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  • My definition of sex is any activity which carries a risk of STD transmission, including but not limited: to kissing on the lips; having saliva, semen, or vaginal fluid come into contact with broken skin; or penetration while wearing a condom.

  • The hymen is a myth. It's not some kind of lid that is broken. It's just some mucus membrane at the entrance of the vagina. Some have more, some have less..

  • Man, if 'virgin' meant 'someone with no sexual experience of any kind', it would make a bit more sense.

    I am surprised that they don't call people with no job experience 'virgins'. :D

  • I never thought I'd be glad to be a virgin... and I'm 20.

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  • Ummm, you're not a virgin anymore when you're not awkward during sex with your partner. So virginity takes a while to get rid of, and you can get it back every time you switch partners.

  • What on earth is she doing in Denmark.

  • Hey, your definition is like, exactly the same as mine.

    Restecp xD

  • I agree with Laci's definition of sex. It doesn't have to be penetration. lol

    That is called intercourse, not sex.

  • More importantly, what do you have to do physically with someone other than your spouse in order for it to constitute adultery?

  • I've had penetrative sex, but until i really feel like i know how to please a guy and be pleased by a guy through sex, ill still mentally be a virgin. i think sex is more about the pleasure and emotion than the body parts. otherwise its something you could just do witha a machine

  • When I think of sex as a broad topic, I think of penetration.

    But to an extent, I think oral is too.

    But that one's confusing for me.

  • I used to define sex as penis to vagina penetration, but I guess I forgot to throw gays and lesbians into the equation... Back to the drawing board >_>

  • Penetration sex Is what I believe is what counts has sex.

  • genital to genital contact. oral and fingering/hand jobs don't count, in my opinion.

  • I believe fingering and oral sex don't count as sex. I believe sex is when you stick your penis in a vagina or an anus, or when a girl has a penis inside of her. If you are a lesbian, then, I guess "scizzoring" is sex. But I am not sure if the strap-on counts as sex.... Guess I never thought about it....

  • im not a virgin in my definition..... i count any kind of sex (gay straight lesbian) is counted at losing it

  • I finger myself, does that count? and does it stop you feeling pain when you loose your virginity?

  • by laci, and all my friends count, I lost it months before I actually did and I'v had it a lot more than I consider I have, cuz I think its some kind of vagina/ass penetration AT LEAST until one orgasm or ejaculation. but me and my bf did fingering handjobs oral and he even got inside once but I told him it was too quick and he pulled out and I dont consider any of that sex and I was a virgin til I was ready and it was amazing

  • @PirateDuckyy Just believe what you believe

  • man you have been to Denmark?! damn why didnt i know that before now -.-'

  • To me, the whole idea of a virgin is quite terrible. Virgin used to be used in the context of land or sea unexplored. The fact we use this word in the context now of a person who has not had sex is a virgin, and is therefore "unexplored."

  • virginity is something that you haven't done before

  • there are alot of volkswagons on that street ! :)

  • My health teacher last year explain us what virginity was in her opinion. She said she was a skydiving virgin because she had never been skydiving (then she gave other examples of things she hasn't done). Basically, you're virgin to everything until you've done it. She described as sex as penetration to the vagina, butt-hole, or your mouth with genitials.

    I don't know if this made sense to anyone except me, but that's what I was taught.

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  • i believe that losing your virginity is when someone else enters you. that's my definition. of course, for women, we sometimes masturbate with toys, so there lies that gray area for me. i see it as foreplay, but others could see me wrong

  • I agree with what I think you're trying to advocate in this. That we shouldn't just stick to these definitions. But the word sex has a specific meaning. Whether we should put the importance in that is a different thing. But imagine two people talking about sex, each with a different meaning of the word. They wouldn't be able to communicate it. This is because language isn't subjective (Philosophical Investigations by Wittgenstein is a really good book on the way we use language).

  • sex [seks] noun 1. either the male or female division of a species, especially as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions. 2. the sum of the structural and functional differences by which the male and female are distinguished, or the phenomena or behavior dependent on these differences. 3. the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another, or its manifestation in life and conduct. 4. coitus. 5. genitalia. 6. to have sex, to engage in sexual intercourse.
  • your great laci !!!

  • My dick and a vagina

  • i love how you talk

  • You make me so happy. You are intelligent, and amazing (and positive).

  • I often get comments that i'm not a virgin because of my orientation and the fact I've only ever had oral sex/fingering but my view on virginity is pretty much the same as yours.. it's giving pleasure to someone's body or receiving pleasure through the genitals... then of course they comment "so does that mean I lost my virginity when I was 12" (implying they were fingered at that age)... no comment haha :)

  • heeeeeeeeeeeey, holland! heb je het leuk gehad? :P if you don't understand it, google will help :P

  • Ha. Reminded me of the time my mom got mad because she found out I use tampons. The first thing she asked about them "But don't tampons take your virginity away?"

