Love does conquer, but only in those that can accept it. Positivity is a power used in healing. The latter of that sentence is the secret to controlling anger. Healing is just as important as breathing, and should be done just as often. Each moment in our modern world consists of temptation, control, opression, segregation, manipulation and consternation. But each moment also consists of love, peace, tantilation, opportunity, inspiration and action. The balance of which is choice.
hey,,, good day,,,aaaaarrrrgg,,, yes, i can relate to this video, anger,a form of expression, a huge expendature of energy, the quickest way to destroy trust , ... what i have notice, that what we are fighting about is almost never what we are truly angry about, to busy reacting, not interacting,,,,whats behind the anger, stand back,,,take a look ,,,fear,self doubt, lack of self love,,,,what was that feeling, a second before i became angry,,,,mm good video, food 4 thought, nice alternatives!
@EarlIam Yes! We can all relate for sure, anger is an expression of lack of control. And you are correct in that fighting is usually caused by a deeper catalyst, or previous enguagement. The worst kind is the "hair trigger" responces we give. I quite often finding myself angry; though I think about it now before I speak, or react. If anger spills out, so be it, but if we admit to it and take responsibility then at least we are dealing with it.
We hear it every day, we receive it, we share it. I try very hard to 'think' before I respond to someone who believes (without true thought) that Anger will get them what they want, and answer without promoting it. It's a hugely negative emotion. And I do agree, there are a lot of folks who think being angry will get them more results then speaking politely. They are wrong. In our personal and business lives, it is used like a tool, to get what You want. Attitudes..really need to change. Peace.
Awesome comment. Great point! Attitude is the point. With a steady attitude, anger can be controlled. Now; there is a fine line there, why should one need control, it means there something that can get out of hand without control. Negativity brings on emotions that fester, happiness is harder to acheive in this state.
It can go on and on my new friend. It's a rabbit hole. It starts before we're born with the emotional input and output of our Mother! Thankfully, mine was okay.
Making one feel inferior can erupt ones anger to the point of self - destruction. Why? Because controlled anger eats your very soul and you can drown in your own environment. Showing passive anger can achieve a sense of victory, (i.e.) you fire it right back to the provokers. Frustrated, peaceful weapons, quite harmless and leave room for thought.
I have suffocated but I rise with my head held high x♥x ( Passive Anger) Grrrrrr Lol
how about letting it go to your heart howage? our heads r'nt so bad but things can get lost in there becasue it gets so filled with the outside world but our Heart......lol a different story of which i Know u know.
I do, my dearest sister, I just joke around with Temple alot. We need humour and self to be put in the same sentence. I use myself as an example of humility and hubrise because so many people use hubrise despite the self.
so many great spirits in this world and it seems they r coming to the surface as we speak by the barrelfull. thank god maybe the time has come HuMans way now.
When the Sun is dim at times not normally so, The Peacemaker is afoot, doing their duties as the Peacemaker. Feel assured that today will be a good day for the spirit of this Earthly Mother we walk on.
I agree with everything you and Howage just said, but IMO there's a lot more to anger than just confrontations with others. Isn't more anger generated by frustration than by confrontation? In other words the confrontations we saw in the vid may all have been effects rather than causes .... externalization of internal conflicts between fear and courage, hate and love, doubt and confidence, etc.
Great points, exactly why I used the effects of Anger rather than the catalysts my friend, much more thought provoking than showing what leads us to anger. But that being said, this was put out there for the receivers of anger, because the receiver bottles up anger more than the sender. Here's why, the sender will more often than not have a superiority complex and often treat the receiver as inferior, and us anger to solidify that with choices of their words or weapon!
There are about five past trigger points in my life that just eat me alive with anger... once I was hosing my truck windshield and a man African decent was inadverdantly splashed a bit, and he was sooo sure that I was a rascist with intent... I tried to calmly explain my open heart and mind, but he insisted I was looking right at him when I hosed his new shirt! you know... that was 2 years ago, and I still carry anger about the accusation. I have learned to b very careful with water hoses.
:) Yes it is quite often that simple to missunderstand each other, things such as that have caused great wars. The worst war is the one that is caused inside us when missunderstood, or misconstrued. I'll bet you that situation did not leave him any worse inside! He was already bitter about life, people and his own disregard for his colour.
I am always faced with this because my extended family rarely understands why I don't seem jaded, why I don't talk racist. Well, because I accept, period.
Yes!!! it can be as simple as working a lifetime of putting yourself in the shoes of others and having another simply not understand you.... because we really cannot dwell in those shoes
Yup, old shoes get stinky, we must therefore maintain our feet. Keep a clean set of feet to slip into those shoes and it'll feel comfortable to walk a mile. If we don't, then that mile will ruin the shoes and the feet. Okay, i've beaten that one enough.
What I mean by that may seem redundant, but if we don't "unconditionally" walk in their way for that mile, we will inadvertantly get the wrong idea, or see exactly as they do. No view is 100% right or wrong, but we do see what we want in the end
they only get stinky when we walk in the sewage howage. step Out of the sewage and the smell changes. but then again the sewage is where jesus went. he said it was them that most needed to hear his message of love.
Maybe I don't understand your meaning totally, can you explain why you think I'm walking in sewage? I mean no disrespect in this so please don't see that. I live to learn, maybe you have something to teach me?
I humbly ask for your company for a session.
Peace to you, thank you for leaving your mark here. I want to learn.
i think i am like jesus becasue i go into the sewage to find love, i find it too, i find it hidden under rocks of hatred. i know that sounds strange but i dO find it. karla faye tucker lived in the sewers for the first part of her life yet she came out smelling like a rose. had i not gone there i'd not been blessed by her eXistance and of That i have no doubt.
Okay, now I understand you, please disregard any disrespect I may have made you feel. To walk in the footsteps of Jesus is total respect. and I admire and revere that in true Human beings. Thank you and welcome my new spiritual friend.
Oh I'm sure they will, we walk very similar paths of the Peacemakers. No matter what their names are they layed a foundation for everylasting peace. I too follow the true Jesus' path, as it was a path of feeding, nourturing and spirit fullfilled LIFE being given back to those that lost the way.
yes it follows me too. did u know karla was inmate 777. i did not know that until recently. through her death i found life. that was in 98, feb 3rd to be exact.
this morning i dusted off a marble bear. it wasnot my bear it was my friends. he went on a trip and asked me to watch over his home and his animals. they r hisfamily. his bear was dusty. i remember i wondered if i had bear medicine in me. i am still learning the animals ways. i am a fairly new student.
there is no riddle here and i've gone beyound wishing that is why i Knnow it works when seeking understanding or as u put it "to learn". or maybe it is to teach. it is the example of jesus that i follow.
I am filled with a multitude of anger my friend... but I do not know where to point it... so, I keep it in check and move on...
