The secret!

[BigUncleMikeTard]

Amen to that!!!

[getinmybelly12]

totally agree with this! love you guys!!

[FairytaleDream13]

this years children in need song has the lyrics "love love is a verb, love is a doing word"- made me think of you shay!

[TheMaryJaneShow]

It never stops amazing me how after eight years and 4 kid together you guys still act like newly weds <3 katilette plus shaycarl equals forever <3 luv you guys:)

[SmileyMarcy]

Aww, the tags are so sweet! (':

[kassieton]

I love the tag so sweet!!

[kynaax]

The tags are cute! Yum yum, plenty of gum! 

[Smartiecandy13]

Look at the tags and like this if you said Awwweee :)

[AandW5454]

awwwwwwwweee. Look at the tags:D-3

[NaturalBeauty86]

i love that..... "love is a job" i totally agree! that was so cute,lol

[SophusxHoney]

Mommytard has great taste in gum!

[canariosdelmonte]

Great idea Shay!!



[chopperm97]

@kurtrobo thanks mate

[TheMaryJaneShow]

@chopperm97 @chopperm97 your right cuz i have the same kind and they're bose



[Julzie1418]

She'll see it and Then she will make out with me! That's the secret. He got so excited when he said that. Lol

[chopperm97]

What make are your headphones Shay does anyone no ???

[KurtRobo]

@chopperm97 Bose i think?

[TheMaryJaneShow]

@chopperm97 bose

[linnyroxyoursox12]

your "pyramid" kind of looks like something off of angry birds ;)

[scottie071]

i wish more guys held your perspective on love

[chopperm97]

What make are your headphones shay does anyone know ????

[kHaTika08]

I LOOOVE gum too but mint flavour!

[lolalove111213]

i REALLY like Twilight, but i don't "LOVE" it.lol

[rockon2k9]

That pineapple is from fyffes my dad works there but here in ireland

[HeyitsDannyH]

179 people don't know the secret.

[demononthescreen]

Ohhhh, that's how you got a hot wife! Haha :)

[firefly2552025]

AMEN!

[smileyfacegem]

I'm jealous of Mommytard now >:( lol

[ayoayojackie]

@thepurpleelephant72 yes she did

[chibiviolinist21]

"love is a verb."  I love that!! Great saying.

[ThePurpleElephant27]

179 people will never have a relationship with a person......

[ThePurpleElephant27]

Did Princesstard ever meet Freddie from ICarly??

[bfeilberg]

@ThePurpleElephant27 @ThePurpleElephant27 yeah she did ;) Can't remember the vlogs name :S sorry..

But they had lunch with him ;)

[ThePurpleElephant27]

@bfeilberg Thanks a million(:

[teeninja323]

:)!!!

[johnnyv288]

xD

[ArynneVengeance]

@lovivos Shyness Face.. i think..? haha

[ArynneVengeance]

@lovivos shyness face, i think?... something like that..

[ArynneVengeance]

@lovivos shyness face, i think?... something like that..

[theninalatina05]

That's NOTW for you!!

[calmdownitsshaina]

Words of truth foo!! Someone told me this awhile ago actually and I'm glad they did because it's so true, and more people should be aware this if they want to keep a relationship.

[Shoppin0223]

Nice thanks

[donkey5422]

Lol did she like it?

[JustMossing]

Hey I gotta say, although I love most if not all your videos... this one has got to be my FAVOURITE!!!!! Awesome video homie! (Y)

[blondie147123]

great vid shay and so true xx

[habsye]

I thought there was something different about the title...it's not in all caps! must be a very important secret then :)

[dmpsodapop]

The tags are awesome!!!!!!

[bondfrenchbond]

You're the greatest Shay! :)

[analife44]

Tags:

katilette plus shaycarl equals forever

Awww :)

[SoulTheKidEater]

AWWW!!! LOOK AT THE TAGS <3

[MrRexcherry]

Its a bomb

[KDTNproductions]

Celebrating 4/20 a lil bit early are we?????

[iQuickyHD]

The new HOW TO GET LAID

[Mikkixox9]

No caps on this video!! :O I think that is a first!

[nicolehoney52]

thanks for teaching me these things they will help when i get married

[itskevinh]

=]

[ElizabethHannahRB]

Aww thanks for the advice :) I always wondered how u guys kept your marriage so alive an happy! It so awesome to see two people still madly in love now adays.

[ImFashionablyLate]

Thumbs up for the tags in the description bar. :)

[SatelliteDuelist]

ahhh ok i didnt know

[avastpiratekitty]

I love your pyramid, Shay!

[Diannax1x]

awww ur soo cute shay :)

[msmcgregor]

Who the hell dislikes videos like this? I guess haters gonna hate! :)

[minimez101]

you can say i love you a thousand times but it takes a life time to show it!!!

[purepit4ever1200]

@minimez101 That couldn't be said any better than that!!!!

