This is me... I'm stuck in Hell... Can't find me anymore... I'm a pessimist... Don't see no good things coming my way... Tired of waiting on life to get better...Not going to happen for me... I am literally stuck in Hell with no way out... I cry and I pray for a brand new day... None comes my way... Hanging on the best I can... Not looking for a handout just a chance...
@peggysweet13 Meditation and energy medicine and hypnotherapy are good treatments for NPD. The Native American Shaman has some good voodoo that saved my life a few years ago. Try everything - especially the things that Western Medico's tell you are junk. There is nothing in Western Med that can help with this. I had traumatic NPD a few years ago and now I'm cured. You can do it too.
thank you for sharing..maybe now we, that know of someone like this can take the blame off ourselves for once. we cannot make people happy if they are not capable of these emotions.
The complicated truth for sure. Amazing how people who are not familiar with this disorder can't comprehend the person I spent 28 years with. I feel sorry for her, but gratefull someone else jumped in that hole, and now I feel sorry for him...
@knowspin 10-4 on that one. Some sorry chap got mine, and the poor guy is trying to kill himself. I lasted 10 years, and hes suicidal after 2. Poor guy.....
If you had it you would not admit it. If you have it you would deny it. If you had it you wouldnt know what the song means and why it is interesting. If you had it you wouldnt have friends, just hangers on and people to manipulate. If you had it...most importantly..nothing can ever insult you. So the good news is..you dont have it. Lucky for you
@donaldblowers the problem with what you are saying is your implying that i'm not proud of being narcissistic. if i'm narcissistic (which i am) and i'm proud of it(which i am), i'd flaunt it(which i do). so, mind your own damn business and i'm also a cancer, we need our friends and family. do yo studyin biotch
@OptaMistical777 i never said i didn't i have times when all i can think is god you suck. times when i'd burn myself, but i never let anyone see that side of me. and why the fuck do y'all care so damn much about my shit. fuck you'd think y'all people didn't have a life or something. oh yea you don't.
@donaldblowers the problem with what you are saying is your implying that i'm not proud of being narcissistic. if i'm narcissistic (which i am) and i'm proud of it(which i am), i'd flaunt it(which i do). so, mind your own damn business and i'm also a cancer, we need our friends and family. do yo studyin
I think this a horrible song hating on people narcissistic personality disorder. I'm completely insulted. I have this disorder, but if your a friend you may never even know I have this problem, but if you cross me it shows.
If you had it you would not admit it. If you have it you would deny it. If you had it you wouldnt know what the song means and why it is interesting. If you had it you wouldnt have friends, just hangers on and people to manipulate. If you had it...most importantly..nothing can ever insult you. So the good news is..you dont have it. Lucky for you
These lyrics are making so simple something that is not understood well.
I was born in 1944. My father was this man in this song. My sister the female version. I married one, i worked for one and I live next door to a family of them.
I think many of our politicians sing this song each day.
It is not til tody that i finally get the picture because of this song.
Yeah, I accidently discovered this gem of a video.. I went about my daily life singing the chorus of this song and wondering where the hell it came from.. That is a true sign of a good song, in my eyes....
@coomadoug It's a common problem, and it's scary when you realize how many people can go casually with this disorder.
Of course there's many disorders out there, it's a growing problem.
People are becoming more and more aware, and I think that's a good thing because it's helped lots of people with mental illnesses overcome their problems, but people can still be ignorant.
I've came across teachers who judged me poorly because of my struggles. (not narcissism) But, I'm going off-topic.
terrific!, terrific, you made my day with such a beautifully interesting melody and style, ive never heard a tune like that verging on perfection i am a fan.
I like your tunes, you have your own very unique cool style, with a ting of roy orbison, johnny cash, i love your lyrics "my greatest fear are her loving eyes, and hand across my "thighs" disguise. As well as the invitation/threat at end na na naetc very nice , i look forward to much more, good day Sir . S .Alvis
nice video, bra. My mother, I think. poor creature. My father and I bot have adhd and asperger's autism spectrum disorder. When we have episodes, she tells us that We are abusing Her by not giving her attention. So we ignore her for our own sanity unless there's just no escape.
If you want to read the rants of the biggest narcissist in the history of mankind then go to @dimitrithelover on twitter. The size of this seduction guru's ego is beyond words. Trust me.
@700moby I believe they fear love because they feel "failed" by love when they loved the deepest & were the most vulnerable. My BF admired his father, successful businessman & private pilot. BF used to fly frequently w/ him in his Bonanza twin engine. Only 13yrs old, he lost his dad in an airplane crash, both wings broken off, nose gear & fuselage intact. BF is pilot, flight instructor, A&P technician, airplane inspections,+ jack of trades. Heartbroken,abandoned,cheated ...deep unhealed wounds.
If you are in, know someone in or think you are in a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship, Chicken Nachos is a must read! Change the laws to protect the innocent and help protect the victims as they free themselves from the abuse.
@coomadoug That is interesting. While all psychologists say it is genetic or that the psychopathy/sociopathy is the nature of the person's physical brain, I instead believe you are correct. Thanks for your insight.
not all that can be deemed to be a "narcist" act or are totally equal. still , for the iron cage types this must be quite fit and well written. anyway, great vocals !
@mannySteinerBleeky what i was referring to was narcissistic defence mechanisms dont handle pure RAGE combined with deep cutting exposure very well. They feel that for sure. They dont take it well but they DO feel it. lol. Narcissist dont have self control with out their defences so in fighting one you will see raw emotion at extreme levels!! The conviction needed for those battles is akin to what i said before.
@deepmind50 - oh I forgot the old vampires don't have reflections thing - that's why it's so shattering for them to have to see themselves. The narcissist I mean, in terms of the analogy.
@deepmind50 - to beat them it's best not to play to their massive egos though, making them think they're like dracula or van helsing will just encoruage the core of their problems - which is that they have these big dramatic scenarios in their heads regarding all the stuff they are about. Big Players they may well really be - but the point is that none of that actually means anything in the real reality. Which = this reality, just minus all the overlays of lies the 4D-heads have.
hmmm reading some of these comments maybe the stalker is a narc then, cause they hate love and they are really demeaning towards anything to do with proper communication, love, intimacy, anything emotionally stable.
