I have BPD and the longest I have managed to hold one mood is a day. I go from one extreme to the next and it doesn't affect my behaviour and how I treat people. Its a bitch.
I'm bpd and then some. Right now I'm off meds because I'm 6 months pregnant. I'm having trouble dealing. I can seem to find help close to me. I don't have it in me to keep trying to find help. I tried to kill my self but was stopped by my wife and friend. What if they are not there next time? You video was beautiful and moving. For now it helped buy me another moment of peace. Thankyou!
i have BPD. and no ppl with BPD don't want to be abusers. i would never want to abuse anyone. its a very painful disorder to have. but their is hope and you will make it through. im still struggling. i hope to make it through one day. i know how you feel. be strong.
I feel so empty, and I can't manage my emotions, and the most horrible thing of this trouble, for me, it's the relationships. I have no idea if you have some problem with this too... But me, i'm paranoid, and I'm scared.. all the time, I'm scared of loosing people I love, or that they replaces me! And I can't trust them. I hate them too, but i love them at the same time! It's like if we are two in my head
@fuckingcatwoman I know I have BDP and at the moment I can't stop thinking like you for a single second. totally obcessed with my partner. all decisions in life are made for him. they love their lives and we love them. no one can understand us. i feel like killing myself at times but then I am worried they will hate me and I live in function of what they want
I was hospitalized when I was fourteen I have depression anxiety bipolar and BPD I'm 16 now and it gets so much better. yes you learn to live with it and learn ur triggers but I promise to any one who reads this it gets so much better. life is worth living and it takes time but you learn to cope. after my mom died is when I started showing symptoms I was eleven. my point is I've been with this disorder for a while and there is still something to live for. life gets so much better. it will. to a
I had no idea this disorder existed, I searched so long for what was wrong with me, why I was so different. I thought I was alone. I finally figured out whats wrong with me I mean this is an exact description of me and why I was never able to succeed in life. Maybe I can get some help now.
@ElectricEntertaiment I found out about this a few months ago. . I do research after research try learning as much as I can I would recommend you do the same
I have shifting in between: emptiness, ecstatic, suicidal. there's no medium, if I do feel something else, it feels fake, not real. but mainly the violent shifts in mood between those states. it's kind of uncontrollable, I get angry at people for very small things.
everything thats in this video true about me. this is exactly what BPD is like for me. i have this disorder and its the worst disorder that i or anyone has. PLEASE GET HELP NOW if you have this disorder.
Noone can understand bpd until they have it and it is hell plus the other things that go woth it such as anxiety depression substance abuse self harm ...........its a horrible illness
Amazing video. I'm 16 and I have BPD. Your right it kills you from the inside. I've been strugling since I've been 12 or 13. I don't want it but I've got it, and its up to me to make the best of it. The video you made couldn't have been better. Thanks :)
thx for making this vid. I hope many people will see this and other videos like it. I have a really bad case of bpd and i do have the paranoia part of it too. This video also helped me because i believe more peope will start realizing how serious bpd is. i have run away from home about 16 times(no joke) and almost got out of california into oregon until the police found me. i have been the person standing on the bridge or top of a building about to jump. i am 13 but there is hope.
@the0123qwerty0123 Just leaving you a comment to say bpd or not you must shut the fuck up until you're dead if you want to go far in life and not get in trouble: mental institut or so.
Basically what saves people about their hard lifes is to think futur and live present as it comes whithout vueing it as being bad, just think later on it shall get easyier.
Also our lives are what we subconsiously want them to be [fact]
Forget hard times pretend everything is fine and it shall be. with love, Joe.
Hi great video, i have bpd although i fight it and dont want it, its always there sometimes wish i was dieing from something people can see, but bpd kills you from the inside
Amazing job. I have been having a bit of trouble finding a way to express BPD in the right words...since I have it, and have more many years. You expressed it fantasticly though in this vid. I have had people blow off BPD numerous times, completely minimizing it's symtpoms and victims, yet I'm glad u included that it's extremely serious. It's better to be aware of this for so many reasons, I realize this now.
@XSchokoXCookieX (3)Tell yourself one TRUE NICE thing about yourself every morning... Your diagnosis does NOT have to cripple you!! It can be a gift. Just focus on the positive... You (and I) have a beautiful gift... I would not want to be any other way... Feel free to contact me anytime... Good luck and chin up!! It may get worse... But it always ALWAYS gets better...
@XSchokoXCookieX (2)you more... But as much as I know myself I know you must learn yourself on your own... You will learn how to bring ppl in and who to keep out... Anger consumes us... But we must always fight to express it in acceptable ways- get some serious physical outlet... (I dance apx 15-20 hours every week... It's my therapy...) As for your emptiness baby... Please don't fill it with food, drugs, alcohol, or smoking... Fill it with puppy kisses, drawing, writing...
