The reason why he watches porn it's because I am Less attractive, Idiot and Stupid :) It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
The reason why he watches porn it's because I am Less attractive, Idiot and Stupid :) It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
The reason why he watches porn it's because I am Less attractive, Idiot and Stupid :) It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
Healthy? If you could ask the murder victims of Ted Bundy and Gary Ridgway (The Green River Killer), I am sure they would all disagree. Pornography is demoralizing, degrading, and desensitizing. I hope you know that the majority of women that you two fantasize about have been sexually abused at some point in their life- leading them to have low self confidence and a desire to hold their bodies clean/respectable and as something that should be sanctified. Supporting the porn industry = sick
My boyfriend lies to me about porn. He watches it a lot. And on top of that my sex life suffers. I feel as though he'd rather watch porn than be with me. F**k porn. It sucks to feel like you get beat out by a porn star. Yeah I know I am not that attractive. I know I can't distort my body in some of those ways. I know that I am not as vocal as those girls. However, I do not deserve to get turned down on a regular basis, just to find the massive amount of porn my guy watches.
@spatherdab1 Maybe I would not be so sad if it were not impeding on my own sex life. I guess it feels like I am being cheated on because I have no sex life and be has a good one with himself and the bitches on the screen.
@spatherdab1 Very true...and it's hard to please someone like that. For me, I want to travel, meet new people, charity, learn to love myself, and grow as a person (if It's hard to be a lover).
Mmkay, So since this is youtube and I'm allowed, I'm going to throw in my opinion. Each couple should decide whats best for their situation. If it severly bothers one half of the couple, then the other person (to be a good partner) should work out a compromise. If not, that's good for them.
Me personally if my boyfriend watches porn it wouldn't bother me, why should it I mean he isn't fucking another woman he's masturbating, in my book it's not cheating
ok my gf and i have been long distance for a little while now and we havent been able to see each other and she doesnt have a webcam or camera of any sort. is it considered cheating if i lied about watching girls lap dancing. i know what you meen about being visual, i need to see it to imagine it with her but i cant see her because i have no way to. but she found out and now she says im cheating and idk what to say. fml
I'm against reading erotic novels AND watching porn. It's all a big lie as to what sex is really about. It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
If im sleeping next to my husband and he gets out of bed to masterbate to porn. its cheating. Thinking about having sex with someone els is cheating.. If my husband is masterbating to porn and thinking of having sex with that porn star its cheating.. you guys are crazzy
in his heart he's cheating. To lust and have sexual fantasies over someone else when you are in a relationship is a form of cheating and porn does nothing but degrade women, it gives men unrealistic expectations of women. I wish more people were wise enough to realise this. PORN is the biggest money making industry nothing else!!!
The diff. between porn and romance novels are more than visual. The characters in a romance novel are more developed and the reader connects with them as im sure they would with any other char. in other genres of books. Porn is more like a dirty magazine such as playboy. And both porn and porn mags. center around tantalizing the audience with lude suggestive and often disgusting perverse behavior. Setting standards that most partners might make you feel threatened or inadequate.
You guys are totally unprofessional and should not be giving advice. People if you want the truth go to the bible and God, he has the truth. Porn is cheating and a serious problem. These people are earning a ticket to he'll if they keep this up leading people from the truth. You guys are in a risky situation
Its hard not to watch porn (i quit when i started going out with my gf) but it is really hard not to. Just because were made to think like tht to ensure survival of the human race. Thts y men crave sex. Instinct.
U people understand u dont need porn to be thinking about sex. Is it the same as watching porn to be thinking about having sex. Because thts how guys think hate to break it to ya
You guys are insane to say that porn is okay and not cheating! Porn is one of the most destructive industries today!!!! It wrecks marriages and families for you two to say its normal for men to do that is sickening!! Wise up!!!!
These guys in the video are so wrong. If one of the partners feels hurt by it then it just isn't right. If a guy has to hide it he is lying and breaking everything his relationship is founded on like trust. Men who look at porn are stuck in fanstasy worlds and have no self control. I have a husband who loves the "but you were at work " excuse. rather than doing what most of us women do and wait to get something real he goes to porn.This is a MAJOR turn off. knowing he could not wait for me.
I really don't think it's as common for women to read romance novels as it is for men to jerk off to porn. It's just an excuse for men to be selfish and do whatever they want. And besides, romance novels are NOT like porn. I have never heard of a woman masturbating to a novel, and even then, there are no images of real people in it.
@popscotched I agree about the novels. I never heard of jerking off to a harlequin novel. I can read one while the kids watch cartoons in the same room. you can't say the same about porn magazines or movies. and most novels don't get anymore graphic than hbo. we read them for the romance not the few paragraphs of lovemaking. porn is nonstop f@cking and things intended to jerk off too. novels are to fantisize about men who realize you are important to them.
because the men around us are too focused on pleasing themselves with things like porn than to stop and think about what it is that thier woman needs.
redfury82> Yeah, it's fucked up. Watching porn isn't natural. If there weren't electronics, men would have to cheat. Porn is just a substitute for cheating.
Once upon a time before the internet or even photography- If a man wanted to orgasm while looking at a naked lady who wasn't his wife he would have to have an affair. Just because the technology is available doesn't make it right. If my man is the only one who gets to see my naked body- why should he beable to look at others? I think porn cheapens a relationship.
I'm sorry but you are wrong. Men are dna wired to want to be with multiple women. Either let you man watch or he'll end up cheating. Plus, ask yourself, am I doing all the things he likes and wants. If not, pony up or shut up.
I have to disagree. I am happy just being with my girlfriend. I have no interest in looking at porn or being with anyone else. Girls, there are guys out there who don't watch porn. Whether or not it's "cheating", I don't know, but if it hurts you, it's not right.
If you are really happy just with your girl you have self esteem issues that make you happy someone even talks to you. Or you are full of crap and are just saying what you think women want to hear and that makes you weak.
Whoa. That's pretty judgmental. In my opinion, the fact that I can find satisfaction in one woman makes me that much more of a real man. Real men have self-control. You're the one more likely to have self-esteem problems if you need to be jerking off to everything.
LOL. Why do you have so much grudge against someone being loyal? Because you're unable to do it yourself. Or you're a pathetic loser no one would want anyway.