    A hymen is not virginity. It is a body part.

  • When has sex occurred? In the words of Jerry Seinfeld, I'd say when the nipple makes its first appearance ;)

  • godammit let me pause the video and find IHateyouthatMuch's comment...

  • I would define sex as any activity in which the intention is to achieve sexual release, no matter the result.

  • @Dudeamis So masturbation is sex? So only pre-teens are virgins? :P

  • @PressXtonotdie I meant with someone else.

  • @Dudeamis I knew what you meant mate, t'was a joke.

  • Penis + vagina = ALL THE WAY

  • Well, coming into this subject as a guy, I'd like to say that sex is more than just me putting at least some part of my penis inside someone else's lower area, and that it actually involves, well, the consented "act" that follows. Long story short of why I think this, I was interrupted before the "act" could actually occur, and I really don't want to think I lost my virginity to someone who later cheated on me with a friend.

  • Now christians have turned the term virgin into some girl that never had sex however during the time of Mary it really meant a woman who was never married. She got knocked up didn't want to get stoned to death and claimed god did it with her boyfriend backing her up. Hence how Jesus came into the picture. Yes this is my opinion but which is more believable a slutty 14yo lying about what happened or pedo god knocking her up

  • I would look at it like this. If you now what sex is then your not a virgin.

  • I think it's more of a state of purity. like, if you're raped, you're still a virgin. however, if you've never had a penis inside of your lower half, but you've given a million blowjobs/gone down on am million girls, you're not a virgin.

  • It counts when a penis enters a vagina. PERIOD!

  • Well said sis! mmmmm brain sex can be good too! (not really but the idea seamen'd worth mantioning;).

  • I would consider oral, vaginal, and anal. Anything that could give you an STD lol

  • Laci, you are amazing and your work always cheers me up and inspires me. The Universes are so much better with you in them~ thank you <3

  • no one is a virgin in this world. we all get fucked by life.

  • @criscoglide Kurt Cobain?

  • P in the VahG

  • I hope you didnt meet anyone in your way in holland (or the netherlands sorry had to correct you as a dutch person :P) we all speak and understand english

  • only counts when your in love with the other person. anything else is just a physical act kind of like a recreational sport that you do without your clothes on

  • My Dick entering a Vagina! :D

  • It certainly makes sense that language evolves as groups of people begin to accept alternative definitions or just mildly modified definitions of words, but that doesn't mean we get our own definition of each word. Language falls apart if the world, lets just use this for simplicity, TRACTOR has a separate individual meaning for each person on the planet.

  • Well there isn't really anything that is "Your definition." Definitions are constructions of a language that is OBJECTIVE. So to say "My definition of guitar is. . ." <-- That doesn't make sense. Sex is a word that derives from the french sexus which means gender, but then later was used to mean genitalia by D.H. Lawrence. It was used to talk about "sex appeal" which literally meant appealing to our genitalia. This means to have "sex" simply means anything with genitalia.

  • @EnlightMind That comment became even better when i saw your username :')

    that person does need to enlighten their mind :)

  • That has been my definition for a long time. If you have a WILLING "sexual experience" you are no longer a virgin. I have not, and will not classify an unwilling first time as loss of virginity. It is something that can only be given away.

  • To me oral, vaginal, and manual stimulation all count as sex

  • @IHateyouthatMuch DAMN mother fucker you went hard!!! HOLY SHIT XD

  • @IHateyouthatMuch you sound like a real grade A ass hole... just thought id let you know

  • @IHateyouthatMuch and how much subscribers do you have?

  • @IHateyouthatMuch Its a good thing you said that behind the protective wall of anonymity that is the internet, because if you said that to my face, I'm afraid I would have to tear your head off with my bare hands and shit down your throat while you breathe.

  • @IHateyouthatMuch epic troll is epic.

  • @IHateyouthatMuch why would an asshole like u insault people i know that they r beter than u 10000000 time?

  • i am still a vergin i consider any penis to vagina intercourse to be sexx anything else i consider forplay

  • To me sex is when you give to some one sexual pleasure to the point of climax.

    Or when you receive sexual pleasure to the point of climax.

    Anything else is foreplay.

  • looks just like holland. I was in the town of woubrugge (woodbridge). It was a beautiful place and I did a lot of ironworking there.

  • new vid laci ? :)

  • @stonerbrit420

    Should be one up this weekend, or just after the weekend. She tweeted that she was "excited about getting back to Sex+ this weekend".

