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  • I find a better motherfucka than the last! I get one chance to live and i aint spending it on a douchbag who didnt stick around!!!

  • Take up a hobby, get out of the house, anything to keep your mind busy and off of the other person.

  • I laughed on this but I diff. find a REBOUND!!!!Lol I do believe the concept is mean cause the rebound never lasts but its a selfish way to get over the hump that's stopping the show.

  • Do NOT go out partying with all your single girls or rebound! Which essentially go hand in hand because they usually coincide with each other.

    Hit the gym! Make yourself look SO GOOD that he'll regret the day yall broke up, while you finally realise you are too damn fine to be with him anyway! Originally I wanted to work out so that he'd want to take me back, flawed logic I know, but I ended up feeling better about myself before, during, and after the break up. Good luck!

  • i cry once and move on , never talk about him the next day

  • When I got dumped by my bf. We were so happy. Now he's my bestfriend

  • i do things to get him off my mind :\

  • Just broke up with my girlfriend today, and it hurts like a motherfucker!! I didn't trust her, so she dumped me! We were together for 6 months and yesterday (valentines day) was our 6 month anniversary, and we went and saw the vow and I gave her flowers, a teddy bear, and chocolates! But it just wasn't enough I guess

  • I cried a lot. And then I cried. I certainly didn't watch romantic movies. I couldn't stand to see happy couples together for a while after that. Forget about sad music. That would hurt too much. It just reminded me that I once thought we would last forever. But time did make it better. We did see each other occasionally which maybe helped, or hurt. Turns out we're married now so you never know what the future will bring.

  • burn the things he gave me and mail him the ashes

  • It is hard for me to get to sleep at night anyway so keep busy for the day hang out with friends or if that's not an option be with someone and don't b alone cause you'll just feel like ur allowed to cry if no ones there to c u and at night watch COMEDY or something fun whether that b tv, book, YouTube and keep yourself amused, watching sad stuff will just make u depressed.

  • Surround myself with with friends or family members

  • i sit alon in my room in the dark n hear depressing song that relate 2 how i feel :"/

  • Hey man, A break up can be healed, (Though, in extreme situations, I guess not) But there are some things (Psychologically scarring) ... that even time cannot heal.

  • @Meixafuhellzman2 I agree with you! There are really just some things that even time cannot heal and it's fully up to you to see yourself through the healing process by doing everything you can do to learn to live and love again even with the scars.

  • I've never really had to deal with a bad breakup because I was always the one breaking up with the absolutely psychotic guy. So I guess my dealing with a breakup was me trying to stay alive or keep from further pissing the said guy off.

  • @49ersfan831 , I WILL. Gladly (; ahaha

  • i get busy, fill up every single minute of my day with something to do and then wear myself out so that im too tired to cry even at night. it works for a while

  • @musicalcomfy totally agree

  • My fiance just recently broke up with me and i drank till i got so drunk i watched every one of my sad love story movie (i have 6) and cried to every one of them

  • personally i watch sad movies and cry it all out (:

  • i would always change the style of my hair to get a fresh new start. go shopping for new outfits, then non stop partying with the girls. then theres those days where i lay in bed late at night and cry and write poems to express the way i feel. then i move on!!!

  • i usually gather my close friends and discuss everything about him, our relationships and so on..and it helps for me to steam off:-)

  • Music helped me but i got him back (:

  • Single for VDAY this year !!!! eww but ohh well. Me & my bf broke up a week ago, Love ur vids. especially this one, haha i did this like the whole day then realized omfg ima bumm!

  • I am trying to deal with it now thats why i am here:( we broke up 3 days ago and my days are super long!! It's really sad we probably wont be together for valentine's day and our 5 year anniversary was supposed to be on feb 19:( what i am doing is listening to music but then stop cuz i dont wanna cry. at work i try not to think about it and i try staying positive by saying "he is not suffering the way you are, so why are you" that helps a little but not much i just want to be with him:'(

  • @ortecatii I understand exactly what you mean, The minutes feel like hours! Also trust me...you may think listening to sad songs and crying helps you get it out - but TRUST me, noce you stop doing that, you will find you've built a small bridge of strength inside you. Totally worked for me. I kept thinking the sad songs were helping me, then as soon as i stopped - i began to notice feeling stronger, (even if just a little)

  • Watch Titanic, call my best friend and vent, and practice my makeup so I can make his new girl jealous at school the next day :)

  • how i deal with a breakup hmmm listen to lots of music & watch sad movies

  • when i go through a break up i have friends help me through it by hanging out with me

  • music helps me a lot

  • When I go through a break up I do exactly what you do Jess, I stalk them untill my hearts content and after that, I go to plan B which is to "accidentally" go to the same party as them and act as if I'm a crazy drunk party freak whos having the time of there life dating whom ever they wish! And if that doesn't work....I go and hide in a wardrobe and cry my eyes out! The end! ;)

  • omg... i literally had to laugh out loud to this! i think it's my favorite video ever by you! thank you so much. it was hilarious!