I think to watch porno with who you love ,it's disgusting! No respect! Why man ,if he loves his wife so much,he feel needs to watch porno and stering to another woman's body! Instead his wife's body! If you both happy,you dont need porno to make your life better! And i think this is only way to look to another women,without feeling guilty!but any way is not nice to be next to your wife and have fantasy,with the woman from porno.
And this is the exact insecurity that other guy mentioned in the next video. Especially if ur watching it together can't the woman also be attracted to the man in the video? Its called a fantasy..so whats your problem? Does anyone raise red flags when females read erotica and romance novels and movies and they fantasize about the male in it? If ur a very sexual person porno can very much be something that either the male or the couple want to watch. You like others are really overanalyzing this
Everyone is different, and if both people can live in harmony with this kind of thing around then it shouldn't be a problem. But I also think that some people just do not like the concept and they are all also allowed to feel that way.
Many people consider it almost like cheating, because sexual thoughts are all in the mind. If we start thinking of something that turns us on then it (normally) starts some kind of reaction in are bodies, hormones. So regardless of whether there is another person right in the room with you or on the computer you are still being sexual with someone else in a way. This is why it would upset women or a man, because then they feel like they are not "the one".
violetmoonfire> i agree. i'm a guy and i still think it's wrong to do it if your partner doesn't like it. you should be able to just think of things while having sex with your partner. why do you need to jerk off alone in front of a screen? to me, this indicates problems.
im having a problem me and my girl have been getting into little arguments about porn and she tells me it hurts her feelings but me bein the guy i am still watches it anyway. im ashamed and disgusted by this she already has low self esteem and i just make it worse i always try to make her think she is the most beautiful girl ever but i cant quit my stupid horny guy insticts keep taking over someone please help. i want to stop!
Well I don't know about anyone else, but when i have those kind of feelings I only ever think of my love. I mean it's natural to have urges, but couldn't you two just do it or something?
I wouldn't like my husband to watch porn because no one can compare to porn stars and I fell that if he looks at those girls and looks at plain me he would womit. I'm not fat or ugly, actually I'm a belly dancer and people pay money to look at me, but still, my boobs are never going to be that big, nor will my butt ever be so perfect as it is on porn stars. However, I'm quite comfortable with watching hentai cartoons, they are sexy, but since there are no real people I don't feel jelous.
Sejinska..aren't the penises in those pornos also WAYYY bigger than a male's penis in the real world?? Yet males still watch porn right? Why? Because they don't view it in such an insecure manner as some females do. Men may worry about their penis size sometimes but when they're watching porn it's simply about visual pleasure, fantasy, and sexuality..something both males and females have..even though females choose to hold a male's fantasy against him
women fantasize about other men just the same when guys fantasize about other women. i don't see why it wouldn't be okay to do so. Its jus sad that majority of the women population usually don't like to admit to these kinds of things unless its with their close gfs.
Exactly. Romantic movies and novels are women's porn. They're fantasies for women like porn is a fantasy for men. Any woman who doesn't like her husband watching porn is too insecure with herself and is afraid it means her husband isn't attracted to her. That may be true, if you're a bitch and fat and ugly. But most of the time, most women have nothing to worry about. Him watching porn doesn't mean he loves or cares about you any less. It's just a fantasy, just like romantic movies/books.
Personally I think that using porn as a masturbatory aid when you're in a relationship (that includes sex and you get it on a regular basis) is sad. If your partner is sexual with you why would you need porn unless you were not satisfied and would rather have the women in the pornography as opposed to your significant other. Personally if my boyfriend was into porn I wouldn be a little offended seeing as he's always free to be sexual with me whenever he needs to be. End of story.
I completely aggree with you! Me and my boyfriend have been having this problem and with just sex alone it's usually about 10 times in one week, never mind hand/blow jobs. It's just disgusting, degrading and makes you feel completely inadequate.
I have Never read a romance novel in my life and how is that Anything like porn, seriously?! Watch it with him? Why would I want to look at naked women? Hello, it's called a relationship and committment.. if he wants to cum, come to ME! It is cheating in my book, because guys WANT to have sex with those women, but they CANT, so they are stuck with us. This is terrible advice.. If you are 100% satisfied with your partner, you dont need anything else. I feel sorry for anyone who doesnt agree.
I agree, I think it's cheating too. Having to use other girls to get your pleasure when there's a willing girfriend right there waiting. I can't see how it couldn't be classed as cheating.
sex AND love....two DIFFERENT things...Porn=sex; Love=partner. We ARE saturated with porn ALL over the place. How can you NOT watch porn? It's in different shapes ALL OVER the place. Our society at large wil not fuction with blinders on at every turn...magazine ads, internet ads, billboard ads on the road...it's ALL geared toward the SEX of porn....ARGH-H-H-H....
i dont think its wrong to watch porn but whne you have a girlfriend your sleeping wiht liek everynight whats the point to have porn? also when they already get off watching porn then they dont feel to have sex sometimes. thats BS! soooo yah its bs, id perfer him not to and its cool. im not jealous its just sucks when i want what i cant have
Romance novels? Im female an I watch porn. Not into romance at all.
I hate the way society has all become about how to please men. "Why doesnt he love me? How to please a man 101 ways. How to look sexy for him!"
And this myth that women just want romance. LOL
Its easy to make a man cum. In out- in out- finish!
Its time that men learn how to please WOMEN! Ladies if your man is watchin porn and it bothers you, get a pic of your ex and mastrubate to it, and see if he likes that :-) The end!
lol i agree with you. you guys know whats funny? that this link to watch this vid actually appeared because we were all watching porn!! haha. exept me of course couse the individual never does it. wait why am i writing this in a reply to you this should be on a normal comment. ah oh well. but anyways.. you go girl!!
My girlfriend has yet to make me cum, and we've been going out over 2 years. It's because she's bad in bed and refuses to watch porn / take advice / gets tired after 10 minutes. NOW WHAT.
Everyone knows that a woman's anatomy is far more complicated than a mans.
Most men cnt even stay hard for more than 2mins.
