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  • you are a milf

  • what about cumming in the ass?

  • I find anal sex to be a huge turn off. I have had some women ask me to f them in the back passage but my erection completely goes down. The idea of sticking my dick into a bacteria ridden, hairy, smelly hole where shit comes out off is quite simply put, disgusting!! I love the vagina thank you very much!! Plus, knowing that gay men fuck each other up the rectum also turns me off as its the same. Don't want to know about what you think so dont message me, thanks.

  • I think you are trying to keep away from gay sex in general.

  • @z15browndevon

    political correctness...

  • i'd rather just dry-hump her from behind, i like butt cheeks

  • the prostatitis warning is scary tho...

  • pretty good tips in the vid. being prepared and knowledgeable is key. fortunately for me, all hope was not lost. my current boyfriend rocks. we did a bit more research together and explored what works best for us. the biggest help was this book I've recommended to all of my friends that are curious - Arouse Her Anal Ecstasy. It's thoughtful, thorough and offers great tips. But most of all, find the right partner who is caring, supportive and understanding!

  • this video will probably save my life

  • This was extremely painful the first time, i think thats why i love it so much

  • This Dr.Joy Davidson is very informative explaining the basic steps,very interesting,by explaining the difference between T.V. and actual participating self.

  • How do they not get sick in the ATM stuff I mean ecoli botulsim etc. They are really doing it unless they are movie magicians. I guess this goes for licking ass too.

  • @mattamal1 They clean up first. Enema's, warm up with butt plugs, etc. Ecoli is an issue but botulism isn't. Licking ass is something you do after a shower, not taking a huge dump.

  • She is so stunning! I hope she gets a lot of sex! haha!

  • this women is so informative...I appreciate her info

  • My wife let me know early on that we would be doing a lot of anal, and that we would love it. SHe's right ... I can't live without her inside me now.

  • @buckisaslave

    I get it!

  • Thank u very much indeed 4 very helpfull info!

  • yeah, you can''t just RAM it in!.. Hello EX boyfriend.

  • All you ever wanted to know about anal sex, butt were afraid to ASSk...lol

  • thxs relyy helped me out i can now pentitrate my partner to his full potential

  • NEVER in a million years. yuck

  • To quote Dante from Clerks 2: "YOU NEVER GO ASS TO MOUTH!!!"

  • Love you Dr. Joy. Thanks for the advice. I also found great content on Amazon on an anal sex search.

  • Ho HO! NO Soapy finger up the arse... that's real bad for the internal flora.

    ok, once is not a bad thing, but you'll see soon enough what i'm talking about if u persist using that kinda bad tip...

  • Coles notes: Porn sex is not real sex.

  • thanks joy, this really helps

  • i tried anal a few time but i didnt like & what do u advice thnks...

  • @cakkarim The guy has to learn how to do it right. Get the girl close to cumming with lots of relaxed ass play and clit stimulation. You'll notice the ass starts to open up and want something inside, start with a finger and keep up the clit stimulation. Let the guy put the tip of his penis into your ass veeeeery slowly. He has to keep it really controlled and slow and listen to you. As you play with your clit, he can go in a little deeper. Soon this will feel very good and you can cum.

  • Dr. Joy, Have you read Arouse Her Anal Ecstasy? Its a new book on anal sex intro and advanced techniques. It's getting way better reviews than the other sex books on the market. I just ordered it and I am excited to get it. My girlfriend said she now LOVES ANAL sex cuz of the book. Just want to know if you have reviewed it?

  • Ok, by far the best I have read or viewed on the subject. - And yes, impatient partners are to be made wait. Good girl on this non-curriculum subject. Actually the porn editors should be held responsible and should issue a warning, much like the tobacco industry.

  • Ive had anal sex. it feels really good. typically we use a decent size vibrator to open me up accurately, then he places his penis. Of course, prior to this, i spend my own time evacuating the area accurately and accordingly; moreover, i further clean out the area with cleansing devices. ~*wink wink, nudge nudge*~ umm. . . we do anal alot. its like #1. and i love it. It feels GOOD! [for me]. and it does not feel like im taking a poo. it feels just like vaginal, only in the anus.

  • @Yuna0316 Thanks for your comment. I have always found the idea exciting but never tried because of hygiene issue n coprophobia. Is it really possible to make the passage free of smell and fecal matter? During the act is there any chances of poo coming down the passage? If you don't mind could you please give details of how you clean your passage. It is not possible to evacuate completely while taking a poo, do you use some kind of laxative or special diet before? I would be grateful 4 answer.

