My Husband Emotionally Abusing Me (Audio w/ Subtitles)-Part 1/2

[PriestessPat]

I had that "life" for 21 years till I decided I couldn't take anymore. Believe it or not, a Priest advised it! It took 2 years of intensive victim counseling to start to repair the damage to my spirit. The day I walked out, was the day I was FREE!! I'm on my 2nd marriage, 11 years so far and NO screaming or yelling. I love my life!

[huntersville1]

This is why I left my husband now seperated with all the mental abuse all his threats name calling manipulation and he drained me financially I had enough best decision was leaving him

[ukeelady]

I came across this randomly. Wow. Good on you for taking your life back. This has more than convinced me never to have another relationship with a man. I haven't for several years anyway ... because of men like this. Glad you have found happiness:)ox

[CuteTeef]

I'd just spit on his face and leave. What a hysterical loser he is.

[ravenblack6]

WOW....sounds just like my house on any given day.

[reynolds2250]

im in the same situation only we have a daughter involved and i have it documented in my medical files good job on leaving his ass

[thinlinebetweenable]

i am so glad i'm not married.

[cherrydarlingxoxo]

He keeps saying "I'm done" and "I'm leaving" and then when she doesn't beg him to stay he says she "doesn't understand" because he thinks she should be devastated that he is leaving and then she will cry and beg. It gets him more upset..because she isn't responding how he wants...

[rocdragon4353]

Thank you so much for posting. I am currently discerning my own relationship and learning about emotional abuse. I really appreciate this, you have no idea.. or well maybe you do. I am not alone. Neither are you. :)

[7777anastasia]

He tells me I have wrinkles, he talks about about me to other people, I diet all the time to the point of looking like the walking dead and he still hits on 20 year olds. He lies about everything, blames everything on me. He refuses to take any responsibility for anything. Now he has resorted in making believe he is going to hit me if I don't shut up. Last time I checked it was our money and I'm sick of him flushing it down the toilet.

[AlawaysSmileKR]

Great decision 5 stars for strength. God bless you. How much was your haircut in this whole convo?

[twosdayschild]

I left a man last November after putting up with his bullshit for 6 years. He outweighed me by 150 lbs and he scared the crap out of me. Mostly it was all verbal abuse but occasionally he hit me or knocked me down. And I walk with a cane! Sometimes I can't believe I was with him for so long. If it hadn't been for the unwavering support of my Mom I would probably still be there under his spell. He used to say he would kill me and bury my body where no one would ever find me. Nice huh?

[Oregonpair03]

Expose his ass! He is a BULLY and doesn't deserve to have protection from you are anyone else!

[sparkleblue7]

I go through this same thing every day

[LadyClaudja]

You can't please these jerks because they are not pleased with themselves. Like he said, don't go looking for him cause he's leaving (right!), and make sure you disappear because he WILL come looking for you!........Weak piece of s..t!

[Rocknroll4evrchk]

wow I feel sorry for you.

[holyspiritgirl111]

Thank you for this. I just left a verbally/mentally abusive man. I realize the abuse isn't my fault. It makes me cry hearing this because this was my life.

[zEropoint68]

Post a visual image of this person so the rest of us know to steer clear.

[melbrooks]

my dad gets like that. he does it to my family, but when we're in public, he's the perfect dad. I see the effect on me and how I have trouble talking to men.

[MsEnamorada2011]

i think he started fussin to have a reason to not come home that is the same thing the i live with does. its all my fault that he drinks and uses drugs and goes partyin with his friends. everytime he leaves i hope and pray he doesnt come home. he tells me im going to find someone else i tell him i hope and pray every single day that you find someone else so you can ruin there life and leave me alone.

[abby495]

His stupid ass belongs six feet under.

[smsorour]

HE IS EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE has it ever gotten physical?

[Babagirls]

@smsorour he's been semi-physical..he was arrested for domestic violence on me years ago so he learned how to scare me without leaving marks..like pushing me up against a wall, or pretending like he was gonna hit me but never actually hit me (he'd come within inches of my face though).

[cmbstudiosart]

what a psycho

[bayoubell1]

I hope you left that prick. I swear to God I will NEVER live with another man again. I hate their fucking bossy shit.

[Babagirls]

@bayoubell1 yes I did leave and never looked back. I left him over a year ago and I am now in the most healthy, loving relationship with the man of my dreams. :) I'm VERY happy now!

