I'm waiting b/c the Bible says we should wait. So, if a guy can't or don't want to wait, then he's not for me! Sorry, go ask someone else. Take care! :)
When I was a nice guy I could wait forever to have sex with a woman I was dating. Now with all the shit I went through with these woman I have a certain time span. If I'm not fucking with in that time period I'm dropping her.
I had sex with my ex girlfriend on the second date and we ended up being in a relationship for 4 years. There's also been a time when I was dating a woman that said she wanted to wait until she got married to have sex. I told her I was fine with that. After 5 months of dating she goes behind my back and has sex with another man. That 90 day rule don't mean shit.
"Easy A" is a cool movie. Guys give Olive gift cards from Gap, Home Depot & other things to lie & say she's done things. One part shows romantic 80s movie scenes. My friends, sisters and I reminice about dating in the 80s. There were movies, concerts, dinner, etc. and honestly not always quick sex. Giving often worked both ways. Not sure, but I think times have changed. Kindness & respect go a long way. There's a book "He's (or she's) just not that into you." Hard to accept but there it is.
The first night!?! Oh that's a skallywag. My thing is.. If you're a hoe, then be a hoe! Make it known, that way there is no confusion. I hate the ones who act like "Good Women" who are really closet hoes. That's when things get complicated. And those are the ones who demand the most respect, got nothing to offer but looks & pussy. Not deserving of shit. Acting like the fresh seafood catch of the day when she's really the 3 day old Thanksgiving leftovers. Relationships are like a dice game.
It is a huge disadvantage for women to make men wait 90 days in my opinion. Men will always search for an easier option, and he usually will find that easier more pratical option.
Thank you lord for making me a man. Women especially black american women have so many problems I could write a book documenting each one. The problems range from Nagging and complaining, to over emotional and high maintenance. That is just the tip of the iceberg. You also have the coniving liars, and manipulators. They love to get married but are the first to divorce and leave. Honestly if they didnt have vaginas i dont think men would have anything to do with them. I am just being a pragmatist
The true problem here is not waiting 90 days. The problem is the primary differences between Man and Woman. In general Women attach their emotions to sex, while Men do not. Thus the need for many women to make a man wait. If she is not emotionally their she is not giving it up.That is all there is to it. A one night stand can be fun but in general i would advice both sides man and woman to avoid it. I have had my share and trust me men it worth the headaches that will soon come afterwards
A man that sleeps with a bunch of women got a bunch of women to say "yes" a woman that sleeps with a bunch of men said "yes" to a bunch of men. A key that unlocks many locks is a valuable key but a lock that is unlocked by many keys is a useless lock. I think this is the mentality behind women being sluts and not men.
The problem in our community is that most women today will give it immediately to any Negro with a little swag - no courtship necessary. I think you said it best that the women who wait are the better women. The others, are basically hoes and they reap what they sow. Sorry. The rule shouldn't be 90 days but when a Negro pulls a ring out of his pocket and has courted her properly with family involvement.
@Phoenixspin I seriously don't get why so many people pretend like any of these "good women" who look decent are still in existence. Just face it, the culture of today is about hooking up and getting what you want, not finding true love. And just about all chicks who are sexually active have put out real quick for atleast ONE guy so a dude who's still trying to follow that court and marry route is a square ass sap out of touch with reality. Swag is what gets you women for better or worst
well 90 days is just a number. However, it is a wiser path to follow if you're someone that thinks sex should only happen if the couple is really compatible and in love. I've dated guys that at first I couldn't wait to have sex with coz obviously I was so infatuated by them, but THANKS GOD I waited! If I had sex in the early stage of dating them i would have regreted it coz they turned out to be the wrong guy for me!
it depends on What I WANT first... the rest is chemistry, her inner honesty, attitude around the sex, and her actions.
Biology dictates women be more prudent with their minds and bodies...Very few women can handle it, but they try anyway out of rebellion...Men can handle banging out hundreds of women and his mind will still be right..he'll grow to be fit mentally and emotionally to be a Great husband...Women know good and well there's no way in Hell..Human history proves that.
First off welcome back Junebug ... well this video has given me a new perspective, I've never had a one-night stand personally but I would judge a woman who does but after listening...who am i to judge? Maybe she likes sex maybe she is open sexually maybe she is confidant, and also if a woman likes you she's not gonna wait 90 days, and nowadays we all have to be careful who we become intimate with, I need to stop thinking its promiscuity and just think if it more as comfortability
90 days is to long..It depends on how often you meeting up as a couple. But I also feel that sex on the first date is to quick..you getting your draws off on the first date, I don't care how good you connect on the first date. the man is a Ho and the girl is a Ho to.. You have to wait until you have a deep enough feeling to have good sex as a couple... Happy New year junebug.
@gerry2345 Men can't be hoes.......there just men who can get pussy and men who can't. When men have the ultimate choosing power that women have when it comes to sex and relationships, then men will be considered sluts.
Good to hear from you Junebug. HAHAHAHA You caught me in a double standard. Men and women should wait until after the wedding. My sister met this guy and on the same day who said if he had a daughter she goes to a Christian college and live like a virgin and if he had a boy he goes to the party college (a double standard). My sister stop talking him after that day. You are on point.
@JunebugObama because there are sooooo many reasons to wait to have sex are you kidding? i realize that the media is always asking and questioning ' is it really better to wait" and pushing the envelope w/ having sex sooner and sooner, and even sooner...how many things can you avoid by not having sex? u can actually get to know the person, u have more self-respect...but maybe this question is for a woman who just wants a boyfriend and not a serious dude to wanna get married. CONT.
@patriciacarrasco CONT. also if u dont lose respect for a woman u slept w/ immediately and u wifed her up...i mean i dont really know what to say about that. maybe there are just too many women like this in the world and u guys dont really have a choice or chance to find a semi-decent woman that u'll take any kind of person. i understand cuz thats how us girls feel. we have to take practically any type of guy cuz there are not a lot of good guys out there
@patriciacarrasco That last part is utter bullshit. There are plenty of good guys around, chicks just aren't attracted to them. Women are the ones who set the standard for how men get pussy so if you all wanted trustworthy, dependable guys you would have them. You get with lame dudes because that's what you like, not because you have no choice.
@reisler45 Steve Harvey is helping women... tell them to wait 90 days not go out there Like i did. And have sex on the first date .And then some ass hole.. put video and pic on the web!! That's will be floating out there forever !! If i had read steve book ...i would have no got pimp!.... i got pimp because i didn't read the book .. Yes i might be dumb but i learn my lesson!!
@youarenotfine Steve Harvey is the laughing stock of every barbershop in my home town. He is making millions off of the book sales telling women what they should know in the first place....SMH
@youarenotfine I want to make sure I got this straight: You had sex with a guy on the first date and allowed him to video tape you? Is that what happened?
@JunebugObama I never knew he was taping me ...He must had a hidden cam !! Until a friend told me he put it on face book!! ...I would never let any guy video tape !! I know it could end up in the wrong hands!! But it was my fault ... I should have not trusted a guy i didn't know ...He got me this time ..But i will never let the happen again !!
@youarenotfine Your very stupid and now every man you meet afterwards is gonna pay for what he did. I don't feel sorry you at all. You must have some low self-esteem to let the dude smash the first night. SMDH.
@mike2frsh I make a mistake I know it was stupid ...you can call me names... but i don't care.... Everybody makes mistakes in the life ...That why i learn from my mistakes ! never to let that happen again.
Wot I've noticed is that women that make me wait usually are less slutty but harder to get on with, and for those women that are in relationships but aint giving it up, I jus don't get it, my opinion is if ur ready for a relationship u should be ready for sex it goes hand in hand.
These men will put your business out there on the web. And once it's out there ..They will never take it off. This dumb ass hole set me up .And now all my friends and family think I am a slut! So wait to you know the ass hole before you let him get some! Men are such dicks!
