@kimberlyj98 You are such an intelligent and Beautiful woman, I'm Hispanic but I'm sure a woman like you will always be able to attract a man of any race. You seem like you're down to earth and very well spoken. I'm very impressed.
YOU ARE FREEEKIN INTELLIGENT AND SMART. THE FORM AND WAY THAT YOU ARE ELABORATING YOUR POINTS IF OFF THE HOOK!! LOL YOU are one of the only black women who actually understand. I thank you BEAUTIFUL black women. its black women like you who give me hope to keep trying. thank you. AND DOOO NOT BE AFRAID OF WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK OF YOUR VIDEOS.
I am currently single by choice, though women don't understand and even attack me for my self content and ambition for the truth, and to deliver my part in this neverending struggle for equality. once my book is complete, i feel that i will have analyzed a piece of history thats been tossed to the side for many years. i am alone though, for women, and not just black, have no praise or belief in a strong black man trying to make his mark on this earth. a closed mind is so unattractive...
i commented on your last video and i do want to add that I am a very strong black man. i encourage you to continue to add your philosphy, which i may add is a very knowledgable one, to the viewers. you have no idea how refreshing your poise and intellect is to my philosophies on life. i am currently writing a book about the theologies of Tupac and Malcolm X, and i find that your reproach towards issues of our black people is unique, charasmatic and needed to show the new viewpoint of a women
A strong black woman- a woman who has weathered the storms of life without losing the goodness of her character. A woman who has the wisdom to not to place blame on a man who has not wronged her. A woman who understands the importance of forgiveness. A woman who rather be held by a man, not handled. A woman who is strong enough to not just admit her own faults but also wise enough to fix them. Denial is an acronym:D E N I A L
Black women in fact betrayed themselves when they completely turned their backs on all of their elders, the church, black men and black business and completely dumped their entire support base in exchange for drugs, discos, dog tracks and government assistance programs of every concievable kind in the mid 70's.
There is in fact an extremely informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that very in-depthly covers this exact subject.
Listen ...lets get something straight here. Now there is nothing wrong with dating outside your race per say but one must be aware of the societal strings behind the scenes. Do you think all of this black woman and white men talk is organic? do you think that cnn did a piece on the lack of black men to help you? Do you think welfare is a weapon? Do you trust the government at all? If you answer these questions correctly you probably won't date a white man until things are different.
I ended up married to a White woman because she has been very respectful and kind to me. The way I "handle" a rude woman is to remove her from my life. I grew up in an area where Black women were very quick to "cuss out" a Black man and I was turned off by the behavior of black women. White girls and women have generally treated me much better than the women of my own race.
I use to wonder why there are so many single parent homes. Black Men need to form a manhood and brotherhood organization to solve this major problem. Either that or its going to become way worse!
Exactly! I always hated that expression 'if a black man dates/marries a white women, it's because he can't "handle a STRONG black woman'. A lot of white woman can work, pay bills, care for children, herself, and a man, no problem. But to say a white woman, or any other race other than black can't be strong, is ridiculous. A normal man & woman, any color, wants peace, joy, serene atmosphere, happiness, a clean house, dinner made, love, respect. No drama! Period!
I Understand EXACTLY were you're coming from. I say the same thing. I don't like that phrase and I think it sounds like a justification of some sort. To Handle sounds like it a Struggle!
I want a strong Black women. There's a difference though. A lot of Black women believe to be "strong" you need to tell the whole world that you have a degree, make your own money, and drive your OWN car that YOU bought with your OWN money. It's not cute. it's corny and loud. Yes I'm happy you have a degree but does the world have to hear about it? Yes I'm happy that you think your strong but does the world have to hear about it? Come on now. The "Strong black woman" act gets boring!
Who the hell even WANTS to "handle a strong (black) woman2? Were not lion tamers! When a man comes home, he wants peace and kindness, maybe some food and a blow job. Thats all you need to provide as a woman, and if you can do that, you never have to be a "strong (black) woman".
I love you for this video lol. I love black women but I absolutely hate that "strong black women" theme. That implies ignorance, arrogance, physical and mental violence, attitude issues, bitterness and trying to wear the pants i.e. trying to take YOUR place, constantly testing your strength and manhood. Why not substitute "strong" with a more specific, less ignorant word... like ambitious black woman or... idk, intelligent black woman? Because ignorant and arrogance is exactly what they refer to
Rosa Parks, Coretta Scott King, and Harriett Tubman were strong black women. They didn't get their strength by neck rolling, loud talking and snappy attitudes.
Half the people who comment on these 'black people' pages are white people which makes you think why dont they mind their own business? black people seem to hate on each other because they dont have knowledge of self
Your ability to distill statements down to the critical essence and articulate them clearly is impressive. Is your ability learned or has your mind always functioned in that way? I am genuinely curious because you uttered no platitudes or clichés, which seems to be the prevailing level of discourse and thinking among some women. Well done.
@tillallareoneluv Why thank you! I appreciate your comments and feedback. I've always been this way, so I can't say that my ability is learned. I've always thought a little different from a lot of my counterparts.
@tillallareoneluv ,,lol nigga trying to use big words to threaten the crowd, get outta here mr.dick-tionar speak easy, people will still understand you.
@LeuntenantZero I appreciate the reply, ‘nigga’ stuff aside. I know there is virtue in simplicity. That shouldn't be an excuse to not express yourself as precisely as possible. A 6th grader studies vocab for the reason an adult can study vocab. To be able to express yourself better. I could have said “Sis, you are on point” or "I like the way you broke that down." I didn't. I wrote exactly what I wanted to. Dictionaries are free online and learning never hurt anyone.
@tillallareoneluv .LMAOF You are still a clown to me buddy, the university of Nyerere in my beautiful country Tanzania have taught me the essence and benefits of well public speacking, dont try to act like you are above people just because of words, as I said you are a clown, I spot clowns easily, especially black americans.
@LeuntenantZero"...the benefits of well public 'speacking'.”? Lol. You should request a refund from your "university." And the 'university' HAS taught you. You sound like a fool.
Hello, I am David. I am a 29 y/o Black man. I think that Black women are very beautiful, the most. I've had good and bad experiances with black women.I have dated outside but haven't givin up on my sistas. However, what man in his right mind wants to fight his partner for pwr. Naw, we need to learn to love and respect eachothers fundamental differences working together to build ourselves up, not tear down our own homes. Thank you for your time
The reason why Black Divorce rates are so high is because alot of Black men feel as though we shouldn't have to battle our mate in our relationship along with battling the rest of the world. A relationship shouldn't be a battle for supremecy to be called the head of the household. We shouldn't have to prove ourselves to our woman everyday. Lastly Animals are to be handled.
as a black man this is my perspective. the women who say that, don't want to face the reality that their attitudes need to change. they want to be able to put their hands on their hips, get in their man's face, cuss him out and take no ownership for their behavior. when their man has had enough of this and leaves, instead of anylizing weather or not their way of comunicating was right or wrong, they find it easier to dismiss it all by saying "he just can't handle a strong women".
