How to stop being jealous and ruining your relationship

[Rebelshana]

I have to watch this video everyday, cause I feel like exactly like u all....my bf talks about his female friends and him hanging out w his ex girl friends...makes me go to a dark place, horrible and i do lose all dignity ..i am working on this several times daily...thanks for the video and knowing im not the only one going through this anguish.

[chewyybrr]

I was very insecure about my girlfriend having close male friends and I always thought about this as a threat.. I have talked to her honestly about it and realise that the more I get up in her face about being jealous the more psychotic she will see me as and inevitably end our relationship. But I wanted to say thank you as this has made me have a more grown up approach to my relationship involving trust and also letting her have some freedom. its nice to see I'm not alone in this mindset.

[theshushhh]

hey I am a girl but yeah, this is completely relevant to us too.. your video might have saved my relationship from getting ruined. Thank you so much. Good luck to you!

[carnicerodeperros]

thank you thank you, i just ruined one of the best relationships i thought i had she was ace man, this girl was a dream come true, and my inner child killed it, everything you mentioned, is exactly how i think, and how i reacted, same thought's and everything, i'm glad to know i'm not the only thinking like that, thank you for taking the time to making this video hopefully most of this sticks, i thank you for this.

[randyarmy03]

wow your very good man



[xziaux]

When I started out watching this video, I was on skype and talking to someone. But as I listened, partially, I left my skype call, and closed my game. I turned up the volume and started this video over. I took everything as a joke, I found myself searching for videos like this because of my failing relationship. The jealous ways I have are hurting myself and my fiancè. But when I actually listened, you picked out key things that I do and act like. Thank you is all I have to say for this advice.

[wingobingo]

No matter what anyone says nothing really helps, it just eats your insides & oh for some sleep!! Thnx anyway. Salzburg!???

[IdaBrun]

You're a saint to my peace of mind. THANK YOU

[MrSsandwichman69]

good video! love the face expressions! LOL

[IdaBrun]

This was very insightful. Thank you!

[Nickd122]

this video deserves more views its helping me so much and it is helping everyone else to. Thank you so much i watch this when i feel jealous and insecure thank you!

[AzizaMoghal]

This is such a great video! I love the way you talk about this subject and share from your own experiences! Like Queeg500RD said: "...very honest, no bullship, keeping it real!" :-) Thank you! I hope I can manage to do what you talked about. I'm always afraid that the little child in me will pop up and be all uncontrolable again, 'cause that's what always happens... :-/ I hope I'll get it right this time, because my hubby is really really tired of my behavior :-(

[Jer0meLey]

OMG!.... sometimes when i jealous i want to get over he because it hurts so bad everytime, then after 3 hours, i love her with all my heart again :)

[Jer0meLey]

exactly..

[djleeeva]

Thankyouthankyou! I'm finally in a relationship that is going perfectly, I love + trust my partner but was having a hard time with jealousy...You're awesome, I love how you shove the truth in the viewer's face, and the way you do it (you made me crack up). Seems like you really know your stuff. Cheers!

[ManofValour76]

I like this video and speaker...it made me think y'know?!

[samanthazuloaga]

wow

[911ffegment]

uknw if u wanna be less jealous u have to stop watching porno also..bcos porno makes u think very nasty..so wenever u see ur girl wit otha guys u tend to think there gonna do nasty things witout u knowing..

[MegOxtoby]

You seem like such a lovely guy Joshua! :)

[kenntyo]

This really helped me a lot, thank you so much! This really... "flooded" my mind, and I feel like I can see more clearly now. Again, thank you a bunch.

[saablover2007]

Thank you.

