cheating hearts.

[KewlKat589]

I was cheated on and I was not mad at my girlfriend at first but was very mad at the person she cheated with. I think you were on to something Kade. : ) When you love someone, it's hard to be mad at them. I didn't want to think of my gf as a cheater so I blamed the other girl when in reality it was my gf's choice.

[misogynistlesbian]

holy shit your girlfriends name is xena...

[xsicko619x]

you should be a psychologist...or a therapist... for real.

[thisiskate12]

great commentary on the topic as usual!

[minoswe]

wow, your girlfriend's name is xena? that's purely awesome dude. great vid btw.

[RockinCelery]

Excellent point on the whole getting mad at the other person rather than your significant other. It's always been something that I could never understand.

[dookerbaby]

Your responses are always very carefully thought out and well put.

[elleleleee]

i think the reason its so easy to blame and be angry at the the person your partner cheated on you with, is because as you said: it does take two to cheat.

and if they knew your partner was taken, and still went thru with being part of the cheating..yet ignored the signs that it was going to happen, then there is reason to be angry at the other one, i believe, as they both disrespected the relationship in that way.

did that make sense? :P i hope so hehe

[alwayztalkinsht]

Im not a player I just crush a lot.....love that song!

[Kilby6969]

I think most people get mad at the one their significant other cheated with because it's an insecurity issue. They obviously feel as though they can't measure up to the person they got cheated on with so they lash out at the person because they threaten/ have brought down your esteem in an indirect kinda way..if that makes sense

[creepinoutsara]

cheating is cheating.

end of story.

[Kilby6969]

Sylvia you faggot I wasn't defending cheating -.- INTERNET STALKER

[creepinoutsara]

i actualy was watching the video and saw you commented i was like LAWL

[that1girl08tx]

i agreeeee cheating is cheating

[origliassosarelove]

kade has a girlfriend???!!!! woohoo!!! ;) lol

[fruitgrrl]

you'd be a great flight attendant OR therapist

would you please take a road trip with MY mother...

i'm getting nowhere with her

[xMorbidScreams]

Completely agree. I'm also one of those people who gets angry at the chick my significant other got with to cheat on me. It's been 8 months already since the situation but i still feel..like shit.

[SteeleaFan]

I had a boyfriend like a few summers ago....

,but I was in love with a straight girl...he said we should break up..yeah but he's a player..it wasn't worth it.

[surferchixx08]

ok im not sure if yous answered this or not but what do you do when a girl cheats on you with a guy i would generaly be hurt but i dont understand why i would be more so when its with a guy? could anyone answer that or is it just a personal thing...?

[ohohnoy]

you're a wise man, kade. and you're dating xena?! epic win!

[malloryspiderwick]

I'm so grateful that I've never een cheaed on. Thanks for another great video Bother Kade. What a cool roadtrip with a mom and grandma. Though I can't think of a car trip more rife with possible drama! xoxoxo

[redstapler22]

i agree cheating is cheating. i also agree with communicating with your partner. and that was a good point about people who blame the third party.

what did you think of philly? i currently live in the burbs but i grew up there and i miss it so much.

[WeightOfTheWorld11]

thanks for your helpful advice, kade. =)

[drac16]

Your girlfriend is Xena the warrior princess? DAAAAAAMN =O

[paul20072007]

Two really good points here. One, to communicate with your partner so both sides know the expectations. Two, don't blame the 3rd party--that's similar to parents who always blame their kids' bad behaviour on the others they hang out with!

Well spoken as always, Kade.

[dora24rose]

I agree with you.. Cheating is cheating. But once a cheater not always a cheater. I cheated on most of the people I dated when I was young but I have been married/commited for the last year and it has never crossed my mind. I would never want to cause my wife that pain. I don't understand why people don't just get out if they are not happy. I also never understood getting mad at the other person, your person was the one who cheated..!! they are the POS in this situation..

[Silveracity]

I would hope that, if you dont believe that ALL cheating is really cheating, before you start a (monogamous?) relationship with a person you will let them know that you dont believe that having sex with someone of a different gender than your partner would not considered cheating to you.

Id really like to know if anyone really thinks that this kind of cheating isnt cheating at all.

[dragonquestking]

Ummm i know this has nothing to do with the video or anything but. what is transgendered. R u like a guy. or r u a girl. i dont really know.

[Milkimu]

He's a guy but he was born female.

[ainefairygoddess]

why don't you just type "transgendered" into google instead of asking insulting questions...

[DAVETYIOP]

What about an open relationship I would not see that as cheating because either one or both people are fine with it.

[kernelpuff]

i like pumpkins.