What about when you're being stalked obsessively by someone who lacks all ability to communicate, and you don't know where their obsession and abuse stemmed from cause you don't even know them in the first place? And when they also do things like make youtube channels that use your real name? And they steal cartoons you made and upload them to youtube, altered so they display all the hate abuse about you that all their comments have in them? & they upload videos about stealing coins you had?
"Like the other members of the team, he posed as a disinterested member of the public. Or, to be more accurate, as a crowd of disinterested members of the public: he used 70 personas, both to avoid detection and to create the impression there was widespread support for his pro-corporate arguments."
@randomlarpingman - what, you wish to be differentiated from them? On what basis? You're both exactly the same - you work for the same evil and do the same stuff for it.
@randomlarpingman - you'll never be awesome. Look at what you're doing - nobody would ever wish they were you. Who the fuck wants to become a sad deluded stalker?
@randomlarpingman - I can make one up if you want. You type 'Wrong' a lot and it makes me think of 'Wong' cause of the way you just announce it - it sounds like the dinner table bit in Res. Dogs and you can hear the guy going through his booklet, and someone just says kinda audibly, 'wong' in amoung the dialogue.
Then it reminds me of 'you've come to the Wong place' - cause of your Martian links.
@BrokenMaddie - moron, music isn't maths anyway. Maths just describes things in shorthand. And I don't have issues being taught fucking physics by proper teachers you dumb fuck.
@BrokenMaddie - so, you fancy yourself as a physics teacher do you? Who's that you're trying to be then? Maybe if you didn't invest so much 'faith' in the ability of maths to describe all things, you might notice what a crabbit old bastard you are. Still waiting on your descriptive formula for stuff like Dali's paintings brushstrokes - On the molecular arrangement and boundaries of oil on canvas & their correlation to Moon phases, the artists brain frequencies, and galactic center.
@BrokenMaddie - fuckwit I don't care whether you're pretending to be a physics teacher I had academically or if you actually are someone of that type - whoever you are you are still a fucking numpty for doing what you're doing, wasting your life posting crap to someone you'll never meet and-or don't have the balls to admit to in real life fuck all about anything. NOT IMPRESSED you immature dumbass.
The fact I've reminded you already - that what you are is actually mentally ill, and what I am is just normal - how many times now has that been told you? To how many of your different ASTROTURFER channels?
Fucktard you don't have a single clue about anything. Just kill yourself. You lack empathy entirely and you also can't communicate even close to normal - and you think you can say fuck all about anyone else.
@BrokenMaddie - why do you keep posting my cousins address & my name? Why claim I made any scenes - you proved me right again by stalking me to here, and you've gone ahead and posted the same lies and abuse and personal info - of people you don't know, who haven't had any contact with you ever - again.
And this website, and many others, moderators know you do that. That proves it's a conspiracy cause anyone else would have been banned years ago / many channels ago.
And you know it's not my address. Who is the 'everyone' you mean? Name them, and name yourself and post your address. Oh that's right, you have no balls and as soon as you're revealed you'd be basically bombed out of being.
@BrokenMaddie - if you define personality disorder as ensuring truth is kept to and always re-evaluating things so as not to give out wrong info, then I guess you do have to label me that then. Otherwise it's a blatant no isn't it. Rabid?! What a fucking astroturfer capitlaist fag notion - the idea that it's mad to be honest about how stupidly and abusively this has all been implemented like.
@BrokenMaddie - ever notice how some people focus on all the wrong kinds of things? Say fake people that only want to seem knowledgable about The Bard for example - they'll completely fail to appreciate what anyone doing the same thing now as was done back then, is doing - now. ie - had Shakespeare followed their rules for now back then, then there simply would be none of the plays or anything else.
i have lived around many and a narcissist does have weaknesses, exposure being one. "GROW UP YOU IMMATURE PATHETIC ASS OR I WILL RIP THAT MASK OFF YOU FOR THE WORLD TO SPIT ON!! Works
Okay on the one hand you have the aggressor who leaves those to suffer in their wake, I get that. And on the other hand you have those who have suffered immensely in their struggle to deal with or love the aggressor, I get that too. I'm not saying that people are pardoned their behavior because of their disease. My entire point is that we all have issues, there are faults and flaws within every last one of us. That being said, w/ mercy are we really the ones to grant it our withhold it?
To such people mercy is like a cockroach sandwich. They not only don't know what it is, it is the equal of their greatest fear... intimacy and genuine love.
They don't have the intelligence to understand it, deliver it or receive it. Don't waste it on a Narc and don't ever expect to receive it.If it comes your way from them and it feels good its an accident, a mistake or a trap.
I know a man who has little money. He gives it away to people who dont deserve it. They use him and drink and smoke his money away while not bothering to get work. He gives it away because his father was a Narcissistic parent and put him down constantly for 20 years. Now each time he gives a person money he is trying to hear his father say "thanks Don, you are a good man".This happens to a lot of victims.
They seek the approval of their abuser for a life time Even after they are dead
It is a bit like team work where I live. there are a lot of crazy people and Narcissistic types. There are the victims giving away their lives seeking some affirmation to make up for all the put downs from their abuser. They go from one to the other seeking these affirmations and the Narcs know what they have on their hands and they feed this desire and use them up. Perhaps the narcs should have a market day where they take their victim along and they can move around the stalls.
If dealing with this personality is difficult, then living their life (and consequences of their actions) has to also be difficult. Frustration/anger/hatred are all understandable emotions for those who fall victim. But utimately, they are endless victims of themselvesones- left untouchable by their own demise. Everyone else can move on, right? But they cant ever really escape their thoughts (of crazy regret), their self destructive patterns or the utter chaos they bring on themselves.
You say their lives are difficult. This might seem so as you observe and apply empathy. However, to put weight to the notion that their lives are difficult is wasted compassion. The analogy i like is the tragic dogs life. They have the sharpest hearing, but their behavior makes them unpopular in the theater. Do you feel sorry for the queen's corgy's because they are not permitted to attend the royal theater?
It seems they rationalise things but feel nothing. Unfortunately feeling things is 80% of the task of living a decent life. If you cant feel things, you have to rationalise everything. This is clumsey, shallow, and weak.
