1. They are inexperienced ( the event may not seem "pleasurable")
2. A virgin will most likely become attached after sex
3. No guy wants to see blood on his penis
I lost my virginity to a girl who was very experienced in high school, and i thank god i did because it would've been chaos if we didn't know what was going on. So to answer your question: yes, we/majority of guys prefer girls who are experienced.
@niceocean1 Honestly, i would tell you to wait until you are absolutely ready because introducing sex in a relationship changes everything. if you are not ready and want to wait u tell him to wait, if he loves you he will wait...TRUST ME! just do what you feel but dont get pressured into something youre not sure about because you will end up regretting it. hope this helps girly & best of luck with ur decision! <3
@MsALLnaturalbeauty i never saw him as a mate nor a partner i am the type to also start off as friends. i think u are missing my point in the video...he didnt wanna be my friend because he wanted to have sex with me and i wasnt for it.
Im in love with sum1 who wants to have sex and im 16 n his 16 but I made him wait on me to see if his not just trying to get it but im in love with him n I think he is 2 but idk cuz hes always asking for sex so im like confused cuz he really is awesome but idk if im bein played so im like lost
@niceocean1 my advice is don't have sex with any1 before you turn at least 18 bcause until that age you are not mature enough physixally and emotionally..don't have sex with some bcause you feel obliged to..if he threatens you that if he doesnt get it he will leave you, he will do it anyway...so think and choose...i know its difficult but all good things come with a prize..xoxo
i dont understand why u are that upset.most people don't have the same beliefs as u and i don't know why u expected him to. What would have really been messed up if he brought up the subject of Sex too early in the process,before getting to know u.In fact, its best always go into dating looking at someone as a 'friend' first and not a 'mate' or 'partner'. If you would have done that, you guys would still be friends and it wouldn't be a waste of time.. im just giving a different perspective!
used to happen to me allll the time i feel u girl, makesure u tell themupfront and if they r worth your time theywill stayand not care, not just say they r gonna stay but really respect you and never bring up sex, you mayfeelits non of their business but trust its just so much faster to be like hey im 'kia' im 21 a virgin and iplan on keeeping it thatway until marriage this is literally how i would introduce myself
Omg i have the same issue im also from Texas (Austin) But yeah i have had so many guys that they will wait for me but a few weeks later their gone! Im like really ! Lol yes im not the only virgin in texas!!
Most guys & girls these days are sexually active by the time they're in their 20's. So everyone is going to assume you are too.
If you don't want to waste your time, you're probably going to have to tell guys soon after meeting them that you're waiting till marriage. Otherwise, you'll keep wasting your time getting to know guys who'll bail once they find out.
@101mathsucks Yes, I totally agree with you. && thats what im basically saying in my video. Some guys just need to be upfront about certain things instead of wasting my time (which could have been useful elsewhere).
@dipsetchick908 Well im glad to finally hear someone going though the same experience as myself. I know at the end the guy who is willing to wait will be the guy for me. Thanks girl! (:
Jesus, I hate it when guys are always so hormonal :( I mean, is there sucha thing as the mr. nice guy? I mean sure at the beginning if they are interested, but its all sociopath shit. Have an intention, hiding faces that you don't know and then turning around when there intent is going nowhere! Its shit right? I mean seriously, if they really wanted to save their time, mine and yers, might as well say 'hey, i like you wanna have sex?' Time wasters are just bugs in the new world. >:(
@101mathsucks Remember those quiet guys who were by themselves in middle school? Those are the kind of guys that would treat women right. But, once they find out women don't like them, they change to be just like everyother guy. A jerk. I am a man by the way, and I know all of this from my own experience. Ever since preschool to 8th grade I was shy; and guess what? Had no gf. So guess what I did? Changed. Guess what happened? I got a gf. There will never be a Mr. Nice Guy if thats how life cont
@BasicsProductions Any guy that is nice to a girl and treats her right will always have my attention, admiration and respect. I don't judge a guy by appearances like some girls do. Change is good, but becoming an asshole is a different story. Attention, admiration and respect gone. :( When you were in preeschool-grd 8 were you yourself? Cuz if so, than that sucks. Any girl would have been lucky to have you.