  • I LIKE IT IF HE HAS A SMALL PENIS, AND RUBS MY CLIT AT THE SAME TIME, MIND BLOWING

  • <3 her!

  • sigh** why bother with anal?......

  • @hyper10shun Maybe because it feels awesome for both hetero partners?

  • does anal grow a womans butt?

  • what would happen if you have alot of anal sex with da same guy and with out condom only can anybody answer my question thx

  • not spirituality in anal sex

  • i think a lot of ppl are really uneducated about anal sex. they see it in porn and think it's like that in real life, they get confused or something. it's pretty impossible to put an average size penis in w/o seriously hurting someone. u have to open the hole up first, it's pretty nasty if u ask me.

  • Yeah but if you bring up anal the guy will think you're a slut and never look at you the same way again. We can't win guys!

  • @Rachiejane1 i would not think she was a slut, i would think she was a godess ;)

  • @Rachiejane1 i wouldnt think that,i would think ur awsome

  • @Rachiejane1

    omg , guys love it . It is women who don't like it usually.

  • How scary.

    We did everything wrong. o.o

  • been with one girl for a long time she loved anal and I have never used a condom, and never had a problem. Rarely there were little messes, but I've been understanding about it, no reason to have a fit. I think using condoms has gone ridiculously over the top, I have never worn one, never got her her pregnant either. If you have multiple partners I can understand, but I connected with her on a deep level trusting her as she did with me.

  • HA AHHAHHAHAHHAAH!!!

  • Anal sex is a pain in the arse...for someone.

  • NO! We don't need multiple orgasms!

    Do we need to consume more and more and more as if we were all pornstars?

    Pfrrrrrt ! Squeeze this squeeze that. Very nice. Do your daily excercise. Excuse me. I want to do my thing with my girl/ woman.

    This is my wish! Based on our emotions. Healing love???? There's nothing to heal. We are aware. Books interfere with emotions. Koran, Bible.

  • You touched on nearly everything! 

  • slow at first as it opens you up, works for me, i even have orgasm without touching myself. good clip.

  • anal is king!!! the best.

  • thank u so much for your info i really thought anal was safer then regular intercourse :)

  • I hate anal it doesn't feel nice at all and guys always pressure me to do it and when I say no i'm seen as boring or a killjoy i'd love to get a massive dildo and ram it up thier ass for once lol

  • @Nirvanax25x I'm a straight guy, and anal actually feels great... I've been playing with things like cucumbers since I was 10! You just have to do it right.

  • @treemagnet88 that is because you are stimulating the prostate gland. the prostate gland is directly up the ass finger forward towards your belly button. when you stimulate it - it gives you the most intense orgasms and you can use even any thing small that has a round bulb shape on it. great for a str8 guy to experience and report on it. great job.

  • @treemagnet88 Thats because the male orgasm spot is located in a guys anus.... Not the females. Learn these things before you say "you just have to do it right"....

  • @Nirvanax25x lol!

  • @Nirvanax25x If you don't do it, he'll find someone else that will. And she'll do it better.

  • @Nirvanax25x Do you think you could tell my boyfriend that? LOL

  • @Nirvanax25x ur probly doin it wrong. and even if ur doin it right,just because it doesnt feel good to you doesnt mean it doesnt for other ppl

  • @Nirvanax25x dont have to pressure urself. If you wish 2 try it, do it on ur own, but get informed. and be smart. u don't wanna end up at the emergency room with a light bulb stuck up ur ass, don't you?

  • guys are too lazy to learn proper clitoral stimulation. thats why noone of those kids are havin anal, or any good sex for that matter

  • i love u

  • oh my god you're hot

  • I love Anal Sex.

  • Doctors always preaches anal sex in a f4g way, where there's no enjoy, just for "keeping" our health safe... I've made alot of anal sex without condoms, I licked femaled anus and done alot of ATM without any problems... I wonder if they follows these "rules" that they preaches... I bet neither them will follow them... hahahahahah

    Joy Davidson: get a real life, not only behind the books! Real life is a different matter.

  • @PLATOON72

    you're just very lucky, not intelligent..there's all kinda of shit u can catch from anal..just because u didn't only means one thing..you're lucky.

  • I like to be fisted. Now THAT is heaven for me:D

  • I would love to have anal sex with a Greek or Norwegian girl :)

  • Why on Earth those two nationalities? Just asking:)

  • Great video

  • This is a movie about sex by a person who presumes we only get our information about sex from movies. WTF?