  • Im 17 , and a couple of days ago i went to a bar with some friends and some females (all around 16 to 19), at some point early in the morning we started talking about sex , they asked me if i was a virgin, and i said yes

    they all looked like i was a space man and changed the subject ....

    what the fuck

  • @McBlemmen nothing to be a shame about u kno wwhen i go to bars its all sluts and shit

  • The first time I "got off" after repetitive hips thrust into a girl, I no longer considered myself a virgin lol

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  • For me it depends on the relationship - when a straight guy says to a straight girl (or vice versa), 'let's have sex', there's usually no doubt that they're talking about penetration, but in a lesbian relationship (in my opinion) the word 'sex' would refer to any kind of sex - fingering, oral sex, maybe even penetration using sex toys. I can't speak for gay men, but I would think that in that kind of relationship 'sex' is usually understood as anal sex, though like I said I can't really know.

  • @IHateyouthatMuch I smell a troll. 

  • @IHateyouthatMuch i was going to reply somthing smart and insulting but....then i saw your username and realized that it wasnt worth my while.......

  • @IHateyouthatMuch fuck you bro

  • @IHateyouthatMuch I really hope you don't mean this. Anyone's life is valuable; hers, Hitler's, Bin Laden's, even yours. So don't instruct someone to end their life no matter how much you dislike that person's existence.

  • more cleavage lol

  • how do you have the resources to travel??? do you come from a privileged family?

  • So what counttts as sex

  • Soo wat is sex

  • Look at her sensuous, full, pink lips. :D Don't tell me that you don't want them wrapped around your ....

  • You hav beautiful eyes

  • Thanks

  • You don't no much about sex do you.no

  • 5 stars!

  • Hey Laci, or anybody thats reading this!

    I think I'm homosexual, but i really dont know what i am. i'm 13 years old and i had two boyfriends, i masturbate to gay porn and i fantasize about men. but today i went on redtube.com and watched straight porn, during that i fantazised how i woul touch te woman's breasts, i ejaculated and everything like when i watch gay porn. But now i'm confused about my sexuality, does anybody have any tips how to discover your own sexuality???

    please help

  • @SexIsNotLove Sounds like you're bi.

  • @SexIsNotLove

    You're young so why don't you have fun an experiment? You might be bi, you might not.

    Stop worrying about what label you want to put on yourself and just have fun.

    You'll eventually figure out what you are. so don't stress :)

  • @OliviaJani wow really good advice thx ^^

  • @IHateyouthatMuch grow up

  • @Miradoblackwarrior2 it's awwwww with a d. It kind emphasizes more babyness.

  • hooooooly fuck i live there

  • Laci use to be fun to watch... :(

  • @jenjermann02 She isn't now?

  • @JamesIV664 Not to me...

  • ... ... ... I started my journey with your gogreen18 account and I must say i was kind of intrigued, but now I think you're just dumb...

  • Oh Laci, you always thinking about sex aren't you? What a naughty girl!

  • @Thelonepeanut - I think the term we might use for one who is no longer holds their V-card or one who may relate to a "non-virgin" identity is just sexually active. Devirginized, maybe?

  • There are multiple ways to have sex but to lose your virginity there is only one way which is penetrating a females vagina with your penis or being penetrated this way if you are a female. Those who say different are just trying to convince themselves that they arn't a virgin any more.

    Why am I even watching this anyway?

  • I luv u Laci!!!

  • I'm sorry but you are wrong, you only lose your virginity once you have had sexual intercourse (penis into vagina) with a member of the opposite sex without a condom.

  • @TurkishButcher Lol you wish

  • @TurkishButcher so if you use condoms, you're still a virgin?

  • god... you are so hott laci

  • Hey you were born into a Mormon household right??? When did you actually get away from them?

  • @IHateyouthatMuch you need to shut the fuck up. No one asked for your fuckin opinion. Laci is my idol. You should just pull the trigger ass hole.

  • Fucking sexy tits:) Ps. I'm a Mormon and yes a active one. Pss. I'm going to get hate for this from other Mormons cuz I cussed they can STFU.

  • booo fuck holland Belgium is better, come spend your vacation here :D

    very interesting vid

    for me personally sex is the normal intercourse between persons all the other stuff are just extra bonusses

  • it looks like she could use some sex

  • @IHateyouthatMuch you are an asshole!

  • @IHateyouthatMuch dude, i hope for your life you are trolling. if not, take a potter pill or get some love, cause you sounds like you could use it. i mean real love. not sex. unless you are a sociopath.

  • Laci, Your work here is of great importance: women have as bearers of the womb been oppressed, controlled, debassed, hated and abused, and murdered because men hate the seed of other men, which is the male domination you find in patriarchial philosophy that infects social constructs within which we are acculturated.

  • My definition of sex is if you and your partner's parts interlock on purpose. (willingly for both people)

  • @IHateyouthatMuch ex-boyfriend?

  • @IHateyouthatMuch LOLOLOLOLOL...................­...just because your a fugly jelous douche... go back under the bridge smelly troll

  • does dry humping count as losing virginity? does masturbation count? technically, if you consider blowing one's load as losing virginity, i'm not a virgin. but, i still haven't gotten behind the golden beef flaps...