@XSchokoXCookieX (1) Sweetheart! I wish I could hug you... To respond to your struggles, I can only recomment finding a reasonable outlet... I have found that dancing/moving lets all the emotions out... Good music and deep dancing... And the love of animals is always pure and it feels safe... I wish I could give
I'm better when i saw many poeple suffering like me. I remember before i was normal in the reality. It's good to see that the problem is us and that we can heal. I know before i was happy but i have lost the trust in me, because i thought people disliked me or something like that, then i'm became this suffering man. But now i know it's false. Thank you josie, i love your song ^_^
this is not bpd. this is what society looks at bpd as. we aren't skinny emos listening to rock music arguing with mirrors. i was looking for a real video on the accuracy of bpd and this is not it.
Thank you for making this video. I always think of others when I'm really down. Mostly I feel like a burden and it hurts so much I want to kill myself so I free everyone from the weight I drag others down with.
Good video! Sorry, I'll not comment longer because my English sucks... I'm borderline too, and I know this pain... I hope you'll enjoy the life one day...
@jackiesweet actually, it's now mostly accepted that it affects both genders more or less equally, but it's harder for men to receive a diagnosis. It's about perception rather than actual incidence.
In love w/ someone who has this "disorder", and I love her as she is, the way God made her, she loves me the same. We were brought together for a reason and I will do all in my power to help her and to learn about BPD to ehlp myself understand what she is going thru and deaing with, great video!
In love w/ someone who has this "disorder", and I love her as she is, the way God made her, she loves me the same. We were brought together for a reason and I will do all in my power to help her and to learn about BPD to ehlp myself understand what she is going thru and deaing with, great video!
@BarbieBiitch420 so do I. Do you know that Princess Diana may have had BPD and so did ADolph Hitler and Marilyn Monroe and Susanna Kayson (Girl, Interrupted)?
I live with someone who I think suffers from BPD albeit a milder version (?). She is relucatnt to receive help. She has recently gained some help though. I feel drained and tired as a result of supporting her. I feel I can not let go of her need. I feel like I am struggling now. Becasue she is a splitter a lot of our friends blame me for her unhappiness. That causes me further grief. Only few close friends really know what is going on. She has now sought help, and is on medication.Help
BPD is a disorder and can be treated through therapy and a lot of support from those around you. As always, the first step towards treatment is admitting that you have a problem and getting help. And yes guys get this too. I don't know the statistics, but i'd say about half and half. Get help and seek support. It is so important that you take action now before it controls more of your life.
So BPD makes you normal? I mean personally I'm not sure if I have but I come from a family where the symptoms of that disease are normal. Which I guess in itself would mean that the symptoms are subjective? Honestly it doesn't sound like a disease it sounds like a permanent pubescent stage. No offense.
@micckkyyyy DBT: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, developed by Dr. Linehan in 1993. It has shown to be effective against symptoms of BPD. I had just a bit of it when in therapy in Colorado, and the few concepts I learned were very helpful. It fuses Cognitive Behavioral therapy with eastern Buddhist concepts, from what I understand, such as mindfulness, meditation, your 'center' or inner child.
Also, I read today that recent research has shown that it is more equal in men and woman than believed.
@AyaEroksal yeh i can relate lol its hard, very hard, even since ive been diagnosed they cant udnerstand, n now i have been doiagnosed after wot i think is 7years of actually having it they see me as just making an excuse for my behaviour. im not excusing myself just exclaming i need help and cant help what i am doing.
@LaceLimePie I was speaking hyperbole, I apologize for making it sound so incendiary, please forgive me. It has nothing to do you with you. I have my own triggers with Facebook. I deleted my account last year, I blacklisted Facebook, I had to...I am not blacklisting you.
Thank you so much for sharing this. You are a truly clever, strong, amazing person I think. I also have same problem, but I believe that we can get throw little by little...
I know this is so hard but carry on carry on, one by one, until we will find the exit to be free:) Its possible for sure!!
I'm pretty sure I have this, but every psychiatrist I see can't tell me shit, so right now I just deal with how I feel because no one ever believed me and now no one will help me.
I think I have this but somehow I manage to control it, you wouldent believe the things I think about and feel, hell if I ever had a lover with bpd I would most likely end up scaring them away, I honestly believe i was born in the wrong time period, I'm just so confusing and I don't know if there's such a disorder for my condition, don't believe me?? Try me you'll see when I say I'm different from everyone on this planet
i have this, its true...its not a fun thing at all it ruins relationships almost all the time and it screws with your mind. sometimes it feels like this disorder is one of the worst things ever, because u can be suicidal one second and scare everyone in your life and then be angry in a matter of seconds and punch things or be violent and then switch moods again...its very damamging to others and yourself most of all. if u dont have it, you cant posibly understand. and no emo didnt come from this
i'm stuck with this forever and i'm that 2% whats worse is i'm part of a smaller group than that. i also have schizophrenia, bipolar, severe anxiety, ADHD, OCD, extreme paranoia, PTSD, and delerium. so agai i ask why me? i'm only 14 and i was diagnosed at 6
I am very impressed. I am not BPD but I know of at least two off hand that have been victimized and treated cruelly by society. A lot of therapists won't treat this and a lot of insurance companies wont pay for treatment. Please, please, please. Get the word out. People with BPD are human too. Be blessed.
