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  • Imagine if men were men, women were women, children were children, adults were adults, animals were animals & mankind kept the natural balance. There would be no psychological issues, no chemical-imbalance, no immorality, no insecurity, no insanity, no selfishness, no materialism, no capitalism, no Monarchy, no broken homes, no corruption and no chaos. But I guess when pure carnal lust dominates objective reason, you can look at a porno & say "It's okay for babies to be raised under this."

  • @cosmosmonger Now, most children act like adults: sex, drugs, adult responsibility, codependency, violence, romance, materialism, insecurity...Things unnatural for a child. As a result, when they become adults they psychologically revert back to the childhood that was taken from them. Men lack the protective instinct over women, women lack natural affection for children. We can't seem to distinguish humans from animals. All the chaos in our world from a violation of THE most basic human reason.

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  • ABOMINATIONS TRYING TO PASS THEMSELVES AS HOLIER THAN THOU=FUTILE AT ALL ATTEMPTS!!! YOUR SICKENINGLY DISGUSTING WAYS REMAIN ABHORRENT AND NOTHING YOU DO IN THE NAME OF GOODNESS WILL ACHIEVE GREAT SIGNIFICANCE AS WHAT YOU ALSO DO IS BAD AND EVIL!!! FEEL SORRY FOR THE CHILDREN WHO INEVITABLY WILL GROW UP TO BECOME UNSTABLE AND SUICIDAL ADULTS.SHAME,SHAME,SHAME!!! GRAVELY GREAT SHAME!!! MAKE IT BETTER BY REMOVING THE KIDS TO BE GIVEN TO MORALLY SANE AND LOGICAL HETEROSEXUAL COUPLES.

  • Disgusting.

  • with all the str8 people out there why the hell are there any kids that needs a home ?? why haven't all these gay hating str8 people adopting these kids ?? can we say hypocrisy ?

  • I've never witnessed CRAZY being sold as NORMAL as much as I see it currently. Homosexuality was widely considered & classified as a mental condition not too long ago. But today you wackjobs want to normalize it and gay dads. Get out of your delusional haze.

  • @llouldeng Completely agree with you! 

  • Don't pretend that orphanage adoption is the only method gays find kids. They bring new life into the world (needing a female of course), fully knowing that kid will be motherless.

  • i wouldnt want 2 dads. Woman+Man= Mother and father,

  • @jaggass To bad children don't have the facility or understating to choose their parents. But, unlike you (who can afford such luxuries), I'm sure these foster children are happy to be simply loved by two parents.

  • This is like an out of body experience! I also want to adopt children from around the world just like you guys! Such an inspiration! Keep up the good work!

  • I'd also like to say, these parents are surely more loving than ill-equipped, irresponsible straight parents. To that I also say MARRIAGE is important for a reason as well. It cuts a lot of the crap parenting out for one. Put two well-headed families side by side, one w/straight parents and one w/gay parents, and look for yourself which one is more successful.

  • Men and Women are DIFFERENT for a reason. Women are much more nurturing than men for a REASON. Daughters grow fond of their mothers for a REASON. Sons grow up and yearn to learn from their father and separate from "mommy" for a REASON. A man has sex with a woman for a VERY GOOD REASON (to make a child). It doesn't mean two gay men can't love their kids, but it will cause development issues. Children need both a mother and a father, it has been proven. Otherwise, development issues will occur.

  • @huntsman1230 All scientific research proves you incorrect in this.

  • @enzedbrit Bull. Science proves it is better for two gay men to adopt rather than a mother and father raise a baby? Wow. Please. Send me this study.

  • @huntsman1230 Development issues? Such as? Daughters grow fond of their mothers? As opposed to their fathers? And sons separate from their mothers? PROOF?

  • @huntsman1230 "Men and Women are DIFFERENT for a reason. Women are much more nurturing than men for a REASON." You haven't considered whether this so-called "difference" is evolutionary or not. If that's the case (that women are more nurturing simply because of the gender roles placed on them throughout history), then you don't have an argument. Obviously this hasn't been concluded, but everything you've said is unsubstantiated THEORY, not FACT.

  • @huntsman1230 In short, you haven't PROVEN your claim and debunked the notion that dads can't potentially be AS nurturing as mothers given experience.

  • @huntsman1230 And regardless, so what? No one's actively advocating for same-sex parents to replace opposite-sex parents. Gay people are in the minority, and gay parents always WILL be. But your claim doesn't ethically PRECLUDE them from becoming good parents either.

