lol I love how you mention to ask about other people than telling your own story. It annoys me so much when people are egocentric enough to simply unload their stories to me instead of giving a single crap about what I'm up to...which leads to me being mean but I'll reverse it regardless!
Why do I get the feeling that if you set your goal to be nice for one whole day, your day is suddenly jinxed and everyone seems to be really frustrating.....
I am very kinda to everyone around me...but sometimes i feel resentful afteR?....Bad habbit....I will be kind ALL DAY LONG :) And to myself...which is hardest of all! :)
The other day I was on a 12-mile bike ride in the Florida heat. A truck pulled into the bike lane in front of me and the driver just randomly gave me the coldest bottle of water I've ever tasted. It was SO nice. Simple things like that totally reaffirm my faith in people!
I was kind to a couple of old ladies that knocked at my door today... They were talking to me about Jesus... I get the feeling that they will be knocking at my door againsometime......Does my kindness really have to stretch to two days?
I'm super kind to women. Every time I am kind to a man he has to take it to a whole other creepy level and make me uncomfortable by asking me out. I always have to pay a price for being kind to men. I wish I could be but It's not even worth it. I just avoid men altogether. I really don't want to be bothered or 'followed' around a store by some horny dude. but a woman.. I will go out of my way to be kind to another woman, at least they don't try to hit on me~
@katrock5700 good luck! you can do it and when you're nice to someone. . especially that isn't giving you nice things. . it really takes the pressure off of you in a big way. let me know how it goes! xo
Erm, i believe that the problem is about how long you can resist when people say mean things to you. It's easy to say or to do something mean and it's not easy at all to resist to it/stay positive. Staying postitive every day school day for 1 year is hard enough, i can't even imagine doing this for more than one year x)
1. You are awesome. 2. You are so positive. 3. Thank you for coming back being of service to this world in this life time. 4. Please keep on doing all that your heart desires to do.
Tara you rock as a person and you are a great inspiration i'm working on turning my life around and with your help i think i will get there don't ever change, brian
Love this idea!! I always think that the world is a mirror and gives back to you what you give to it. Great suggestion for everyone to live daily and a great reminder to those of us who try to but sometimes forget!! :) xo
@whisperingdragon33 yes. . I know. . but it's even more gratifying when you're not mean back! and it usually confuses the person being mean to you and gives them nothing to fight with besides themselves :)
@TaraStilesYoga I use the saying "resentment is like taking a poison and waiting for the other person to die"...it helps me stay be just that much more serene (not that I don't get angry and resentful sometimes)
@whisperingdragon33 it is what it is - people will be what they are. and you will be who you are! all you can do is what you know you should do - people will react regardless. if you just put that kindness out there - you may not see it straight away - but you're planting a seed.
@pathsounds That's true. I tried my hardest to be nice today, all day long..and I feel like a much better person for doing so. Thanks for the nice comment..I saw this quote today: "People who hurt you are merely acting out from unresolved pain. Forgive everyone, take nothing personally and walk with a light heart." ~ B. F., M.D.
its hard bein nice when so person gets on your bad side
MsHellokittylover234 2 days ago
What a excellent message! ^-^ I LOVE kind people! They inspire me just like you did! :D
kaphonie 1 week ago
lol I love how you mention to ask about other people than telling your own story. It annoys me so much when people are egocentric enough to simply unload their stories to me instead of giving a single crap about what I'm up to...which leads to me being mean but I'll reverse it regardless!
ShadowCrowX 4 weeks ago in playlist Positive Energy and Wisdom
Very nice. What other people do is their karma. What you do is yours.
Phoenix143EA 1 month ago
Be kind to people and let them ride on your back...
UniHumour 1 month ago
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cheywee1 1 month ago
I told somebody that I don't hate them, but if they were on fire and I had a glass of water, I'd drink it.
Does that count as being nice?
DominateStudios 2 months ago
Im such a negative person. I really dont know how people can be so possitive . -.-
Envyy you.
tayylorr20 2 months ago
its a simple but efgective concept! like it
yamyam644 6 months ago
self-honoring is important too... so yes, being kind to yourself is equally important, & i suppose included in the term "everybody"!
meninadrc 6 months ago
Nice idea, Tara. I think I'll try it out today. =)
xPorcelainLolitax 6 months ago
Its so true, its less work to be kind.
MrEdolina 6 months ago
i like that in the sidebar of suggestions is beach boys wouldnt it be nice...that is so perfect=)
I love ur videos tara u are trully amazing
Daliah2603 6 months ago
Thanks Tara for sharing about kindness...Today is my birthday and i m hearing such lovely thought sharing :)
yangchen59 6 months ago
Why do I get the feeling that if you set your goal to be nice for one whole day, your day is suddenly jinxed and everyone seems to be really frustrating.....
CherryBlossomRider 6 months ago
People take advantage when you're nice.. I prefer to be indifferent... Well im kind of a schizoid anyway
mamobster1500 6 months ago 3
the hardest person to be kind to is ourself!
claudettedupont 6 months ago
I have trouble being negative after I see people!