Anger is mostly born of frustration for the inability to get an opinion across... once we understand that we merely have an opinion, and nothing more, then anger is GONE
There are many ways to point it, just like you just did. The video is meant to bring to the surface that broiling type of anger. Seeing yourself in a suit and tie in one of those situations being the key to bringing it up to your head.
All we can do is check it before we wreck it, chosing to take it out on a stick against a rock will not hurt anything but maybe your ego, or your fingers. At the very least you can scream into a pillow and realize what that looks like; these are much better than seeing your anger in another persons face after you throw it at em.
Mistakes are always made, we can't beat ourselves over it though as we are obviously only human, built with triggers and those can be checked too.
By the way, you made excellent points here, it is just about opinions. There are other situations such as seeing someone endanger themselves for the umpteenth time, that is different, protective anger must have it's point checked and method of delivery. But esentially the anger part is built in and not a light switch that can be turned "off". If we do, we are a stick that can be beaten into the rock with no real effect for the good of anyone.
Tough subject down in the comments for great points.
i thought that might be the case brother bear. i've not come across windsnature yet but i dO look forward to it. this certainly feels like family to me.
watched the first 45 seconds and got the point, honestly I do not find that in my world, I must resonate at a different frequency, because that kinda stuff I just am not around ever...I thank Creator for that each and every day...CONTROL is what that is....*yuck* and very *sad* to me at the same time. I just live very different...taking no control of anything and just happy being me.....letting it all go and asking Great Spirit for help daily.
I agree with you. Unfortunately I am in the world of "plenty bad heap" still for a reason, whether it is to learn control still so be it, whether it is to teach control, even better. I accept my position in the nasty world until my job is done. Then I will know it is done and can move to greener pastures filled with my cousins of nature and my sitren/brethren of peace! This is why I surround myself with people such as you. To remind me not all is lost!
I have got to say my head is pickled, Yuck! From peace prayer to unsavoury curriculum being performed with a host of Children for background effects. I feel battle scared and empty, sanity is becoming a rear commodity in ways of promoting peace. I hope your underwear has corrected its self. Did you Kick Butt Lol x♥x Peace and Happiness x♥x
Oh yeah, but it doesn't feel any better to have. That's what war is all about, and anger! The means behind the front may be just, but the field after the battle is where you see the real justification; and that is in having to clean up what was left behind. And that my dear is what war is, death.
Well you might want to kick my butt. I have done my best with all understanding, left a humane, civil comment on your share. I will however not be returning to it again if it is replied to. Spiritual Blessings. Peace and Happiness.
I've been pondering anger and I have come to some conclusions.
Frustration and Anger come from us not wanting to accept that things are happening different to how we want them to happen. The antidote is to change our attitude and accept the fact that they happened and we can't do anything about it. For we often blame other things when in fact we are in fact the one's which need to make changes so we do not react that way. However like all things it is learnt & becomes unconscious habit reaction.
... awareness is only the first step. Recognizing and making different choices takes time. And like the old habit is trained that way, the new habit also must be trained many times as well to become unconscious. But there is hope, for the patterns is changing by the renewing of the spirit of our mind.
And then remember, lest we judge others, all are not perfect. If we expect them to be, we will be disappointed and become frustrated etc.
The cycles keep retriggering each other till we understand.
Thank you dear brother, that helped immensly. I can't admit that I don't get angry, I can't even admit that I'm peaceful all of the time; but the only weakness is if we don't learn from those mistakes right?
to me anger is fuel for the fire needed to burn through the 'ill'usion.
for me it is important Where i express my anger from. when it comes from my mind i pray for guidance when it comes from my heart i burn like old glory, just like jesus did when he turned the tables in his fathers house.
yes me too, perhaps we r peoples people. i Always look for the real ones and attempt conversing. where Ever two or more gather the energy is increased by mulitudes.
i think most people r just trying to get by with as least damage as possible. it makes them speed through life with blinders on though.
wonderful vid Howage1 and a super great message...i think people no longer take the time to realize just what their angry words can do...the damage it causes...perhaps if enough of them see your video they will stop to think a bit..ty for sharing 5*'s from me & also fav'd! :)
Thank you Spottedpony, very true. People don't think of the tracks they leave behind anymore. The ripples through time leave more tracks than just theirs. Our future depends on people like you! Our future depends on people realizing that they aren't the only ones around either, someone watching an angry interaction learn... such as children; our biggest factor in peace.
Been there sister. One being my father in law. He's healed quite a bit since. But it took putting him in his place to get there. I had to quit the job he was my boss too.
Our relationship healed because I wouldn't take his crap. Anger doesn't do anything to me but make my decision quicker, and usually involves me getting to the root of the anger. I talked extensively with him and found out he was afraid of people.
Dwelling is a connection to the self defeat switch. Reminders are short bursts of dwelling in order to re-evaluate a lesson you previously learned given the situation. Carrying the anger from situation to the pit of self defeat is caused by not liking the self. Or as a defense because the person doesn't know how to maintain the self.
Once it's too late, the anger is out and gone, cleaning out that pit becomes another thing to dwell on.
Harsh words spoken in anger will be remembered by another for a lifetime and our anger merely eats away at our own insides. An excellent video posting! Stars and hugs...♥
And forgiveness is more for us than for those who offend us, so that we do not carry baggage which is a negative chemical energy in our body.
Louise Haye wrote a book called You can Heal Your Life, which was about how she overcame cancer by forgiveness and a balanced diet. Every thought and emotion effects our bodies and minds, so we need to heal the hurts, and learn to control our emotions so that we empower ourselves with life giving harmony of the forces within us.
However theory of how it works, is far from having applied it. Habits are retriggered.
But in the long run, we can have mercy to others, and not provoke those in an anger issue. For non of us is perfect, we do the best we can, and we all have issues which bring the worst out in us. But we are learning, and I have hope that one day, we all will know what we need to know to overcome things which have buried others in our history.
Peace and good will to all mankind, its the only way to live.
Thank you MindTrip for all you insights and discussion on this topic. I feel as you in that as long as we do the best we can to check ourselves before we wreck ourselves, we then are doing what we can. Next step is in reacting to others, same applies there.
You doth rock! Thanks again for the comments and thoughtfull remarks. Wisdom is surely strong in your mind.
I have seen anger online act like a computer virus. Each interaction passes the experience on to others, written in their neurons as an experience which can be called to replay.
However there is a trigger threshold, which is where the little things add up till the straw that breaks the camels back.
The key is to not be irritated by those, so the levels do not accumulate. This means to be less judging and critical. To be more tolerant and understanding. To re-evaluate our beliefs as to not react.
Effective communication is required. A gentle word to one in anger, needs to acknowledge the fact they are upset in a way which does not judge them for getting angry.