I think men need to learn more about women. GENERALLY speaking. You may know how to please a lady, I know a few me that do, but most do not! Or maybe they are just plain selfish? Or MAYBE they think we just want "Romance" haha
Addictions are harmful. When a person becomes addicted to something, like pornography, they usually enjoy their addiction at the EXPENSE of their relationship(s). It is when a person's life begins to revolve around porn that it becomes a problem. It's not the porn that causes the issue, but the addictive nature of the person in question.
My husband and I enjoy pornography, sometimes alone, sometimes together. I find that in our relationship it helps "spice" things up. To each their own. R-chan
watching porn may not be cheating, but only watching porn and not having lust to have sex with the woman, it says a lot... does he really loves me or am I only a friend who sleeps on the same bed with him?
If hes watching porn then he obviously needs more love from his girlfriend not all the time, but sometimes its the girl's fault because porn is just the alternitive
wtf? how can she get over her jealousy? WHY IS HE WATCHING PORN IN THE FIRST PLACE??? hes obviously wanting action and for some reason hes not getting it. and she gets jealous? WTF??? go fuck your boyfriend! it will stop him from wanting porn!!!!
@Ratbiker If he is not getting any sexual pleasure in the relationship then he needs to be grown and talk to her about it rather than resorting to something he knows will hurt her and if she and him want different things then they don't need to be together.
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I dont care what you two say..it is still considered cheating because your fantasizing about another woman. Making it feel like the girlfriend cant turn him on..ITS CHEATING!
Cheating is having a relationship with another person. No second relationship = not cheating.
And who says he/she is fantasizing about that other man/woman? You aren't in his/her head, so you don't know. Maybe he/she is picturing his/her spouse there and fantasizing about that person while viewing the porn. Not cheating in any case.
Some people watch it to turn them on, some people watch it to learn the position. Some people watch it for masterbat. Is watching Porno is Cheating? depend on how you watch.
My bf watches porn, he tells me about it and I don't think he's cheating, but part of me still thinks "omg why is he watching porn if he has me :'(" but I know he loves me and I get over it.
that's just the way men are built, they're like animals :D hehe no offence
There's nothing wrong with watching porn as long as your partner receives some of the benefits of that activity. I am happy for my other half to watch porn if it increases his sex drive, makes him feel relaxed and makes him better company for me. I think this should apply to women as well. You can only change your own behaviour, find some porn that works for you and then you will see the appeal.
The vast majority of guys look at porn (I'd guess around 99.9%). If you don't approve of guys watching porn then you are clearly a woman and don't understand your man's sex drive. Guys are going to look at porn whether or not you like it so your best bet is to not make a big deal about it.
Let me put it this way, you can accept that your man is going to look at porn, or you can be single for the rest of your life.
Men watch porn just to see attractive people doing stuff. we dont care about their names, whre they live, or anything about them. it serves a need--like drinking a soda when you are thirsty.
Women, generally, are more into the emotional aspect of sexuality. Sex is a connection you make with someone and it is about love. though this gender role is changing somewhat.
So basically it is not cheating for a guy because there isnt any emotional attachment.
All guys watch porn. Either they admit it or they lie lol. Really I think porn keeps guys from cheating. Men were not cut out to have one partner and one only. Nature tells us to go breed with as many as we can. Porn lets a man have his fantasy without actually going out and cheating on his partner.
You should be happy hes watching porn, if he stops he may be getting his fantasies taken care of someplace else. Now if he prefers porn over you thats a different story, hes got a problem then.
If guys truely love their other half and she isn't happy with them watching porn, then the guy should stop. Its called will power. If a guy can't stop watching videos for their loved ones, then what will they be willing to do. So i'm sorry but if guys are too weak to stop then they are not worth it.
As a guy my gf says NO so for years its been NO. The respect and love i get from my gf MORE than makes up for cheap fantasies.
That's quite a sexist comment to make. Is that suggesting that the man should be in control over the woman? I completely agree with dimitrios8 and that the guys should take into account how it makes the girl feel rather than them just continuing to be selfish animalistic pigs.
no, im implying that neither should control, if its a healthy relationship then the girl wouldnt be so insecure to ask the guy to stop watching porn, it doesnt make you animalistic to watch porn, actually you know what it does, and guess what, you are a fucking animal, its human to have sexual urges, its your fault for dating an insecure, and probably controlling bitch, and anyways i stand by my comment.
enjoy your lack of balls. i hope the weak sex is worth losing your self-respect.
No it's about actually caring for how the girl feels and having a bit of consideration. If the girl was doing something that was hurting the guys feelings would you expect her to stop or just carry on regardless of the guys feelings?
Porn is disgusting, and guys saying "It's just a guy thing" is just an excuse to make it seem more acceptable.
When females gush over..example like the recent phenomenon...the guys in Twilight and fantasize over them..do you see a whole bunch of males crying and complaining about how they care too much about them? The very fact that you see porn as "disgusting" displays you're closeminded ideology...getting insecure over a fantasy. If a female is insecure about that she's probably insecure about other things..and no one..male or female...wants someone that's insecure. Period
Im a girl, and most of the girls who obsess over twilight are alone. Because twilight boys are fake, and people who haven't experienced relationships wouldn't know that. I'm sure there are some in relationships who dream over them, lets just say they are retards. lol.
It's closed minded not to accept something is it? So should everyone accept everything in the world with no sense of what is wrong? What if a woman wants to be that guys fantasy and him hers? Although this sounds idealistic, you are right about one thing no one should settle for less. So if you feel this is what you need to be happy in life g ahead but I have faith in man or women that if they do not like something, it makes them unhappy in some way they should stand up for their feelings too.
ok i have a question and can u please so a show about it what if u love a girl but shes like a friend to u but she likes another boy what do u do cause i feel like shes the answer to my heart
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Well for me I have to say watching porn is a good thing. When I watch porn I learn stuff that would please my girlfriend and most of the stuff works. Just because guys watch porn doesn't mean they don't love the girl it's just really something too do. Then some learn stuff from that. So I think it's a good thing to do not bad.