Good video, and sad to hear some people commit suicide because of BPD. It's important to give a support to the people who have it and not harm them. A very close person to me seems like suffer from some of this disorder and just today I understood that. Fortunately in the last years it's getting better. Thanks and good Luck!!!
The best way for me to characterize it is being in an emotional vortex. I take meds, I've been in DBT (which I hate) and my Dr tells me to go back to the gym. Working out is good, but it doesn't do much for the rage or anxiety.
@Spammoface my partner suffers i with BDP as i do, its also called emotionally unstable personality disorder, which defines it abit more. its just rarer in men that women, but men still have it. i wish u the best x
@Spammoface I think it's 'cause mostly women are afflicted with it. And I think it plays off of the stereotypes that women are "softer" than men so they're weak enough to have something like this. I think I have this too
@Spammoface Most of the time, sexual abuse is probably committed against a young female by a male caregiver before the victim can remember, leading to BPD later on. Mother's aren't really known for abusing theirs sons, but bad fathers are well known for abusing their daughters. I think this is why it is so abundant in woman, but that may be a gross oversimplification. I am a male, and I have many symptoms of BPD, and I hate it. It is so painful. To fix it: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.
I think it seems like more women have it partly because they're more likely to ask for help. Also, women are more likely to have a fragile temperament, so as kids when people tell them not to be who they are, the disorder starts. See Tami Green's video on how BPD starts in children.
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a personality disorder defined in DSM-IV and described as a prolonged disturbance of personality function in a person (generally over the age of eighteen years, although it is also found in adolescents), characterized by depth and variability of moods.
Emo is short for EMOTIONAL,Wich is basically people who feel emotions,And most people have emotions so I guess that makes most people emo right? Cause everyone is emotional.
Seriously, wikipedia is 14 button pressed away (not including the click to the address bar). Maybe you should do your own research before you criticize other people and their work...it makes you look ignorant.
@doodles507 actually i should correct myself. its most likely been around since humans have been. however, the term borderline was coined by a dude named Adolph stern in the mid 19th century
@doodles507 hey, no the emo thing started as a music and fashion culture. it origionated from punk, BPD, self harm and all that has nothing to do with emo, its something completely different. some people who suffer from illnesses feel that certain clothes, colours and music accept them in communities as nobody else seems too. btw lol im not an emo, i did a project on stereotypes a few months ago
@doodles507 Calling something ''emo'' is showing your ignorance on the subject so here it goes... Using the word ''emo'' for someone with a mental illness or who self-injures is very offensive. There are a variety of triggers. The answer varies for different mental illnesses. BPD is just an illness that you have, and the cause for it is not well understood in the scientific community.
And what if it is? If the movement was indeed started by people with BPD, then they made something of themselves, and shared their pain. They happened to attract many like-minded people. Some people just felt more comfortable adding certain hair and clothing styles... Is that wrong?
Thanks for this posting... I can empathize... especially the part where you are yelling at the mirror... I am a rare *Male* BPDer (only about 20-25% of BPDers are men)... and I can totally identify with the emotions you are displaying in your video... Have you thought of DBT? I am learning it and it does help quite a bit for me.
I have BPD and the longest I have managed to hold one mood is a day. I go from one extreme to the next and it doesn't affect my behaviour and how I treat people. Its a bitch.
DeanieBoi07 1 month ago
I'm bpd and then some. Right now I'm off meds because I'm 6 months pregnant. I'm having trouble dealing. I can seem to find help close to me. I don't have it in me to keep trying to find help. I tried to kill my self but was stopped by my wife and friend. What if they are not there next time? You video was beautiful and moving. For now it helped buy me another moment of peace. Thankyou!
ohm333 1 month ago
I have bpd mdd and soc anxiety. im a 24 yr old man. i want to die everyday. meds dont help.
SuckMyAssBarf 1 month ago
i have BPD. and no ppl with BPD don't want to be abusers. i would never want to abuse anyone. its a very painful disorder to have. but their is hope and you will make it through. im still struggling. i hope to make it through one day. i know how you feel. be strong.
lovetodrinkink 1 month ago
I think i have borderline, im waiting for the diagnost, im scared to death!... Is this Avril Lavigne by the way?
mystique7000 1 month ago
You forgot to mention that BPD's are willingly abusive partners and that the condition does not improve over time.