The inability to feel is a result of total self denial. This type of person will move swiftly to the fake self, which is as far as possible from the true self. This person doesnt want to feel anything genuine from the true self.
This song describes me. It is actually extremely painful for me when people try to get to know me or get close to me. It almost physically hurts. Especially if I like them and I know theyre good people. I want to be close to them but I'm so scared that they'll HATE who I am. I'd rather act like someone they'd like, even if it ends up being a shallow relationship..
This self annalysisyou have made is not possible for a Narcissist.
A Narcissist hates the self and the act they put on is so they dont have to see the true self because of this extreme self loathing. They really dont care what other people think. Yes that is is, they dont care.
You express care. The Narc does not posses this trait.
You seek affirmations for the true self, this is an admirable thing.
Perhaps you are describing shyness here. Self denial can be merely hiding. People grow out of shyness. It is the fake self and the acting that can become a problem.
@700moby In part because the Ns see there parents as gods, not as people. Therefore, the behavior (narcissitic) of the parents is seen as 'godlike'. At a point in life, a child has to be told that 'your parents are insane.' Yes you must love and respect your parents, per the Commandments. Still, these are humans. Not God. Please pray for all victims (yes victims) of narcissism.
The female image is just a fake person, after all make up and rollers are just that.
I am playing the song and filming the mirror image. The camera is pointed at the mirror. Narcissists look at the fake self as a mirror image. That is, they find and admire their fake self in the face and action of others as they respond to the Narcissistic games and fake emotional moods. Never do they self reflect or look inwards.
@coomadoug Cool. Great lyrics. Are you sure about the female? She looks to be someone I know. The only reason I said 'reverse' is because I looked at the lyric sheet.
so true happycat, I can see this woman headed for a huge heart break. She wants to believe his lies, that his wife was not good to him.Sadly since he left me after 17 years of marrage, and said he wants to hurt me as much as he can, she is in for a lot of pain, that she could of avoided.
@happycat2010 Right you are. I bear the woman no harm or hurt, I posted to her blog trying to warn her, that if he left me after 17 years of marrage, he will not think twice of leaving her, unfortunatly, she will bellive his lies, because shee does now want to hear the truth, sadly she will find out when he hurts her the way he did m;e.
sadly everything, and I do mean everything in this song is 100% smack dab hit on. I know I have been married to a narcissistic man for 16 years now and counting, while he is living with another woman in another state, being dissabled I do not have the money to pay for the divorce that he said HE WANTS, that he has not gotten yet. just another part of his narcissism.( yes he has and is making my life HELL ) - he even said he intneds to hurt me as much as he can.
@starfish50 That is really sad. Maybe you can talk to some attorneys and see what you can do about getting some help for yourself. You don't deserve to be living in that sort of hell. I can imagine what the other woman is going through. Her life is probably just as bad, if you ask me, she deserves it for living with a married man.
@happycat2010 The sadest part is I messaged the woman on facebook and tried to warn her that he will hurt her.If he would leave his faithful wife after 17 years of marrage for her, he will leave her in a heart beat. She has been warned, sadly she won't listen, and he will hurt her too, she won't be able to say she was not warned to distance herself from him, before he gets the chance to hurt her.
@starfish50 That is sad, but that is human nature. When we want something bad enough, that's all we focus on. I think deep down inside, she senses that it's true, BUT she doesn't want to hear the truth. It is unfortunate, because she is going to regret it and end up with needless heartache. I only hope she wakes up and realizes her mistake.
Ns have been great teachers in my life. Because I was enticed into their hell and managed to escape alive, I now appreciate geninue love and a piece of heaven on earth.
@700moby It truly is a scary thing when you think about it. What's even scarier is being with someone who has NPD. No matter what you do or say they are never happy and they are always nasty and critical. It's really a sad sad thing.
I was married to a guy that was narcississtic and it's no fun. When he was around family and friends with me , he treated me like a queen, behind closed doors he treated me like dirt under his feet. He had no emotion whatsoever. He was afraid to have fun, he had no appreciation for ANYTHING and everything was ABOUT HIM and what HE WANTED. Needless to say, I was able to get away. It was a VERY SHORT marriage, but long enough to be traumatizing.
@700moby It could be something that triggered from mental abuse. Often times the psychiatric disorders people develop are triggered by abuse or some type of trauma that they experienced in life. They may just feel that they have to cover the true self because the true self just is not good enough because that is what they were raised to believe.
@happycat2010 Thats exactly how it is... especially with over-critical and perfectionist parents. this is what made me extremely self centered and never felt good enough for anybody, or even for myself. Thats what triggers the "false" self and I will do almost anything to keep it alive, even though I realize it now...
@hagadaba It must be a very difficult thing to live with. It's hard being with someone that has NPD, but I am sure it is even harder for the person that has it because they see nothing wrong with what they are doing
I've been reading your comments here and I totally understand your story. Also the others who have told their story here. The first time I listened to this song, I did not select it to play it was done by another person in the room and I was having breakfast. I didn't see the lyrics or the haunting face. But the words dug into me and bumped my heart. I listened again 10 times. I went to work and it was on my mind all week. By Friday I was feeling better then I have in 20 years.
Their's is no excuse for their behavior but a concious evil decission to break the weak to make their own pityful excistense better.They're bullys ,cowrds ,liars ,cheaters,miserable,childish, selfish,inconsiderate,decietful UNEMOTIONAL and every name they call us.How dare they try to break a good heart bc their pain and go bout it in such a sneaky way. Yes ive experienced the behavior of an NARCISSIT but i'll NEVER BE LIKE HIM and that's my revenge remaining the Better.
norgerdsurg.....same story of almost 6 yrs. He rescued me from a bad situation.....just to lift me up and took great jou in watching me fall.Im still not past my love for him. I guess I still think I seen the good side of him...or rather chose to. It hurts alot.
This is me... I'm stuck in Hell... Can't find me anymore... I'm a pessimist... Don't see no good things coming my way... Tired of waiting on life to get better...Not going to happen for me... I am literally stuck in Hell with no way out... I cry and I pray for a brand new day... None comes my way... Hanging on the best I can... Not looking for a handout just a chance...
peggysweet13 2 weeks ago
@peggysweet13
Peggy this song is about an Narcist. A person with a personality disorder. Is that you? or are you dealing with someone with this disorder?