@101mathsucks Oh, I have become an asshole. More than that. I changed from Christian to atheist, I changed from Happy-Christian music to Eminem, and dropped all of my morals and standards, just for some respect. I can't say I regret that either, Im happier (from most perspectives) and so is everyone around me. And yes, I am naturally shy. That's my natural self. But no girl ever came close to considering themselves "lucky" to be around me. I wasn't anything special.
@BasicsProductions Me and this guy were going out he was like you in a way I told him I wanted to wait just until I was ready He said ok, hoping I would be ready soon. But alas, my gut kept me from having sex with him. He got tired of it and told me he was leaving me Just because I wouldn't
I thought nothing of it, he was just another common asshole. But the sad part is I believed him when he said he loved me He wasted my time and feelings As of 2 days ago, I have a niceguy. :) he's a dream <3
@101mathsucks Im sure he did love you. I'll admit that guys can be weird...they change, I change to. It's the little things like that, that will cause a breakup. And you shouldn't care, he very well could have been an asshole! My feeling are hurt all the time! I try my best not to show it... but you got a new niceguy so that's good! Im still waiting for that perfect someone, Ive had one but then she started "fading" away like we were never together in the first place. :/
@BasicsProductions everyone has someone. But why are there always the bad ones that find you first? It sucks. Because your feelings are played with like toys and then you get your heart broken numerous times before you find the band-aid. It's the same for boys and girls.
@101mathsucks Ikr! I can't wait until I find my someone! The bad ones that come along are the big dicksticks that just REALLY piss me off!!! It infuriates me when people who know me for years break up with me, they know my personality, why would they even date me in the first place?! But...I guess it's part of life, everone's heart is broken eventually...I just can't wait until marriage and it's all over, hopefully.
Guy didn't sound that bad to me. He was open and honest in what he needed in a relationship, he wasn't pushy or just ignore you without telling you what the problem was.
I also reckon it's the whole marriage thing you mentioned to him that sent him running off, not that your a virgin. Getting married to the wrong person is possibly one of the worst things in the world.
In my view sex in relationships is a form of love, and rather an important stage to know how much you care about each other.
Yes girl. Honestly I've been reading a lot of feeds and websites from guys saying they "love virgins" and they would want to "marry a virgin"...when in fact I'm not finding that true at all. I am a virgin myself (same age as you) and have no problems attracting guys...until the sex convo comes up. Once guys find out that I'm a virgin...they seem turned off. Next thing I know, I never hear from them again. But just know in your heart, God is going to send you your heart's desire. Be patient.
Lol, I'm a guy and watched your video call me "weird" or whatever, but yeah , it's good to know there is still girls that treasures their virginity until the right guy comes to their life unlike some other girls that are slutty as they can't imagine, no dignity or respect to them selves , anyways good luck
i totally get wat u mean gurrly im a virgin and im just worried about the dating world cuz i know that most guys arent exactly big fans of waiting...but u did the right thing he is a pig u can do better
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If guys don't wanna date girls that are virgins, how will the girls ever lose it?
XRavenCruceX 2 days ago
Top reasons why guys dislike virgin girls:
1. They are inexperienced ( the event may not seem "pleasurable")
2. A virgin will most likely become attached after sex
3. No guy wants to see blood on his penis
I lost my virginity to a girl who was very experienced in high school, and i thank god i did because it would've been chaos if we didn't know what was going on. So to answer your question: yes, we/majority of guys prefer girls who are experienced.
ajseb 1 month ago
@xXCutieBaTottieXx thanks girly & trust me he was! but unfortunately he just passed away last month so... (R.I.P Sean)
KiaReviewsThis 1 month ago
@XxtonguexX thanks hun! are u still facing this problem?
KiaReviewsThis 1 month ago
@niceocean1 Honestly, i would tell you to wait until you are absolutely ready because introducing sex in a relationship changes everything. if you are not ready and want to wait u tell him to wait, if he loves you he will wait...TRUST ME! just do what you feel but dont get pressured into something youre not sure about because you will end up regretting it. hope this helps girly & best of luck with ur decision! <3
KiaReviewsThis 1 month ago
@MsALLnaturalbeauty i never saw him as a mate nor a partner i am the type to also start off as friends. i think u are missing my point in the video...he didnt wanna be my friend because he wanted to have sex with me and i wasnt for it.