XonWechtvt 1 month ago
I feel so empty, and I can't manage my emotions, and the most horrible thing of this trouble, for me, it's the relationships. I have no idea if you have some problem with this too... But me, i'm paranoid, and I'm scared.. all the time, I'm scared of loosing people I love, or that they replaces me! And I can't trust them. I hate them too, but i love them at the same time! It's like if we are two in my head
fuckingcatwoman 2 months ago
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hugotuga100 2 months ago
@fuckingcatwoman I know I have BDP and at the moment I can't stop thinking like you for a single second. totally obcessed with my partner. all decisions in life are made for him. they love their lives and we love them. no one can understand us. i feel like killing myself at times but then I am worried they will hate me and I live in function of what they want
hugotuga100 2 months ago
I was hospitalized when I was fourteen I have depression anxiety bipolar and BPD I'm 16 now and it gets so much better. yes you learn to live with it and learn ur triggers but I promise to any one who reads this it gets so much better. life is worth living and it takes time but you learn to cope. after my mom died is when I started showing symptoms I was eleven. my point is I've been with this disorder for a while and there is still something to live for. life gets so much better. it will. to a
vampireloverali 3 months ago
Is that you? You are hott girlfriend;)
kassandramd 3 months ago
I had no idea this disorder existed, I searched so long for what was wrong with me, why I was so different. I thought I was alone. I finally figured out whats wrong with me I mean this is an exact description of me and why I was never able to succeed in life. Maybe I can get some help now.
ElectricEntertaiment 3 months ago
@ElectricEntertaiment I found out about this a few months ago. . I do research after research try learning as much as I can I would recommend you do the same
naenaeelizabeth 3 months ago
Thank you I like this video because I have presentation about that
noory106 3 months ago
I have shifting in between: emptiness, ecstatic, suicidal. there's no medium, if I do feel something else, it feels fake, not real. but mainly the violent shifts in mood between those states. it's kind of uncontrollable, I get angry at people for very small things.
yurikomuro 4 months ago
I guss I'm one of that 2%
s16penser 4 months ago
thank you so much for making this video.
lovetodrinkink 4 months ago
everything thats in this video true about me. this is exactly what BPD is like for me. i have this disorder and its the worst disorder that i or anyone has. PLEASE GET HELP NOW if you have this disorder.
lovetodrinkink 4 months ago
Noone can understand bpd until they have it and it is hell plus the other things that go woth it such as anxiety depression substance abuse self harm ...........its a horrible illness
missdarkangelxxx 6 months ago
I have BPD and Schizoaffective Disorder. Sometimes it's hard to hold on...
arcutiepie 6 months ago 5
Amazing video. I'm 16 and I have BPD. Your right it kills you from the inside. I've been strugling since I've been 12 or 13. I don't want it but I've got it, and its up to me to make the best of it. The video you made couldn't have been better. Thanks :)
vampireloverali 6 months ago
thx for making this vid. I hope many people will see this and other videos like it. I have a really bad case of bpd and i do have the paranoia part of it too. This video also helped me because i believe more peope will start realizing how serious bpd is. i have run away from home about 16 times(no joke) and almost got out of california into oregon until the police found me. i have been the person standing on the bridge or top of a building about to jump. i am 13 but there is hope.
the0123qwerty0123 7 months ago
@the0123qwerty0123 Just leaving you a comment to say bpd or not you must shut the fuck up until you're dead if you want to go far in life and not get in trouble: mental institut or so.
Basically what saves people about their hard lifes is to think futur and live present as it comes whithout vueing it as being bad, just think later on it shall get easyier.
Also our lives are what we subconsiously want them to be [fact]
Forget hard times pretend everything is fine and it shall be. with love, Joe.
TylerJoeDurden 6 months ago
Hi great video, i have bpd although i fight it and dont want it, its always there sometimes wish i was dieing from something people can see, but bpd kills you from the inside
bluesalwaysred 7 months ago
Amazing job. I have been having a bit of trouble finding a way to express BPD in the right words...since I have it, and have more many years. You expressed it fantasticly though in this vid. I have had people blow off BPD numerous times, completely minimizing it's symtpoms and victims, yet I'm glad u included that it's extremely serious. It's better to be aware of this for so many reasons, I realize this now.
valypaly3 8 months ago
@XSchokoXCookieX (3)Tell yourself one TRUE NICE thing about yourself every morning... Your diagnosis does NOT have to cripple you!! It can be a gift. Just focus on the positive... You (and I) have a beautiful gift... I would not want to be any other way... Feel free to contact me anytime... Good luck and chin up!! It may get worse... But it always ALWAYS gets better...