Respect for everyone is the key principle. The person needs to know that they are being heard and that good communication is happening. Frustration adds up to become anger if each little step along the way is not dealt with effectively.
It is good practice to try and put into words what you are feeling, & listen well.
..on the other hand. We learn by experience. Habits are established with triggers. So an anger problem can be like a demon at times which jumps up and reacts badly. These are problems which need to be resolved and triggers need to be addressed & desensitized.
Another thing to note is that people need to feel good about themselves. Such is the difference where words make friends or drive wedges between. Every word is powerful. So it is important to not say things which will come back to haunt u.
Good points MindTrip888, anger is a feeling which in communication needs to be in check. Somewhere along the line, we started to accept the excuses such as "he yelled at me, so I'm fighting fire with fire, which only works in wild fires.
Listening is crucial even to an anger expressor can calm the situation, so you can be the cure to their poison.
Letting someone know you're upset diplomatically is good. But shout it and just like shouting "good dog", it's the tone that difines it.
just a student of life, walking my own path, seeking to understand the things which make us tick, so we can undo dysfunction and create our lives to be the best they can be. Not for material gain, but simply for happiness and sharing the experience and joy which make life worth living. And how to obtain the riches of the kingdom of heaven within us.
It was after doing this for a while that I realized I was being a philosopher and a scientist.
As a computer programmer I see mind bugs & viruses.
Bingo my friend, anger takes time and situations, a current rant could be due to another experience, so in effect, we may not even be using anger to make the right point. Seems like a double negative. Then the receiver will spread it onward.
To change how we receive catalysts to anger is key. To change the response is retroactive, is good, but will need contunuing maintenance to our responces.
Well I have smashed a cup or two; at times you can be pushed to your limits. I dont know where to go from there I have tried passive anger and it didnt work, well not on YT, it seems the kinder you are the more it antagonises and then you are in deep trouble, Lol. But you are right if you allow anger to overtake your soul you are doomed to wretchedness so keep to passive anger! Spiritual Blessing from Spiritual Presence x♥x
When anger appears and it does with all of us, as perfection is not a commodity that is instilled in our birth. It is however within our power to do our up most to not to dwell on unkind and thoughtless words. Yes I agree once said you cannot take them back, so it has to be a case for forgiveness without a long-standing grievance or vendetta. I have said harsh words but never with vulgarity or obesities that my pride would not tolerate.x♥x
Again this depends on situation, the harsh word could be used to get attention as in HEY, THAT COULD AFFECT YOUR LIFE. This is tone, not anger. When something is added on such as a explatiff or name calling, it changes context and meaning. It's no longer a warning its a tongue lashing.
It's good to hear we are all human, not perfect or droidish. We aren't robots but we always need improvement.
I am fairly placid and my patience tolerates a lot. I do my up most to turn the other cheek and walk away.
Having said all that my home-life is spent amongst harmony. Just the odd smashing of a cup now and again, that stops me letting of unwanted steam and when things got more than I could handle I have been known to disappear from the house for hours. Bringing up a large family has its down falls now and again. Lol x♥x
Recognition of mistakes is key. Leaving the situation has many affects. Most of the time if you leave with telling them that you need time to cool down for your own reasons, they will learn you want control. So they will learn to deal in the same way. So the choice is different depending on what you want your children to learn for their tool pouch.
If leaving is for effect pupose only, then it needs to be ponderred, if leaving is to check yourself then A1.
It should not be spread, however, neither should it be suppressed. It is not wise to deny our feelings. They will only come back again.
It is also sometimes necessary to purify one's thoughts. One should never act while they are angry, nor should they seek to make others angry.
There are certain necessary thoughts, however, we can only have while we are angry. If someone is prone to be apologetic when someone slaps them, then they need to learn another emotion.
Once one is able to deal with their anger, they now have an activated root chakra. Learning about health will activate the sacral in time. (You will want to learn about health after trusting the food you've eaten for so long).
The kinds of thought the root chakra allow us to have can also be stimulated with certain stones. One of those is Jasper. I like Heliotrope better. Any stone that is firm in grounding (gold flecked obsidian) will also serve. In this way, one can have those purifying thoughts without being angry.
This allows one to have the thought forms without also experiencing the harmful emotion that would ordinarily accompany the form of thought.
Thanks brother, the act of supressing this emotion is in the action phase. Anger is an emotion since the beginning of time, the first time a fish wasn't caught despite lack of trying was probably the first broken rod.
Purely and simply though the reaction whether immediate or after pondering is what needs to be suppressed, where by the time we think about it, our demeanor and reflection have hopefully taken on a more peaceful approach.
Lol...I'm glad I wasn't drinking coffee when I read that response. (the computer has no windshield wipers)
Yes, the actions must be suppressed, and the emotion endured. I used to tell people if they want to know what is going on in the world it is first a good idea to lock up all their guns, knives, kitchen implements, and probably all of their sporting goods as well for a period of no less than 2 years. Afterwards, when they have calmed down it will be safe to play with their toys again.
lol, I lock myself up when I watch your video shares. lol.
It's easy for me to make a video like this because if I didn't check my responses at the door, I'd come unglued sometimes, I wouldn't have any toys or guns to lock up.
If the response is to break something, that's usually frustration. If the response is to force you to make a decision about something which ordinarily goes against your nature, that is the purifying anger I speak of. One then needs to wait until one feels healthy again to decide if they still agree with what they decided. If they do, then it is likely your higher self, and your lower self are in agreement. If you also agree, being in the middle as you are, then there is a consensus.
Most of the time it is firmly deciding what we would like to do is not a good thing, and then not doing it. Sometimes there is no choice to leave "it" alone, and then we find another way. In this way it can become a healthy motivator.
When patience fails, chopping wood may help too until other thoughtful considerations have been made to provide understanding.
Usually, once we understand we are no longer angry..
"And with his eye of compassion he saw his enemies like unto himself."
"And he learned Love."
"And then he was answered."
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This One is no longer angry. I do still get frustrated though. I then search for understanding, and when I need to I make sure I apologize. Having patience helps.
Love the meaning in these lyrics, thanks for adding this!
Music has a lot of good information put into an emotion rendering bundle. This is kind of why I was dissapointed in that the audio swap wasn't complete.
yes rather I think reaction is the negative of action.....positive action when feeling anger would be say.... stop, breathing deep, counting to ten, walking away momentarily and composing oneself....self reflection is amazing if you can grab yrself in the moment.
great video-- seems we all need reminders of this from time to time... I try to speak in a whisper when I'm angry...but how loud can your whisper go to still be considered a whisper? :-)
yes well...I am dealing with a partner who has anger managment issues (he doesnt think he has a problem of course)...and every time I just tell myself its him and not me...I also let the kids know that too....superb advice you have /are giving.*****
That's usually do to some form of frustration. When they forget what it was that first bothered them there is a hurt place inside that might not even realize it is screaming for someone to heal it.