@gwynplane723 That's why I am on here tell women ...not 2 do the same thing i did! I might be a idiot..but most of men asshole and dicks and then you wonder why women go gay!! ick all you men are all dicks
@gwynplane723 I read some of your comments ...and your telling women to give up ..But i did.... i am a idiot your right..... I should have listen like these other ladies did stop listening to men like. you ...who just want to get laided you don't care about women feels .. you just want the pussy like every other man !!! most men are dicks
@youarenotfine Seriously, go on somewhere with your whiny bitching. If you came here expecting a pity party for the choices YOU made then your wasting your and, more importantly, MY time. And yes, I tell men to look after themselves so women won't take advantage of them. You all just get upset when you get dumped because men beat you at your own game. I generally don't care for how women feel because women definitely aren't caring about how men feel. You either play or get played. Suck it up kid
@gwynplane723 I don't give a rat ass what you think ..you left me a comment i never came to you and said nothing...I really could care less what any man think ...all men who think like that are dicks..Now that all i have to say !!!don't leave me no more comment !!!
@youarenotfine Well, next time it would greatly benefit you to make better choices in men than to sit up and blame men for YOUR mistakes. Be an adult and take responsibility you miserable loser.
I don't think it nothing wrong with waiting to have sex !..I had sex with a guy on the first day .And guess what he never call me back . He went on face book and told friends and posted a video of us having sex .. .So i learn a lesson never f*ck on the first date again .You guy's love to show and tell ! Learn from me ladies never have sex with a guy on the first date!
Happy New Year Junebug! You are funny. Women think sex is all men wants is so overrated. Real men want a serious relationship and her body is just a piece of what she brings to the table. Women especially Christian should wait to wedding night to give it up and it takes a lot of questions and communication and if he wants her that bad he will step and give her the ringt. I think having sex right away for me is a slut or freak
@MrCheater0 The video entitled "Maury Paternity Test - Ghetto Weird Al (Big T)" is hilarious!!!!!! LMAO! That is by far my favorite interracial couple. Who could be against IR relationships after seeing that? LOL! What do you think?
Anyway, I support people dating whomever they want but I often don't agree when people bash their own race to date another.
@JunebugObama = what do you think of women feeling "ugly" IF man does not SHOW PHYSICAL attraction sooner rather than later ?...! (i suspect MOST (!) women would feel this way... )
@alifelesscritic I do let women know that I am physically attracted to them indirectly or directly depending on the situation, the circumstances, and the woman.
In response to your comment, "are you still thinking of an answer for this one?" the answer is NO...I was away from the computer. I don't know if you are aware or not but sometimes I have to work, eat, sleep, etc. I am not on the computer 25/8 responding to comments. If you don't hear from me, it may mean I am busy at the moment.
@alifelesscritic I do let women know that I am physically attracted to them indirectly or directly depending on the situation, the circumstances, and the woman.
In response to your comment, "are you still thinking of an answer for this one?" the answer is NO...I was away from the computer. I don't know if you are aware or not but sometimes I have to work, eat, sleep, etc. I am not on the computer 25/8 responding to comments. If you don't hear from me, it may mean I am busy at the moment.
And men, understand this, a woman knows within under FIVE MINUTES within meeting you rather or not she wants to sleep with you. That's right, women decide very quickly rather or not she wants to fuck you so "waiting" "dating" and all the lame ass romance shit is just a way for her to waste your time because she DOES NOT WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU.
@gwynplane723 I see you are mad at all this girl on her because they want to wait ..lol .I bet you don't get any ass at all ! you are a lose man a fucking lose !you need some pussy bad don't you!! I bet you don't even have a bitch do you .Why do you care about every other man's dick ...Get you some pussy and stop worrying about some other man getting pussy ! LMFAO
All of this waiting means people hide things only longer. Also, consider a man making a woman wait. I consider it great to confuse the woman and her idea of control via sex.
Wow, i rarely disagree with you. I always look forward to your videos and i agree. I don't judge women based on if i have sex with them early or not. I do judge them if they smash the whole team tho *My friends lol*. Its all about connection. However i don't like girls that try to make you wait forever. Me personally i lose interest FAST so i will only wait for so long before i start to question if its even worth it but thats just me. And who really just WAITS. He is fucking other girls neways!
@tyakack You, sir, have alot of sense. I mean, most guys think women who give it up quick are easy but we all know we want sex quick so I don't know why alotta these cats are in here trying to be so boy scoutish with the whole "I think waiting makes it better" route sounding like a bunch of chicks when they know damn well the only thing waiting does is give them blue balls.
@SystemEquation He's the one of the biggest manginas around. He, like Tyler Perry have one thing in common...they throw fellow black men under the bus.
Both..... lol..... its a benefit to the woman that he goes and get's it from...as well as himself...... and a disadvantage to the woman that is making him wait.... cuz now she will be calling him a cheater....... lol
Me <~~~ a girl. Don't think it's necessary to make a guy wait for 90 days. If you are dating a guy and within one or two months you go out several times. You talk on the phone a lot. You really feel you know him, than sooner that 90 days is fine. But, first night chicks are SKANKS. Yuk!
@td9red Agreed. If a woman puts out easily for you, she's already put out easily for a few dozen others. This is particularly true if you hear the stupid lines such as "I don't usually get this intimate this often". That's guilt displacement from her to the man.
@feministsAreCorrupt That's definitely true but to be real frank with you, I'd rather have a chick put out up front than to go through the whole waiting ritual because face it, if chicks these days make you wait it's not because they value their chastity it's because they aren't feeling you. You can rest assure there was a guy who got it far quicker then you did but now that she's "learned" she wants to make you wait. Don't be duped by the "nice girl" routine, it's all honey and lies.
The term is sexual comparability. It is important in ALL relationships. It's definitely an important topic to be aware of. The time frame isn't important at all if it's appropriate given the situation. "Nice" boys shouldn't hook up with skanks and "Bad" boys shouldn't be hooking up with church ladies... And vice versa.
When a woman has sex with me too soon i do see it as a red flag, but not necessarily a deal breaker. I just kinda feel like if she' gave up to me that easy then that means she probably gave it up to 12 other guys just as easy. I'm not naive enough to think that I got it so soon bc i'm special and bc i'm the only guy who has that affect on her.I'll just keep my eyes open, and watch out for any ho'ish tendacys that she may display. It could have just been a one time thing for her, or maybe not.
But, again, the absolute arrogance of women never ceases to amazes me. You mean to tell me that you want me to wait for sex but you've been screwing these other guys in a relatively short time but now that you've gotten to me you want "take your time". Only a fool would be gullible enough to fall for that crap. Again, if no sex happens within three dates or less, move on. This is the world we live in, you either use or get used.
Maybe some guys nowadays are just masochist and like being put through games, but most men lose interest the longer they have to wait to get ass and go through all these teasing games. Women just have this weird notion that the more hoops they can make a man jump the better it will be.
It really kills me how all chicks think guys only want sex. We may want sex initially but after we've slept with you and got over the allure of sex, if we like your personality and you aren't an insufferable bitch we mostly WILL stick around. If no guys wanted anything other sex there wouldn't be so many people getting married.
It's not that hard to figure out ladies, just think.
I... need time to form a connection, sometimes it's a few hours, sometimes a few weeks. But on the first date? I'd get over it, but for a while I'd be kinda looking at her sideways. It's an old fashioned stereotype that nice girls don't fuck on the first date... and to me it'd be just too weird to fuck on the first date. A women who do are usually too ashamed to see that man again anyway.
men brag all the time about how much pussy they have had from women but they never stop to think-A whole lot of men have gotten that women pussy but how many have gotten her money? when you get a woman money thats something to brag about.
I prefer to wait and see if I can get something material off of her first.Pussy is overrated,we men have spent so long putting so much value on a stinky wet whole we have forgotten about the value of our own dick.It's time we men turned the table on these women and start trying to get some money instead of some honey-LOL
But yeah it doesnt really mean she's a slut if she is ready to have sex to soon. The women the might be really attracted to me and really horney at the time way are together lol. I won't waste my time with a woman I don't care for or do trust.
I prefer to wait and see if I can get something material off of her first.Pussy is overrated,we men have spent so long putting so much value on a stinky wet whole we have forgotten about the value of our own dick.It's time we men turned the table on these women and start trying to get some money instead of some honey-LOL
@EmperorKaVeJe You remind me of this personal trainer friend of mine who thinks the same way. Because he has muscles, women throw sex at him but he gets them to sign up for several months of personal training before he has sex with them. He once said to me, "I gotta make some money off of them first....then they can get the sex." LOL! That was the first time I ever heard a man say this.
