@hellerase you can go to my website and there is a community forum there where many questions are answered or you can ask as well. fastereft*com Robert
I have been using your videos for almost one week now. It is truly amazing! May God bless and use you as an instrument. I have severe Fibromyalgia syndrome and am working on letting the PTSD go to heal from it. I have been praying for 6 years for relief of pain meds., doctors, hospitals, depression, ect...I have a better outlook in just 6 days. You are a blessing and an inspiration to all who suffer from these programs ingrained in us. I can't thank you enough and Christ for answering my prayer.
I am so amazed over how tapping heals !!! i have been watching maybe 100 videos from you Robert !! And it helps !!! It had been a nice dream to have you to come to Norway !! Jon Harald, Norway..
Robert, I was tapping for a pain in my side. I had a picture of a house pop into my head. So I said "I release and let go this image whatever it means." I continued tapping and I got picture after picture of random stuff. Cartoons, artwork, chain link fences, tv images, Hostess Twinkies, ect. I am not trying to be a smarty pants this really happened. A bunch of random seemingly meaningless things. Is this a common sort of thing and what the heck might it mean, if anything?
Your subconscious mind operates in metaphors which is why dreams are so odd. So it has it's own inner communication style so when you are addressing whatever it gives you and releasing it will reap some kind of a reward. You mind usually ties emotional themes together and sometimes you do not realize they are tied together. There are many ways that the mind works so yes it is common. It is amazing what shows up. Good job for staying with it.
I am dealing with painful stuff right now. Been healing past trauma for 40 odd years & sort of thought I had it down Healing being huge part of my life. Six weeks ago a friend, a healer, threatened me then physically attacked me, pain & trauma that may be from way back started I find it hard to sleep, the "friend" lives across the road I have aged 10 yrs in I have great fear & am doing the best I can sending love to her, myself & the situation
@clareink: The most important thing is go within yourself and make peace with the memories you have within you. You may be sending them peace but if within you have the terror you not doing much good for you. Clean out your temple and then your peace will be everywhere and much wiser too. peace Robert
hey rob i need your advice when i was in california for summer vacation one my of family members took advantage of me and my parents she attempted to manipulate me to make me feel bad and i dont know if i should feel anger or hatred about it this has been going on for the past 15 years
I suggestted on your other post. Feel the emotions, actions, expressions, fears, angers, hatreds, and harm caused. You tap until you feel at peace with it all and make peace with everyone involved.
I have pain I can't shift. My husband walked out in 2007 saying I was too fat and ugly for him. I spent 8 long painful years with him failing in every way to make him happy. If it was me then it was automatically wrong. The kids suffered and I did. We divorced yet he seemed to continue to need me and I him. We still phone each other every day. He has found no one nor I. I think he may be aspergers? Narcissistic? I can't live with him or without him. It is agony every day of my life.
Start working on yourself. Your hurts, memories, pains, fears and everything else. Make a better you by investing in yourself and start loving you where you are and things will improve. peace robert
I've really enjoyed watching your videos. I have often read info on EFT but have not consistently applied the techniques. Part of that is related to wanting to tap "perfectly" to fully address the issue the first time. I recognize now that it's a journey and not to "beat" myself up if the progress is slower than expected. Like many others here, I appreciate what you've done to help others. Thanks and I'll keep you posted on my progress.
I had a similar father but he's different person now. I had to say goodbye to that father, that was hard. I replaced all the bad memories for the memory of the day when he took me fishing as a small boy. I know he loved me really. We have a good relationship now but I had to change too! Funny thing is, since I let go, many other good memories pop up out of the blue which I had forgotten about. When they do I smile and hold onto them.
Daft question, does anyone else have fathers that are kind of like this?
Sortof like angry bastards who never do anything, but you can never tell when their going to flip... So your sortof secretly shitting yourself around them all the time...?
I'm 34 and I'm just now discovering that my father is a full blown narcissist with type one bi-polar disorder. Parents can really do a number on you if you landed the wrong ones. The good news is that we all have the ability to cure ourselves of the poison that they put into our hearts.
hey rob can i ask a question thats been bugging me lately it has 2 do with my subconcious it keeps sending me weird dreams when i sleep and i dont know if its real or fantasy
The subconcious is always wanting you to heal. It helps with dreams too so it doesn't really matters if it is real or not but what you would do is tap on each and every part of the dream until it is changed into a peaceful experience. Remember whatever it is, it really isn't really real now but made up and wanting to help heal you. Tap, tap, tap Peace Robert
Thank you for video, it helps. But I wonder what to do when someone has so many bad experiences in ones past so it becomes overwelming with pain. I'm afraid I will heart myself. Should I do this?
