missing women. Though my boyfriend and I have "lesbian" sex , I still miss women because I love women. I have a fetish for FTMs but I love women. Since dating FTMs I did open my label bucket and Queer fit just fine because honestly I dont consider myself bi. I just know that I miss women and I have no idea what happens next...the end. I miss ya Ducky!!!!!!!!!!!
I dont want to be viewed as bi or heterosexual. I mean, why should my sexuality be based on theirs. Though FTM is transitioning to be a man, technically they are not. I'm sorry if I have offended any FTMs. If I had met my boyfriend on the streets then I would have kept walking and said no thank you; but the fact that I allowed myself to get to know him is what brought us together. A regular dude walking down the street, no. But if I knew they were trans, then maybe, but I now struggle with
Hey Ducky. I am a one of those lesbians/queer women that is dating an FTM. It started as a blind date but I became attracted to the person and their struggle. No offense to the FTMs but the main reason why I was interested was because he still had all of those parts. The fact that an FTM used to be a woman is what turns me on. They can take hormones and do whatever they want but when it comes to sex, I still feel like a lesbian. I do struggle with what people think about my sexuality...
I think it's important to remember that in the case of a lot of people- they don't 'choose' to date someone who happens to be trans.
Being a transguy myself and my partner dating women before, we aren't into labels or boxes, but I like the umbrella terminology of being: queer... I'll never see myself as a heterosexual male, because I'm not biologically male- so we're a queer couple.
I think embracing all aspects of the gender and sexuality spectrum key.
As soon as u said I'm a ftm I clicked that exit button so fast
Swagitout1 6 months ago
missing women. Though my boyfriend and I have "lesbian" sex , I still miss women because I love women. I have a fetish for FTMs but I love women. Since dating FTMs I did open my label bucket and Queer fit just fine because honestly I dont consider myself bi. I just know that I miss women and I have no idea what happens next...the end. I miss ya Ducky!!!!!!!!!!!
itzraybaby 1 year ago
I dont want to be viewed as bi or heterosexual. I mean, why should my sexuality be based on theirs. Though FTM is transitioning to be a man, technically they are not. I'm sorry if I have offended any FTMs. If I had met my boyfriend on the streets then I would have kept walking and said no thank you; but the fact that I allowed myself to get to know him is what brought us together. A regular dude walking down the street, no. But if I knew they were trans, then maybe, but I now struggle with
itzraybaby 1 year ago
Hey Ducky. I am a one of those lesbians/queer women that is dating an FTM. It started as a blind date but I became attracted to the person and their struggle. No offense to the FTMs but the main reason why I was interested was because he still had all of those parts. The fact that an FTM used to be a woman is what turns me on. They can take hormones and do whatever they want but when it comes to sex, I still feel like a lesbian. I do struggle with what people think about my sexuality...
itzraybaby 1 year ago
See, I think people analyze it too much.
Especially because everyone is so different.
For me, I've went from Lesbian to Bi to Pansexual just to figure myself out.
I know some Lesbians who think men are attractive, but dislike their sexual organ and some who just don't like men sexually at all.
And for FTMs, most of them have such an understanding of the female life.
They would remember being a female liking other females or liking other males.
Because in a way some of them are both.
drunkandmisguided 1 year ago
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cont'd..
The attraction most Lesbian and FTM couples have is so much more fluid that people give it credit for.
I wish people would understand that its not about sex and body parts, unless you make it that way.
You like/love the person, not the body part.
Sure, initially you see them and you may be attracted to them physically, you may not.
Perhaps that FTM still has a vagina, to that Lesbian, that's still a woman.
But what it comes down to is preference and choices.
drunkandmisguided 1 year ago
Hey dude... interesting video...
I think it's important to remember that in the case of a lot of people- they don't 'choose' to date someone who happens to be trans.
Being a transguy myself and my partner dating women before, we aren't into labels or boxes, but I like the umbrella terminology of being: queer... I'll never see myself as a heterosexual male, because I'm not biologically male- so we're a queer couple.
I think embracing all aspects of the gender and sexuality spectrum key.
Peace.
mrsethcorbin 2 years ago
yeah, i like the word 'queer'
RZO909 2 years ago