@EmperorKaVeJe PREACH. I do that shit all the time. Get her to pay for an expensive night out, buy you some nice gifts, maybe even pay off your credit card and then say, "This aint gonna work" and break out. Pussy is great, but I've had lots of different pussy. I'd prefer the cash. Just like these bitches do to men. Chuuurch
I prefer to wait and see if I can get something material off of her first.Pussy is overrated,we men have spent so long putting so much value on a stinky wet whole we have forgotten about the value of our own dick.It's time we men turned the table on these women and start trying to get some money instead of some honey-LOL
There are so many many easy ass women out here lmao. Who really has to wait any more? I met lots of girl who gives it up in 90 mins or so. Every since high school I had girls calling me up for sex and throwing their self at me even if I had a girl or not. It sames to be way to easy and no challenge now days. I would wait 2 to 4 weeks at the most lol. I don't think I would want to wait much longer then that.
Funny thing about women who make you wait......they usually have no skills in bed.I wish i could find a good girl with whore skills.Does that even exist?
@JunebugObama Yeah that might work.....If there is a whore side.For some women it's just not there.Sometimes you can't teach an old dog new tricks.lol
@59westfederal Good one. Most of the prudes just lay there and make the man do the sex work, which it 45 minutes of pleasing the woman with foreplay followed by 5-10 minutes of physical exertion pleasing himself with her boy. These women are easilyl displaced by HD porn. Just wait to see what happens with 83" OLED TVs and 4k resolution porn. There is no way a "good girl" with no intention of putting in sex work will compete with 3D porn and a lubed hole in a doll.
@feministsAreCorrupt Those type of women could not be with a guy who grew up watching porn.That lay there (try not to make a sound) attitude would never work.Then they wonder why men cheat.Once you have experienced a freak you can never go back.
@59westfederal "Those type of women could not be with a guy who grew up watching porn."
Agreed. The truth is that porn is better and cheaper than those women that offer only a wet hole and take complete advantage of the male libido. Young guys don't know any better, but also, porn just gets better year after year.
@feministsAreCorrupt Let's face it, men have the advantage in this day and age if they just use a little sense and game to get what they want. Forget what they say in the name of religion or "morals", making a man wait is nothing more than manipulation. Many guys aren't aware that chicks will brag with their friends about how long they make men go on dates without getting any. Trust me, if she's forthcoming with the pussy it IS better than waiting because atleast you know she's into you.
One might say that I'll have less respect for the girl if she sleeps with me too quickly but, quite frankly, I'm not gonna think very highly of her if I wait either because 9 times out of 10 she's given it up sooner to another guy while she's making me wait and I don't find that respectful, I find it insulting. If you're not a virgin and done already thrown the pussy around here and there the whole "I respect myself" ship has sailed so stop pretending to be something you're not.
@gwynplane723 Modern girls dating a decent guy don't realize that while the guy patiently waits, he is also sampling pussy of the past. I don't mind if the ladies wait if parallel action is ready and waiting.
I am so tired of men thinking that b/c a woman has had sex before she NEEDS to give him pussy. You aren't entitled to some just b/c she gave it to someone else. Idk about other women, but for myself it is better for me to wait. I catch feelings very quickly especially if I'm having sex and don't think clearly and men don't really have that issue. There are some relationships I could've avoided if I'd waited to have sex. It's not ridiculous to not have had sex in 3 dates either.
@sansvirgin The arrogance of women never ceases to amaze me. Seriously, what kind of message do you think it sends out to the man if you're making him wait and go out on date after date and yet some other clown got that shit without doing all of that? That's not gonna project that you're being "chaste" it just means that you think he's a corny ass fool that you can string along. You don't NEED give him the pussy but if you aren't going to he doesn't NEED stick around your selfish ass.
@gwynplane723 Who said that some other got the ass with doing that? Maybe a girl did that and learned from her mistakes. She doesn't want to be in that type of situation again. It's not being arrogant to not give pussy to someone b/c you don't want your feelings hurt again. It's stupid to the same thing expecting a different result. Been there done that. If I don't give him pussy and that's what he's there for by all means PLEASE LEAVE.
@sansvirgin Oooh boo hoo hoo. A man's got to look after his own interest and subjecting himself to some chick's mind games isn't condusive to getting what he wants. ALL men want ass, the only reason they do all that romance stuff that women like is so they can get laid. So now if you call yourself trying be so virginal then do that with some dude who doesn't have any game and can't see that he's being duped. It's not my problem you made a mistake, if you aren't giving ass then keep it moving.
@gwynplane723 "It really kills me how all chicks think guys only want sex" "ALL men want ass, the only reason they do all that romance stuff that women like is so they can get laid" Didn't you contradict yourself?
@rep5281 Nope.....men do want sex INITIALLY. But that's not all we want, but all that romance stuff we go through is to get sex. If men didn't want anything else but sex no men would be getting married. Men just stop fooling with women they fuck because after sex they finally start hearing what she says and they got turned off.....
@gwynplane723 Look after your own interest, I'm looking after my own. There are some girls who play mind games just like guys do. No one said anything about being virginal, I said not being stupid and getting my feelings hurt. I'm trying to protect myself, I'm not worried about some dude who doesn't feel like waiting or care about me or my feelings, move on and get ass from someone else. Idc about their opinion or YOURS.
@sansvirgin Well, good for you, my whole point is, abiding by that advice isn't advantageous FOR MEN. Quite naturally it would favor women because it gives women something to dangle over men's head but luckily there are enough loose women around these days that men have greater power in how much shit they're willing to take to get some ass. Waiting grants absolutely NO benefits to men whatsoever......Personally, I think men who advocate that whole "wait" shit are a bunch of pussies.
@gwynplane723 "Seriously, what kind of message do you think it sends out to the man if you're making him wait and go out on date after date"
The message is that this pussy costs much more, and there are many bored girls just looking to use their femininity to gain some expensive yet free dinners.
@JunebugObama My question is: WHERE are the women that WANT to wait at!? LOL! I've been stepped to, [and more than a few times I might add] by women who don't even no English. Huh!? Exactly how would that work? I don't know about any other guy, but I need a sense of self-respect in my world. We know a lot of guys say: "I'm just being a Man." Yeah well, ...so was Magic Johnson. I'm not about to start popping 60+ HIV or STD pills a day because I'm ASSuming I know what manhood is all about.
@gentleall The women who want to wait are a dying breed. That's why Steve Harvey wrote a book telling them to wait 90 days. Traditional values are becoming a thing of the past but there are still a few women out here who share your beliefs.
And just to add most women not all but most of them just don't know men that's why they get with guys thinking he's cool a good guy but miss all of his signs and then after that they say wr are all dogs and no good we as men will show you who we are all they have to do is pay attention
Hay wasup junebugobama i like the video! But ii will say i agree with you i think its all about the Energy and how you feel about that person that 90 day rule is for women that just don't know men and there is a lot of them i have had sex with girls within days of meeting and within weeks we as men all know what a jump off woman looks and sounds like that's no Surprise
@86Deant WHY do you have a girl friend who won't have sex with you after two years? You must send me an email and tell me what the story is behind that.
@86Deant---she's saving herself for someone she really wants. she only has you around as a long-term rebound guy. a sexless relationship is a friendship. you're a friend. not even one with benefits. get your balls back and DTB---Dump That Broad.
@iloveyoekiddox3---yes, a sexless relationship is a friendship. any self-respecting man who refuses to to be stuck in a 'no-action' zone moves on to find what they want. life is too short to settle. never sign up for what u don't want.
@iloveyoekiddox3---the manipulative women in question that string dudes along aren't saints as far as feelings r considered. it's best for dudes to identify those types and steer clear. men with self-respect would never let such those types lead them by the nose in circles. being objective about this matter--not emotional, doing what has to be done, serves to strengthen self-esteem and self-worth. tough love is the difference between men and tender-hearted boys.
@dariusdise What if the woman states right from the start of the RELATIONSHIP that there will be no sex and the man in question says this is fine? There are actually guys out there that are fine with that (few of them though)..And who said anything about any woman being manipulative? Not I. Nor did I say that manipulative women r saints.I have no idea where you got that from or why you even mention it."Doing what has to be done" what do you mean?...