You have hit the nail on the head. Black Men, dont wish to handle women with a BAD attitude. They don't need to. The woman may think she is presenting the man with a "Challenge" that if he handles her bad attitude maybe she may nicer to him. Wrong it's a big turn off. Black men like all men go for the path of least resistance.
I refuse to date a bitter black woman that can't deal with her issues from the past and let all that baggage go. That is what I have dealt with from black women during my 20 years of dating. Too much hate from their childhood issues, baby daddy issues, ex-boyfriend and ex-husband betrayals that always lead to distrust issues. A black woman that is not truly happy with herself and her life will bring nothing but misery to anyone around her and is no good for any man.
@camelspyder1 That's true for any woman. But you're right. My last girl had issues such as what you're talking about. It was a very hurt-filled relationship.
@caramelking2000 True, but no woman wants a man who needs their ego stroked, either. I'm a old school woman. In my day, most women behaved like women. And men behaved like men. Now, it seems like the roles are changing. Most women now are single, raising these boys alone and it's defeating the purpose when they have to play both roles of mother and father. Raising boys alone, isn't a easy task. Thus, we have the breakdown of the male's natural characteristics, and well balanced women.
@meandmyself364 Well tell them girls to keep them legs closed. Why chooes a nigga that you know wont take care of his? Black women weak to the naked dick. So, talk about the bum ass niggas who only care about a nut and thats it. Black women are so attracted to men are not worth a damn. So its there fault.
@D06DD And as far as telling the girls to keep their legs closed, yes they should , but again, YOU have to take responsibility for yourself. For years, I've been in the medical field. It's nothing to blink at, about sexually transmitted diseases. And your statement about , 'blaming the dogs' First of al,l men are NOT dogs, (I've met some real good men in my day) But if that's what a man thinks of himself, then of course, that's what he'll perpetuate for himself.
@D06DD Men are men; mind, body and soul. And for the dogs....Well,..... that's what leashes and dog catchers are for! What I'm saying is that people have choices. God didn't set us up to fail. Excuses! Excuses! When people just don't want to behave right...Even though they can! God bless!
@meandmyself364 I hate your comment. There is a inner DOG in all men. SO this young women c=go outside lookin like a HOE and expect to find a good man. NO, when you leave your home dressed like a HOE you will only find the DOG in men. It anit like these dudes is rapping these young black girls and having these babies they opening up and letting strangers fuck them with no condom. Blame the DOG everytime right?
@D06DD Okay, so you don't like my comment? The ways of the world isn't any mystery. And there's nothing new under the sun. So, I have a couple of questions for you. # 1 What is it about MY comment that you hate so much? #2 Why do YOU believe that God made man in any form of an animal? Or to behave like an animal?God made man in HIS image.
@meandmyself364 I don't even remember it. But, I said there is a inner dog in all men. And it can be released. All men are good but is that good released? Everybody has there faults. I'm not saying that all men are dogs. I'm saying that if a women expects a real man she must 1st respect herself. See a women makes a man weak. Do you women not understand that your the most beautiful thing on earth? So how can i be a man when i see you as a hoe. Ass showing and tittys out? how can i be sane?
@D06DD That's a real big misconception that ALL men are dogs, excuse me, have an inner dog-like attitude. Before I got married, I dated my share of black men, some good, some not so good, but the way that a person presents him/herself tells a lot about who they are as a person.
@D06DD I never said that what goes on in the African-American community is solely the man or womans fault. But as an African -American woman, I can tell you what I've witnessed, and how we as African-American people, in factly, ALL people sometimes, behave. It seems as though you've taken my comments personally, when there isn't/ wasn't an attack on you directly, or any one in particular.
@D06DD But again, these short-comings that we have in OUR community is nothing new. Our race( we) need to learn how to respect each other AND respect ourselves. That is the key to a better understanding, better parents, better children! Ultimately, a better society. I'll tell you, like I've told my sons when you become an adult; 'Only you can be responsible for your actions. And you can teach someone how to treat you, it depends on how you treat yourself'
@caramelking2000 Women ARE angry that they have to rear their children fatherless. And no one can ever use the excuse about conflicts between the mother and father which prevents them from raising their children. There's always a way.There should never be a cop out! SOME black men have babies by black women then are fleet of foot to avoid their responsibilities, adding insult to injury, when they trade them in to date outside of their race.That's where the main issues lies.
@caramelking2000 Women wants the best for their children. M.I.A. (missing in action fathers) are Never what's best for the kids. It takes two good parents to raise them.
I usually laugh when a woman gives me the " You can't handle me " speech. My response usually is " Last time I checked the only things that are 'handled' are children, problems, and people you don't want to deal with" the looks on their faces are usually priceless.
Ill admit that Black men have the worst image in society either were gay, drug dealers, sports stars, or thugs, and the Gubment! has done a good job replacing us with section 8, Child support, welfare, ect the avarage black man is not bad, but our enviroment makes us what we appear to be, i feel our race will never support each other cus we point the finger at the wrong people, our media, culture helps this cycle and we dont see it! until we stop and look at who we are as a people we will parish
@smartmouthriveria you're right. The media portrays us that way. The powers that be love that we fight amongst ourselves and kill each other. we will never perish though, that is the one thing, black people are survivors. When it's all said and done, black people will still be there.
@atomicgdog Shut up ,nigger. Remember until the 1860s your kind were our pack mules, dont tell me what to do,boy. We gave you freedom so dont forget we cuold take it back.
@Alfonsoisgod haha, We? You didn't do anything you ignorant filthy cave dwelling animal. My kind were kings and queens. Anyway, you're not even free yourself, so how you gonna do anything idiot.
@atomicgdog Kings and queens of mudhuts. Your people are chasing gazzelles in 2012 what makes you think they were anything important hundreds of years ago,lol.
@Alfonsoisgod Never left your backyard huh? It's ok to be ignorant. You're not even happy with yourself, otherwise you wouldn't be worried about other people. Your whole channel is dedicated to black people, haha. You're wasting your life worrying about that. That's good though I'm glad that ignorant people like you worry themselves into a stroke and heart attack. Keep doing what you're doing.
@atomicgdog Sure, how come everywhere you people inhabit is a shithole? Im not making this shit up,its real. Niggers are dumb and weak. You all should go back to africa.
@Alfonsoisgoddamnidiot Haha, like I said, ignorant. Where is this shithole? You mean places like egypt? Look up the Moors and you'll see what real people should be like. Not like the criminals that you admire so much. The people you are so proud of were criminals. Bet you like the Nazi's too. haha, you're just ignorant and I feel sorry for you. You should go back to europe.
@atomicgdog Yeah the only places you mention are north of the sahara and not black, i know black people are dumb but you people inhabit SUBSAHARAN africa, Einstein. Are you going to claim the chinese next?
