caucasian women and was on the forefront of the feminine movement. I have now gone full circle and see that women have to recapture our feminine power. We surrendered that when we went feminist. I am so glad to see you are helping to take women into a new age.
Parisatempest 1 year ago
In women's defense though, you have to understand why submission is such an intimidated word, let alone something to be acted on. We're always fighting to push forward in a world where feminine energy is not as easily appreciated or accomodated for in our society. But feminine energy is just as formiddable a force as masculinity, so I agree on women needing to tap into their natural, innate power as a woman.
SaturnPhase 1 year ago
Great. When I saw the title..I was like wha?But I am open to receiving information about myself and also the sacred feminine..thank you sista. Looking forward to the next episode..
theshrine100 1 year ago
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healingdaily 1 year ago
I love it!! Wise words. Keep on educating and sharing your knowledge. Bless!!
BLISSBabyBLISS 1 year ago
Its ok to be a woman...She's accurate in her observations. He she's and She he's are the ones the mainstream what us to emulate. SHE IS HAPPY BEING WHAT SHE IS. A beautiful woman. But I understand (Romans 1:26) so I think she's PERFECTLY CORRECT SO FAR....C...
itnupe10 1 year ago
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Nothing but the truth!
tippi410 1 year ago
I used to tell my ex-husband this stuff during our marriage...know what he said to me..."I would if you would let me!" Dude...TAKE CONTROL LIKE A MAN. Was I wrong to expect him to do so?
TheJazzyjm 1 year ago
I love it Kenya...looking forward to your videos
NatalieGRamsay 1 year ago
Teach Kenya! Love it...
raya7 1 year ago
thank you thank you thank you for this!
i am sooo looking forward to the next addition to this series :-D
how does a masculinized woman return to her natural feminine state?
arisalaamel 1 year ago
Well, ok...this confrontation thing. Isn't there a certain "way" a man should confront. Cause i would always confront issues,but it caused further problems instead of resolutions. So i learned to fall back to avoid all the beefin. The beefin became very exhausting and depleting. It was either i fall back or continue down the road of confrontation which i could see would lead to violence.
ComeOnNow100 1 year ago
Right on time. You helped me before I stepped back into masculine. I've been in my role for a couple weeks and was just about to step out. This is right on time.
iamanasha 1 year ago