@iloveyoekiddox3--Women who say no sex and the dudes who agree have no self-esteem. Logical-thinking men with rational thought pass these women over. As soon as u mentioned 'gross generalization' i countered that concept with bringing up who are subject to what i mentioned as generally true---about manipulative women, which is also in the vid. Doing what has to be done---there's no one or nothing i can't walk away from in 30 sec or less when i know it's time to
@dariusdise You're making a gross generalization again! You can't speak for ALL men. You are just one of them and a very close minded one u seem indeed! It's all about what you're looking for in a relationship and you can't speak for all men, there is always going to be another male out there who wants something different and putting a label on their self esteem based on a choice in a relationship when you don't even know the person...well I just think its a load of BS,
@iloveyoekiddox3--Of course what u think I'm saying is a load os BS--because what I'm saying is a wake up call for ALL men who aren't aware this enlightenment. When ALL men begin to look at relationships in the manner of a cost/benefit analysis instead of a wishful hope---1/2 of all restaurants that depend on suckers would go out of business. And when men weigh their self-worth and self-esteem they can measure their self-respect
@iloveyoekiddox3--Generalizations...if what I'm saying is a general statement about what is generally true then what is your argument really? Exceptions don't make the rule of the common sense I speak. What I say already checks out as common sense to AWARE and WISE men who can't be duped or manipulated. Of course there's other men who don't know any better.
@iloveyoekiddox3---This video hits the nail on the head; what is the benefit for a dude to wait 90 days??? The common sense I add…it lines up with it. If you're offended by it or think you're an exception to the rule of the enlightenment that's found on this thread when men come together and agree--then you're on the wrong vid
@dariusdise@dariusdise You do not speak "generally" though really that's what I mean it's GROSS...you use/d statements. Go back and read what you put. Gosh. Really?! - Cuz I didnt even listen to the damn video...I be trollin' like the manipulative woman I really am ;) Cuz I just love leading men by the noose in circles and such lmao...Duh - thanks for participating /rolls eyes
@dariusdise .... I agree if the man does want sex and the communication has broken down/wasn't there to start with he will move on because he will/constantly feel lead-on.
ALRIGHT ALRIGHT, I use to be that girl with a high sex drive..still am. I've just been through situations where I actually liked the guy,made him wait a month and everything switched up quick. I even dated a guy who wanted to make ME wait "because he liked me" after all the while in my mind it was just sex but after several disappointments, I realized the severity of it. a nut can change it all, I decided to be celibate. Not until marriage but until someone really commits to me.
@badmammajamma8 thats why i'm still a virgin. i want a really nice lady. one who will want commitment & such. not affraid of marriage. as its the start of something wonderful not an ending. thanks for sharing your thoughts :)
@panicman10 thts a fact.... I was dating a girl tht gave it to me the 3rd day im not judgemental so I ended up been in a one year relationship with her just to find out her nasty ways before I met her she was single for 4 months after a 5 years relationshipip
Let's be real, folks. The sole reason us guys ask women out is to eventually have sex with them; THAT'S IT. But since there is such a stigma put on women not to have sex until after the 346,635th date, we have to put on this facade of taking them out to the mall, to the movies, and every play featuring Madea in order to make it look as if there is more to it than that. I don't know about you guys but when I go out with a woman, my sole purpose is to get laid, not to talk or just hang out...
I'm just fine with a woman fucking on the 1st night. And for those chicks who do that 90 day bullshit, I'm fine with that too. As long as they are fine with me not considering it a relationship for about a year.
I agree. They can try the 90-day plan with me all they want to. Just understand that the second after she tells me goodnight, I'll be on the phone with another chick who will be glad to do the heavy lifting. Life is too short for shit like that...
I don't think of women as being a slut for having sex on the first date cuz I've always continued to date her afterwards.but if she goes off and dates other guys and has sex and then months later wants to sleep with me.naw I would look at her different and not take her serious.
hmmmm..extremely informative imposingly thought provoking..!
rbeeyswan 2 days ago
I'm waiting b/c the Bible says we should wait. So, if a guy can't or don't want to wait, then he's not for me! Sorry, go ask someone else. Take care! :)
EricaYE6 1 week ago
@EricaYE6 And that's waiting for MARRIAGE. Not some "90 day" jibberish.
EricaYE6 1 week ago
When I was a nice guy I could wait forever to have sex with a woman I was dating. Now with all the shit I went through with these woman I have a certain time span. If I'm not fucking with in that time period I'm dropping her.
e84fresh 2 weeks ago
I had sex with my ex girlfriend on the second date and we ended up being in a relationship for 4 years. There's also been a time when I was dating a woman that said she wanted to wait until she got married to have sex. I told her I was fine with that. After 5 months of dating she goes behind my back and has sex with another man. That 90 day rule don't mean shit.
e84fresh 2 weeks ago
@flyguy6225
dam bru you ready to go for broke on a chick? since u believw in trickin off your cash like that I can introduce u to some of my hoes!-LOL
EmperorKaVeJe 3 weeks ago
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dariusdise 1 month ago
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dariusdise 1 month ago
"Easy A" is a cool movie. Guys give Olive gift cards from Gap, Home Depot & other things to lie & say she's done things. One part shows romantic 80s movie scenes. My friends, sisters and I reminice about dating in the 80s. There were movies, concerts, dinner, etc. and honestly not always quick sex. Giving often worked both ways. Not sure, but I think times have changed. Kindness & respect go a long way. There's a book "He's (or she's) just not that into you." Hard to accept but there it is.
MsDreamscaper 1 month ago
@MsDreamscaper Yeah, I like that movie. Emma Stone is cute.
marianasreality 3 weeks ago
The first night!?! Oh that's a skallywag. My thing is.. If you're a hoe, then be a hoe! Make it known, that way there is no confusion. I hate the ones who act like "Good Women" who are really closet hoes. That's when things get complicated. And those are the ones who demand the most respect, got nothing to offer but looks & pussy. Not deserving of shit. Acting like the fresh seafood catch of the day when she's really the 3 day old Thanksgiving leftovers. Relationships are like a dice game.
FRESHCOOLAIDE 1 month ago
@FRESHCOOLAIDE Say bruh that's real talk right there!!
flyguy6225 3 weeks ago
It is a huge disadvantage for women to make men wait 90 days in my opinion. Men will always search for an easier option, and he usually will find that easier more pratical option.
kilahchris 1 month ago
Thank you lord for making me a man. Women especially black american women have so many problems I could write a book documenting each one. The problems range from Nagging and complaining, to over emotional and high maintenance. That is just the tip of the iceberg. You also have the coniving liars, and manipulators. They love to get married but are the first to divorce and leave. Honestly if they didnt have vaginas i dont think men would have anything to do with them. I am just being a pragmatist
kilahchris 1 month ago
The true problem here is not waiting 90 days. The problem is the primary differences between Man and Woman. In general Women attach their emotions to sex, while Men do not. Thus the need for many women to make a man wait. If she is not emotionally their she is not giving it up.That is all there is to it. A one night stand can be fun but in general i would advice both sides man and woman to avoid it. I have had my share and trust me men it worth the headaches that will soon come afterwards
kilahchris 1 month ago
Woman make ugly sugar daddies wait. They jump stud's bones 1st day.
mba2ceo 1 month ago
I would not wait for sex ... unless she is sugar mamma.
mba2ceo 1 month ago
A man that sleeps with a bunch of women got a bunch of women to say "yes" a woman that sleeps with a bunch of men said "yes" to a bunch of men. A key that unlocks many locks is a valuable key but a lock that is unlocked by many keys is a useless lock. I think this is the mentality behind women being sluts and not men.
Popadibs 1 month ago
Nice break down and showing both sides to the story for all these women who blame all their problems on men.
harr77 1 month ago
@youarenotfine Women sre such cunts.
rep5281 1 month ago
The problem in our community is that most women today will give it immediately to any Negro with a little swag - no courtship necessary. I think you said it best that the women who wait are the better women. The others, are basically hoes and they reap what they sow. Sorry. The rule shouldn't be 90 days but when a Negro pulls a ring out of his pocket and has courted her properly with family involvement.