Unfortunately, approached directly the person is going to have to want to have that place healed. The indirect approach works too, but perception is required on the part of the other to notice your efforts. When they don't notice then it can become "frustrating".
Good words here. This is such a complex issue. I so appreciate what you mentioned before regarding this feeling and have slightly reworded the video info.
Frustration usually leads to anger, I realize that this is due to catalysts or triggers. Your point about perception is what everyone needs to review. Perception is such an individual freedom that it causes a paradox in any theory. This perception is what has changed because people have allowed pain and self maintenance to ruin perception.
And once perception is tweeked or influenced, and one doesn't have that support or, required perception in the right way; then frustration will spill into all facets of the mind. A lack of self maintenance in those individuals leads to a degredation of many of the pleasureable feelings that humans were built with.
Lets just say it's easier to look forward to resolution than to look back in regret.
Yes, I hate listening to SOME randem recordings around the house, but I like it too... it reminds me that even the slightest quip of annoyance from me sounds much meaner then intended.
powerful
BAZHE 1 year ago 2
@BAZHE,
Anger is powerful, I tried to duplicate this power while showing people the other side of it.
Peace brother,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 1 year ago
Love your video--a powerful message to all of us. Thanks for reminding us love conquers all.
MyAeolianHarp 2 years ago 2
Love does conquer, but only in those that can accept it. Positivity is a power used in healing. The latter of that sentence is the secret to controlling anger. Healing is just as important as breathing, and should be done just as often. Each moment in our modern world consists of temptation, control, opression, segregation, manipulation and consternation. But each moment also consists of love, peace, tantilation, opportunity, inspiration and action. The balance of which is choice.
Love ya!
Bear
Howage1 2 years ago
hey,,, good day,,,aaaaarrrrgg,,, yes, i can relate to this video, anger,a form of expression, a huge expendature of energy, the quickest way to destroy trust , ... what i have notice, that what we are fighting about is almost never what we are truly angry about, to busy reacting, not interacting,,,,whats behind the anger, stand back,,,take a look ,,,fear,self doubt, lack of self love,,,,what was that feeling, a second before i became angry,,,,mm good video, food 4 thought, nice alternatives!
EarlIam 2 years ago 3
@EarlIam Yes! We can all relate for sure, anger is an expression of lack of control. And you are correct in that fighting is usually caused by a deeper catalyst, or previous enguagement. The worst kind is the "hair trigger" responces we give. I quite often finding myself angry; though I think about it now before I speak, or react. If anger spills out, so be it, but if we admit to it and take responsibility then at least we are dealing with it.
Thanks Earl, good comment!
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago 2
i'm pretty sure there's a propoganda war on the american people, divide and conquer is old as the hills
justanothersheeple 2 years ago 2
@justanothersheeple
Yes, you are right about that. Media and running through life as we run the Rat Race are definately catalysts to Anger. Thanks for the comment!
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Thank you GoneTemple for sharing this message♥
TheRealFlowerGirl 2 years ago 2
Agreed! Thanks GoneTemple & thanks sister for watching, enjoying and commenting.
Peace to always, and in all ways.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
We hear it every day, we receive it, we share it. I try very hard to 'think' before I respond to someone who believes (without true thought) that Anger will get them what they want, and answer without promoting it. It's a hugely negative emotion. And I do agree, there are a lot of folks who think being angry will get them more results then speaking politely. They are wrong. In our personal and business lives, it is used like a tool, to get what You want. Attitudes..really need to change. Peace.
isminx 2 years ago
Awesome comment. Great point! Attitude is the point. With a steady attitude, anger can be controlled. Now; there is a fine line there, why should one need control, it means there something that can get out of hand without control. Negativity brings on emotions that fester, happiness is harder to acheive in this state.
It can go on and on my new friend. It's a rabbit hole. It starts before we're born with the emotional input and output of our Mother! Thankfully, mine was okay.
Peace, Ohkwa:ri'!
Howage1 2 years ago
Making one feel inferior can erupt ones anger to the point of self - destruction. Why? Because controlled anger eats your very soul and you can drown in your own environment. Showing passive anger can achieve a sense of victory, (i.e.) you fire it right back to the provokers. Frustrated, peaceful weapons, quite harmless and leave room for thought.
I have suffocated but I rise with my head held high x♥x ( Passive Anger) Grrrrrr Lol
LadyQuaintly 2 years ago 2
:) @ Grrrrr, lol. Great spirit and strength flies with you dear sister.
Peace to you, thank you once again for the wisdom you leave behind you, and push in front of you.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Hi, thank you, I forgot to say thank you to ( GoneTemple ) for sharing ☺:)
LadyQuaintly 2 years ago 2
Agreed, thanks GoneTemple, well said m'lady Quaintly!
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Lady is a good friend, and had it not been for her, I would have never found Howage
GoneTemple 2 years ago 2
Okay now, I'm not letting that go to my head, ahhh crap it's there. LOL> love ya much!
Gotta joke around sometimes, makes us really happy to be the fortunate ones on Mother Earth.
Peace to you Temple, peace always.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
how about letting it go to your heart howage? our heads r'nt so bad but things can get lost in there becasue it gets so filled with the outside world but our Heart......lol a different story of which i Know u know.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
I do, my dearest sister, I just joke around with Temple alot. We need humour and self to be put in the same sentence. I use myself as an example of humility and hubrise because so many people use hubrise despite the self.
Peace and much love.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
yes, humour. i am almost there.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Oh, yer there! I love that about you, humbleness is you, humility is your words.
Love wisdom, you are it.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
i ermember a lady quenevere from the message boards temple. is this the same one?
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
No Marie, she is not I am sure... they both have great spirit though, so they do have that in common :)
GoneTemple 2 years ago
so many great spirits in this world and it seems they r coming to the surface as we speak by the barrelfull. thank god maybe the time has come HuMans way now.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
on second thought, maybe it is I who is coming to the surface.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Good thought! Beautifully put.
Peace to you Marie.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
lol yes maybe so. thank u brother bear.
this morning it is dark. the sun has not risen yet. to me that is strange. it is almost 7A.M.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
When the Sun is dim at times not normally so, The Peacemaker is afoot, doing their duties as the Peacemaker. Feel assured that today will be a good day for the spirit of this Earthly Mother we walk on.
Peace to you, thanks for the comment.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Hi Hammy,
I agree with everything you and Howage just said, but IMO there's a lot more to anger than just confrontations with others. Isn't more anger generated by frustration than by confrontation? In other words the confrontations we saw in the vid may all have been effects rather than causes .... externalization of internal conflicts between fear and courage, hate and love, doubt and confidence, etc.
