Hi, I know the feeling, I don't fit in society. My mom never fails to remind me of my faults either & compare me to my older sibling. My older sibling is more successful & has friends unlike me. Same with my cousisn. Don't even fit in with my family, I feel very terrible most of the time.
This is a beautiful video, I hope you use this pain to motivate yourself to be the best you you can be, I believe that you can and will overcome your hardships because the only other option is failure, AND. YOU. WILL. NOT. FAIL! You are strong and its time to show that to the world, this is your time to knock them on their asses for not believing in you!
YOU can never be anything - not a failure, not a success, not skinny, not fat. YOU are something else, all the other words to describe yourself is attachments. What if you are in a state of failure? You can still get out of it TODAY. you can eath healthy TODAY, you could search for a job TODAY, you could stop spending money (I mean, you even know that you do it just to feel good??) TODAY.
@1776iscoming I hope maybe it might help you. I hate to see anyone hurting and in pain. I recently joined slimgenics. If you like I can share it with you. :)
There are more things in life that you have to overcome, control your fears and never be apart, always show true feelings around you and everybody else. God loves you and I do too, happy smiles my friend and may good times be with you. I hope my information really helps when you read them, I trust you will be fine about everything. I gotta go now and take care and try to be happy and good for your life, God Bless You my friend.
And you just gotta stay connected with your life and show your true feelings around everybody and yourself, you can always be loved by your friends, family, and your boyfriend, you just gotta pull yourself together and work hard with your life, and be happy for it, be understandable and be yourself.
Never ever give up on your life, I know your mother shouldn't sweared at you, but she was just trying to love and protect your life, you can do ANYthing you want girl, you just gotta understand yourself and try to believed in yourself, don't ever call yourself a failure cause your...not...a failure, you are a human being with strong will. (continued).
One suggestion those is find support. When you find something hard to do. It's just harder doing it by yourself. I'm trying to find support myself. So at least I feel sane. and not like bad. Your video gave me support. I know I not alone in the way I feel.
Search for someone who can understand my feelings first before proceeding. because I feel lonely and helpless if they don't understand me. and sometime I just need someone who can hear my point of view. and then maybe give some compassion then after that resolution. Don't feel like your an embrassement because of this video. Other who feel the way you do, will find you and know that they are not alone.
On the thought that you say you a failure. If it isn't the end of the race. You can still make it there. but I understand how you feel because that was one of the reason I came and watch your video. because I was feeling like a failure too. And I was hope to find light. And when I listen to what you where saying I feel like I know what you mean. Most of it. On the though of you and your friends. You know I felt like that where I start to leave everybody that I feel can't understand me.
and I don't have a problem with that. You may not have a problem with that either. But you feel like it's a problem because your mom is coming down on you. Your mom the way she is working is worried. She say all those stuff because she care for you in this case more than you care for yourself. It a problem to her because she wants better for you. She wants to see you better. And I understand she said it hurtfully towards you. Which made you feel worst than even what you already feel.
You know yourself best. you have access to all your thoughts that we don't have. be honest and tell yourself how you feel. whatever it is that is your logic. Whether it is you feel lazy or that you want to be perfect. We can have any logic we want because we can think anyway we want. whatever it is acknowledge it. because that is your answer to what is wrong with you? That is just simply how you are.
It could be like where you start doing a little dangerous thing. and when you find out it wasn't so bad. You do more and more dangerous next time. It's like being brave. Your not afraid. Until you find the limit where you starting being afraid then you might stop or even concor your fear and continue. Or it could be you don't worry that much about yourself, you don't want to be selfish.
Nothing wrong with you. Other people have have done the same too. Where they learn what is good for them but they still don't do it. Simple because we have free will. We can choose our self to act anyway we want. And if we want to do bad or good it really up to us. If that's not the case then you can't be good or bad. It's would be like a possession. Your control by something. But we not possess. Somewhere inside say it's not a big deal and you continue on.
We should forgive ourselves and take ourselves the way we are. We cannot ask others to love us or forgive us. It is up to them. There is a great chance that we are being loved by people with whom we resonate, and also have the energy to give love back, when we literally love ourselves and are good to ourselves.