I am very kinda to everyone around me...but sometimes i feel resentful afteR?....Bad habbit....I will be kind ALL DAY LONG :) And to myself...which is hardest of all! :)
Thanks tara!
sashwabaam 6 months ago
So true
Urbanmotifs 6 months ago
you're an amazing role model yo!
claud182 6 months ago
To keep kindness on your mind all day, try to count how many people you can make smile. I always lose count, but that doesn't mean I've failed!
Hobgoblins 6 months ago
The other day I was on a 12-mile bike ride in the Florida heat. A truck pulled into the bike lane in front of me and the driver just randomly gave me the coldest bottle of water I've ever tasted. It was SO nice. Simple things like that totally reaffirm my faith in people!
mulkurul85 6 months ago
I was kind to a couple of old ladies that knocked at my door today... They were talking to me about Jesus... I get the feeling that they will be knocking at my door againsometime......Does my kindness really have to stretch to two days?
gerry2345 6 months ago
I'm super kind to women. Every time I am kind to a man he has to take it to a whole other creepy level and make me uncomfortable by asking me out. I always have to pay a price for being kind to men. I wish I could be but It's not even worth it. I just avoid men altogether. I really don't want to be bothered or 'followed' around a store by some horny dude. but a woman.. I will go out of my way to be kind to another woman, at least they don't try to hit on me~
ginalola333 6 months ago
@katrock5700 good luck! you can do it and when you're nice to someone. . especially that isn't giving you nice things. . it really takes the pressure off of you in a big way. let me know how it goes! xo
TaraStilesYoga 6 months ago 2
Erm, i believe that the problem is about how long you can resist when people say mean things to you. It's easy to say or to do something mean and it's not easy at all to resist to it/stay positive. Staying postitive every day school day for 1 year is hard enough, i can't even imagine doing this for more than one year x)
(i like the concept of being kind though
)
Sontseh 6 months ago
Good energy all around!
Neequu78 6 months ago
Amen sister!
Neequu78 6 months ago
This should be played to the english rioters!
dig1my2tal 6 months ago
Thanks Tara! :)
TheAmaranthineRift 6 months ago
My act of kindness number one: Tara, you are GORGEOUS !!! Man. That was tough ! LOL !
dovermoreno 6 months ago
have u got any better ways to waste my time that twitter??
Internalthorn 6 months ago
I would like to start by being kind to Tara....
1. You are awesome. 2. You are so positive. 3. Thank you for coming back being of service to this world in this life time. 4. Please keep on doing all that your heart desires to do.
Knighter2 6 months ago
LOVE DOING THIS
da1sinister1 6 months ago
Tara ... you're so awesome. Seriously.
LindsayTaylore 6 months ago
Tara you rock as a person and you are a great inspiration i'm working on turning my life around and with your help i think i will get there don't ever change, brian
Scottishband 7 months ago
right on
irishfan84n 7 months ago
yayyy! i SO needed to hear this today - thanks :)
patchouliboy 7 months ago
great task.
ReillyAJ 7 months ago
Hello Tara :) thanks for the reminder!
dodgycupcake 7 months ago
a lesson in Karma - as beautiful as you :)
SterlingBorden 7 months ago
True words of wisdom. Just what I needed Tara! Thanks a million!!
trinihali 7 months ago
you are so skinny!
ZoeyDeable 7 months ago
positive youtube videos make me smile
-kisses
Trillasecond 7 months ago 17
Love this idea!! I always think that the world is a mirror and gives back to you what you give to it. Great suggestion for everyone to live daily and a great reminder to those of us who try to but sometimes forget!! :) xo
melzerr1 7 months ago
ur awesome & I L Y
Trillasecond 7 months ago
I'll start with you.. Your skin look great. ^^
exctasy131 7 months ago
Positivity breeds positivity!
lexums 7 months ago
Thanks for the advice!
AnneSturt 7 months ago
It is hard to do, especially when someone is mean to you..
whisperingdragon33 7 months ago 8
@whisperingdragon33 yes. . I know. . but it's even more gratifying when you're not mean back! and it usually confuses the person being mean to you and gives them nothing to fight with besides themselves :)
TaraStilesYoga 7 months ago 30
@TaraStilesYoga I use the saying "resentment is like taking a poison and waiting for the other person to die"...it helps me stay be just that much more serene (not that I don't get angry and resentful sometimes)
pele7208 6 months ago
@whisperingdragon33 it is what it is - people will be what they are. and you will be who you are! all you can do is what you know you should do - people will react regardless. if you just put that kindness out there - you may not see it straight away - but you're planting a seed.
pathsounds 7 months ago
@pathsounds That's true. I tried my hardest to be nice today, all day long..and I feel like a much better person for doing so. Thanks for the nice comment..I saw this quote today: "People who hurt you are merely acting out from unresolved pain. Forgive everyone, take nothing personally and walk with a light heart." ~ B. F., M.D.
whisperingdragon33 6 months ago
First! Don't hate :)
aezaki07 7 months ago