sassssygirrrl 8 months ago
@XSchokoXCookieX (2)you more... But as much as I know myself I know you must learn yourself on your own... You will learn how to bring ppl in and who to keep out... Anger consumes us... But we must always fight to express it in acceptable ways- get some serious physical outlet... (I dance apx 15-20 hours every week... It's my therapy...) As for your emptiness baby... Please don't fill it with food, drugs, alcohol, or smoking... Fill it with puppy kisses, drawing, writing...
sassssygirrrl 8 months ago
@XSchokoXCookieX (1) Sweetheart! I wish I could hug you... To respond to your struggles, I can only recomment finding a reasonable outlet... I have found that dancing/moving lets all the emotions out... Good music and deep dancing... And the love of animals is always pure and it feels safe... I wish I could give
sassssygirrrl 8 months ago
I'm better when i saw many poeple suffering like me. I remember before i was normal in the reality. It's good to see that the problem is us and that we can heal. I know before i was happy but i have lost the trust in me, because i thought people disliked me or something like that, then i'm became this suffering man. But now i know it's false. Thank you josie, i love your song ^_^
drumersong 8 months ago
this is not bpd. this is what society looks at bpd as. we aren't skinny emos listening to rock music arguing with mirrors. i was looking for a real video on the accuracy of bpd and this is not it.
punksush1 8 months ago
Thank you for making this video. I always think of others when I'm really down. Mostly I feel like a burden and it hurts so much I want to kill myself so I free everyone from the weight I drag others down with.
MsAgnosticatheist 8 months ago
Thank you, it's giving me hope
FrancoBorgo 8 months ago
Good video! Sorry, I'll not comment longer because my English sucks... I'm borderline too, and I know this pain... I hope you'll enjoy the life one day...
mmmiii333333 8 months ago
someone elses song ,will never never explain !!!!!
TheHellboyrobb 9 months ago
Look up the healing power of Neurofeedback....please spread the word it seems to be a secret and it is an answer to unlock the brain
Diane9773 9 months ago
cette maladie est pas facile a vivre ni pour soie ni pour les personnes qui nous aime
lolaguide 9 months ago
great video, thanks for making me feel like a big fuckin pussy cuz i have bpd and im a guy.
unholypenguin4 9 months ago
@jackiesweet actually, it's now mostly accepted that it affects both genders more or less equally, but it's harder for men to receive a diagnosis. It's about perception rather than actual incidence.
DaddysCheekyBabydoll 9 months ago
In love w/ someone who has this "disorder", and I love her as she is, the way God made her, she loves me the same. We were brought together for a reason and I will do all in my power to help her and to learn about BPD to ehlp myself understand what she is going thru and deaing with, great video!
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workkinnmann 10 months ago
In love w/ someone who has this "disorder", and I love her as she is, the way God made her, she loves me the same. We were brought together for a reason and I will do all in my power to help her and to learn about BPD to ehlp myself understand what she is going thru and deaing with, great video!
workkinnmann 10 months ago
You are balancing your left brain with your right.
Research the pineal gland and......
PantsInTheFamily 10 months ago
i got diagnosed when i was 17 im 32 now and life is still a living hell this link is very good and says alot
marcycrx 11 months ago
i have to do a presentation on this
BarbieBiitch420 11 months ago 6
@BarbieBiitch420 so do I. Do you know that Princess Diana may have had BPD and so did ADolph Hitler and Marilyn Monroe and Susanna Kayson (Girl, Interrupted)?
BeautifullyCreated93 10 months ago
I really needed this right now; I just had an "episode" and I feel like crap. It's so painful...your video is helping me calm down <3
winterpoetry 11 months ago
THe condition sounds very similar to my Bipolar/Manic-Depressive condition. Low self-sterem, depression, unstable mood, anger, paranoia, anxiety....
In a sence, I can understand. I'm curious about what makes Bipolar and BPD different. THey're both Mood disorders, right?
patches892 11 months ago
@patches892 its the devil smackin you in the face and you blamin everybody but him.
BiShBrAt 11 months ago
@BiShBrAt Its a genetic chemical imbalance in the brain, that requires medication and treatment.
patches892 11 months ago
BPD can be treated through heavy doses of laudanum and shotgun mouthwash. You just have to believe in yourself.
meric2 11 months ago
Thanks
I live with someone who I think suffers from BPD albeit a milder version (?). She is relucatnt to receive help. She has recently gained some help though. I feel drained and tired as a result of supporting her. I feel I can not let go of her need. I feel like I am struggling now. Becasue she is a splitter a lot of our friends blame me for her unhappiness. That causes me further grief. Only few close friends really know what is going on. She has now sought help, and is on medication.Help
grdk1 11 months ago
Love how EVERY video or vlog on BPD paints them as victims - as if they are not the victimizers lol.