@Alfonsoisgod-damn idiot You ever been to Africa Einstein? Your ancestors came from Africa, scientific fact. Everyone came from Africa. So I guess that's why you're dumb and ignorant. You are a white "nigger", that's what I'll call you because that's what you are...nigger. haha.
@Alfonsoisgod Never would try to claim a dumb nigger like you. Yes that's what you are a dumb white nigger. haha, I'm not claiming you because I'm not one. You Dumb Nigger.
@atomicgdog yes you are youre black, hence a nigger. everyone knows that so the attempt of saying youre not a nigger is like a little kid trying to say hes 80 years old.
@Alfonsoisgod You're actually worse than a nigger, you're a dumb white nigger. You think you're better right? but you're a dumb white nigger. I like talking to you cuz it's fun talking to such an ignorant person, you dumb nigger. hahaha. Nigger also means an ignorant person. In that case nigger, you're a nigger.
@Alfonsoisgoddamnidiot, yup worse than a nigger, nigger means an ignorant person according to the webster dictionary. You're definitely an ignorant person chimp. Shave your back lately? hahaha you nigger.
@Alfonsoisgod ??? what??? haha, you can't make me mad,' I'm having too muchch fun talking to you chimp. It's not everyday I get to converse with a white nigger chimp. hahaha
@Alfonsoisgod being worse than something doesn't necessarily mean that the thing is bad, it just means you're worse than it. Wanna a banana you hairy little chimp? hahaha
@Alfonsoisgod I am black, and I'm proud of that. Wouldn't want to be anything else but black. I love being black. I make a lot of money, I'm strong and I'm smart. And best of all, I'm not ignorant like you. I don't spend my days hating people because of my own fear like you. I feel sorry for you man. I know you fear a black planet, but we don't fear you we feel sorry for you.
"Handle", hmmm, I am a white guy, lived and worked in Nigeria for 4 years. Nigerian girls are fantastic, they are a challenge to date however. They take no crap. If you are not on the top of your game you will hear about it, not passive. and sex, uniformly it is like a workout, no soft music and slow action, they power fuck you until you are injured. "Handle", if you do not treat them with respect you will get your ass kicked. You only have to "Handle" them if you are not fair.
to me handling a person sounds like a bad thing. something you have to do not want to do.
like i've said before, what does strong black women mean. i'm a black man and never know what it meant? does it mean you don't need a man? you don't have to have a man to make it? or does it mean that in a relationship it would be tough to deal with you? i don't know?
@ nagone11 , it started with slavery,divide and(then) conquer their relationships. Nowadays, the divide is handed down, generation after generation, by the black mothers saying 'all N's are no good',plus, edit and controlled media images of the black males.
Handle. Basically that means I'm supposed to struggle with her, tame her(which is struggling with her) or submit to her. Now...why would I elect to do any of those? Good Video!!
Handle? You mean TOLERATE! Some women are very rough around the edges, then get mad when when the guy rejects them based on their personality. Then comes up with that excuse. A woman may not want to "act", but the fact is, the guy WANTS that soft, sweet, smiling, sensual, loving woman. Easier to talk to, easier to ask out without games, easier to impress (and persuade for sex). And sometimes those things are assumed by mere appearance, like softer, more subtle features, like WHITE skin.
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
"handling" a woman is easy. It's called abuse. Thereiniea the mistake : a man should not have to "handle" a woman. A woman is a human being not some wild animal. If she thinks she needs a man that can "handle" her then she is already lost.
If a black man prefers to be with a white woman, or an Asian woman, or Hispanic woman, or Native American, East Indian, freakin' eskimo...whatever then to blame the man and say that he can't "handle" a "strong black woman", then that's a bit daft. If a woman needs to be "handled" then she doesn't need a man, she needs a therapist.
i see so many black girls promoting interracial relationship, suddenly, i begin to think when a black women on here at u-tube speaks in favor of black men it got to be some boggiest crap.
sometimes i believe, blackwomen don't care if a black man dates out. really it doesn't appear to me they care or not care, especially the real good looking ones. another thing, i rarely would see a black woman acting out with anger, when they see a black man with an non black woman
Real Black men should not have to teach a woman to how to be a woman. You should already know how to be a woman on the inside and out. The problem is what society is teaching. Society have to with entertainment like music, movies, the wrong people you allow in your life or anything inspire women to degradedness. Black women may have all the education in the world to stand on her on own two feet. But where they fail a lot of them refuse to understand the basic power within them.
Wow, after trawling through quite a few BW bashing BM videos; i have finally found a jewel amongts the BS!! Sadly some people measure strength as being loud and arrogant, when in fact restraint and how you control yourself is a great measure of strength. It's easy to be bad, but very hard to be good.
im about to marry a strong black woman and for my 6 year experience in this relationship. a strong person needs more love and attention because you have to pass trough the defences of a woman to get to her heart. but i still agree with you. its harder to deal with a strong woman
we can handel them , but would be nice if they would be lower voiced and not so loud just to get attention. IN my experiences its like.. honkey me ( at a cash register) mam can you keep your voice down ? Black woman.. DIS IS RACIST I GOT TO YELL LOUD AS I CAN SO EVERYONE LOOKS AT ME !!!!!!!!!
stop dating black men who dont love themselves their are plenty of blackmen who love blackwoman stop boxing us in to these stereotypes that society has coined for us rise up stand up black people. couples need to work together as 1 in order to achieve success in a relationship. stop feeding into the hype
OMG she is right, what are we suppose to handle. So this means I can start punching any women I'am with in the face all the time and be like you have to handle me. She how that sound , why do you have to have a attitude, why do you have to nag about nothing. I tell you what no matter how beatiful Tasha on Tyler Perrys movie Why did I get Married is , I could not be with her its to much, now true dude was fucking around but alot of you be that way and hes not. Its kinda like you want him to.
im with a black woman. and it always seems the only people who give us dirty looks or make nasty comments are ignorant people of both skin colors. ive never had an educated or mature person think negatively of it.
im white and i find that black women (strong) moan and complain all the time, but i still like to fuck them, i wear earplugs in the day and a condom at night.
BLACK PEOPLE STOP IT . I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE ! YOU NO WE LOVE WE EACH OTHER . TIMES ARE GETTING HARD . AND WE BETTER STICK TOGETHER . FOR ALL WE HAVE BEAN THREW . PLEASE DONT TURN ON EACH OTHER . IT WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS HARDER FOR US . WHY DO WE HATE EACH OTHER . WE BEAN THREW SO MUCH . SO MANY PEOPLE LOST THERE LIFE JUST TO SEE YOU HAVE A CHANCE . THEY DIED FOR YOU . ME . ALL OF US ! WHY DO WE PAY THEM BACK WITH DISRESPECT . STOP IT PLEASE . SIT DOWN AND REMEMBER WHO WE ARE ! THINK ....
You have to ask yourseIf think alot of what BW say and do come from the fact that dad was not in their lives. That male influence to validate you and help your affirm your self worth is huge for women. It just goes to show why the destruction of the black family has dire consequences. elf why would a man want to associate himself with this kind of person?