[conspiracychic]

thanks for posting this. Now I know that I'm not the only one that was dealing with a lunatic after all. This is similar to what my ex was acting like and it was escalating so I bought a recorder because the conversations were getting more and more bizarre. I thought is he suffering from a brain tumor or what-because he is really saying some off the wall things that I have no idea how to deal with or respond to-just absolute lunacy and drama.

[LittleQueenTudor]

men are pigs. Fuck them, we have dildos now.

[kazb25]

omg he just confused everything u couldnt keep up with were the conversation topic was going to go next, this is there only tatic this and the shock factor

[BenOosterveld]

Search You Tube

"Controlling Men's Secrets Exposed"

Lays it out well

[butterflyblue369]

I'm in this situation...for sooooo long....he is currently in anger management....the physicality lately is the chest shove...when I try to walk away blocking the door...putting his chest in my face...He has already been in jail for 25 days for hitting me in october 2010..I live with him.....basically have no where to go.....I am scared....he is scary....i feel stuck......how can I love someone so much...i try to get along...he is constantly criticising me..my self-esteem is nada...

[m3hr33nd]

wow abusive guys really have mood swings. they get pissed and then they start crying and getting emotional.. my ex restrained me because i didnt want to listen to him and then later when i said i just wanted to leave. he started crying and said i dont care about and how he just wanted me to listen.

[bridget2695]

hi my name is bridget, and i help woman who are being abused and i have some personal history with being abused.... i can help you!!! BUT before you leave him i need to tell you some tips first PLEASE let me help you!!!!!!!

[angel9611]

( sad.....wishing u all the Best..God bless

[143kissii]

im glad to hear you got out of that relationship, im in high school and im writing my term paper on domestic violence, i dont know you but im proud of you, because u served as a great example of how strong a woman can be. when you said your done, you were done. i have a friend that had a baby with an abusive guy and even after he kicked her out the house she would still go back to him just cause that was the father of her baby.. every time she would come back physically abused.=(

[Nivokius]

Are you married to Dane Cook?

Seriously, it sounds like you're having an argument with Dane Cook.

[Wholefood123]

I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I couldn't listen for more than a minute because it was so sad. God bless

[h60562]

brave thing to do. i work in care and i did something similar to my boss

[LOAblue]

Don't you know that you weren't supposed to get a haircut, so you could cover his drinking and gambling expenses? That's just out of line, getting a haircut every 3 months (sarcasm)

[bauman11]

Good for you Babagirls I'm so glad you left and got yourself a better life. Good for you!

[ljwoodel]

Get out NOW! I've been there-I finally left. I never regretted my decision. Just wished I didn't wait 17 years. I'll never tolerate anyone treating me that way again. Read Patricia Evans' books. God Bless you.

[gma617]

I have over 200 hours of MUCH MUCH worse I would like to share.How do I put it on here?

[kcmbutterfly]

My husband and I can have a conversation and within 5 mintues it can turn basicaly onto me that everything that goes wrong in our lives turns to be my fault. Then most of the conversation he can turn it back on me like imitating me what I want to know is, is that verbal abuse because after it all i want to do is cry and feel really down and always feel that what he said is my fault.?

[rhdz67]

they are such cowards when they f*ck up and they want to blame on us. The best thing u did was leave cause the next step was going to be a slap for not accepting what he says, I know I just got a taste of it this year at least urs would leave my doesnt go. ugh I am listening to ur video while i write this and ugh,, its all just too close to me. but i want u to know the money for my expenses comes from a business in which I put 50% $ and more the 1/2 the work, now he wants to keep it all.

[Babagirls]

@rhdz67 I'm self-employed and though he loved the paychecks (since he'd always take my money), he also hated when I made more than him. One time, he got so pissed at me for making more that month than him, and he told me to go get a job at McDonalds down the street...which was beyond stupid because I would making over 50% LESS than I was making at home.

I'm now living in my own apartment with our cat & dog and I couldn't be happier! :) He has no idea how to get a hold of me and it's fantastic!

[Hawaiiansky11]

@Babagirls "No-win situation" RED FLAG

[teewhy1977]

men are such asses

[h60562]

@teewhy1977 thats very rude, most men are not emotionally abusive, in fact women are just as likely to be emotionally abusive

[benpetrofsky]

@teewhy1977

After my last relationship I sure as hell could say that about women lol

[ok2love]

Wow...I hope you all can get counseling and please pray for him that he realizes what he does. Know you are beautiful. God loves you and this is not what God planned for marriage.

[permatroll]

@ok2love lol wut

[lalapinta001]

not only divorce.. you must report it!! OMG... he's hurting you T.T