I suggest start tapping on the idea of going back until its not an issue. Then start with on memory and make peace with yourself along with everyone involved. Move to the next one. The greatest gift you can give to yourself is making peace with you on the inside and then that will be a gift to those in your world. Peace Robert
Just want to tell you that it really is working..
Thank u very very much...
I'm taking one memory at the time and I know it will take a lot of time but the time will go anyway so it is better to try something during... Thank u again for your generrousity..
Have you ever tapped on yourself for almost the entire day? Like, started working on 1 issue and then, all of a sudden, have gotten hold of like a chain and went from one thing to another and another and so forth? E.g., when one has got a whole day free, then that seems to be a very good thing to do: so in one day one can shift from a very negative person to a lot more positive one.
Just wondering, what physical effects it may have on you. Any harmful ones I should be aware of?
There is a nice thing about this tapping & this is it....No harmful negative physical side affects because it is a releasing system. There may be physical shifts such as yawns, shivers, burps, maybe farts, & sometimes a headaches but you just tap it away too. Don't use hammer, or brass knuckles that may be harmful. The only thing that will harm you is what you keep within you, bad memories and bad attitudes. Tapping will revile & release as well as transform your inner & outer world. Peace
This tapping will help shift your relationships into much healthier for you & they may need to adjust. You will operate with the world in a more powerful and effective way. As you do all this in one all day session you will reap many rewards. You can watch what happened this this lady in video 138. Her life changed.
I can't tell you how much I relate to this guy. The fear and intimidation I feel with my own religious father and how it has affected my life. Like whenever he is around it always felt like walking on egg shells. I will tap it all away and heal myself, as well as forgive my dad. I think it might take a couple of tries, but I already feel it working. Thank you SO much for putting this video up.
I was curious whether you assume that the change work is ecological insofar as the personal/professional relationships the person has that may be affected by the changes made. Others in our lives may try very hard to keep us the same, especially if the changes we make violate some unspoken rule of silence, perhaps regarding a family member who is an alcoholic or committing incest- then there might be someone whom we love who may be so unsettled by our changing that they reject us...
There are two models of the world one they are in control of us and we give in & the other we are responding to the world and we have choices. Yes, these changes do affect those around us & they may or may not like the improvements but is it GOOD to heal yourself & they will adjust accordingly. The good changes may cause slight disturbance but the improvements is what you want because the world will improve because of your improvement. Changes always happen so make them good. Peace Robert
4) I find it useful to think Inside the frame, and Outside the frame as well, to be aware of the possitive aspects and the limitations, and to find something which helps and fits the individual's existence.
3) But there are advantages to these techniques, as well as I see it, limitations; I suppose I am thinking, "Use them as long as they are useful; but if not do something else." Run man! RUNNNNNNNNN!!!
2) I know and have seen people take this approach to the extremes of the possibility of being tortured and live with that possibility presently and calmly. But I personally feel even with this view their are also limitations; and it is possible to move into other healthy ways of being to deal with such a thing as someone taking your own life - like getting angry and/or getting out of their would seem to me more self-preserving and more appropriate.
I can see how these techniques can be very helpful, and how we internalise our experiences - and Robert says we are even the other person - which I imagine gives the individual power then to re-determine or re-imprint experiences on both sides of the dialectic of human existence experientially...but I wonder how this would work in a situation where say, Jesus was being crucified?
Wonderful job, but a question I have is . What if there are several.....beyond several memories that are still hurting you today and cause you to hate the person you are?
It's amazing the way I could feel Sam, the boy receiving healing. I could feel how he enjoyed finishing it every time with the word "PEACE" and I felt like wanting to say it in the exact same moment without Robert instructing him to say it.
Damn, I never felt so emotionally connected with a person's feelings like this before. As if I was sitting there and experiencing it all myself...
I have a two part question for Robert: What if you are troubled but do not remember anything at all about your child hood? The very few memories I have I feel completely neutral about. I guess I have repressed everything. Also, you mentioned something about students needing someone to tap on. How would I do that?
I agree ggmoda. I cannot tell you how much my life has changed since taking advantage of the private sessions Robert offers. Any positive changes you experience while watching the videos is multiplied 1,000 times with a phone or in person session. Thank you for giving Robert!
