The Dialogue: Dating in the 21st Century Ft. Professor Rick Banks (Ep. 2)

[wrathofslaves]

39:30 - 40:20 the dred broke it down. The man most women are looking for is a fictional that is a impossible standard that will never be fulfilled even with a man of another race. Just cause a man has money doesn't mean he's tollerable. He could be a doormat that can never give u a backbone and let u use him up while unhappy with him on every other level and then finally women find themselves cheating on this man or even resenting this man for not being the whole of what they wanted!

[wrathofslaves]

The absolute answer following the paragraph on bottom is. When haven't even built ur final stronghold where ur business, career, home, and social grounds are. U can't succesfully build a strong relationship. It is to much work for both sides. Women think they put in more work because have more stubborn emotional attachment to someone that could have came to them just as they are, a "man hoe" but still ignorantly want to convert that person because of his dick, looks, status = swagg!

[wrathofslaves]

Im going to put the stomp down before even going into watching the whole dialog! The reality is people like u Ms-V and these people apart of your show are too busy making moves and establishing their strongholds that you all don't have sufficient time or healthy emotion to put into a good relationship. Because good relationships turn into marriages and babies! Do you really want to try to build yourself why ur depriving ur kids and spouse a healthy relationship?

[Skates2much]

7:21 Why put in work when these "hoes" out here are so easy. A dude's only going to put into what he think is worth it. If a dude thinks he's going to get some with a few "goodmorning" texts, a couple conversations, and then a movie date, who's going to try harder?

8:38 I think that this answers the question at 58:51. Because the percentage of women who make this much money is low too. I think it's got to do with pride and entitlement issues of the black elite. "I should get the BEST out there."

[MsVictoriaShantrell]

@Skates2much u have a lot to say! If you're interested in engaging in a dialogue about this topic we can use a site called nyoombl or you can be a guest on my new live interactive web-based talk show that will be airing soon. Msg me if you're interested.

[Skates2much]

@MsVictoriaShantrell That doesn't sound bad. Let me know when you're having another dialogue on Nyoombl.

[Skates2much]

No offense to these brothers, but I think that you should get someone a little more experienced. I mean, they described they're own relationship statuses as "not dating and don't care." To me, they seem like they've heard a lot, but haven't done much. I heard very few personal accounts. Throw in like 1 or 2 hood niggas who can really drop some game and the perspective of a dude who's dated a lot.

[Skates2much]

(cont) are so low. Because of the poverty rates of blacks (both male and female)

58:51 What are some of the professions for these men? I'm sure a higher percentage of men in this tax bracket are entertainers/athletes moreso compared to white men.

It seems like marriage is for everyone EXCEPT black people LOL

[Skates2much]

48:12 BULLSHIT.

48:35 Who's fault is that?

53:20 "Whatever it is that men want?" LOL. Come on, bruh.

54:10 The Tiger Woods Syndrome

56:21 Once again, who's fault is it for having dating and marriage disparities and failures? The fact that he said that half of college-educated women marry men that don't go to college, it seems like that's what's desirable? It doesn't make sense any other way for that percentage to be as high as 50.

57:25 Could this be the reason why black marriage rates(cont)

[Skates2much]

31:54 Real shit. Some people don't even know how to react in real life sometimes

32:44 Wow, did you really bring up chivalry, homie...

37:09 Yup, can't have it both ways. You can't be an independent woman in the club, and expect a nigga to buy you a drink after talking to you for 30 seconds. But that's a different subject altogether.

39:41 To answer her question, Women's Movements perpetuated the change in gender roles

47:24 Do blacks in the US have the worst marriage disparities globally?

[MsVictoriaShantrell]

Thanks for watching! In regards to time and money, it doesn't mean you get some off back, but it does prolly increase your odds.

[Skates2much]

10:43 Time and money... so we talk to you, take you out, then we "get sum" right?

21:12 Woah bruh, A LOT of people listen to Webbie

21:40 That's bs. If she looks good, you know you gonna talk to her, regardless of what her conversation like. You just won't wife her up.

24:43 "sexual habits"

25:33 Nigga please, if Bria Myles, Lastarya or any of these other bad models approached you, you would be an idiot not to give her the time of day no matter how DUMB she was.

28:24 Realest thing I heard yet