I love you so much for posting this. What courage, I really loved it because I can relate. My life has many problems and I often feel so dam worthless too. I understand and support you 100%
quit being a ***hole to her sleepeternalsleeps, you obviously cant see the pain she is going through, its ok, ur gonna burn in hell for writing something like that to someone who is feeling depressed!!! you should go kill yourself cause no one needs to read your troll dumb ass, you guys should be ashamed of yourself!!! {HONEY, I CARE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL, DONT READ WHAT THESE BASTARDS ARE WRITING ABOUT YOU, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DONT LET ANYONE EVER TELL YOU OTHERWISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When all signs point to failure, maybe you're right, maybe you are a fat sack of elbow skin and maybe you should eat yourself into a diabetic coma, atleast within this state of unconsciousness all of the poor citizens of youtube would not have to watch your flapping chins move like a a ballsack in the wind everytime you want to eat cake and cry about it
Stop talking honestly and putting your self down.. ure wasting ure time talking to a fucking video camera. Look harder for a better job, stop spending ure money on nothing important, Go for walks to start out and pull your self out of this stupid rut. You are doing this to your self and all you need to do is simply apply your self a little harder and stop cutting corners. join the real world so u can adapt to it or your gunna be stuck right where u are right now forever!
You are a failure. Listen to your mother, get some counseling, and find a role model who is health conscious... Or do nothing and continue just as you are, I'm really not all that concerned or interested just giving my 2 cents. I enjoy watching you videos though; they inspire me not to be like you :) happy holiday's
@morimotodevo I'm glad for every evil physco like you there are 10 good people. This girl shouldn't worry about what faceless comments say they are just evil people and cowards. I'm inspired by this comment to never become a bitch ass physco like this person that commeted.
Thank you so much im in exactly the same position as you life really sucks. Bu im saying thank you because you have really inspired me to try and do something about this.
I found this video by searching the way that I'm feeling at the moment after talking with friends. They're nice, but I can't help feeling that they secretly think that I'm stupid or immature. It hurts--A LOT. I think, I know how smart I am, so why haven't I done more with my life?
I'm proud of you for sharing this with others. It took a lot of courage.
Maybe you can get on full-time with your current employer. Most people are struggling to find a job...like me.
Lauren, 1st off you are in NO MEANS "A Failure" you are a BEAUITFUL PERSON that has hit a BUMP in the road! Your going to make it through this I promise! I have BEEN where YOU ARE NOW!
1... STOP SAYING NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF!
2... LIVE FOR TODAY! Take it Day by DAY!
You need to call each person you owe money to and set up a payment plan!
3... KEEP LOOKING FOR A JOB! Sure it's HARD right now but until your HAPPY, KEEP LOOKING!
I appreciate everyones support! this video was from 3 years ago, a ton has changed ( some still the same) but watch new videos for updates :)
WeightBGone 2 months ago
Wow your mom is a jerk, mean like my mon. You might be depressed but you sound more confident & cooler than me.
Acharmye 2 months ago
Hi, I know the feeling, I don't fit in society. My mom never fails to remind me of my faults either & compare me to my older sibling. My older sibling is more successful & has friends unlike me. Same with my cousisn. Don't even fit in with my family, I feel very terrible most of the time.
Acharmye 2 months ago
This is a beautiful video, I hope you use this pain to motivate yourself to be the best you you can be, I believe that you can and will overcome your hardships because the only other option is failure, AND. YOU. WILL. NOT. FAIL! You are strong and its time to show that to the world, this is your time to knock them on their asses for not believing in you!
Morrisburger23 3 months ago
YOU can never be anything - not a failure, not a success, not skinny, not fat. YOU are something else, all the other words to describe yourself is attachments. What if you are in a state of failure? You can still get out of it TODAY. you can eath healthy TODAY, you could search for a job TODAY, you could stop spending money (I mean, you even know that you do it just to feel good??) TODAY.
zugarpies 11 months ago
your not a failure. just keep working hard. your friend ed
tcbeddie 1 year ago
Read the Quran
NoorminAllah 1 year ago
@NoorminAllah
Oh ya, the quran is definately a great motivational tool for women. .