I have been hurt before in a relationship that my partner cheated on me...& I feel that I hold everyone accountable for that past relationship that I keep reliving. It kills me when I look back on what I walked away from.....from good, honest people....who I couldnt trust so it drove them away secondary to my own issues with jealousy. This video was helpful (even to a therapist)! Its time for me to practice what Im telling some of my clients....its time for u to take charge of u

[soccerbrasil]

@saablover2007

I feel what you mean,I was hurt by my ex gf and now my wife is the one who i am having jealousy about. This video helped a lot to see it clearly now. I've been separated for 2 weeks now cuz i lost my mind and accused her of things that was created in my mind. I am really trying to work on my issues and have my marriage but,she told me she need time to think about what she's doing. Hopefullly we can still together and i wanna change ,cuz it never took me anywhere good...

[justinongjiajin]

Thank you brother. Everytime I get jealous. I'll watch this again and again to remind myself. :) You rock! 

[jester3601]

...Thanks much brother. Helps alot. Till today i still have that child in me. Now you had me thinking and thanks im going to say gud bye to that child.

[lemuz37]

Latez child!

[CMLAFLAMME]

I feel like an orphan or something. Yay! lol

[vikas1205]

its a very good vid, helped me a great deal today....i was thinking all sorts of hypothetical ,self made ,framed things , being j change u as a person...its totally totally true...so know yourself and be yourself and as rightfully said by my friend here every thing is fine..just calm yourself and choose .

[Cneilson75]

Thank you

[Emjsimon89]

Thank you, your video was just what i needed to hear. It is hard to deal with jealousy and how to release yourself from the prison it keeps you in.

[fairymairah]

the one thing i hate about falling in love is when your unmarried crush is becoming married with someone else instead of you AND IT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE UNABLE TO CONTROL YOUR OWN EMOTIONS AGAINST YOUR OWN WILL >:( AND WHAT IF YOU'RE UNPURPOSELY HAVING A CRUSH ON OTHER PEOPLE AGAINTS YOUR WILL WHILE BEING MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE and the worst thing about emotions is when you feel like you can't control your own emotions but therapist are :) ^_^ ! ! ! ! !

[KarinaFromPoland]

THANK YOU VERY MUCH. I see you know what this is all about... It's nice that you want to help other people to deal with this crazy feeling, cause jealousy makes people acting like crazy, it can be a real big problem for sure.

[Deelowe1andonly]

Thank you so much. This has helped me realize that I do have that inner child who's not allowing him to get close. I love my boyfriend dearly but a lot of his deceptions made me the way I am. Now that I see he reassures me that he loves me. I have to stop entertaining negative thoughts!! Cause I always think he's cheating when he's not. So it's going to take some time.

I realize I did a lot of damage to our relationship. I am grown up enough to say I FUCKED UP!! This video has helped me out a

[BeatboxinDawg]

I have the feeling that My gf has losed her love for me 'cuz I'm so jealous..

And we are a couple for almost 2 weeks... yah that's fast.

So the feeling that I'm going to lose here only makes the jealous feeling worse.

And I tried to call her tonight 3 times to ask for forgiveness and she didn't pick. up the phone,

Maybe I should just leave her alone? 'Cuz I'm on the same boarding school as her and we see each other almost every single day in the week for almost for a whole day

[joeysixtysix]

Great video, thank you!

[CREATIONISM123]

FUCKING AMAZING VID MAN !!! Thankyou :) you have really cheered me up and made me realise that i'm not really alone at all in this crazy mixed up world... <3

[metrojuggler117]

Dude thank you so much. I really relate to this and you put it in the best words possible. this video will really help me change the way i think. You're very wise.

[BarzanJafar]

brilliant video bro, seriously needed it :)

[munecaa62]

Thank you so much..

[TheCovenant4]

This video really helped, I have a hard time coping with jelousy because of this one girl that just bothers me alittle bit... Tonight, I will talk to him about her, get everything sorted, and I will walked into a trusting future. I know he loves me, and I love him. Now I will build apon trust. Baby steps.

Thank you. :)

[ArjayCortez]

love is a gift, jealousy is its curse

[fashionfever90]

That was the most helpful advice I've ever come across. I'm ready toc hang and stop this tomfoolery of making my bf feel like crap for no reason. I realize now that he loves me and I am worthy of his love.