This is a great point. It can become a problem, however, when people (men or women) can ONLY get off from porn, and not from actual sex with your partner. Or if one is spending all of one's money on porn (or any addiction) then it is also a problem. But normal recreational porn usage is good. :)
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The reason why he watches porn it's because I am Less attractive, Idiot and Stupid :) It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
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The reason why he watches porn it's because I am Less attractive, Idiot and Stupid :) It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
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The reason why he watches porn it's because I am Less attractive, Idiot and Stupid :) It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
143Sponge 1 month ago
Healthy? If you could ask the murder victims of Ted Bundy and Gary Ridgway (The Green River Killer), I am sure they would all disagree. Pornography is demoralizing, degrading, and desensitizing. I hope you know that the majority of women that you two fantasize about have been sexually abused at some point in their life- leading them to have low self confidence and a desire to hold their bodies clean/respectable and as something that should be sanctified. Supporting the porn industry = sick
jayliamahra 2 months ago
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and a LOSS of desire to hold their bodies clean/respectable and as something that should be sanctified. Supporting the porn industry = sick.
jayliamahra 2 months ago
My boyfriend lies to me about porn. He watches it a lot. And on top of that my sex life suffers. I feel as though he'd rather watch porn than be with me. F**k porn. It sucks to feel like you get beat out by a porn star. Yeah I know I am not that attractive. I know I can't distort my body in some of those ways. I know that I am not as vocal as those girls. However, I do not deserve to get turned down on a regular basis, just to find the massive amount of porn my guy watches.
spatherdab1 8 months ago 6
@spatherdab1 Maybe I would not be so sad if it were not impeding on my own sex life. I guess it feels like I am being cheated on because I have no sex life and be has a good one with himself and the bitches on the screen.
spatherdab1 8 months ago
@spatherdab1 Very true...and it's hard to please someone like that. For me, I want to travel, meet new people, charity, learn to love myself, and grow as a person (if It's hard to be a lover).
143Sponge 2 months ago
Mmkay, So since this is youtube and I'm allowed, I'm going to throw in my opinion. Each couple should decide whats best for their situation. If it severly bothers one half of the couple, then the other person (to be a good partner) should work out a compromise. If not, that's good for them.
KatieAdelineKake 8 months ago
You're idiots.. I don't read romance novels.. And no it's not healthy. It is cheating, it's the same thing.
brookeogden 8 months ago 3
Me personally if my boyfriend watches porn it wouldn't bother me, why should it I mean he isn't fucking another woman he's masturbating, in my book it's not cheating
devilshomie 8 months ago
this is so off topic but what the heck are you two drinking
mammabutterfly751 9 months ago
ok my gf and i have been long distance for a little while now and we havent been able to see each other and she doesnt have a webcam or camera of any sort. is it considered cheating if i lied about watching girls lap dancing. i know what you meen about being visual, i need to see it to imagine it with her but i cant see her because i have no way to. but she found out and now she says im cheating and idk what to say. fml
bigjohnrox36 11 months ago
yor crap at your job jporn is for pervs
redhotangela 1 year ago
I'm against reading erotic novels AND watching porn. It's all a big lie as to what sex is really about. It IS cheating because people who truly love each other are supposed to save those feelings for their significant other. It's not right or fair to fantasize about anyone else if you believe in healthy, monogamous relationships.
ladylunafication 1 year ago 4
@ladylunafication please teach me your ways
samsta001 1 year ago
lol :P
I really don't think its cheating XD
It's not cheating until there tongue
ilovethreedaysgrace8 1 year ago
I dont read books. he looks at porn. CHEATING mutha fuckas!!!!!!
Iwillshrink86 1 year ago
Arguing is bullshit.
Ask your girlfriend/boyfriend if they care if you watch porn. That's it.
Human beings are so fucking awkward.
IceCreeaamV3 1 year ago
If im sleeping next to my husband and he gets out of bed to masterbate to porn. its cheating. Thinking about having sex with someone els is cheating.. If my husband is masterbating to porn and thinking of having sex with that porn star its cheating.. you guys are crazzy
amandagates28 1 year ago 5
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in his heart he's cheating. To lust and have sexual fantasies over someone else when you are in a relationship is a form of cheating and porn does nothing but degrade women, it gives men unrealistic expectations of women. I wish more people were wise enough to realise this. PORN is the biggest money making industry nothing else!!!
Nanceify 1 year ago
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Matthew 5:28 "But I say to you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."
justlstn 1 year ago
The diff. between porn and romance novels are more than visual. The characters in a romance novel are more developed and the reader connects with them as im sure they would with any other char. in other genres of books. Porn is more like a dirty magazine such as playboy. And both porn and porn mags. center around tantalizing the audience with lude suggestive and often disgusting perverse behavior. Setting standards that most partners might make you feel threatened or inadequate.
darthmonkey8675 1 year ago
You guys are totally unprofessional and should not be giving advice. People if you want the truth go to the bible and God, he has the truth. Porn is cheating and a serious problem. These people are earning a ticket to he'll if they keep this up leading people from the truth. You guys are in a risky situation
Sunnyday010306 1 year ago
Its hard not to watch porn (i quit when i started going out with my gf) but it is really hard not to. Just because were made to think like tht to ensure survival of the human race. Thts y men crave sex. Instinct.
cheezieguy 1 year ago
U people understand u dont need porn to be thinking about sex. Is it the same as watching porn to be thinking about having sex. Because thts how guys think hate to break it to ya
cheezieguy 1 year ago
Only reason you need porn is if you are single or your girl isn't giving you enough sex.
That said...cheating...BS...
Obviously they are going to lie to girls about looking at porn...I mean what do you think a girl is gonna say?
