My thoughts....Married men NO, NOOOO...*Up Ya Game*...Pass the knowledge on!!!

[sweetladie1826]

should I forgive and forget for the sake of our relationship because now shes very apololgetic and wants to move on to bigger and better things what do you think I should do ?and or what do you think about my stuation /

[Juicyfruitj]

@sweetladie1826 The best advice I can give you is to make sure you are taking care of YOURSELF..emotionally and mentally. I do know..very well...that the first love is a tough one to get over, but I also know..very well...that it is HARD to get your peace back once you've allowed somebody to take that from you. I think at 20 years old you should be enjoying your life, finding out who you are and what you want to do with yourself, NOT trying to keep tabs on someone that's clearly doing what they

[Juicyfruitj]

@sweetladie1826 want to do. Maybe it's just me, but someone telling me they're sorry..but not changing their behavior is a slap in the face. They are NOT sorry. I was finally able to free myself from my disfunctional relationship with my 1st love when I changed my way of thinking. Who's more important to you? Yourself, or someone who doesn't really care about you? People do to you what you allow them to. If she knows you'll take her back either way...why would she ever even want to change?

[sweetladie1826]

now I was pretty fed up at that point Ive asked her to give me her password and she Insist so I feel as If shes hiding somethings from me and also to this day she I s still friends with her ex/bestfriend I personaly dont approve of this and Ive told her maybe If that friendship line wasnt crossed Id be more approving of you alls friendship we are In a long distance realtionship going on 1 year and 7 months and Im still that person that brings up what shes done to me but she thins I should forget

[sweetladie1826]

From her ex/best friend In many ways she would clearly curse me out over facebook and I was so surprised that older women act In this manner Im still young but I dont act like I have no sence later on about three months later she my girlfriend asked to be back with me and I excepted her not because I forgave her only because I loved her as my first and I believe evryone deserves a second chance today Its 1/31/11 and still our together and Ive caught her cheating 2 times on facebook

[sweetladie1826]

Im 20yrsold and Ill be 21 this coming august 21st Ive met this women and shes 12 years older than me shes actualy my first love and my only I first had sex when I was 19 but instead of it being with a man it was with her well and I can honestly say we only waited about a month but just about 6 months down into us being together she left me for her childhood friend I WAS HEARTBROKEN Im sure you know about the first love thing we tlked while she was messing around with her friend Ive gotten DRAMA

[sweetladie1826]

I love your bluntness can you give me some advice ?

[Juicyfruitj]

@sweetladie1826 Sure, I can definitely try and help. Either post a response video, or leave a message in the inbox.

[Rahhhsajp19]

its not worth any mans time to get married its worse then gambling or playing Russian Roulette

[mrsbwick]

I love this video, i personally think married men who cheat do it just because thats what they do.. Like you said they wife doing everything a wife suppose to do lol.. Any decent married man will not cheat on his wife, he would just simply divorce her. And women who mess with married men should burn in hell.

[Juicyfruitj]

@mrsbwick it bothers me how many people simply don't value the sanctity of marriage! They cheat all through the courting, cheat through the engagement, and hey why stop when we get married..they just keep cheating! smh. For ANYONE to Know someone is married and that within itself not be a red flag to move on..says a lot about how you feel toward yourself and your morals. I refuse to sit around and be someone's "side dish", when I know good n well I am a main course! lol

[Rahhhsajp19]

@mrsbwick don't for get women that cheat on their husbands or  spend their husbands money on shopping spree

[mrsbwick]

@Rahhhsajp19 oh i know it goes both ways, i was just replying to the topic at hand. OF course Women do it too lol!!! Women are some sneaky creatures as well. To me its just sad how no one respects marriage anymore.

[Rahhhsajp19]

@mrsbwick I blame the court system that why marriage is at a decline men are afraid of loosing everything as they should be cause men do thats why theirs a rise in vasectomies and decline of marriage

[Rahhhsajp19]

@mrsbwick women cheat to and when a man divorces a  women he loses everything

[Rahhhsajp19]

never get married its not smart

[Juicyfruitj]

@Rahhhsajp19 lol hey judging by some of the things I've seen...whew. but their are some good marriages out there too!..somewhere! lol

[Rahhhsajp19]

@Juicyfruitj true but its a gamble mostly men pay for women do to sometimes but mostly men  pay for it if you don't believe me google marriage strike

[RicisWorld]

5 Points ;-)