Love, Self, and Relationships. - Understanding and Healing Co-dependency - UnificationNow

[ladida8628]

*Robin Norwood---loved the book

[ladida8628]

Robin Northwood's book 'women who love too much' provides great insight on this matter----i am grateful for the book

[globalman]

Hit the nail mostly on the head. A somewhat brilliant global analysis.

[MSID009]

When you said "Souls coming together to become conscious of this thing that has hurt them... they are coming together to act this thing out and have this opportunity to heal it....

A light went on. How come I never figured this out before? I've been doing meditation to try and figure things out for a year now... and that is the pattern that I keep finding myself in. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU... I have a new direction to take my meditations.

[UnificationNow]

@MSID009 very cool to hear...thank you for sharing with me and I am really glad it helped...I know for myself what you referred to above has helped me a lot as well when I began thinking in that way...lots of love and luck to you in your healing and meditations!

[Monikblessed]

Thank you so much. I did not find out that I was codependent until I was almost 30 years old and I don't know with the exception of a few meetings and counseling that I have really dealt with my codependency and now at the age of 45 some abandonment stuff has recently been popping up for me. Thank you so much for your work. I am learning so much from you and finding the courage to heal.

[Artislife1982]

Thank YOU for your amazing words of wisdom and clarity for this complicated situation. I'm soaking it up :)

[Artislife1982]

This is the truth. Amazing. Defenitly good to watch.

[UnificationNow]

@Artislife1982 Thanks so much :-)

[crazeechiq7]

Search Dealing with Difficult People Versus Them Dealing with You!

This video by Bill Crawford i highly recommend to follow up on your last words of empowerment. This video was very interesting and I had recently been going through a bit of trouble with a coworker who would not participate. I ended up leaving my job but i should have dealt with it another way. Its sad to realize this from a video, people learn in different ways. There are alot of fun execises too!

Sincerly,

Darien

[RelaxRecapRelapse]

amazing. thank you.

[deZengo]

Well said! Great message! I certainly had an adventure with this and it took me to hell and back. All good little southern brides are trained that our "husbands / mate" is our world. WE do .. we serve.. we give and we love unconditionally and accept what little crumbs we are given and are even excited for that! IT's truly a sick / disturbing system- and I feel like BEing alone is always BETTER than being with the wrong person. It's a waste of time and time is all we truly have to spend!

[Damis10001]

This is an amazing explantion of a very difficult issue for a lot of people. The mere fact that you are able to keep such a cohesive thread going for 24:16 minutes without a written narrative makes you a master at communication. Thanks so much--I loved the personal, heartfelt coverage of this subject.

[existentialsoul]

thank you for this video. my entire life has been lived in a codependent way and i am 25 and finally breaking through. thanks for this video.

[UnificationNow]

@existentialsoul You are welcome. I can relate...you're not a lone...most people have some experience of co-dependancy within themselves and in relationships...family and life kinda sets us up for that with experiences...a person is lucky if they avoid that kind of imprinting experience growing up...you are still young so just heal what hurts and keep on loving yourself :-)

[notsocommonshow]

"There is no salvation in the other." -Shantam Nityama (In reference to your partner in a relationship.)

[belizebreez]

Thank you for this video I finally feel understood.

[madderthanalex]

Good talk, Lady with the three Heads. Looks like you 3 have sorted relationship

issues. Well done.

[bostero1]

Ok, I tried watching this and did so for about 1 minute; and I could have watched more but the whole "Janis Joplin in a house of mirrors" effect sort of freaks you out a bit after a while. I may have trouble sleeping tonight.

[UnificationNow]

@bostero1 I understand...I should have left the effect off, but I was playing with my editing stuff a lot at that time...just try listening to it like an audiobook

[freekanimal]

Thank you. Took me a long time to believe / admit to myself. Was really hard. But I know things are going to change, now I have accepted it. thank you.x

[UnificationNow]

@freekanimal you are welcome...keep working towards that wholeness inside and it will all come together and life will feel better

[spiritualpornography]

I am just going through hell today and what f*cks me up is that it's not for the first time regarding this person. We were together for 6 months, then split up, then got back, then split up. Now she's calling me again to tell me she misses me and that she's realy lonely. I rush to her aid every time she's needy and it's driving me crazy again. I never contact her when we are apart but she always abuses that boundary by calling me. I enable her by not being able to say NO to her so it's my fault

[vmedia2]

i cant watch due to sloe pace of talking ..... speed it up please

[68stanggtcoupe]

It has been 40 days since he left and this time we both have decided it is finally time to stop trying to control each other. I think I will watch some more of your videos... we lasted 8 years 2 years of hell and holding on for dear life. The last 4 months were living hell but I still cry, I do miss him, I know he is now with her but the thing you did not say was to detach along with several other steps to recover. The book called codependent no more is a great book.