I just watched your video on why BM can't handle a "strong" BW. You asked to be inboxed. So here goes: I think the word handle means: to gain control over or manage the dangerous behavior of. If this is the case, I think it speaks volumes about the woman a man deals with. You have to handle wild animals, firearms, hostage negotiation because these things if left unchecked can cause injury to those around it.
i just dont want to deal with a ghetto girl that talks like shes poorly educated and cant handle intellectual conversation. i dont need ghetto talk screamed at me with the bitch in my face not even exchanging words. im white and this goes for any race. plus if black guys stop dating black women and move on to other races (as if its a rule) then theyr probably tired of media black stereo types or just found a girl that took interest. i cant stand ghetto stereo type crap.
As a black man, Ithink this is one of the most introspective and intelligently done videosI've sen on this subject. Its good tosee someone whocan trulylook objectively at our issues.
what i don't understand is how black women get mad at black men for dating women of other races, but then they turn around and date some person of another race and then get all ghetto if someone says something to them about it. the double standard is ridiculous, people should be allowed to love who they want, whether they be of the same race or not. all this hate and negativity isn't doing anything to help, it's only breeding more ignorance.
I think a lot of women forget that maybe a man just wants to enjoy the company of a woman, not necessarily have to "handle" them and add excessive stress to his own life. A woman can bring comfort and joy to a man and make him hers forever. Everyone gets upset, mad, or loud from time to time and sometimes it is not without reason, but when it is a momentarily occurrence over any little thing day after day, it becomes simply tiring and meaningless.
Faith knows faith. Thank you for speaking words of wisdom by asking the right questions that lead people to the right answers. Thank you for speaking wisdom, truth and light. My email is danielalex936@gmail.com I am commited to not fixing anyone else's mess. Yes throwing it there like that if you ever wish to email annonymously or not so annonymous.
These women need to take tell it to Jesus and get over themselves.
Great post and I will look forward to viewing some of your others.
I was expecting ignorance like the previous videos I watched tonight, but sweet darling your video contains intelligence and wisdom. I would date you tonight if you lived in my town or vice versa. Not because you are fine cause I see fine everyday, but you spoke intelligently and made sense because you formulated your thoughts, spoke in complete sentences and said so much that I believe is true as a man. You must be a woman of great faith I'm sure.
You are one of our enlightened queens, thank you for representing.
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@kimberlyj98 You are such an intelligent and Beautiful woman, I'm Hispanic but I'm sure a woman like you will always be able to attract a man of any race. You seem like you're down to earth and very well spoken. I'm very impressed.
Truegenius23 3 days ago
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Truegenius23 3 days ago
YOU ARE FREEEKIN INTELLIGENT AND SMART. THE FORM AND WAY THAT YOU ARE ELABORATING YOUR POINTS IF OFF THE HOOK!! LOL YOU are one of the only black women who actually understand. I thank you BEAUTIFUL black women. its black women like you who give me hope to keep trying. thank you. AND DOOO NOT BE AFRAID OF WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK OF YOUR VIDEOS.
hulkandsuperman 6 days ago
This video left me speechless. I'm very impressed you made you some great points. Thanks for your for keeping it real!
qteezy6501 1 week ago
1970 feminist Dykes and Goernment Programs = INVENTED THE strong black women LIE !!!!!!!!
caramelking2000 1 week ago
FEMINISM = SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED LOSERS = HATRED OF MEN
STRONG BLACK WOMEN = RUDE + DISRESPECTFUL + LOUD + IGNORANT + WORSHIPS A WHITE MAN + OBNOXIOUS + HATEFUL + DISHONEST + ON AND ON AND ON
Goldstein305 1 week ago
FEMINIST = LESBIANISM = SATANIST
caramelking2000 1 week ago
Good video, sista.
CharliePimpin85 1 week ago
I am currently single by choice, though women don't understand and even attack me for my self content and ambition for the truth, and to deliver my part in this neverending struggle for equality. once my book is complete, i feel that i will have analyzed a piece of history thats been tossed to the side for many years. i am alone though, for women, and not just black, have no praise or belief in a strong black man trying to make his mark on this earth. a closed mind is so unattractive...
KilluminatiIZLiFe 1 week ago
i commented on your last video and i do want to add that I am a very strong black man. i encourage you to continue to add your philosphy, which i may add is a very knowledgable one, to the viewers. you have no idea how refreshing your poise and intellect is to my philosophies on life. i am currently writing a book about the theologies of Tupac and Malcolm X, and i find that your reproach towards issues of our black people is unique, charasmatic and needed to show the new viewpoint of a women
KilluminatiIZLiFe 1 week ago
this lady is a genius.
LetMeFlyinPeace 1 week ago
A strong black woman- a woman who has weathered the storms of life without losing the goodness of her character. A woman who has the wisdom to not to place blame on a man who has not wronged her. A woman who understands the importance of forgiveness. A woman who rather be held by a man, not handled. A woman who is strong enough to not just admit her own faults but also wise enough to fix them. Denial is an acronym:D E N I A L
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1200Jenk 1 week ago
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Black women in fact betrayed themselves when they completely turned their backs on all of their elders, the church, black men and black business and completely dumped their entire support base in exchange for drugs, discos, dog tracks and government assistance programs of every concievable kind in the mid 70's.
There is in fact an extremely informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that very in-depthly covers this exact subject.
pc0p1mp 1 week ago
Listen ...lets get something straight here. Now there is nothing wrong with dating outside your race per say but one must be aware of the societal strings behind the scenes. Do you think all of this black woman and white men talk is organic? do you think that cnn did a piece on the lack of black men to help you? Do you think welfare is a weapon? Do you trust the government at all? If you answer these questions correctly you probably won't date a white man until things are different.
tgr128 1 week ago
Thank you! You are a beautiful person!
3388stph 2 weeks ago
I ended up married to a White woman because she has been very respectful and kind to me. The way I "handle" a rude woman is to remove her from my life. I grew up in an area where Black women were very quick to "cuss out" a Black man and I was turned off by the behavior of black women. White girls and women have generally treated me much better than the women of my own race.
mantronikk 2 weeks ago
I use to wonder why there are so many single parent homes. Black Men need to form a manhood and brotherhood organization to solve this major problem. Either that or its going to become way worse!
djsedd1 2 weeks ago
Exactly! I always hated that expression 'if a black man dates/marries a white women, it's because he can't "handle a STRONG black woman'. A lot of white woman can work, pay bills, care for children, herself, and a man, no problem. But to say a white woman, or any other race other than black can't be strong, is ridiculous. A normal man & woman, any color, wants peace, joy, serene atmosphere, happiness, a clean house, dinner made, love, respect. No drama! Period!
Sandbar136 2 weeks ago
We don't have time to put up with some bull shit attitude. Life is too short. Keep your attitudes!
sogenfri522 2 weeks ago 2
I Understand EXACTLY were you're coming from. I say the same thing. I don't like that phrase and I think it sounds like a justification of some sort. To Handle sounds like it a Struggle!