[dazpatreg]

Cheers, good to know I'm not the only one at least.

[r1a7w]

Hit the nail on the head

[dowfhg]

Are you a type 4?

[DayZStar]

omg i love this video!!!! thank u so much just what i needed

[misterireneusz]

I have a very bad time with my jealousy, my girlfriend has never gaved me the reason to be it, more, she keep forgiving me it and covering it with her love, but now im on the RED LINE, i dont want to loose her thats why IM GOING NOT TO BE JEALOUS as an idiot anymore, I just have to stop to look for it, yes, stop looking for being jealous, control my immagination and ENJOY THE TIME WITH MY LOVE... Already feel better when i write it

puppetcuttingstrings THANK YOU A LOT!! BUT REALLY MAN!!

[bob8]

Thank you so much :) I have a real problem with jelousy and trust, and it hurts my girlfriend so much when she sees that side of me, and it hurts me, too, but I watch this video whenever I get a hint of really bad jelousy and I feel loads better :) keep up the amazing work

[CommanderSpooky]

Thank you.

[Real454545]

Excellent Descriptive Video on Jealousy. You could be an Actor.

Keep more videos comming ;-)

[xThunderxWolfx]

Honestly, i'm jealous because i feel like i'm easily replaceable, And that any other guy she talks to could replace me. :/

[HorrorQueen7]

Wow...I felt like you were inside my head. My girlfriend and I are having one last shot at saving our relationship, we've been together 6 years and I'm fucking it up basically because I am unbelievably jealous and paranoid. This spoke right to me, I'm determined to change my way of thinking and every time I get jealous or start questioning her I'm going to watch this and try my best to change how I'm being.

Thanks so much man, this is a brilliant video

[hanspaolo10]

Thank you for enlightening me. By far the best video on Youtube about the subject. I felt like he was talking about my life.

[emeliepascoe]

very much appreciated. I just want to let go of inhibitions and have a healthy comfortable relationship. Im going to review this when i forget how to do that.

[gbhoyz]

thanks man! it helped alot, especially now that i feel so low, and BETRAYED!

[gbhoyz]

phew!!! thanks man!! it helped me alot.. especially now that i feel like i'm so down, frustrated, depressed and BETRAYED!.

[wwechamp7]

Lol my girlfriend broke up with me become she is jealous and thinks im a porn addict

[LozzieTayla]

this is exactly what I needed someone to tell me! I know this it;s what I've needed to do all along but someone else telling me makes a huge difference it makes so much more sense. thanks mate :) I'm coming back to this video every time I feel that slight stab of jealousy just to prove to myself how silly I am being :)

[Tonwarr]

I just got done pissing away the best thing that's ever happened to me and sadly, I knew why I was doing it when I was doing it. I refuse to allow jealousy and fear to rule my existence, it's time to change my stars! Thank you for the video, it truly felt like you were in my head and it's nice to see that there is light at the end of this dark and lonely tunnel...

[Queeg500RD]

"fuck this, it's crazy, just trust her and stop wasting time with these stupid thoughts, she's with you for a reason!!!" :) Well matie, thanks for the video, it's changed my state of mind for sure... Like your style too, very honest, no bullshit, keeping it real! Keep up the videos bro, Rodge

[puppetcuttingstrings]

@Queeg500RD

Great. No problems, Rodge. Your reaction is definitely what I wanted! Only problem is I'm new to the youtube thing and don't really know the tricks on how to get more people looking at your videos. I'm going to search for some hints on that now. All the best, Joshua

[Queeg500RD]

@puppetcuttingstrings Thanks for the reply, have a good day mate :)

[Queeg500RD]

Hey buddy... You know, i woke up this orning with this jealousy I seem to be holding onto in my relationships. Stupid things like my gf smiling at other guys and laughing with them.. She left this morning and i just couldn't get back to sleep thinkin about it.. So thought, lets have a look on YouTube (as u do;)) Mate, i can totally relate to you, well you seem to make so much sense, and i know what your saying is true, but it really so easy to just say...