Phoenixspin 1 month ago
@Phoenixspin I seriously don't get why so many people pretend like any of these "good women" who look decent are still in existence. Just face it, the culture of today is about hooking up and getting what you want, not finding true love. And just about all chicks who are sexually active have put out real quick for atleast ONE guy so a dude who's still trying to follow that court and marry route is a square ass sap out of touch with reality. Swag is what gets you women for better or worst
gwynplane723 1 month ago
well 90 days is just a number. However, it is a wiser path to follow if you're someone that thinks sex should only happen if the couple is really compatible and in love. I've dated guys that at first I couldn't wait to have sex with coz obviously I was so infatuated by them, but THANKS GOD I waited! If I had sex in the early stage of dating them i would have regreted it coz they turned out to be the wrong guy for me!
eatme00o00 1 month ago
What 90 days lol
Help136 1 month ago
it depends on What I WANT first... the rest is chemistry, her inner honesty, attitude around the sex, and her actions.
Biology dictates women be more prudent with their minds and bodies...Very few women can handle it, but they try anyway out of rebellion...Men can handle banging out hundreds of women and his mind will still be right..he'll grow to be fit mentally and emotionally to be a Great husband...Women know good and well there's no way in Hell..Human history proves that.
sadelover100 1 month ago
First off welcome back Junebug ... well this video has given me a new perspective, I've never had a one-night stand personally but I would judge a woman who does but after listening...who am i to judge? Maybe she likes sex maybe she is open sexually maybe she is confidant, and also if a woman likes you she's not gonna wait 90 days, and nowadays we all have to be careful who we become intimate with, I need to stop thinking its promiscuity and just think if it more as comfortability
JconChicago2007 1 month ago
Great video I'm in college and everything is sex sex sex I'm glad u made a point to shout out to conservative women.
jaztashtictv 1 month ago
90 days is to long..It depends on how often you meeting up as a couple. But I also feel that sex on the first date is to quick..you getting your draws off on the first date, I don't care how good you connect on the first date. the man is a Ho and the girl is a Ho to.. You have to wait until you have a deep enough feeling to have good sex as a couple... Happy New year junebug.
gerry2345 1 month ago
@gerry2345 Men can't be hoes.......there just men who can get pussy and men who can't. When men have the ultimate choosing power that women have when it comes to sex and relationships, then men will be considered sluts.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 ...I don't think Hugh Hefner was ever complaining...
gerry2345 1 month ago
Hell i'm glad your back to making videos for the new year. . . you still have a lot of knowledge i need to soak up. . . good job Junebug
pimpinnevaslipin 1 month ago
Good to hear from you Junebug. HAHAHAHA You caught me in a double standard. Men and women should wait until after the wedding. My sister met this guy and on the same day who said if he had a daughter she goes to a Christian college and live like a virgin and if he had a boy he goes to the party college (a double standard). My sister stop talking him after that day. You are on point.
21sttnmemphis 1 month ago
this is sad that this this video should even be made and question asked
patriciacarrasco 1 month ago
@patriciacarrasco What makes it sad? Explain.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama because there are sooooo many reasons to wait to have sex are you kidding? i realize that the media is always asking and questioning ' is it really better to wait" and pushing the envelope w/ having sex sooner and sooner, and even sooner...how many things can you avoid by not having sex? u can actually get to know the person, u have more self-respect...but maybe this question is for a woman who just wants a boyfriend and not a serious dude to wanna get married. CONT.
patriciacarrasco 1 month ago
@patriciacarrasco CONT. also if u dont lose respect for a woman u slept w/ immediately and u wifed her up...i mean i dont really know what to say about that. maybe there are just too many women like this in the world and u guys dont really have a choice or chance to find a semi-decent woman that u'll take any kind of person. i understand cuz thats how us girls feel. we have to take practically any type of guy cuz there are not a lot of good guys out there
patriciacarrasco 1 month ago
@patriciacarrasco That last part is utter bullshit. There are plenty of good guys around, chicks just aren't attracted to them. Women are the ones who set the standard for how men get pussy so if you all wanted trustworthy, dependable guys you would have them. You get with lame dudes because that's what you like, not because you have no choice.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
Steve Harvey is pimping these dumb women......it is plain and simple.
reisler45 1 month ago
@reisler45 Steve Harvey is helping women... tell them to wait 90 days not go out there Like i did. And have sex on the first date .And then some ass hole.. put video and pic on the web!! That's will be floating out there forever !! If i had read steve book ...i would have no got pimp!.... i got pimp because i didn't read the book .. Yes i might be dumb but i learn my lesson!!
youarenotfine 1 month ago
@youarenotfine Steve Harvey is the laughing stock of every barbershop in my home town. He is making millions off of the book sales telling women what they should know in the first place....SMH
reisler45 1 month ago
@reisler45 I really don't know a lot about him ... just that he had a show in 90s and made a book !! You might be right .
youarenotfine 1 month ago
@youarenotfine I want to make sure I got this straight: You had sex with a guy on the first date and allowed him to video tape you? Is that what happened?
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama I never knew he was taping me ...He must had a hidden cam !! Until a friend told me he put it on face book!! ...I would never let any guy video tape !! I know it could end up in the wrong hands!! But it was my fault ... I should have not trusted a guy i didn't know ...He got me this time ..But i will never let the happen again !!
youarenotfine 1 month ago
@youarenotfine Your very stupid and now every man you meet afterwards is gonna pay for what he did. I don't feel sorry you at all. You must have some low self-esteem to let the dude smash the first night. SMDH.
mike2frsh 1 month ago
@mike2frsh I make a mistake I know it was stupid ...you can call me names... but i don't care.... Everybody makes mistakes in the life ...That why i learn from my mistakes ! never to let that happen again.
youarenotfine 1 month ago
Wot I've noticed is that women that make me wait usually are less slutty but harder to get on with, and for those women that are in relationships but aint giving it up, I jus don't get it, my opinion is if ur ready for a relationship u should be ready for sex it goes hand in hand.
thecirclemovement 1 month ago
These men will put your business out there on the web. And once it's out there ..They will never take it off. This dumb ass hole set me up .And now all my friends and family think I am a slut! So wait to you know the ass hole before you let him get some! Men are such dicks!
youarenotfine 1 month ago
@youarenotfine Tough, you should've made better choices. It's not men's fault you're a gullible idiot.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 That's why I am on here tell women ...not 2 do the same thing i did! I might be a idiot..but most of men asshole and dicks and then you wonder why women go gay!! ick all you men are all dicks
youarenotfine 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 I read some of your comments ...and your telling women to give up ..But i did.... i am a idiot your right..... I should have listen like these other ladies did stop listening to men like. you ...who just want to get laided you don't care about women feels .. you just want the pussy like every other man !!! most men are dicks
youarenotfine 1 month ago
@youarenotfine Seriously, go on somewhere with your whiny bitching. If you came here expecting a pity party for the choices YOU made then your wasting your and, more importantly, MY time. And yes, I tell men to look after themselves so women won't take advantage of them. You all just get upset when you get dumped because men beat you at your own game. I generally don't care for how women feel because women definitely aren't caring about how men feel. You either play or get played. Suck it up kid
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 I don't give a rat ass what you think ..you left me a comment i never came to you and said nothing...I really could care less what any man think ...all men who think like that are dicks..Now that all i have to say !!!don't leave me no more comment !!!
youarenotfine 1 month ago
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gwynplane723 1 month ago
@youarenotfine Well, next time it would greatly benefit you to make better choices in men than to sit up and blame men for YOUR mistakes. Be an adult and take responsibility you miserable loser.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
I don't think it nothing wrong with waiting to have sex !..I had sex with a guy on the first day .And guess what he never call me back . He went on face book and told friends and posted a video of us having sex .. .So i learn a lesson never f*ck on the first date again .You guy's love to show and tell ! Learn from me ladies never have sex with a guy on the first date!
youarenotfine 1 month ago 3
Happy New Year Junebug! You are funny. Women think sex is all men wants is so overrated. Real men want a serious relationship and her body is just a piece of what she brings to the table. Women especially Christian should wait to wedding night to give it up and it takes a lot of questions and communication and if he wants her that bad he will step and give her the ringt. I think having sex right away for me is a slut or freak
21sttnmemphis 1 month ago
@21sttnmemphis Happy New Year my friend and thanks for stopping by. Are you saying women and men should wait until the wedding night or just women?