Thank you Robert Smith, THANK YOU!!!!!!!
gossiplieschen 7 months ago
Nice Energy on this Channel.
tappingforhealth2011 11 months ago
What if you have no memory of the physical conduct but you still remember situations that were psychological attacks if I can say.
hellerase 1 year ago
@hellerase you can go to my website and there is a community forum there where many questions are answered or you can ask as well. fastereft*com Robert
HealingMagic 1 year ago
that was just off the scale amazing
subbtopp 1 year ago
Bless his heart.
MamaTrina 1 year ago
I have finally trying to talk about trauma from my past after hiding it for so long. It is so hard.
TashaRichardsonFan 1 year ago
I keept that in me 30 years... until today !!!!
Mr11JS 1 year ago
I have been using your videos for almost one week now. It is truly amazing! May God bless and use you as an instrument. I have severe Fibromyalgia syndrome and am working on letting the PTSD go to heal from it. I have been praying for 6 years for relief of pain meds., doctors, hospitals, depression, ect...I have a better outlook in just 6 days. You are a blessing and an inspiration to all who suffer from these programs ingrained in us. I can't thank you enough and Christ for answering my prayer.
suzansullivan 1 year ago 4
I am so amazed over how tapping heals !!! i have been watching maybe 100 videos from you Robert !! And it helps !!! It had been a nice dream to have you to come to Norway !! Jon Harald, Norway..
davides691 1 year ago
@davides691 TVNorge in Norway is working on a show with these techniques. It is with therapist Mats Uldal and will be on in February, 2011.
daberners 1 year ago
How do you heal when your perp is still out there, and is still a threat to you?
meyersonfire 1 year ago
What do you do about a child hood that was traumatizing in many aspects but only general memories not specific.
wddenis3 1 year ago
@wddenis3
Starting with what and how you know you have. Looking at different people had affected you or places you had felt it.
HealingMagic 1 year ago
@wddenis3 address every single issue one by one... <3
TheSage1111 1 year ago
Robert, I was tapping for a pain in my side. I had a picture of a house pop into my head. So I said "I release and let go this image whatever it means." I continued tapping and I got picture after picture of random stuff. Cartoons, artwork, chain link fences, tv images, Hostess Twinkies, ect. I am not trying to be a smarty pants this really happened. A bunch of random seemingly meaningless things. Is this a common sort of thing and what the heck might it mean, if anything?
wetlazer 1 year ago
@wetlazer
Your subconscious mind operates in metaphors which is why dreams are so odd. So it has it's own inner communication style so when you are addressing whatever it gives you and releasing it will reap some kind of a reward. You mind usually ties emotional themes together and sometimes you do not realize they are tied together. There are many ways that the mind works so yes it is common. It is amazing what shows up. Good job for staying with it.
HealingMagic 1 year ago
so great, amazing, i just wonder if the feeling can return later
startvideonow 1 year ago
If it does it will never be the same or completely changed but if it is slightly there then tap again. Robert
HealingMagic 1 year ago
I am dealing with painful stuff right now. Been healing past trauma for 40 odd years & sort of thought I had it down Healing being huge part of my life. Six weeks ago a friend, a healer, threatened me then physically attacked me, pain & trauma that may be from way back started I find it hard to sleep, the "friend" lives across the road I have aged 10 yrs in I have great fear & am doing the best I can sending love to her, myself & the situation
clareink 2 years ago
@clareink: The most important thing is go within yourself and make peace with the memories you have within you. You may be sending them peace but if within you have the terror you not doing much good for you. Clean out your temple and then your peace will be everywhere and much wiser too. peace Robert
HealingMagic 2 years ago
hey rob i need your advice when i was in california for summer vacation one my of family members took advantage of me and my parents she attempted to manipulate me to make me feel bad and i dont know if i should feel anger or hatred about it this has been going on for the past 15 years
Andylong99 2 years ago
I suggestted on your other post. Feel the emotions, actions, expressions, fears, angers, hatreds, and harm caused. You tap until you feel at peace with it all and make peace with everyone involved.
HealingMagic 2 years ago
Hi - I´m from Germany, I just watched a few of your videos - I wished you would have a seminar in Germany one day...I would be there...
CaroWiggins 2 years ago
Maybe someday!