  • No no no joy, THANK YOU!

  • tHAT CRAP HURTS LIKE HELL! THE ONLY WAY IT FEELS EXCELLENT IS IF YOU RUB YOUR CLIT WHILE YALL ARE IN A SPOON POSITION, OH MAN THAT FEELS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OO GOOD, ITS LIKE IT FEELS LIKE HEAVEN. CUZ YOUR STIMULATING YOUR VAGINA AS WELL THE ONLY REASON ANAL HURTS SO BAD IS CUZ THE MAIN FOCUS IS ON THE ANUS AND NOT THE VAGINA. BUT IF YOU PLEAS BOTH ITS MIND BLOWING -QUICK TIP LOL

  • I have found women either love anal, or absolutely hate it. No middle ground. And the women I have had anal sex with have all been older women. 35+ (I'm 30).

  • haha thats funbny. but can u give me some adive? well my boyfriend and i are thinking about sex for the first time and im scared. does it hurt read bad the first time?

  • lol.....

  • ANAL SEX and ANALINGUS owns.

  • It can be enjoyable if done the right way but not all women can have an anal orgasm.

  • Gr8 info. after being married for years. Doing the same shit day in and day out gets old. Occasional anal heats things up. My spouse loves it. I love it too but the prep is sort of a pain in the butt but worth it. I dont agree on no numb anal ease. I think it helps get started but condom is necessary. Just nasty without in less you like poop on you unit. If you flush it clean, she is right..the fluid is still germy. God is there fluid! If you get use to anal it is so intense & G-spot gush

  • lmao @ when she says dont use a toy without a flared base so it doesnt get lost in ur ass.......hahahahahahaahahahah­ah ohh my Gosh....

  • HURRAY FOR BUTT LOVE!!!

    \m/

  • I used to think I'd always love anal sexing my girl. But once we did it a few times, it lost its luster for me. It was no longer so interesting. I realize it was a fantasy.

  • @JesusManson323 Well not everyone will have the same pleasure. Some will not like it at all. I have a huge heart for it and I always make sure that the woman I do it with enjoys it. I always ask them if they are okay, if they need me to slow down or speed up, etc. Doggy on the bed and on hands and knees for the woman and the man on his knees I find to be the best position.

  • The 60s-the love generation/the 70s-the Me generation/80s-the Pepsi generation.ect...but now--The Diaper Generation--done in by gaping and torn anus',parasitic worms and a love of all things brown.When pussy and blowjobs weren't enough.Muddy and dangerous waters...

  • I lol'd.

  • Lucky blueshark2010...

  • I hate anal sex

  • I always knew when my ex was drunk, because she would ask me to do her in the ass.

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  • no matter how much the porn industry popularizes anal sex it has never appealed to my wife and me. I would agree though, that I found oral disgusting in the begining but as i watched it often I started liking it. the same never happened with anal.

  • parasites in the ass? Isnt that a politician?

  • a politician is a pain in the ass

  • Holy crap, she actually makes sex sound boring.

  • thank you

  • your right greyhall the more stupid and peabrain a girl is the more i want to tear there ass hole out and disrespect them. the girls i respect i wouldnt even want to treat them that way..

  • yea me too. W/ the girls i respect, im even reluctant to let them blow me; unless they insist me to let them blow me.

  • milf

  • @robertom2002 I love MILFS

  • All women can have an assgasm, right????? :-)

  • i used to blast my ex's asshole. she always said she didn't like it, which made it 20 times better!

  • lol, you're an asshole! my bf and I have started trying recently... and it even hurts with a finger. we're gonna carry on trying though.

    do you really like it better when you know it's hurting her??

  • Another thing, it was just in this particular instance, i think it was a mix between the girl(church girl type), my desires and my age at the time. It's not like I prefer to hurt women in bed rather than make it feel good. But I mean, that side of me does exist you know?

  • lol, no... I get what you're saying... kinda.

    I like getting a bit of pain in sex too. makes it feel better... like I got it done right to me that way. but I guess I'm just scared cause I've never done THIS before.

    that's funny that you did it in the butt with a church-girl lol... ! guess it's always the quiet ones, haha

  • Unfortunately a lot of men do like the idea it's hurting the girl. There is all kinds of anal porn on the net that feature that kind of stuff. Deep down, men hate women and don't respect them. I don't agree with it, but there it is.