  • What does "gay" mean...? I'm confused about this video. Are those two men brothers or what?

  • @ depfox Everyone should subscribe to the "depfox" channel. It was originally made in response to Prop-8. They are a married, gay couple, with adopted kids, living in northern California. If you want to see a glimpse of what a gay family is like, subscribe to their channel and watch their "Gay Family Values" series. If you have questions, watch their "Ask A Gay Family" series or send them a video-question of your own.

  • children need a home

    good on ya

  • Family means love......all colours and genders. Stay out of other people's lives, put your negative energy to rest! This is a true family, chosen with love, not an accident of birth!

  • When did children become pets? Now everyone is entitled to go get one and play house. If adults want to live as homosexuals, then constitutionally, they can do so. But to allow them to decide the fate of innocent children is just another example of a nation lead by wicked people. To thrust a child into the middle of this madness is horrific!!!! These adults have made a conscious choice to not procreate. So to hand children over to them so that they can play the role of loving parent is crazy.

  • @Sensiblehuman no. you are the "crazy" one. grow up. educate yourself. Many Homosexuals ARE loving parents. Many Heterosexuals are NOT loving parents. Being a parent has nothing to do with one's sexuality. These are just the facts. If you want to be taken seriously, it would be unwise to ignore them.

  • @hardinmichael1981

    Mr. There is no such thing as 'gay dads'. There is no such thing as 'straight dads'. This is an oxymoron. No two distinct men can impregnate an ovum (woman's egg) simultaneously to create a child. So the very concept of two dads is dead in the water. Who's crazy now? Second, if you have taken the path whereby your sexual interactions could in no way lead to offspring, why in hell are you 'abducting' innocent children just to make a statement to society? This is not natural!!!

  • @Sensiblehuman when children are abandoned and neglected by their biological mother and father, society has an interest in ensuring that such children are provided with loving, stable homes. Such children are not 'abducted' as you put it. They are rescued.

    In a perfect world the best place for a child would be with their biological parents. But we don't live in a perfect world. Some biological parents are neglectful, some are abusive, some are drug addicts, some are criminals.

  • @Sensiblehuman "These adults have made a conscious choice to not procreate."

    1. Being gay isn't a choice. If that's what your implying, when did you choose to be straight?

    2. Many Hetero couples have "made a conscious choice to not procreate". Should they also not be allowed to adopt children?  But that isn't really what you care about is it?

    "decide the fate of innocent children" Do you think having gay parents will turn a child gay?

    NEWS: MOST GAYS (99.99%) HAVE STRAIGHT PARENTS.

  • @hardinmichael1981

    Everything is a choice! Celibacy, masturbation, rape, theft, embezzlement, oral sex, anal sex, group sex, vaginal sex, pornography watching, dating Black or White or Blonde or Brunette or short or tall or an amputee (exception is being raped) are all choices. An individual enjoying a male's anus or a female's anus or a male's tongue or a female's tongue are choices that one decides to allow into his or her conscious mind. Lower animals are instinctual probably, but not us.

  • @hardinmichael1981

    Just because homosexual promoters keep saying that homosexual behavior is not a choice doesn't make it so. There is rampant homosexual activity taken place in prisons and jails aqll over this country. The participants, unless raped, are homosexually behaved, among other things. The act is what is being defined, not the being. Straight or gay are labels that describe what people do. We are still just people. People self-identify as 'gay' or 'straight'.

  • @Sensiblehuman I never said that sexual BEHAVIOR wasn't a choice. For all you know these couples may be celibate. I agree that it may not be likely. But I know gay parents. They do not flaunt their sexuality in front of their kids any more than any decent straight parents would.

    There are Non-biological parents. Step parents. Adoptive parents. The person who raises you doesn't have to be the same person who conceived you or bore you. would u think of a person you never met as a parent?

  • @hardinmichael1981

    1. I chose not to rape, molest children, have sex with a sibling or biologic parent, have sex with a friend's wife. I chose to have intimate relations with adult females as an adult, and age-equivalent females as a teenager. I chose not to interact with males, even those that impersonated females.

    2. The natural order is Male+Female. When children come forth, that is how children get here. In that setting children belong. The old saying is "it takes two to tangle", M+F=2.