Ramona1803 1 week ago
@peggysweet13 Meditation and energy medicine and hypnotherapy are good treatments for NPD. The Native American Shaman has some good voodoo that saved my life a few years ago. Try everything - especially the things that Western Medico's tell you are junk. There is nothing in Western Med that can help with this. I had traumatic NPD a few years ago and now I'm cured. You can do it too.
Ncyim 11 hours ago
thank you for sharing..maybe now we, that know of someone like this can take the blame off ourselves for once. we cannot make people happy if they are not capable of these emotions.
moonlightontheriver 3 weeks ago
lol It fits so well someone I know :)
MissIsoSL 1 month ago
Thanks for all the information on NPD. I learned so much watching this video..............
MissJeanette69 1 month ago
Please make this song available on cd
IndieQueer1 1 month ago
I can't stop playing this. It describes my father to the T.
IndieQueer1 1 month ago
Great and truthful song! I would love to play this in court!
tunky08 1 month ago
The complicated truth for sure. Amazing how people who are not familiar with this disorder can't comprehend the person I spent 28 years with. I feel sorry for her, but gratefull someone else jumped in that hole, and now I feel sorry for him...
knowspin 2 months ago
@knowspin 10-4 on that one. Some sorry chap got mine, and the poor guy is trying to kill himself. I lasted 10 years, and hes suicidal after 2. Poor guy.....
ufozmankato 1 month ago
Cool
fetermcblues 2 months ago
Excellent.
jvrmusic 2 months ago
Magnifique. Truest chanson/song all 2011...
XXXtASSy007 2 months ago
Bleach
If you had it you would not admit it. If you have it you would deny it. If you had it you wouldnt know what the song means and why it is interesting. If you had it you wouldnt have friends, just hangers on and people to manipulate. If you had it...most importantly..nothing can ever insult you. So the good news is..you dont have it. Lucky for you
donaldblowers 2 months ago
@donaldblowers the problem with what you are saying is your implying that i'm not proud of being narcissistic. if i'm narcissistic (which i am) and i'm proud of it(which i am), i'd flaunt it(which i do). so, mind your own damn business and i'm also a cancer, we need our friends and family. do yo studyin biotch
bleachfan368 1 month ago
@bleachfan368
If that is the case then you also hate yourself
OptaMistical777 3 weeks ago
@OptaMistical777 i never said i didn't i have times when all i can think is god you suck. times when i'd burn myself, but i never let anyone see that side of me. and why the fuck do y'all care so damn much about my shit. fuck you'd think y'all people didn't have a life or something. oh yea you don't.
bleachfan368 3 weeks ago
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@donaldblowers the problem with what you are saying is your implying that i'm not proud of being narcissistic. if i'm narcissistic (which i am) and i'm proud of it(which i am), i'd flaunt it(which i do). so, mind your own damn business and i'm also a cancer, we need our friends and family. do yo studyin
bleachfan368 1 month ago
I think this a horrible song hating on people narcissistic personality disorder. I'm completely insulted. I have this disorder, but if your a friend you may never even know I have this problem, but if you cross me it shows.
bleachfan368 2 months ago
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Bleach
If you had it you would not admit it. If you have it you would deny it. If you had it you wouldnt know what the song means and why it is interesting. If you had it you wouldnt have friends, just hangers on and people to manipulate. If you had it...most importantly..nothing can ever insult you. So the good news is..you dont have it. Lucky for you
donaldblowers 2 months ago
@bleachfan368 Great comment, but great song......
ufozmankato 1 month ago
HELO very cool
TheBlueSafyre 2 months ago
You kinda sound like Johnny Cash!
misspinkpunkykat 3 months ago
These lyrics are making so simple something that is not understood well.
I was born in 1944. My father was this man in this song. My sister the female version. I married one, i worked for one and I live next door to a family of them.
I think many of our politicians sing this song each day.
It is not til tody that i finally get the picture because of this song.
thanks mr Cooma Doug
donaldblowers 3 months ago
I WOULD HAVE RATHER HIM EXPLAIN THIS ATTITUDE TO ME INSTEAD OF PRETENDING THAT HE IS SOMETHING THAT HE WAS NOT.
THIS BEHAVIOR CAUSES THE RELATIONSHIP TO BE A LIE.
AT THE TIME THERE WASN'T AS MUCH INFORMATION ON BIPOLAR AS IT IS TODAY....BUT DEEP DOWN I BELIEVE THAT I TOUCHED HIM...OR MAYBE NOT?
THANKS 4 THIS GREAT SONG....IT EXPLAINS EVERYTHING I WANTED TO KNOW.....MUCH SUCCESS! THIS HELPED MORE THEN YOU KNOW..... :D
maryhadalittlelamb25 3 months ago
@maryhadalittlelamb25
I found this thing too and I think I would write the same as your comment
donaldblowers 3 months ago
Yeah, I accidently discovered this gem of a video.. I went about my daily life singing the chorus of this song and wondering where the hell it came from.. That is a true sign of a good song, in my eyes....
proudy666 3 months ago
You remind me of Johnny Cash LoL... Great song =D
IIxWOLFxII 3 months ago
Your voice is fantastic, and wonderful lyrics!
Where did you get the inspiration? :3
FoamKittyGamer 3 months ago
@FoamKittyGamer
I know someone like that and I didnt realise that so many people would see someone they know in the song
coomadoug 3 months ago
@coomadoug It's a common problem, and it's scary when you realize how many people can go casually with this disorder.
Of course there's many disorders out there, it's a growing problem.
People are becoming more and more aware, and I think that's a good thing because it's helped lots of people with mental illnesses overcome their problems, but people can still be ignorant.
I've came across teachers who judged me poorly because of my struggles. (not narcissism) But, I'm going off-topic.