1776iscoming 11 months ago
@1776iscoming I hope maybe it might help you. I hate to see anyone hurting and in pain. I recently joined slimgenics. If you like I can share it with you. :)
NoorminAllah 11 months ago
There are more things in life that you have to overcome, control your fears and never be apart, always show true feelings around you and everybody else. God loves you and I do too, happy smiles my friend and may good times be with you. I hope my information really helps when you read them, I trust you will be fine about everything. I gotta go now and take care and try to be happy and good for your life, God Bless You my friend.
Jonathangoad1985 1 year ago
And you just gotta stay connected with your life and show your true feelings around everybody and yourself, you can always be loved by your friends, family, and your boyfriend, you just gotta pull yourself together and work hard with your life, and be happy for it, be understandable and be yourself.
Jonathangoad1985 1 year ago
Never ever give up on your life, I know your mother shouldn't sweared at you, but she was just trying to love and protect your life, you can do ANYthing you want girl, you just gotta understand yourself and try to believed in yourself, don't ever call yourself a failure cause your...not...a failure, you are a human being with strong will. (continued).
Jonathangoad1985 1 year ago
I'm sorry, weightbgone :(
leopower7 1 year ago
One suggestion those is find support. When you find something hard to do. It's just harder doing it by yourself. I'm trying to find support myself. So at least I feel sane. and not like bad. Your video gave me support. I know I not alone in the way I feel.
cazauvg 1 year ago
Search for someone who can understand my feelings first before proceeding. because I feel lonely and helpless if they don't understand me. and sometime I just need someone who can hear my point of view. and then maybe give some compassion then after that resolution. Don't feel like your an embrassement because of this video. Other who feel the way you do, will find you and know that they are not alone.
cazauvg 1 year ago
On the thought that you say you a failure. If it isn't the end of the race. You can still make it there. but I understand how you feel because that was one of the reason I came and watch your video. because I was feeling like a failure too. And I was hope to find light. And when I listen to what you where saying I feel like I know what you mean. Most of it. On the though of you and your friends. You know I felt like that where I start to leave everybody that I feel can't understand me.
cazauvg 1 year ago
and I don't have a problem with that. You may not have a problem with that either. But you feel like it's a problem because your mom is coming down on you. Your mom the way she is working is worried. She say all those stuff because she care for you in this case more than you care for yourself. It a problem to her because she wants better for you. She wants to see you better. And I understand she said it hurtfully towards you. Which made you feel worst than even what you already feel.
cazauvg 1 year ago
You know yourself best. you have access to all your thoughts that we don't have. be honest and tell yourself how you feel. whatever it is that is your logic. Whether it is you feel lazy or that you want to be perfect. We can have any logic we want because we can think anyway we want. whatever it is acknowledge it. because that is your answer to what is wrong with you? That is just simply how you are.
cazauvg 1 year ago
It could be like where you start doing a little dangerous thing. and when you find out it wasn't so bad. You do more and more dangerous next time. It's like being brave. Your not afraid. Until you find the limit where you starting being afraid then you might stop or even concor your fear and continue. Or it could be you don't worry that much about yourself, you don't want to be selfish.
cazauvg 1 year ago
Nothing wrong with you. Other people have have done the same too. Where they learn what is good for them but they still don't do it. Simple because we have free will. We can choose our self to act anyway we want. And if we want to do bad or good it really up to us. If that's not the case then you can't be good or bad. It's would be like a possession. Your control by something. But we not possess. Somewhere inside say it's not a big deal and you continue on.
cazauvg 1 year ago
We should forgive ourselves and take ourselves the way we are. We cannot ask others to love us or forgive us. It is up to them. There is a great chance that we are being loved by people with whom we resonate, and also have the energy to give love back, when we literally love ourselves and are good to ourselves.
Every day is a new beginning.
*Love&peace*
TheAngelicSiren 1 year ago
don't overanalyze at 2:30 in the morning. It's hard to be rational at that time for anyone. Sleep is way underrated!
ChexsterBexster 1 year ago
I love you so much for posting this. What courage, I really loved it because I can relate. My life has many problems and I often feel so dam worthless too. I understand and support you 100%
MegaDreamer88 1 year ago
quit being a ***hole to her sleepeternalsleeps, you obviously cant see the pain she is going through, its ok, ur gonna burn in hell for writing something like that to someone who is feeling depressed!!! you should go kill yourself cause no one needs to read your troll dumb ass, you guys should be ashamed of yourself!!! {HONEY, I CARE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL, DONT READ WHAT THESE BASTARDS ARE WRITING ABOUT YOU, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DONT LET ANYONE EVER TELL YOU OTHERWISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AmandaR72490 2 years ago
@AmandaR72490 Indeed, SHE IS VERY BEAUTIFUL!