  • @hardinmichael1981

    All people - 100% have male and female biologic parents regardless of the activities of the parenting pair. An individual can state that he or she and the pet dog make good parents to a child. Can you dispute that as long as the child has a shelter, food, clothing, and a safe environment? However, is it fair to subject a child that is not biologically yours to such a destiny? This gay parenting thing is not about the children, it's about the gays, "We are like You, too." Not.

  • @Sensiblehuman what do you mean by the "destiny" of children of gay parents? If you honestly asked the children of such households, they will tell you that they are quite happy.

    Soory to burst your bubble but like you said: "Straight or gay are labels that describe what people do. We are still just people. People self-identify as 'gay' or 'straight'." Homosexuals and heterosexuals are alike in many ways.

    Being able to raise happy, healthy kids into happy, healthy adults is one of those ways.

  • You talk about yourself ??? fusked gay!!!

  • @azutega33 : message for TMBrd89...ok

  • they are not believing God..... they are illuminati

  • i like thomas' tight jeans :-)

  • I hate this... This is not family......MAN+WOMAN= FAMILY ONLY.

  • @azutega33 Yes cause an abusive dad beating your mother, MAKES THE BEST FAMILY YAY! Go fuck yourself with a rusty pole or a splintering post!

  • @azutega33 . love always wins =)

  • Four kids who are destined to grow up inherently incapable of racism or homophobia. That's awesome all by itself.

    Now if the people who want to "protect children" could finally let their dads get married so those kids could have the PROTECTION having married parents gives. But no, they want to "protect kids" so they'll make damn sure those kids have less rights than the kids of straight parents. To protect them...somehow.

  • they're a rainbow :P

  • In the Grand Scheme of Things, what can it possibly matter who sticks what into whom? What matters is raising a bunch of kids with the advantage of a two-parent family, who otherwise would have nothing.

    For those of you who think this family should not exist...then YOU adopt some of the lost children!

  • you are all f***n believe n the world I hate this. God says no gays. ur all just bitches listening to this

  • @TheToontownprincess god can fuck himself

  • @jalopotan fuck himself... u can fuck in hell bitch

  • @TheToontownprincess Listen here ho, god never said he doesnt like gays he doesnt like "HATE" meaning all people should love each other so apparently keep talking about your stupidness i mean seriously toontownprincess poor of your sweet parents dealing w/ a future skank, thts something god doesnt like.

  • @ItzYahBoiToi96

    Quote or cite the Biblical verses that back up your foolishness. God in the Bible is not about Love. God in the Bible is about OBEDIENCE!! Jesus was God's herald to the world to come back into compliance with GOD's purpose for humankind. Jesus gave no license to us to disobey GOD's will. Per Jesus, Mark 10:6-8 "But from the beginning of the CREATION God made them MALE and FEMALE. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife . . . BE ONE FLESH."

  • @Sensiblehuman Ohno....It's you again! stop harrassing people who know love and go do something good for the world...like stop war everywhere!

  • @Sensiblehuman The bible also says it's a sin to eat shrimp ... WTF?!

  • @ItzYahBoiToi96

    WELL, DON'T EAT SHRIMP. MAKE SURE YOU CITE THE SCRIPTURE AND GRASP THE CONTEXT.

  • @TheToontownprincess Love always Wins =) suck up to this video. stick the Bible in your ass Hater whore!

  • wonderful - what they do

  • ONLY MAN AND WOMAN MARRIAGE !!!!!!!

  • @azutega33 Yes yopu can stay married to your cousin you dumb ass hillbilly.

  • bitches

  • @hustlerman5 Sorry but the least they are being is selfish by giving kids a loving house.

  • @greekmathician I think it would be ok for girls, but I grew up in a foster home and I would have rather grown up in the orphanage or on the street than have 2 gay dads.

  • @greekmathician

    IT IS NOT ABOUT THE CHILDREN. IT HAS NEVER BEEN ABOUT THE CHILDREN. IT IS ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY. IF ABOUT THE CHILDREN, WHY NOT PLACE YOUR EFFORTS ON IDENTIFYING LOVING MALE-FEMALE COUPLES TO MATCH THESE CHILDREN WITH. THIS WILL ALLOW THE CHILD THE EXPERIENCE OF BEING BROUGHT UP IN A NATURAL HOME. NOPE, YOU WON'T DO THAT BECAUSE IT DEFEATS YOUR PURPOSE OF PASSING OFF THE UNNATURAL AS NATURAL. I DON'T BLAME YOU FOLKS FOR BEING ANTI-GOD. IF GOD EXISTS, THEN YOU'VE GOT HELL TO PAY.