[1028Merlion]

Thanks for the explanation! To me, LOVE is underestimated! haha...and it was very creative of u to make a "statue" with a pineapple and some oranges....NICE!

[FormlessTrout]

u havent told many ppl other than the 200 thousand people that watched ths video

[SatelliteDuelist]

man u should ask her 2 marry u go for it

[NamnetBlevJuuwliah]

@SatelliteDuelist they are married

[ohheeyitskayla]

Awh the tags=-" Katilette plus shaycarl equals forever"

[JavaChip08]

that's so creative!

[ox0cupcake0xo]

TOTALY AGREE with what you said SHAY =)

[DJNewEra1992]

Love the tags!

[motorbreath1983]

If i'd chew gum all day, my face goes numb

[theamandapandashow98]

i think you should make a video were ur talking about something and behind u, u have something that you like(like marbles or oranges or apples or rocktard or babytard or princesstard or sontard or mommytard or malchi) and ur family is taking them away as u speek so u don't know whats going on. inbox me for anything else thanks u rock shaytards!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[IluouveRWJ]

His plan is gunna work because he put a lot of thought into it and showed her he thought about her

[xXxprincessabzxXx]

Your awesome shay :D shaytards forever :D pdeffinp! Your such a nice family :D :)

[xXxprincessabzxXx]

Your awesome shay :D shaytards forever :D pdeffinp!

[daveswife721]

you been listening to a lil too much toby mac lately or what?? lol

[filisalot]

Awesome video tags!

[brucekirk89]

its easy to be in love when u got money and a job,,but mess up and lose a job and dont pay bills and see how long they stick around,,or keep u around LOL

[tylerphilco]

Brilliant!

[sophandjj101]

yesh i wanna b a shaytard... LOL MY NAME IS HAILEIGH SO IM HAILTARD!

[plz?!?]

[poshnpiffle]

this is how you keep a marriage fresh: similac and gum. Oh, love sculptures. twoo wuv.

[GroveBedford]

forget prince charming... WHERE'S MY SHAY???

[TheOsama13]

dude his wife is hottttt

[CanadianSAGO]

LOL I love ur secret and guess what. It will work everytime :)

[TheWebbatomic]

looks like the numa numa guy with headphones on!

[JML689]

thats my boi!!! gonna get laid!

[prettybear08]

and those are the 170 people who exed out of the video and are bitter cause they won't be in relationship. haha

[indibindi97]

Cool

YouTube 'lucy singing a thousand miles'

She is brilliant!

[darkman1x32]

I love how all his videos has all the same 170 dislikes the same haters going out of their way to hate...

[1crazysweetie]

oh and that wasn't directed to Shay...he's good at lovin'. That was for everyone else.

;-)

[1crazysweetie]

Yes love takes work but please do not forget that it is something that must also be felt. It's got to be Both or it may not work in the long run.

[IAmBadatStarcraft]

Shay is 100% right. love is a job, it's work.

You have to spoil your girl, she deserves it. :)

[TheBestPolicy]

You Guys Are Awesome!!!!

[chicnstuu]

Love is a verb. Here in my room.

[guesswho811]

what does it mean by "its hru time?"

[TheFlipup]

169 people dont know the secret

[cristianmurguia]

hahahaha....true true..but i love how u make ur plan, pretty nice haha!

[UALDXer]

..... and tard No. 5 will be around in 9 months or so

[DarknessLPs]

it's a secret to everybody

[skittlessaver]

@josiie2910 I know what you mean, my friends don' t really understand what love means.

[Horton094]

Shay's sex tips.

[ConkerPucci13]

Reality shows will screw up your family, i wouldn't do it, just look at the "Hogan" Family

[Josiie2910]

im 14 and what i think of love is what you just said,

i can never get my friends to understand that :/

<3

[xXNSYNCLoverxX]

"Love, love is a verb, love is a doing word..." from the song Teardrop by Massive Attack, this video reminded me of that! Lol Shay! You are such a good father and husband!! It's small things like that, that mean soooo much!!!

[2ladybughippies]

widerstandskaempfer-its a made up name. doesnt really mean anything. its like a nickname.

[widerstandskaempfer]

what means tard? im not english!hope u explain it 2 me

[jaykay415]

@widerstandskaempfer I believe it is from one of Shay's very first videos in which he pranced around in a unitard - a one-piece body-hugging garment - and thereafter referred to his family as the Shaytards.

[widerstandskaempfer]

what means tard? im not english!

[ausmur90]

i love mommytard

[AmMadChillin]

MUST WATCH JUSTIN BIEBER REACTION /watch?v=W5HSbnIeDSo

[TargetedIndividual1]

Closely listen to a dvd of the movie Inception made before the Tucson shooting.

[Combatbootlove21]

172,914+ now know Shay's secret, but that's okay. (: THANKS SHAY!