MrGrevy 1 year ago
@MrGrevy LOL urself to hell
BiShBrAt 11 months ago
@BiShBrAt I am in hell when I'm around BPD retards! LOL
MrGrevy 11 months ago
@MrGrevy hahahahahahahahahh that made me :LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
BiShBrAt 11 months ago
alot of people htink that only women can get this but im a dude and i got the same thing
younggunner90 1 year ago
BPD is a disorder and can be treated through therapy and a lot of support from those around you. As always, the first step towards treatment is admitting that you have a problem and getting help. And yes guys get this too. I don't know the statistics, but i'd say about half and half. Get help and seek support. It is so important that you take action now before it controls more of your life.
triathlete8 1 year ago
This is ruining my life:( It make me so scare of being abandon and rejected. :(
TashaRichardsonFan 1 year ago
What's the title of this song?
satinbox 1 year ago
So BPD makes you normal? I mean personally I'm not sure if I have but I come from a family where the symptoms of that disease are normal. Which I guess in itself would mean that the symptoms are subjective? Honestly it doesn't sound like a disease it sounds like a permanent pubescent stage. No offense.
SutoikkuSenkai 1 year ago
i kinda agree.. people make it al emo. I've BPD but i'm not emo at all cuz i wanna be normale, i wanna have a personality
racheltje1e 1 year ago
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rbogdewic 1 year ago
the thing i hate the most is how it says CANT.. fuck that. of course we can its through DBT and shit.
naraeda 1 year ago
I would like to post this in both my Facebook Support page on BPD and my blog would that be ok?
bellareign 1 year ago
wel i can tell you i am not emo and i have it !!!
gangsta411blizz 1 year ago
how do you get help? beautiful video by the way, i watch it everyday! xox
micckkyyyy 1 year ago
thanks ... :}
lala5555lala 1 year ago
how do you get help?
micckkyyyy 1 year ago
@micckkyyyy DBT: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, developed by Dr. Linehan in 1993. It has shown to be effective against symptoms of BPD. I had just a bit of it when in therapy in Colorado, and the few concepts I learned were very helpful. It fuses Cognitive Behavioral therapy with eastern Buddhist concepts, from what I understand, such as mindfulness, meditation, your 'center' or inner child.
Also, I read today that recent research has shown that it is more equal in men and woman than believed.
SuperAnimalDrummer 1 year ago
If someone you know has this this LOVE them, LOVE them and when you feel have given them all the LOVE you can...GIVE THEM MORE!!!
Commonsensitivity 1 year ago
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AyaEroksal 1 year ago
@AyaEroksal yeh i can relate lol its hard, very hard, even since ive been diagnosed they cant udnerstand, n now i have been doiagnosed after wot i think is 7years of actually having it they see me as just making an excuse for my behaviour. im not excusing myself just exclaming i need help and cant help what i am doing.
if you want to chat u can messege me :) x
HypedFreak 1 year ago
@HypedFreak thank you so much for your invitation :) xxx
AyaEroksal 1 year ago
i have bpd and its a nightmare ur video is so good.
pads37 1 year ago
I Love it! It is so right on. I have BPD too, and a few other disorders. Thank you for making this. I posted it on facebook.
LaceLimePie 1 year ago 7
@LaceLimePie Facebook is evil, you just made my blacklist.
fawnknudsen 1 year ago
@LaceLimePie I was speaking hyperbole, I apologize for making it sound so incendiary, please forgive me. It has nothing to do you with you. I have my own triggers with Facebook. I deleted my account last year, I blacklisted Facebook, I had to...I am not blacklisting you.
fawnknudsen 1 year ago
what song is this please?
leajo47 1 year ago
Thank you so much for sharing this. You are a truly clever, strong, amazing person I think. I also have same problem, but I believe that we can get throw little by little...
I know this is so hard but carry on carry on, one by one, until we will find the exit to be free:) Its possible for sure!!
ny92nd 1 year ago
For further understanding...
Get me out of here : my recovery from borderline personality disorder / Rachel Reiland. Center City, Minn. : Hazelden, c2004.
mkwg 1 year ago
what's this song name?really want to know
enmaaicatcat 1 year ago
thank you.
gsolman 1 year ago
I'm pretty sure I have this, but every psychiatrist I see can't tell me shit, so right now I just deal with how I feel because no one ever believed me and now no one will help me.