KiaReviewsThis 1 month ago
Im in love with sum1 who wants to have sex and im 16 n his 16 but I made him wait on me to see if his not just trying to get it but im in love with him n I think he is 2 but idk cuz hes always asking for sex so im like confused cuz he really is awesome but idk if im bein played so im like lost
niceocean1 1 month ago
@niceocean1 my advice is don't have sex with any1 before you turn at least 18 bcause until that age you are not mature enough physixally and emotionally..don't have sex with some bcause you feel obliged to..if he threatens you that if he doesnt get it he will leave you, he will do it anyway...so think and choose...i know its difficult but all good things come with a prize..xoxo
spaecialxara 1 month ago
i dont understand why u are that upset.most people don't have the same beliefs as u and i don't know why u expected him to. What would have really been messed up if he brought up the subject of Sex too early in the process,before getting to know u.In fact, its best always go into dating looking at someone as a 'friend' first and not a 'mate' or 'partner'. If you would have done that, you guys would still be friends and it wouldn't be a waste of time.. im just giving a different perspective!
MsAllnaturalbeauty 1 month ago in playlist More videos from KiaReviewsThis
used to happen to me allll the time i feel u girl, makesure u tell themupfront and if they r worth your time theywill stayand not care, not just say they r gonna stay but really respect you and never bring up sex, you mayfeelits non of their business but trust its just so much faster to be like hey im 'kia' im 21 a virgin and iplan on keeeping it thatway until marriage this is literally how i would introduce myself
XxTonguexX 2 months ago
I feel sorry for you ! );
Shaun sounds sort of heartless . . .
xXCutieBaTootieXx 2 months ago
Glad I'm not the only one.
shukorina13 2 months ago
hahah your missing out on so much :L i lost my virginity when i was 15 :D
dylan212223 4 months ago
i know girl samething always happened to me
amaka38 4 months ago
@thesexybrown221 im excited to know someone in texas has the same probelm. i thought i was the only one...lol (:
KiaReviewsThis 5 months ago
Omg i have the same issue im also from Texas (Austin) But yeah i have had so many guys that they will wait for me but a few weeks later their gone! Im like really ! Lol yes im not the only virgin in texas!!
TheSexybrown221 5 months ago
Most guys & girls these days are sexually active by the time they're in their 20's. So everyone is going to assume you are too.
If you don't want to waste your time, you're probably going to have to tell guys soon after meeting them that you're waiting till marriage. Otherwise, you'll keep wasting your time getting to know guys who'll bail once they find out.
iamsmartacus 5 months ago
@101mathsucks Yes, I totally agree with you. && thats what im basically saying in my video. Some guys just need to be upfront about certain things instead of wasting my time (which could have been useful elsewhere).
KiaReviewsThis 6 months ago
@dipsetchick908 Well im glad to finally hear someone going though the same experience as myself. I know at the end the guy who is willing to wait will be the guy for me. Thanks girl! (:
KiaReviewsThis 6 months ago
@madlookindj09 Thanks! (:
KiaReviewsThis 6 months ago
@gundamchic098 yes i love that show. i was watching it right before i did the video lol
KiaReviewsThis 6 months ago
Jesus, I hate it when guys are always so hormonal :( I mean, is there sucha thing as the mr. nice guy? I mean sure at the beginning if they are interested, but its all sociopath shit. Have an intention, hiding faces that you don't know and then turning around when there intent is going nowhere! Its shit right? I mean seriously, if they really wanted to save their time, mine and yers, might as well say 'hey, i like you wanna have sex?' Time wasters are just bugs in the new world. >:(
101mathsucks 6 months ago
@101mathsucks Remember those quiet guys who were by themselves in middle school? Those are the kind of guys that would treat women right. But, once they find out women don't like them, they change to be just like everyother guy. A jerk. I am a man by the way, and I know all of this from my own experience. Ever since preschool to 8th grade I was shy; and guess what? Had no gf. So guess what I did? Changed. Guess what happened? I got a gf. There will never be a Mr. Nice Guy if thats how life cont
BasicsProductions 6 months ago
@BasicsProductions Any guy that is nice to a girl and treats her right will always have my attention, admiration and respect. I don't judge a guy by appearances like some girls do. Change is good, but becoming an asshole is a different story. Attention, admiration and respect gone. :( When you were in preeschool-grd 8 were you yourself? Cuz if so, than that sucks. Any girl would have been lucky to have you.