  • Smoke my weed....

  • I cry in my room, watch Titanic and marley and me cos they r sad. Then go out with my friends

  • Tell me y ur sexy ass looks like Kim kardashian

  • @Austingreen12345 She doesn't look anything like Kim Kardashian

  • @Relladylove09 cool story bro

  • I just got out of a long-term relationship and want to say I'm doing well. The first couple of times of my break-up I definitely went through a stage were I had no kind of support and it got worse where I became very suicidal and would hurt myself. I eventually got over it on my own telling myself that "I can do this; I don't need him". Now, I'm actually seeking support from my friends. I've cut off all ties or connections w/ my ex. I'm also taking the time to reflect on myself and keeping busy.

  • omg i have the same david and goliath blanket as you..

  • I play madden till I stop thinking about the break up

  • omg your hott.. but since im bored .. i'll comment... How i get over it is... Cryy in my room for hours!!! Then realize wtf i did wrong for this bitch to leave me!! After a whole week of that.. i treat him like shit and move on.. hahahaha..!

  • i am gonna drink till my soul is numb LOL

  • i actually just suffered a break up and i really just did everything i needed to do in my life to keep my mind off of it,oh and to get myself better organized all all that good stuff lol

    love you videos

  • I joined the Army. It works too. Go off see the world, meet very interesting people and kill them. Airborne all the way.

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  • i cry, hear music, watch sad movies, or text him >:)

  • Random Cat! 1:41 lmao

    

  • I get fucked up everyday until they outta my system or memory whichever comes first

  • Love this video

  • i cries. then watch funny youtube vid. then i end up feeling better .-.

  • i just get the fuck over it. its a girl. big deal. im fine. YOU HEAR THAT SARAH!!! IIM FINE!

  • Well i just went throughva tough breakup, and my friend gave me some advise. He said if you text her nonstop, just sweet talking, then ignor her for like 2 days, then she will beb begging for you. And she is back with me, so i want you to make a video on how to make a relationship not awkward. Thanks

  • Hahahha, 1:26, that's what I do xD

  • Lol that's funny

  • You looked waiting up in this video!

  • If i ever break up with people i just watch ur vidz to cheer me up LOL

  • I recently had a break up and it hurts but I came to realise that some people aren't ment to be so I go out more often go have fun do things I wouldn't normaly do when I was with him and it takes my mind of it keeping bz that is and like you said with time you tend to let people go

  • Because I am hopeless for all things "true love" I tend to take Breakups pretty hard. But I'm not like crying hysterically and watching the Notebook. I'm more of the sad smile type. He'll look my way and I'll look totally irresistible until he must take me back

    Which of course I will refuse

    #IveGotLifeFiguredOut.

  • Ill have to say i just keep it inside simple for me when it builts up to much then i ignore wat is going on. If that make scense o.o

  • I watch movies that make me cry. A LOT.... So far, that's been making me feel better.

  • haha im a dude and we deal with it diferently then girls, id probably go out and get my dick wet haha thumbs up if u agree!!

  • @520sBabyBoy ewwww

  • @520sBabyBoy lmao. no one thumbed up this shit.

  • smoke weed

  • I give their number out to ugly guys who hit on me at the bar

  • Friends

  • i talk shit bout them

    

  • Well I EAT LOTS IF CHOCOLATE

  • i cry myself to sleep.

  • Just carry on and don't give a poo about them

  • Did you know that dissing your ex-significant other is a defence mechanism that many people have? They actually don't mean it, it just boosts their own self-esteem, and what they mean is usually the exact opposite of what they say!

    Anyway, I think a good way to "deal with a break up" is to go out and do things you might not normally do, to distract yourself. One might find a new hobby that they could take up in the process...

