Yes I do think sum people can b alone, and theres nothing wrong with this, not every1 is meant to be with sumbody I think. Im too much of a complicated person anyway, Ive tried to connect with people but Im just too out of sync with people today. I cant help but see everything that is wrong with society in this era we r in. Wenever I talk to people I usually end up arguing with them, I make people end up either disliking me, or just get tired of me lol. Like I sed Im just complicated.
i am very lonely right now. i found this great place on the internet to connect with other people like me through the MBTI personality test. it worked and it really helps. but still the internet cant replace knowing people in real life. almost all my life i felt i didnt need friends. i was happy with being alone all the time so i never much cared if i didnt talk to anyone. but trust me it catches up with you later. u may be fine now but trust me later the loneliness sets in. its very painful too
@Mropticalgreen sorry for replying so late. the website is called Personality Cafe. you can google the MBTI personality test and take it and once you find your type you sign up for Personality Cafe and you can connect with like minded people. i can send you the links for both in pm if you like.
there's nothing wrong with being alone. if you connect with people, theres that gigantic chance that you'll get hurt. pick yourself up no matter how lonely you are, nothing is impossible. i never went to any of my dances at school, never went to prom or ball and i turned out fine. i dont need friends and i dont need family to get along in life, i just find things more enjoyable when im alone. life becomes easier.
yes im in this situation for years... no job .. physical disability... moved house 7 times.. due to family problems... 6 years ago i had a part time job. had friends, family, good neighbours etc.. now where i am even though its an estate like the last .. neighbours are young but cold... i lost contact with everyone... my life is so bleak... moved twice in last 6 years.. thats 3 homes.. but i couldnt control things as i was bullied into moving.. i had to be with my kids..miss my old home so much
I live with loneliness evey day. I stop going out and I don't see and live music anymore. Which is what I love. I only go to work and come home. For me it's about sharing my life with someone. And hope not to end up alone.
@atthehops - Isn't it baffling? MILLIONS of people feel alone... and yet despite this sea of people... who can support and relate to each other -- they feel even lonelier together than before. Why is this? Well, mainly because humanity has not hit the "emotional intelligence" that it should. Too many people feel they ARE alone in their "painful, powerful, indescribable, epic" feeling! So how could anyone "possibly" understand THEM?! *sigh* It's this primitive mindset that holds us back. =*(
Well, what if you are alone and unconnected, not just feeling alone? In AA you get a sponsor to support well being. Loniness as a condition requires help from others, as in mentoring to reconnect. We are told to do this on our own, but this creates co dependent behaviors. Loneliness is not about simply being with others, it is trust and intimacy within relationship. Most of the disconnect comes from when we are young and goes unaddressed for years.
@atthehops - Yes, you are right. And I understand this and that is included in what I've meant. The media, television, social organizations, etc do not seem to attend so easily to matters that are important. Instead, they continue to feed into ideas that make you even lonelier (concepts, stereotypes, hopeless scenerios, etc) and make you think that everyone else is having a good time while you're just a worthless nobody. If only they knew the reality of the situation. We need more depth in media
i suffer with that BUT i have been alone all my life. I have no brothers or sisters or friends. In the UK trying to find a good friend is a joke. If you have a partner they dont want to know you at all . when they break up with there partner they want to be friends with you THATS A FACT
@wpinklady i'm sorry that you're all alone with no friends or brothers and sisters. i'm alone most of the time too but luckily I have sisters i can talk to. unfortunately no other family except my mom and there's something really wrong with her, psycho, abusive, sadistic, jealous, broken... don't know exactly.....anyway, i'm truly sorry that you're in that situation.
@TheChasing Like "Hey, nice weather we're having." and "Did you see that article in the paper yesterday?". But taking it to the next level is hard. Especially if you mess up somehow and they avoid you. Ugh.
Yes I do think sum people can b alone, and theres nothing wrong with this, not every1 is meant to be with sumbody I think. Im too much of a complicated person anyway, Ive tried to connect with people but Im just too out of sync with people today. I cant help but see everything that is wrong with society in this era we r in. Wenever I talk to people I usually end up arguing with them, I make people end up either disliking me, or just get tired of me lol. Like I sed Im just complicated.
RaikenXion 1 week ago
Funny how there are million people around me.. and yet I feel so lonely
eddieguerrero122 3 weeks ago
All I can do is to accept my fate.... I'm not afraid anymore... all I want to know is how to settle for being completely alone....