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama hey im a new subscriber and im wondering whats ur take on interracial relationships
MrCheater0 1 month ago
@MrCheater0 The video entitled "Maury Paternity Test - Ghetto Weird Al (Big T)" is hilarious!!!!!! LMAO! That is by far my favorite interracial couple. Who could be against IR relationships after seeing that? LOL! What do you think?
Anyway, I support people dating whomever they want but I often don't agree when people bash their own race to date another.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama u did not respond to ME ...! = not cool.
alifelesscritic 1 month ago
@alifelesscritic Where is your comment? I have scrolled these comments and I don't see a comment from you.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama the way it is set up -even i can not find it : (
alifelesscritic 1 month ago
@alifelesscritic Maybe it didn't post. You Tube is full of malfunctions. Write the comment here again. Share your thoughts and I will respond.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama = what do you think of women feeling "ugly" IF man does not SHOW PHYSICAL attraction sooner rather than later ?...! (i suspect MOST (!) women would feel this way... )
alifelesscritic 1 month ago
@alifelesscritic I don't know if most women feel "ugly" because of that but the ones who are insecure most definitely do feel that way.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama do YOU not feel the "OBLIGATION" tho STATE physical attractivness towards potencial mate(s)... ? !!
alifelesscritic 1 month ago
@alifelesscritic are you still thinking of answer for this one ?
alifelesscritic 1 month ago
@alifelesscritic I do let women know that I am physically attracted to them indirectly or directly depending on the situation, the circumstances, and the woman.
In response to your comment, "are you still thinking of an answer for this one?" the answer is NO...I was away from the computer. I don't know if you are aware or not but sometimes I have to work, eat, sleep, etc. I am not on the computer 25/8 responding to comments. If you don't hear from me, it may mean I am busy at the moment.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@alifelesscritic I do let women know that I am physically attracted to them indirectly or directly depending on the situation, the circumstances, and the woman.
In response to your comment, "are you still thinking of an answer for this one?" the answer is NO...I was away from the computer. I don't know if you are aware or not but sometimes I have to work, eat, sleep, etc. I am not on the computer 25/8 responding to comments. If you don't hear from me, it may mean I am busy at the moment.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
And men, understand this, a woman knows within under FIVE MINUTES within meeting you rather or not she wants to sleep with you. That's right, women decide very quickly rather or not she wants to fuck you so "waiting" "dating" and all the lame ass romance shit is just a way for her to waste your time because she DOES NOT WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 I see you are mad at all this girl on her because they want to wait ..lol .I bet you don't get any ass at all ! you are a lose man a fucking lose !you need some pussy bad don't you!! I bet you don't even have a bitch do you .Why do you care about every other man's dick ...Get you some pussy and stop worrying about some other man getting pussy ! LMFAO
bubblewonder1 1 month ago
@bubblewonder1 My apologies, but I don't argue with fools. Thank you for understanding
gwynplane723 1 month ago
All of this waiting means people hide things only longer. Also, consider a man making a woman wait. I consider it great to confuse the woman and her idea of control via sex.
siggyboss 1 month ago
Also i love the 900day rule haha!!!
tyakack 1 month ago
Wow, i rarely disagree with you. I always look forward to your videos and i agree. I don't judge women based on if i have sex with them early or not. I do judge them if they smash the whole team tho *My friends lol*. Its all about connection. However i don't like girls that try to make you wait forever. Me personally i lose interest FAST so i will only wait for so long before i start to question if its even worth it but thats just me. And who really just WAITS. He is fucking other girls neways!
tyakack 1 month ago
@tyakack You, sir, have alot of sense. I mean, most guys think women who give it up quick are easy but we all know we want sex quick so I don't know why alotta these cats are in here trying to be so boy scoutish with the whole "I think waiting makes it better" route sounding like a bunch of chicks when they know damn well the only thing waiting does is give them blue balls.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
Steve Harvey is a dipshit kissing ass to women.
How about "Think like a MAN. Act like a MAN."
SystemEquation 1 month ago
@SystemEquation He's the one of the biggest manginas around. He, like Tyler Perry have one thing in common...they throw fellow black men under the bus.
DeadSleepers 1 month ago
Both..... lol..... its a benefit to the woman that he goes and get's it from...as well as himself...... and a disadvantage to the woman that is making him wait.... cuz now she will be calling him a cheater....... lol
lovie2000 1 month ago
@lovie2000 LOL! I guess you're right because he's probably getting it from somewhere else if she's holding out.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
Me <~~~ a girl. Don't think it's necessary to make a guy wait for 90 days. If you are dating a guy and within one or two months you go out several times. You talk on the phone a lot. You really feel you know him, than sooner that 90 days is fine. But, first night chicks are SKANKS. Yuk!
td9red 1 month ago
@td9red Agreed. If a woman puts out easily for you, she's already put out easily for a few dozen others. This is particularly true if you hear the stupid lines such as "I don't usually get this intimate this often". That's guilt displacement from her to the man.
feministsAreCorrupt 1 month ago
@feministsAreCorrupt That's definitely true but to be real frank with you, I'd rather have a chick put out up front than to go through the whole waiting ritual because face it, if chicks these days make you wait it's not because they value their chastity it's because they aren't feeling you. You can rest assure there was a guy who got it far quicker then you did but now that she's "learned" she wants to make you wait. Don't be duped by the "nice girl" routine, it's all honey and lies.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
The term is sexual comparability. It is important in ALL relationships. It's definitely an important topic to be aware of. The time frame isn't important at all if it's appropriate given the situation. "Nice" boys shouldn't hook up with skanks and "Bad" boys shouldn't be hooking up with church ladies... And vice versa.
BikerBry 1 month ago
@BikerBry But why do church ladies like bad boys?
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 - You missed the point
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sweetsface 1 month ago
When a woman has sex with me too soon i do see it as a red flag, but not necessarily a deal breaker. I just kinda feel like if she' gave up to me that easy then that means she probably gave it up to 12 other guys just as easy. I'm not naive enough to think that I got it so soon bc i'm special and bc i'm the only guy who has that affect on her.I'll just keep my eyes open, and watch out for any ho'ish tendacys that she may display. It could have just been a one time thing for her, or maybe not.
ericbellows 1 month ago
@ericbellows I agree if she give it up to quick she probably do that with every guys she meets....
sweetsface 1 month ago
But, again, the absolute arrogance of women never ceases to amazes me. You mean to tell me that you want me to wait for sex but you've been screwing these other guys in a relatively short time but now that you've gotten to me you want "take your time". Only a fool would be gullible enough to fall for that crap. Again, if no sex happens within three dates or less, move on. This is the world we live in, you either use or get used.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
Maybe some guys nowadays are just masochist and like being put through games, but most men lose interest the longer they have to wait to get ass and go through all these teasing games. Women just have this weird notion that the more hoops they can make a man jump the better it will be.
Not true ladies and gentlemen.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
It really kills me how all chicks think guys only want sex. We may want sex initially but after we've slept with you and got over the allure of sex, if we like your personality and you aren't an insufferable bitch we mostly WILL stick around. If no guys wanted anything other sex there wouldn't be so many people getting married.
It's not that hard to figure out ladies, just think.
gwynplane723 1 month ago 3
I... need time to form a connection, sometimes it's a few hours, sometimes a few weeks. But on the first date? I'd get over it, but for a while I'd be kinda looking at her sideways. It's an old fashioned stereotype that nice girls don't fuck on the first date... and to me it'd be just too weird to fuck on the first date. A women who do are usually too ashamed to see that man again anyway.
thedavecorp 1 month ago
@JunebugObama
men brag all the time about how much pussy they have had from women but they never stop to think-A whole lot of men have gotten that women pussy but how many have gotten her money? when you get a woman money thats something to brag about.
EmperorKaVeJe 1 month ago
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@JunebugObama
I prefer to wait and see if I can get something material off of her first.Pussy is overrated,we men have spent so long putting so much value on a stinky wet whole we have forgotten about the value of our own dick.It's time we men turned the table on these women and start trying to get some money instead of some honey-LOL
EmperorKaVeJe 1 month ago
@EmperorKaVeJe Hahahaha you must be one of those broke brotha's! Can't man up and hold it down for yourself! Shameful and effeminate!
flyguy6225 3 weeks ago
But yeah it doesnt really mean she's a slut if she is ready to have sex to soon. The women the might be really attracted to me and really horney at the time way are together lol. I won't waste my time with a woman I don't care for or do trust.