  • that's a pretty extreme generalisation, don't you think?

  • Unfortunately not. Even look at hip hop music. The women are all sluts, ho's, bitches, temptresses, or schoolgirls. It sends a bad message. That's just a reflection of where men's brains are. If you ever watch porn the woman is always referred to as "slut" or a "bitch."

  • She said "a lot of men" and not "all of men" saying all would be a generalization. And Greyhall1 is right, pleasure from giving anal sex is derived from sadism. If one finds pleasure from penetration it is derived from receiving pain, the rush of doing something taboo, the need to hurt oneself.

    Most "mature" gay guys I know don't have anal sex. Heterosexual guys who give anal sex are always juvenile apes who act like little bitch's if the situation arouses where she is to return the favor.

  • "Deep down, men hate women and don't respect them." however, is a generalisation indeed.

  • Bull shit, NicosNicosNicosNicos. My girlfriend and I always enjoy anal because we learned how to do it where there is no pain except for the beginning stage of penetration. There is nothing wrong with people who like anal nor people who dislike anal. My girlfriend asked me to move at a tad faster than steady pace one time and it was not comfortable for her so we keep the same steady pace and we both enjoy it very much. Why do we enjoy it so much? Because we TRUST each other.

  • I dated a girl that didn't do anal but she loved doing it doggiestyle while I fingered her ass. She went berzerk every time.

  • BTW Guys if U want a girl to do anal, do it laying down on top of her. Doggie style (well for me anyway) fuckin hurts!!!!

  • she is so hot!

  • ive had anal sex, when it goes in it feels nice, but when he pulls back or out, it fells like you are doing a poo

  • @jippop444 So its awesome throughout?

  • @jippop444 No shit!

  • @jippop444i know what you mean about the feeling of it comming out !!!! it's all about breathing!!!! and relaxing!!!

  • @jippop444 Ive had anal sex for years.. That only after the 1st 5 to 10 times..

  • in out in out poop out. Why anal sex if ur girl tight LoL

  • Different experience? She'd have an even tighter ass.

  • You must be freaky in bed dr. joy. How the hell did watching Boxxybabee lead to this!?

  • Brilliant video, I am a male who has never given anal to a girl, but am very curious about it. I think I'll check out some of her other videos.

  • YAY FOR BUTTSEX!

  • Your anus isn't a genital, your penis/vagina is.

  • Don't forget your mouth isn't genital...so give up oral sex too!

  • overall, sounds like good advice to me.

  • wtf @ heteosexuals engaging in anal. Men already have the pussy. wtf do they need with anal. A woman's butt is too small and not designed for anal. Anal sex, if done, is better performed on a guy. A guy has a bigger butt and butthole and can accept a cock back there better than a girl. That's why it's something special for homosexuals. It's good for the receiver male to be larger than the giving male by the way. But for man to do this to a women unless she's black is outrageous

  • ...unless she's black...? What's up with that..?

  • Well, I'm African American male so I can say that. I probably should have added that when I wrote the statement but it was just a joke since there's a stereotype about black women having big butts. Having butts like us guys. Huge-ass butts! LoL!

  • she's sexy in an older woman, milf kind of way. i'd love to practice some of what she preaches with her. i hope that's not too forward, but i guess in this video it'd be hard to come off as innapropriate

  • she is such a sex freak. she'd probably give the best head..

  • YOU AR HOT

  • The advice about lube and gentleness and bacteria is standard fare for anal sex and I agree on those points. However your knowledge of adult movie making is somewhat lacking. Yes it is fantasy and yes they use sexual atheletes (pros) as you say but the penetration scenes are hardly faked, somewhat staged perhaps but not fake. In this age it would be spotted rather quickly and CGI is acceptable for Sci-Fi, not porn. Perhaps you should consult a videographer before making comments on filming.

  • very informative

  • I like very very muchh anal fuckk ohhh its  soo deliciouss u can feel the heat and tightness of flesh movingg.. ohhh cant explain the pleasure soo muchh..ahh

  • mmm anal sex, i prefer it 10x more then pussy.

  • Thank you for this exceptionally accurate, and informative video!

  • she turns me on just thinking about this LOL

  • Sweetheart, I like what your doing here, but there are a few problems. You're taking a very erotic (and potentially exciting) subject and putting us to sleep. Try to put a little feeling into the words- don't read in a flat monotone, but look into the camera and relate us- the viewer--as if telling a good friend- instead of a child- keep the material interesting, and your teaching will be more effective. Thanks!