CarolinaCardinal1 2 weeks ago
peace.
quranresponse 2 weeks ago
A true Black woman doesn't need too tell the world how strong she is. People will be able to tell for themselves.
MickJagoffable 3 weeks ago
I want a strong Black women. There's a difference though. A lot of Black women believe to be "strong" you need to tell the whole world that you have a degree, make your own money, and drive your OWN car that YOU bought with your OWN money. It's not cute. it's corny and loud. Yes I'm happy you have a degree but does the world have to hear about it? Yes I'm happy that you think your strong but does the world have to hear about it? Come on now. The "Strong black woman" act gets boring!
MickJagoffable 3 weeks ago
Who the hell even WANTS to "handle a strong (black) woman2? Were not lion tamers! When a man comes home, he wants peace and kindness, maybe some food and a blow job. Thats all you need to provide as a woman, and if you can do that, you never have to be a "strong (black) woman".
LackadaisicalE 3 weeks ago
I love you for this video lol. I love black women but I absolutely hate that "strong black women" theme. That implies ignorance, arrogance, physical and mental violence, attitude issues, bitterness and trying to wear the pants i.e. trying to take YOUR place, constantly testing your strength and manhood. Why not substitute "strong" with a more specific, less ignorant word... like ambitious black woman or... idk, intelligent black woman? Because ignorant and arrogance is exactly what they refer to
AtiwiSaka 3 weeks ago
The 4 dislikes are from black women that wish they could be "handled" by any man they could get.
44Blackjax 3 weeks ago
Rosa Parks, Coretta Scott King, and Harriett Tubman were strong black women. They didn't get their strength by neck rolling, loud talking and snappy attitudes.
BricktownBubba 3 weeks ago
Attitude is every, if you have bad attitude & try to call it "strong" then your wrong! Try being kind(you don't have to be a doormat)!
scottyvjs 3 weeks ago
i tell you .the fuse of jugement has blown in their head.
babouinga 4 weeks ago
Half the people who comment on these 'black people' pages are white people which makes you think why dont they mind their own business? black people seem to hate on each other because they dont have knowledge of self
Tygabone 1 month ago
Amen!! Good god what freakin morons... "they can't handle a strong black woman."
Hmmm... Let me see about that I doubt they are strong because the majority of black women are fat as fuck(meaning they don't work out)
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mschiwart 1 month ago
What is exactly meant by "handle" a strong black woman?
1cambiamos 1 month ago
@1cambiamos putting up with their slick mouths and attitudes without fighting back.
BricktownBubba 3 weeks ago
are you ok with interracial dating with a white guy? i love your hair by the way.
LAGDB01 1 month ago
Your ability to distill statements down to the critical essence and articulate them clearly is impressive. Is your ability learned or has your mind always functioned in that way? I am genuinely curious because you uttered no platitudes or clichés, which seems to be the prevailing level of discourse and thinking among some women. Well done.
tillallareoneluv 1 month ago
@tillallareoneluv Why thank you! I appreciate your comments and feedback. I've always been this way, so I can't say that my ability is learned. I've always thought a little different from a lot of my counterparts.
kimberlyj98 4 weeks ago
@tillallareoneluv ,,lol nigga trying to use big words to threaten the crowd, get outta here mr.dick-tionar speak easy, people will still understand you.
LeuntenantZero 3 weeks ago
@LeuntenantZero I appreciate the reply, ‘nigga’ stuff aside. I know there is virtue in simplicity. That shouldn't be an excuse to not express yourself as precisely as possible. A 6th grader studies vocab for the reason an adult can study vocab. To be able to express yourself better. I could have said “Sis, you are on point” or "I like the way you broke that down." I didn't. I wrote exactly what I wanted to. Dictionaries are free online and learning never hurt anyone.
tillallareoneluv 3 weeks ago
@tillallareoneluv .LMAOF You are still a clown to me buddy, the university of Nyerere in my beautiful country Tanzania have taught me the essence and benefits of well public speacking, dont try to act like you are above people just because of words, as I said you are a clown, I spot clowns easily, especially black americans.
LeuntenantZero 2 weeks ago
@LeuntenantZero"...the benefits of well public 'speacking'.”? Lol. You should request a refund from your "university." And the 'university' HAS taught you. You sound like a fool.
tillallareoneluv 2 weeks ago
Hello, I am David. I am a 29 y/o Black man. I think that Black women are very beautiful, the most. I've had good and bad experiances with black women.I have dated outside but haven't givin up on my sistas. However, what man in his right mind wants to fight his partner for pwr. Naw, we need to learn to love and respect eachothers fundamental differences working together to build ourselves up, not tear down our own homes. Thank you for your time
dpstuff1 1 month ago
The reason why Black Divorce rates are so high is because alot of Black men feel as though we shouldn't have to battle our mate in our relationship along with battling the rest of the world. A relationship shouldn't be a battle for supremecy to be called the head of the household. We shouldn't have to prove ourselves to our woman everyday. Lastly Animals are to be handled.
supersayin1 1 month ago
@supersayin1 Well said.
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@atomicgdog Thanks!
supersayin1 1 month ago
the thing that scares strong black women: a strong black man that can make choices for himself.
mack70214 1 month ago 2
The androgynous effect......many women wanna be the man and the woman in a relationship; she wants a dual role. The shit can't work like that.
dejay1507 1 month ago
Strong Woman = abusive, rude & annoying :) ... sorry sister ... BROS don't want too.
mba2ceo 1 month ago
as a black man this is my perspective. the women who say that, don't want to face the reality that their attitudes need to change. they want to be able to put their hands on their hips, get in their man's face, cuss him out and take no ownership for their behavior. when their man has had enough of this and leaves, instead of anylizing weather or not their way of comunicating was right or wrong, they find it easier to dismiss it all by saying "he just can't handle a strong women".
GQbum 1 month ago 17
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You have hit the nail on the head. Black Men, dont wish to handle women with a BAD attitude. They don't need to. The woman may think she is presenting the man with a "Challenge" that if he handles her bad attitude maybe she may nicer to him. Wrong it's a big turn off. Black men like all men go for the path of least resistance.
TheAremo1st 1 month ago 4
Black women suck. And this is coming from a black man.
thesaintsification 1 month ago
@procnet1 i dont,lol.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
I refuse to date a bitter black woman that can't deal with her issues from the past and let all that baggage go. That is what I have dealt with from black women during my 20 years of dating. Too much hate from their childhood issues, baby daddy issues, ex-boyfriend and ex-husband betrayals that always lead to distrust issues. A black woman that is not truly happy with herself and her life will bring nothing but misery to anyone around her and is no good for any man.
camelspyder1 1 month ago 2
@camelspyder1 That's true for any woman. But you're right. My last girl had issues such as what you're talking about. It was a very hurt-filled relationship.