MrJohneblaze82 1 month ago
@JunebugObama
I prefer to wait and see if I can get something material off of her first.Pussy is overrated,we men have spent so long putting so much value on a stinky wet whole we have forgotten about the value of our own dick.It's time we men turned the table on these women and start trying to get some money instead of some honey-LOL
EmperorKaVeJe 1 month ago
@EmperorKaVeJe You remind me of this personal trainer friend of mine who thinks the same way. Because he has muscles, women throw sex at him but he gets them to sign up for several months of personal training before he has sex with them. He once said to me, "I gotta make some money off of them first....then they can get the sex." LOL! That was the first time I ever heard a man say this.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama Tell your friend, men everywhere are proud of him.
rep5281 1 month ago
@EmperorKaVeJe lmao i love this comment man!!! I do the same shit haha! Fuck pussy wheres the money? Ctfu !
tyakack 1 month ago
@EmperorKaVeJe PREACH. I do that shit all the time. Get her to pay for an expensive night out, buy you some nice gifts, maybe even pay off your credit card and then say, "This aint gonna work" and break out. Pussy is great, but I've had lots of different pussy. I'd prefer the cash. Just like these bitches do to men. Chuuurch
Vergadoce 1 month ago
@JunebugObama
I prefer to wait and see if I can get something material off of her first.Pussy is overrated,we men have spent so long putting so much value on a stinky wet whole we have forgotten about the value of our own dick.It's time we men turned the table on these women and start trying to get some money instead of some honey-LOL
EmperorKaVeJe 1 month ago
There are so many many easy ass women out here lmao. Who really has to wait any more? I met lots of girl who gives it up in 90 mins or so. Every since high school I had girls calling me up for sex and throwing their self at me even if I had a girl or not. It sames to be way to easy and no challenge now days. I would wait 2 to 4 weeks at the most lol. I don't think I would want to wait much longer then that.
MrJohneblaze82 1 month ago
Funny thing about women who make you wait......they usually have no skills in bed.I wish i could find a good girl with whore skills.Does that even exist?
59westfederal 1 month ago 3
@59westfederal You have to teach the good girl and bring the whore side of them out.
JunebugObama 1 month ago 2
how would you know?
iloveyoekiddox3 1 month ago
@JunebugObama Yeah that might work.....If there is a whore side.For some women it's just not there.Sometimes you can't teach an old dog new tricks.lol
59westfederal 1 month ago
@JunebugObama I hear that. I married a good girl and I taught her to bring the whore side out. And boy did it come out! I have my hands full.
SystemEquation 1 month ago
@SystemEquation Can I give your whore a test run? I'm an vaginal evaluator but need to sample the goods to get an accurate reading.
Vergadoce 1 month ago
@59westfederal Good one. Most of the prudes just lay there and make the man do the sex work, which it 45 minutes of pleasing the woman with foreplay followed by 5-10 minutes of physical exertion pleasing himself with her boy. These women are easilyl displaced by HD porn. Just wait to see what happens with 83" OLED TVs and 4k resolution porn. There is no way a "good girl" with no intention of putting in sex work will compete with 3D porn and a lubed hole in a doll.
feministsAreCorrupt 1 month ago
@feministsAreCorrupt Those type of women could not be with a guy who grew up watching porn.That lay there (try not to make a sound) attitude would never work.Then they wonder why men cheat.Once you have experienced a freak you can never go back.
59westfederal 1 month ago
@59westfederal "Those type of women could not be with a guy who grew up watching porn."
Agreed. The truth is that porn is better and cheaper than those women that offer only a wet hole and take complete advantage of the male libido. Young guys don't know any better, but also, porn just gets better year after year.
feministsAreCorrupt 1 month ago
@feministsAreCorrupt Only a wet hole..?....I don't know about all that. It's much more than that.Pussy is wonderful even if da bitch can't fuck
59westfederal 1 month ago 2
@feministsAreCorrupt Let's face it, men have the advantage in this day and age if they just use a little sense and game to get what they want. Forget what they say in the name of religion or "morals", making a man wait is nothing more than manipulation. Many guys aren't aware that chicks will brag with their friends about how long they make men go on dates without getting any. Trust me, if she's forthcoming with the pussy it IS better than waiting because atleast you know she's into you.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
One might say that I'll have less respect for the girl if she sleeps with me too quickly but, quite frankly, I'm not gonna think very highly of her if I wait either because 9 times out of 10 she's given it up sooner to another guy while she's making me wait and I don't find that respectful, I find it insulting. If you're not a virgin and done already thrown the pussy around here and there the whole "I respect myself" ship has sailed so stop pretending to be something you're not.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 Modern girls dating a decent guy don't realize that while the guy patiently waits, he is also sampling pussy of the past. I don't mind if the ladies wait if parallel action is ready and waiting.
feministsAreCorrupt 1 month ago
I am so tired of men thinking that b/c a woman has had sex before she NEEDS to give him pussy. You aren't entitled to some just b/c she gave it to someone else. Idk about other women, but for myself it is better for me to wait. I catch feelings very quickly especially if I'm having sex and don't think clearly and men don't really have that issue. There are some relationships I could've avoided if I'd waited to have sex. It's not ridiculous to not have had sex in 3 dates either.
sansvirgin 1 month ago
@sansvirgin The arrogance of women never ceases to amaze me. Seriously, what kind of message do you think it sends out to the man if you're making him wait and go out on date after date and yet some other clown got that shit without doing all of that? That's not gonna project that you're being "chaste" it just means that you think he's a corny ass fool that you can string along. You don't NEED give him the pussy but if you aren't going to he doesn't NEED stick around your selfish ass.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 Who said that some other got the ass with doing that? Maybe a girl did that and learned from her mistakes. She doesn't want to be in that type of situation again. It's not being arrogant to not give pussy to someone b/c you don't want your feelings hurt again. It's stupid to the same thing expecting a different result. Been there done that. If I don't give him pussy and that's what he's there for by all means PLEASE LEAVE.
sansvirgin 1 month ago
@sansvirgin Oooh boo hoo hoo. A man's got to look after his own interest and subjecting himself to some chick's mind games isn't condusive to getting what he wants. ALL men want ass, the only reason they do all that romance stuff that women like is so they can get laid. So now if you call yourself trying be so virginal then do that with some dude who doesn't have any game and can't see that he's being duped. It's not my problem you made a mistake, if you aren't giving ass then keep it moving.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 "It really kills me how all chicks think guys only want sex" "ALL men want ass, the only reason they do all that romance stuff that women like is so they can get laid" Didn't you contradict yourself?
rep5281 1 month ago
@rep5281 Nope.....men do want sex INITIALLY. But that's not all we want, but all that romance stuff we go through is to get sex. If men didn't want anything else but sex no men would be getting married. Men just stop fooling with women they fuck because after sex they finally start hearing what she says and they got turned off.....
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 Speak for yourself.
rep5281 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 Look after your own interest, I'm looking after my own. There are some girls who play mind games just like guys do. No one said anything about being virginal, I said not being stupid and getting my feelings hurt. I'm trying to protect myself, I'm not worried about some dude who doesn't feel like waiting or care about me or my feelings, move on and get ass from someone else. Idc about their opinion or YOURS.
sansvirgin 1 month ago
@sansvirgin Well, good for you, my whole point is, abiding by that advice isn't advantageous FOR MEN. Quite naturally it would favor women because it gives women something to dangle over men's head but luckily there are enough loose women around these days that men have greater power in how much shit they're willing to take to get some ass. Waiting grants absolutely NO benefits to men whatsoever......Personally, I think men who advocate that whole "wait" shit are a bunch of pussies.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 "Seriously, what kind of message do you think it sends out to the man if you're making him wait and go out on date after date"
The message is that this pussy costs much more, and there are many bored girls just looking to use their femininity to gain some expensive yet free dinners.
feministsAreCorrupt 1 month ago
@JunebugObama My question is: WHERE are the women that WANT to wait at!? LOL! I've been stepped to, [and more than a few times I might add] by women who don't even no English. Huh!? Exactly how would that work? I don't know about any other guy, but I need a sense of self-respect in my world. We know a lot of guys say: "I'm just being a Man." Yeah well, ...so was Magic Johnson. I'm not about to start popping 60+ HIV or STD pills a day because I'm ASSuming I know what manhood is all about.
gentleall 1 month ago 3
@gentleall The women who want to wait are a dying breed. That's why Steve Harvey wrote a book telling them to wait 90 days. Traditional values are becoming a thing of the past but there are still a few women out here who share your beliefs.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@JunebugObama
Im one of those thats waits for a while. I have never had it work in my disadvantage.