Spiritrebel23 2 years ago 3
Great points, exactly why I used the effects of Anger rather than the catalysts my friend, much more thought provoking than showing what leads us to anger. But that being said, this was put out there for the receivers of anger, because the receiver bottles up anger more than the sender. Here's why, the sender will more often than not have a superiority complex and often treat the receiver as inferior, and us anger to solidify that with choices of their words or weapon!
Respect to you
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
There are about five past trigger points in my life that just eat me alive with anger... once I was hosing my truck windshield and a man African decent was inadverdantly splashed a bit, and he was sooo sure that I was a rascist with intent... I tried to calmly explain my open heart and mind, but he insisted I was looking right at him when I hosed his new shirt! you know... that was 2 years ago, and I still carry anger about the accusation. I have learned to b very careful with water hoses.
GoneTemple 2 years ago 2
:) Yes it is quite often that simple to missunderstand each other, things such as that have caused great wars. The worst war is the one that is caused inside us when missunderstood, or misconstrued. I'll bet you that situation did not leave him any worse inside! He was already bitter about life, people and his own disregard for his colour.
I am always faced with this because my extended family rarely understands why I don't seem jaded, why I don't talk racist. Well, because I accept, period.
Howage1 2 years ago
Yes!!! it can be as simple as working a lifetime of putting yourself in the shoes of others and having another simply not understand you.... because we really cannot dwell in those shoes
GoneTemple 2 years ago
Yup, old shoes get stinky, we must therefore maintain our feet. Keep a clean set of feet to slip into those shoes and it'll feel comfortable to walk a mile. If we don't, then that mile will ruin the shoes and the feet. Okay, i've beaten that one enough.
What I mean by that may seem redundant, but if we don't "unconditionally" walk in their way for that mile, we will inadvertantly get the wrong idea, or see exactly as they do. No view is 100% right or wrong, but we do see what we want in the end
Howage1 2 years ago
they only get stinky when we walk in the sewage howage. step Out of the sewage and the smell changes. but then again the sewage is where jesus went. he said it was them that most needed to hear his message of love.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Maybe I don't understand your meaning totally, can you explain why you think I'm walking in sewage? I mean no disrespect in this so please don't see that. I live to learn, maybe you have something to teach me?
I humbly ask for your company for a session.
Peace to you, thank you for leaving your mark here. I want to learn.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
i lacked a thought of u sewage walking howage, so yes there Was a missed understanding. i was speaking of We as HuMan Beings, that includes mySelf.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Ahhh, that's what I thought, but one never knows until getting to know someone.
Okay then, the sewage; that I can relate to, as one that decides to walk outside the jadedness and pain and strife, but not lose sight of them though.
I can see these things, but I choose not to dwell there. I believe we must taste "that sewage" though, but do more than taste others "ways".
That way we can recognize each is just in their own way, and respect it.
Peace to you,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
yes respect is a Valu-able tool my new friend.
i think i am like jesus becasue i go into the sewage to find love, i find it too, i find it hidden under rocks of hatred. i know that sounds strange but i dO find it. karla faye tucker lived in the sewers for the first part of her life yet she came out smelling like a rose. had i not gone there i'd not been blessed by her eXistance and of That i have no doubt.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Okay, now I understand you, please disregard any disrespect I may have made you feel. To walk in the footsteps of Jesus is total respect. and I admire and revere that in true Human beings. Thank you and welcome my new spiritual friend.
Peace to you, continue always what you do well.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
peace to u too my new friend and may our paths cross again.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Oh I'm sure they will, we walk very similar paths of the Peacemakers. No matter what their names are they layed a foundation for everylasting peace. I too follow the true Jesus' path, as it was a path of feeding, nourturing and spirit fullfilled LIFE being given back to those that lost the way.
Peace to you, wow, I'm truely amazed by you.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
your reply was 7 minutes ago. there is majic here howage. once again it is a pleasure to make your acquaintance.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Like I said, seven follows me around like that. So does magic. That's how I know I'm still on the right path.
Meeting friends like you also.
Love ya,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
yes it follows me too. did u know karla was inmate 777. i did not know that until recently. through her death i found life. that was in 98, feb 3rd to be exact.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
yes, path of the peace makers, i like that. i am truly amazed too. i do not know Ohkwa:ri
can u introduce me please?
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Ohkwa:ri' is the name i've translated from what my mother used to say, "quiet but Bear-like".
so I translated Bear from Mohawk = Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
this morning i dusted off a marble bear. it wasnot my bear it was my friends. he went on a trip and asked me to watch over his home and his animals. they r hisfamily. his bear was dusty. i remember i wondered if i had bear medicine in me. i am still learning the animals ways. i am a fairly new student.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Things happen in groups of what I call perception premonitions. Little things let you know what you are going to deal with!
Peace sister,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
i agree temple, not to dwell but to Taste. it is the taste that leads us to understanding of the walker.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
So, in this riddle I see that you wish to taste what others live or better yet, live by others example?
To understand the walker, are you eluding to understanding yourself by seeing through a taste of others lives?
Again, I mean no disrespect, I just need to understand what you are meaning.
Thanks again, respect to you forever.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
there is no riddle here and i've gone beyound wishing that is why i Knnow it works when seeking understanding or as u put it "to learn". or maybe it is to teach. it is the example of jesus that i follow.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
"To understand the walker, are you eluding to understanding yourself by seeing through a taste of others lives?"
i believe when we understand 'the walker' we r understanding HuManity of which i am one.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
hello spirit rebel. long time no see, mary_sez here.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
I'm learning.....It's a process.
Anger drains the life out of you like a blackhole. Too much energy taken by it. Smile, and you feel the difference.
Still trying though.
CleverScreenName6176 2 years ago 4
All we can really do as human's is try, and learn. Awesom friend, great honesty and I truely respect that in a person.
Your human Nature is right on track. Thank you for gracing my video with such a comment.
Peace to always, and in all ways.
Ohkwa:ri' - your brother Bear for all time.
Howage1 2 years ago
I am filled with a multitude of anger my friend... but I do not know where to point it... so, I keep it in check and move on...
Anger is mostly born of frustration for the inability to get an opinion across... once we understand that we merely have an opinion, and nothing more, then anger is GONE
GoneTemple 2 years ago 3
Aren't we all friend, aren't we all.
There are many ways to point it, just like you just did. The video is meant to bring to the surface that broiling type of anger. Seeing yourself in a suit and tie in one of those situations being the key to bringing it up to your head.
continued....
Howage1 2 years ago
All we can do is check it before we wreck it, chosing to take it out on a stick against a rock will not hurt anything but maybe your ego, or your fingers. At the very least you can scream into a pillow and realize what that looks like; these are much better than seeing your anger in another persons face after you throw it at em.
Mistakes are always made, we can't beat ourselves over it though as we are obviously only human, built with triggers and those can be checked too.