  • you wouldnt have to stalk me to get me to take you back js

  • say '' you wasnt even cute anyways'' haha and chillen with my bros

  • U R SO FUKIN HOT. 

  • i deal with brakeups by talking to my friends or people i trust

  • Mint chocolate chip icecream?

  • Who the FUGHCK!? WOULD BREAK UP WITH U!?!?!...UR LIKE MOST BEAUTIFULLEST GIRL I HAVE EVER SEEN!

  • Yr funny

  • @1:40 i saw her pussy yay

  • i smoke weed.

  • best way to get over a break up is smoke a lot of weed...it works 99% of the time

  • I dance and throw the pillows at the window.

    Sometimes i even write e letter saying everything i think but i don't deliver it!!!

  • I once broke up with a girl cause Lil B fucked my bitch. True story

  • when i break up with a guy.. i change my relationship status on facebook. jk.. i try not to think about him.. havin fun with the girls, flirting with other HOT guys, going to a party,etc. you can do ANYTHING..except thinking about him and cryin over him ;)

  • I'd never break up with this woman. 

  • i kill them...penises...lol...gun...h­erp derp...

  • This girl is fine.... How many sex partner you have?

  • Writing, sketching, praying, and hanging out with friends. Oh, and thinking of all the things that caused the breakup so I wouldn't feel desperate to get back together :d

  • omg i broke up with my ex the other day and haha my crazy friend keeps stalking him 4 me hehe i made a mistake with breaking up with him and like yeah im sad cuz i asked him out today again and HE SAID NOOO i wasnt expecting it:( hes like hot.... i caint get over it :( cheer me up plz!!

  • I WRITE MEAN SONGS ABOUT THEM LOL no in all seriousness I WRITE songs and it really helps me

  • This girl has a freakishly huge mouth :)

  • i talk to more guys, just flirting. easy to remember theres more fish in the sea when you physically see that its true

  • Exotic mommy, are you Filipino?? : D

  • i find out who her new boyfriend is and kick his ass 

  • I love u exotic mommy

  • I go out and stay busy and at times i think about the good times we had and how i was happy and eventually i start to get over it and wish him happiness while i find mine.

  • LOL. You're so funny!

  • I loveeeeee youuu !! <3 you always make my day

  • Go get bitches. c:

  • I listen to music sad songs and cry or I talk with my girls about the brake up

  • just cry it all out...but i figured out that inviting new people into your life helps out alot

  • I eat chocolate, i know i'm a lil young to be datingg :PP

  • I actually just masturbate to get over them.

    MASTURBATE THE NIGHT AWAYYY!

  • I watch funny movies and have a girls weekend with my friends :)

  • I spend my time Thinking of ways to make them upset and hurt there feelings like mine are hurt!

  • I tend to write out poems, it's like a way for me to really express how I would feel. To me it's like a way for forgetting about a person by writing down things, kinda hard to explain...

  • @kevinluryaj i do that sometimes to. do don't worry you're not weird lol

  • @keneshawboo013 Oh haha kinda thought I was the only who does that lol:)

  • @kevinluryaj haha nope and it really does help

  • @keneshawboo013 oh ok:)

  • listen to music that relates to the situation!

  • thank u for the video ... it really helps!

  • I just sit & listen to songs that remind of what a jerk the guy is for breaking up with me & what he's going to be missing when he realizes what a big mistake he made for breaking up with me.

  • well when they stop careing i stop and say wow there really loseing all this and i go out with my friends and hit on peepz at the mall

  • Ur hot

  • Life goes on, theres nothing we can do, live throught this and we wont look back.

  • I would find out where they live and bring my stereo and put on the song - baby come bak- untill she does even if people say shut up and throw rubbish at me

  • Move to a new country n become a Buddhist priest... Or hit you up n c if you wanna c a movie ;)

  • -Is The Movie On "The NoteBook" ?

  • i felt sad when she was crying i just wanted to give a big hug and say everything is ok :D

  • I would will not talk to him and make him jalouse by flirting with his best friends just saying =D

  • lol! dude you are too funny.

  • Hahahahaha I saw the cats butt!! Lol

  • Oh I forgot to add that time really I the best remedy. Overtime u will prevail!

  • I try to spend a lot of time shopping cuz I wanna look hot again lol.. Or hotter. Work out. Watch a lot of my fav shows from episode one and end of season lol...go out with friends (not to bars or clubs) cuz obviously I don't wanna hop back into the market right away before I'm over it completely. I try reading inspirational books. Tumblr is a great distraction , oh and MOST importantly, I pray! Cuz whatever comes to me and passes me, wasn't meant for me so I need help to let it go.

