Super Furious!! Bad Therapist/Financial Snafoo!

[Shhhnow1]

All the money in the world wouldn't give you what you want. You have to take responsibility for yourself, change what you eat and drink, NO sugar, NO salt and NO fat and 0 tolerance, you can eat as much as you like as long as its only got trace of the above in.... This is the only way your going to lose weight, no-one else is to blame. Go for it, because your worth it! x

[luriette78]

@Shhhnow1 No animal fat maybe but no fat at all (from healthy sources- olive oil, almonds, etc) is extremely bad for you. 

[gormlessgoddess]

I've watched a few of your YourTube videos and noticed how everything always seems to be everybody else's fault. You say that your family "should" love you unconditionally, but do you love them unconditionally? Don't get that impression.

Anyone ever suggested you could have some sort of personaility disorder? I'm a mental health professional and the way you are rings a lot of bells. Hope you find what you're looking for, but I find your videos really depressing.

[BeTheBestMe]

Not true & as a health care professional, you should know better than to pass judgment without seeing the whole picture. My video series is educational & informative. I have chosen YT as my support group and the weight loss surgery community has been very supportive. You may have chosen to watch the videos that involve my anger towards my family and life's challenges. Most of my videos are related to my surgery. You can watch the videos of others if you find me to be such a downer.

[imaswtgrl]

I have two words for you REPORT HIM.........

[BeTheBestMe]

I spoke with my regular therapist (the one I've had for 2 years) and she said I should talk to him so he is clear on what happened. She thought it was strange that he did not coordinate with her, which is the standard if you have more than one therapist. I will have to talk to him about it but I am waiting until I calm down bit. I would hate to report him if he is just clueless. I will have to let you all know how it goes.

[bbolam72]

hope everything sorts its self out for you,

i'm from the uk and everything was free on the nhs over here, if i had to pay i know i couldnt afford what i had done, saying that it took 4 year to get the op

[BeTheBestMe]

Whoa, 4 years is a long time. Free is good :)

[ThatzHotxoxo]

Wow. that's all i can say..I sorry that all this crap is going down trust issues are hard enough to work through but having to fight the current like that just sucks, as much as i bitch about canadian healthcare it really makes me glad i have it when i see things like this. I'm sorry that you don't have anyone for support.. even though you don't know me from adam if you wanna yak for moral support i'm totally here. :) yay for xanax!

[BeTheBestMe]

I have you all for support but I still mourn for unconditional family or best friend support that I feel should be there. Baby steps, once the trust comes back, the friends will appear everywhere :) thank goodness for Xanax - on the rare occasion I need it, it sure does the trick!

[jojo0905]

So sorry this has happened to you! I hope the money starts coming in soon!

[BeTheBestMe]

Meee toooo! I cant wait!

[MissJanieHere]

I am so sorry this happened to you.

[IWILLMETAMORPHISOON]

This is AWFUL!! I am so disturbed that a person who took an oath to "do no harm" took advantage of you. I am so sorry that he has caused you so much anxiety and pain. I suffer from anxiety attacks as well, so I know what you're feeling. I think you should turn him in to the medical board in your state. That would at least maybe save someone else in the NEW program from what you've experienced. I will keep you in my prayers.

[BeTheBestMe]

I actually JUST got off the phone with the therapist. He offered to discuss the issue with me for gratis. I told him that I no longer trusted him and would be sticking with MY therapists. I informed the NEW Program & I announced it to the world on YouTube. I think he was looking to build up his practice more than injur me. If I hear from anyone else at my program that went through this then maybe we will team up & move forward. Hopefully he & the Program learned from this - I certainly HAVE!

[burnman96]

One of these times, I had a huge doctor bill sent to me. Outside of my insurance by the way. This was for a visit that was while I was in the hospital for emergency reasons(while being covered by insurance). HIS visit within the hospital wasn't though!! BASTARD!!

You'd never see me do a vid rant though, I'd get too hostile. It would spoil my calm. Good luck

[BeTheBestMe]

I took a Xanax and then filmed - trust me, everyone is glad I did :)

[burnman96]

I've had my shard of unethical doc's too:( It hurts to hear someone else talking about it. That is an ethics breach i believe. There should be actions that you can take. Like the Better Business Buearo maybe. If they can't help, they can stear you in the right direction.

[BeTheBestMe]

If anyone else comes forward w/ a similar story, I will do so. What he did harmed me in a way that for most people it wouldn't so I need to keep it in perspective. I told him what he did. If he does it again to someone, there will be big problems. Until then I need to give him the benefit of the doubt; he did a bad thing but I dont think it was done to intentionally harm me. He's been warned. He can learn from it or he will get in trouble. I'm speaking with my regular therapist about it tonight.

[burnman96]

I would suggest you ask your regular therapist about a possible course of action. If it happened to you, it's happening to other people too.

[BeTheBestMe]

I am discussing it with my regular therapist tonight and will keep my ears open at the support groups/aftercare program. I hope I am the only sucker. It is such a great program, I woudl be really surprised if there were anyone else that got it as bad as me. If I am not alone, man - there's going to be trouble!