HealingMagic 2 years ago
I have pain I can't shift. My husband walked out in 2007 saying I was too fat and ugly for him. I spent 8 long painful years with him failing in every way to make him happy. If it was me then it was automatically wrong. The kids suffered and I did. We divorced yet he seemed to continue to need me and I him. We still phone each other every day. He has found no one nor I. I think he may be aspergers? Narcissistic? I can't live with him or without him. It is agony every day of my life.
Samua3 2 years ago
Start working on yourself. Your hurts, memories, pains, fears and everything else. Make a better you by investing in yourself and start loving you where you are and things will improve. peace robert
HealingMagic 2 years ago
Robert,
I've really enjoyed watching your videos. I have often read info on EFT but have not consistently applied the techniques. Part of that is related to wanting to tap "perfectly" to fully address the issue the first time. I recognize now that it's a journey and not to "beat" myself up if the progress is slower than expected. Like many others here, I appreciate what you've done to help others. Thanks and I'll keep you posted on my progress.
mdcountrygirl
mdcountrygirl 2 years ago
Being nice to oneself is healthy!! So keep doing it until you die.
HealingMagic 2 years ago
my dads chill
Negotion 2 years ago
cool
HealingMagic 2 years ago
I had a similar father but he's different person now. I had to say goodbye to that father, that was hard. I replaced all the bad memories for the memory of the day when he took me fishing as a small boy. I know he loved me really. We have a good relationship now but I had to change too! Funny thing is, since I let go, many other good memories pop up out of the blue which I had forgotten about. When they do I smile and hold onto them.
chickenliam 2 years ago 11
Very good and I am so proud of you. The mind will allow things to appear as we release the pain. two thumbs up!! Peace Robert
HealingMagic 2 years ago
Daft question, does anyone else have fathers that are kind of like this?
Sortof like angry bastards who never do anything, but you can never tell when their going to flip... So your sortof secretly shitting yourself around them all the time...?
CuteBadger 2 years ago
Sure many people do have.
HealingMagic 2 years ago
I'm 34 and I'm just now discovering that my father is a full blown narcissist with type one bi-polar disorder. Parents can really do a number on you if you landed the wrong ones. The good news is that we all have the ability to cure ourselves of the poison that they put into our hearts.
velveetaslingshot 2 years ago 2
hey rob can i ask a question thats been bugging me lately it has 2 do with my subconcious it keeps sending me weird dreams when i sleep and i dont know if its real or fantasy
Andylong99 2 years ago
The subconcious is always wanting you to heal. It helps with dreams too so it doesn't really matters if it is real or not but what you would do is tap on each and every part of the dream until it is changed into a peaceful experience. Remember whatever it is, it really isn't really real now but made up and wanting to help heal you. Tap, tap, tap Peace Robert
HealingMagic 2 years ago
So basically your going through the traumatic incident and tapping on every negative emotion you had during each part of it. I think I'll try this.
GsBBoyDan 2 years ago
Dear Mr Smith
Thank you for video, it helps. But I wonder what to do when someone has so many bad experiences in ones past so it becomes overwelming with pain. I'm afraid I will heart myself. Should I do this?
lilliemoore 2 years ago
I suggest start tapping on the idea of going back until its not an issue. Then start with on memory and make peace with yourself along with everyone involved. Move to the next one. The greatest gift you can give to yourself is making peace with you on the inside and then that will be a gift to those in your world. Peace Robert
HealingMagic 2 years ago
Hi again.
Just want to tell you that it really is working..
Thank u very very much...
I'm taking one memory at the time and I know it will take a lot of time but the time will go anyway so it is better to try something during... Thank u again for your generrousity..
lilliemoore 2 years ago
Dear Mr. Smith,
Have you ever tapped on yourself for almost the entire day? Like, started working on 1 issue and then, all of a sudden, have gotten hold of like a chain and went from one thing to another and another and so forth? E.g., when one has got a whole day free, then that seems to be a very good thing to do: so in one day one can shift from a very negative person to a lot more positive one.
Just wondering, what physical effects it may have on you. Any harmful ones I should be aware of?
Anraki 2 years ago
There is a nice thing about this tapping & this is it....No harmful negative physical side affects because it is a releasing system. There may be physical shifts such as yawns, shivers, burps, maybe farts, & sometimes a headaches but you just tap it away too. Don't use hammer, or brass knuckles that may be harmful. The only thing that will harm you is what you keep within you, bad memories and bad attitudes. Tapping will revile & release as well as transform your inner & outer world. Peace
HealingMagic 2 years ago
This tapping will help shift your relationships into much healthier for you & they may need to adjust. You will operate with the world in a more powerful and effective way. As you do all this in one all day session you will reap many rewards. You can watch what happened this this lady in video 138. Her life changed.