HarlD25 1 year ago
I think I have this but somehow I manage to control it, you wouldent believe the things I think about and feel, hell if I ever had a lover with bpd I would most likely end up scaring them away, I honestly believe i was born in the wrong time period, I'm just so confusing and I don't know if there's such a disorder for my condition, don't believe me?? Try me you'll see when I say I'm different from everyone on this planet
aliceinhanes 1 year ago
i have this, its true...its not a fun thing at all it ruins relationships almost all the time and it screws with your mind. sometimes it feels like this disorder is one of the worst things ever, because u can be suicidal one second and scare everyone in your life and then be angry in a matter of seconds and punch things or be violent and then switch moods again...its very damamging to others and yourself most of all. if u dont have it, you cant posibly understand. and no emo didnt come from this
Starlett1989 1 year ago
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RixRose280 1 year ago
i'm stuck with this forever and i'm that 2% whats worse is i'm part of a smaller group than that. i also have schizophrenia, bipolar, severe anxiety, ADHD, OCD, extreme paranoia, PTSD, and delerium. so agai i ask why me? i'm only 14 and i was diagnosed at 6
dejiakuransama 1 year ago
I am very impressed. I am not BPD but I know of at least two off hand that have been victimized and treated cruelly by society. A lot of therapists won't treat this and a lot of insurance companies wont pay for treatment. Please, please, please. Get the word out. People with BPD are human too. Be blessed.
Debrody1 1 year ago
hi im borderline too and u video make me cry!
lizcatlover 1 year ago
it's good to share experiences. You have done good here.
danielmurray04 2 years ago
thats me
RugerBooger 2 years ago
great job :)
slushpuppy777 2 years ago
Good video, and sad to hear some people commit suicide because of BPD. It's important to give a support to the people who have it and not harm them. A very close person to me seems like suffer from some of this disorder and just today I understood that. Fortunately in the last years it's getting better. Thanks and good Luck!!!
violinmyth 2 years ago
The best way for me to characterize it is being in an emotional vortex. I take meds, I've been in DBT (which I hate) and my Dr tells me to go back to the gym. Working out is good, but it doesn't do much for the rage or anxiety.
scorpietta 2 years ago
you're so right...
it's so terrible to have bpd...
i hope,i can stop it...
thedeathofthehoppers 2 years ago
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You'd make a great emo girl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
raymondbuz 2 years ago
Why is it mostly woman projected to have this personality disorder? im a man and i feel as though i may have this disorder too.
Spammoface 2 years ago 17
@Spammoface The diagnosis appears to be several times more common in (especially young) women than in men, by as much as 3:1
I've also heard the opinion that BPD is an attempt to pathologise feminine attributes.
leyshjonoe 1 year ago
@Spammoface just more common for women to get it
beka1567 1 year ago
@Spammoface my partner suffers i with BDP as i do, its also called emotionally unstable personality disorder, which defines it abit more. its just rarer in men that women, but men still have it. i wish u the best x
HypedFreak 1 year ago
because 3/4's of the people diagnosed are women.
DANGihavenoidea 1 year ago
@Spammoface I think it's 'cause mostly women are afflicted with it. And I think it plays off of the stereotypes that women are "softer" than men so they're weak enough to have something like this. I think I have this too
actingprincess3 1 year ago
@Spammoface Most of the time, sexual abuse is probably committed against a young female by a male caregiver before the victim can remember, leading to BPD later on. Mother's aren't really known for abusing theirs sons, but bad fathers are well known for abusing their daughters. I think this is why it is so abundant in woman, but that may be a gross oversimplification. I am a male, and I have many symptoms of BPD, and I hate it. It is so painful. To fix it: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.
SuperAnimalDrummer 1 year ago
@SuperAnimalDrummer Or just stop being an asshole, either way.
MrGrevy 11 months ago
@Spammoface its primarily seen in woman because of the background that causes it .. but i have been in many DBT groups with guys as well
naraeda 1 year ago
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@Spammoface its primarily seen in woman because of the background that causes it .. but i have been in many DBT groups with guys as well
naraeda 1 year ago
I think it seems like more women have it partly because they're more likely to ask for help. Also, women are more likely to have a fragile temperament, so as kids when people tell them not to be who they are, the disorder starts. See Tami Green's video on how BPD starts in children.
cee17risu 1 year ago
@Spammoface I know men can have it, DRs just see it more in women i think
HippoKissez 1 year ago
@Spammoface Hii.. I have some guy friends that have it too.. I had it.. i know how you guys feel... But i wish you al the best (:
anziilizii 11 months ago
@Spammoface This is because BPD is made up of mostly women. Out of the 2% of the population it affects 75% of them are women.
BeautifullyCreated93 10 months ago
This song is epic. <33
It's very sad that some people suffer in this way.
thethwaitey 2 years ago
this is so true
3xXlovepainXx3 2 years ago
very good video.
SarahMichelle705 2 years ago
i think i may have this
are these ALL the symptoms?
cause everyting here applies to me
chibigurl135 2 years ago
i have some simptoms lol idk not trying to be funny wats the song called tho
BridgeyANDmegsta 2 years ago
Yhe song is "Stand in the rain" By Superchick
Error4Life01 2 years ago
i show all of these symptoms, andd i have extremely low self esteem
thanks so much for making me feel like im not alonee god bless you
-XxXmarieXxX-
swirlygirly1234 2 years ago
i think i have it
sweet1845 2 years ago
ditto
davidtmevans1976 2 years ago
i have it with chronic depression and severe anxiety
mishyb1979 2 years ago
i think my friend has this... maybe me too :S
michelleluzemo 2 years ago
I have most of the signs of it but is it something that can be diagnosed?? because I think i might have it...