BASTARDUS1MAXIMUS 6 months ago
i am very lonely right now. i found this great place on the internet to connect with other people like me through the MBTI personality test. it worked and it really helps. but still the internet cant replace knowing people in real life. almost all my life i felt i didnt need friends. i was happy with being alone all the time so i never much cared if i didnt talk to anyone. but trust me it catches up with you later. u may be fine now but trust me later the loneliness sets in. its very painful too
CloudWatcherX 1 year ago 3
@CloudWatcherX im in the same boat :\
yakanies 11 months ago
@CloudWatcherX whats the name of the website
Mropticalgreen 6 months ago
@Mropticalgreen sorry for replying so late. the website is called Personality Cafe. you can google the MBTI personality test and take it and once you find your type you sign up for Personality Cafe and you can connect with like minded people. i can send you the links for both in pm if you like.
CloudWatcherX 6 months ago
there's nothing wrong with being alone. if you connect with people, theres that gigantic chance that you'll get hurt. pick yourself up no matter how lonely you are, nothing is impossible. i never went to any of my dances at school, never went to prom or ball and i turned out fine. i dont need friends and i dont need family to get along in life, i just find things more enjoyable when im alone. life becomes easier.
yura347 1 year ago
yes im in this situation for years... no job .. physical disability... moved house 7 times.. due to family problems... 6 years ago i had a part time job. had friends, family, good neighbours etc.. now where i am even though its an estate like the last .. neighbours are young but cold... i lost contact with everyone... my life is so bleak... moved twice in last 6 years.. thats 3 homes.. but i couldnt control things as i was bullied into moving.. i had to be with my kids..miss my old home so much
fairhillnorrie 1 year ago
I live with loneliness evey day. I stop going out and I don't see and live music anymore. Which is what I love. I only go to work and come home. For me it's about sharing my life with someone. And hope not to end up alone.
blues5000 1 year ago 6
@blues5000 Bro we do share something alike here haha!
Archergod 1 year ago
Why is it that lonely people come here to post and comment but cannot band together to create a website for mutual support?
I have ideas about why, but wonder what others think.
Please post a reply
atthehops 1 year ago
@atthehops - Isn't it baffling? MILLIONS of people feel alone... and yet despite this sea of people... who can support and relate to each other -- they feel even lonelier together than before. Why is this? Well, mainly because humanity has not hit the "emotional intelligence" that it should. Too many people feel they ARE alone in their "painful, powerful, indescribable, epic" feeling! So how could anyone "possibly" understand THEM?! *sigh* It's this primitive mindset that holds us back. =*(
YourDarkAccomplice 1 year ago
@YourDarkAccomplice
Well, what if you are alone and unconnected, not just feeling alone? In AA you get a sponsor to support well being. Loniness as a condition requires help from others, as in mentoring to reconnect. We are told to do this on our own, but this creates co dependent behaviors. Loneliness is not about simply being with others, it is trust and intimacy within relationship. Most of the disconnect comes from when we are young and goes unaddressed for years.
atthehops 1 year ago
@atthehops - Yes, you are right. And I understand this and that is included in what I've meant. The media, television, social organizations, etc do not seem to attend so easily to matters that are important. Instead, they continue to feed into ideas that make you even lonelier (concepts, stereotypes, hopeless scenerios, etc) and make you think that everyone else is having a good time while you're just a worthless nobody. If only they knew the reality of the situation. We need more depth in media
YourDarkAccomplice 1 year ago
Connecting with other people is hard .\a lot of people dont want to know. That is how they are in the UK
wpinklady 1 year ago
i suffer with that BUT i have been alone all my life. I have no brothers or sisters or friends. In the UK trying to find a good friend is a joke. If you have a partner they dont want to know you at all . when they break up with there partner they want to be friends with you THATS A FACT
wpinklady 1 year ago
@wpinklady i'm sorry that you're all alone with no friends or brothers and sisters. i'm alone most of the time too but luckily I have sisters i can talk to. unfortunately no other family except my mom and there's something really wrong with her, psycho, abusive, sadistic, jealous, broken... don't know exactly.....anyway, i'm truly sorry that you're in that situation.
RlGrl1 1 year ago
@RlGrl1 yeah its a horrid situation to be in
wpinklady 1 year ago
sometimes u try though (being with ppl). ....
but something wont let you....
i mean in a way "what to talk about"
or "how to feel about" ....
but thanks :)
TheChasing 1 year ago
@TheChasing yeah i agree. i thought maybe learning how to small talk might help. at least that's what i'm trying to do.
RlGrl1 1 year ago
@TheChasing Like "Hey, nice weather we're having." and "Did you see that article in the paper yesterday?". But taking it to the next level is hard. Especially if you mess up somehow and they avoid you. Ugh.
RlGrl1 1 year ago
@TheChasing it's like a wall
PianoplayingFanatic 1 year ago