Besides, she has the guts to share what others wouldn't, and is certainly helping herself and others with it. So, she is even very clever!
TheAngelicSiren 1 year ago
When all signs point to failure, maybe you're right, maybe you are a fat sack of elbow skin and maybe you should eat yourself into a diabetic coma, atleast within this state of unconsciousness all of the poor citizens of youtube would not have to watch your flapping chins move like a a ballsack in the wind everytime you want to eat cake and cry about it
SleepEternalSleeps 2 years ago
Stop talking honestly and putting your self down.. ure wasting ure time talking to a fucking video camera. Look harder for a better job, stop spending ure money on nothing important, Go for walks to start out and pull your self out of this stupid rut. You are doing this to your self and all you need to do is simply apply your self a little harder and stop cutting corners. join the real world so u can adapt to it or your gunna be stuck right where u are right now forever!
McCabbage101 2 years ago
You are a failure. Listen to your mother, get some counseling, and find a role model who is health conscious... Or do nothing and continue just as you are, I'm really not all that concerned or interested just giving my 2 cents. I enjoy watching you videos though; they inspire me not to be like you :) happy holiday's
morimotodevo 2 years ago
@morimotodevo I'm glad for every evil physco like you there are 10 good people. This girl shouldn't worry about what faceless comments say they are just evil people and cowards. I'm inspired by this comment to never become a bitch ass physco like this person that commeted.
CaptainGangsta23 1 year ago
im in the same boat..... i feel like shit and have no drive in life!!! not sure what to do!!! : /
moneymotivated007 2 years ago
Thank you so much im in exactly the same position as you life really sucks. Bu im saying thank you because you have really inspired me to try and do something about this.
ash104 2 years ago
fail
fabioballin 2 years ago
I found this video by searching the way that I'm feeling at the moment after talking with friends. They're nice, but I can't help feeling that they secretly think that I'm stupid or immature. It hurts--A LOT. I think, I know how smart I am, so why haven't I done more with my life?
I'm proud of you for sharing this with others. It took a lot of courage.
Maybe you can get on full-time with your current employer. Most people are struggling to find a job...like me.
~BIG HUGS~
Luv4Learning 3 years ago
Lauren, 1st off you are in NO MEANS "A Failure" you are a BEAUITFUL PERSON that has hit a BUMP in the road! Your going to make it through this I promise! I have BEEN where YOU ARE NOW!
1... STOP SAYING NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF!
2... LIVE FOR TODAY! Take it Day by DAY!
You need to call each person you owe money to and set up a payment plan!
3... KEEP LOOKING FOR A JOB! Sure it's HARD right now but until your HAPPY, KEEP LOOKING!
fittness02 3 years ago 2
4... Start reading this book "Becoming REAL" by Dr. Gail Slatz it's an EYE OPENER!
5... Get yourself OUTSIDE and WALK!
6... DO NOT FOCUS on your WEIGHT right now... Start with making yourself happy then the Weight will come off! PROMISE!!!
7... Find ONE PERSON close to you that can be your SUPPORTOR! You need someone who can relate to what your going through!
8... Start doing things for YOU!
I Care ABOUT YOU Lauren and I know you'll make it through this!
Just take it ONE DAY at a time
fittness02 3 years ago
I LOVE YOU KIDDO!
So stop feeling sorry for yourself and start FIGHTING TO SAVE YOUR LIFE! You are the only person who can do the work!
I will be here when and if you need me!
Love ya like a SISTER!
((hugs))
gayle in VA
fittness02 3 years ago
our names are lizzie and jillian,
towards the beginning of your video we felt very touched but than towards the middle we realized something
as sad as we are for you in terms of your debt and weight problems , we also feel that your somewhat responsible.
at one part of your video you said something to the extent of you feel worthless, and whats wrong with you...
truthfully, you have to just stop feeling sorry for urself and get out there.
Itube987 3 years ago
i understand and i place your heart woes in my prayers to be healed
ringaroundtharosey 3 years ago