Harvest8888 1 year ago
You guys are insane to say that porn is okay and not cheating! Porn is one of the most destructive industries today!!!! It wrecks marriages and families for you two to say its normal for men to do that is sickening!! Wise up!!!!
lisabebesita 1 year ago
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These guys in the video are so wrong. If one of the partners feels hurt by it then it just isn't right. If a guy has to hide it he is lying and breaking everything his relationship is founded on like trust. Men who look at porn are stuck in fanstasy worlds and have no self control. I have a husband who loves the "but you were at work " excuse. rather than doing what most of us women do and wait to get something real he goes to porn.This is a MAJOR turn off. knowing he could not wait for me.
redfury82 1 year ago
I really don't think it's as common for women to read romance novels as it is for men to jerk off to porn. It's just an excuse for men to be selfish and do whatever they want. And besides, romance novels are NOT like porn. I have never heard of a woman masturbating to a novel, and even then, there are no images of real people in it.
popscotched 1 year ago
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redfury82 1 year ago
@popscotched I agree about the novels. I never heard of jerking off to a harlequin novel. I can read one while the kids watch cartoons in the same room. you can't say the same about porn magazines or movies. and most novels don't get anymore graphic than hbo. we read them for the romance not the few paragraphs of lovemaking. porn is nonstop f@cking and things intended to jerk off too. novels are to fantisize about men who realize you are important to them.
redfury82 1 year ago
because the men around us are too focused on pleasing themselves with things like porn than to stop and think about what it is that thier woman needs.
redfury82 1 year ago 10
redfury82> Yeah, it's fucked up. Watching porn isn't natural. If there weren't electronics, men would have to cheat. Porn is just a substitute for cheating.
popscotched 1 year ago 2
its only a problem if he prefers porn to sex with his girlfriend or doesn't have time to hang out due to porn
zxcvbnmjhgfdsa1 1 year ago
I agree that if you can't do it in front of your partner then its cheating. Good Point.
gabriellefreedom2001 1 year ago
I think if a woman is really upset with it, it is more a lack of self confidence than anything.
snakesgunsandbikes 1 year ago
Once upon a time before the internet or even photography- If a man wanted to orgasm while looking at a naked lady who wasn't his wife he would have to have an affair. Just because the technology is available doesn't make it right. If my man is the only one who gets to see my naked body- why should he beable to look at others? I think porn cheapens a relationship.
manicmedic86 2 years ago 2
I'm sorry but you are wrong. Men are dna wired to want to be with multiple women. Either let you man watch or he'll end up cheating. Plus, ask yourself, am I doing all the things he likes and wants. If not, pony up or shut up.
snakesgunsandbikes 1 year ago
I have to disagree. I am happy just being with my girlfriend. I have no interest in looking at porn or being with anyone else. Girls, there are guys out there who don't watch porn. Whether or not it's "cheating", I don't know, but if it hurts you, it's not right.
popscotched 1 year ago
If you are really happy just with your girl you have self esteem issues that make you happy someone even talks to you. Or you are full of crap and are just saying what you think women want to hear and that makes you weak.
snakesgunsandbikes 1 year ago
Whoa. That's pretty judgmental. In my opinion, the fact that I can find satisfaction in one woman makes me that much more of a real man. Real men have self-control. You're the one more likely to have self-esteem problems if you need to be jerking off to everything.
popscotched 1 year ago 2
Quit playing with the men little boy and go back to your mommy's house.
snakesgunsandbikes 1 year ago
LOL. Why do you have so much grudge against someone being loyal? Because you're unable to do it yourself. Or you're a pathetic loser no one would want anyway.
popscotched 1 year ago
You seemed to have missed the whole point of the vid. Watching porn is not cheating so one is not being disloyal by enjoying it.
snakesgunsandbikes 1 year ago
@manicmedic86 what about naked girl paintings
zxcvbnmjhgfdsa1 1 year ago
thank you
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gnubug 2 years ago
I think to watch porno with who you love ,it's disgusting! No respect! Why man ,if he loves his wife so much,he feel needs to watch porno and stering to another woman's body! Instead his wife's body! If you both happy,you dont need porno to make your life better! And i think this is only way to look to another women,without feeling guilty!but any way is not nice to be next to your wife and have fantasy,with the woman from porno.
villy15 2 years ago 3
And this is the exact insecurity that other guy mentioned in the next video. Especially if ur watching it together can't the woman also be attracted to the man in the video? Its called a fantasy..so whats your problem? Does anyone raise red flags when females read erotica and romance novels and movies and they fantasize about the male in it? If ur a very sexual person porno can very much be something that either the male or the couple want to watch. You like others are really overanalyzing this
Smooth258 2 years ago
Everyone is different, and if both people can live in harmony with this kind of thing around then it shouldn't be a problem. But I also think that some people just do not like the concept and they are all also allowed to feel that way.
VioletMoonFire 2 years ago
Many people consider it almost like cheating, because sexual thoughts are all in the mind. If we start thinking of something that turns us on then it (normally) starts some kind of reaction in are bodies, hormones. So regardless of whether there is another person right in the room with you or on the computer you are still being sexual with someone else in a way. This is why it would upset women or a man, because then they feel like they are not "the one".
VioletMoonFire 2 years ago
violetmoonfire> i agree. i'm a guy and i still think it's wrong to do it if your partner doesn't like it. you should be able to just think of things while having sex with your partner. why do you need to jerk off alone in front of a screen? to me, this indicates problems.
popscotched 1 year ago
im having a problem me and my girl have been getting into little arguments about porn and she tells me it hurts her feelings but me bein the guy i am still watches it anyway. im ashamed and disgusted by this she already has low self esteem and i just make it worse i always try to make her think she is the most beautiful girl ever but i cant quit my stupid horny guy insticts keep taking over someone please help. i want to stop!
Matchmakeer 2 years ago
Well I don't know about anyone else, but when i have those kind of feelings I only ever think of my love. I mean it's natural to have urges, but couldn't you two just do it or something?
VioletMoonFire 2 years ago
This is just an excuse for women who can't accept they are just not hot enough for the man.
royalsteven 2 years ago 4
I wouldn't like my husband to watch porn because no one can compare to porn stars and I fell that if he looks at those girls and looks at plain me he would womit. I'm not fat or ugly, actually I'm a belly dancer and people pay money to look at me, but still, my boobs are never going to be that big, nor will my butt ever be so perfect as it is on porn stars. However, I'm quite comfortable with watching hentai cartoons, they are sexy, but since there are no real people I don't feel jelous.
sejinska 2 years ago
solution...
take your mans eyes out surgically!
Are you so self loathing, your husband is a normal man.