  • @Sensiblehuman Homosexuality is just as natural to homosexuals as heterosexuality is to heterosexuals.

  • im not sure wat i put before... to make pple upset. lol. i love that the fact these to great guys have a kid. thats absolutly amazeing. im more than happy for them. :) I have nothing against gays. lol. im gay myself. gosh i would never talk down or say anything agaisnt anyone. As for these guys im very happy for them. thts the way it should be. :) you guys rock and tht goes for all gay who want children. :) Plz forgive me if u missed understood me the 1st time. im not sure wat i said. im srry

  • Yay! Austin, TX! Keep fighting the good fight, guys.

  • that moved me to tears

  • I wish that people would get past their simple and closed-mindedness. You guys are an inspiration to all gay families. Thanks guys.

  • @jwrose4487 I used to be open-minded. then I realized that pedophilia was NOT a good thing... who knew? 

  • You Go Guys! What possitive role models you are! Guys like you are a true credit to our minority!

  • That was a great video and you guys are just awesome. You can tell theres a lot of love in your home. My boyfriend and I are wanting to adopt badly and are looking into it. Children are a huge commitment, but its so worth it. :)

  • Why is that i always hear these stupid hypocrits talking about the bible? I am pretty sure Jesus would be proud of these guys who,unlike many heterosexual parents,do provide a loving home for these children.These children will be good citizens thanks to them and you guys complain? what do u want? for the kids to be from foster to foster home? instead of two awesome dads who will raise them right? their sexual orientation has NOTHING to do with their ability to parent you morons

  • and stop with the bible and with the sin thing, as far as i see, these guys are productive members of our society, work and have an loving family.They aren't pedophiles or criminals or things like that. And if you have a problem with gays being parents because of the bible then let me take u to the bible and show you this "u will be judge with the same stick you judge" and "cast the first stone if you..." etc

    You aren't Jesus, let Jesus judge

    vivan y dejen vivir

  • you're an idiot, and one of the reasons why organized religion is so fucked up

    congratulations to the happy couple

  • Ok he is for you a list of other "sins" that are often conviently ignored by the so called christians.

    1)Thou shalt kill anyone who works on Sunday

    (Exodus 35:2)

    2)Thou shalt not eat pork, shrimp, lobster, or any

    shellfish. (Leviticus 11:7-12)

    3)Thou shalt not wear clothes of mixed fibers. (Leviticus 19:19)

    4)Women shalt not teach, nor hold authority positions over men. (1 Timothy 2:11-15)

    Christians judging homosexuals are nothing but hypocrites.

    Nice family btw <3

  • @sry4gotmyusername you do realize of course that there's an entire NEW Testament 400 years after the Old Testament was closed, right?

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  • How beautiful this children are truly bless .

  • This made me tear all up! You guys are one of a kind. Thank you for what you do. :)

  • hahahah that was so funny that child doing that on the micro phone, you could really tell they were so happy. it is a blessing both for the children and the parents. makes me proud to see actions like these. congratulations!!

  • This video brought a tear to my eye.. so nice to see those kids go from being in an orphanage to being in a big loving family. If only there were more people in the world like Daddy and Papa

  • The last comment was in response to alexcrow and all others who would hate on your family and your life...

  • Truly love makes a family!

  • I'm very happy for you both!

  • and whats your point if its between that person and the lord then let that person decide if he wants to be with the lord if all gays are going to burn in hell then let them dont tell them there wrong because it has nothing to do with you let people decide if they want to sin because i can tell you something i would rather live an infinity in hell than an unhappy life on earth
  • Children being raised by loving parents, what a concept?! What happened to America? Let's see, we freed the slaves, we gave women the right to vote, what could be next? Maybe we'll treat everyone with human dignity.

  • what about children being raised by a straight bias, saying a "gay bias" is giving gay a negatove connotation. which means you're being homophobic.

  • Doesn't the word "phobia" depict a fear? I disagree with homosexuals, and homosexuality as a whole, yet I do not fear them. Perhaps rather than being "fearful", maybe there is such a thing as definite Right and Wrong, and THIS is wrong.

  • it can mean fear, but in today's society phobia can also mean hate when refering to gays or ethnic minorites.

    why is this wrong?

  • If I gave you Biblical principals of what morality REALLY is, you'd just shut me down and out immediately, and label me a "homophobe" and a "Gay-bashing Hatemonger", just like JohnRhysMusician has been labeled. I'm not even going to try to defend my position any further. All I can do is pray that askagaydad gets born-again and delivered from his lifestyle. Love you guys.