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NO ONE WANTS A STRONG MASCULINE WOMAN
caramelking2000 1 month ago 16
@caramelking2000 True, but no woman wants a man who needs their ego stroked, either. I'm a old school woman. In my day, most women behaved like women. And men behaved like men. Now, it seems like the roles are changing. Most women now are single, raising these boys alone and it's defeating the purpose when they have to play both roles of mother and father. Raising boys alone, isn't a easy task. Thus, we have the breakdown of the male's natural characteristics, and well balanced women.
meandmyself364 1 week ago
@meandmyself364 Well tell them girls to keep them legs closed. Why chooes a nigga that you know wont take care of his? Black women weak to the naked dick. So, talk about the bum ass niggas who only care about a nut and thats it. Black women are so attracted to men are not worth a damn. So its there fault.
D06DD 1 week ago
@D06DD And as far as telling the girls to keep their legs closed, yes they should , but again, YOU have to take responsibility for yourself. For years, I've been in the medical field. It's nothing to blink at, about sexually transmitted diseases. And your statement about , 'blaming the dogs' First of al,l men are NOT dogs, (I've met some real good men in my day) But if that's what a man thinks of himself, then of course, that's what he'll perpetuate for himself.
meandmyself364 2 days ago
@D06DD Men are men; mind, body and soul. And for the dogs....Well,..... that's what leashes and dog catchers are for! What I'm saying is that people have choices. God didn't set us up to fail. Excuses! Excuses! When people just don't want to behave right...Even though they can! God bless!
meandmyself364 1 day ago
@meandmyself364 I hate your comment. There is a inner DOG in all men. SO this young women c=go outside lookin like a HOE and expect to find a good man. NO, when you leave your home dressed like a HOE you will only find the DOG in men. It anit like these dudes is rapping these young black girls and having these babies they opening up and letting strangers fuck them with no condom. Blame the DOG everytime right?
D06DD 1 week ago
@D06DD Okay, so you don't like my comment? The ways of the world isn't any mystery. And there's nothing new under the sun. So, I have a couple of questions for you. # 1 What is it about MY comment that you hate so much? #2 Why do YOU believe that God made man in any form of an animal? Or to behave like an animal?God made man in HIS image.
meandmyself364 2 days ago
@meandmyself364 I don't even remember it. But, I said there is a inner dog in all men. And it can be released. All men are good but is that good released? Everybody has there faults. I'm not saying that all men are dogs. I'm saying that if a women expects a real man she must 1st respect herself. See a women makes a man weak. Do you women not understand that your the most beautiful thing on earth? So how can i be a man when i see you as a hoe. Ass showing and tittys out? how can i be sane?
D06DD 1 day ago
@D06DD That's a real big misconception that ALL men are dogs, excuse me, have an inner dog-like attitude. Before I got married, I dated my share of black men, some good, some not so good, but the way that a person presents him/herself tells a lot about who they are as a person.
meandmyself364 2 days ago
@D06DD I never said that what goes on in the African-American community is solely the man or womans fault. But as an African -American woman, I can tell you what I've witnessed, and how we as African-American people, in factly, ALL people sometimes, behave. It seems as though you've taken my comments personally, when there isn't/ wasn't an attack on you directly, or any one in particular.
meandmyself364 2 days ago
@D06DD But again, these short-comings that we have in OUR community is nothing new. Our race( we) need to learn how to respect each other AND respect ourselves. That is the key to a better understanding, better parents, better children! Ultimately, a better society. I'll tell you, like I've told my sons when you become an adult; 'Only you can be responsible for your actions. And you can teach someone how to treat you, it depends on how you treat yourself'
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@caramelking2000 Women ARE angry that they have to rear their children fatherless. And no one can ever use the excuse about conflicts between the mother and father which prevents them from raising their children. There's always a way.There should never be a cop out! SOME black men have babies by black women then are fleet of foot to avoid their responsibilities, adding insult to injury, when they trade them in to date outside of their race.That's where the main issues lies.
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@caramelking2000 Women wants the best for their children. M.I.A. (missing in action fathers) are Never what's best for the kids. It takes two good parents to raise them.
meandmyself364 1 week ago
I usually laugh when a woman gives me the " You can't handle me " speech. My response usually is " Last time I checked the only things that are 'handled' are children, problems, and people you don't want to deal with" the looks on their faces are usually priceless.
evil10 1 month ago
Ill admit that Black men have the worst image in society either were gay, drug dealers, sports stars, or thugs, and the Gubment! has done a good job replacing us with section 8, Child support, welfare, ect the avarage black man is not bad, but our enviroment makes us what we appear to be, i feel our race will never support each other cus we point the finger at the wrong people, our media, culture helps this cycle and we dont see it! until we stop and look at who we are as a people we will parish
smartmouthriveria 1 month ago
@smartmouthriveria you're right. The media portrays us that way. The powers that be love that we fight amongst ourselves and kill each other. we will never perish though, that is the one thing, black people are survivors. When it's all said and done, black people will still be there.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
Amen.
monstertube69 1 month ago
Very good video. I agree with you totally.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
You know "your people".
Maybe you could consider people as individuals, with different tastes and preferences?
Maybe they don't want to date someone they think is an over opinionated, assuming bitch?
gimmepatch 1 month ago
blackwomen suck on donkey balls bitch!
YoungRaWarrior 1 month ago
...and I can't handle strong liquor so I don't drink it. I like nice, cool, smooth beverages.
GhostraceKillah 1 month ago
Im a black man and I like this video!
chevybaby123 1 month ago
Ugly nigger bitch.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod watch your mouth punk.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog Shut up ,nigger. Remember until the 1860s your kind were our pack mules, dont tell me what to do,boy. We gave you freedom so dont forget we cuold take it back.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod haha, We? You didn't do anything you ignorant filthy cave dwelling animal. My kind were kings and queens. Anyway, you're not even free yourself, so how you gonna do anything idiot.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog Kings and queens of mudhuts. Your people are chasing gazzelles in 2012 what makes you think they were anything important hundreds of years ago,lol.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod Never left your backyard huh? It's ok to be ignorant. You're not even happy with yourself, otherwise you wouldn't be worried about other people. Your whole channel is dedicated to black people, haha. You're wasting your life worrying about that. That's good though I'm glad that ignorant people like you worry themselves into a stroke and heart attack. Keep doing what you're doing.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog Sure, how come everywhere you people inhabit is a shithole? Im not making this shit up,its real. Niggers are dumb and weak. You all should go back to africa.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgoddamnidiot Haha, like I said, ignorant. Where is this shithole? You mean places like egypt? Look up the Moors and you'll see what real people should be like. Not like the criminals that you admire so much. The people you are so proud of were criminals. Bet you like the Nazi's too. haha, you're just ignorant and I feel sorry for you. You should go back to europe.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog Yeah the only places you mention are north of the sahara and not black, i know black people are dumb but you people inhabit SUBSAHARAN africa, Einstein. Are you going to claim the chinese next?