MyRedmamba 1 month ago
@gentleall A "good" woman is just as hard to find as a "good" man. Good luck.
rep5281 1 month ago
And just to add most women not all but most of them just don't know men that's why they get with guys thinking he's cool a good guy but miss all of his signs and then after that they say wr are all dogs and no good we as men will show you who we are all they have to do is pay attention
hittemhard1038 1 month ago
Hay wasup junebugobama i like the video! But ii will say i agree with you i think its all about the Energy and how you feel about that person that 90 day rule is for women that just don't know men and there is a lot of them i have had sex with girls within days of meeting and within weeks we as men all know what a jump off woman looks and sounds like that's no Surprise
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86Deant 1 month ago
@86Deant WHY do you have a girl friend who won't have sex with you after two years? You must send me an email and tell me what the story is behind that.
JunebugObama 1 month ago
@86Deant---she's saving herself for someone she really wants. she only has you around as a long-term rebound guy. a sexless relationship is a friendship. you're a friend. not even one with benefits. get your balls back and DTB---Dump That Broad.
dariusdise 1 month ago
@dariusdise a sexless relationship is a friendship? oh please.
iloveyoekiddox3 1 month ago
@iloveyoekiddox3---yes, a sexless relationship is a friendship. any self-respecting man who refuses to to be stuck in a 'no-action' zone moves on to find what they want. life is too short to settle. never sign up for what u don't want.
dariusdise 1 month ago
@dariusdise You, sir, are a very intelligent individual. I commend you
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@dariusdise Where do peoples feelings lie in your gross generalization?
iloveyoekiddox3 1 month ago
@iloveyoekiddox3---the manipulative women in question that string dudes along aren't saints as far as feelings r considered. it's best for dudes to identify those types and steer clear. men with self-respect would never let such those types lead them by the nose in circles. being objective about this matter--not emotional, doing what has to be done, serves to strengthen self-esteem and self-worth. tough love is the difference between men and tender-hearted boys.
dariusdise 1 month ago
@dariusdise What if the woman states right from the start of the RELATIONSHIP that there will be no sex and the man in question says this is fine? There are actually guys out there that are fine with that (few of them though)..And who said anything about any woman being manipulative? Not I. Nor did I say that manipulative women r saints.I have no idea where you got that from or why you even mention it."Doing what has to be done" what do you mean?...
iloveyoekiddox3 1 month ago
@iloveyoekiddox3--Women who say no sex and the dudes who agree have no self-esteem. Logical-thinking men with rational thought pass these women over. As soon as u mentioned 'gross generalization' i countered that concept with bringing up who are subject to what i mentioned as generally true---about manipulative women, which is also in the vid. Doing what has to be done---there's no one or nothing i can't walk away from in 30 sec or less when i know it's time to
dariusdise 1 month ago
@dariusdise You're making a gross generalization again! You can't speak for ALL men. You are just one of them and a very close minded one u seem indeed! It's all about what you're looking for in a relationship and you can't speak for all men, there is always going to be another male out there who wants something different and putting a label on their self esteem based on a choice in a relationship when you don't even know the person...well I just think its a load of BS,
iloveyoekiddox3 1 month ago
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@iloveyoekiddox3--Of course what u think I'm saying is a load os BS--because what I'm saying is a wake up call for ALL men who aren't aware this enlightenment. When ALL men begin to look at relationships in the manner of a cost/benefit analysis instead of a wishful hope---1/2 of all restaurants that depend on suckers would go out of business. And when men weigh their self-worth and self-esteem they can measure their self-respect
dariusdise 1 month ago
@iloveyoekiddox3--Generalizations...if what I'm saying is a general statement about what is generally true then what is your argument really? Exceptions don't make the rule of the common sense I speak. What I say already checks out as common sense to AWARE and WISE men who can't be duped or manipulated. Of course there's other men who don't know any better.
dariusdise 1 month ago
@iloveyoekiddox3---This video hits the nail on the head; what is the benefit for a dude to wait 90 days??? The common sense I add…it lines up with it. If you're offended by it or think you're an exception to the rule of the enlightenment that's found on this thread when men come together and agree--then you're on the wrong vid
dariusdise 1 month ago
@dariusdise @dariusdise You do not speak "generally" though really that's what I mean it's GROSS...you use/d statements. Go back and read what you put. Gosh. Really?! - Cuz I didnt even listen to the damn video...I be trollin' like the manipulative woman I really am ;) Cuz I just love leading men by the noose in circles and such lmao...Duh - thanks for participating /rolls eyes
iloveyoekiddox3 1 month ago
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@iloveyoekiddox3--There's no shame in saying you picked the wrong discussion. I'll let you bow out gracefully. Thank you for your time
dariusdise 1 month ago
@dariusdise .... I agree if the man does want sex and the communication has broken down/wasn't there to start with he will move on because he will/constantly feel lead-on.
iloveyoekiddox3 1 month ago
@86Deant Damn, I know you got a strong forearm.
TheSeven45 1 month ago
@86Deant I could be wrong but THAT AIN'T YOUR GIRL, YOU SHARE THAT!
BRAZEN08 1 month ago
ALRIGHT ALRIGHT, I use to be that girl with a high sex drive..still am. I've just been through situations where I actually liked the guy,made him wait a month and everything switched up quick. I even dated a guy who wanted to make ME wait "because he liked me" after all the while in my mind it was just sex but after several disappointments, I realized the severity of it. a nut can change it all, I decided to be celibate. Not until marriage but until someone really commits to me.
badmammajamma8 1 month ago
@badmammajamma8 thats why i'm still a virgin. i want a really nice lady. one who will want commitment & such. not affraid of marriage. as its the start of something wonderful not an ending. thanks for sharing your thoughts :)
panicman10 1 month ago
@panicman10 No wonder you're waiting so long......nice ladies are a thing of the past.....ones who look halfway decent anyway
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@panicman10 thts a fact.... I was dating a girl tht gave it to me the 3rd day im not judgemental so I ended up been in a one year relationship with her just to find out her nasty ways before I met her she was single for 4 months after a 5 years relationshipip
Chulo0oJay 1 month ago
@Chulo0oJay just goes to show,waiting or not, its best to get to know the person first. thanks for sharing :)
panicman10 1 month ago
Let's be real, folks. The sole reason us guys ask women out is to eventually have sex with them; THAT'S IT. But since there is such a stigma put on women not to have sex until after the 346,635th date, we have to put on this facade of taking them out to the mall, to the movies, and every play featuring Madea in order to make it look as if there is more to it than that. I don't know about you guys but when I go out with a woman, my sole purpose is to get laid, not to talk or just hang out...
ratesforless 1 month ago
I'm just fine with a woman fucking on the 1st night. And for those chicks who do that 90 day bullshit, I'm fine with that too. As long as they are fine with me not considering it a relationship for about a year.
DionLaurent1 1 month ago
I agree. They can try the 90-day plan with me all they want to. Just understand that the second after she tells me goodnight, I'll be on the phone with another chick who will be glad to do the heavy lifting. Life is too short for shit like that...
ratesforless 1 month ago
@ratesforless (tip my hat to you) while LMAO at the heavy lifting comment. Good Show!
DionLaurent1 1 month ago
DOGOOD HERE: What's Happening JuneBugObama, HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
ReverendDoGood 1 month ago
@ReverendDoGood Happy New Year! All is well. Would really like to know some of your thoughts on this topic...
JunebugObama 1 month ago
I don't think of women as being a slut for having sex on the first date cuz I've always continued to date her afterwards.but if she goes off and dates other guys and has sex and then months later wants to sleep with me.naw I would look at her different and not take her serious.
pancahn 1 month ago