FoamKittyGamer 3 months ago
Very good indeed! That's a song I could listen to over and over again. My sort of thing!
proudy666 3 months ago
THAT IS SAD CAUSE THERE ARE MANY OUT THERE LIKE THAT. BUT GREAT JOB WITH THE SONG....FUNNY HOW IT'S TRUE*
7KEDDY7 4 months ago
that was really great keepem comming
willieraye 4 months ago
I LOve it !!
houdapurple 4 months ago
The key to this ballad : I
!! I. I am lonely yet when some one wishes me well I_ make their life hell. Nuff said!
yneal1960 4 months ago
T O O L R E F L E C T I O N
saprissa30 4 months ago
terrific!, terrific, you made my day with such a beautifully interesting melody and style, ive never heard a tune like that verging on perfection i am a fan.
graffitimike1 5 months ago
I like your tunes, you have your own very unique cool style, with a ting of roy orbison, johnny cash, i love your lyrics "my greatest fear are her loving eyes, and hand across my "thighs" disguise. As well as the invitation/threat at end na na naetc very nice , i look forward to much more, good day Sir . S .Alvis
XavierOnitova 6 months ago 4
@XavierOnitova
This is a splendid comment and greatly appreciated
coomadoug 5 months ago
nice video, bra. My mother, I think. poor creature. My father and I bot have adhd and asperger's autism spectrum disorder. When we have episodes, she tells us that We are abusing Her by not giving her attention. So we ignore her for our own sanity unless there's just no escape.
AuglereDeRosenkinde 6 months ago
yes its is exacly my ex man! i am so glad i am free of him! because he makes my live miserable
kinenevemitchell 7 months ago
So very true and so very sad. Just found my way out of the well and the living hell. Nice to see the light again.
k94keeps 7 months ago
nice
rustcorpsickle1 7 months ago
Hey I was married to him!
feelzgood1 7 months ago
If you want to read the rants of the biggest narcissist in the history of mankind then go to @dimitrithelover on twitter. The size of this seduction guru's ego is beyond words. Trust me.
MrToronto2009 7 months ago
This is so frigging funny!!! Love the wig! Love the glasses. So true though, I am not sure if I am laughing or crying! Lovely artistery!
bierhardt59 7 months ago
You kinda sound liked Johnny Cash.
misspinkpunkykat 7 months ago
@700moby because love makes them hurt inside.
mkschreder 7 months ago
@eilahtan67 You are a victim, and ...are you strong enough to pull yourself out of the well?
colleenallmyfriends 7 months ago
@700moby I believe they fear love because they feel "failed" by love when they loved the deepest & were the most vulnerable. My BF admired his father, successful businessman & private pilot. BF used to fly frequently w/ him in his Bonanza twin engine. Only 13yrs old, he lost his dad in an airplane crash, both wings broken off, nose gear & fuselage intact. BF is pilot, flight instructor, A&P technician, airplane inspections,+ jack of trades. Heartbroken,abandoned,cheated ...deep unhealed wounds.
colleenallmyfriends 7 months ago
I think this song is right on. It is painful to love a narcissist, tears your heart. Hopeless and so sad.
colleenallmyfriends 8 months ago
was ok but idk kinda odd lol just different
ConradTheSinner 8 months ago
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ChickenNachosPG 8 months ago
@coomadoug That is interesting. While all psychologists say it is genetic or that the psychopathy/sociopathy is the nature of the person's physical brain, I instead believe you are correct. Thanks for your insight.
OdeToNecrophilia 9 months ago
Doug, do you think this counts for Sociopaths or Psychopaths?
OdeToNecrophilia 9 months ago
not all that can be deemed to be a "narcist" act or are totally equal. still , for the iron cage types this must be quite fit and well written. anyway, great vocals !
lezvarthok 9 months ago
Your song was wonderful, thank you.
Opalsunflower 9 months ago
"A modern plague" - I agree. The way I see it, narcissism plagues much of society today.
ObnoxiousOldFart 10 months ago
the narcissit's anthem
patriciacarrasco 10 months ago
Love the song! Great lyrics!
DiamondDecoy 10 months ago
@mannySteinerBleeky what i was referring to was narcissistic defence mechanisms dont handle pure RAGE combined with deep cutting exposure very well. They feel that for sure. They dont take it well but they DO feel it. lol. Narcissist dont have self control with out their defences so in fighting one you will see raw emotion at extreme levels!! The conviction needed for those battles is akin to what i said before.
deepmind50 10 months ago
@deepmind50 - oh I forgot the old vampires don't have reflections thing - that's why it's so shattering for them to have to see themselves. The narcissist I mean, in terms of the analogy.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
fighting a narcissist is draining and i dont promote it to those who arent ready. It's alot like VanHelsing fighting Dracula.
deepmind50 10 months ago
@deepmind50 - to beat them it's best not to play to their massive egos though, making them think they're like dracula or van helsing will just encoruage the core of their problems - which is that they have these big dramatic scenarios in their heads regarding all the stuff they are about. Big Players they may well really be - but the point is that none of that actually means anything in the real reality. Which = this reality, just minus all the overlays of lies the 4D-heads have.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
hmmm reading some of these comments maybe the stalker is a narc then, cause they hate love and they are really demeaning towards anything to do with proper communication, love, intimacy, anything emotionally stable.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
What about when you're being stalked obsessively by someone who lacks all ability to communicate, and you don't know where their obsession and abuse stemmed from cause you don't even know them in the first place? And when they also do things like make youtube channels that use your real name? And they steal cartoons you made and upload them to youtube, altered so they display all the hate abuse about you that all their comments have in them? & they upload videos about stealing coins you had?
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky As if stuff like that actually happens.
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
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@randomlarpingman - you're knowingly doing those things,
guardian(dot)co(dot)uk/environment/georgemonbiot/2011/feb/23/need-to-protect-internet-from-astroturfing
"Like the other members of the team, he posed as a disinterested member of the public. Or, to be more accurate, as a crowd of disinterested members of the public: he used 70 personas, both to avoid detection and to create the impression there was widespread support for his pro-corporate arguments."
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman = Fnord.
I can see you Fnools just fine all along, you didn't fool me for even a second.
btw you're still posting there from a channel made that clones my original youtube channel, randomlaughingman.
As does about 40 of your other fake cloned channels also clone that channel I had.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky Lies!
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - not lies, you're the same person as BrokenMaddie etc. Astroturfer homo shill.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky Wrong.
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - what, you wish to be differentiated from them? On what basis? You're both exactly the same - you work for the same evil and do the same stuff for it.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky On the basis that I'm awesome, and the beekeeper.
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - you'll never be awesome. Look at what you're doing - nobody would ever wish they were you. Who the fuck wants to become a sad deluded stalker?