  • I know what the Bible says about homosexuality, yet it is not one of the ten comamndments. What I don't get is that such comandments like not commiting adultery or stealing, are commited every day my Christians and Catholics who are willing to criticise gays. I think to criticise homosexuality under religious circumstances you have to have a good look at yourself, have you always done what the Bible has told you to? I doubt that very much.

  • Hmm, I am not trying to justify anything. I don't need to justify homosexuality because it doesn't need any explaining. Humans are not the only animals which homosexuality is present in, which tells me that it is a natural thing that occurs in the Animal Kingdom. I don't want to argue with you about it, because I know we are both stubborn and you're unlikely to change your views.

  • Let me ask you this, would you refuse help from a gay doctor, or would you not allow your children to be taught by a gay teacher? If you answer yes, then your views are blinding your ability to allow all humans live in harmony. Religion is not for everyone, and I believe that if there is a God, he'd want us to live together in peace as one, not divided by hate and ignorance.

  • You're blinded by ignorance. I hope some day you see what's important in life, peace and unity of humans as one, not seperated my race and sexuality. This message of God you're preaching causes more destruction in this war filled world.

  • This is your opinion... even if its a popular one it doesn't make it right. Many popular opinions have been proved wrong... slavery, women as property, even the earth being flat. People always like to pull religion in as well. Muslims will say your beliefs are wrong, Jews will say you are wrong, even Christian's can't agree on beliefs. For me trying to be straight was very WRONG. So really definite is a fuzzy term and it always has been.

  • @JohnRhysMusician You is what has happened to the US! You are outdated and hatefull! Just be thankfull for 2 loving parents that have such a big heart! gay bias......if you really are that stupid to believe that 2 men want to pass their 'gayness' on to their children, I only have one thing to say to you: Quit the meth and honour those who open their hearts to children forgotten and left by their own parents!

  • hmm interesting.

  • This is utterly beautiful.

    More power to you all for what you're doing.

    RIGHT ON!

    :-)

  • Thanks! Being a parent and a great/tough job and the orientation of the parents shouldn't matter just their love and parenting skills.

  • Congratulations to all LGBT head of households who decide to raise family and also who decide to maintain families that fall into their responsibility, like many gay men in the Philippines who support ageing parents (there are no social security pensions for retirees here, so all parents are dependent on younger ones in the family to care for them).

  • Love that! I want to adopt kids some day and I can't stop thinking about how I'm gonna raise them, how I'm gonna get them to eat their veggies oh gawd I really want kids! Lol.

  • you have the most beautiful family. I am jealous.

  • :-) aww this is a really nice video. my aunt and uncle aren't gay (obviously cos they're different sex) but they adopted a child from south korea and a child from china. they're about 6 and 5 years old now :-) sooo cute :-) they're adorable! adoption is really great becos it gives unwanted kids a home, and people who can't have children, children :-)

  • Excellent video, I just subscribed to you.

  • Man Seaside20088002 it would be so cool if we colonised there.

  • I'd love to go to mars or venus if they supported life.. get away from morons like u.. it wouldn't be good for the earth tho if all the gay people left.. all u people would have to do is kill each other off.. u love to hate..

  • lol

  • Michael and Thom, I love the TV interview! You did a great job and of course the kids all look so cute. If you are ever in San Antonio, come say hi!

    -- Mara

  • I hope all is going well for you and yours!

  • People should stop treating adoption like a novelty item and realize how much work it is to raise a child. It's not like adopting a dog.

  • that's wonderful! i'm not adopted but i do have gay parents and my family is also biracial. it's great to see other families like mine.

  • That''s why I post, 'cause we are not alone.

  • awesome! my partner and i plan to start the adoption process in 2010. did you find it extremely difficult adopt in texas?

  • No we did not. Children in the care of CPS have birth parents whose rights have been legally terminated for different reasons. There are not enough families willing to adopt, so healthy families of any kind are greatly appreciated. Good luck and keep me posted.

  • This is fantastic! How long did your process take?

  • One year for the China adoption, 9 months for Russia, just over a year for our first daughter and about 6 months for our second daughter.

  • Bless you both. =)

  • Thanks! We are blessed, blessed 4 times with 4 wonderful (and sometimes challenging) children.

  • ho i think that this is great i am gay i when i llbe ready i will adopted

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