So hes not allowed to watch sports because of cheeleaders, so he cant go the hospital because of pretty nurses...etc
rok30 2 years ago
Sejinska..aren't the penises in those pornos also WAYYY bigger than a male's penis in the real world?? Yet males still watch porn right? Why? Because they don't view it in such an insecure manner as some females do. Men may worry about their penis size sometimes but when they're watching porn it's simply about visual pleasure, fantasy, and sexuality..something both males and females have..even though females choose to hold a male's fantasy against him
Smooth258 2 years ago
women fantasize about other men just the same when guys fantasize about other women. i don't see why it wouldn't be okay to do so. Its jus sad that majority of the women population usually don't like to admit to these kinds of things unless its with their close gfs.
blondelee 2 years ago
Exactly. Romantic movies and novels are women's porn. They're fantasies for women like porn is a fantasy for men. Any woman who doesn't like her husband watching porn is too insecure with herself and is afraid it means her husband isn't attracted to her. That may be true, if you're a bitch and fat and ugly. But most of the time, most women have nothing to worry about. Him watching porn doesn't mean he loves or cares about you any less. It's just a fantasy, just like romantic movies/books.
redbullgreygoose 2 years ago
Personally I think that using porn as a masturbatory aid when you're in a relationship (that includes sex and you get it on a regular basis) is sad. If your partner is sexual with you why would you need porn unless you were not satisfied and would rather have the women in the pornography as opposed to your significant other. Personally if my boyfriend was into porn I wouldn be a little offended seeing as he's always free to be sexual with me whenever he needs to be. End of story.
mDarkPoet 2 years ago
@ mDarkPoet
I completely aggree with you! Me and my boyfriend have been having this problem and with just sex alone it's usually about 10 times in one week, never mind hand/blow jobs. It's just disgusting, degrading and makes you feel completely inadequate.
outforbl00d 2 years ago
No. Fantasizing about other people ISN'T healthy. Sorry.
eljagg01 2 years ago
I have Never read a romance novel in my life and how is that Anything like porn, seriously?! Watch it with him? Why would I want to look at naked women? Hello, it's called a relationship and committment.. if he wants to cum, come to ME! It is cheating in my book, because guys WANT to have sex with those women, but they CANT, so they are stuck with us. This is terrible advice.. If you are 100% satisfied with your partner, you dont need anything else. I feel sorry for anyone who doesnt agree.
usedtobe803 2 years ago 2
@usedtobe803
I agree, I think it's cheating too. Having to use other girls to get your pleasure when there's a willing girfriend right there waiting. I can't see how it couldn't be classed as cheating.
outforbl00d 2 years ago
what the hell are they drinking, antifreeze?
basilisk555 2 years ago
All guys watch porn and thats just a fact.
Its healthy for guys to do that.
lostmodz26 2 years ago
its healthy for guys to ejaculate, not fantasize about other women.
usedtobe803 2 years ago
sex AND love....two DIFFERENT things...Porn=sex; Love=partner. We ARE saturated with porn ALL over the place. How can you NOT watch porn? It's in different shapes ALL OVER the place. Our society at large wil not fuction with blinders on at every turn...magazine ads, internet ads, billboard ads on the road...it's ALL geared toward the SEX of porn....ARGH-H-H-H....
clandestine29 2 years ago 4
i dont care that men are ''visual creatures'' its not fair, i think its just an EXCUSE guys use....
emilygabriellecruz 2 years ago 2
there arent excuses to watch porn when your in a relationship
humblenerd147 2 years ago 15
@humblenerd147
I agree!
Nanceify 1 year ago
@humblenerd147 same goes for erotic reading and cheating right\
J0ker4u 1 year ago
@humblenerd147 especially after 2 bouts of sex before bed...weak man, so weak
killerkitty777 8 months ago
I love this video, I think it will explain so much to my gf, and maybe get her to watch too.
pyroinc 2 years ago
fuck no it's not the same. watching porn is what you do to keep FROM cheating (especially when you're not getting any at home... duh)
djtrixen 2 years ago
i dont think its wrong to watch porn but whne you have a girlfriend your sleeping wiht liek everynight whats the point to have porn? also when they already get off watching porn then they dont feel to have sex sometimes. thats BS! soooo yah its bs, id perfer him not to and its cool. im not jealous its just sucks when i want what i cant have
smmy4urinfo 2 years ago
Romance novels? Im female an I watch porn. Not into romance at all.
I hate the way society has all become about how to please men. "Why doesnt he love me? How to please a man 101 ways. How to look sexy for him!"
And this myth that women just want romance. LOL
Its easy to make a man cum. In out- in out- finish!
Its time that men learn how to please WOMEN! Ladies if your man is watchin porn and it bothers you, get a pic of your ex and mastrubate to it, and see if he likes that :-) The end!
asopaso07 2 years ago 4
fuck off
me1k2 2 years ago
Is that your argument?
No im not going to fuck off lol
Silly billy.
asopaso07 2 years ago
lol i agree with you. you guys know whats funny? that this link to watch this vid actually appeared because we were all watching porn!! haha. exept me of course couse the individual never does it. wait why am i writing this in a reply to you this should be on a normal comment. ah oh well. but anyways.. you go girl!!
calenorumbero 2 years ago
LOOOL
Exactly!
asopaso07 2 years ago
My girlfriend has yet to make me cum, and we've been going out over 2 years. It's because she's bad in bed and refuses to watch porn / take advice / gets tired after 10 minutes. NOW WHAT.
aika092 2 years ago
Yours is a special case. THATS whats up.
Everyone knows that a woman's anatomy is far more complicated than a mans.
Most men cnt even stay hard for more than 2mins.
I think men need to learn more about women. GENERALLY speaking. You may know how to please a lady, I know a few me that do, but most do not! Or maybe they are just plain selfish? Or MAYBE they think we just want "Romance" haha
So sad...
asopaso07 2 years ago
Addictions are harmful. When a person becomes addicted to something, like pornography, they usually enjoy their addiction at the EXPENSE of their relationship(s). It is when a person's life begins to revolve around porn that it becomes a problem. It's not the porn that causes the issue, but the addictive nature of the person in question.
My husband and I enjoy pornography, sometimes alone, sometimes together. I find that in our relationship it helps "spice" things up. To each their own. R-chan
JonusDking 2 years ago 4
Wow. Seriously? Romance novels are women's porn? Riiggghhtt... I'm sorry, but I do not know any female who reads romance novels. Sorry. That's lame.
seifzf 2 years ago
teens and twilight. there u go.