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky HOW DARE YOU IMPLY BEEKEEPERS ARE SAD DELUDED STALKERS??!!?! >:(
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - imply?
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
im·ply
1. To involve by logical necessity; entail: Life implies growth and death.
2. To express or indicate indirectly: His tone implied disapproval.
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - kin ell.
i wrote 'imply?' as in DUH - naw, I stated that they are, I didn't fucking imply it.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
state·ment
1. The act of stating or declaring.
2. Something stated; a declaration.
3. Law A formal pleading.
4. An abstract of a commercial or financial account showing an amount due; a bill.
5. A monthly report sent to a debtor or bank depositor.
6. Computer Science An elementary instruction in a programming language.
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - you just listed something you stole off about dot com again, right after saying here that I'm autistic...
I don't think you quite grasp something - I'm not the one with issues communicating or remembering things in context of the order they take place.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
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randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky Wrong
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - you went to the Wong place.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky Hey where's the R, Clara?
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - it's a Futurama ref.
But the R can also be found on that Rennes Les Chateau painting.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky So what's the connection between futurama and that painting? I bet it has something to do with reptoids.
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - I can make one up if you want. You type 'Wrong' a lot and it makes me think of 'Wong' cause of the way you just announce it - it sounds like the dinner table bit in Res. Dogs and you can hear the guy going through his booklet, and someone just says kinda audibly, 'wong' in amoung the dialogue.
Then it reminds me of 'you've come to the Wong place' - cause of your Martian links.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky Haha that's hilarious, Clara.
randomlarpingman 10 months ago
@randomlarpingman - it's just true, if it makes you laugh then - whatev.
Everything I experience sounds off all its harmonics like that.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
oooh, harmonics. gonna tell us about fourier analysis now, engineer?
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - no. Why, do you teach that as well as keep bees?
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
the best teacher in the world couldn't teach you the true nature of the harmonic series, dummy.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - moron, music isn't maths anyway. Maths just describes things in shorthand. And I don't have issues being taught fucking physics by proper teachers you dumb fuck.
"Can you measure it for us?" you QVC twat.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - so, you fancy yourself as a physics teacher do you? Who's that you're trying to be then? Maybe if you didn't invest so much 'faith' in the ability of maths to describe all things, you might notice what a crabbit old bastard you are. Still waiting on your descriptive formula for stuff like Dali's paintings brushstrokes - On the molecular arrangement and boundaries of oil on canvas & their correlation to Moon phases, the artists brain frequencies, and galactic center.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - fuckwit I don't care whether you're pretending to be a physics teacher I had academically or if you actually are someone of that type - whoever you are you are still a fucking numpty for doing what you're doing, wasting your life posting crap to someone you'll never meet and-or don't have the balls to admit to in real life fuck all about anything. NOT IMPRESSED you immature dumbass.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
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@MannySteinerBleeky
" I don't care whether you're pretending to be a physics teacher I had academically or if you actually are someone of that type "
I seriously doubt that you did any form of Fourier analysis in your HND.
I'm guessing you didn't study mathematics or DSP either.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky .
My mistake, you used the word "harmonic" as if you actually understood what it meant.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - no fag it's just 'my mistake' and then you should have stopped there.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
you are autistic.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - based on?
The fact I've reminded you already - that what you are is actually mentally ill, and what I am is just normal - how many times now has that been told you? To how many of your different ASTROTURFER channels?
Fucktard you don't have a single clue about anything. Just kill yourself. You lack empathy entirely and you also can't communicate even close to normal - and you think you can say fuck all about anyone else.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
nobody is stalking you, or stealing your crappy "cartoons"
and nobody has stolen your coin.
relax, you're making a scene.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie -
1. you've been stalking me - as you again prove by your response - for over a decade online.
2. you uploaded a video about stealing my coin, which you post at daily, using multiple ASTROTURFING channels
3. you stole my Operation Koala animation & uploaded it to this website, using yet another of your many ASTROTURFING channels
4. exposing evil & telling the truth isn't making a scene, you child-molesting useless-eater sicko freak. Kill yourself.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
You're making a scene.
Clara Massa,
28 ARDGOWAN STREET,
GREENOCK
PA168EH
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - why do you keep posting my cousins address & my name? Why claim I made any scenes - you proved me right again by stalking me to here, and you've gone ahead and posted the same lies and abuse and personal info - of people you don't know, who haven't had any contact with you ever - again.
And this website, and many others, moderators know you do that. That proves it's a conspiracy cause anyone else would have been banned years ago / many channels ago.
Kill yourself scumbag.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
Everyone knows its your address. It's shameful that you try and shift it to your cousin.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - see? You're BrokenMaddie.
And you know it's not my address. Who is the 'everyone' you mean? Name them, and name yourself and post your address. Oh that's right, you have no balls and as soon as you're revealed you'd be basically bombed out of being.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
Are you sure you don't have a personallity disorder?
you seem quite....rabid.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - if you define personality disorder as ensuring truth is kept to and always re-evaluating things so as not to give out wrong info, then I guess you do have to label me that then. Otherwise it's a blatant no isn't it. Rabid?! What a fucking astroturfer capitlaist fag notion - the idea that it's mad to be honest about how stupidly and abusively this has all been implemented like.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky
Nope. That isn't my definition. Why would it be? Crazy bitch.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - why it would be is so's you can slot me into your evaluation of me accurately.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@MannySteinerBleeky .
nope. any meaning in that is lost in the grammar.
BrokenMaddie 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - well if you have issues comprehending that, then don't ever try to teach English ever. Not that I think you do.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
@BrokenMaddie - ever notice how some people focus on all the wrong kinds of things? Say fake people that only want to seem knowledgable about The Bard for example - they'll completely fail to appreciate what anyone doing the same thing now as was done back then, is doing - now. ie - had Shakespeare followed their rules for now back then, then there simply would be none of the plays or anything else.
MannySteinerBleeky 10 months ago
i have lived around many and a narcissist does have weaknesses, exposure being one. "GROW UP YOU IMMATURE PATHETIC ASS OR I WILL RIP THAT MASK OFF YOU FOR THE WORLD TO SPIT ON!! Works
deepmind50 11 months ago
this video is an excellent description of a narcissistic mind structure
deepmind50 11 months ago
@700moby
It is easy to see these things coming.