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod-damn idiot You ever been to Africa Einstein? Your ancestors came from Africa, scientific fact. Everyone came from Africa. So I guess that's why you're dumb and ignorant. You are a white "nigger", that's what I'll call you because that's what you are...nigger. haha.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog No im white, youre a nigger and your whole family are niggers, i know im awesome but dont try to claim me.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod Never would try to claim a dumb nigger like you. Yes that's what you are a dumb white nigger. haha, I'm not claiming you because I'm not one. You Dumb Nigger.
atomicgdog 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
@atomicgdog yes you are youre black, hence a nigger. everyone knows that so the attempt of saying youre not a nigger is like a little kid trying to say hes 80 years old.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod Shut up nigger. haha
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod You're actually worse than a nigger, you're a dumb white nigger. You think you're better right? but you're a dumb white nigger. I like talking to you cuz it's fun talking to such an ignorant person, you dumb nigger. hahaha. Nigger also means an ignorant person. In that case nigger, you're a nigger.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog Worse than a nigger? So you think niggers are bad? Damn youre a racist little chimp,uh?
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgoddamnidiot, yup worse than a nigger, nigger means an ignorant person according to the webster dictionary. You're definitely an ignorant person chimp. Shave your back lately? hahaha you nigger.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod wanna banana hairy little chimp?
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog You mad dawg? Gnomesayin, cuz? Ooogie boogie,nigger, ooogie boogie.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod ??? what??? haha, you can't make me mad,' I'm having too muchch fun talking to you chimp. It's not everyday I get to converse with a white nigger chimp. hahaha
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod hahahahahahahaha oogie boogie? hahahaha, just like from the chappelle show, you guys really say that? Hahahahahahaha
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog Lol.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod being worse than something doesn't necessarily mean that the thing is bad, it just means you're worse than it. Wanna a banana you hairy little chimp? hahaha
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@atomicgdog No i dont, im not black.
Alfonsoisgod 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod I am black, and I'm proud of that. Wouldn't want to be anything else but black. I love being black. I make a lot of money, I'm strong and I'm smart. And best of all, I'm not ignorant like you. I don't spend my days hating people because of my own fear like you. I feel sorry for you man. I know you fear a black planet, but we don't fear you we feel sorry for you.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@Alfonsoisgod: .........
CreeWilly 1 month ago
"Handle", hmmm, I am a white guy, lived and worked in Nigeria for 4 years. Nigerian girls are fantastic, they are a challenge to date however. They take no crap. If you are not on the top of your game you will hear about it, not passive. and sex, uniformly it is like a workout, no soft music and slow action, they power fuck you until you are injured. "Handle", if you do not treat them with respect you will get your ass kicked. You only have to "Handle" them if you are not fair.
aminimaleffort 1 month ago
love your hair
aminimaleffort 1 month ago
man kim u hit the nail on the head w/ this one!!!!!
videoshirt 1 month ago
to me handling a person sounds like a bad thing. something you have to do not want to do.
like i've said before, what does strong black women mean. i'm a black man and never know what it meant? does it mean you don't need a man? you don't have to have a man to make it? or does it mean that in a relationship it would be tough to deal with you? i don't know?
chebf123 1 month ago
@ nagone11 , it started with slavery,divide and(then) conquer their relationships. Nowadays, the divide is handed down, generation after generation, by the black mothers saying 'all N's are no good',plus, edit and controlled media images of the black males.
clomid100 1 month ago
Handle. Basically that means I'm supposed to struggle with her, tame her(which is struggling with her) or submit to her. Now...why would I elect to do any of those? Good Video!!
Kearyjb 1 month ago
Handle? You mean TOLERATE! Some women are very rough around the edges, then get mad when when the guy rejects them based on their personality. Then comes up with that excuse. A woman may not want to "act", but the fact is, the guy WANTS that soft, sweet, smiling, sensual, loving woman. Easier to talk to, easier to ask out without games, easier to impress (and persuade for sex). And sometimes those things are assumed by mere appearance, like softer, more subtle features, like WHITE skin.
CSILogic 1 month ago
a woman doesnt have to be strong when she with me, black or white. because i treat a woman with respect, which tends to bring out their soft side
markash1971 2 months ago
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 2 months ago
"handling" a woman is easy. It's called abuse. Thereiniea the mistake : a man should not have to "handle" a woman. A woman is a human being not some wild animal. If she thinks she needs a man that can "handle" her then she is already lost.
lordofchaosrb 2 months ago
Black men don't want STRONG WOMEN, we want feminine women
blac2black 2 months ago
If a black man prefers to be with a white woman, or an Asian woman, or Hispanic woman, or Native American, East Indian, freakin' eskimo...whatever then to blame the man and say that he can't "handle" a "strong black woman", then that's a bit daft. If a woman needs to be "handled" then she doesn't need a man, she needs a therapist.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
i see so many black girls promoting interracial relationship, suddenly, i begin to think when a black women on here at u-tube speaks in favor of black men it got to be some boggiest crap.
cocoaj13 2 months ago
sometimes i believe, blackwomen don't care if a black man dates out. really it doesn't appear to me they care or not care, especially the real good looking ones. another thing, i rarely would see a black woman acting out with anger, when they see a black man with an non black woman
cocoaj13 2 months ago
Wow. Thank you for a breath of sanity.
alkh3myst 2 months ago
HUMBLENESS
jesus7es7dios7 2 months ago
girl stfu and make that booty clap :D
Expendablexxxx 2 months ago
Real Black men should not have to teach a woman to how to be a woman. You should already know how to be a woman on the inside and out. The problem is what society is teaching. Society have to with entertainment like music, movies, the wrong people you allow in your life or anything inspire women to degradedness. Black women may have all the education in the world to stand on her on own two feet. But where they fail a lot of them refuse to understand the basic power within them.
Trust291 2 months ago
Lol who said that I'm a true Nubian & I love strong black women just never met any of them yet?
Caugheez 2 months ago
great video
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LOL Black monkeys think strong = Being a loud mouthed annoying bitch
HaraldHorrendous 2 months ago
Define "strong?"
psykosomatiq 2 months ago
Wow, after trawling through quite a few BW bashing BM videos; i have finally found a jewel amongts the BS!! Sadly some people measure strength as being loud and arrogant, when in fact restraint and how you control yourself is a great measure of strength. It's easy to be bad, but very hard to be good.
Great video sis; and nuff respect!!
TheRedalert7 2 months ago
im about to marry a strong black woman and for my 6 year experience in this relationship. a strong person needs more love and attention because you have to pass trough the defences of a woman to get to her heart. but i still agree with you. its harder to deal with a strong woman
dlptxxx 2 months ago
we can handel them , but would be nice if they would be lower voiced and not so loud just to get attention. IN my experiences its like.. honkey me ( at a cash register) mam can you keep your voice down ? Black woman.. DIS IS RACIST I GOT TO YELL LOUD AS I CAN SO EVERYONE LOOKS AT ME !!!!!!!!!