More4MeLess4U 2 years ago 7
Have you ever looked into a one of those books with fabio on the cover? Yeah, its girl porn.
callowaymotorcompany 2 years ago
You evidently don't know any women.
I suggest leaving the basement sometime.
aika092 2 years ago
hahahahaha!!!! good one!!!
calenorumbero 2 years ago
by the way anyone, tell me, is fantasizing about an ex girlfriend considered cheating?
reminiscence78 2 years ago
probably so
barbidollz 2 years ago
watching porn may not be cheating, but only watching porn and not having lust to have sex with the woman, it says a lot... does he really loves me or am I only a friend who sleeps on the same bed with him?
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catfight0 2 years ago
My Ex husband would draw nude women and didn't want sex with me (we were married at the time) and he was a liar big time.... I think that's cheating
KTRoseAmongThorns 2 years ago
lol this is fuuny........
and yes watching porn with ur dude is awesome!!!!!!! lol maybe cuz i like them porn bitches too ;)
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Colm232de 3 years ago
"men are visual creatures"
SO are women.
laurenbay 3 years ago
everybody with eyes and all the parts needed to be visual are visual creatures
BartenderMix 2 years ago
hey
978289 3 years ago
its only cheating if its a porno your in with a xgirlfriend lol...
mpboss 3 years ago 8
funny
BRIANLIGHT1010 3 years ago
If hes watching porn then he obviously needs more love from his girlfriend not all the time, but sometimes its the girl's fault because porn is just the alternitive
620104t 3 years ago
I have a sneaking suspicion these two started this whole thing to strengthen their own relationship, lol.
starswitch 3 years ago 7
Hehe, well good on them.
flowerfangirl 3 years ago
Omggg hes a fucking guy what do you except, and dont tell me you dont watch porn either duuuuuh
Valou2269 3 years ago 8
@Valou2269 I am so sick of that excuse
shawnscinderelli 1 year ago
Here's what I'll say about the matter. Neither the computer nor my hand has ever told me that they have a headache.
ncsbear 3 years ago 3
wtf? how can she get over her jealousy? WHY IS HE WATCHING PORN IN THE FIRST PLACE??? hes obviously wanting action and for some reason hes not getting it. and she gets jealous? WTF??? go fuck your boyfriend! it will stop him from wanting porn!!!!
fuck!!!
Ratbiker 3 years ago 10
@Ratbiker not true lol, I'm always like ALWAYS offering it if he wants to get off, and he still watches porn.
alisonalison2007 1 year ago
@alisonalison2007 no offence, but youre probably not doing a good enough job keeping him satisfied.
infme 1 year ago
@infme Thought the same thing at first but i doubt its the case. lol
alisonalison2007 1 year ago
@Ratbiker If he is not getting any sexual pleasure in the relationship then he needs to be grown and talk to her about it rather than resorting to something he knows will hurt her and if she and him want different things then they don't need to be together.
shawnscinderelli 1 year ago 2
@shawnscinderelli I completely agree.
ladylunafication 1 year ago
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I dont care what you two say..it is still considered cheating because your fantasizing about another woman. Making it feel like the girlfriend cant turn him on..ITS CHEATING!
nemrhoare 3 years ago
Cheating is having a relationship with another person. No second relationship = not cheating.
And who says he/she is fantasizing about that other man/woman? You aren't in his/her head, so you don't know. Maybe he/she is picturing his/her spouse there and fantasizing about that person while viewing the porn. Not cheating in any case.
muerteverde 3 years ago 3
My girlfriend watches hentai for some reason that arrouses her whereas real porn is more of a turn off for her, I don't understand it.
SolarTopaz 3 years ago 3
Some people watch it to turn them on, some people watch it to learn the position. Some people watch it for masterbat. Is watching Porno is Cheating? depend on how you watch.
shortlife4love 3 years ago
Watching porn is cheating if you have to hide it from your spouse/partner.
Bobzeaux 3 years ago 4
Not if he/she KNOWS you are hiding it, then it is ok. :)
muerteverde 3 years ago
my friend had sex for the first time when he was 12...now the whole school is talking about it
lilgangstajamez 3 years ago
lol
fozyboots 3 years ago
oh dear...
jempin515 3 years ago
I had sex with a porn star. =)
No lie.
CrimsonX 3 years ago
haha pro
deamacks 3 years ago
its not at all cheating theres just sometimes when women just CANNOT give us what we want. if you want something done right do it yourself
twiztidzildjian 3 years ago
what a LOAD of shit.. have fun in hell
mchel602 3 years ago
yu, devils gonna have some deprived sexual fun with these two.
cardboardlegend 3 years ago
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I watch porn and cheat on my girlfriend.
But she doesn't know that.
hehehe
robspierre6 3 years ago
well arent u a keeper
ItachizStory 3 years ago 3
My bf watches porn, he tells me about it and I don't think he's cheating, but part of me still thinks "omg why is he watching porn if he has me :'(" but I know he loves me and I get over it.
that's just the way men are built, they're like animals :D hehe no offence
Tauchp 3 years ago 2
There's nothing wrong with watching porn as long as your partner receives some of the benefits of that activity. I am happy for my other half to watch porn if it increases his sex drive, makes him feel relaxed and makes him better company for me. I think this should apply to women as well. You can only change your own behaviour, find some porn that works for you and then you will see the appeal.
fluorescent42 3 years ago
The vast majority of guys look at porn (I'd guess around 99.9%). If you don't approve of guys watching porn then you are clearly a woman and don't understand your man's sex drive. Guys are going to look at porn whether or not you like it so your best bet is to not make a big deal about it.
Let me put it this way, you can accept that your man is going to look at porn, or you can be single for the rest of your life.
skkid12345 3 years ago
it is not the same as cheating.
Men watch porn just to see attractive people doing stuff. we dont care about their names, whre they live, or anything about them. it serves a need--like drinking a soda when you are thirsty.
Women, generally, are more into the emotional aspect of sexuality. Sex is a connection you make with someone and it is about love. though this gender role is changing somewhat.