    Laci i'm still waiting for you to respond to my offer regarding you taking my "virginity." i live in L.A., so when you're back in California look me up. i will probably blow my load after about 30 seconds, but i can pleasure you with foreplay, promise. k thx bai

  • @PreciousParadigm Good luck with this.

  • @HoopersWorld im a generous lover

  • I got a question, what's the opposite of a virgin? Non-virgin or anything of the sort doesn't exist (or at least not to my knowledge) so is there a name, a one word label like virgin for people who have had sex? For anyone who replies, thank you :]

  • I think if the activity in question can transmit an STD, then it is sex.

  • The word 'sex' (in this context) started by being short for 'sexual intercourse' -- also known as copulation or coitus. Wikipedia says: "Non-penetrative sex (for example, non-penetrative cunnilingus) has been referred to as 'outercourse', but may also be among the sexual acts contributing to human bonding and considered intercourse. The term sex can be taken to mean any mutual genital stimulation (i.e. all forms of intercourse and 'outercourse')."

  • I have my own definition (and thus a strange definition of Virginity) but I'm curious, do you consider Cybersex (and I"m not not about Camgirls either, but really consenual, no-pay, cyberlovin') to be "real sex?

  • So then masturbating is like having sex??

  • @bibian011 yes you are basically having sex with yourself, one of the reasons masturbating is sometimes called "playing with yourself"

  • Arent there any people in Holland? Looks like friikin zombie-apocalypse after party.

  • Hey, if you were going by car you would almost pass my house, when going from Holland to Danmark. (But I think ferry is cheaper and faster, so that's the way to go.) Too bad the weather sucks so much this summer :(, I hope you enjoy europe anyway ;).

  • Go to Amsterdam, there's a thing called a red zone where you can have joints and rent prostitutes after 9pm.

  • Sex = simple. Virginity? First and foremost in Petten, Holland? Come on Tracy, you are losing it.

  • Despite all attempts at denial and obfuscation there is an unconscious factor, a black sun, which is responsible for the surprisingly common phenomenon of masculine split-mindedness... the woman is accused of all the darkness in a man, while he himself basks in the thought that he is a veritable fount of vitality and illumination for the females in his environment. Actually he would be better advised to shroud the brilliance of his mind in the profoundest doubt.

  • Unfortunately there can be no doubt that man is, on the whole, less good than he imagines himself or wants to be. Everyone carries a Shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual’s conscious life, the blacker and denser it is... if it is repressed and isolated from consciousness, it never gets corrected and is liable to burst forth suddenly in a moment of unawareness. At all events, it forms an unconscious snag, thwarting our most well-meant intentions.

  • @IHateyouthatMuch and what the fuck is wrong with her

  • Wow Ihateyou I'd a real life piece of shit and is most likely fat fugly bald and Cunard up short on everything. U heartless dickless LOL bitch

  • Wow, ihateyouthatmuch I really hate you too

  • @IHateyouthatMuch ...why... would anyone in their right mind EVER say such a thing....? That's so horrible, my God! Laci Green is trying to make videos to bring awareness to certain ideas, respect her and thank her for even MAKING videos for us. She doesn't have to be doing this, she choses to do so because she has a heart for doing so. I have been watching her for months and she has NEVER EVER done anything to deserve such a comment. Laci, I love you so much...

  • @serebigander He's just a troller... writing the same copy/Pasted thing on tons of videos, dont care about him

  • Good Videos!!!

  • Come to coepnhagen and have sex with me ... by sex, i mean a beer, by the way.

  • @AlexH017 ahahaa i knew it wuznt true! lol nd thnks:))

  • My definition of sex is the same as yours, Laci. But my friends dont think so. lol Lets just say that my friend thinks just because it has the word sex in it, oral sex isnt sex.

  • Well said.

  • Ha! I agree! that has always been my definition of it.

  • Has lacigreen hooked up with a dude in a hostel yet?!

  • I often talk to myself loudly about sex while walking around in a neighborhood while holding a camera and filming myself.

  • Why didn't I know you were in the country Ö I would have loved to meet you! I hope you had fun!

  • laci, youre amazing. im part of the pride alliance (lgbtqia support group) at my school. and we have had so many talks and discussions about this topic. but i feel like you have essentially summed up hours of questions into a nice little video. youre just incredible.

  • virginity shouldn't be a word. how many words out there are for NOT doing something???

  • ppl say tht once u use a tampon u lose ur virginity....but i dnt think its true..wat do u think?

  • when a uy sees me naked, then it will be sex

  • Seinfeld said it best... as soon as a nipple makes an appearance you're having sex...

  • ok.. Im not a vergin.

  • I had sex !! i put my finger in my Gf's mouth.. She beat my ass though

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