Error4Life01 2 years ago
if you see a therapist.
michxoxo 2 years ago
BPD ............. me too
BichGODDESS 2 years ago
Awesome clip, thank you for sharing.
Keep hope alive, your BPD Brother -Dx
justwant2login 2 years ago
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I SWEAR im not being mean but... is this how the whole emo thing started? IM SERIOUS I WANNA KNOW PLEASE DONT BE OFFENDED!!!!!!!!
doodles507 2 years ago
No -_-
BPD is a disease...
JosieMusic 2 years ago 2
bpd is so terrible -.-
emos are wannabe depressive and cutting thereself for fun -.-
but we... ...we have to die about BPD..
thedeathofthehoppers 1 year ago
@JosieMusic thx for making this. it cheers me up everytime i watch it.
064panik 1 year ago
@JosieMusic no. It is NOT A DISEASE!!!!
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a personality disorder defined in DSM-IV and described as a prolonged disturbance of personality function in a person (generally over the age of eighteen years, although it is also found in adolescents), characterized by depth and variability of moods.
iamBRANKK 1 year ago
@JosieMusic -disorder
TinkerBelle246 1 year ago
@JosieMusic BPD is not a disease, it's a disorder.
stelity 1 year ago
@JosieMusic I'd say more of a disorder but can feel like one pretty much
HippoKissez 1 year ago
Emo is short for EMOTIONAL,Wich is basically people who feel emotions,And most people have emotions so I guess that makes most people emo right? Cause everyone is emotional.
charmedjames 2 years ago 2
Seriously, wikipedia is 14 button pressed away (not including the click to the address bar). Maybe you should do your own research before you criticize other people and their work...it makes you look ignorant.
vivicastar 2 years ago
@doodles507 nope. BPD has been around and EMO is a style. Has nothing to do with it.
iamBRANKK 1 year ago
@iamBRANKK EMO is not a style, it's a goofy haircut.
fawnknudsen 1 year ago
@doodles507 being emo, gangster, punk, etc is a stereotype slash self image of what you like or dress like...JosieMusic as said .. its a disease...
THECRANBERRIESLOVER 1 year ago
@doodles507 No...but like it said in the video, if you dont have BPD then you will most likely find it difficult to understand.
I got diagnosed with BPD about a month ago and it normally forms when your younger and mine got missed by so many people.
karlieylou 1 year ago
@doodles507 lol no BPD has been around since the mid 19th century
Mystro1989 1 year ago
@doodles507 actually i should correct myself. its most likely been around since humans have been. however, the term borderline was coined by a dude named Adolph stern in the mid 19th century
Mystro1989 1 year ago
@doodles507 hey, no the emo thing started as a music and fashion culture. it origionated from punk, BPD, self harm and all that has nothing to do with emo, its something completely different. some people who suffer from illnesses feel that certain clothes, colours and music accept them in communities as nobody else seems too. btw lol im not an emo, i did a project on stereotypes a few months ago
asdahjby 1 year ago
@doodles507 Calling something ''emo'' is showing your ignorance on the subject so here it goes... Using the word ''emo'' for someone with a mental illness or who self-injures is very offensive. There are a variety of triggers. The answer varies for different mental illnesses. BPD is just an illness that you have, and the cause for it is not well understood in the scientific community.
bookcreator 1 year ago
And what if it is? If the movement was indeed started by people with BPD, then they made something of themselves, and shared their pain. They happened to attract many like-minded people. Some people just felt more comfortable adding certain hair and clothing styles... Is that wrong?
cee17risu 1 year ago
@doodles507 its a valid question!!! why the fuck do ppl vote this shit down? idk. i dont believe any of these disorders
BiShBrAt 11 months ago
Great music vid..
BlackTeddies 3 years ago
what movie are these clips from?
Revbone450 3 years ago
They are from 2 music videos : Nobody's home and Bethamphetamine
JosieMusic 3 years ago
Thanks for this posting... I can empathize... especially the part where you are yelling at the mirror... I am a rare *Male* BPDer (only about 20-25% of BPDers are men)... and I can totally identify with the emotions you are displaying in your video... Have you thought of DBT? I am learning it and it does help quite a bit for me.
MrBlueSky98290 3 years ago
hey i know what its like..
but i believe i can get through this only bcuz i have the best friend ever
you can get through it ... be strong
thanks for sharing this..
ill do a vid if i get time..
x
Lollie
starrzNme 3 years ago 5