It's all about that!
Howage1 2 years ago
By the way, you made excellent points here, it is just about opinions. There are other situations such as seeing someone endanger themselves for the umpteenth time, that is different, protective anger must have it's point checked and method of delivery. But esentially the anger part is built in and not a light switch that can be turned "off". If we do, we are a stick that can be beaten into the rock with no real effect for the good of anyone.
Tough subject down in the comments for great points.
Howage1 2 years ago
Very good video, talking things out is best, I don't know about you but I can't hear people when they shout at me.
apachesbutterfly 2 years ago 3
Much agreed! I tune out when being brow beaten. Just as I expect to happen if I find myself doing the brow beating.
Peace, thanks for the wise words.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
very true, no one can knock us around more than ourselves.
apachesbutterfly 2 years ago 4
Wow, wise words in such a short verse you just said it all.
Our worst enemy is ourselves!
*bows*
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
i can't even hear myself if i shout apachesbutterly,,,, oh what a nice nic
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Apachesbutterfly is truely a good soul too, have you met?
She's WindsNature's sister too, I suggest you meet him too. Like light and dark mixed to become a duo of peace. Love em' both dearly.
Peace, love and hugs.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
i thought that might be the case brother bear. i've not come across windsnature yet but i dO look forward to it. this certainly feels like family to me.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
watched the first 45 seconds and got the point, honestly I do not find that in my world, I must resonate at a different frequency, because that kinda stuff I just am not around ever...I thank Creator for that each and every day...CONTROL is what that is....*yuck* and very *sad* to me at the same time. I just live very different...taking no control of anything and just happy being me.....letting it all go and asking Great Spirit for help daily.
thank you Ohkwa:ri'
Kanienkehaka1 2 years ago 2
I agree with you. Unfortunately I am in the world of "plenty bad heap" still for a reason, whether it is to learn control still so be it, whether it is to teach control, even better. I accept my position in the nasty world until my job is done. Then I will know it is done and can move to greener pastures filled with my cousins of nature and my sitren/brethren of peace! This is why I surround myself with people such as you. To remind me not all is lost!
Peace,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
i Really wish i could thumbs up u here brotherbear.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
I have got to say my head is pickled, Yuck! From peace prayer to unsavoury curriculum being performed with a host of Children for background effects. I feel battle scared and empty, sanity is becoming a rear commodity in ways of promoting peace. I hope your underwear has corrected its self. Did you Kick Butt Lol x♥x Peace and Happiness x♥x
LadyQuaintly 2 years ago 2
Oh yeah, but it doesn't feel any better to have. That's what war is all about, and anger! The means behind the front may be just, but the field after the battle is where you see the real justification; and that is in having to clean up what was left behind. And that my dear is what war is, death.
Thanks lady! Wise words you just layed here.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Well you might want to kick my butt. I have done my best with all understanding, left a humane, civil comment on your share. I will however not be returning to it again if it is replied to. Spiritual Blessings. Peace and Happiness.
LadyQuaintly 2 years ago
I'll never kick a friends butt, we all do that to ourselves when we know we deserve it. I love to see your words and wisdom!
Thanks M'lady, you are precious to me.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Excellent reminder.....great words, thank you!
Peace, love and light to you.
Sleepingsun4 2 years ago
I've been pondering anger and I have come to some conclusions.
Frustration and Anger come from us not wanting to accept that things are happening different to how we want them to happen. The antidote is to change our attitude and accept the fact that they happened and we can't do anything about it. For we often blame other things when in fact we are in fact the one's which need to make changes so we do not react that way. However like all things it is learnt & becomes unconscious habit reaction.
MindTrip888 2 years ago
... awareness is only the first step. Recognizing and making different choices takes time. And like the old habit is trained that way, the new habit also must be trained many times as well to become unconscious. But there is hope, for the patterns is changing by the renewing of the spirit of our mind.
And then remember, lest we judge others, all are not perfect. If we expect them to be, we will be disappointed and become frustrated etc.
The cycles keep retriggering each other till we understand.
MindTrip888 2 years ago 2
Sending you love and peace to your heart smile and shine
RabAdamson 2 years ago
Thank you dear brother, that helped immensly. I can't admit that I don't get angry, I can't even admit that I'm peaceful all of the time; but the only weakness is if we don't learn from those mistakes right?
Peace to you Rab, I appreciate you.
Ohkwa:ri'
P.s. I've healed very quickly from that ordeal.
Howage1 2 years ago
to me anger is fuel for the fire needed to burn through the 'ill'usion.
for me it is important Where i express my anger from. when it comes from my mind i pray for guidance when it comes from my heart i burn like old glory, just like jesus did when he turned the tables in his fathers house.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Great wisdom, good thoughts.
I truely wish all people would see the video, then read the comments as you did, just as I do.
We can't learn unless we visit all aspects of an idea!
Peace, so good to have met.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
yes me too, perhaps we r peoples people. i Always look for the real ones and attempt conversing. where Ever two or more gather the energy is increased by mulitudes.
i think most people r just trying to get by with as least damage as possible. it makes them speed through life with blinders on though.
Ohkwa:ri' is Peace?
so good to have met u too.
adelaidemarie 2 years ago
Wow, you have some wise words friend, just great.
Ohkwa:ri' means Bear in the Mohawk language.
Peace to you,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
wonderful vid Howage1 and a super great message...i think people no longer take the time to realize just what their angry words can do...the damage it causes...perhaps if enough of them see your video they will stop to think a bit..ty for sharing 5*'s from me & also fav'd! :)
Pony
sp0ttedp0ny330 2 years ago
Thank you Spottedpony, very true. People don't think of the tracks they leave behind anymore. The ripples through time leave more tracks than just theirs. Our future depends on people like you! Our future depends on people realizing that they aren't the only ones around either, someone watching an angry interaction learn... such as children; our biggest factor in peace.
Thanks again friend, peace to you,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Thanks for the message of the video!
guitarflamenco77 2 years ago
No problems friend, thanks for the friendship invite. I'm honoured to accept.
Peace to you bro,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Been there sister. One being my father in law. He's healed quite a bit since. But it took putting him in his place to get there. I had to quit the job he was my boss too.
Our relationship healed because I wouldn't take his crap. Anger doesn't do anything to me but make my decision quicker, and usually involves me getting to the root of the anger. I talked extensively with him and found out he was afraid of people.
He is different now, he allowed himself to heal!
Thanks sista
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Very GOOD my dear brother!!!! Very good!
ExtremeAngels 2 years ago
Thanks sister, I appreciate that. I wished that the Audio Swap was working cause the song fits well and adds some feeling to this.
Very active video as comments go, touchy subject and is exactly what I like! Seems to bring out much honesty and wisdom.
If you have time read the comments below.
Peace my sista!