Next door there are two Jack Russell terriers.
They are husband and wife. They sit quietly when they have been fed.
But if we throw a piece of steak over the fence,,the relationship is on the rocks
coomadoug 11 months ago 3
@coomadoug lol from a vegetarian perpective maybe the steak is the problem. Stop throwing steak at narcy dogs!
Riversleigh1 10 months ago
Nice POV here...
AlgisKemezys 11 months ago
Okay on the one hand you have the aggressor who leaves those to suffer in their wake, I get that. And on the other hand you have those who have suffered immensely in their struggle to deal with or love the aggressor, I get that too. I'm not saying that people are pardoned their behavior because of their disease. My entire point is that we all have issues, there are faults and flaws within every last one of us. That being said, w/ mercy are we really the ones to grant it our withhold it?
machial1 11 months ago
@machial1
Mercy indeed.
To such people mercy is like a cockroach sandwich. They not only don't know what it is, it is the equal of their greatest fear... intimacy and genuine love.
They don't have the intelligence to understand it, deliver it or receive it. Don't waste it on a Narc and don't ever expect to receive it.If it comes your way from them and it feels good its an accident, a mistake or a trap.
sandraplumberd 11 months ago
@sandraplumberd Okay then!
machial1 11 months ago
@machial1
I know a man who has little money. He gives it away to people who dont deserve it. They use him and drink and smoke his money away while not bothering to get work. He gives it away because his father was a Narcissistic parent and put him down constantly for 20 years. Now each time he gives a person money he is trying to hear his father say "thanks Don, you are a good man".This happens to a lot of victims.
They seek the approval of their abuser for a life time Even after they are dead
sandraplumberd 11 months ago
@machial1
It is a bit like team work where I live. there are a lot of crazy people and Narcissistic types. There are the victims giving away their lives seeking some affirmation to make up for all the put downs from their abuser. They go from one to the other seeking these affirmations and the Narcs know what they have on their hands and they feed this desire and use them up. Perhaps the narcs should have a market day where they take their victim along and they can move around the stalls.
sandraplumberd 11 months ago
Great song man!
mattmeyermatt 11 months ago
If dealing with this personality is difficult, then living their life (and consequences of their actions) has to also be difficult. Frustration/anger/hatred are all understandable emotions for those who fall victim. But utimately, they are endless victims of themselvesones- left untouchable by their own demise. Everyone else can move on, right? But they cant ever really escape their thoughts (of crazy regret), their self destructive patterns or the utter chaos they bring on themselves.
machial1 11 months ago 2
@machial1
You say their lives are difficult. This might seem so as you observe and apply empathy. However, to put weight to the notion that their lives are difficult is wasted compassion. The analogy i like is the tragic dogs life. They have the sharpest hearing, but their behavior makes them unpopular in the theater. Do you feel sorry for the queen's corgy's because they are not permitted to attend the royal theater?
sandraplumberd 11 months ago
reveiling, very good self observation. Why doing that difficult when ist is easy.What to hide for and why hiding always.
So Narcism hurts yourself and the other to.
emy601000 11 months ago
Hey what's up, are you the guy from the video????
If you are, that kind of makes me see that I am the young one on the forum
cubbex 1 year ago
kind of reminds me of me helping these types of ppl.
XolisykeswifeX 1 year ago
@calloway7000
It seems they rationalise things but feel nothing. Unfortunately feeling things is 80% of the task of living a decent life. If you cant feel things, you have to rationalise everything. This is clumsey, shallow, and weak.
The inability to feel is a result of total self denial. This type of person will move swiftly to the fake self, which is as far as possible from the true self. This person doesnt want to feel anything genuine from the true self.
coomadoug 1 year ago
This song describes me. It is actually extremely painful for me when people try to get to know me or get close to me. It almost physically hurts. Especially if I like them and I know theyre good people. I want to be close to them but I'm so scared that they'll HATE who I am. I'd rather act like someone they'd like, even if it ends up being a shallow relationship..
MiamiPush2theLimit 1 year ago 2
@MiamiPush2theLimit
What a fabulous observation.
This self annalysisyou have made is not possible for a Narcissist.
A Narcissist hates the self and the act they put on is so they dont have to see the true self because of this extreme self loathing. They really dont care what other people think. Yes that is is, they dont care.
You express care. The Narc does not posses this trait.
You seek affirmations for the true self, this is an admirable thing.
coomadoug 1 year ago
@MiamiPush2theLimit
Perhaps you are describing shyness here. Self denial can be merely hiding. People grow out of shyness. It is the fake self and the acting that can become a problem.
coomadoug 1 year ago
Am i the only one who was scared the crap out of at the thumbnail picture???0_o
HazelleJ1 1 year ago
@700moby In part because the Ns see there parents as gods, not as people. Therefore, the behavior (narcissitic) of the parents is seen as 'godlike'. At a point in life, a child has to be told that 'your parents are insane.' Yes you must love and respect your parents, per the Commandments. Still, these are humans. Not God. Please pray for all victims (yes victims) of narcissism.
rjpancerniCAUSA 1 year ago
@rjpancerniCAUSA
Prayer and religion is a tool of denial in most cases. It is much easier to get on your knees and talk to the sky
then to look in the mirror and consult the problem head on.
sandraplumberd 11 months ago
You are not left handed, yet you play the video 'in reverse'.
Who is the female image?
rjpancerniCAUSA 1 year ago
@rjpancerniCAUSA
The female image is just a fake person, after all make up and rollers are just that.
I am playing the song and filming the mirror image. The camera is pointed at the mirror. Narcissists look at the fake self as a mirror image. That is, they find and admire their fake self in the face and action of others as they respond to the Narcissistic games and fake emotional moods. Never do they self reflect or look inwards.
coomadoug 1 year ago 2
@coomadoug Cool. Great lyrics. Are you sure about the female? She looks to be someone I know. The only reason I said 'reverse' is because I looked at the lyric sheet.
rjpancerniCAUSA 1 year ago
Appreciate the tune.
thewartortle 1 year ago
so true happycat, I can see this woman headed for a huge heart break. She wants to believe his lies, that his wife was not good to him.Sadly since he left me after 17 years of marrage, and said he wants to hurt me as much as he can, she is in for a lot of pain, that she could of avoided.
starfish50 1 year ago
@happycat2010 Right you are. I bear the woman no harm or hurt, I posted to her blog trying to warn her, that if he left me after 17 years of marrage, he will not think twice of leaving her, unfortunatly, she will bellive his lies, because shee does now want to hear the truth, sadly she will find out when he hurts her the way he did m;e.
starfish50 1 year ago
really wanna dl this song!! but link wont work =[
sokmydick 1 year ago
I know and was the vivtim of a narcissistic bitch. She beat her children,drugged me and stole 6,000 bucks from me.