HealingMagic 2 years ago
great, Robert===MORE OF THESE PLEASE
HUGS FROM SPAIN
THANK YOU FOR ALL
MaviIglesias 2 years ago 2
this was a really good one.
ElectricMaze 2 years ago 2
I can't tell you how much I relate to this guy. The fear and intimidation I feel with my own religious father and how it has affected my life. Like whenever he is around it always felt like walking on egg shells. I will tap it all away and heal myself, as well as forgive my dad. I think it might take a couple of tries, but I already feel it working. Thank you SO much for putting this video up.
corkydawl84 2 years ago 4
Hi-
I was curious whether you assume that the change work is ecological insofar as the personal/professional relationships the person has that may be affected by the changes made. Others in our lives may try very hard to keep us the same, especially if the changes we make violate some unspoken rule of silence, perhaps regarding a family member who is an alcoholic or committing incest- then there might be someone whom we love who may be so unsettled by our changing that they reject us...
Banania212 2 years ago
There are two models of the world one they are in control of us and we give in & the other we are responding to the world and we have choices. Yes, these changes do affect those around us & they may or may not like the improvements but is it GOOD to heal yourself & they will adjust accordingly. The good changes may cause slight disturbance but the improvements is what you want because the world will improve because of your improvement. Changes always happen so make them good. Peace Robert
HealingMagic 2 years ago
You're good!
I'm impressed- this is not the typical b.s. I'm use to seeing. You cut right through the personal garbage, and get the job done.
Keep up the good work Robert!
Cerph 3 years ago
Thank you Robert. I very much appreciate your work and spirit. Best wishes, John
jondon7 3 years ago 2
4) I find it useful to think Inside the frame, and Outside the frame as well, to be aware of the possitive aspects and the limitations, and to find something which helps and fits the individual's existence.
jondon7 3 years ago
The expert as you are I do appreciate the two thumbs up!
HealingMagic 3 years ago
3) But there are advantages to these techniques, as well as I see it, limitations; I suppose I am thinking, "Use them as long as they are useful; but if not do something else." Run man! RUNNNNNNNNN!!!
jondon7 3 years ago
2) I know and have seen people take this approach to the extremes of the possibility of being tortured and live with that possibility presently and calmly. But I personally feel even with this view their are also limitations; and it is possible to move into other healthy ways of being to deal with such a thing as someone taking your own life - like getting angry and/or getting out of their would seem to me more self-preserving and more appropriate.
jondon7 3 years ago
I can see how these techniques can be very helpful, and how we internalise our experiences - and Robert says we are even the other person - which I imagine gives the individual power then to re-determine or re-imprint experiences on both sides of the dialectic of human existence experientially...but I wonder how this would work in a situation where say, Jesus was being crucified?
jondon7 3 years ago
Wonderful job, but a question I have is . What if there are several.....beyond several memories that are still hurting you today and cause you to hate the person you are?
lovemyslf24 3 years ago
You address each and everyone so your life will be better.
HealingMagic 3 years ago
It's amazing the way I could feel Sam, the boy receiving healing. I could feel how he enjoyed finishing it every time with the word "PEACE" and I felt like wanting to say it in the exact same moment without Robert instructing him to say it.
Damn, I never felt so emotionally connected with a person's feelings like this before. As if I was sitting there and experiencing it all myself...
kristmist 3 years ago
I want to thank you for your priceless educations and videos.you are amazing.I am a hypnotrapist and My passion is NLP. thank you
meazimi 3 years ago
I have a two part question for Robert: What if you are troubled but do not remember anything at all about your child hood? The very few memories I have I feel completely neutral about. I guess I have repressed everything. Also, you mentioned something about students needing someone to tap on. How would I do that?
vicki307 3 years ago
Thank you; I had a similar situation. This really helped me!
starkid77 3 years ago 4
very good as usual.please post something on deep rooted addictions.
calmguy1 3 years ago 5
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ggmoda 3 years ago
I agree ggmoda. I cannot tell you how much my life has changed since taking advantage of the private sessions Robert offers. Any positive changes you experience while watching the videos is multiplied 1,000 times with a phone or in person session. Thank you for giving Robert!
PS - awesome video!
sherryayn 3 years ago 3