So basically it is not cheating for a guy because there isnt any emotional attachment.
falcons12345 3 years ago 2
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Nah
I think porn is cheating
novels: words
porn: PEOPLE
difference
Insomniavampire 3 years ago
Novel:words and thought printed by PEOPLE!
orgasmtron 3 years ago 7
All guys watch porn. Either they admit it or they lie lol. Really I think porn keeps guys from cheating. Men were not cut out to have one partner and one only. Nature tells us to go breed with as many as we can. Porn lets a man have his fantasy without actually going out and cheating on his partner.
You should be happy hes watching porn, if he stops he may be getting his fantasies taken care of someplace else. Now if he prefers porn over you thats a different story, hes got a problem then.
joeysixtysix 3 years ago 11
what about if you run up a 600 dollar phone bill with 1800 numbers..... is that cheating....lmao
sharkbait1982 3 years ago
I think that what you say isn't quite true.
If guys truely love their other half and she isn't happy with them watching porn, then the guy should stop. Its called will power. If a guy can't stop watching videos for their loved ones, then what will they be willing to do. So i'm sorry but if guys are too weak to stop then they are not worth it.
As a guy my gf says NO so for years its been NO. The respect and love i get from my gf MORE than makes up for cheap fantasies.
Its all about love!
dimitrios8 3 years ago
@dimitrios8
...actually, that just makes you her bitch..
sorry guy, but looks like your balls are sitting in a glass jar in your girl friend's bedroom.
Tiki362 3 years ago
@Tiki362
That's quite a sexist comment to make. Is that suggesting that the man should be in control over the woman? I completely agree with dimitrios8 and that the guys should take into account how it makes the girl feel rather than them just continuing to be selfish animalistic pigs.
outforbl00d 2 years ago 3
no, im implying that neither should control, if its a healthy relationship then the girl wouldnt be so insecure to ask the guy to stop watching porn, it doesnt make you animalistic to watch porn, actually you know what it does, and guess what, you are a fucking animal, its human to have sexual urges, its your fault for dating an insecure, and probably controlling bitch, and anyways i stand by my comment.
enjoy your lack of balls. i hope the weak sex is worth losing your self-respect.
Tiki362 2 years ago
No it's about actually caring for how the girl feels and having a bit of consideration. If the girl was doing something that was hurting the guys feelings would you expect her to stop or just carry on regardless of the guys feelings?
Porn is disgusting, and guys saying "It's just a guy thing" is just an excuse to make it seem more acceptable.
outforbl00d 2 years ago 2
old men getting erections is disgusting, but they still have a pill for that.
sorry society and everyone else doesn't cater to your personality.
honestly, stop bitching. I'll watch my porn, you go be an annoying feminist. and together, still no one gives a fuck. that's life
Tiki362 2 years ago
When females gush over..example like the recent phenomenon...the guys in Twilight and fantasize over them..do you see a whole bunch of males crying and complaining about how they care too much about them? The very fact that you see porn as "disgusting" displays you're closeminded ideology...getting insecure over a fantasy. If a female is insecure about that she's probably insecure about other things..and no one..male or female...wants someone that's insecure. Period
Smooth258 2 years ago
Im a girl, and most of the girls who obsess over twilight are alone. Because twilight boys are fake, and people who haven't experienced relationships wouldn't know that. I'm sure there are some in relationships who dream over them, lets just say they are retards. lol.
VioletMoonFire 2 years ago
It's closed minded not to accept something is it? So should everyone accept everything in the world with no sense of what is wrong? What if a woman wants to be that guys fantasy and him hers? Although this sounds idealistic, you are right about one thing no one should settle for less. So if you feel this is what you need to be happy in life g ahead but I have faith in man or women that if they do not like something, it makes them unhappy in some way they should stand up for their feelings too.
VioletMoonFire 2 years ago
And maybe the girls should stop being so insecure instead of raising a fit over a Fantasy...
Smooth258 2 years ago
If a man can't find his desires in his partner why is he even with her?
VioletMoonFire 2 years ago
ok i have a question and can u please so a show about it what if u love a girl but shes like a friend to u but she likes another boy what do u do cause i feel like shes the answer to my heart
hbkrocks599 3 years ago
This is very random, but you remind me so much of Phoebe from Friends! :)
And what is that blue drink you two are drinking?
dr3amgodd3ss 3 years ago
I thought the same thing too: she does look like Phoebe
mikelinbasher 3 years ago
Ha ha "Girl Porn"!
greengirl143 3 years ago 2
No no that is not the solution. The girlfriend needs to start looking more pornish. Get some makeup and style tips from the porn star world. haha
Littlerosies 3 years ago
oh wow
b00nd0ck987 3 years ago
that would be true lol
Bengford 3 years ago
Why don't straight people watch gay porn. That's my question.
Littlerosies 3 years ago
because they like woman?
isnt it obvious.
johnw111468 3 years ago
Ha..maybe its because most straight people hate on gays. I dont because im nice hah XD.
darknesslife 3 years ago
You guys are good keep it up i might ask you guys a question.
armzone101 3 years ago
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DanAndJenn 3 years ago
it is sooo normal. And... a lot of women like porn too!
gossamerwindweb 3 years ago
And many of the women who "hate" porn still love those steamy romance novels, or what we like to call "girl porn"! LOL
DanAndJenn 3 years ago
yes true
irvinhidalgo 3 years ago
nothin wrong at all.
Miko7778 3 years ago
sorry fire accidently marked ur reply as spam ment to reply but not all people pay for addictions theres always ree porn on the internet.
naraku123451 3 years ago
lol bad boy
xxonemanarmyxx67 3 years ago 3
Well for me I have to say watching porn is a good thing. When I watch porn I learn stuff that would please my girlfriend and most of the stuff works. Just because guys watch porn doesn't mean they don't love the girl it's just really something too do. Then some learn stuff from that. So I think it's a good thing to do not bad.
naraku123451 3 years ago
This is a great point. It can become a problem, however, when people (men or women) can ONLY get off from porn, and not from actual sex with your partner. Or if one is spending all of one's money on porn (or any addiction) then it is also a problem. But normal recreational porn usage is good. :)
firegirlemtcop 3 years ago
i like ur vids keep up
emoboy1819 3 years ago 3
well if you tell him it bothers you and he still does it than theres somthing wrong
murbones 3 years ago 5