[leftatmars]

Thank you so much for doing what you do. I love watching your videos and I always feel like something deep within has stirred with what you have to say. I feel that over the past few years I have been healing very slowly a little bit at a time. Although that doesn't sound earthshaking it is still forward movement. I want to be better for my daughter so that she doesn't have to deal with the same emotional crap that I have delt with for years...thank you again!

[UnificationNow]

@leftatmars ur welcome...thanks for the kind feedback...know it is okay if change goes slow...it can actually take a better hold when it is gradual...just keep moving forward and understand that any pain you encounter is teaching you what you missed out on and what you need to give yourself. It's really cool and loving that your daughter motivates you in that way...it is a real gift to her

[katyswish]

This is excellent, Amanda! Thank you!

[Clarissad25]

you are incredibly real about this...and I enjoyed the video very much. I live everything you've talked about on a daily basis...and I just won't let myself see things for how they really are. I hope one day I can. Maybe this video is the start :)

[Sicj]

Looks inside self...

Drops coin

(coin disappears into abyss)

(1 hour later...)

Listening for coin to hit bottom.

Phew Thx goodness I'm with my codependent girlfriend... gonna marry this woman!

[Williehutch2]

Thank u i am trying to figure out a girl i think is codependent She can be pimped or loved very passive aggressive and stubborn

[elizebethjames]

very clever video, absorbing, thankyou. what a cool lady.

[blue1r1s]

Thank you for this gift. You're pure magic. :)

[redrogae]

Im just going as of right now trough something exactly like what you just described i hope i can find the way. I really feel like there is no way out, i get all kinds of shit like anxiety, anger, oppressive thoughts. i would love to see a second part to this video, and thank you very much for this.

[davebeloved]

Thank you so so much for this video, you have given me hope that I can recover from my codependency

[wallynewcar]

what a great video. Stuff that i kinda know, but is/was such an undercurrent driving and twisting my life.

[aaron305]

thank you.

[davka]

haha i love the swear words at the end seriously. thank you for this. so important

[justlovingme]

Thank you so much for sharing this insight.

[jmkitten1]

I think I needed to hear this.

[fredchristman1953]

your so smart, really.

[inmyhead63]

you have a gift of expression on this subject. Its yet another piece in my puzzle to focus back on healing codependency issues. I also relate to your colorful art! The mirror image on the video WAS kind of spooky but also fascinating. i still wanted to watch your face because it shows what a genuine person you are. It also makes a LOT of sense with the idea of unification..to become ONE with ourselves.

[Corralejobay]

Helpful, very helpful a balm for the pain body, the mirror image is annoying. (I think you are a beautiful and sensitive soul with out the needs of tricks.)

Will see the other works now..thanks Amanda

[MonroviaLIB]

very insightful

[hollywoodartchick]

Really helpful. So much insight into the this condition. I have gotten a lot of recovery on my codependency, but you articulated points that I have not heard before. Very good.

[shoashoashoa]

Your words popped me open like a volcano, I shared it with all my friends that I felt could benefit... You have an amazing gift of expression...Clear, uncomplicated and from the heart. A divine b\lessing.

[marcsimac]

Some of the comments relay (exactly) your points. Your heart and soul comes thru your eyes and in your voice. AWESOME!!

You're absolutely Awesome. Thx. Pc!

[Mntlily01]

can't get past the annoying mirror image ... effort of .. ?? annoying.

[nevoyatom]

yes I so relate. infact these days my ex has met a men and I find my self resentfull that she wont be my friend any more... why am I so attached and yet was never able to really give and recieve... this is so hard. I feel so deprived of real affection.

[smashsamus]

Oh, when she said that love and joyfulness is our natural state, she forgot hatefulness too.

hate is the other natural behavior. you can't have love without hate,otherwise how the hell could you tell what love is without something to compare it to?

[smashsamus]

the physiological attraction is a hard one to get over. ..(I'm male,sooo..)

[easyreader13]

Thanks for your insight and encouragement, Amanda. You're the best! :)

[mythmanjay]

A little longer than the usual rant ... maybe it's just a day for longness---I ranted for about 8 minutes today to get about 15 seconds of 'point.' lol

[chantellemcgonnagle]

Yeah, without a heartbeat. Love is the defibrillator, though ;P

[OneBlackRose45]

REALLY GOOD INSIGHT AND GOOD THING YOUR DOING! 5 stars

[chantellemcgonnagle]

Great work. I dunno if a person is ever 'empty', though...maybe frozen.

[mythmanjay]

(frozen-not-empty) Sort of like the circulatory system without the heartbeat?

[MillaJam]

I am so glad and grateful that you made this video and I got to see it. It's time to meet those needs in a healthy way :)

[mshockey73]

Great video! 5 big big stars.

The sad thing is that some people go through their entire lives without healing their inner child.

[brightbite]

My eyes have been going from left to right all this time. I don't know which you to look at. LOL

[aurangeluv]

:) yep