101mathsucks 6 months ago
@101mathsucks Oh, I have become an asshole. More than that. I changed from Christian to atheist, I changed from Happy-Christian music to Eminem, and dropped all of my morals and standards, just for some respect. I can't say I regret that either, Im happier (from most perspectives) and so is everyone around me. And yes, I am naturally shy. That's my natural self. But no girl ever came close to considering themselves "lucky" to be around me. I wasn't anything special.
BasicsProductions 6 months ago
@BasicsProductions Me and this guy were going out he was like you in a way I told him I wanted to wait just until I was ready He said ok, hoping I would be ready soon. But alas, my gut kept me from having sex with him. He got tired of it and told me he was leaving me Just because I wouldn't
I thought nothing of it, he was just another common asshole. But the sad part is I believed him when he said he loved me He wasted my time and feelings As of 2 days ago, I have a niceguy. :) he's a dream <3
101mathsucks 6 months ago
@101mathsucks Im sure he did love you. I'll admit that guys can be weird...they change, I change to. It's the little things like that, that will cause a breakup. And you shouldn't care, he very well could have been an asshole! My feeling are hurt all the time! I try my best not to show it... but you got a new niceguy so that's good! Im still waiting for that perfect someone, Ive had one but then she started "fading" away like we were never together in the first place. :/
BasicsProductions 6 months ago
@BasicsProductions everyone has someone. But why are there always the bad ones that find you first? It sucks. Because your feelings are played with like toys and then you get your heart broken numerous times before you find the band-aid. It's the same for boys and girls.
101mathsucks 6 months ago
@101mathsucks Ikr! I can't wait until I find my someone! The bad ones that come along are the big dicksticks that just REALLY piss me off!!! It infuriates me when people who know me for years break up with me, they know my personality, why would they even date me in the first place?! But...I guess it's part of life, everone's heart is broken eventually...I just can't wait until marriage and it's all over, hopefully.
BasicsProductions 6 months ago
@BasicsProductions agreed
101mathsucks 6 months ago
i so agree!
NightMagiq 6 months ago
Guy didn't sound that bad to me. He was open and honest in what he needed in a relationship, he wasn't pushy or just ignore you without telling you what the problem was.
I also reckon it's the whole marriage thing you mentioned to him that sent him running off, not that your a virgin. Getting married to the wrong person is possibly one of the worst things in the world.
In my view sex in relationships is a form of love, and rather an important stage to know how much you care about each other.
QuickCalibre 6 months ago
Yes girl. Honestly I've been reading a lot of feeds and websites from guys saying they "love virgins" and they would want to "marry a virgin"...when in fact I'm not finding that true at all. I am a virgin myself (same age as you) and have no problems attracting guys...until the sex convo comes up. Once guys find out that I'm a virgin...they seem turned off. Next thing I know, I never hear from them again. But just know in your heart, God is going to send you your heart's desire. Be patient.
dipsetchick908 6 months ago
Lol, I'm a guy and watched your video call me "weird" or whatever, but yeah , it's good to know there is still girls that treasures their virginity until the right guy comes to their life unlike some other girls that are slutty as they can't imagine, no dignity or respect to them selves , anyways good luck
madlookindj09 6 months ago
lol cow n chicken..i was singing that yesterday lol...everything else i agree with u
gundamchic098 7 months ago
@sabsab225 thank you! (: im glad to know someone sees it from my point of view. And you are absolutely right guys are not big fans of waiting...lmbo
KiaReviewsThis 7 months ago
i totally get wat u mean gurrly im a virgin and im just worried about the dating world cuz i know that most guys arent exactly big fans of waiting...but u did the right thing he is a pig u can do better
sabsab225 7 months ago