JDK1981 2 months ago
good point with 'HANDLE' thing
urScorpioLady 2 months ago
stop dating black men who dont love themselves their are plenty of blackmen who love blackwoman stop boxing us in to these stereotypes that society has coined for us rise up stand up black people. couples need to work together as 1 in order to achieve success in a relationship. stop feeding into the hype
2715c 2 months ago
I can!
az097637 2 months ago
Wow! Nicely done.
MrVeesworld 2 months ago
<3 only lord knows how much i agree.
tecmo1 2 months ago
Omg! You get it. You actually get it.
876qscvbn 2 months ago
Excellent analysis! Finally there is hope with thinking beyond colors and stereotypes.
ogsailor 2 months ago
OMG she is right, what are we suppose to handle. So this means I can start punching any women I'am with in the face all the time and be like you have to handle me. She how that sound , why do you have to have a attitude, why do you have to nag about nothing. I tell you what no matter how beatiful Tasha on Tyler Perrys movie Why did I get Married is , I could not be with her its to much, now true dude was fucking around but alot of you be that way and hes not. Its kinda like you want him to.
metubewrx 2 months ago
im with a black woman. and it always seems the only people who give us dirty looks or make nasty comments are ignorant people of both skin colors. ive never had an educated or mature person think negatively of it.
NOCTURNOzombie 2 months ago
Real Talk Video! We need more sisters like u, REAL TALK!
WizzoPro9476 2 months ago 3
@WizzoPro9476 yup. I'm glad someone gets it. unfortunately it's too late. we've moved on to other women. I wish this sister the best though
SoTilted 1 month ago
im white and i find that black women (strong) moan and complain all the time, but i still like to fuck them, i wear earplugs in the day and a condom at night.
SkinGrindCleaver 2 months ago 6
@SkinGrindCleaver REAL TALK!!!!
zhonhenry 2 months ago
black women dont do anythang strong
kambridge967 2 months ago
This is the first time in years I have been attracted to a REAL strong black woman. She is a great example of a true black queen.
masterkudjo 2 months ago
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BLACK PEOPLE STOP IT . I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE ! YOU NO WE LOVE WE EACH OTHER . TIMES ARE GETTING HARD . AND WE BETTER STICK TOGETHER . FOR ALL WE HAVE BEAN THREW . PLEASE DONT TURN ON EACH OTHER . IT WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS HARDER FOR US . WHY DO WE HATE EACH OTHER . WE BEAN THREW SO MUCH . SO MANY PEOPLE LOST THERE LIFE JUST TO SEE YOU HAVE A CHANCE . THEY DIED FOR YOU . ME . ALL OF US ! WHY DO WE PAY THEM BACK WITH DISRESPECT . STOP IT PLEASE . SIT DOWN AND REMEMBER WHO WE ARE ! THINK ....
nizzobeats 2 months ago
THE WORD HANDLE COMES WITH GUN, PETS
thepriceification 2 months ago
You have to ask yourseIf think alot of what BW say and do come from the fact that dad was not in their lives. That male influence to validate you and help your affirm your self worth is huge for women. It just goes to show why the destruction of the black family has dire consequences. elf why would a man want to associate himself with this kind of person?
TheMrProtocol 3 months ago
I just watched your video on why BM can't handle a "strong" BW. You asked to be inboxed. So here goes: I think the word handle means: to gain control over or manage the dangerous behavior of. If this is the case, I think it speaks volumes about the woman a man deals with. You have to handle wild animals, firearms, hostage negotiation because these things if left unchecked can cause injury to those around it.
TheMrProtocol 3 months ago
@TheMrProtocol I know. I don't want to be handled, I want to be loved
nattynattyhair 3 months ago
i just dont want to deal with a ghetto girl that talks like shes poorly educated and cant handle intellectual conversation. i dont need ghetto talk screamed at me with the bitch in my face not even exchanging words. im white and this goes for any race. plus if black guys stop dating black women and move on to other races (as if its a rule) then theyr probably tired of media black stereo types or just found a girl that took interest. i cant stand ghetto stereo type crap.
muaythaijunky 3 months ago
As a black man, Ithink this is one of the most introspective and intelligently done videosI've sen on this subject. Its good tosee someone whocan trulylook objectively at our issues.
redstar7311 3 months ago
what i don't understand is how black women get mad at black men for dating women of other races, but then they turn around and date some person of another race and then get all ghetto if someone says something to them about it. the double standard is ridiculous, people should be allowed to love who they want, whether they be of the same race or not. all this hate and negativity isn't doing anything to help, it's only breeding more ignorance.
darknight2952 3 months ago
Many blackwomen can't deal with a strong blackman, and many brothers know what i'm talking about. We have been trained to work against one another.
nagone11 3 months ago
@nagone11 I totally agree! Thanks for watching and commenting.
kimberlyj98 3 months ago
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@kimberlyj98 Please read my comments concerning "being handled".
TheMrProtocol 3 months ago
@kimberlyj98 You are
1. Beautiful
2. Intelligent
3. Are you single, cause I am a black man looking for a woman like you, shame I live in the uk
cause I was up in the states I would take you to dinner and have a nice talk about love and life xxx
masterkudjo 2 months ago
@nagone11
ceddyvette 2 months ago
@jmillhitmaker So true! Thanks for watching and commenting.
kimberlyj98 3 months ago
I love your hair
mamamucka2 3 months ago
@mamamucka2 Thank you!
kimberlyj98 3 months ago
I think a lot of women forget that maybe a man just wants to enjoy the company of a woman, not necessarily have to "handle" them and add excessive stress to his own life. A woman can bring comfort and joy to a man and make him hers forever. Everyone gets upset, mad, or loud from time to time and sometimes it is not without reason, but when it is a momentarily occurrence over any little thing day after day, it becomes simply tiring and meaningless.
SanamLovesEssie60 3 months ago
Faith knows faith. Thank you for speaking words of wisdom by asking the right questions that lead people to the right answers. Thank you for speaking wisdom, truth and light. My email is danielalex936@gmail.com I am commited to not fixing anyone else's mess. Yes throwing it there like that if you ever wish to email annonymously or not so annonymous.
These women need to take tell it to Jesus and get over themselves.
Great post and I will look forward to viewing some of your others.
idaniel4 3 months ago
I was expecting ignorance like the previous videos I watched tonight, but sweet darling your video contains intelligence and wisdom. I would date you tonight if you lived in my town or vice versa. Not because you are fine cause I see fine everyday, but you spoke intelligently and made sense because you formulated your thoughts, spoke in complete sentences and said so much that I believe is true as a man. You must be a woman of great faith I'm sure.
idaniel4 3 months ago
@idaniel4 Thank you for the compliments and for watching!
kimberlyj98 3 months ago
Good vid! I wish their was more women that felt the same way as you!
LyricalMasterMind1 3 months ago
@LyricalMasterMind1 Thank you!
kimberlyj98 3 months ago
Why don't they make more women like her...lol
27Commonsense 3 months ago