  • Omg lol

  • what i do is listen to happy music and block him from Facebook...!!

  • I watched this video 900 times just to hear "I love you to teeni-weeni-itty-bitty little pieces" <3 <3

  • i went through a pretty bad break up about a year ago.. for me.. i dont know how to deal with a heart ache.. but what i did was tell that person to stop calling me and to stop texting me.. eventually.. i got over him.. as much as it hurts to not hear his voice or see them.. it helps you get over them..

  • best way to get over a rough breakup...replace the loss. find a vice and go with it, or find someone else. but that should be obvious. I find that writing really helps.

  • I huts ignore them

  • I love youu boo

  • cry and cry and cry and eat lots of ice-cream

  • @tdmisawesome i thought you said cyr and cyr and cyr O.o..... oh god i'm so obsessed 

  • *now

  • if i was atached to that person then i deal with it very badly.. like in the video and its just sad.

    one time i even stayed in the house(shut down) for whole month couse i just couldnt go outside.. no i deal with it a lot better.:]

  • i heart yo face lol

  • the part with the watches.... lmao :P

  • Idk ive never dated any1 ive cared about cuz they were all guys ( im a lesbian if its not obvious)

  • I listen to songs that cheer me up, songs that understand your feelings and giving u good advices about how to deal with it! :) It really helps! But time is the best heal :) Songs will just keepin you from doing things u'll regret later in life

  • I usually cry, then say to myself I don't deserve him, go work out, then go out and go get a massage or something. Like pamper myself. (: It works.

  • wat i do is lay on my bed and listen to grenade and space bound like over and over then i get over it.

  • Chill in my bed,talk to my beatfriend,watch heaps and heaps of YouTube wif snacks in the comfty bed,think of ways to get revenge :)

  • i hook up with other guys :)

  • You so reminded me of a young Jennifer Lopez in this vid. Love your acting. Keep it real. Love you.

  • 1:41 KITTY xD

  • kitty!

  • i take that back i do love you

  • i think i love you

  • I broke up with my bf after 2 years of being dating. He didn't like the fact that I was bi, even though he "loved me"... I felt really bad because besides that, he was the best person in the world. The way I "managed" it was by writing, sleeping, eating, doing exercise pretty much anything that kept me from thinking about him.. But now that I'm over it I know I CAN'T be with someone if I can't be myself with them

    ♥ U JESS! :D

  • @TeQuieroMujer WORD

  • ll i thought i was the only one who did the voodoo thing :')

  • i just smoke some kush with a fifth of gin and listen to music

  • lets fuck

  • SHOP! get a haircut or workout extra harder , hang out with my girls LOTS -- keep your mind occupied. meet some hotties at a lounge with some bumpin music . get your buzz on on a wednesday night , whatever . .

  • @exoticjess ok so now you taught me how to break up but you havent told me how to actually get a girlfriend i fell like im forever alone

  • @skills1mill haha after reading #1 and #2 I thought four sure you were a chick.

  • Find another chick and bang her brains out!!!

  • @nateisreallycool preferably your ex's sister or best friend

  • @iisdon Exactly!!!

  • I like that vid it is true some people do deal with break ups like that.

  • I LOVE YOU JESS! <3

  • just hook up with a shit load of girls, and in four months you'll be fine

  • lol the cat at 1:40

  • Mint chip ice-cream that's the best ice-cream ever

  • My sister and I spend the day together and watch funny movies

  • I listen to depressing love songs. and post quotes on fb.

  • THE COUNTRY IS LAKE THIS... A PEASE OF SHIT

  • 1:40

    cat

  • 1#Lock my self room with 808s and Heartbreaks Blasting on my stereo as I sing along loudly connecting with every lyric thinking kanye is singing my life

    2#Drink soju ..lots of soju wind up at kareoke bar and sing some boys to men

    3#Find a Girl hotter than my last and get my Rebound on

    4# Im over that bitch,Delete everything Photos Facebook Ph numbers

    #5 Go on holiday-hit the beach,Get motivated and move on lifes to short to hold on to bullshit

    #6 live Big... success is the best revenge

  • hahaha this is fkn hilarious....good job jess

  • you should go blonde

  • You get over someone but getting under someone else.