  • lol.. it would be funny if you was fucking a girl in the ass and she farted while you was doing it LOL

  • disgusting!!! u may be fooled by porn that it looks glamarous and stuff, but this act is really degrading, not to mention smelly and dangerous. BTW, an ass is an ass and can never be made sterile. ever heard of anal fissures, incontinence, anal cancer, hpv, aids...

  • lol ive done anal sex and i love it!

  • ofcourse you did! u were the inserter, right!?!?

  • well duh.. im not gay.. lmao.. i love anal sex =D

  • how hepatitis B will be transmitted from the one owns rectum unless he is previously infected!!!

    Anal-to-mouth sex is definitely very risky, but hepatitis B neither C is not a part of that risk.

  • ur mouth shouldn't even be going anywhere near someone's rectum

  • Very informative vid - well done

  • That post I just made refers to something another person who posted said all the way back on page one of this thread.

  • GOOD VIDEO VERY INFORMATIVE

    IMPORTANT TO DEBUNK THE PORN STYLE MYTHS

    Especially in this era of digital snapshot interweb multimedia education...

    Too many people have got the wrong idea!

    Not enough info on the different pleasurable techniques & positions for hitting the right spot!..

    I suppose that's all the fun!..

  • Thank U thank U thank U thank U

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  • The info's good and detailed, but I still say you've got to be nuts if you're a woman and you want anal done on you.

  • nuts? honesty, my friend, is all what's needed.

  • I do appreciate the honesty part of it, and if that's what you're into, then it's great to be informed. It's just when I think about it, personally, the whole idea of anal makes me feel queasy. :-(

  • It's like peanut butter & jelly. (No pun intended) It sounds a lot worse than it actually is. Some girls really enjoy the new sensation.. -A lot!

    Anyway, Just like anything you've heard about & understand in theory. You'll never really know till' you give it a go!

    Just make sure you do it properly.

    Maybe try foreplay, masturbation first etc..

    With someone clean & experienced(Or at least educated -NOT PORN)...

    Enjoy some Taboo Bliss..

    (As one girlfriend calls it?)...

    :)

  • I do appreciate that, thanks, but it might only be possible if I had a whole lot of rum first. XD

  • Hmmm...

    Funny you mention that,

    I just happen to have a large supply of Rum.

    Black & White...

    I also know how to mix it up properly.

    :)

  • I think it's funny that I got so many thumbs down from this post, when not even 10 posts later, I basically said the same thing and got almost a many thumbs up! XD

  • Jadicegirl, if you think a woman is nuts for this, then why are you looking for anal sex vids. on youtube?

  • I wasn't. I just couldn't figure out why the hell this video was linked to a Resident Evil video, and YouTube has a feature where some videos linked start to play automatically after the last one stops! XD

  • I must admit, she talks about this stuff as if she's talking about her groceries she did at wall-mart...

  • kinda hot when she goes into detail, yet kinda puts out the fire when she makes such a science out of it!!!

  • good education thanks a lot

    i would like you to tell me if do women enjoy anal ,sometime i do do anal with my girl but she always keep refusing to it saying it is painful. please tell me

  • orangestoneface, if she has a nice ass....and then you dont really see her face.

  • some lover you must be. ATTENTION is probably just as if not more important to a woman than you pounding away at her from behind like a crazed animal.

  • the ass has not only the smell of shit, but also a strong smell from smell glands, with a sexual message perhaps, a clean ass has very little shit smell , I guess.

  • oops I forget, thanks for the info!

  • dear lady whit all the respect in the world... you are so MILF.

  • Well lube is fine, but I have found that it isnt always necessary and doesnt hurt the girl. It depends if she is knew to it though.

    A decent vid, but it states things everyone should know either by logic, sex ed from school, or from the media already.

  • doctor you are hot are  u single

  • i love anal sex and i lick taste and smell ass girl

  • Ure awesome!

  • Cause there's a woman attached to it & not a man, just like oral.

  • she is stimulating me with her voice... she is quite sexy.

  • Some of them porn stars make a living doing hot women in anal vids.

    I dont know how they get by, but some of them do like 100's of vids, getting woman after woman in their butts.

    Blondes, brunettes, redheads, skinny, shapely, fat, whites, blacks, asians, latinos; all types of women be getting it in their anus in the vids. Guess its a big thing for them.

  • We all have something to contribute to this video, but in future those with brains the size of a pea should refrain from contributing...