DaleSrRocked 1 year ago
Dude I love this, thank you mister singer/guitar player.
Yoshies87 1 year ago
The discussion that goes on here people is fascinating for me. What hell hornets nest did i stir up here?
coomadoug 1 year ago
sadly everything, and I do mean everything in this song is 100% smack dab hit on. I know I have been married to a narcissistic man for 16 years now and counting, while he is living with another woman in another state, being dissabled I do not have the money to pay for the divorce that he said HE WANTS, that he has not gotten yet. just another part of his narcissism.( yes he has and is making my life HELL ) - he even said he intneds to hurt me as much as he can.
starfish50 1 year ago
@starfish50 That is really sad. Maybe you can talk to some attorneys and see what you can do about getting some help for yourself. You don't deserve to be living in that sort of hell. I can imagine what the other woman is going through. Her life is probably just as bad, if you ask me, she deserves it for living with a married man.
happycat2010 1 year ago
@happycat2010 The sadest part is I messaged the woman on facebook and tried to warn her that he will hurt her.If he would leave his faithful wife after 17 years of marrage for her, he will leave her in a heart beat. She has been warned, sadly she won't listen, and he will hurt her too, she won't be able to say she was not warned to distance herself from him, before he gets the chance to hurt her.
starfish50 1 year ago
@starfish50 That is sad, but that is human nature. When we want something bad enough, that's all we focus on. I think deep down inside, she senses that it's true, BUT she doesn't want to hear the truth. It is unfortunate, because she is going to regret it and end up with needless heartache. I only hope she wakes up and realizes her mistake.
happycat2010 1 year ago
faved and shared
inspirediam 1 year ago
Ns have been great teachers in my life. Because I was enticed into their hell and managed to escape alive, I now appreciate geninue love and a piece of heaven on earth.
HealthyPlanet 1 year ago
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darthukas 1 year ago
this is kind of addicting song i keep having it pop up in my head and have to come back and listen
DropDeadCouture 1 year ago
@700moby It truly is a scary thing when you think about it. What's even scarier is being with someone who has NPD. No matter what you do or say they are never happy and they are always nasty and critical. It's really a sad sad thing.
happycat2010 1 year ago
@happycat2010 start treating a narc how they treat you. then see what happens.
DropDeadCouture 1 year ago
@700moby i wonder why they perpetuate it because it certainly is not a happy or enjoyable way to live.
DropDeadCouture 1 year ago
its sad. i feel sorry for narcissists. they are the cause of their own deep insecurity and ideals for themselves. i know one.
DropDeadCouture 1 year ago
I was married to a guy that was narcississtic and it's no fun. When he was around family and friends with me , he treated me like a queen, behind closed doors he treated me like dirt under his feet. He had no emotion whatsoever. He was afraid to have fun, he had no appreciation for ANYTHING and everything was ABOUT HIM and what HE WANTED. Needless to say, I was able to get away. It was a VERY SHORT marriage, but long enough to be traumatizing.
happycat2010 1 year ago
@700moby It could be something that triggered from mental abuse. Often times the psychiatric disorders people develop are triggered by abuse or some type of trauma that they experienced in life. They may just feel that they have to cover the true self because the true self just is not good enough because that is what they were raised to believe.
happycat2010 1 year ago
@happycat2010 Thats exactly how it is... especially with over-critical and perfectionist parents. this is what made me extremely self centered and never felt good enough for anybody, or even for myself. Thats what triggers the "false" self and I will do almost anything to keep it alive, even though I realize it now...
hagadaba 1 year ago
@hagadaba It must be a very difficult thing to live with. It's hard being with someone that has NPD, but I am sure it is even harder for the person that has it because they see nothing wrong with what they are doing
happycat2010 1 year ago
Brilliant song!!!
davidmartinsvideos 1 year ago
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its sad. i feel sorry for narcissists. they are the cause of their own deep insecurity and ideals for themselves. i know one.
DropDeadCouture 1 year ago
Great song Doug; love the lyrics; so true....but the best was the nahnahnahnahnah at the end; harhar
amccann7 1 year ago
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its sad. i feel sorry for narcissists. they are the cause of their own deep insecurity and ideals for themselves. i know one.
DropDeadCouture 1 year ago
If you need a freind and are interested in my website still in progress let me know. I shall pray for you and I ask that you pray for me.
herbbieluvbug 1 year ago
@herbbieluvbug
I've been reading your comments here and I totally understand your story. Also the others who have told their story here. The first time I listened to this song, I did not select it to play it was done by another person in the room and I was having breakfast. I didn't see the lyrics or the haunting face. But the words dug into me and bumped my heart. I listened again 10 times. I went to work and it was on my mind all week. By Friday I was feeling better then I have in 20 years.
mrsbentmind 1 year ago
@herbbieluvbug
I will be waiting on your web site also
mrsbentmind 1 year ago
Their's is no excuse for their behavior but a concious evil decission to break the weak to make their own pityful excistense better.They're bullys ,cowrds ,liars ,cheaters,miserable,childish, selfish,inconsiderate,decietful UNEMOTIONAL and every name they call us.How dare they try to break a good heart bc their pain and go bout it in such a sneaky way. Yes ive experienced the behavior of an NARCISSIT but i'll NEVER BE LIKE HIM and that's my revenge remaining the Better.
lonesome1ify 1 year ago
norgerdsurg.....same story of almost 6 yrs. He rescued me from a bad situation.....just to lift me up and took great jou in watching me fall.Im still not past my love for him. I guess I still think I seen the good side of him...or rather chose to. It hurts alot.
herbbieluvbug 1 year ago