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
great video.
michele
smyth94Isles4eva 2 years ago
Thanks Michele, glad you watched and enjoyed.
Peace sister,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
a wonderfull video made and thanks for sharing with me
mastercchan 2 years ago
Thanks Chan, good to hear from the Master. Sorry the song wasn't ready, it says audio swap still in progress (for 24 hours).
Peace to you brother.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Anger isn't good for the body itself or the mind.
To dwell on something and be angry is just plain dumb.
I've done it and I know. After a bit, you're not angry any more and you look back at all the time you wasted being angry.
Mooz
moomay11649 2 years ago 2
Dwelling is a connection to the self defeat switch. Reminders are short bursts of dwelling in order to re-evaluate a lesson you previously learned given the situation. Carrying the anger from situation to the pit of self defeat is caused by not liking the self. Or as a defense because the person doesn't know how to maintain the self.
Once it's too late, the anger is out and gone, cleaning out that pit becomes another thing to dwell on.
It's a very touchy balance.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Harsh words spoken in anger will be remembered by another for a lifetime and our anger merely eats away at our own insides. An excellent video posting! Stars and hugs...♥
weeyin1155 2 years ago
so true.
And forgiveness is more for us than for those who offend us, so that we do not carry baggage which is a negative chemical energy in our body.
Louise Haye wrote a book called You can Heal Your Life, which was about how she overcame cancer by forgiveness and a balanced diet. Every thought and emotion effects our bodies and minds, so we need to heal the hurts, and learn to control our emotions so that we empower ourselves with life giving harmony of the forces within us.
Inner peace gives.
MindTrip888 2 years ago 2
Good words here!
Thanks friend.
Ohkwa:'ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Thanks much weeyin1155!
Hugs back to ya.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
However theory of how it works, is far from having applied it. Habits are retriggered.
But in the long run, we can have mercy to others, and not provoke those in an anger issue. For non of us is perfect, we do the best we can, and we all have issues which bring the worst out in us. But we are learning, and I have hope that one day, we all will know what we need to know to overcome things which have buried others in our history.
Peace and good will to all mankind, its the only way to live.
MindTrip888 2 years ago
Thank you MindTrip for all you insights and discussion on this topic. I feel as you in that as long as we do the best we can to check ourselves before we wreck ourselves, we then are doing what we can. Next step is in reacting to others, same applies there.
You doth rock! Thanks again for the comments and thoughtfull remarks. Wisdom is surely strong in your mind.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
I have seen anger online act like a computer virus. Each interaction passes the experience on to others, written in their neurons as an experience which can be called to replay.
However there is a trigger threshold, which is where the little things add up till the straw that breaks the camels back.
The key is to not be irritated by those, so the levels do not accumulate. This means to be less judging and critical. To be more tolerant and understanding. To re-evaluate our beliefs as to not react.
MindTrip888 2 years ago 2
... however.
Effective communication is required. A gentle word to one in anger, needs to acknowledge the fact they are upset in a way which does not judge them for getting angry.
Respect for everyone is the key principle. The person needs to know that they are being heard and that good communication is happening. Frustration adds up to become anger if each little step along the way is not dealt with effectively.
It is good practice to try and put into words what you are feeling, & listen well.
MindTrip888 2 years ago 2
..on the other hand. We learn by experience. Habits are established with triggers. So an anger problem can be like a demon at times which jumps up and reacts badly. These are problems which need to be resolved and triggers need to be addressed & desensitized.
Another thing to note is that people need to feel good about themselves. Such is the difference where words make friends or drive wedges between. Every word is powerful. So it is important to not say things which will come back to haunt u.
MindTrip888 2 years ago 2
Good points MindTrip888, anger is a feeling which in communication needs to be in check. Somewhere along the line, we started to accept the excuses such as "he yelled at me, so I'm fighting fire with fire, which only works in wild fires.
Listening is crucial even to an anger expressor can calm the situation, so you can be the cure to their poison.
Letting someone know you're upset diplomatically is good. But shout it and just like shouting "good dog", it's the tone that difines it.
Ohkwa:ri
Howage1 2 years ago
you have got some very good points there MindTrip... you sound like a psychologist--- or Dr Phil ! :-) thanks for the wise words
NewOrleansWoman 2 years ago
just a student of life, walking my own path, seeking to understand the things which make us tick, so we can undo dysfunction and create our lives to be the best they can be. Not for material gain, but simply for happiness and sharing the experience and joy which make life worth living. And how to obtain the riches of the kingdom of heaven within us.
It was after doing this for a while that I realized I was being a philosopher and a scientist.
As a computer programmer I see mind bugs & viruses.
MindTrip888 2 years ago
Bingo my friend, anger takes time and situations, a current rant could be due to another experience, so in effect, we may not even be using anger to make the right point. Seems like a double negative. Then the receiver will spread it onward.
To change how we receive catalysts to anger is key. To change the response is retroactive, is good, but will need contunuing maintenance to our responces.
Thank friend.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Well I have smashed a cup or two; at times you can be pushed to your limits. I dont know where to go from there I have tried passive anger and it didnt work, well not on YT, it seems the kinder you are the more it antagonises and then you are in deep trouble, Lol. But you are right if you allow anger to overtake your soul you are doomed to wretchedness so keep to passive anger! Spiritual Blessing from Spiritual Presence x♥x
LadyQuaintly 2 years ago
An even deeper anger expression is one I see here quite often. The faceless relentless anger. Jaded people leave jaded trails.
Thanks sister, this one brings out some interesting things!
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
When anger appears and it does with all of us, as perfection is not a commodity that is instilled in our birth. It is however within our power to do our up most to not to dwell on unkind and thoughtless words. Yes I agree once said you cannot take them back, so it has to be a case for forgiveness without a long-standing grievance or vendetta. I have said harsh words but never with vulgarity or obesities that my pride would not tolerate.x♥x
LadyQuaintly 2 years ago
Again this depends on situation, the harsh word could be used to get attention as in HEY, THAT COULD AFFECT YOUR LIFE. This is tone, not anger. When something is added on such as a explatiff or name calling, it changes context and meaning. It's no longer a warning its a tongue lashing.
It's good to hear we are all human, not perfect or droidish. We aren't robots but we always need improvement.
You rock sister,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
I am fairly placid and my patience tolerates a lot. I do my up most to turn the other cheek and walk away.
Having said all that my home-life is spent amongst harmony. Just the odd smashing of a cup now and again, that stops me letting of unwanted steam and when things got more than I could handle I have been known to disappear from the house for hours. Bringing up a large family has its down falls now and again. Lol x♥x
LadyQuaintly 2 years ago
Recognition of mistakes is key. Leaving the situation has many affects. Most of the time if you leave with telling them that you need time to cool down for your own reasons, they will learn you want control. So they will learn to deal in the same way. So the choice is different depending on what you want your children to learn for their tool pouch.