[Engruls06]

...I don't think I'll ever love who I'm with. Verb Wise. Wish I could but it's to the point where I'm the one doing all of the work....he just exists. But I'm too damn nice to hurt his feelings and say goodbye. I think he'll die alone if I don't stay with him, which is really sad. -_-

[willot0722]

@Engruls06 I FEEL THE SAME WAY.

[XDemonix]

o man gotta love shay. starts off all serious about love. then ends it with awesome

[EveryDayVlogger]

Thumbs up if u actually watched that AWESOME ad on this video!!!!!

[sparklesmurfalw4]

@EveryDayVlogger arnt they different everytime?

[EveryDayVlogger]

@sparklesmurfalw4 ya probably haha

[MultiTobuscus]

@justincredible that's fuckin gay

[MultiTobuscus]

@justincredible010

[kaneroviemagic888]

@justincredible010 shut up if anything you're the only faggot here take you punk a*s to your boyfriend

[mrdsl2217]

@kaneroviemagic888 YOU SHIT EATING DINK SMOKER

[iam18rawr]

xD

[bmitchell98]

yes.. it is like twilight.

[kce003]

<3

[TheLarrySin]

If, for whatever reason you quit Youtubing, you can always switch to being a relationship counselor or pickup artist.

[DFTBACheree]

I love when you rant and go all preechy It really makes my day. you always say things that are just relevant to something

[PocomptonTV]

TLC



[Drew663]

damn shay, you smart

[Darian571]

Aye that hot chick is he married to himm

[hippoboannie]

I have a theory. I feel like Jon and Kate's marriage was ruined from the fame. At first everything was great. Then Kate started going on book tours and spent hours away from home. Im nervous :( Please reassure me that you guys will not end up like that. You guys are like family!

[Kristhegirl39]

My love for the shaytards decreased a little because of what he said about twilight :( haha i still love u guys!! :) <3

[yumeIzzy]

Hey Shaytards fans, i do DAILY FAMILY VLOGS that you will love, please check them out!

[ImaGummyBear01]

Katilette plus Shaycarl equals forever <3

[DJMonstaElectric]

awe cute tags

[MacyLeighC]

@Mrstrangevoice Do not be a jackass!! He has actually lost 25 pounds already and he is is an amazing father. You have alot of fucking nerve to sit on YOUR fat ass and write mean comments!

[AbstractGrace]

THUMBS UP FOR THE TWILIGHT REFERENCE!!! Lol He's so right, that is not love, its called hormones.

[mariagcool]

awww! The tags are adorable!

[zoddodd]

For the one that you love for all time!!!LOL

[RachyDuh]

lol I thought love was a noun...

[oysteinre]

Katilette plus shaycarl equals forever, aaaawww! <3

[SansGray]

Shay is so amazing.

[MaeFlower191]

161 people have never been in a relationship or never will!

[ub135]

aww tht's so cute. Kaitilette plus Shaycarl equals forever. :)

[funkymunkey24711]

Katilette plus shaycarl equals forever! -3

[mistyozzyrosie]

Katilette plus shaycarl equals forever

[briiittbittt]

katilette plus shaycarl equals forever

<3

[thashorty]

Hey guys!

We just started vlogging and we would like to know your opinion,

what you like/don't like or what you would like to see nxt time.

Youtube Channel: Themylifevlog

we would love to be interactive with our viewers. so comment if you want

THX for the support

LOVE & MADNESS

[TheoneandonlyDazMan]

The Secret is sugary niceness : )

[zCrazyWhiteBoyy]

Guys, look at his tags to this video

[XxToxicDesiresxX]

you gave your wife fruits.. simulaic or however you spell it and aspartame.. what a loving hubby lol

[Thapogge]

I though the gums were condoms at first.

[jaffemaster]

@Thapogge He has four kids....he doesnt know how to use them...

[trumpetbrandon]

I just cant get enough! love this quick vlog!

[LoeraAlex]

watch lady gaga fall off her piano here!! I swear its not a joke

/watch?v=UakgzC0nw4A

[Obviouslyyourfan]

Dude. Shay,you're treating your wife how all girlfriends and wives should be treated. You and Kaitilette are going to have a great and long marriage for sure.

[thetomroper1]

Omg! He has a red face

[AngeKristine86]

I've never seen a broadway play but I'd see the ShayCarl broadway plat :)

[HannahGymnast129]

this is my favourite song for the intro.... does anyone please know who sings it?

[dantedoomsday]

OMG! I am a person watching this video. How did he know?

[MisterBaseball200]

159 people don't know how to "love."

[Sorrowmann]

i will exit right now

[ilovemascara15]

CUTEST. TAGS. EVER.

[Kirsty1D]

i love you shay

[Txbandito]

Thank you, Shay.

[19892854]

You have a really cool apartment or house. I like it. :D

[klar9852]

Love is a verb, here in my room.