If leaving is for effect pupose only, then it needs to be ponderred, if leaving is to check yourself then A1.
Thanks sister!
Ohk'wa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
It should not be spread, however, neither should it be suppressed. It is not wise to deny our feelings. They will only come back again.
It is also sometimes necessary to purify one's thoughts. One should never act while they are angry, nor should they seek to make others angry.
There are certain necessary thoughts, however, we can only have while we are angry. If someone is prone to be apologetic when someone slaps them, then they need to learn another emotion.
Never stay angry.
hubristime 2 years ago 2
Once one is able to deal with their anger, they now have an activated root chakra. Learning about health will activate the sacral in time. (You will want to learn about health after trusting the food you've eaten for so long).
hubristime 2 years ago 2
The kinds of thought the root chakra allow us to have can also be stimulated with certain stones. One of those is Jasper. I like Heliotrope better. Any stone that is firm in grounding (gold flecked obsidian) will also serve. In this way, one can have those purifying thoughts without being angry.
This allows one to have the thought forms without also experiencing the harmful emotion that would ordinarily accompany the form of thought.
hubristime 2 years ago
Thanks brother, the act of supressing this emotion is in the action phase. Anger is an emotion since the beginning of time, the first time a fish wasn't caught despite lack of trying was probably the first broken rod.
Purely and simply though the reaction whether immediate or after pondering is what needs to be suppressed, where by the time we think about it, our demeanor and reflection have hopefully taken on a more peaceful approach.
Peace bro, thanks again for your wisdom.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Lol...I'm glad I wasn't drinking coffee when I read that response. (the computer has no windshield wipers)
Yes, the actions must be suppressed, and the emotion endured. I used to tell people if they want to know what is going on in the world it is first a good idea to lock up all their guns, knives, kitchen implements, and probably all of their sporting goods as well for a period of no less than 2 years. Afterwards, when they have calmed down it will be safe to play with their toys again.
hubristime 2 years ago 4
lol, I lock myself up when I watch your video shares. lol.
It's easy for me to make a video like this because if I didn't check my responses at the door, I'd come unglued sometimes, I wouldn't have any toys or guns to lock up.
Thanks friend.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
If the response is to break something, that's usually frustration. If the response is to force you to make a decision about something which ordinarily goes against your nature, that is the purifying anger I speak of. One then needs to wait until one feels healthy again to decide if they still agree with what they decided. If they do, then it is likely your higher self, and your lower self are in agreement. If you also agree, being in the middle as you are, then there is a consensus.
hubristime 2 years ago
Most of the time it is firmly deciding what we would like to do is not a good thing, and then not doing it. Sometimes there is no choice to leave "it" alone, and then we find another way. In this way it can become a healthy motivator.
When patience fails, chopping wood may help too until other thoughtful considerations have been made to provide understanding.
Usually, once we understand we are no longer angry..
hubristime 2 years ago
Here are some lines from a Moody Blues song, "The Balance". They helped me.
"And he thought of those he angered, for he was not a violent man."
"And he thought of those he hurt, for he was not a cruel man."
"And he thought of those he frightened, for he was not an evil man."
"And he understood, he understood himself."
"Upon this he understood that when he was in anger, or knew hurt, or felt fear it was, because he was not understanding."
"And he learned compassion,"
hubristime 2 years ago
"And with his eye of compassion he saw his enemies like unto himself."
"And he learned Love."
"And then he was answered."
watch?v=rlFYWRajMKY
This One is no longer angry. I do still get frustrated though. I then search for understanding, and when I need to I make sure I apologize. Having patience helps.
hubristime 2 years ago
Love the meaning in these lyrics, thanks for adding this!
Music has a lot of good information put into an emotion rendering bundle. This is kind of why I was dissapointed in that the audio swap wasn't complete.
Peace bro,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
yes rather I think reaction is the negative of action.....positive action when feeling anger would be say.... stop, breathing deep, counting to ten, walking away momentarily and composing oneself....self reflection is amazing if you can grab yrself in the moment.
tanyasbigbrowneyes 2 years ago
Excellent! You nailed it m'lady.
Thanks for your comments sister.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
great video-- seems we all need reminders of this from time to time... I try to speak in a whisper when I'm angry...but how loud can your whisper go to still be considered a whisper? :-)
NewOrleansWoman 2 years ago
10 inch voice is a whisper, if you can see the epaglotis, it's too loud. lol. Thanks for the honesty and your comments.
Peace sister,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
yes well...I am dealing with a partner who has anger managment issues (he doesnt think he has a problem of course)...and every time I just tell myself its him and not me...I also let the kids know that too....superb advice you have /are giving.*****
tanyasbigbrowneyes 2 years ago 2
Thanks my sister. Amazing how such a rotten feeling can affect the dearest places we know. Home.
I appreciate your comments and insight.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
That's usually do to some form of frustration. When they forget what it was that first bothered them there is a hurt place inside that might not even realize it is screaming for someone to heal it.
Unfortunately, approached directly the person is going to have to want to have that place healed. The indirect approach works too, but perception is required on the part of the other to notice your efforts. When they don't notice then it can become "frustrating".
hubristime 2 years ago
Good words here. This is such a complex issue. I so appreciate what you mentioned before regarding this feeling and have slightly reworded the video info.
Frustration usually leads to anger, I realize that this is due to catalysts or triggers. Your point about perception is what everyone needs to review. Perception is such an individual freedom that it causes a paradox in any theory. This perception is what has changed because people have allowed pain and self maintenance to ruin perception.
Howage1 2 years ago
Continued...
And once perception is tweeked or influenced, and one doesn't have that support or, required perception in the right way; then frustration will spill into all facets of the mind. A lack of self maintenance in those individuals leads to a degredation of many of the pleasureable feelings that humans were built with.
Lets just say it's easier to look forward to resolution than to look back in regret.
Peace, and thanks for your insight into this!
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
I have been using anger to oppose anger myself lately... no use at all in it. Thanks for sharing.
GoneTemple 2 years ago
And great honesty. The reason I made the video is for my children.
Do you ever get tired of your own voice, it's usually due to anger.
I dislike these faces especially when they are made by me.
Thanks friend.
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago
Yes, I hate listening to SOME randem recordings around the house, but I like it too... it reminds me that even the slightest quip of annoyance from me sounds much meaner then intended.
GoneTemple 2 years ago
very wise words
there should be no need for anger and fighting 5*
love and respect
scotty and libby:0)
scottytoohottie123 2 years ago
Thank you my brother and sister. You should wait for the song to get dubbed in. It fits like a glove.
This feeling and action are far too easy to excuse ourselves over and to spread. Our children depend on this thing to subside.
Peace to you,
Ohkwa:ri'
Howage1 2 years ago